If You Are a Struggling Canadian, WATCH THIS! This Is How You Turn Your Life Around

Vern argues that commitment and focus are what separate people who achieve goals from those who don't. He recommends R. Nelson Nash's Becoming Your Own Banker and the infinite banking concept to build financial confidence, and says you may need to change your environment and relationships to succeed.
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It all comes down to being committed. When you're interested in things, you let roadblocks get in the way and stop you from achieving your objective. When you're committed to things, you move them out of the way and you go over them, around them, through them, and you get the job done.
Look, the reason why you're not achieving the objectives that you want to achieve is for no other reason other than you're distracted. You got too much going on up here. There's too many attention units being taken up by unfinished tasks and money distractions. Watch this video all the way to the end, and I'm going to show you how you can turn your life around by being the bank. What do I mean by that? Turn your life around by being the bank. You know, there's many, many things that are going on in your life. There's many things that you're trying to accomplish and things that you want to get done. And guess what? I'm not immune to it. You're a victim of procrastination, right? Oh, yeah. Tomorrow, One other day. Look, it's because we only have so much RAM up here. We only have so many attention units that we can give and things that we can, you know, things that we can get done. And what I mean by attention units is that you might be focused on objective number one, whatever that is, but then there's the light switch in the bathroom that needs to be fixed. And there's that one hole in the wall because you dropped your hockey skate into it or whatever. And there's the, you know, the shoveling that needs to be done because there was a big snowfall. And we know that we need to do the roof here in the spring when that comes up. And it's been three years and we haven't got that job done right. So there's is incomplete. But the one thing that I'm going to focus on primarily is the money distraction. Let's face it, people talk about money, you know, it doesn't buy happiness and all these kind of things. One of my mentors says to me, he says, look, being broke doesn't buy anything. Being poor doesn't buy anything. So there's nothing wrong with creating wealth and being sound financially. I think a lot of times people and, hey, look, I've done it in the past too. People will cop out and say, yeah, money doesn't buy happiness anyway because they're afraid to admit that they're not willing to do take the actions that they need to take to create wealth in their life. They're not willing to do what it requires to turn that thing around. And so when I say turn your life around by being the bank, what I mean is by implementing the process of becoming your own bank or the infinite banking concept, I have been able to achieve, myself, my teammates, many of my clients, we've been able to achieve a peaceful, stress free financial life. I'm no longer stressed about money. I'm no longer worried about, you know, making all these payments and dealing with the debit that comes out on the 15th and debit that comes up in the 21st and oh, I missed this one because I thought it was this day or whatever. I'm not worried about that because I'm the one who is the banker and the bank owner in my life. I'm controlling all of my loan repayment schedules. I'm the one collecting and accumulating the money. I have cash confidence now. I'm not here to brag or puff my chest out. I'm telling you from a guy who has had to scrape himself up from the bottom of the barrel and trying to figure out just how to keep the lights on at how am I going to feed my kids? How am I going to be responsible for all these things? And the problem was is that every single time I earned a dollar, somebody else was asking for two. Somebody else was controlling the flow of money in my life. Somebody else was the bank, right? Setting all the terms. Well, now that I've become the banker in my own life, I tell you, it's a peaceful, stress free way of life and I've been able to free up attention units, not thinking about and focusing on trying to solve the money equation all the time. How am I going to pay the bills? How am I going to get this done? How are we going to get that done? We got to do this, we got to for that. And you're always worried about it and you're always thinking about it and if you're not, it's in the back of your mind and it's taking up attention units. So solving the money equation is one of the biggest distractions, one of the biggest time consuming things that you're spending time and energy on when you could be spending time and energy on serving other people and doing things that you're really passionate about and making a difference in the world and getting those tasks completed that you've been too darn busy to get done and too distracted to get done. Because hey, how are we going to keep the lights on? How are we going to pay the mortgage so you can turn your life around by becoming the bank. One of the most common questions that comes up when you're trying to do anything is it's always, well, okay, that all sounds well and good, Vern, but how do we get started? Well, again, the first thing that you have to do is you got to get committed. That's what it comes down to. You got to get committed. I heard there's a gentleman by the name of John Assaraf. You might have saw him on the Secret. I think he owns ReMax Real Estate. He's from Canada, but he's in the U.S. really wealthy guy, kind of a personal development type of guy, and really positive energy, all that kind of stuff. And I watched a YouTube video years and years and years ago with him, and one of the things that really stood out to me in that video is what he said was there's a difference between being committed to something and being interested in something. For a lot of years, I was really interested in creating wealth. I was really interested in helping my family and making a difference in the world and being the best version of myself. I'm not here to compare myself to anybody. There is many, many versions of myself in here, and I just want to find the best one. And I want to put the systems and structures and processes and people, most importantly in place to help bring that out of me to become the best version of myself. And I was interested in a lot of these things. And I didn't realize it at the time. I always just wondered, why me? Like, why aren't things getting done and why can't I accomplish these objectives? And oh, I tried that and it didn't work out. And I noticed the difference between the person who was saving money or giving, doing better in business or earning more or losing weight or having a better relationships or whatever it is, the people who are doing those things, I started to notice for myself. Oh, like when I decided to sleep in and not go for the run, or when I decided just to go, oh, I'm going to order the pizza because I'm late and I'm busy and I don't have time to eat the healthy meal, whatever. That was me, the interested version of myself, the committed version of myself says, no, you know what? You committed to getting up and going to hit the heavy bag at 6am in the morning or whatever it is, you're tired, do it anyway. So I failed to plan for my food. So guess what? I'm failing at that. Well, guess what? Now it comes down to well, to have conversations with my wife, talk to my doctor, get a plan in place, start to get the nutrition, do the prep, you know, do those things. If I'm prepping food, that means I'm not on my phone doing YouTube. If I'm working out, that means I'm not, you know, getting down the rabbit hole of social media and getting distracted by all those things. I'm constantly committed to feeding myself nutrition. And that just doesn't mean food. That means what I and what I listen to and what I say and what I eat and who I'm around. It's painful. Sometimes it's uncomfortable. You got to change your environment. And if the people you're hanging out with aren't ready to grow with you, you might have to change directions. And I'm being really serious about that. So it all comes down to being committed. When you're interested in things, you let roadblocks get in the way and stop you from achieving your objective. When you're committed to things, you move them out of the way and you go over them, around them, through them, and you get the job done. That's the difference between interested and committed. And we all have the same 24 hours in a day. How are you going to spend them? That's what it comes down to. Get committed. To getting out of financial prison. Start to educate yourself. Find someone who has done what you want to do and they have been where you're at. That's the greatest mentor you can find. Somebody who has the life that you want and has been where you're at. So I recommend that you get yourself a copy of R. Nelson Nash's book, becoming your own banker unlocking the infinite banking concept. Get in touch with our team. Hit the link in the post description below and get in touch with one of our teammates so that they can get some of your questions answered and help guide you down the path. People who have walked the path and can actually show you their own process and how they implemented. Becoming your own banker. So get committed, get educated and get in touch. Get a mentor. Get somebody who is going to help you walk the path. Okay, that's what it comes down to.










