Kaleb Sanders - It’s Not You, It’s Me (Official Music Video)

Name: Kaleb Sanders - It’s Not You, It’s Me (Official Music Video)
Uploaded: 2026-03-13T04:00:12+00:00
Duration: 2 min 57 s
Channel: Kaleb Sanders
Description: Kaleb Sanders sings about the aftermath of a breakup, cycling through self-blame, anger, and OCD-driven indecision. The repeating refrain "it's not you…

13 Mar 2026 · 3 min

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Kaleb Sanders sings about the aftermath of a breakup, cycling through self-blame, anger, and OCD-driven indecision. The repeating refrain "it's not you, it's me" captures his pattern of taking responsibility while trapped in self-destructive thoughts he can't escape.

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I feel alone, out of place and out of hope. The days go by, I'm frozen in time. I act like I don't know why. 'Cause I'd rather be crazy than give you the credit. You know I hate me, you know I'm restless and lonely and late for my job. I wish I could say I don't waste second thoughts on you. 'Cause I'd rather be angry than so optimistic. Hanging on maybes and broken decisions and blaming my OCD. Whatever it takes to believe it's not you, it's me. I try to be my worst enemy so I can say it's not your memory is killing me. I'd rather be crazy than give you the credit. You know You know why I hate me. You know why I'm restless and lonely and late for my job. I wish I could say I don't waste second thoughts on you. 'Cause I'd rather be angry than so optimistic. Hanging on maybes and broken decisions and blaming my OCD. Whatever it takes to believe it's not you, it's me. It's not you, it's me. I'd rather be crazy than give you the credit. You know I hate me. You know I'm restless and lonely and late for my job. I wish I could say I don't waste second thoughts on you. 'Cause I'd rather be angry than so optimistic. Hanging on maybes and broken decisions and blaming my OCD. Whatever it takes to believe it's not you, it's me. Hey. Hi.