192. Debunking Dave Ramsey’s Misconceptions About Infinite Banking and Whole Life Insurance
7 Dec 2025 · 55 min
Richard Canfield and Jayson Lowe push back on Dave Ramsey's criticism of infinite banking and whole life insurance, explaining how cash value, dividends, and paid-up additions actually work, and why banks use these policies for borrowing and liquidity.
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Okay, we're going to do a reaction video. I know our audience has been eagerly anticipating this reaction video. So Dave Ramsey has been, you know, contacted by people periodically who inquire or have some comment about the process of becoming your own banker, the infinite banking concept. But the conversation always shifts to or is always focused on the product, not the process, which is really interesting. But this most recent video, Rich and I want to do a reaction. We, we've done nothing to prepare for this reaction. So this is coming rate from our subject matter expertise and awareness of this process and our subject matter expertise and awareness of the, the tool, the product that's used to implement the process. And so, Rich, I'm going to share my screen. Just hop in initially. Let me know when you want me to pause and, and we can just have a little bit of fun with this. The video itself is just under nine minutes and we'll, we'll share some really.
Really good, valuable dialogue to help the viewer understand what's really going on.
Okay, I'll raise my hand when you want to pause and just, you know, for anyone who's listening, like on the audio and not watching the video, this is definitely one you're probably going to want to come back and watch the video, especially because you can see the ridiculously smug look on.
The radio show program host's face, which always kind of, I always find particularly interesting. So here we go. Let's do it.
Quite pissed off about it. So I do not agree with that point that you made in that video. I have set up a policy for my son when he was 1 years old. He's 5 now.
And so.
I'm going to stop it right there. So the caller said, I set up a policy for my son when he was a year old. He's now five years old. And Dave Ramsey says I'm sorry in his.
Charismatic manner. What a ridiculous thing to say to someone who has done something for their child that their child could not do for themselves. Dave should be ashamed of himself for saying that. I had a client, the Olsen family, their son, teenager, who had been life insured for several years, pass away suddenly and unexpectedly due to a horrible accident. And that family thanked me because they were able to celebrate their son's life. They were able to take care of what had been a few difficult years. And to hear Dave Ramsey say what he just said is absolutely deplorable.
I agree. And I want to add to that, Jay, before you hit play, you know, so, so this caller called in and he's, he, he's calling because of a pre. Of previous content that Dave has done, saying, stating, making bold statements and claims that the infinite banking concept is a scam. And so the caller starts off saying, I disagree with you on that, Dave. I've got a policy.
I'm really pissed off.
Yeah, exactly. He's upset and he's calling in to register his level of being upset. And additionally to your comment about, you know, insuring your child. Both of us having our children insured. You've got your children insured multiple times. I have my children multiple times. One of the number one things that.
Really, really bugs me and gets me is when we make an application for insurance on a child and we're not able to get that child covered. It's one of the number one things that I still struggle with in doing this business and I get emotionally charged about it because, oh my God, if that was my kid, I would be so upset. And this does happen. You know, it's happened to me probably three or four times this year where we've submitted an application on a young child between the ages of like one and, you know, let's say seven, and they're unable to get covered due to certain reasons. We might be able to reapply maybe at 18 or 16 or something, but, man, oh man, it's just like a, it's like a knife into the heart when that happens. So to hear him saying, I'm sorry that you got your kid covered, man, I would, I just want to jump through the freaking screen and slap this guy when I hear stuff like that.
That's the effect that he wants to have. That's how he engages his tribe and he does that by belittling and demeaning people. And.
He, he, he's absolutely, acutely aware of the, the effect that it has and it's, it's engineered. Okay, let's continue.
I said I'm sorry.
Yeah, so am I sometimes.
So, so I set that policy up when we was one years old. It's a $500,000, face value. We pay $5,373 a year for 13 years and it's paid up at that point. There's a few points I wanted to discuss that I didn't agree with you wanted to kind of take one thing at a time.
That's fine.
Okay. One of the main things was that, that you claim that the cash value and you only get the face value paid out.
That is.
Well, that is absolutely so remarkably stupid to say that's true.
When that when you die, the cash value dies with you. What somebody may not have informed Dave of is that the cash value, two components, one it isn't money and secondly is the net present value of the future payment of a death benefit. And so for Dave to say that.
Is just another sharp example of how well he's compensated to not understand the anatomy of a participating whole life insurance contract.
Well, additionally, I mean, this gentleman's, you know, mentioning that he's, you know, putting whatever $5,700 a year into his, his kids policy. It has a certain starting face amount. And so I appreciate this gentleman's calling, but there's also probably some, you know, there's, there's definitively a lack of maybe clarity and awareness, understanding of the process of becoming random. So he's talking about the tool and the anatomy of the tool that he has set up, but, but not necessarily a lot more about that. The fact that he's going to stop paying for it in 13 years. Well, the reality is if he really truly understood the concept, he probably wouldn't want to stop paying it. He'd probably want to keep paying it or pay more or get a new one. So there's a disconnect a little bit between the caller and the conversation happening. So, you know, to, you know, glad that the caller is calling in. But there's also probably some work that the caller needs to do. And if they don't have Nelson's book, they probably need to open it up and look at it again. Would be a comment, I'd say as well.
Very good point.
Well, it's not true if you reinvest the dividend back into the policy.
Dividend reinvestment is not cash value.
Dividend reinvestment is not cash value. Dave. Dividend reinvestment back into a policy purchases paid up additions which are contractually guaranteed to accumulate their equivalent in cash value.
So he, he's not wrong saying that dividend is not cash value. But dividend creates the thing which causes cash value to grow, which is the impetus in the Whole structure of our book, Cash fall is a leader. The dividends purchase death benefit. Death benefit causes the result of cash value to accumulate and that happens on an ever increasing basis. And I don't like also that it says dividend reinvestment. It's not, you're not reinvesting the dividend. You're telling the dividend to buy to be a premium. The dividend is now a premium in this scenario and that premium is purchasing more death benefit. And then the result of that is death benefit creates more, more cash value. And it causes con. Continuity, absolute continuity on the growth of cash value. And it also causes the advantage of increased future dividends which are not guaranteed and may fluctuate, but the potential for you to achieve them is a direct result of the behavior of telling the dividend to go do that job.
It's for absolute clarity for viewers and listeners. It's not a dividend reinvestment, it's a dividend election. You're electing to do something with the dividend and reinvestment is not one of those things. And second, when you think about everything that we just shared around the impact of electing to have the dividend by paid up additions which create.
Cash value accumulation.
If the policy owner is informed, the policy owner is likely going to choose that election. But there are other things that you could do. You could elect to have the dividend paid to you in cash. You could use it to offset some or all of your premium. You can leave it on deposit to earn interest, so in that case it becomes cash. But again we, we gotta make the distinction. Cash value is not money. And again that's something that just. Dave simply is not indicating that he has any understanding of investment is because.
You have a mutual company and the policyholders are the owners of the company and so the profits from the company come to the policyholder and they use that to buy paid up additions.
I give him credit. He said some good things there.
He did, he did, yeah. He, he did also indicate that. So the fact that dividends are being paid on the policy because you're the mutual company. So that's not exclusive to a mutual company. Any company that offers participating dividend paying whole life insurance, whether they're stock owned or mutually owned or what have you, or, or they're a cooperative of some kind or a fraternal organization which also offer similar products. The, the, the same methodology applies that the dividend can be used to buy paid up additions. So he's accurate that it's buying paid up additions once we turn the playback button back on here. I'm pretty confident he's going to say some other gobbledygook that indicates that that doesn't help you to some benefit. But let's find out.
Okay, that is not the same as keeping your cash value. That's buying extra insurance with your overpayment.
Okay.
This is going to take a while, obviously. So Davis is saying correctly that you know, when you, when you're receiving a dividend from the life insurance company, he's saying that the dividend is an overpayment and he's correct to a degree. So a portion of that dividend represents what's called a return of capital and a portion of that dividend represents your share of the divisible surplus generated. Something that he just mentioned prior to that. And what he's saying is, it's just.
He'S saying it based on his own agenda. He's not really painting an accurate picture.
Yeah. And he, he mentions that it's not. Again that it's not. I think he said that's not cash value. And so if that is, if that is what he said, I don't recall, but that would be accurate. It's not cash value. But in the spirit of how he indicated that it was to indicate that it's like you're not going to be able to get or utilize that dividends value in some way. So the, the methodology by which he described it is to a degree misleading because the intent of which it's stated is to allude that this is a bad idea for you to do. So that might be his opinion and his perspective and he's entitled to his opinion. So that's fine. You're welcome to your opinion. But there, there's to a degree my, my opinion is that there's something nefarious to, to a large extent about how he's stating this in the discussion.
Well, and the other thing that would be important. And the caller could have asked him. So Dave, if I understand you correctly, the dividend being an overpayment. So once the policy is paid up after the, I believe it was 13 years, he said he was going to pay premium for.
He said 13 years.
So it will there be any year in which the div. The life insurance company declares a dividend that I won't receive one for my son's policy after year 13 for the rest of his lifetime because I'm not paying anymore. The premium is being paid. The policy is in this case, if it's fully paid up there's no additional premium required. And so every year after year 13 that the life insurance company declares a dividend, that policy owner is going to receive the dividend. And so if, if Dave's comment is true, which it's not, then logically it would be safe to assume that after the 13th year, because you're not overpaying anything, Dave, that you're never going to receive another dividend. And that's just simply not true.
How can the dividend be an overpayment of premium that wasn't paid in year 14? If we understand that it doesn't make sense.
All right. But it still works out to be having a cash value much greater than the $59,849 we put into the actual.
Cash value, not the paid up additions. The actual cash value dies with you.
We already addressed that, Dave. You're wrong.
No, because. Okay, but your, your death benefit is larger than your cash value. It. Remember your. Me, I looked at it because you.
Bought insurance, you don't want to pay up addition as a paid up addition is buying additional insurance.
Getting more at death not because you got your cash value, but because you used your policy dividends to buy additional insurance. Right, but that's different than getting your cash value. If you, if you took those policy dividends and went and bought a term insurance policy for a hundred thousand, well, you get a hundred thousand, but that's not your cash value.
Well, I have a term policy, but.
You missed my point. Okay, look, you're talking about, you use the policy dividends, you use the money they send to you because you're in a mutual company to buy additional insurance.
Yeah.
If you buy a term policy on the side for $100,000 instead with that same money, you would get $100,000 more than your face value. But that's.
You go ahead first, like.
Oh my God. I just want to shake my head. So, so his statement about the dividends buying paid up insurance. He's, he's, he's correct that that is what it's doing and that is increasing the death benefit. That is also correct. What he's saying again is that you don't get the cash value, so upon death, you get the death benefit. What he's not saying and what's being left out is that the cash value in a whole life policy is today's present value representation of that same death benefit. So he's, he's, he's, he's separating these two components and they're not separate, they're actually the same thing. The cash value and the death benefit are the same. They're just being represented at two different points. Time cash value is today's amount of death benefit, essentially that is available in a cash component. Because the insurance company knows they're on the hook to pay that death benefit. They must, they're, they have to grow a cash pile so that they can pay the eventual claim when it's, when it's most expected. They have to be able to pay it at all times. But the, the mortality expectation is out into the future. And so when you are accessing, we don't get into policy loans here, but when you're accessing a policy loan, you are essentially using your cash value as collateral, which is the today's value representation of that future death benefit. So it's, it's a way of looking at it. And this wouldn't be completely accurate, but just a way of thinking about this would be it's like you're taking an advance on your future death. It's like you're taking a credit card advance on a future death benefit that will be payable. So again, and in this scenario, he's suggesting that this guy, well, what if you just took that dividend and wanted about a hundred thousand dollars of term insur.
What is he getting at? Why would you. A hundred thousand dollars of term insurance? For what reason? So that you, you have a permanent policy and the dividends buying you permanent insurance, that's always going to be there. Why would you take some of that money and go buy something temporary?
What, what on earth would be the.
Point of doing that? You have permanence, you know you're going to die. Why would you go take the same amount of money that's going to go buy future death benefit anyway that's always going to be there and create a guaranteed increasing potential of more dividends. Not the guarantee of dividends, but the increased potential thereof. Well, to go, to go and buy something that you know is temporary, especially, especially on a child. First of all, you can't get that on child. It's not to my knowledge. Yeah, it's like the whole thing is, it's like.
I almost at a loss for words.
Let's be sure though that we're also being clear, right? The only dividend that is not guaranteed is the one that hasn't been declared yet. And so when people use that language, you know, oh, well, dividends are not guaranteed. Well, let's be clear. The only dividend that isn't guaranteed is the one that hasn't yet been declared. And what Dave doesn't explain because he may not be aware, but I presume he's aware that when the dividend buys paid up additions, each paid up addition receives its own dividend every single year that dividends are declared. That's why the dividend yield continues to rise. The dividend yield in dollars. I'm not talking about the dividend scale interest rate. Every paid up addition to that policy receives its own dividend. The insurance company represents the summary of the dividend, the total sum as the dividend that's declared and paid based on the original face value of the policy and all the dividend yields for all the paid up additions every single year that dividends are declared. That creates this amazing compounding factor in the policy. And Dave says he's sorry that this gentleman put this policy in place for his child.
I'm sorry that that policy is five years old and your kid is going to be blessed beyond good fortune to have it with him for the rest of his life. To have basically an ever growing compound machine where you locked in the premium dollar at age one. And it sounds like he's not even allowed to pay a 14th premium, which, which is a little odd. But I mean, my word, you can't get any more of. He can't go, his son can't go back in time and get it for himself at age 1, like when he's 18, he can't go back and get one. It's too late at that point.
You could never create a policy that's more efficient because you can't go back in time. And the other thing that Dave fails to say in this scenario with this guy is that you can never pay in what the insurance company is going to pay out.
You can never pay in what the insurance company is going to pay out. And so again, a lot of important facts that are being left out here.
Funny that you said that that last statement, Jay. It is true that in the whole life insurance contract that that is the case. However, in a term policy, if you kept it like what Dave is promoting, you could pay in more than that term policy will pay out.
That's right.
If you kept and maintained it. And at least in Canada there's very few term policies that go past age 85 unless it's a term to 100 contract which is a little bit different. But if, but if you have like a term 10 or a term 20 in it and every 10 or 20 years it renews, most of them end at age 85. So if you lived 86 and you kept that thing, the cost that you pay will exceed the total payout of the death benefit that you would receive. But if you live to 86, it's, it's over and all the money is gone. You don't get to keep anything because you rented the benefit and you outlived the benefits potential.
Yep, very good point.
Not your cash value. That's additional insurance.
They're different, but. Right, they are different in terms you can't, you don't have cash value to borrow.
I'm aware of that. Your point was that you don't lose the cash value. And my point is 100% of the time, by definition, you lose the cash value.
Dave, you're wrong.
And it bears repeating. Cash value is not money. It is the net present value of the future payment of a death benefit. Period.
Yeah, if you've taken policy loans against the policy and you've used them for a bunch of things in your life and you pass away, the death benefit extinguishes those loans. Ergo, let's you, you know, one way of looking at it would be that you utilize the cash values, resources, the, the, the, the collateralization of that cash value throughout your life's needs. And you still, you still. Because you, you borrowed against it to do whatever you wanted to do. The death benefit comes out, it pays out the policy loan, there's still tax free money left over. In essence, you didn't lose anything because you used everything.
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Okay. But. Okay, so as I said, kids for that. If he lives to be 80. I'm looking at the, the readout here. If you look to be 80, okay, you'll be worth about $2 million. But the payout for the death benefit will be 2.6 million. So okay, technically.
You'Re taking your bent, your policy dividends and go buy term insurance with it. And you would have more than you're talking about because you get a better buy on the insurance than you're getting with this rip off whole life crap.
I don't know if there's any sharper example of demonstrating to the world how stupid you are. But this is right up there in the top 10.
I would love to get some comments on this video, but like just, just think about that. Just go take the dividends you're getting from the whole life policy and go buy chunks of term insurance every year with it and you're going to end up with more insurance. Okay, but at age 80, and then what? You're still buying term insurance and then who's granting it to you? How are you getting it? What's the chance that it's still going to be there when you actually die? If this, at the time this is recorded this year, like this is very recent that this came out. This guy's got a five year old kid. What's the probability based on mortality, age and the advances in medical technology that he's going to live past 80? I would say it's legitimately very, very high. Yeah, like this is so, it's so irrational and illogical what he's telling this guy to do. If this guy did what Dave is suggesting, my word, I would be so sad for that family or for have taken it. Taken in this 30 second soundbite of advice.
Yes, you would get a. But you wouldn't be able to use it throughout your life as your own bank.
Okay, but here's the thing. That's a side issue. That's a side issue. But your first issue was, you know, he's going to have all this money at retirement. Well, let's just do a little present value calculation on what you put in for a baby. $5,000 a year for 13 years. Do you know what that would be in a mutual fund?
I knew that one was coming.
Here we go.
At age 88, it would be $25 million. Dude.
It'll just magically be $25 million. Jay, don't worry, Just hang in there. The market will always give you that 10, 11% that Dave's so fond of talking about.
Yeah.
You know what Dave doesn't talk about is the fact that the market doesn't care about this fellow's son's retirement.
The market, it also doesn't care if this fellow's son is alive or dead.
The market doesn't care. The market's not going to be aligned with your dates around retirement. And so if you put money into a mutual fund, you're assuming some degree of risk, you're exposing that capital, you have no control all of the things that we describe and talk about. But again, there's been no discussion about what Dave says is a scam. There's been no discussion about the process of becoming your own banker. The infinite banking concept. This is all centered around where money is residing and financial products. So Dave, again, understandably so based on the fact that he's very well compensated to not understand this stuff, is dancing around the topic saying, oh, well, that's a side issue. That's entirely a side issue. You were talking about your son's retirement. I can't recall the guy mentioning his son's retirement. So he's got to find a way to get his foot in the door to say, what you need to be doing is putting your money into mutual funds. Again, something Dave is very well compensated to endorse and to promote.
Instead of putting it into this ripoff thing and making 4% on your money. And when he dies, he loses his cash value. If you put this in a good mutual Fund, you'd have 100x 10x the amount of money, and that's your infinite freaking bank.
Here's the deal. Nelson said it best in his book. He said, this process is not about addressing the yield of an investment. It's all about how you finance the things in your life which can certainly include investments. So if this gentleman's son woke up one morning and said, I really want to invest in the stock market.
Could the policy owner access proceeds from the life insurance, the very company that Dave despises, and use the life insurance company's money to go invest in a mutual fund? Is that something that could be, could.
Be done, absolutely be done, and the family would be protected. Heaven forbid something should happen.
Precisely. Precisely.
And here's the other thing. So let. Let's assume that he didn't do that and he went and took Dave's advice and he put all this money into the mutual fund or whatever, whatever the funds are, the bag funds.
What happens when his son needs to go to college? Or what happens when his son needs to go buy his first car? You know, what happens when his son gets married? What happens when his son needs a down payment for his first home? What happens when his son, you know, gets into a car accident and they need some medical assistance?
Yeah.
Where are they, what are they going to do? Are they going to sell? Are they going to sell some of the mutual funds in a big stack? And if that happens at various times in life.
What is the result of that to the $25 million number at the magical 9, 10, 11% annual compounded rate that the market is just going to magically provide for his son every single year to age 80? Well, it's going to kill it instantly. His first car at 16, let's say it's $10,000. Cool. Let's take that out of the fund and then let's see how that impacts the compound effect. Okay, he's going to go to college and let's say he gets some loans and government grants or whatever and this is in the states, so college is really expensive. But let's just say it's 50 grand and he, he takes that out at age 24 to go pay off his student loans or whatever. Cool. How does that impact the compound potential every time that you do that? Because he's not going to be able to borrow against those funds. No bank is going to go give him borrowed money. Hey, maybe you can get a margin account or whatever, but they're not going to lend against something that's risky and volatile. A crap ton of money and he's going to have to beg, borrow and steal to even get like. It just doesn't make sense. He won't control the repayment terms. He will have no control. Man, oh man, it's just very.
You know what, let's take, let's put all of the risk on you. Let's take all of the risk. Let's place the risk on your family's future generations that you might, you know, if you live a really long time that there won't be any insurance tax free to pay out and everything that you have is in taxable accounts. And let's take on all that market risk for an entire 80 year period of time. And let's just, let's just assume that we have a stress free life by doing that. I don't think that's the way it works. I don't know anyone that we've met that feels that way.
There's nothing wrong with investing in the market. If that's what you want to do, go and do that. But again, what's being completely ignored here is who's controlling the function of banking as it relates to this gentleman and his son's needs. The fact is someone has to control it. And so he hasn't even remotely touched the scope of the process of becoming your own banker. The infinite banking concept to any degree whatsoever. It's all comparison of product. What if he did this instead of that? In other words, what if he purchased this financial product versus the one that he categorizes as being crap like Dave, you missed the whole topic of the conversation.
How would that, how would that. $60,000 a month in repayments from the family system that you have coming back. How would that ever get accomplished if you, if you put all your money in a mutual fund?
It just wouldn't have.
We're only putting in 70,000 and he's.
Going to be stock. Present value formula works in finance.
Yeah.
Let me just. Okay, take the same. I mean, I, I ended with intellectual central. Actually deal with this for a second. Okay. Take the same amount of money when you get off the air and put it in a financial calculator at 11%. Pretend it was invested in mutual funds and see what it is. When he's 88 years old, it'll be more.
But. And he'll have that too. But this to me is a way to. No, he doesn't have to be able to borrow again.
That's what you, that's called opportunity cost on your money. You put it into something that's going to make him at 88, have two and a half million and he should have had 25 million because you screwed up and put it in the wrong thing.
Well, you, you screwed up, dude. Hey, thanks for calling to my show and being a listener and appreciate having this great conversation with you and. Yeah, but you screwed up, dude. And man, just, just, just stating numbers. 11%, like, it's like that's just gonna happen for everybody like clockwork.
I'm still waiting, I'm still waiting to meet the person.
That'S getting that 11%.
Yep.
Yeah, I, I know people getting it on real estate deals and getting it in certain deals or certain things. Absolutely. But I don't know anyone who's just put money into ABC fund anything or stock market anything and received like clockwork, that type of return. I don't know Anyone who's gotten 8% consecutively for a long period of time. I'm sure they're out there. I believe they exist. I'm quite certain there's many people who have accomplished that. Yep. I don't see it very often. And all I see is people, you know, moaning and complaining about how much their, their markets stuff's gone down. And they look at the, they look at the values and say, you know, man, I did a quick calculation. It looks like all that's in here is what I've put in.
While he, Dave is quite confident and, and quite.
Adamant that over the course of 88 years, he keeps going to age 88 for, for some reason, which is quite interesting, over the period of 88 years that this guy can get 11% each and every year without interruption inside of a Mutual fund. And when you're dealing with.
Just call it, you know, rates of return.
Let'S just, let's just say that that's what he's talking about. Would you agree?
Yep.
He's saying that it's a rate of return. I had a note here.
That I was speaking to on a different deal. And when you're, when you're dealing with that conversation that he's talking about 11% a year, that's your rate of return. It's, it's really intended to be compared within a very narrow strategy. Do you know what I'm saying? Like, you're, you're. You have to implicitly condition.
The risk profile of the strategy. So you can't just talk about rate of return without. Without implicitly conditioning the risk profile of that strategy.
Do you follow what I'm saying? The, the insurance policy is contractually guaranteed to grow cash value every single day.
And it cannot go backward. So we, we are implicitly conditioning the risk profile of that product. When you specifically condition or implicitly condition the risk profile of mutual funds, those mutual funds can and will absolutely go backward. It's not a matter of if. It's when you're not getting 11%, you're not getting a percent guarantee, period. When you are putting that money to work in that basket of mutual funds, there are no contractual guarantees there. So let's just be sure that we're being implicit in conditioning the risk profile. And that's something that. Dave, again, he's an intelligent guy and he knows this, but he'll never tell you.
He'S going to get real estate.
And put the money in real estate, but don't put it in this crap.
I have to respectfully disagree.
On what basis? He's getting more money if you put it somewhere else.
But he's able to borrow against it.
If you've got 25 million in mutual funds, you can borrow against it, but.
He'S gonna have to wait until he, you know, to get that amount of money.
Okay, so you're going to teach him that the way he becomes wealthy is borrowing against money that his father invested for him. That's how he builds wealth.
Yeah. Oh, my God.
Yeah.
And, and this is not an either or a conversation. This isn't as well as. And, and the process of becoming your own banker is all about how you finance the things that you'll absolutely need throughout your lifetime. His son is going to need cars, property, appliances.
You name it, insert whatever it is his son's going to need.
Probably going to Want to invest some money as well so that he, once he's knowledgeable enough and he chooses a path of where he wants to spend his time getting educated about certain investment vehicles and structures. When he's ready and an opportunity presents itself, he will have ready access to capital to go and do that.
Yeah.
Meanwhile, in the background, like clockwork policy will be churning along growing capital all day long. And the statement of, if you have $25 million worth of mutual funds, you can borrow against it. Like Dave, are you borrowing against your mutual funds right now?
How much is a bank going to give you on that? Maybe if you're absolute lucky, 50%. And what kind of terms are you going to get? And, and they're gonna, they can call it due and so, and then you're riding on a razor. So what happens if the market value drops 30, 40%, they're gonna call the loan due and you don't have any money to pay the amount that you got borrowed out. Because now you're in this, you're in this situation where you put yourself back against the wall. And if that's what you're banking your whole life on. I don't mean to use the word bank there, I mean, but I mean like if that's what your, your strategy is, man, oh man, talk about being on a razor thin platform. If that's what happened. Otherwise you have to withdraw and spend it and spend it down or whatever. Like, and then if you want to go, then you kick the bucket, you die. It's going to happen. Sorry, don't mean to be the bearer of bad news. Well, how much of that 25 million is taxable? Probably most or all of it. In which case, and in the States they have inheritance tax. Like how much money is just going to disappear and you're just going to make Uncle Sam rich? I, I just, I just can't fathom the understanding of this, this logic. It doesn't seem like it makes a lot of sense to me.
Oh, it gets worse.
Rich.
Ever, I mean banks use this product to. No bank not.
That's wrong. So there, there's a, if you Google bank owned life insurance, you know, banks.
They, they pay significant sums of premium in participating whole life insurance contracts. Now a bank, a commercial bank, cannot utilize the policy the way that you and I can. There's, there's guidelines around, you know, why they need to maintain bank owned life insurance as part of their tier one capital. And the scope, a restricted scope, you know, of utilization, but they do that primarily. One element is to bolster the bank's balance sheet. And the commercial banks will tell you that it's one of the best performing assets on their balance sheet. And so what Dave is saying here is just, you know, without diving into the bank owned life insurance rat hole, what Dave just said there is 1000% wrong.
You've been watching too much tick tock. Banks do not use whole life. Not ever. Banks nowhere. No thanks.
No they don't. They do not use whole life life insurance. Let me tell you what banks do. They put it in bonds. They're required to. They wouldn't be allowed by federal regulations to put it in whole life.
Again, he is so wrong. Like that is just, he's just.
You can look at the annual reports of a bank, it's listed there.
And look at their balance sheet.
Was it DBSR reports? You can get, there's, there's several Dalbar reports. You can go on and you can look at these, these, these companies and you can order their report to see how much they own of this stuff. Like it's not little, it's not little amounts. There's a lot.
Billions. It's billions.
So must be really bad for them banks to own it. Jay Gez, I've never, I've.
Again, I, I've never seen Dave, you know, visit a commercial bank and tell the executives how stupid they are for warehousing all this capital.
I bet you the bank puts all their money in those 11% mutual funds, eh?
Yeah, I'm sure they do. And not one dimensional.
If it's so good for the consumer, they must, they must put all their money in that product that they created for the consumer.
Unbelievable.
All right.
It's not a place to invest money because it's a horrible investment.
It is not an investment. It is a unilateral, binding contract. It never has been an investment and never will be an investment. The contract has two parties, the policy owner and the life insurance company. The life insurance company is the only party to that contract that's required to make and fulfill contractual guarantees. And so to even indicate that this is some form of investment, again, is just not a correct representation of what a participating dividend paying whole life insurance contract is. It's not an investment.
The rate of return sucks and when you die, you lose your cash value.
I know, but, but you also, you don't, you're making it sound like I'm losing money. On the whole, you are.
You'Re making it sound.
The person in the back, I don't know who that person is. Chimes in. You're leaving money on the table like oh God yeah. And then how about when somebody dies? How much money got left on the table then?
When not me but my son. When he died.
Yeah.
That he's only going to be able to get.
He's going to have $22 million less than he should have. If you had put this in a.
Good investment.
You had mentioned that the cash value dies and you only get the base value.
Correct.
That is true. Just to got the point of that with you for the last 10 minutes. Paid operations are the only way that cash value increases. Unless you're using a universal life program B where you pay extra to get the extra insurance which is another form of paid up additions.
He's absolutely wrong. He's just wrong.
No paid up additions in universal life at all. And, and he said the only way that cash value grows is if you have more paid up additions.
That's wrong.
That's not true. It's cash value has got to grow to eat the contractual benefit. The contractual arrangement with the life company which is the total face value at age 100 in Canada. 121 in states presently. And the original face value has got to grow to equal that. So it's always accumulating. If you have dividend paying participating whole life. There is whole life that is non participating. So that's not what we're talking about or referencing here. But in a dividend paying participating whole life insurance contract paid up additions is one of the things that causes cash value to accumulate and again enhances dividends in the future should they be granted by the life company which is pretty damn common. But the, the guaranteed cash value is growing also at the same time. And most of the contracts we have in Canada that's every day last time I checked. You know J my family system right now it's on 12 policies is 13th one is going to be added here shortly is growing. I think it's 158 bucks a day.
That's great.
Yeah.
I really truly believe that he knows the truth and that again he's. People need to understand he's remunerated very well to ensure that that never comes out of his mouth.
Coming out of my pocket though.
I put so many pounds coming out of your pocket.
It's coming out of the policies pocket.
I know the policy. You put the money in dude and then it paid you a dividend and you chose to buy more of this crap with a dividend and you're calling that I kept my cash value. No you didn't. You bought more insurance.
Well, I know that I put in 70,000 and at a certain age it's going to be bad paid when he's 15 years old. That's going to be paid up, Jim.
And you understand what paid up is, understand if you're alive that there's a probability of your death. And so 100% of the time that a life insurance program is paid up, it means that you prepaid it. That's all it means. Because as long as there's a probability of death, there's a cost. So the insurance company has always got a cost as long as you're alive. So there's no such thing as a paid up. That's a, that's an industry term that gets suckers like you.
I don't even, I don't even. I'm almost.
I like, I, I just again, the, the demonstration of, you know, how, how wrong he is.
The. And again you have to pay very close attention to what.
Now why would a life insurance company offer a paid up addition.
If there's no such. If there's no such thing as a paid up anything.
Why would the insurance company offer a paid up addition?
Do you have to. The insurance company's legal contract binding documents must be dead wrong. I'm sure their lawyers failed at every insurance carrier in North America when they wrote those contracts that says the paid up additions and what happens with them? That, that must be completely inaccurate.
Yeah.
And everyone who owns one of those contracts with the. What did we say earlier, like 50 some odd billion worth of participating account value just in Canada. Man oh man, they got to be suckers like Dave said.
He's talking out of both sides of his face.
He, he described what a paid up addition is to this fellow and then said out of one side of his mouth and then the other side of his mouth he says there's no such thing as a paid up policy.
And so he's again just so evidently wrong. That kind of makes you wonder what his agenda is. Let's hear what he has to say to end the.
That's what it is. No, paid up means prepaid. You paid all of the premiums of the 13 years for his whole freaking life in advance. That's why it's paid up. Hey man, I think you ought to keep it. It's perfect for you. But thanks for the call.
He's so pleasant with people when he ends his calls.
How do I do that? Oh, there we go. Okay. Yeah, it just went on to the next video. There But I think, I think you had a question for me. You said earlier you wanted to ask me something.
I, well, my question I have for you, Jay. I mean it's real simple. I, I just want to know and I think you should, you know, in your own voice just tell us what are your thoughts on Dave?
You want to know in my own voice what my thoughts are on Dave Ramsey?
I think everybody does.
Oh boy, here they are.
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But that's all I'm going to say about that.
Well, I'm glad you kept it PG for all our listeners, Jay, in your statements and you know, hopefully everyone listening in or watching can really, can really get clear and take away the importance of what you just stated in your own, in your own words, of course. And, and especially for those watching the video, I think they'll really, really connect with the, you know, the clarity of intention by which you stated all that.
That was, that was good. Thank you for asking that question as well. And to all of our viewers, you see the next video that's shown up, that means that we're encouraging you to continue your journey of learning and we would also encourage you to head on over to Nelson Nash's institute's YouTube channel. So the Nelson Nash Institute YouTube channel. And when you get there, hit the subscribe. There's a lot of great content. We have resurrected a lot of great content that we're helping the Institute curate for the channel and so that you can get an even deeper glimpse into the process from the, the gentleman who pioneered it and developed it directly, the late R. Nelson Nash, who we were blessed beyond measure to be mentored by for so many years and so make the rest of your week outstanding. Don't forget, if you haven't already, get your hands on the copy of the book titled Cash Follows the Leader. We'll have a link to that, we'll even send a copy, complimentary copy to Dave Ramsey at his headquarters and understand.
How life insurance works after.
Yeah, hopefully he learns something from it. But I, I would like to say, just in closing that again, you know, just understanding what Dave's style is and the fact that he loves to incite, you know, such emotionally charged, you know, responses from people, I really do believe that he knows what the truth is. And I also believe that he's really well paid to sort of give the impression that, you know, he, he doesn't really understand what this is. And I believe that he knows full well what it is. And it's a real shame, you know, someone who has such reach is sharing, you know, information that is just simply just not true. It's just wrong. And it's really unfortunate that, you know, while he knows better.
That he conducts himself that way, but you know, he earns a very good living, is a great business, we certainly wish him continued success and he does some good things. Got to give him credit, he does have some good programs and he really cares about people being a lot of.
People, you know, manage their debt effectively, get clear on their spending and their behavior, spending around their day to day budget. Sure. Those are things that we, we would agree with Dave on as far as the, the way about going to. Then we have several people who are former clients and graduates of the Financial Peace University and people who even used to teach that program and you know, later in life they've come to understand, you know, what the process of becoming your own banker is all about. And they can take the good habits that they learned through Dave's education, teaching, and then they can implement that now effectively in combination with what Nelson is teaching and really be able to put amplification almost to a degree on their, on their ability to be successful in the becoming your own banker process. So totally. That's fantastic. Absolutely. Yeah, this was a lot of fun. Jay, I think people should comment maybe on this video if they, if they want to see us do some more things like this. It'd be nice to know. And there's a brand new video popping up right there. Go ahead, check that out. That's curated right for you. You want to click on that video and start watching the next one. A lot of good content, content there. And again, man, appreciate you and thanks for sharing what you really felt about Mr. Ramsey today with everybody.
Well, and, and I'll share one more thing, you know, to, to Dave, if anyone, whether it's him or.
You know, someone on his team. I think it's really important to encourage, you know, productive conversations. And while everyone's entitled to their own opinions and their approaches, I think it's you and I share the same belief, Rich, that it's important to approach a conversation, especially one where there's disagreement, to do it with, with respect. And if you have a differing viewpoint, it's always best. And we had this discussion earlier on a prior episode today, that it's best to focus on the facts. And I understand, I think that, you know, Dave's got to have a different, you know, outlook on things.
It's different strokes for different folks. And I think that.
Dave just needs to. To hear that message and to maybe understand that he doesn't have to be so condescending, rude and disrespectful that he can have, I believe, even more reach if he had really productive, you know, conversations. And so, Dave.
That advice is on the house. No charge. Thanks, Rich. This was fun.
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