I wrote a (kids) book | this is what it's really about

In this vlog‑style video, Victor Justin Rhodes (Speaker A) explains the inspiration and message behind his new children’s picture book, Where Are Your Shoes? The book uses the everyday struggle of finding a child’s shoes as a metaphor for teaching responsibility, appreciating the fleeting nature of childhood, and preparing kids for independence. Throughout the video, Rhodes stages playful family scenes—searching for shoes, doing chores, feeding chickens, and handling everyday mishaps—to illustrate how parents can turn frustrating moments into learning opportunities. He reflects emotionally on how quickly children grow up, urging parents to cherish these moments and to model responsibility. The video culminates in a promotional pitch: pre‑order the book by March 21 to receive bonuses such as parenting tips, live reading sessions, and a community livestream. A link to MrBrown.com is provided, and the tone remains conversational, heartfelt, and persuasive.
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Yes, I wrote a children's book, and this is what it's really about. Where are your shoes, Mr. Brown?
I don't know.
It's a constant struggle. You've seen it in the vlog. You said you ought to write a children's book about it. Well, it's here, and there's a powerful message in here. You guys don't want to miss out, especially if you're parents. Let's do this. Let's go find them. There. Okay, that was easy. You know how to start it? Yeah, it's super frustrating helping him find his clothes, shoes, socks. You're 8.
He's 8.
There it went. We got something there.
Put your clutch in.
I can't believe I'm doing this. I've got to go do the chores.
Guess I'll help us.
I've overflowed it with gas.
When we get going fast, I'm going to tell you to let it go, okay? Okay.
Now maybe he'll get excited about chores. Okay, let's go on chores, okay? Okay. We'll go on chores.
Okay. That's good, that's good. You're gonna hit the house.
What about the brake, bro? Can you use that next time?
Yeah.
Okay, good. Get in. You put this alfalfa in and I'll go get the milk supplies. I want Mr. Brown to come with me to work. I want all my kids to come with me to work on the farm. I figured they're coming to help me That's the least I can do is to help him. In Mr. Brown's case, it's finding his shoes. What are you doing up here?
Can you get me a snack?
Need your helper over here. Here you go.
Papa, could you hold my pants?
Sure.
I would if I was strong enough.
That's okay. One day you'll be strong enough. Do you have room to take this?
Eh, yeah. Okay, there it is, there it is.
His shoes have been everywhere. Normally we start right here where they're supposed to be. It's rare that that happens though. I found them on the roof, in the sandbox, at the bottom of the slide, in the treehouse, at the top of the slide, at the swimming hole, and on the soccer field. Oh, not making this up. Lily, where are your shoes? 1, 2, there they go. Well, we still don't need to keep them in the field. I know I need to teach them responsibility because like, what if adults acted like kids with their shoes? Wear them backwards. Henry will put his toes in the wrong slot on a flip-flop. Mr. Brown's bad for this one, putting on somebody else's Shoes. How do they look?
Those are my shoes.
And the classic. Where's my other shoe? Has anybody seen my other shoe? No. Taking off their shoes while playing. Taking them off sloppy and putting them in the doorway. Or coming inside with your shoes on and then even worse, slinging them into the house.
Justin, you take your shoes right out of here.
Funny, are you Mom?
Yeah.
Yeah, that would be a problem, and I really do need to teach my children responsibility, but here, you carry the cloth, dirty cloth. I just need to be putting that thing. I'll grab this.
I'll go take it up there.
Gideon, let's load the stove.
Okay, I can load it while you go to the couch.
Okay, you're gonna load it while I go do the couch?
Yeah.
Okay, I love it. He's taking responsibility.
It's burning good.
One scoop each. What's going on? Oh boy, where's she going? This fell down. Good. Good. Impressive. I'm going to need another cloth. She's a little poopy this morning.
Yes sir.
Thank you, I like the hustle. Thank you, my man. Hold it there and that'll be our drying cloth. As for responsibility, I figure he's gonna learn plenty out on the field working with me. Then the moral of the story came one day when I was walking my niece. This is Henry, this is not my niece. I had my niece on there and we were walking around the farm and she was just telling me gibberish stories. She might not have been much older than Henry. It was just nice to have her sweet little voice in my ear and to hear it from her perspective. And it had been since our kids had largely grown out of the, the Ergo and being carried around. Now he hadn't yet, but for the most part. And I got to see this perspective of, "Oh, I used to have my kids on my back and now I don't." And that happened fast. They grew up. Then I realized that I have— well, I would have limited time for opportunities to help them out like See, she's taking off Henry's coat. Come here. You're a good boy.
The tractor.
You're a good boy. Let me help you get your sweater off. Let me help you get your sweater off. Yes, see, that ain't ever gonna happen. Well, I mean, you gotta work with me. Hold my hand.
Like that?
Oh, it's been years since we—
Yeah, he had—
he knew he could come sit next to me. He did? Yeah, yeah. You don't know when the last time will be necessarily. Now he'll do that. I've seen grown men because they're my on the cheek. Yeah, I hope he does that. I think that's all right. I hope you get your socks on. His feet are bigger than Mom's. I should enjoy this because that's probably definitely the last time I put your sock on. I'm almost as big as you.
How much do you weigh?
Are we really doing this? Mom, get the camera.
You can ride with us.
Want to go feed the chickens now? All right, I better enjoy this. This is definitely the last time. How is it, Mr. Brown? I could actually do something with this. Get him, Mom. Get him while you still can.
Okay, that's all I'm getting, kisses.
All right, Dan, cue up the sentimental music. The point of the story was to just give companionship to parents, just to know that it is a struggle knowing trying to balance the battles. You know, when to teach responsibility, when not, when to get them to come and help. But the idea is too that the kids are gonna be grown up and gone. We need to find a joy even in the frustrations of helping them because one day they're gonna be doing it on their own. In fact, my vision for the end of this book, the last page, is would have been, we just forgot about his shoes and picked him up and carried him because one day Mr. Brown is gonna be able to find his own shoes. I imagined him sitting there putting on his wedding shoes. And he's gone. Pre-order that book now. We got all kinds of bonuses for you. You got to do it by March 21st to get in on the bonuses. Some parenting tips, a lot live show where I read to Mr. Brown, uh, the book, where we hang out and just talk and encourage each other as parents. You want to get on that? March 21st, Where Are Your Shoes? MrBrown.com. I'll also leave a link down in the description. Guys, enjoy it. It's from the heart. I believe you'll really enjoy it. Go and get it. Check it out.
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