Developing Leaders from Within: From Great Employees to Great Leaders | Mike Michalowicz

All right, so today we have the opportunity to hear from somebody where I believe most of you guys have read at least one, if not two or three of his seven or eight books. The books are over there, so we encourage everybody to grab a copy. We were fortunate enough to get 500 editions of all the different books he has produced. His name is Michael. I knew I was going to do this. They even broke it out for me. Michalowitz, author of Profit First, Clockwork Pumpkin Plan, and his newest book, All How Great Leaders Build Unstoppable Teams. He's founded four multimillion dollar businesses, having sold and operated the others. He's a former business columnist for the Wall Street Journal and business makeover specialist on MSNBC Today. Mike and his organization, Prosper Group, is actively investing in and turning around distressed companies. We don't fall in that category. So, quick caveat there. He travels the globe speaking with entrepreneurs and is here today to share the best of what he has learned. So, please, I will turn it right over to you.

Thanks, Mike. Appreciate it. Thank you. So I'm just going to put the notes here, if it's cool. So I was talking with Samantha and Sherry and my speaking coach, who here is from New Jersey, just raise your hand. Okay. So I'm like, you got to start off with something that's relatable when you come to a presentation. So I'm from New Jersey, too. I'm from North Jersey. So I was like, let's talk about Taylor Ham, egg and cheese. Right? Thank you for calling me out right away because Sherry's like, and this is not HR protocol. She's like, you idiot. It's pork roll, egg and cheese down here. So I learned something about Jersey. Both of you are like, that's right. Damn straight. Yes, I'm an author today, but an entrepreneur my entire life. And one of the companies I owned was in computer crime investigation. You're probably familiar, or maybe you've heard of the Enron trial. At one point, my company was the lead investigator in the Enron trial right here at White House Station, New Jersey. We were right north of here. And we were not contacted by the prosecution because that was the FBI, the CIA, the ATF were all involved in prosecuting this case. We were the defense team. So if you remember the names Kenneth Lay or Andrew Fastow, if they ring a bell, those were our clients. And the evidence is no longer sequestered. This is a case that happened in 2003, so it goes way back now. But if you're curious about the case I can openly talk about it. I will tell you this. They were guilty. They were very. And I was their defense. Thank you very much. And we were growing our company. I sat in my office similar to. I was checking out Mike's office up there. Very similar. I had an office that kind of overlooked our facility. But we were small. We had. We had 30 employees at the time. And I was sitting in my office for a full day running the numbers, running the calculations, said, oh, my gosh. If we simply do X, Y and Z, this is the year we as a corporation are going to achieve $10 million in revenue and take down our biggest competitor. It was a company named krul. So I called a team huddle. I saw your huddle room. Sherry took me for a nice tour around your facility, which is. This is truly amazing, this facility. I'm jelly, a little bit jelly. And I called my team together in our huddle room. And before calling people in, I wrote on a sticky note, very similar to this $10 million in big bubble letters, because that was going to be our goal for this quarter. Only three years into business bootstrapping. We didn't have any venture capital, no funding, no angel funds. I wrote on the board. I called the team together, and before they came in, I covered it up with another piece of paper so with great flair, I could reveal the numbers that we were going to hit. I also, as a safety measure, queued up the rock anthem of the century that gets a team jazz back in 2003. It's called eye the Tiger by. It's the Rocky theme. If you ever seen the movie Rocky. When he runs up the steps, that's it. I called the team, and together there's 30 folks gathered around. I had Patty, my assistant, cue up the cassette player and starts playing. The beat goes, tick a dicka dicka dicka da da da da da da da. It's playing, and I call the teams together. And I prepared this rehearsal or rehearsed for speech for endless hours, saying, this is the year we are going to transform the industry. Nothing will be the same with all this great flair. And then I say, and this is the year we're going to achieve $10 million in revenue. And that was the response. Thank you very much. Total silence for my team. And I'm like, what? I said, the corporate vision. And then I said, oh, I didn't do the thing that gets everyone fired up. I didn't do the guru hand prayer head bend and then Jesus move. I'm like, this is the year we achieved $10 million in revenue. Thank you. It was basically that too. One person laughed. One person's like, this guy's insane. And everyone else was silent. And I said, what's going on? I just gave you the corporate goal. My team shuffled back to do their jobs. Patty, my colleague, my assistant came up to me and said something that profoundly changed me and what I want to share with you today that maybe will give you insights, because everyone here is a leader. You may be the leader of your role. You may have a team that you're supporting. You may be leading your family. You are a leader. And Patty says, mike, you're setting the corporate vision. But what about our vision? She goes, when we achieve that number, you get the bigger house, you get the new car. But why should we care? Everyone here has their own vision. And that's when I had for me the most profound realization of my life. As most corporations set a corporate vision, most leaders set a corporate target, a corporate goal. Great leaders set a collective goal. What is everyone looking to achieve? I guess the best way to explain it is how I was running my business, was putting a big X on the map. This is where we're going. If we can do this and that, we will achieve $10 million in revenue. And that's what most leaders do. And what I want to invite you to consider is here's what the greatest leaders do. We set a collective vision that includes everything. Fast forward. I do own a company now, also small. There's 25 of us there. We do training on leadership, and we do other training in the business space. And what I know is while I have set goals for our organization, that satisfies my big fat ego, to be honest. My colleague Amy wants to be cancer free for the seventh year in a row. My colleague Aaron would like to buy a new house. Kelsey's looking to learn Spanish. Jake is looking to make a job transition. And the dreams and visions go on and on for everyone. What we've come to realize, what I've come to realize is great leaders don't say, this is where the corporation is heading and setting an X on the map for us to move toward. Instead, we lock arms together and say, how do we achieve everyone's personal vision on our path together? How do I ensure everyone achieves what they're looking to do? Think about your own life. You're here to do your job, to support a vision you have for your life. And the vision is a mix of many things. We have to be aware that we're here all here on the human journey together. And great leaders recognize that. There's a story of two museums that I thought you might find interesting. This happened in 2000, right before the COVID pandemic. So maybe it was 1990, not 2000. I'm sorry, 2020. Right before the COVID pandemic. There was another one back in 2000. A lot of people don't know about that one. That's a little surprise workshop on that one this afternoon in 2020 with the COVID pandemic. Right before that, there was two museums that launched a significant campaign to promote the artwork. But one had an absolute failure and collapse, and another one had an extraordinary success. It was so interesting because it boiled down to the leadership. The first museum was a museum in Russia, in Yuksteckenberg. The art museum had hired a guard to guard what they consider one of the most famous pieces in Russia, which is called three Figures. It's the Mona Lisa, if you will, for Russia. And I'm going to do a really horrible sketch. But it's three faceless figures standing. It looks roughly like that. They hired a guard, Alexander Vasilev. And they said to Alexander, here is your job responsibilities. Your job is to stand in front of this art to ensure that no one touches it. It's worth millions. You are not to look at it. You're not to engage with it. You are to protect it. Stay standing there for actually a long shift. It was a 12 hour shift, but for 12 hours. Do not move. There's another museum actually not too far from here, the Baltimore Museum of Art, who tried a different approach. They also had a collection of extraordinary art. One piece, famously, is called the Medusa. It was a door knocker, but in the shape of Medusa's head. And what the curators did at this museum was different than what happened in Russia. The curators walked around the museum and interviewed the guards and said, hey, tell me about what you do all day. One particular guard, his name was Michael Jones, said, well, I make sure that no one damages this piece of art, the Medusa door knocker, which was back from the 1500s as an old piece. And he said, what's so interesting is, honestly, my job really is I'm a glorified bathroom attendant, because people just ask me all the time, where's the bathroom? He goes by. Then I also noticed what people talk about when it comes to Medusa. Some people say she was a victim and other people say she was a villain. The perspectives are profoundly different. He said, I know more about this Art and what people feel about this art than anyone else in this entire museum. I know what our customers, our guests, want. The curator at the Baltimore Museum of Art said, hey, Michael Jones, would you want to try to be a curator? Would you want to help us determine what art we should have? The lesson you're about to discover is this. When we are forced to comply, it's human nature that we seek to defy, may have something to remember or even write down. When forced to comply, we seek to defy. When you're given an exact set of rules and there's a punitive consequence if you fail to do it, it's human nature to get elbow room and get back. But when we are nourished, we flourish like what they did with Michael Jones. So back to the Rush Museum. One day after Alexander Vasilyev was hired, less than 12 hours later, he was into the night shift. They returned the curators and found that someone mysteriously had drawn eyes on the artwork with a scripto. Someone took a three million dollar piece of art and drew eyes on it to improve it. And they caught the person. It was Alexander Vasiliev, the guard himself. And he said, I thought it would be better. When forced to comply, we seek to defy. Alexander Vasiliev, by pure coincidence, fell out of his 13 story apartment window, passed away the next day. That's actually a lie. That's a total dark humor. That was a lie. That's a lie. That's dark humor is inappropriate. He was poisoned to death. Okay, I'm kidding, I'm kidding, I'm kidding. Okay, here's what the Baltimore Museum did. The Baltimore Museum said to Michael Jones, hey, are there other guards that would be interested perhaps in also being curators? They recruited 17 guards who to become the curators at the Baltimore Museum of Art. They called it curating the art. It went on to be the most successful campaign they have ever done at the Baltimore Museum. More donations, more visitors, more guests. Here's the most powerful part of the story. The retention, those individuals, guards, the retention. If you've ever done guard work, it's not easy. It's a lot of time on your feet. It can be monotonous and there can be some hairy situations. So the turnover is pretty big. The average guard lasts about two years and the pay ain't so great. These guards have stayed ever since. The retention has skyrocketed. Of the 17 people that went through the experience, 15 are still guards for the Baltimore Museum because they're able to express themselves, they're able to participate, they have ownership in the organization. And yes, two of the guards have left to become professional curators at different museums. When you elevate people, when you allow people to express their full potential, we value the organization that supports it. Oh, my gosh, do we run with it. There was a book, and thank you for getting so many copies of the book. When I write a book, I hope it delivers values and food for thought. And hopefully this presentation, too, is a couple seeds you can just take away. But I also hope it entertains you. I don't want to be this litany of just idea after idea without some entertainment. So thank you for the folks who've read the books, and I hope you got some joy out of the experience. There's another book that perhaps you want to read called Extreme Ownership. It's as interesting by two guys that are Navy SEALs and they explain what it's like to be all in on something. And specifically, they talk about these things called the boat races. Now, I don't know if you've ever seen a Navy SEAL in the real world. They're pretty insane. Many of them go, there's a station right outside San Diego on an island called Coronado. Has anyone here ever been to Coronado? Ever been to Coronado? Okay, so you've probably seen the Navy seals and these helicopters coming in. And what's interesting about these Navy SEALs is one of the tests you do is called the boat races. They have these heavy rubber boats that are up on the beach, and five to 10 soldiers will grab the boats as teams. There's probably 10 teams. They carry these ridiculously heavy boats down to the water. They race out into the ocean, waves, around a buoy and back, and whoever comes back first wins. It is exhausting to do it one time, and they do it 20 times in a row. It's relentless. But what was happening during this is the leadership was observing the boats, and they noticed that one boat won over and over again, and one boat consistently was always coming in dead last. What they decided to do was a profound insight into leadership and what we do. They took the leader of the winning boat off that boat and put him on the boat that was consistently losing and vice versa. And maybe this will surprise you, maybe it wouldn't. The next race, the winning boat won again. The losing boat lost, even though it had the new leader. But the next race, it started to switch. Within three races, the former losing boat, with the exact same nine other soldiers, was winning every single race. So the way we bring ourselves to a situation the way we lead a situation does determine the outcome. In fact, it's not necessarily the quality of the team, meaning the individual skills and talents, as much as the harmony of. Of the team. Anyone see that movie recently called the Boys in the Boat? Any boys in the boat see that movie. Okay, if you haven't seen it, it's a fascinating movie because it's about the 1936 Olympics. And in 1936, you may not know this, but it was in Germany, in Berlin specifically. This was under the Hitler regime. And Hitler was about to demonstrate the superiority of Germany. There's one particular race which was the boat race. This is a rowing race. And, and the Germans and the Italians were the dominant teams. These were the odonases. These people were literally picked, primed, groomed, prepared from kindergarten on to be rowers. That's what you're going to do for your career. The American team wasn't so prepared. In fact, every single person that competed had never rown before college. They just assembled a team from Washington University out in Washington State. They just assembled a team of people had never roamed before. Most of this team had roamed for about. Together rowed for maybe two or three years. The person with the most experience had four and a half years of experience rowing. And now they're in the Olympics, this hodgepodge team. Maybe you won't be surprised, the American team took the gold. But the question is how? If you watch the movie, you see Odonis and all his brothers, that's the European teams, and then you see these lanky, scrawny Americans win. How could that be? They weren't trained, they had inferior strength, and yet they won because they achieved a thing called swing state. There's this interesting phenomena in rowing that when all the paddles move simultaneously at the perfect time, there's an exponential amplitude of strength and they were able to swing. It was the harmony of the team that brought about the greatest performance. That's what I want us to consider. I know you're doing some workshops after. This is amplifying the harmony, even by micro moments. I mean, I had an opportunity to tour around here. I met with some of you personally. Interestingly, when I walked by the HR department. I don't know if the HR department's here. That was the biggest smile. There they are. Biggest smiles. I went into some groups. The finance department said no. When I walked in, I said, hey. And they're like, no money. No. Okay. The HR department said, hey. Hey. Welcome. The more harmony a team has, the greater the Amplitude of impact. That's what I want us to explore together. We're going to explore a model. It's. And this is where I want you to take the little tidbits and takeaways from that I call faso or it kind of rhymes with lasso. That's an S. And these are the elements it stands for. F stands for fit, A stands for ability, S stands for safety, and O stands for ownership. And I want to see if we can deploy these elements together. So first, let's dig into fit. The traditional structure for an organization is the classic pyramid structure. As I built my companies, I also invest in organizations. This is the most common structure. Now up top, you have the owner. When I owned businesses, I just put the word me here. Admittedly, I'd have a long line, you know, like a really long line, like really long. And then I'd have my colleagues here. This is my ego talking. And this is the traditional structure of an organization. It's called the pyramid structure. The challenge of a pyramid structure is it's built upon titles. You have me here. I have my, you know, the C suite, CFO, CMO, C, you know, C3PO. I don't know. You have all the. That's a Star wars joke for the one Star wars fan. C3PO and so forth. You have this structure. This necessitates a concept called matching talent to titles. I remember in my forensics organization I was sharing with you, I was looking at this chart and I hired a woman. Her name was Petra. She served a title called receptionist. This was back in 2003 when there was a lot of walk in customers still answering the phone. I noticed you guys don't even have phones here, right? I mean, phones don't even exist anymore. But back then it's what it was. But the title of receptionist had a few things. You had to greet walk in customers, answer the phones when there was dead time, invoicing, data entry, and we had a list of the 10 things she needs. We had a sales role over here and there was a guy, Paul, who was leading this for us. So here's Petra and here's Paul. Paul's job was to close sales, to be the deal closer, and also to be a farmer, maintain the relationships, build the rapport, and so forth. Petra was amazing at building relationships, at handling these phone calls, addressing customers concerns when there was a heated moment. She could help them navigate it. She was admittedly not so good at the data entry and the detail components. So in my traditional mindset, the pyramid structure says when the talent doesn't match the title, you have someone that's unfit for the organization. Unfortunately, she's got to go and maybe she can find a better suited opportunity for her elsewhere. I looked at Paul. Paul was a great closer. He loved to crunch the numbers and know exactly when one of our clients needed to take action. He was a data analyzer and that's why he closed so well. He was admittedly not that good at farming and building relationships. He was a little bit on the spectrum and that was a challenge for him was to maintain rapport. So Paul was not a fit for the organization. And in a talent to title scenario, I should have freed him up. But what we did was we discovered a better model, the modern model. And as I was talking to your team here, it sounds like you guys are deploying this. Well, what it is is a web like structure instead of a monolithic pyramid. What we started doing is saying, what's a person's list of individual talents, all the abilities they have, and what are all the individual tasks we have within our organization that need to be done? So here's talents and here's tasks and so forth. What I did was I said, listen, Petra is amazing at relationship building. Where do we have needs in our organization for relationship building? Well, Petra could answer phones, greet walking customers, build relationships with existing prospects, do those farming calls and meetings. Paul here was great at closing deals. He could crunch the numbers. He was great at the analytics, but he wasn't necessarily talented at the relationship building. And what you see, if we build this out, it starts building a web like structure. Here's a lesson I want you guys to take home with me. This is the first big tidbit. Don't match talent to title, match talent to task. That's what the great organizations do. We become much more morphic, less siloed. The challenge of titles too is titles can build that silo. It's inherent to the word title. You probably know this, but if you look at the word title, inherent to the word title is end titled. Meaning once we have a title, we say, this is my domain and I'll never leave it. Morphic organizations start blurring titles. I know they're necessary. As we grow, we start blurring titles and we start talking about roles and responsibilities and capabilities. In my office, you go around, we have a much smaller building, but we have similar steps to this. Outside of everyone's office is we call it a palm or a personal operating manual. Ever buying electronics, you buy an Apple, iPhone or something like that comes With a little manual in the very first page is the Quick Start. Well, we do the same thing for all of our colleagues. You walk around our office and you'll see Kelsey, for example, the way she likes to communicate, what her strengths are, the stuff she likes to avoid, how she receives appreciation. Some people like verbal appreciation. Other people like public recognition. Other people don't like that. Some people like rewards. Like, hey, take some time off as a result of this great accomplishment. And every person has a personal operating manual. It's the Quick Start guide for people. And now it starts blurring the lines of tile to title and starts achieving talent to task. That's the first thing I want to talk about when it comes to fit. Let me see if I will skip. Okay, so the next thing I want to talk about is the Container Store. Has anyone ever heard of the Container Store here? Okay, okay. It was founded by a guy named. It was a couple founders, but Kip Tindall. If you don't know what the Container Store does, this is shocking. They sell containers. They sell live containers. Now here's the absurdity of this. The Container Store sells containers just like Walmart does and other big box retailers. Now, I don't know if you've ever shopped at a Walmart. Has anyone ever shopped at a Walmart? Okay, everyone. I just want everyone to know. Everyone just did alligator claws. No one's like, I'm a Walmart shopper. It was like this. I'm a Walmart shopper. I get it, I get it. Has anyone shopped at a Container Store here? Ok, just thumbs up or thumbs down. Experience better or worse than Walmart? Would you say better? Better, Better. Extraordinary. Great. Okay, this was good for you. Now, perhaps this is what you experienced when you went to the Container Store. The associates there are super engaged. They know everything about containers. You come in with your problem like, hey, I have a closet full of junk. They're like, this is my problem now. I am on this. And they're assembling and building and stuff. Go to a Walmart and save a problem with your closet. They'll be like, aisle 75, I think, good luck. So the question that comes to me is how come the Container Store, a smaller dynamic organization just like your. How do they dominate when Walmart struggles in the customer experience component, even though they're in a similar space? Well, I was meeting with Kip Tindall and he shared this formula that blew my mind. This was ironically, it was literally on a cocktail napkin. We met after an event and we Were not drinking. We were eating food, but there was a cocktail napkin there. And he writes down this formula. 1A equals 3B. 1B equals 3C. What he said is 1A player. Now, I want to say something about A players. I believe every single human being on this planet is an A player. Every single person in this room is an A player. That's not a question. And A players. He defines it as someone's best potential. Their talents are matched up to what they're doing. Talent to task. When we can fully express ourselves, we're an A player. He says, One A player performs at the level of 3B players. An A player is someone who sees the job. I'm writing this small, but job equals their identity. This job is who I am. I am this job. We are one and the same. My job represents who I am as a human being. Three B players, if you will, is someone who sees the job a responsibility. I have an expectation of myself to perform at a certain level. I need to do this. But this is not who I am. I'm disconnected from it. So an A player is someone who's all in. And if you go to the Container Store, these people are all in. A B player is maybe someone. Maybe someone that's working at Walmart. A C player is where a job is a necessity. Necessity. It's super small here, and I'm putting the word evil above it. A C player is like, I don't want this work. I have to have this work. It's an evil necessity by default. The business I'm working for is therefore the evil source. C also can be the word cancerous. And sometimes I don't think it's happening in our organization here, but some organizations we go into. There's a cancerous component, says, I do this and I hate it. And therefore I'm going to bring that along to my colleagues. The B players are people who are doing this because it's their responsibility. But the job is the job. And the A players are someone who sees it as their identity. Kip Tindall says, oh, I'll tell you the secret to what we do and why the Container Store crushes Walmart. He goes, we just hire A players. I'm like, okay, that's easy. But how do you just do that? He says, it's all in the recruiting. Now, realize one A player, one person that sees the job as our identity performs a level of three people that see the job as responsibility. And three times three is nine people that see the job as a necessity. He Goes, walmart needs to hire nine people to get the job done. That we do with one person. And here's how we do it. He said, we look for people who are looking to express a talent and not looking for a job. People are looking for a job, are looking for responsibility. People who are looking to express a talent are expressing identity. He goes, we go into retirement communities, and we will go to people who want to be socialized more, they want to connect with the community more, and will say, hey, you ever think about working in an environment where you can connect with more community, meet your neighbors? That's what we have available here at the Container Store. And so when you went there, you may saw some retirees, they'll go to aspiring actors, thespians and say, hey, why don't you play your character at the Container Store? You can learn to express yourself. So what they're doing is they're identifying where people's talents are and allowing the platform to be an expression of it. That's how you get top talent. I called the University of Chicago's medical department. Oh, and by the way, I know there's a handout with some notes. I'll give you all the answers at the end because they're all embedded here. I just don't want to disrupt what we got to accomplish. So just so you know, I'm not ignoring that. Just something we'll talk about. So I called the University of Chicago. I interviewed a woman named Jewel Kucera. And what Jewel did had a profound impact on the University of Chicago. And this was back in about 2010, is around when they did this. The University of Chicago has a medical department, a hospital, and it's staffed by all these individuals, maybe people just like you and I. And what the union noticed is that they didn't have a community of employees that was representative of the community in that area. It wasn't diverse. And they went to the head of the HR department and said, we want to change this up. And she responded and said, I understand that maybe it's not representative of our community, but these are the best candidates. I follow the interviewing process, and intuitively I know when someone's a great fit or not. They said, good, we'd like to try something different, though. And she said, okay, what do you want to try? And that's where Jewel Kucera came in. She said, what we're going to do is run skills assessments. So when someone is interested in a job position, before we make a decision based upon interviewing, we're going to actually have people Experience the job. So 50 candidates were coming in for a position as an administrative clerk to check people in. They went through the traditional interviewing process with the HR director. And she made her list, but kept it private and said, here's the number one candidate by far who crushed in interviews and the perfect fit for organization down to the 50th person who was not qualified, according to her. They then went through these skills workshops. In the skills workshops, the same 50 candidates went to a room that this size and they experience what it would be like checking someone in. They experienced what it would be like checking someone's pulse and some of these basic things that they'll be responsible to do. Well, the first station was the check in. Jule herself decided to man that station. And what she did there is she emulated having cerebral palsy. Now, her roommate at the time had cerebral palsy, so she was very familiar with it. Fine motor skills are difficult. Taking out your license, out of your purse or wallet would take a good minute. So that's what she emulated because that's a common scenario in these hospitals. And so the candidate sits down, they start the check in process, and then she would take about a minute to get the license out. Some candidates would say, please take all the time necessary. Other candidates said, hey, I'm here to help you out any way I can. And one candidate said, just give me the damn card, you're taking too long, and ripped out her hand. Guess who they decided not to hire the Hand Ripperer, but guess who was the number one interviewer by a long shot. Jack the Hand Ripper. She was the number one candidate because she had a confident personality. She. She spoke her mind. She was strong. She knew where the green light was on the traffic light. Question. She knew this stuff, but she wasn't demonstrating the skill. So the number one way, as we consider teams, you're working with, as you assemble teams here and go, is what skills should be tested to see if someone's a fit. But I want to share something that I think will be the profound insight and something I encourage you to consider talking about later. You know there's another way to find the best talent or for you to discover where your best talent is. It's always through education. I don't know outside of here what your hobbies are, what you enjoy doing, but maybe someone here likes music and playing music. Maybe someone likes art and someone likes hiking and activities like this. Whatever your interests are, your true interests are. I bet you know a lot about it. I bet you invest Time in learning more about it, watching YouTube videos or whatever it may be, to get steeped into what you love. That's human nature, and that is the essence of what we gotta learn here, is that the best talent, meaning the people who have the most interest in something always seek to learn more. The honey for the bees here is education. I play guitar marginally, but I do play guitar. So I will do anything to learn more about the guitar and study it. So if you put a YouTube video out, I will watch it. That is the honey for this beat. True story. I just gotta share this. I feel like we're family already. Last week I did a performance in New Orleans. Now, I did the performance not just to an open venue, our company. We had our employees and our immediate associates. So about 100 people were there, and me and some other folks were playing music. The bartender was an open space, so There was about 200 people in the room. The bartender says to one of our guests, doesn't know it's a guest. He goes, this band sucks. And when I heard that, I instantly said, we're a band. This is amazing. The framing of what we hear is very important. So this is kind of funny. I just wanted to share that because we're family now. So apparently I have a band. But imagine you and I decided to start a band, and clearly from my experience, we need a better guitarist than me. So imagine now I'm 50 years old, so perhaps you recognize this name, but maybe you don't know the music so well, but there was a great rock band in the 80s that if you didn't listen to Van Halen, my gosh, that's who you need to listen to. The greatest guitarist, at least in the 80s, arguably in the rock genre, was Eddie Van Halen. So imagine you and I decided to do this 80s retro band together, and we're like, we want the best guitarist. And assuming Eddie Van Halen's still alive, we'd like, Eddie's our guy. And we call Eddie Vanillen and say, hey, dude, we started a band. Kind of suck right now, but we're looking to get better. Do you want in? What would Eddie say? Are you kidding? I already got a band. I'm making gamillions of dollars. I'm kind of taken care of. Good luck. So the question here is, how do you get the Eddie Van Halen's the rock stars of the industry, if they're already employed? And it's by discovering that people who are the rock stars always seek to gain knowledge. Where did I Put. I put the pens here. I want to show you. This is what I want you to take home and consider in the workshop together. Do you know our abilities reveal itself in three layers? Interestingly, this follows a concept called the Pareto principle or the 8020 rule. Maybe you've heard of it before. This is the 80%. What most organizations consider when changing teams. I know you do a lot of hiring within here. What most teams consider is what. What is people's experiential talent? What you've done in the past, Is it indicative of the future indicated on your resume? What's the innate talent? Myers Briggs Enneagram Disc predictive index. There's all these tools out there. This is how are you internally wired to perform? But the greatest ability that all of humanity has, that all of us have, is potential. And yet it's the least analyzed component. So what I want us to start doing in our workshops today is talk about how do we discover each other's potential in this organization? And I'll tell you how you do it through learning. If we called Eddie Van Halen when he was 12 years old, that's when Eddie Van Halen first became interested in guitar. If we called anyone that was between 10 and 15, girls and boys, if you're interested in learning thrashing guitar, or we're going to put on an educational workshop, he may have showed up. And our job then is to educate all of the students and look for the three elements of A players. It always starts off with the stage of curiosity. I toy bastardized. I wrote a brief version, but it says curiosity. Curiosity then goes to desire and ultimately it goes to thirst. I was talking with Mike before this. Here's a person you can tell steeped in thirst, Curiosity is showing up. So if I put on a guitar workshop, anyone here not interested in guitar won't even show. Half the vetting is done. It's an educational event. Then when we put on the educational event, we see who are the people that are showing the most desire. I want to learn more. I want to. I have a lot of questions. And then thirst is who's the people who can't quit this thing? If we ran a guitar workshop, anyone interested in playing guitar would show up. Some people would have a desire and a few people, Eddie, would reveal thirst. And our job is to seek out the desire and thirst to people because that's the A players, and then insert them into the tasks that match that talent. Now, I know this sounds theoretical, so let me give you some practical applications. I played lacrosse Back in high school, you may know the town Boonton. Anyone know Boonton? Okay, so I'm from Boonton, New Jersey. I went to Boonton High School. And we do swallow the N. It's not Boonton, it's Boonton. I played lacrosse. I was a marginal to poor athlete, admittedly, but there was a camp in New York State called Hobart. They invited students to go up there, and I think my parents wanted me to get out of the house, like, Mike, you should go and learn lacrosse. I go up there. There's 500 students. What they're doing. As camp is going on, they start tapping certain athletes on the shoulder, saying, wow, you're really talented and skilled at this. We'd like to bring you to a new field and practice more with these other athletes. And they tap some of those on the shoulder. And we'd like to move you to a new field and demonstrate your skills and learn more. Everyone was learning skills, and by the end of the five day camp, three players were invited to play for Hobart, an elite school. I was not one of them, but there was three players picked. Here's the interesting thing. Shockingly, I played collegiate lacrosse down in Virginia, and I would attribute it to Hobart because I learned there. What's so interesting about these educational things is everyone gets elevated, but you also get to identify who are the best talent for your needs. And where is your best talent? Has anyone ever here gone to Home Depot to the build a birdhouse workshop? Anyone? Okay. It's a recruiting ground and no one knows it. Have you heard of these? Home Depot ran out, say, hey, come on down to Home Depot. We're going to build a birdhouse, Bring a kid, have fun, have a hot dog. So you go down there. What's Home Depot doing? They're educating you how to build birdhouses. Why? Because they want to ingratiate you with the store. They want to say, had an amazing experience at Home Depot. I love this place. I'm going to buy all my supplies here. But here's what people don't know. It's their number one recruiting ground. There's employees teaching how to build a birdhouse. You're sitting there and they're looking for the guests, the aunts and uncles, the parents that show up, that are curious, and then the ones that ask the most questions and how do you do this? That help the other parents and people there and have the thirst. And they go at the end of that workshop and tap you on the shoulder and say, hey, you show all the skills and abilities of someone that would be great here at Home Depot. Have you ever considered we'd love to give you an application. It's a recruiting ground. The best recruiting of talent is to not recruit them in the first place. It's simply to educate. Domino's Pizza during the COVID pandemic ran a famous campaign in recruiting was their best recruiting of all time. They had Pizza Hero. I don't know if anyone did Pizza Hero. As an apple, you could make your own pizza. You could make a pepperoni pizza that looked like a smiley face. You could have miracle. What they did with the app is you could make your pizza your smiley face pizza push create and the chefs at the Domino's pizza store would then make your pizza exactly your way and you could pick it up. But what they were doing was they were monitoring how much time people spent assembling pizzas. And there were some weirdos who spent a lot of time making really wild pizzas. Some people spent hours on the app designing pizzas, peace signs, swirlies. 500 people were invited to make their pizza themselves at the Domino's store. You spend so much time on the app, would you ever want to make this on your own? They recruited over 250 chefs. Remember, great talent is attracted to great learning. What are the learning workshops that we could put on here that could attract the people who are curious about that and it becomes this self vetting process. Okay, we talked about where's my model here? We talked about fit tasks, to talent, so forth. We now talked about ability. We want to explore potential. Now we're going to move on to safety. We all need a safe environment to work on. I don't know if you know the organization called osha, it's about occupational safety. Originally designed for manufacturing. It really doesn't apply to a scenario like here. But safety matters. But there's three levels of safety that I want us to explore together. Back in 1910, there was a situation that went down. World War I was happening and there was an organization called the Radium Company that was founded who made watches. And they used a material called radium. It's radioactive material. And they put dots on a watch. If you ever look at an old fashioned watch, especially military watches, they glow in the dark because that's the nature of radium. And In World War I, soldiers needed this stuff. Well, they had a manufacturing plant and they hired. It was mostly actually all female workers to work the manufacturing plant. As the males were out to do soldier work to fight, the women were directed to dip a paintbrush in Radium, radioactive material. Drop it on the 12 o' clock spot on the watch, sharpen the brush with their lips, dip it in the radioactive material, drop the next one at the three o' clock and repeat that process over and over again. They were swallowing radioactive material. They became known as the Ghost Girls. Maybe you want to Google it, maybe don't. Because the consequences were horrific. Cancer, tumors, it destroys women. They were called the Ghost Girls because they literally started glowing themselves, their skin. When they took X rays, their teeth were glowing. It effectively killed or destroyed all of them. OSHA was founded because of what those women went through in safety. Now, I thought, I work with organizations. Is safety even a concern anymore? Like physical safety? We have to worry about that. Yeah, we do. My own company, we ran a survey and said, anonymous, how physically safe do you feel? And is there any concerns that we should be aware of? We have outside our building, a rear entrance that goes down as an alleyway to the parking lot behind our building. It's not illuminated. My colleague said, I feel really frightened walking down a pitch black alley at night. And, you know, in the winter, sun sets here around five, six o' clock in the evening. My colleagues at lunchtime are like, oh my gosh, I have to leave the office tonight. I don't want to go down that dark alley. All we have to do is install lighting there and resolve that. So we should maybe ask ourselves, what concerns do we have that could be so simply resolved and can mitigate that risk? Because if we don't feel physically safe, you can't perform. But the other form of safety is relational safety. How comfortable am I with my colleagues? There's something you can do from day one for any new colleagues that come on board here. Maybe you can set up and brainstorm about ways you can do it with your team. Now an organization, I found through surveys and studies that the number one experience for most new colleagues that we'll bring on board here or anywhere, day one is usually paperwork, tons of paperwork. Maybe you kind of sit in your corner and you gotta figure out the social network and maybe someone invites you out to lunch, but usually you better brown bag it because you're kind of on your own. That's not saying what happens here, but that's what happens at most corporations. You know the number one question, I know you were asked this question too. After your first day of working here, were you asked by someone? A parent, a loved one, a spouse, a friend? Did they ask you how was your first day? Right. Yeah. That's what you were Asked. You know, the number one question when someone starts a position that they will be asked within 24 hours was, how was your first day? And for most people, it's, like, not so good. I was kind of ignored. I did a lot of paperwork. I got lost in the parking lot. So how do we resolve this? I want to give you one seed of an idea, because this is something we can brainstorm about because your company is growing rapidly, and when it comes to the integration, the relationships are everything. When someone joins our company. We just hired Cordae two years ago. This is a good example. There's a welcome basket. And we have some people that work purely virtually. We're hybrid. Some people that come in, some people that do both. You guys, I think, do both. When Cordae came in, there was a welcome basket. Now, here's what we do with the welcome basket. It's not like, oh, here's our company logo stuff. Here's the mug logo. We got personalized stuff. The mug says best employee. Actually says, best colleague ever. Cordae. Her name's on there. It's like some cool stuff personalized to her. We know she likes incense. She said she's really into incense. So we had some incense for her. Say, hey, here's some cool stuff we found. We thought we'd like it. We had a personal gift for her. We also had a business card for her. No one uses business cards anymore. Like, what are they good for? I'll tell you one thing. When I have a business card, it shows significance that I'm important to the organization. So we had a couple hundred cards printed up for her. But one card says, Corday has her information on there. And then every one of our employees wrote on a frame around her card. So it's pretty big. Welcome to the team. We're proud to have you. And she has that picture pinned up. But that's not even the impressive thing. During the interview process, we said, hey, there's probably someone back home that's going to ask you, how's your first day? This is when we're interviewing her. Is there someone that's helping you make this decision? She said, yeah, Brian, my husband, is helping me as I consider this position. We said, well, tell us a little bit about Brian. Whatever you want to share. Oh, Brian likes bourbons. He likes to collect. He's a collector of bourbon. Great. Make a note on the side. Continue our process of interviewing, but also skills assessments. All the stuff I told you about when Corday arrived. The basket's there. Card is there, but also There's a package gift. It's a box and there's a card on it. And it says, to Brian, when Corday got that's her first day, she went home. We said, please bring that to Brian. She went home. And Brian asked the question we know that's going to be asked, how was your first day? She said, it was really good, didn't have to do paperwork. We actually do an icebreaker. The team comes, the entire company comes together. There's a walk in celebration. There's all this stuff. Most people are celebrated when they retire. We celebrate when you're hired. So there's a celebration, all this stuff. Then you work with your team. There's ice breaking for an hour. There's going out to lunch together. We want to show the company and the colleague that we're not panicked to produce. We are excited to welcome you. We'll get to the work in due time. But it's most important that you're part of the team. So she goes home, she goes, first day was different than anything I ever experienced. It was pretty great. He goes, that's amazing. And she goes, and here's the weirdest thing. Brian, you got a gift. He's like, I got a gift. He opens the letter, it says, dear Brian, we know the decision to work for a company is a significant life decision. We are honored that you supported Corday in making this decision to work with us. Thank you so much. We hope you enjoy this bourbon we found. And he opens up and there's this bourbon that we found, hopefully he never had before to add to his collection. And that wasn't even the miracle. It happened at 4am the next morning. Because Cordae told us the next morning at 4am Brian is shaking her bed and he goes, wake up. You work for the best company ever. Go, go produce for them. The number one determinant of how happy we are at work is the person at home that has our ear. And many corporations don't think about them. It's about us. It's about us. And harmony here is critical. But if we don't win over the person at home, if they're not part of the team, the biggest cheerleader is now our biggest detriment. Most companies like, oh, that company. Man, that really sounds like a tough job. They stink. I hope you're getting every dollar out of them. That's what's usually going at home. We flip it and you have the opportunity too. The relationships matter here and they matter there. And we're not thinking about that last Thing I want to talk about is financial safety. This is part of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. We won't explain it. I do talk about in my books, but Maslow studies human biology, human needs, and determined that if we don't have financial security, if anyone here has debt or experienced debt, it puts a big hamper on how we go about the day. It's constant worry. One thing that we can do is introduce to a degree open books. The more we communicate about financials, the better our organization. We've gone pure open books. Everyone knows everything except for salaries. We do respect that confidence. So all salaries, including my own, are buried into one number. If anyone wanted to spend a lot of time figuring it out, they probably could, and maybe some people do. But everyone knows what's going on with the business. And here's the power we've discovered with financials is this, that we humans feel more secure when we can forecast what's coming our way, regardless if it's good or bad. I thought I used to have to say, hey, business is great. We're crushing it. Look at the numbers. And when things were tough, just kind of go quiet for a little bit. Now I've discovered, is just share the truth. Because our team can see, okay, we've been up and we've been down and we've been going through it. Last year we had an unexpected, relatively financially devastating event happen to our company. And our team was aware of it, knew how we navigated stuff similar to this in the past and rallied around it. What can we do in our groups, our departments, to simply share where we stand now? The good and the bad. Openness wins. So that's safety. The last thing I want to talk about is ownership. Anyone here ever rent a car? Okay, I rent from Hertz. I think it's actually a perfectly suited name because it hurts. I don't know if you've had a rental experience like this. I rented a car. I get to the Hertz location. You have to go through this crazy line. They check your id. You got to buy this insurance, or otherwise the world's going to collapse and all this nonsense. You go through this checklist of stuff. Then they give you the key, and they say your car is right there in parking spot A1. A1 happens to be at the very end of the line. They do it in reverse order. So you kind of walk out there with your luggage. You get in the car. I then go to the dmz, the demilitarized zone of the rental car agency. There's A gate. There's spikes coming up there. There's a guy there with a gun. He's like, show me your ID one more time. Finally, sirens go off, the gates rise and you're not to pull out in your Prius. And what do I do? I do donuts in the parking lot. To be honest, it's a rental car. And listen, if there is a red light, I am coming skidding in. And if that light turns green, I'm going to see what this Prius can do, baby. I'm going to floor it. I suspect if you've ever rented a car, you probably don't treat it the same way as the car that you own. Is that fair? And that is the concept of ownership. When we own something, when it's mine, I care for it. I tell Mike, I'm about to go down to Chattanooga, Tennessee. My daughter's got a house and my wife and I helped her move in. And I know exactly what I'm doing. We have a pickup truck. After I make this 12 hour drive, at the end, I'm going to pat the dashboard and say, good girl. I know I treat that car with tender love and care because it's mine. But the rental car, oh my God, what I will do to it. I started off by saying, in that museum example we're talking about, wherever it is, in this example, when we're forced to comply, we will seek to defy. It's interesting, the rental car agency says you gotta return a full tank gas or you'll be penalized. Beverly. No dense stings or scratches. You'll be penalized, Beverly. Clean interior. You'll be penalized. So what do we do when we're told what to do and the consequences of failure? Elbow room. Peel out in the parking lot. But with my car, I have what's called psychological ownership. I got to determine where I park it. I got to determine what radio stations I pre program in and what window stickers I got to throw on it. It's interesting that I don't own the rental car. I also don't own own my pickup truck. The bank owns it. I'm making my monthly installments. So legally I don't own it, but my mind does. The final point I wanted you to go home with is the concept of how to invoke ownership. You don't need to own physically, legally, a business, this company, but you can psychologically own your role in this company or even have a sense of ownership of this company. And here's how you do it. First, you need control. Control means that you have some degree of authority of the direction of your path. So what can you do to take more control, to ask for more control? If you run a team to give your team more control. I determine where I park my car, where I want it. It can have a dent or scratch. It's okay with me. I have control. The next thing is the ability to personalize. The more we can make something relatable to us, the more we value it. I don't program the radio stations on my rental car. I don't slap on my bumper sticker on there. But my car, I do. The more you can bring your own personality to something, the more it feels like ownership. And I have intimate knowledge. I don't know if you ever bought a new car or used car for the first time. I'll sit in my driveway for a good two hours going through the manual. What does this button do? What does that. Just for hours, sitting there in the freezing cold in the middle of winter. Rental car. Does it even have a manual? I don't care. Where's the gas pedal? Maybe I'll use the brake. Psychological ownership is where you have control. You get to determine how to some degree of control, some degree of personalization and intimate knowledge. We need to explore that. Do you have that? And if not, talk with your team leader of how to build that and you'll have a greater sense of ownership and more authority. And if you're a team leader, how does your team get more of that to take control and authority? Last thing I wanted to share, because we're at time, is this. It's a personal story, but I think it's going to relate to you and maybe you've gone through this. My father passed away two and a half years ago. I was there when he died. I didn't want to be because admittedly, I was frightened to lose my father. But I was there. And I will tell you, I hope you never have to experience it, but I think we all do. There is nothing for me more honorable than being there with someone for their final breath. I'm also grateful for it because I asked my dad a question I'd never asked him before. I said, hey. Hey, dad. He could barely speak anymore. He had lost his ability to speak. He was immobile. I said, who's been the greatest leader in your life? And he, letter by letter, spells out Helen Fuller. H E L E, N. And I write this down. After my father passed, I did research on Helen Fuller, a person I've never heard of. In my life. Helen Fuller worked for an organization called css. They're out of New York City. It's the Community service center. They work with impoverished communities. My father.