Reunited With Dad - After 111 Days

The video captures a family reunion where the narrator's father, referred to as Papaw, arrives at the home of his children and grandchildren. The family greets him warmly, presents him with a hat purchased in Ohio's Amish country, and jokes about the gift. Papaw shares a detailed story about his brother Garland’s life, tracing Garland’s moves from North Carolina to Oregon, his work on oil rigs, marriage, and eventual settlement in Big Pine, California, before his death in 1992. The group then heads to nearby Glacier Springs, playfully debating whether the water is cold or hot, and reminiscing about past trips to hot springs after snowboarding. Later, they discuss preparing a large pot of chili for an upcoming family gathering, debating seasoning and portion sizes. Throughout, the dialogue is informal, humorous, and affectionate, highlighting intergenerational bonds, family traditions, and shared experiences.
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Lord have mercy, this world's forever. You too.
There he is. It's Thursday morning. We're very excited because Papaw, my dad, and his wife Ginger are about to come over and see us. You guys excited about that?
Yeah.
Oh, come on now.
Yeah.
Are you guys excited about that?
Yeah.
Oh wow, they happen to just be here.
Me be good. Lord have mercy, this world traveler. You too.
There he is, our biggest fan with his Great American Farm shirt, right, Ginger?
Biggest fan. Where's my little girl? And here's my big—
oh, what was that? I see you're wearing your hat I gave you. I got my dad a little something while we were in Ohio Amish country at Lehman's. Let's play a trick on him. We'll see if he notices. We'll see if he says nice hat.
There's a walkway led to nowhere.
You talking about this walk, crazy walkway right here?
Yes, people tell me I may have been drinking a little too much when I laid it out.
You like my hat?
Oh, I love it.
Yeah, you like that? Yeah, good look. Yeah, okay, good. It's your hat. Oh my goodness, that's a gift from Amish country.
My goodness.
From Ohio.
Looky there, and it's big enough for me. Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday sweet Mr. Brad.
Oh, don't go.
He's gonna say to you— what is that?
He's gonna be bold there and grab that for him.
What is it?
It's a tractor.
Hey, you gotta pay for that. Here, let's get these shoes out of the way so you can get in.
My goodness, a birthday since you've been gone! I can't believe it.
We've been trying to clean up all morning.
Oh, you guys, you got it organized so well.
Yeah, it's a little, uh, it's a little worn down from the open bus. I've seen a lot of 17,000 miles.
Is that what you've traveled so far?
Yeah.
Where is Lily?
200 and what day are we on? 200 and—
did Lily go home?
227. Come, Lily.
There's Lily. My goodness, the greatest sweet girl. You're so pretty. And here's Mimi.
Say hey.
Come on in. Sit down.
Come on in, guys.
Great.
How are you doing?
I am wonderful.
Hey, Thomas. Papa brought bananas.
Papa brought bananas.
You can have a banana.
Bluebird.
That is a bluebird. And what is that?
A peach.
What is that?
A penguin.
A penguin.
Pop, tell me how you and your brother and all your siblings grew up across the street from us in that little old house. Hillbillies, North Carolina. How did your brother end up way out here?
And he was just a traveler. Garland, my brother that ended up in Big Pine, came back to North Carolina and he just could not settle down. So he took off out west and he ended up in Oregon.
Oh.
And got a job with an oil welling rig, which took him around different places, including down through the Owens Valley and Los Angeles, and somewhere he met his wife-to-be. And of course they got married, and he got a job with the Los Angeles Water Department that sent him up to Big Pine, California, a little town of about 700 people. And an old-fashioned Spanish adobe house. It was a beautiful little house, and he raised his kids there. He had— she had 2 kids, and they had 4 together. So he, of course, died in 1992 and moved— had moved from Big Pine down to Palm Desert. He could not stand the humidity. He tried to come back home and he had problems with his signs and what have you. And that's, I'd say that's basically why he came to the West.
You don't mind the humidity in North Carolina?
No, it doesn't really bother me that much. Nor does the dryness. Nothing bothers that man, okay?
Nothing. About North Carolina.
I love North Carolina.
You're a faithful North Carolinian, huh? Yes.
True and true. Yes. What's that mean? To be rather than seem.
A little bit of a fun activity here. Papa is taking us to the Glacier Springs, right?
These— this is so cold because of the melting snow coming off the mountain there. It's so cold you freeze in it. So who wants to go in first?
Justin, who's brave? Who's brave enough? Who's gonna do it? Come on, just be careful, it's cold.
It's not cold.
What is it?
It's hot.
It's hot?
Yes.
What? No, we're just messing with them. We're at real hot springs here. No concrete here. Oh wow, a real spring, real hot creek.
It's really hot. See how hot that is? Here, talk to me. It's very hot. Feel it, Mama, it's so hot. Oh my goodness, it's hot.
You getting in, Mom?
Are you afraid of the cold water?
I'm afraid of the cold water.
Has Papa pulled that trick on you before?
No, we've been here when we were teenagers, like 20 years ago.
Yeah. Feel it, Mom. It's like a hot tub.
When we used to, back in the day, we used to snowboard and we'd go to Mammoth Mountain. And it would be so fun to go here after a cold day and get in these hot springs, even with snow on the ground. Wow, is it hot? It is hot. Boy, they just jump right in, don't they?
They're like mermaids.
So how warm do you think it is?
Um, what, like 99, 100 degrees?
Yeah, y'all guys want to go to a bigger pond?
Yeah.
Hey, word on the creek is there's a bigger pond downstream. Let's go! We found a bigger one. That was a good time.
You see how legit this is?
You see how legit? We come in on a dirt road. This is the real deal hot springs. All right, let's go. You on the job, Josiah?
I think we better go this way.
You helping your mom? Mom, what you cooking?
We are making a big pot of chili.
We're having a ton of people here tonight, a ton of family. How many people? 20 people?
I have no idea.
20 people, Pop?
I bet there'll be 15 or 20 maybe.
Okay, that's what chili's good for, right, Beck?
Yep.
And then you get to the very end and just barely do it, and it should pop up. No, it doesn't pop up.
I need to add salt before—
so you want to lift it up. I can never seem to salt the chili enough, can we?
No, but I don't want to make it too salty. I always worry about that because I did make the fried green tomatoes too salty the other night.
Yeah, you know.
Oh yeah, yeah, you said—
yeah, she told me she doesn't think there's enough. I think that's I think that's a cook's fear, that you're gonna have guests.
And there's never gonna be—
you know, you've been real relaxed about the look of the bus though.
Yeah, I don't care.
You don't care? We live here.
I don't have time to care. I think everybody here has, has children, save Garland.
You take your earrings off at night?
Okay, time to eat.
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