Trust issues

The host argues that prayer is the solution to trust issues in relationships. He shares a story about conflict with an immigrant boss whose visa insecurity created mutual distrust, and ties the practice to 1 Corinthians 13's definition of love as patient and kind.
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Holy Spirit has deposited in my soul a discussion about trust issues. And so I want to talk about that a little bit here for specifically for you. If you have a trust issue with someone, whether it be maybe a partner, a spouse, a boss, that's going to be very common. Coworkers. If you have, if you've got trust issues with anyone in your life, maybe it's a pastor, maybe it's a child, to be honest with you, going off to school, maybe someone at school, a teacher or a principal. I just want to encourage you today that when you are able to yield up that person in prayer, giving them over to the Holy Spirit, You are unlocking transformative power on their life. And I'm not just talking about simple power or something that's just straightforward or acquiescing to your needs. Hey, Isabella, how's it going? I'm talking about next-level power. Sorry, I'm crossing the street. Who knew livestreams would be Interesting. I'm talking about next-level power. I'm talking about transformative power that changes people's lives in a way that cannot be explained. And here's what I'm talking about. I'm doing well, Isabella. Hopefully all is well with you. So what I'm talking about today from a transformative power perspective is when you pray for someone and you give them up to Jesus Christ, And you're allowing them to be made whole by the Holy Spirit. Be made— ooh, that's really windy, my apologies. Let's just continue this way. You guys are getting the full livestream here, the full livestream effect. The thing that I want to talk about today is that transformative power comes through yielding to the Holy Spirit. If you've got a trust issue, with a spouse, if you've got a trust issue with someone that you know and someone that you care about, someone that you maybe don't even care about, to be honest with you, maybe you're not even interested in caring about them, maybe it's someone you know and they're treating you poorly. When you yield them up to the Holy Spirit, when you give them in— Hey, Melon, how's it going? Hey, Amber. When you give them up through prayer and you give them up to the Holy Spirit, what happens is is you get transformative power because now that person will now be aligned under the perfect will of God in your life. Hey, Melon. Yes. Hey, Brady, how's it going? So I just want to really talk to you today about if, you know, I'll give you an example. I used to work for a job years back where my boss and I Just couldn't get along. We just couldn't get along in any way, shape, or form. And as a part of that process, we would just fight all the time. And something that even today sounds abnormal for me was normal back then because we could not get along. He was an immigrant, and because of that, he needed to protect his job because if he didn't, He would lose his visa and therefore he could be deported and all his possessions and everything he had would go with him. And so this is a really tough situation because the moment he becomes expendable, the moment he becomes expendable, he became worried. And so he treated everyone that he didn't trust, he had trust issues. And whenever you work with people like that— Oh, thank you, Brady, I appreciate it. Hey, Isabelle again. When you work with someone like that, it becomes a really big problem because you can't do anything. You can't find common ground because there's always going to be a space where he was not going to give me information that I needed because I was actually building software for him and I was actually doing something for him. And because of that, he wouldn't give me all the information. So, I would literally be in a spot where I couldn't trust him anymore. And I had trouble, and he had trouble, and we would fight all the time. And it got to a point where I ended up getting fired from the job because we couldn't even work together. And in retrospect, there was definitely a lot of things that I learned as a part of that process, things I could have done differently. Well, one, as I said, you could pray for someone. Praying for someone is going to do 2 things in your life. One, it's going to transform that person you're praying for. It's going to reshape who they are and how they're operating. And number 2, it's going to transform you. It's going to transform you in a position— to a position of power and authority. Because guess what? You're yielding up to God the very things that are needed in order to make true transformative change in your life. And that's really powerful. And that can apply To anyone. That could apply to anyone. That could apply to— yes, Isabella, I did, I did call your name. Isabella Marino, that's your name. That's awesome. So, why don't— if, you know, if some of those people are in the chat, why don't you go put your age in? I'm curious to see how old some of you guys are. But having trust and focusing on trust and focusing on understanding How things are supposed to operate, how things are supposed to go. When you are able to do that in a powerful way, God is going to move mightily for you. Because God is a respecter of no persons. He didn't respect his Son Jesus Christ. And that is an astonishing statement. Here is the King of the universe, and his own Father is like, I have to treat you like everyone else. I have to. I can't, I can't play favoritism with my own son. And what a challenging thing that would have been. And so, yeah, it's key. It's key to pray for people. And so when you start to understand the, the importance of praying for someone when you don't trust them, you will start to unlock situations where those people will now start to trust you. You'll start to trust them. It will transform your work, your school. It will transform all your life in every way possible. And so I just want to encourage everyone today that as you're going about your life and you're doing things, maybe you're playing some video games and you don't even trust the video game. Maybe you're going out to school. And maybe you have a bully at school, something that maybe you don't want to trust the teachers. Maybe you don't want to trust your parents. I just want to encourage everyone today. Hey, Isabella, I see that. That's awesome. I just want to encourage you today that God is with you. Jesus loves you. Jesus trusts you. And as you trust him and as you move forward, you will be able to be and operate in abundance at all times. Amen. And I know for some of the younger folks who watch this livestream, that's going to be a challenging thing. But, you know, we can even simplify it even further and just say that Jesus loves you. He trusts you. He wants you to trust your parents. He wants you to trust your teachers. He wants you to trust your pastor at church, whoever you may be. He just wants you to trust them. And God will then continue to deliver all those people over and over again. That's awesome, Isabella. I see that you're 8 years old, that's pretty cool. So, I apologize if you guys are having a hard time hearing me because of the wind and such, but I just want to talk about the next level. So, how do you operate beyond trust? How do you go beyond trust issues and then operate in abundance and operate in being able to go to the next level? It's really simple. It's really simple because what you're doing is, is you're focusing on love. And 1 Corinthians 13 talks about love. It's very simple. Love is patient. Love is kind. Love is not self-serving. What it is, is it's always about bearing things up, caring for people, watching over them. It's all action-oriented. Love is action-oriented. And when you understand that love As action-oriented, you now realize, oh, it's more than just an emotion. It's more than that. It is powerful. It resonates within all the people, and it allows you to receive all that God has for you in this day and age. It's powerful. I mean, I can't, I can't even describe it enough to you. I mean, it is next level when you start to love people the way you're supposed to and how you're supposed to operate and do it. Sorry for the creaky gate. I'm walking right past a gated community gate. Gotta get some oil in that thing. So I just want to encourage everyone today that when you go out there and you have trust issues, pray for that person. Pray for them. Pray for them. Make sure that they understand that you care about them. Show them love. Show them appreciation. Show them respect. Show them all the things that That they may be lacking in life because you may be the only one loving them. You don't really know. In fact, there's so many people out there that never hear the word I love you. And you guys know I love you guys. I love all you. And you know, all the people are chatting, all the people are going to watch this after the fact. This is powerful. This is key. You got to know that someone's out there caring for you because God cares for you. And when you recognize that God cares for you and he wants you to treat others like he treats you, Then it's just transformative. It really does change the way you are meant to operate and how you operate and the things you operate in. And it just, it's amazing. It truly is. So, hey, hey kids at the YouTube. Hey, thanks for liking my videos. So that's kind of the discussion for today. Does anyone else have any questions while we're in the chat? I apologize, the wind is a little kicky up today. As you can see, we're a little cloudy here, more than normal. But if not, if I don't get a chance to see anyone in the chat, I'm going to go ahead and sign off for today and give you guys a blessing. Bless you guys. Have a great day. If you're new to my channel, please subscribe. If you like my channel, please share it with someone else. As as some of the chatters were talking about. We're about to cross a half a million subscribers, praise God! And we're heading to a million, and we're gonna head to two million, and then ten million and beyond. So I'm excited to see where this all goes in the coming weeks. And so everyone have an amazing day. Enjoy the weather. Hopefully you're at a place where it's sunny and nice, and if not, you can just check out some of my live streams because they're almost always gorgeous weather. God bless everyone.










