762 The Battle between Confidence and Humility with Brad Lomenick

This is Five Minute Friday. What's up everyone? Welcome to the School of Greatness Podcast. I am very excited about today's guest. His name is Brad Lomenick. He is a strategic advisor and leadership consultant specializing in influence and innovation. He is the author of the Catalyst Leader: 8 Essentials for Becoming a Change Agent and also a brand new book that I'm excited to talk about in Diamond Today, which be humble, stay hungry, and always hustle. Three things that I'm always living by: humility, hunger, and hustle. Can you be confident and humble at the same time?

Yeah, I think the people who are the best leaders are both confident and humble. And, you know, it's the idea of, of appropriate ambition. You know, it's the idea of healthy ambition. It's that posture that says, I realize that I'm really good at what I do, but I also realize that there's a bigger story going on. And I'm not the center of attention. I'm not the center, the point of the story happening. But you never shy away from that sense that you're walking into something with complete confidence. that you're the best at what you do. It's not easy though. We run into leaders all the time who are incredibly humble but do nothing. People are like, oh, I just want to be humble, Brad. Like, well, that's great, but if you're not doing anything, if you're just sitting around going, it's not about me, then that's just as bad in many ways as somebody who is the other side of that.

Yeah, it's interesting. It's like a dance because, you know, I'm talking about this a lot lately because, you know, I had this book come out and people are asking me on my book tour, you know, how are you going to stay humble through all the success you get? And for the years coming, how are you going to stay humble? And I said, listen, for me, it's a dance because I'm, I know that I need to be confident because confidence is what got me here. And I get to continue to be confident in my vision and my dreams and pursue it with an unwavering passion. Otherwise, I'm not going to be able to create something powerful from Just an idea without any evidence of it happening. But I was like, in the results that you're creating and in the journey along the way, I practice a ritual of humility and gratitude every morning, every night. I'm constantly asking people, what are they grateful for? It's on my voicemail. You know, I say, if you want to leave me a message, tell me what you're grateful for because I feel like I need to be in that conversation. Otherwise, I could easily get caught up in the success and the results and people, saying great things about me here and there and be like, yeah, my stuff doesn't stink or whatever. So I think that's why it's important for us to have these rituals and habits in place, wouldn't you agree?

Yeah. And, I mean, it's really easy to be humble when you have nothing to be proud of.

Right.

When you haven't accomplished anything, man, people are really humble. The hard part is when you start to stack up lots of accomplishments and accolades and you know, that's when it's most important to have a system, posture, accountability, self-awareness in place that says, you know what? Like, I realize that I've worked hard, but still at the end of the day, it's not about me. And there is a huge sense among people in the highest levels of power and influence and authority, when you're around them, you immediately know whether they are walking in a confident humility or they're walking in and arrogant humility.

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