One Flesh

Hello, my name is John Humenik. Welcome to the channel. I've got an exciting message for you today talking about the concept of one flesh. So if you are a note-taker, this is the time to break out your notebook because you're going to be filled with all forms of knowledge and wisdom on this very important topic. I want to put a caveat at the beginning of this video to make sure that you understand that this is actually a very serious topic. That the world, whenever you hear it talking about relationships, it wants to bring a form of bondage and problem into your life at a level that you do not understand. And in fact, it puts it under the disguise of freedom and love and peace and joy, when in reality it is an epic form of bondage that will lead to all forms of illness and disease problems, heartache, and all forms of mental illness. And so I want you to get ready for this because as you pack and understand all these things, that it's going to really undo a lot of the lies the world has put into your heart and into your mind and set you on a path of freedom that it doesn't want you on. So definitely stick around for this entire video 'cause it will transform your mind in a really big way. So if you're new to the channel, I would like to invite you to subscribe. If you already subscribed to this channel, make sure you share this video with at least three people that may be struggling with all forms of different forms of sexual orientation. People that are very promiscuous and having multiple partners. Anything that's outside of marriage is going to be a problem for you. Even if you're married today and you've lived a life of promiscuity and all kinds of problems, you're going to need to be able to get into a state of repentance to undo those mistakes. Because guess what? They will continue to carry throughout your entire life because one flesh means one flesh until God separates it or death to you depart. So let's hop into the scriptures because it's gonna start to set an example and understanding of why this is so important. Genesis 2:24 says, for the reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Now we also see this in Mark chapter 10, verses 8, and it says, the two shall become one flesh, and no longer two but one flesh. One of the biggest things that the lies of the world tries to get to allow you to understand is that your sexual orientation and the number of sexual partners— or you'll hear this term body count— is actually no big deal. It's a badge of honor. It's something to be accepted. It's great. It's all the wonderful things. And if you don't align with those things You become— you call terms like racist and bigot and all these other things. But the reality is this: when you sleep with someone, you now become one with that individual. And I want to start to understand and explain something to you so that you start to really grasp the severity of this situation. Because what happens is, is if you are a promiscuous person, If you're a person that likes to sleep around, or you have a partner that does, what happens is, is that you become joined with all the people that that person has ever been with. And so it's important to recognize that you are no longer yourself, but you become one. And what does that mean in the concept of one? Well, you're not physically— are you physically joined with them? Well, actually what it means is, is that you become one in the soul realm and one in the physical realm. So what happens is, is what happens to you happens to them. What happens to you that's good happens to them. If it's bad, it happens to them and it happens to you. Now, this can get actually very exacerbated when you start to understand the depth of the problem this brings, because here's what the world's not telling you that really needs to be unlocked, is the world wants to attach a problem to someone. And the more people that are physically attached through forms of all forms of intimacy with that person, that problem can ripple automatically to all those people that are joined. So imagine yourself, you have a partner, you're not married yet, and that partner had many partners in the past, and those partners had many partners in the past, and you could start to see this chain reaction. You could literally, the first time you ever spend time with them within intimacy, You could be literally joined to 1,000 or 10,000 people. So every single issue that ripples in those people go throughout that connection across all those people. Every form of anxiety, every form of depression, every form of worry. This is why you'll hear a lot of people talk about this, and you'll see this manifest in the world. We say, well, I never had anxiety until I slept with this person. I didn't have worry, or I wasn't addicted to alcohol until I spent time with that person in bed. That's what happens. Addictions, worries, mental issues, mental illnesses— all these things ripple through the connection of intimacy through people. That's what this means. That's what Genesis is talking about. That's what Mark is talking about. When you are intimate with a person, you are actually joining with them, and it becomes a functional bond that you're supposed to spend with the rest of your life with them. That was the essence of what God wanted. This is why you start to see, even in the Old Testament, when you see a lot of people having multiple wives, because that was part of the culture then, but God never approved it, you always saw the wives fighting with each other. You always saw there was some form of confrontation and wanting, wanting to be lording over another. That was never designed. Men and women were never designed by God to have multiple partners, because what the goal was is God wanted the 2 partners to come together, a man and woman, and become a union. And also, that was also a physical representation of the, the, um, the sacrifice that Jesus did on the cross, and then ultimately the marriage with the church. So the marriage on earth, it was an actual physical representation of the spiritual marriage that Jesus would have at the end of time with his church. But what you start to see is, is that that bond was specifically designed to be non-broken. It was not designed to be some fleeting moment or some one-night stand or some party or whatnot. Because what happens is, is now what you've done is you physically joined with that person in a way that can't be broken. So the things that they're experiencing become your problems and become a part of your pleasure. So it actually does go both ways. Let me give you an incredible example that will totally unlock your mind and truly show the power of one flesh and the way God wanted it to operate and how the devil wants to abuse it in your life. And also, we'll talk about how to set you free. So you really wanna stick around for that. So we recently had a situation with my wife where she was struggling with some form of, of demonic oppression, and she was really in a bad spot. Mentally and physically, and even to a degree spiritually. And what happened was, is she was struggling and she was really in a bad spot, like just really bad bondage, constant attacks, just getting weighed down heavier and heavier, being pushed into a place of what they were trying to get her to submit and make mistakes and sin and basically extend the problem that she was in way further than it needed to be. And that same day, at that very same moment, I started coming under attack, and I started hearing all these different voices, and it just was relentless, and it just kept coming over and over again. It was basically replaying a situation, and I just like, I couldn't stop thinking about it. I was getting to the point where I was like, wow, why do I keep thinking about this situation? It has nothing to do with me. It has no bearing, but it keeps coming into my head. So immediately I went into prayer. rebuked it, tried to cast out the demons, but nothing happened. It just kept going. The cycle kept going, and it lasted for hours and hours and hours. And it became so overwhelming that point was like, wow, what is really going on here? Am I under a spiritual assault that I can't repel? That's not real. That's never happened before. But then the Holy Spirit said, hey, go have a conversation with your wife. So I go down and have a conversation with her, and we start talking. And here I find out that she's having This really oppressive attack from the devil that keeps bringing these basically false thoughts back into her mind, trying to get her to come into an agreement with the situation in order to establish a bondage that she had just broken through and put it back on her. And it was relentless. And so what we did was we finally prayed, we worked our way through it, and basically kicked the devil out. But what I realized in that moment is is that in her despair, the Holy Spirit allowed our connection to become. Truly transparent, and so that I could feel the very things that she was feeling. I could experience the very things that she was experiencing. I could hear the very things that she was hearing. And then what it allowed us to do is to come together and then kick the enemy out. That's the essence of what God wants in a godly marriage, is he wants the husband and a wife to come together to be able to operate as a union, as a one unit. No different than a football team. A football team is made up of 11 players on one side of the field, but they operate as a unit in order to be successful. They want to operate as one person. That's how God wants it. God wants the, the marriage bed to be pure because he wants the situations in which the husband and wife live to be able to work together and work through the, the bad times and celebrate the good times. But here's the truth that the world's not telling you. When you start having intimate sex with people before marriage, you have it with men and women, men and men, and women and women. What you're doing is you're physically joining yourself in a way that now that's a lifetime bond. But remember, God did not design men to have relations with men. He did not design women to have relations with women. He didn't do that. So what happens is— So here's the thing. Think about it from the perspective of how a husband and wife are supposed to balance each other. Think about it just purely from an emotional perspective, just how they emotionally relate to one another. Where the husband, you could— because a lot of times you'll see, and again, this is not indicative of all marriages, but again, it's indicative of a lot, which is you have a stoic husband who becomes not necessarily less emotional, but more potentially stable in the sense where like Things won't bother them, and they don't have emotional highs and lows. And in that very same vein, it's harder for men to receive love in other situations. So it isn't all just hunky-dory in that respect. But then you have a wife who may have higher emotional peaks and higher emotional lows. She can receive love very easily, but then gets caught up in a lot of things that otherwise would not normally affect her husband. But does affect her, and then vice versa. So God would balance those 2 people together. What he'll do is he'll allow the wife to receive love and then pour that into her husband, who may be resistant to it. But at the same time, when the wife is starting to experience an emotional low, the husband becomes stoic and lifts her back up in the situation where they become level. Now imagine a situation where you now have joined 2 women together, or 2 men, where now There, there basically no— there's no capacity to feel, or there's no capacity to stop the emotion. What happens is, is it spirals out of control. This is the lie that the devil isn't telling you. This is the lie the world isn't telling you when it goes out and says, go love anyone that you want, go do whatever you want to do, be with whoever you want, be with as many people as you want. What it's doing, the world is doing, is exposing you To literal destruction. It is exposing you to literal pain, bondage. And what it does is it exposes you to the problems that other people have that you don't have. Look at scripture. Let's go further. 1 Corinthians 6:16, it says, or do you not know that he who's joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For it is written, the two become one flesh. Flesh. And he continues, actually 2 verses later, he says, free from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but sexual immorality— person sins against his own body. So what happens is, is what you're doing is, is that's the actual essence. It's— you're actually sinning against you. So every other sin, even addiction, is actually technically outside the body. But this is something that's inside. It's a part of who you are. Because what happens is, is that when you're joined with those people, now what you're experiencing are things that has happening to other people. And you're not designed to experience the problems and even the pleasures of other people, because what it'll do is it'll start driving you to start to push you into forms of addiction. Think about it from the perspective If you had a bunch of relationships in college with people, let's say you had 3 people that you spent time with intimately in college, and now you're an older adult and you're still single and you haven't been married. When they start to experience ecstasy, highs, happiness, joy, you're going to feel that. What's going to happen is, is it's going to feel foreign to you because at that moment you may not be in a position to receive that. But what happens is, is your body starts to get oriented towards the excitement that's coming from these different individuals. And every single person that they've joined to, all of their ecstasies and joys and happinesses and all those things ripple to you. So what will happen is, is that if they get into a situation where they run into a dry season and you've experienced this flood of energy and positive thinking and all these really cool things, And then all of a sudden you crash and you try to then get it back. What will happen is, is your body will drive you into a situation where you become addicted to something, whether you become addicted to drugs, alcohol, all forms of sex, maybe pornography, maybe gambling, maybe excitement. You might become an adrenaline junkie. Your body feels all those positive things that people are experiencing, but it happens At such a high level and at such a high volume that you're not ready for it because our bodies weren't designed to be linked to 3, 4, 5, 10, 20, 100 people. It was designed to be linked to one person. And so now, even on the positive side, what it'll do is it'll reorient you and turn your dials up so high that you're now unable to basically receive correctly because you felt this overwhelming excitement. And now you're like, okay, I need to back this off, but you don't know how to. And so this is the problem that you are— I'm sure many of you are experiencing because you're probably wondering, I never had worry in my life until I slept with that one person. I never had addiction in my life until I slept with that guy. I never had all these problems or all these concerns or all these financial issues because I was— my head was so clear back then and now it's so cloudy. What it does is, is God has connected you through your actions into the world, and your actions have put you in a position where you're now joined with all these people, and all their experiences, good and bad, come to you. And it's not just filtered, it's, it's basically what you're experiencing is the more people you're with and the more people they're with, you're going to get an avalanche of things, and it becomes very problematic. Because it's so problematic. This is what God said, talking about even divorce, because he hates divorce. He says, Matthew 19:6, he talks about this: they're no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate. Because what God knew is even through divorce, this paper, this paper separation, that the man and the woman were remaining— they were joined. When you read all the laws in the Old Testament, and you start to understand, okay, if a man was with a woman but no longer loves her, he's not allowed to marry another woman, and she must remain functionally a living widow for the rest of his life— her life. And so God knew then, he's like, I don't want other men, even through divorce, joining with other women, because what happens is, is the first wife will feel the effects of the second wife. And the second wife will feel the effects of the first wife. That's the lie that the world is telling people, that whenever you step into a relationship, that it's okay. It's okay to be able to experience. It's fun. It's college. It's new. No one will know. These— all these things are just natural way of doing things. They're all lies. They're all lies specifically geared toward bringing you a form of bondage and a form of torment. that you're not ready for. And guess what happens? It's going to never stop. That's the problem. That's what the world doesn't tell you, is that that bond is eternal until that person actually dies and that the link is then severed. Guess what happens? You're joined with them forever. That's the essence of what God is talking about. So this is the aspect that I want to try to make sure you truly understand, is, is one, The more people you sleep with today and going forward that aren't your spouse, this is something where you have to get to a point where it has to come to an end. I know that this is going to be challenging for some people, especially whenever they have a high emotional state towards other folks, because there is— this is an actual thing. If you understand how people are hardwired through affection, there are people that need more physical affection through intimacy than other people. And when you marry someone whose threshold is a lot lower than yours, whether it's your husband or your wife, they're not going to be able to meet that need. And that need has to be met through Jesus Christ. The gap has to be met through God. But if the gap is so big where there's no capacity for that person to even meet you somewhere even remotely close, that person was probably not the person you were supposed to marry, and you're going to have to Continually submit yourself to God in a really powerful way. Because what happens is, is God knows that if he allowed you to get into that marriage and graced you for it, then he wants a more intimate relationship with you in the prayer closet. That's how you're going to start to be able to break this bondage. If you're wondering, okay, I'm caught in a situation, I don't want to deal with this anymore, I understand what you're saying, and I experienced these things, and now I'm starting to resonate. Wow, all these problems in my life have come through these choices that I have made with being intimate with people that I should not have been intimate with. And so when you start to understand that, you're like, okay, what are my next steps in order to start to break free from that? Well, the first one, obviously, if you're not married, is you truly do have to stop sleeping with people. As much as that you're going to find that difficult, you're going to have to move away from any forms of pornography. You're going to have to move away from anything that truly tempts you. Don't put yourself in a situation where you're going to walk into, say for example, a beach, and people are in bikinis and swim shorts all the time, and then you're going to get tempted. If you like going to the bar and you're— and you go to a place that's a lot of people are dressed up and looking good, don't go there. Don't put yourself in a position where your flesh is going to want to take over and get you in a spot where you're in trouble, because ultimately that's where the devil wants you, because the devil wants to destroy you. Remember, He wants to steal things from you, kill things from you, and then destroy. That's the order. And how he steals is through intimacy with other people. He starts to steal your peace. He starts to steal your hope. He starts to steal your health literally from you by joining you with all these other people who ultimately is— all you need is one really sick person to infect the whole bunch. It's functioning like cancer. So this is the start, is you've got to be able to stop putting yourself in a position where you're going to be caught up in these situations over and over again. And ultimately, if that includes cutting off your friends, cutting off your family, whatever it has to do, you got to do it. Because your physical health and your mental and emotional health is so attached to your intimacy with other people that there is zero separation. It is impossible to separate it. And so you've got to become pure in this respect, and God will start to honor that very action of purity. Because now at that point, you can say, okay, now from this point going forward, I'm going to operate as a virgin, and I'm going to be pure to God. That is going to be the number one step first that you've got to do. Number 2 step is going to be you've got to build a very vibrant relationship that's going to be intimate with God, because he's supposed to be your first love. And I want to explain something to you very clearly, because as a person who is driven by affection myself, In a big way. I will tell you very clearly that there can be very high peaks of emotion and affection that can come, and it just— sometimes they come on suddenly and then they come on very powerfully. But I can tell you definitively that when you sit in the presence of God in those moments when you have overwhelming urges, if you have a situation where your mind is racing and you want to do something you're not supposed to do, And you submit to God, God will actually transform that experience and allow you to attach yourself to him in a very powerful way. And he will actually satisfy that desire in a perfect way through just prayer. And I know that this is going to sound crazy and radical for some people because it may be the first time you've ever heard this, but I'm telling you right now, it's true and it is very powerful because what it does is He'll take your emotional high, your physical high, and if you use that to go to prayer in God, like that's a trigger to go to God, what he'll do is he'll actually honor that. And what'll happen is, is that high will then disappear and you'll be filled with what I call perfect love. Like the yearning for affection and attention by God is solved so powerfully by him that it doesn't matter how overwhelming you are. It doesn't matter where you're at on that affection scale. If you're operating at a 10 level, which is really, really high, versus someone that operating at a level 1, God will bring you back to what I would call a normal level, 'cause that emotion will be reset and you'll be satisfied perfectly through intimacy, through prayer in your prayer closet with God. It is beyond powerful. And what happens is that it will establish a precedent. And, uh, show the devil that, guess what, if the more he tempts you, the more you're going to be willing to go back to God in prayer and to put yourself into his place. And it's going to actually get in a situation where the devil will actually drive you to the feet of Jesus. And it's really powerful. And so what you have to understand is, is that you have to be willing to submit to God in that, in that really, in that relationship. Because here's why Ephesians 5:25 talks about it. It says, husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. Because what Jesus did is he gave his life up for the church in order to have a marriage union with the body of Christ, which means when you're in need of forms of affection, intimacy, physical touch, all kinds of emotional words, anything When you submit yourself to your true spiritual husband, which is Jesus Christ, guess what happens? He fulfills the need as if it was a physical need being fulfilled through your spouse, even if you're not married. That's the power of the scripture. That's the power of what Jesus does for you, is he knows exactly what you need and how you need it, and he is the source in which you can start to operate from. So if you're not putting yourself in a situation where you're going to be tempted all the time, and now you're by yourself and you're focused on this, then guess what happens? God is going to meet you where you need to be and fulfill that need, because he was specifically designing you to receive it the way he wanted to give it to you. That's what the world doesn't want you to know. The world wants you to find that, uh, high Through other means in order to get you addicted to the things it wants you to get addicted to, in order to trap you in the places where you can't get yourself out of. But God's like, no, I made you to love me. I love you. Let's come together and I will fill you up in a way that truly satisfies all the needs that you have, and it'll blow you away every single time. Now, if you are married and you're— sorry, if you're married currently, and you have a spouse, this is the gap between the physical intimacy with your spouse and the physical intimacy with God. Because your spouse is going to be the person who you're going to be physically intimate with, and whether they like it or not, that is their responsibility to fulfill your need. Your job is to fulfill their need. Their job is to fulfill your need. That's biblical. Now, you may not be in a relationship at this current time that does that, but if you continue to pray and yield to the Holy Spirit, you'll get to a place where your spouse will be able to satisfy truly your physical needs in a way that then gives you a space where you can now have your other needs felt, you know, basically filled by God. And that's actually what a holy marriage is supposed to look like, is God wants those very things to be filled by your wife or your husband, and then he fills the gap. Or vice versa, he fills the core part and then they get the overflow. And that's really important because when you start to understand that God wants your union in your marriage to be excellent, you'll then recognize that all the things that he has put into the marriage are both holy and true and just and perfectly fine. That's the thing the world—the world will actually get you to think. think being intimate with your spouse is a bad thing. I've seen it happen. It's like astonishing. But they'll actually say you shouldn't just be intimate with your spouse. You should allow your spouse to have other partners. You should have your spouse have opportunity to date other people or see other people. And as crazy as that sounds for most people, there is a lot of people that do that. And what you're doing is, is you're now attaching your spouse who you love into a situation where now they're attaching themselves to these other people, and it becomes not a love triangle, it becomes a city triangle of people now that are now attached. This is why when you start to see the, the sexual diseases that come out in the world, why they're so prevalent and so deadly. Because what happens is, is that they come in and they, they come into a person, and then what happens is, and then it ripples. Now think about this from the perspective, if that was a mental illness, say, let's say you were excessively have high anxiety or you're an excessive worrier or you're fearful all the time. That is functionally what an STD is, is you have one person who's infected. But the difference between the worry and the physical STD is the moment a person has worry that entered their life, It ripples through all the people that are now connected through intimacy. It doesn't have to happen— they don't have to be infected at that moment in order for it to ripple. This is the very big danger that a lot of people miss, is if you are in good health when you have a relationship with someone, and then later they have a breakdown, that breakdown will ripple in real time to That's the true danger of what's going on that a lot of people don't recognize. So people will be like, I'm living my life great for 20 years, and all of a sudden I have all these forms of anxieties, I have all these diseases that are hitting me, I have all these problems, illnesses, and that are hitting me out of nowhere. Why all of a sudden are all these problems happening to me? That I'm a perfectly healthy person. In fact, you are. And guess what? But the person that you were intimate with 20 years ago happened to have a chain reaction of people of intimacy that all of a sudden, 20 people down, that person is having a major league problem right at this moment. And guess what? It's worked its way back to you. That's the power of what intimacy and sexual relations and having unions with other people, man and female, will do in a very negative way. It's very, very powerful, and Satan knows it. Because when he's seen it happen over time. So this is one of the biggest things he wants to promote, especially with young people, because what better way to derail a young person than to attach a young person to a person who's struggling? And now you've got 2 people that are struggling, and then now there's a 3rd person comes along. Now you have 3, and then the cycle continues. It's the one thing that will totally ruin your life. In which you've had nothing to do with it. It's like a generational curse. It's something that you didn't even do, but yet could be a problem. You could have been completely faithful to your spouse, but your spouse was unfaithful to you before you got to know them one time, and then that has created a chain reaction back to you later in life and could literally ruin your life and totally destroy it. That's the power of one flesh. That's the power Of what Satan wants to do in your life. That's the power with the kingdom of darkness, what the world wants you to do when it talks about all these different things and tries to put this beautiful, beautiful picture of how the relationships be free. You can choose who you want to choose. You can become who you want to become. You can be with whoever you want, and it's all hunky-dory. They completely— it is literally like a contract with small print. So you go ahead, read over here, sign on the dotted line, and guess what? Don't read the small print. But I'm talking about the small print because I want to educate people on the dangers of what happens whenever you become promiscuous and you start to have multiple partners. Because when you see this, it is very, very key. Because even in Leviticus, it talks about this, and it also talks about this in Romans. And I do have to talk about this because a lot of people want to kind of criticize the scriptures and say that they're dated or they're— that they're written by man and translated over to control the people. No, there's— if you read the Bible, it has nothing to do with controlling the people but has everything about setting them free. It is the only book that sets people free from the very thing the world's trying to put on them. And so that's why they'll always see people Badmouthing it because God knows that that's the path of freedom, and the devil knows it too. So the devil wants to destroy every single aspect of what the Bible stands for in order for you to stay in bondage, because that's what he wants. And when you're in bondage, you're ineffective in almost everything that you do. So let's go to Leviticus 20, chapter— sorry, verse 13. It says, if a man lies with a male as a woman, both them have committed an abomination. They're surely to be put to death. Their blood is upon them. And then we also see this in Romans chapter 1:26-27. It says, for this reason God gave them up to their dishonorable passions, for they— for women exchanged natural relations with those that are contrary to nature, and men likewise gave them up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another. Men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error. So the thing that a lot of people talk about, and you'll hear this in a lot of Christian circles, is that God does not punish people, he will discipline them. But I want to make sure you understand some things when it comes to this and the lines that are drawn here, because God disciplines his children, but he doesn't discipline his non-children, basically those that are not saved. But he will punish those who are not safe very clearly. I've seen it firsthand in my life. I've seen it in people that I know, and it's very true. And, and so you can say, oh well, that's the act of the devil. Like, no, no, this is God. The devil is different. The devil brings sickness. The devil brings disease. The devil brings all these other harmful things. God's doing this because they either disobeyed his law, and it's very clear what the punishment says because it's outlined in Deuteronomy or outlined in the New Testament. But God isn't going to allow people to walk out these kinds of relationships that I just described without penalty. Like, that's the thing. If you look at anyone that lives in that relationship, I can guarantee you there is not a single relationship that you will find in which both persons are healthy in any way, shape, or form. You will find at least one is suffering through something, even if it's small or something great. What you'll start to see is they'll start to take on— one will start to trend towards being a male and one will trend towards being a female. You see that in all these relationships. You may see some that trend towards the same orientation, but there's always some level of breakdown, which they're kind of like dividing and conquering work, and they take on certain roles. But you always see some form of true pain in their heart, in their mind. It's very clear across all of them. I have never met a single person that is part of these relationships That doesn't have some form of sickness in their life, some form of mental illness, mental disease, some form of ailment, anything. There's always some cycle that's continually repeating. They lack peace. They're physically on, you know, having problems with their body. They're having issues with their mind. They're having issues with their emotions. It's across the board. In fact, what I've noticed is, is that in most cases, if not all the cases, it's significantly worse than the norm. So when you start to see someone who maybe, say for example, is struggling with some form of mental illness, maybe some form of overwhelming worry or anxiety, if you take that and move that into a relationship where there is a female and a female or a male and a male, what you're going to see very, very clearly is that same-sex relationship, those problems are magnified consistently across the board. There's— I've never seen ever a situation where they're thriving, they're in peace, and they're healthy through and through. It just doesn't exist because God made it very clear that he doesn't honor this in any way, shape, or form. Whether you're saved or not, he isn't going to tolerate this. And you always see this. Go ahead, just pull up pictures of people that are in those situations, and you see even Google can't hide it anymore because those people are truly sick on the inside. They're truly struggling on the inside. So what the world wants to do is paint this picture that you see 2 perfectly happy people, whether they're not married and it's a male and a female, or, you know, some form of same-sex relationship. What you're seeing is very clearly is that they're trying to paint this picture where it is perfectly fine and that you'll thrive and you'll be excellent and all things well. This is the way to go. And then yet you start to pull back the curtains and you start to see the real problems. You start to see, wow, this life really does suck. This life not only sucks, it comes with recurring problems because you have unrepentant sin in your life in which you are caught up in and you're never getting out of because you just continue to do it. So now the question then becomes is, well, now you've kind of understand these things and you're ready to receive. Okay, I want to break free. I want to break free from my past relationships. I want to break free from my current relationships. And if you have to, these are things where you actually have to walk away from them. As hard as it is and as much flack as you'll get from the people around you, you do need to go away and physically— if you have to physically move out and reset your life, because these situations are never going to be honored by God until you've truly honored his word. And when you've said, I will no longer entertain these relationships, whether I'm going to be living with my future husband, whether I'm living in a same-sex relationship, it doesn't matter. What God is saying is, is that you have to be back in a pure state. You have to be in a situation where you're not living with this person until you're married. And marriage is defined by man and woman. And so when God puts you in that position, you have to remove yourself from that situation. You have to Reset yourself. And even if you start to talk about, well, I can't afford it, well, I put myself in a situation where I'm caught, then your best bet is just to move back in with your parents, move back in with a family member or a friend where you can go and basically, basically come in and just, if you have to, sleep on the couch. If you have to, take your kids out of the relationship and move into somewhere else, because the severity of this sin is so grave that it will truly undermine every single thing you do for the rest of your life. This is so severe in your life that if you don't make a drastic action to, to fix the problem, you're never going to be able to move forward. But if you do that, if you're able to separate yourself and put yourself back in a place where you're pure, then you can go to God in a repentant state and ask him to truly, one, forgive me of all the mistakes that I've made. Forgive me of every relationship that I should not have been with, every single one. Father, heal my body. Break the ties, the flesh ties, the soul ties, the emotional ties, all the things that are currently in place today with all these other people. Break them now so that I am a pure bride or groom for my future husband and wife. If you do that, You will be put yourself in a situation where you can rebuild your life on a firm foundation. That's— that is Christ Jesus. And it will allow you to receive in the body all the due graces that you are— that belong to you, instead of the due penalties for the mistakes that you have made. And I know that's going to be a difficult thing, and for some people may seem impossible, but I have personally met many people in this situation, many people, both even in toxic relationships with a pending fiancé, people in same-sex relationships. And every single person that has moved out, separated themselves, moved on, reset, repented, and had God break all these bondages off of them, every single person is now thriving. 100% across the board. All the lies that the world wants to put on you, all the lies that the world wants to attach to you, are just that— they're bondages, they're sneaky traps, they're things to destroy you without you even realizing it. And I know that's a hard thing for some people to receive, and I know that's a difficult thing, especially if you, if you don't truly stand on the scriptures anyway. It may be difficult It may be to truly understand that at the end of this road, there's some form of freedom, there's some form of release, there's some form of true peace. My health can be fully restored. My mind can stay clear every single day. God wants you to be in perfect peace at all times, which means every aspect of your life needs to be at rest. Think about that. Your kids don't treat you bad anymore. Your co-workers don't treat you bad anymore. Your classmates don't treat you bad anymore. Your family, believe it or not, won't treat you bad anymore. It's where God wants you to be. God wants you to be in a place where all of these things can be perfect in every aspect of your life. But this sin is so grave because God talks about this in scriptures elsewhere. Like, these are the people that don't inherit the Kingdom of God. Like when you look at Revelation and it talks about people that are like sorcerers, people that are sexual immoral people, like this is the list of people that literally have no chance to inherit the Kingdom of God because they're so tied up in things of the world that they don't can't they can't even operate from the things of the spiritual, which is the kingdom. So these are very grave sins. This is to me equivalent. Functionally up to what you deal with, which pride, which I still think is the greatest of all sins. And so when you operate in that place where you can't surrender yourself to God, where you want to continue to operate in the way you want to live your life, which functionally is pride, you are exposing yourself to punishment and pain and suffering on a scale that you don't truly understand until it's gone. Like, when— that's the thing that people don't understand, is that when you cross over the chasm from death to life and you recognize that God pulled you through this kicking and screaming, in some cases, you will truly understand the depth of depravity and pain and suffering you were truly in, because now that's all gone. When you have those things lifted from your life and they're no longer prevalent, You will truly understand the power that is the Holy Spirit. And if you truly struggle even understanding what I'm trying to say, go find someone who crossed that chasm. Find a church where someone who actually went through this process— say, hey, look, I'm in this, caught up in this situation. I want to talk to someone who got— who went through this. Because God, again, is a good God, and he will— he will use your pain To help someone else in the future, and he'll help— he'll have someone else's pain to help you in your present. Find someone who's walked through this, who can mentor you and coach you and teach you through the things that have to be done, because everyone's situation is unique and everyone's caught up in different situations. I mean, you may be in a situation where you're, you're going to be future husband and wife and your marriage is like a week away. So moving out in a week is probably senseless, even by everyone's standard, but it's better to just move in, you know, stay moved in, get married, and then repent of all the mistakes. Have both you and your spouse repent of all those mistakes and move on with the clean slate. Like, that, that could be your situation. You could be a situation where, like, no, we're just live-in boyfriend and girlfriend, and we've been this way for 20 years. You know, we're, we're basically spouses, but we're not spouses. And you have these situations even at work Where you have the work spouses and all these other things. All these things are specifically designed by the devil to attach you to a person and bring you into a place where you can become in bondage, and he can trap you and put all kinds of stuff on you that you weren't designed to handle and become problematic. And it goes back to your personality profiles. It goes back to the way you need to be loved and how you receive love. The devil will learn over time those very things about you and will bring people into your life to then twist and, and basically torment and pull those things in a way that will allow you to receive it improperly. And then the moment you're sexually attached to someone, he can pour all these different things into your life and into your partner's life and just keep going and then basically ripple it out. And at that point, it becomes a chain reaction of pain. And at that point He's got you exactly where he wants you. And it doesn't matter if you're saved or not, you're going to be exposed to this. That's the power of sexual immorality. It doesn't matter. You can't plead the blood of Jesus over this situation when you're sinning like this. If you have not repented of a sin of this scale, the blood of Jesus may cover you for certain things, but guess what? It's not going to cover you from everything. And so you've got to get into a place where you're Right with God, and there's a clean cut, and there's a clean starting point in which you can move forward. And there are lots of people through counseling. The 700 Club has a great phone number that you can call. All these different things are out there. These resources are there for you, because when you get caught in this situation, it is a terrible place to be. It is truly terrible. The stories that I've heard people talk about are just mind-blowing. You could see it on their faces, the pain that they experience. Even just with my wife, who we've only known each other our entire lives, it, it is just enough that we can handle with the Holy Spirit. That, that's the essence of what God wants, is he's always trying to keep you from being able to be overwhelmed by the things, because he never gives you something that you can't handle. But he'll let you walk into those situations. That talks about this, we talked about that in Romans. He'll let you walk into it because you do have free will and you do have these things. So a good God is going to allow these bad things to happen to you because you've chosen them to happen. And even if you haven't chosen them, your choices from the past will still reciprocate to today until those reconciliations are made to God and allow you to be separated for all time. And this applies— the thing about it people forget is this whole one flesh applies to people that are divorced. You may have had a great marriage with your husband and your wife and then divorced them for some reason. Whether it was justified or not, it doesn't matter. You're still connected to them unless you've broken that bondage. You're now carrying that bond to the future. And so your spouse, if they get married— and again, if they attach themselves to someone who's been very promiscuous, guess what happens? You're going to bring all of those chains of people to your new marriage. And that's going to reciprocate into your kids, it's going to reciprocate into your work, it's going to reciprocate into all your relationships. And that's the power of one flesh, is it will literally— the devil can use the power of one flesh, which was specifically designed for a husband to support a wife and a wife to support a husband in every way possible that they could outside of the aspects that God wants to support them with. It was designed for them to be a helper. That was what the goal was. And you can't be a helper unless you're truly attached to them, because if you don't feel what they feel, then you truly can't relate to the problems that they're going through. But the devil twisted it and took this beautiful aspect of matrimony and marriage and being one with your spouse and twisted it and turned it into a problem that then reciprocated throughout all of culture in a way that functionally undermined many, many cultures. Sodom and Gomorrah was a perfect example of that. Now, we truly know that the sin, the true sin that Sodom and Gomorrah had, was that they were actually having relations with angels, and God had to put an end to it because that was why the flood came. But they also still had same-sex relationships and all these other things that were going on. And you know, all the other perverse versions of this that I'm not even going to mention on this channel. So Sodom and Gomorrah, by definition, were vile from a fleshly perspective on a scale that we truly struggle today to understand because they had the angelic aspect too, which truly has since ended. Because any fallen angel that isn't in chains is not going to go do what they did because they're gonna end up in chains. Because there's 2 now instances in history that proves that once they cross that line, it's game over for them. God's not gonna tolerate that. So that part, the vileness that's in Sodom and Gomorrah that we see was so grave that even— it was so grave but yet not unsalvageable, because even Jesus said that if the signs that had been performed in Capernaum were done with Sodom and Gomorrah, they would have repented a long time ago. Even the depth of depravity that was there then could have been saved by the blood of Jesus if they walked into a repentant state. And again, so this is the thing, is, is that this is, again, this is a heavy-handed teaching And I know it's not something normally that we teach on this channel, but I really was felt impressed by the Holy Spirit to talk about this because there's so many people. I can't tell you. I'm sure almost every single person that is of age that is watching this video is probably trapped in this bondage. I would bet it's probably north of 99%. And so it's so important that you reset your life. You get yourself right with God. You get yourself right with your relationships. And you repent and you move on, get yourself cut free from those things. God— ask God to sever all of the problems, all of the relationships from you. Break it so that you are truly a physical— you're basically a renewed virgin, both physically, mentally, and spiritually. Walk out life with God. Be intimate with God in every way possible. Let him satisfy you in every way that you You need to, because he knows you better than yourself and he can do that. And then he'll prepare a spouse for you if that's your calling, because again, in scriptures, not everyone is supposed to be married. But God will prepare a spouse for you whether you're a man or a woman and will be able to put you in a place where you're ready for marriage and they're ready for marriage, and you'll be able to move on in unity in a godly relationship that honors him properly. And honors you properly and keeps you away from all of these problems that all these other people continue to bring into their lives because they choose to do what they want with their bodies and they don't stop. They're making money with their bodies with all the different websites. They're going to all kinds of clubs and hooking up with people. That life is not your life anymore. God has a better life for you, one that's truly free, one that's truly set. 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