Korina Lymnioudi argues that focusing on your problems drains your energy, trapping you in doubt and fear. Shift to asking "what if" questions about possibilities instead. This raises your energy and opens you to small miracles.
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If you're complaining more than you're talking about your vision, then you're in inertia. Energy goes into those lower frequencies. Doubt, worry, fear. Now you're in that dynamic. But if you start talking about possibility, even if you don't know how to get there, then your energy starts to go up. You know, what if you ask a what if question? What if all my needs were met? What would I be doing in my life? What if everything is really working together for my good? What if all the bad things that have happened in my life are leading me to activating some great potential in my experience? What if God really is on my side? Ask what question and you start to notice little tiny miracles happening in your life. Things start to manifest. You don't know how they got there.