869 Relationships, Fear and Doing What You Love with David Walton
30 Oct 2019 · 74 min
This is a podcast episode titled "869 Relationships, Fear and Doing What You Love with David Walton," recorded in October 2019. The content features a long-form interview hosted by Lewis Howes with actor David Walton, discussing topics such as personal growth, fear, anger, sobriety, relationships, and the challenges of the acting industry. The episode includes multiple interjections by Lewis AI, who provides brief commentary and sponsor messages throughout the conversation. The dialogue is primarily between Lewis Howes and David Walton, with Lewis AI contributing as a secondary speaker.
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This is episode number 869 with David Walton. Welcome to the School of Greatness. My name is Lewis Howes, a former pro athlete turned lifestyle entrepreneur. And each week we bring you an inspiring person or message to help you discover how to unlock your inner greatness. Thanks for spending some time with me today.
Now let the class begin.
Plato said, we can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.
Boom.
Welcome to this interview. I am excited about this because we have the extremely talented David Walted in the house who I got to know years ago at an event and we've stayed in touch and just a great all-around good guy. For those that maybe don't know who he is, he's an actor known for several TV programs including Cracking Up, the Drama Series Heist, Comedy Series New Girl, and on the NBC comedies Perfect Couples, Bent, and About a Boy. And super funny on a lot of these different series, but also just Got a big heart. And in this interview, we talk about how David's big break early in his career had a negative effect on his growth, actually how it was pretty easy for him breaking into a very difficult industry of acting and what that did for him. How ego can affect how we handled being judged or dealing with anger. The advice David would give other actors on their journey to Hollywood. The difference in fear of being seen as an actor versus writing your own words and performing them. That is so much more about relationships, about fear of doing what you love, and so many more things. And I love this quote, We can easily forgive a child who's afraid of the dark, but the tragedy, the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light. And this is something that I'm so passionate about is not being afraid of the light that you were born with. We all have these unique gifts and talents, you have something so special inside of you, but we're afraid. So many people are crippled by the.
Fear of failure, the fear of judgment.
And the fear of success. Actually achieving what we want people are the most afraid of sometimes because then the responsibility and the pressure to live up to it. And what if people found out that I wasn't who I say I am, right? These fears cripple us, but for me, The tragedy is when we go to sleep without a dream and we wake.
Up without a purpose.
It's like, then what are we doing? We need to be focusing on figuring that out. And sometimes we transition. Sometimes we have a dream, it gets lost, and we create new dreams. But that is our purpose and that's our mission here, to continue to pursue it. And this story is a powerful one that I think you're really gonna love. Make sure to share with your friends. Tag David on Instagram, even though he's not that active on there yet. I'm trying to get him more active on there, David Walton. And send someone this link, lewishouse.com/869 to be inspired by his journey and everything that he's up to.
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And I'm excited about this interview, so let's dive into this one with the one, the only David Walton.
Welcome everyone to the School of Greatest Podcast. We've got the iconic David Waldman at the house, man. Good to see you, brother. Good to see you too. Excited about this. When you walked in, we had a 10 second hug.
Yeah, it was about 10, maybe 11 or 12.
11, 12 seconds.
We enjoy a long, warm hug. Well, I would say enjoy is an interesting word there because when I first saw you, it had been four years.
Yeah.
Yesterday, and you came in and I tried to pull away.
Yeah.
And you held on to me. and I had this weird thing in my head going, this is something I've thought about doing with people. This feels incredibly awkward to me. But then as we held it in, I was like, I am not only getting more used to this than into it, but I like him more now. Oh, there you go.
You remember, you know, I've been known for giving long, awkward hugs.
Yeah.
As an experiment originally is what I started doing probably like 10, 12 years ago.
Yeah.
Experimenting it. and my life has been about experiments. Whenever I'm afraid of something, I say, how can I go all in on this thing and create like a game or an exercise or an experiment around it and see what happens on the other side? I'll do a month or three month experiment.
Great.
And I started doing this because I wanted to have deeper connections with people. I felt like people were on surface level a lot. And especially growing up in Ohio, playing sports, guys had kind of this phobia around hugs.
Sure.
Even just like a high five and like a little bring it in handshake was almost too much. It was like, don't touch me. It's this phobia. And so I just wanted to change that. And I was like, I really want to be more intimate with people and have deeper connections. And so I started doing that and it just kind of stuck. Now I was telling you that we have to be careful in certain climates of the humanity of when that's appropriate and understanding people's energies. So sometimes I don't always do that.
But You read people, you read people. It's like 12 seconds no matter what.
Yeah, no, I read people.
You've met President Clinton, or President Obama, in 12 seconds.
Yeah, it might be, might be shot. I remember we had a meditation teacher of mine come on for the first time. She wasn't my teacher at that time, but I was just meeting her. And I gave her a hug, and she was almost, it's almost like she saw a ghost, because she's a monk and she doesn't touch anyone.
Oh boy.
And so Tiffany was there, and it was, I felt horrible the whole time I was interviewing her because I just felt like I broke some sacred.
And did she recover? Did she forgive? She was fine. She rattled. No, she moved on.
I mean, she's got, you know, the principle of just like not letting, not holding on to things. Yeah, sure.
'Cause you're in suffering when you hold on to something. It was actually probably a really good test to see how, what level she was at.
Yeah.
Are you gonna suffer?
Are you gonna hold on to this?
Are you a true teacher? You start resenting me, you know, or? We connected years ago for probably, I don't know, 20, 30 minutes, maybe.
Very briefly, yeah.
We had a great connection.
Yeah, I agree.
And so it's good to see you again.
Yeah, and I remember you reached out to me, I think through Instagram, and I admitted to you, I think I did a Dunn Dax podcast, and I admitted to you that I've always been like, why didn't I reach out to Lewis after that thing? And then you just sent me your phone number, like immediately, and I was like, I just like this guy's style. It's all good. opens it up. It opens up communication without, we get all worried about, I don't know, not being liked perhaps.
Exactly, man. Yeah, and I've liked following your journey. I think I first heard about you on, it was either about a boy or a new girl.
Yeah.
That's where I first saw you and I started learning more about you from there and I really liked your style as an actor. And you're a better human being. I started learning more about you recently. We both went to boarding school. you went to a all boys school first.
Yeah.
Then you went to a co-ed boarding school.
Yep.
Which I went to just a co-ed boarding school.
Okay. You've never been in a single sex environment.
Well, I was in a boys dorm. Yeah. And then across the campus was the girls dorm. Probably similar to you.
Yeah, 100%. And it was all like occasionally sneaking out.
Occasionally.
Right.
But was it pretty strict for you?
Yeah. We get in very big trouble.
Yeah.
And that's part of the, I think, The appeal was, you know, breaking rules is exciting for a teenager.
Exactly, getting out and going to the.
Girls' dorm and sneaking through the window. Yeah, you're like, banging on the door.
I only did it once or twice, actually. I was pretty terrified. Were you?
Were you a by the rules kind of guy? Did you always follow the rules? That was my family's culture, but I would think everyone would say that I was the black sheep. I have a lot of high achieving siblings. Like, most of my sisters were all American athletes and really abided by the rules. And I kind of was like, I'm not as good at sports as they are. how do I become extraordinary? And I was like, I might as well, you know, like just be different than them maybe. I don't know.
Were they like New England?
Oh, I mean the purists.
Fields with hockey.
Hockey and lacrosse. Oh my gosh, amazing.
Yeah. Yeah, it's pretty.
They were valid foes for a boy. They were strong. And we were talking before, you were.
Asking me if I have a cocktail, 'cause we were talking about doing golf sometimes. Yeah, I didn't know you didn't drink.
I don't drink.
I've never been drunk. and I'll have a Bailey's on ice.
Oh, you will?
Once or twice a year. Okay. Bailey's and ice. One. A very, maybe two shots. Maybe two. But it's like, I'll sip on it for an hour.
It's delicious.
Delicious. And sometimes I'll put it in hot chocolate for Christmas or something. But I think I had a, and you were asking me earlier, why is there a reason why?
Yeah.
And when I was a kid growing up, my two older sisters both had some challenges with some some alcohol drug stuff. They weren't addicted, but they had some instances that were scary moments, right? And I saw them really sick at times from this alcohol stuff, like throwing up and being sick for days or whatever, right? And my sister, my brother went to prison for four years. When I was eight, he went to prison for drugs, for selling drugs to an undercover cop. And so we would drive to the visiting room. It was about a two and a half hour drive to get there. prison every weekend for four or five hours. And I would watch, we'd be with all the other families and all the other inmates, and I would just witness and observe what was happening. And I don't know if it scared me, but I was just like, I don't want to be here one day. And he was there for four and a half years. He got off in good behavior. But I just remember being like, I don't want to be here.
Yeah.
This is not a place. I'm. And if it's, smoking weed, if it's drugs, if it's alcohol, whatever it is, I just don't want to do it if that's gonna get me here.
Yeah.
So I remember I used to steal cigarettes when I was 12. Okay. I was acting out as a young kid.
I was the youngest of four and I would steal from like the grocery store. Oh, from the, okay.
So like a, you know, felony. Yes, yes. I would steal almost every, every time I went into a store, I would.
Steal, I had to steal something for about a year and a half. Wow.
What is that called?
Like, Klepto or something? Yeah, well, Kleptomaniac, maybe.
I thought that was stealing from other people, but sure. It was like, it became a game for me. And I started stealing cigarettes and I remember I wouldn't even smoke them. I would try to like take a puff and I wouldn't even inhale it. Because I was so afraid if I did something, what it would do to me. But that was my bad phase. And then in high school, I went to a private boarding school, which I know you went to the boarding school as well. So you weren't allowed to have alcohol on campus, first off, and kids weren't really going out and buying it. Oh, they weren't. 16.
It just wasn't happening.
Yeah.
And then I went to college, and then I was playing college football and there was alcohol everywhere. After every game, parties, keg stands, the whole thing. And I remember just saying to myself, I'm not gonna get to where I want in my dreams as a pro athlete if I do what everyone else is doing. And so it just never became interesting for me at college. And so I made a commitment that I wouldn't have one sip of alcohol in college. Not a sip. Not a sip. Then after college was over, I was like, why would I start now?
Did that become your identity in college for the people, like all those little- People knew. Yeah.
And girls would try to like- Get you to- do whatever I could to make it happen.
And when you were with girls who were inebriated and attracted to you, how would that work?
I would just say no. Oh, would say no.
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It was weird, man, because I didn't want to ever be taking advantage of anyone. or be that guy. And so I would just be like, no, if you're drinking, I'm not gonna do anything.
Wow, good for you. Yeah. And then, but now it's carried on.
You're 36.
36. And I have like a Bailey's. But that first Bailey's you had, was that a weird experience? Or was it like, it's like whatever?
Well, my sisters gave it to me in hot chocolate, so I didn't really taste it.
Oh.
She's like, oh, it's like sweet. Did they sneak it in, like you didn't know? They had some, and I drank some of it. And I was like, that's really good. And they were like, yeah, it's Bailey's inside of it. And I was like, oh, okay, maybe I'll have one, you know? But I just never decided to do it. I've never had beer. I think I had one sip of wine. It tasted really bad to me, so.
Well, it's a really, you know, this isn't a scientific method, but a lot of the people who inspire me and are doing really kind of prolific work and deep work, certainly in entertainment, a lot of them are sober.
Really? Yeah. Who were the most inspiring?
Oh, like Dax, you know, Dax Shepard. -He doesn't drink? -No, well he's, yeah, he was an AA. So he's like, you know, he had- -He was an alcoholic. -He was. And even people like Howard Stern to me, like, you know, you would think.
And he just doesn't touch anything and-.
-No drugs, no alcohol? -No, yeah. I mean, I think maybe he drinks a little bit, like the tiniest bit. And as you get older, like you can, I've taken long stretches without it and the amount of productivity. And my wife is into this hashtag called SoberCurious. which is gaining steam because there's such a pervasive culture of drinking. I was just shooting a movie in Chicago for a month called Later Days. And, I mean, cities like Boston and Chicago, it's just like-- that's what we do.
--It'S just parents doing everything. There's bars everywhere, pubs, drinking everywhere.
After work, you always go for a drink. Yeah, and I think a lot of people are starting to question that culture and why it's there and how much good it's actually doing and are so that sober curious movement is kind of fascinating because so she's doing that. But I have this kind of, my relationship to alcohol is strange because I know the physical ramifications and the willpower after a night of drinking, you know, if you have a great diet going or whatever and you're being great, it derails you in such a profound way.
You drink, you're gonna start eating more.
The next morning you're like, who cares? And I'm just gonna rip like, you know.
Five pizzas.
Yeah.
But at the same time, its ability to bring people together or to have bonding experiences.
Truthful experiences.
A truthful and get it and kind of silence a lot of things you're fascinated with, which are guilt and unworthiness and shame and all these things. Like there's theories that alcohol, it doesn't make you a different person. It's just if you have all those things coexisting. Like if on your highest level you are All love and gratitude and sharing, but you have feelings of unworthiness as well, like we all do. The alcohol just mutes that voice.
The unworthy voice.
The unworthy voice temporarily, so that the way you behave is actually pure love. It's more loving, and you see great, you know, I have friends who are kind of like, they're kind of like tough, angry guys, and they drink, and it's like, it's like hugging you with.
12 second hugs all day.
And it's not annoying, you know, it's like, oh, It's like, and a lot of people would say, like, God, I feel more like myself when I'm drinking. And that's across the board. A lot of people feel that way.
So that's why they continue to drink.
More and more probably. Yeah, and I think like anything, the more, you know, the edges, the extremes are where we run into problems. And if you can find a little middle ground, it can be okay. So it's like, and I know a drug counselor who would say it's not that anything is bad or good. It's just your relationship to it.
Why do you think people feel more of who they are when they're drinking? And why do you think people can't feel that way when they're living normal life without it?
Well, my very rudimentary theory is kind of based on this wonderful book called Power Versus Force by Dr. Hawkins, which was like a pretty big book in the 70s. But it's basically like, it's kind of what I just said. It's you're born with all these layers of consciousness and like the most sort of, the most destructive, he would argue, Hawkins is like shame, guilt, and that big unworthiness this. And we all kind of are born with that in some level, different levels of it. And no one really knows why. You just see a little kid and you can see a heaviness or a cloud. And so, but we also within us have, you know, that super high level stuff, the stuff that every great, you know, religion ultimately is about, which is that oneness and love and connection. And I think everyone has it inside them at all times. And what we do during our day, what we decide, our intention, all those things can elevate us to a certain extent. But that doesn't mean that stuff isn't down there still. And to me, certain substances can mute that. And so people identify themselves with that love. But with alcohol, they're just not feeling that stuff. So they're like, oh, I feel like more-- it's more like me, 'cause I'll kind of-- my problems when I'm not worrying, you know? I'm not doubting.
Do you feel like a lot of actors feel insecure and unworthy most of the time?
Yeah, I mean, it's a hard one.
Yeah.
And you have a lot of actor friends, right?
Yeah. And I think on a certain level, we all want to be loved and feel important and seen, like everyone. And there's a sense of-- you know, when you're 17 and you want to be an actor, generally it's going to be about how is this going to help me get laid? Right. If you're like on some level, is this going to help me be attractive? Yeah, like most musicians, I mean, yeah, there's obviously exceptions, but it's kind of like, you know, it was poor teenagers. Everyone's ruled by that. Everyone's ruled by it. It's like the most powerful force on Earth, that sexuality stuff. So all the stuff. that you're doing. I love being able to talk about, I don't know, things that are kind of expand the dialogue and honor the fact that wanting to have sex is so deeply ingrained and Powerful in our.
Biology and our psyche and everything.
God, you know, if anything, it's the most. And so to write off that there's something shameful about that is not good. It's just more like, are you in control of your? And because everyone's raging.
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And go to a, watch a movie set, watch a movie set and go for a month of like a shoot and then have the rap party and watch all the like built-in sexual tension like kind of explode.
Really?
Oh yeah, like any, you know, it's like there's movies about, like any business is like that, right? Like the corporate office party. It's like, and alcohol, unfortunately, the judgment kind of goes and people make mistakes. So it's a dangerous world out there. But what's the root of it, in my opinion, is the fact that everyone is a sexual creature and it's on their mind whether they want to or not. It's just like you just feel it instinctually.
Does that happen a lot? How many movie sets have you been on? Because you do mostly TV, right? Have you done any?
Yeah, I've been on a bunch of movie sets. so too. It's the same with TV. I mean, it's not that people are going around being sexual all day. I'm just saying that I would like people to honor the fact that it's there, you know, and that it's obviously a really tough world right now to navigate for everybody. And some of the dialogue I see happening seems a little black and white to me.
And I just-- which dialogue?
Just the dialogue about the giant gray area of interaction of, you know, one of the things I've talked to a lot of women and they'll say something like the days of complimenting a sweater or something, they're kind of like over it. Like they don't want those compliments about certain articles of clothing. Yeah, like, oh, I love your sweater. Like even that can be a problem now. for women because it feels like it's coming from a maybe a sexual place or a, oh, let me, whatever. But a lot of the girls I've talked to are very open. It's like if the guy is attractive, if the guy is like someone you're attracted to, then it's okay. But if it's like someone who's not attractive, then you don't like it.
Right. So how do you know if they're.
Attracted to you or not? A lot of guys are trying to say, hey, I'm a great guy. Like I'm a catch. So how am I supposed to know that you think I'm creepy when I'm not? You know?
And I think to me, I'm like looking, I'm like, I'm looking at the girls.
I'm looking at the girls.
They're like, yes or no?
I'm like, terrified right now. But no, I think that's an example of a gray area that just doesn't get talked about.
It's tough.
Yeah, and it's tough for, look, guys have had it good in so many ways. Right now, everyone's pretty darn lost. And if you talk openly and truthfully about it, most likely it's gonna be reactive and eviscerated. And you saw it, so everyone's quieting. until some energy shifts where they can have a real better dialogue about it. But anyway, that's some of my thoughts on it.
Do you have any male actor friends that have gone through some challenging times that have come to you for wisdom and advice?
No, no one comes to me for wisdom and advice. No, I'm trying to think if anyone's really been in trouble. No, I just, in the beginning of the wonderful Me Too movement, where women are finally getting what they deserve in a lot of ways. I mean, there's still tons of stuff to be done, but someone pointing out a gray area, kind of like on Twitter or whether it's Matt Damon or something like that, just getting eviscerated. And I think by definition, there's gonna be no nuanced discussion of gray areas on Twitter.
Right, right, right. People just take away from it.
Those are the headlines. And so, Yeah, I mean long form stuff like this is a way of doing it and I think it's really powerful and I don't know, I just want everyone to kind of forgive each other more.
Wouldn't that be amazing?
That would be really great.
Why do you think we hold on to so much anger or frustration for so long about anything, not just MeToo stuff or but anything in general? Why do you think we hold on to these things for so long?
That's a great question. I really don't know. I mean if I could take a stab at it, that anger isn't actually pretty, it can feel really good to be angry, especially if you're sad or, you know, have any of the lower things. Like, anger is actually pretty powerful. Like in sports, for example, if you're scared on like a big match point, there's mental coaches who'll say, just work yourself, find something to be angry because that's going to be a more powerful state than fear. Yes. So I don't know. That's a stab at that deep philosophical question.
Do you feel like you're an angry person or have you had anger throughout the last 15 years of acting?
Yeah, no, I'm not really angry around. I have a lot of anger in my personal life. I don't know where it comes from. My dad had a big temper. It's scary at times. And kids, I don't know how you control it. You can't control listeners. You can't. And they can trigger you in the deepest ways.
And they know how to manipulate you probably, right?
They start getting there. But even when before they're in that they're triggering whatever your issues are with yourself or how you were raised. And generally, like my son who is a boy, if he does something that reminds me of maybe something that I don't like about myself, let's say an example like a culture where being a guy and being scared isn't really allowed. And then you see your son being scared. It's cute for a bit, but then at a certain age, you know, it starts to trigger me like, Hey, man, like, get it together.
You know, is your son five?
You know what I mean? And I'm like, you can't be, I'm not gonna escort you upstairs. There's nothing upstairs.
You gotta be brave. And I try to be. I've gone under the covers the whole time. I've gone under the bed.
I've shown you there's no monsters. Yeah, yeah. When are you gonna grow up? Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, but I find anger to be very confusing. obviously relationships spark it. Kids can. A lot of the yogic principles, it's primal anger that it's born with. You can see a two-year-old rage like nothing else. I don't think anger is shameful. I don't think it's something, I think it should be embraced and loved in that sort of spirit of how do I take this innate part of me and make it non-destructive? And that can be through CrossFit and kickboxing or whatever.
Meditation yoga.
Meditation yoga, but sometimes that's hard too because you can think you've released it, but anger is a trick.
Suppressed it or something.
Yeah, it's got a ton of energy and anger is incredibly powerful.
And it can come back in a moment and trigger you.
Oh man, and so you know, I think you've mentioned you have some anger, you know, I think we all do.
I think I've had a lot of anger and sports allowed me to release it in a very safe environment to where I didn't have it. Because I could get it out in this container of two, three hours and let any of my emotions out, you know, just headbutt people all day. And then I was fine. And then I was exhausted of all my energy. And I was just like, oh, I could sleep peacefully.
And do you still get triggered or are you kind of-- I get triggered all the time.
The thing is, I'm so aware of it now.
Yeah.
So aware of it that I'm like, okay, it's kind of like I recognize the two wolves inside of me, the.
Good wolf and the bad wolf.
I love that old metaphor. And I'm like, okay, which one wants to win right now? Which one am I gonna feed? Sometimes I feed the. The bad wolf.
Yeah.
And it comes out, and. But most of the time I'm feeding the good wolf because I'm consciously like, okay, this is triggering me. Why is this triggering me? Why don't I want to punch someone in the face right now or go through a wall?
Yeah.
Sometimes I feel like I could take down a building. I literally feel like I could run through this building.
Yeah.
And the whole thing would crumble.
Yeah.
I know I would die before that would happen, but I feel like in my mind, I feel like that's possible sometimes with that much power.
Thinking of that much energy, I mean.
That much energy, but I'm so conscious and aware of it that I just practice the right things and I make sure, you know, I was having a challenging conversation with my girlfriend last night. We have a long-distance relationship. She's Latina, which you are familiar with. Your wife's Latina.
Yeah, from Venezuela.
And so there's a language difference. She's probably 70% speaking English fluent.
Okay.
So there's sometimes some misinterpretations of nuances.
Sure.
There's a cultural difference. There's just human being differences with different people. And I remember I was getting triggered by something she was saying and I was like, I could react and I could get loud and do those things, or I can. And in that moment, I just started to smile. I started to smile at her. I was like, okay, I started myself getting, like, clenched and defensive and being like, she doesn't understand me. She doesn't get me right now. Like, there's. There's a misunderstanding of our culture or language. Let me just smile. Let me just smile and keep smiling.
And she kept, like, speaking.
She kept saying stuff. This is on the FaceTime. My FaceTime. Okay. So I just kept. I was just. I was like smiling, smiling, and she goes, why are you smiling? I go, I just love you. I just love you so much. And then she started smiling and then we started laughing and it's like it became calmer and calmer and relaxed.
And would you ever tell her though that something had been triggered?
Probably, yeah. Yeah. I think I told her later in the conversation. Yeah, 'cause that's the way it makes me feel. This is how, what I'm experiencing.
Right, so that to me is the biggest thing is 'cause if you just smile and say, I love you and then never have that conversation.
Now you buried something. Yeah, so you've got to stay what's on your mind.
Yeah, and that's something that I, we all struggle with. Like there's that old thing, you know, choose your battles when you get married. And it's like, Is that what you do? I did, and I'm like going more, and sorry sweetheart if you're listening, but I'm going to choose all the battles, because I actually think the battles are, I'm beginning to, and actually Jordan Peterson kind of got me on this train, was like the festering of an unchosen battle, you know, is legit. And I think-- It's like a bomb.
Coming out in a bigger battle.
And the tricky thing is what-- how to choose the battle in a responsible, non-destructive way.
In a loving way. Yes.
And I think that's the hardest thing to do, 'cause you get angry and you wanna hurt and you wanna win. And at least I do. And I think a lot of people do. And so it's like, do sit on this and then go to sleep and then wake up and then talk about it tomorrow when I can actually speak calmly. What is the level of real mental power that you have? And you clearly have worked on it a great deal. You have that, but I have a ton of respect for people who, you know, or empathy for people who don't. And it's like, you know, you fly off the handle and then it's like, damn. And then there's shrapnel everywhere, you know?
And the challenge is when we fly out the handle, it takes us off of our mission. It takes us off of a life of purpose and a life of actually impacting people or our dreams or whether it's your acting career or something. It takes us off the thing that we want to be doing.
Yeah.
Put our attention towards anger or the triggers or where we're being hurt.
Yeah.
That's what I found because I've been really good at winning battles. in past relationships and friendships and intimate relationships. And then I feel like crap for days afterwards. And my energy goes towards feeling like crap as opposed to putting it towards something productive. Opposed to being positive or being in service to other people or what I want to work towards. So I think that we've got, I've learned the hard way many, many times over and over that that doesn't work. And I'm still trying to figure out the balance of how do I be honest and share how I'm feeling without it being destructive, like you said. And I think that is the ultimate test for so many of us. Oh man, it's a huge, huge, huge, huge. Especially probably with kids and being married.
Oh, there's, and you know, lack of sleep or whatever, the amount of environmental forces. There was, I had, this is kind of comical at this point, but there's so many kind of healers in Los Angeles. Part of the reason I like, and there's some frauds, but there's a lot of super legit people here. and I went to this woman and I'll think of the name of the actual practice, Grinberg is, I believe, the name of it. But basically it's like energy moving through breath. But having been dealing with anger and not wanting it to be destructive, I was turning to this tool that a friend had recommended. And really it's like, if when you're feeling it, she's like, really pay attention to where it is, like in your gut. And then, Just like you just like pretend you're pushing against the build, like you're trying to break open a building and you just go, go, go, go, go, go until you can't and you're holding your breath and you're clenching and you're creating as much tension. And then you just take like and you just go, go and you let it all out. You let all that tension go and then you rethink about your problem again. And there was pretty profound. Wow. But it's really like There's a physical thing that has to be released.
You have to release it.
Anger. And it's like, I've air punched, you know, like even with a kid, like a kid doing something, I'm like.
And.
Instead of like showing them, I'll walk around to the living room and it's like, really? Oh, just 'cause I'm like trying to not, you know, be destructive. Oh, wow. But I hope that's more normal to people. I'm not like the incredible Hulk or anything. It's just like, hey, most people I talk to where this is just angry. Just angry.
It's hard to be at peace 24/7.
It's impossible. I mean, it's, you know, maybe, you know, the Buddha, who else? Maybe Jesus. I don't know.
So you're focusing on the, where the attention, the anger, resentment, frustration is. It's in your stomach, your chest, your throat, your head, wherever it is. And then you're putting your energy and.
Your attention, squeezing it. You're making it worse.
So you try to like intensify. Intensify it and get it.
Until you're tired. Until you're like, can't. And you push it. And then you. And then you just all your thing to let it go and start breathing like crazy. Huge breaths in, just like releasing it all. Look, sometimes it doesn't work. It did when I was working with her. It was working a lot better. I've tried it a couple times.
It's not working.
It's starting to fade.
Now you're air punching the world.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Now I need a new... No, I mean, I don't know.
I.
Think anger is a big old mystery where it comes from. I don't...
It's useful and it's destructive at the same time.
Like anything, yeah. It's not good or bad, it just is.
What has been the journey for you as an actor? You've been 15 years now acting, is that right?
Or more? Yeah, I think my first professional job was 2003, so 16 years.
16 years? And what was that big break?
I was selling knives in New York.
Cutco knives.
Cutco knives. And I was doing this very off-off-off Broadway play that a Fox executive came and saw, 'cause there was like, you know, some legit actors in it. and that got me a general meeting with Marcia Shulman, who was visiting New York for the upfronts, and I went in and sold her a studio set of knives. I was a very-- Wait, the Fox executive. I came and I was like, I've never-- this is my first general meeting with anybody in the industry, and I--.
You- had a box of knives with you?
No, I had an order form in my book bag, 'cause I just was rolling. You know, I actually had them all.
Yeah, yeah.
You had your knives with you.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Just take it to this acting meet intro meeting.
Yeah, because I think I had a knife appointment after that or something. And so I was just like, what is she's like, what are you up to? I'm like, I'm selling knives. I don't know if you ask me. And I, and she bought a studio set, which is a great set. It's four knives. It's the spatula spreader, the petite Carver, the super shears.
How much was that?
At least like 180 bucks.
Yeah, yeah.
Well, so you pitched it to her, you did a demo. 2003, you know, you did the demo. Yeah, I don't think I cut the panty or the rope, but I did, you know, I went for it and she was tickled pink and so she not only bought the knife, she gave me what's called a holding deal, which is pretty nuts. It's basically they just pay you so that you don't go to another network.
Shut up.
So I got to don't go and act anywhere. Yeah, I got paid $75,000 to just be owned by Fox for six months.
What?
It was crazy and I had been, I was making, you know, I was.
Making 100 bucks a month.
Things were about to get very interesting. interesting in about a month with money running out. So I was like a, I celebrated, I screamed, it was just amazing.
And then-- In that meeting, she was like, I want to give you a deal.
Oh, I left and my agent goes, that meeting went well. They're offering you a holding deal.
Just like that.
Yeah, yeah. And then it was absurd because I got flown out to LA, put in a town car, put up at the hotel that I can see from here right by the Fox lot, and driven around to auditions by a driver.
How old were you?
I was 23. And I was like, that was easy. That was like six months in New York. And then like an idiot, all went to my head. Well, I was just like, that was so easy. The show got canceled. I got the show called Cracking Up, which was with Jason Schwartzman, Molly Schwartzman, Molly Shannon, Chris McDonald, Mike White wrote it, who's a big writer anyway. that got canceled and I was like, oh, well, what's the next one gonna come on?
Something else will come along.
I'll just roll into these auditions, won't really prepare. I'm sure they'll get it, you know?
Really? Yeah.
Really kind of, like, lazy, non-respecting how competitive and hard it was, because I really, it wasn't hard to get my break in a lot of ways.
So isn't it almost, that's the mentality you need to go in with, though? It's like, I I don't need this. I don't want this and almost give it to you for free.
It's kind of like a swingers type of.
Yeah, like, yeah. It's like if you act like you don't need this, like it's your life depends on it, then you're not needy, bringing that needy attention and energy, and.
They'Re gonna give it to someone who's actually more relaxed and more. That's such a tricky part of the business because it's like the effort you put in, it doesn't pop out. It's like it's this weird energetic soup where you like confidence and mental health and like belief, but if you work too hard on something, it can get stale. So there's this weird little mystery about rolling in and booking something. I mean, you want to be prepared and you want to, everyone should be working on their craft.
Yeah.
Did you, so did you start booking more stuff and on these auditions after that?
Oh, I didn't work for like a year and a half. I was like, all the money I made was gone. All of a sudden, my apartment in LA started having more roommates and I was like, you know, for rent.
Yeah.
Yeah, 'cause I was like, And then actually, I was about to leave the business. I had a girlfriend at the time who was not into the life. And I was like interviewing to become a banker. Shut up. I was beginning to set up because that's sort of the world I came from. And I was like, here's a stable income.
You went to Brown. You did like.
Yeah, I could get a job at like JP Morgan probably if I wanted to.
So you're 25.
Yeah. And then you would go a year.
And a half of not booking anything.
Yeah.
And I went, I moved to New York. I kind of like, I was like, I'm done. Really? And as I moved to New York, I went into another audition for these Cullen brothers who were actually I'd done a pilot with, but I like, I just, I was supposed to be playing a thief like a.
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Whatever reason, I just rolled up in like an overfitted suit. Like it was a terrible choice. And I just did it really weird and they were like, you,'re perfect for this. They were like, you,'re in. And I was like, what? And then that became a series. and it was like right when you're leaving it got, and that kind of built this relationship with NBC that kind of went for many years.
Wow, so you did a bunch of shows with NBC.
A lot, yeah, I did like six series for them.
Wow, I remember I had a conversation with Max Greenfield, you know Max?
Well, he was- He's a new buddy of mine. New girl, yeah. New girl, and- the new girl, I love that house.
New girl, right?
Yeah, new girl, dude.
We were, we did CrossFit together. I would see him at the gym every day.
Oh, he's a CrossFit nut.
Machine. And so one day, and I would try to compete with him. I knew he was a little competitive, so I'd be in the rower, but he'd go back, you know, I'd be competing. And he was like, who's this guy? And then one day I was just at Earth Bar right near the CrossFit place, and I started talking to him. I go, hey, I got some questions for you.
You got a few minutes?
And he goes, yeah, sure. We talked for about 30 minutes. And I was like, tell me about your journey of being an actor. Were you always like this big star and like having these hit shows? And he goes, I've been out here for 10 years. Freaking struggling.
Oh yeah.
And not booking a thing.
Yeah.
And every time I was gonna leave, something would pull me back in. Like I'd get something small that'd be paying me enough for the next two months, three months. And then I'd wait for six months and I'd get something small. And he's like, it took me 10 years to get a role that actually paid me something.
Yeah, he had a journey. He had a real grinder. I mean, and it's, he deserves everything.
He's talented.
Oh, he's so talented and funny.
How long were you on this show, that, on New Girl for?
I was, I came in season two as like a love interest, and then I got About a Boy, so I, that lasted two years. And then when About a Boy ended, they decided to bring my character back as to be like the final love before Zoe like and Jake Johnson's character Nick like end up together. So I was sort of like, I would, you know, look, it's not official, but I would say I was like, of all of Zoe's love interests, I was I was the deepest and closest. Sure. To really working.
That show did amazing. What was it? Six seasons, seven.
Seven, I think, officially. And it lives on Netflix. And it's just it's pretty extraordinary what that streaming is doing because It like the Office and Friends being the most popular comedies on Netflix.
Crazy. Right?
So still. So New Girl, I don't know the numbers, but my sense is from being out in the world and being recognized that New Girl has tons of sort of cult followers who are always... You.
Recognize the most from that or from...
Yeah, I get a bad boy or bad moms or some fired up is a cult classic people love. And then some always some weird ones, like, you know, just out of nowhere, you're like, damn, man. Perfect Couples was a series I did that has a lot of fans. And then Burlesque, I was Stanley Tucci's lover in that, so sometimes I get recognized.
What's the best part about the acting business for you? And what's the worst part?
Oh, it's a good question. I think the best part is, not knowing where you're ever going to be, and that there's this kind of infinite possibility at all times in your life that you can all of a sudden be attached to some project in a new city. You know, we got a call, my wife and I, for example, like in late August, and it was like, do you want to do this movie in Chicago? And within 10 days, I'd moved my family there. We were staying in this great house and exploring a new city with my kids and my wife in the same movie. And it I love that feeling of adventure and the fact that you can, that freedom we were talking about earlier, soaring, but the fact that it's achievable in a marriage is really amazing to me. And then I think what I don't like is sort of tied to that is that you don't ever know where work's coming and also just the amount of waiting around time you do.
It's so much waiting, right? You get this excitement, we're gonna launch this series, and then you're waiting, what, three, six months until you start filming?
And then-- yeah. Yeah.
And then you're on set all day.
For, like, one scene.
Yeah.
And it's just a lot of just twiddling thumbs. And so it's really paramount to have-- if you're around fun, good people, then you're hanging. But I've yet-- it's hard to be productive. You know, I've stirring other pots. So I'd love to, like, just shadow Cruise one day, like, on set, like, to see how-- or, like, one of these-- or the Rock, or someone who's, like, like acting, but, like, you know.
Building an empire on the side. Yeah.
You know, his downtime is operating, and I'm sure he's got a bevy of assistants and stuff, but, like, because I love, I love that feeling of moving missions and projects forward and on set, you kind of, it's, you get derailed really easily. You gotta focus on the craft in that moment.
Yeah.
And then, but then, like, it's like.
All right, 10 minutes. Actually, it's an hour, so it's like, you were ready, and then now you have to stay ready for another hour. And what are you doing to do that? Are you probably just eating peanut M&M's?
Correct. So, who are the most inspiring actors in your mind? For you?
Inspiring?
Where you're like, man, these people are.
Just-- I actually, I'm gonna say it's Tom Cruise, man. I just find his energy and zest, and I know, perfect example, I'm sure he doesn't touched alcohol.
Really?
Yeah.
Like, oh, it's just, he's like, he's just operating. He just seems clear in a way, not to sign, I'm a Scientologist in any way, and I really don't know anything about it, but I use clear for non-scientologists it's like, yeah, yeah.
People that don't have a ton of clear.
Clear is a Scientology term of, like, it's a getting clear. Yeah, but I don't want them to own that term because I think it's a great. Clear mind.
Yeah.
And you're clear in your, and, like, you. You're presenting who you are. You're present with people. You're respectful of people. You're not operating from a place of ego. You're operating from a place of, Isn't this playground world insane? And I get to play in it. And Tom Cruise is playing in it on such a high level.
He's a master of that.
Literally like flying fighter jets and like--.
Helicopters and-- Jumping out of airplanes.
Making huge spectacle movies that delight worldwide audiences. And then for stuff that I don't like, which is like the publicity stuff, this is wonderful, but like doing a three-minute clip on today's show is just like all stress, no substance kind of thing. Just being charming, you know, for three minutes. He does that like a, he just crushes it. And so, yeah.
The three-minute charm sessions, he's the master.
Yeah, and I think at that level, they probably extend to 10 to 15 minutes. And now he's fun and the world is kind of like, he's just this relaxed little, you know, playground for him. So yeah, he's got an electricity that I find. I've never met him, but I really want to.
What would you ask him if you met him? If you had three questions to ask him?
Ooh, cruise questions.
Gosh, I can only ask him three.
I may have to send these in.
Yeah.
I would ask him, I go, what do you think the number one way to get clear is?
He'd say, well, right down the street. Good facility, yeah. But how to get clear, okay.
No, I would, yeah. I would say how do you deal with your fear?
Do you think he has a lot of fears?
I assume everyone does, and I assume that that's, I don't know. I don't know. And if he says he doesn't have fear anymore, I'd be like, okay. Yeah, I would wanna know his morning routine. I think, and maybe his type.
Okay.
That's just off the top of my head.
Sure, sure. How do you deal with your fear when you're going into, oh, it's hard. A conversation.
Yeah, I'm really aware of it, you know, and-- and what is the biggest fear? Being judged, being rejected, or being judged, like having something I put out in the world judged and ridiculed.
But don't you do that all the time with acting?
It's weird. It's not the same. Like I started writing stuff and you put it out there and you go, oh, like, it's this terrible feeling. Like I've actually created that. Acting, you're interpreting words.
It's someone else's creation.
Yeah.
That you're helping co-create.
Yeah, and you kind of get a sense like, look, I did it. I know I was somewhat real. So it's like now it's on them to like make it, you know, good. You know what I mean? It's like I'm doing the best I can with what I was given and you can always blame it on someone else or whatever the writing is or whatever. But when you create, like if you create a business or something and it fails like that, yeah, it's a fear of, it's a huge thing and I'm, as that thing that, I think you say, and even Jordan Peterson and Dax have all said, it's that thing of never comparing yourself to other people. It's comparing yourself to who you were yesterday. And I find that to be very powerful. And I'm proud of what I've done the last year because it's really overcoming my fear of putting, getting vulnerable, putting myself out there to be rejected in other areas besides acting.
What do you think is on the other side of rejection and judgment.
Probably freedom once you get it all. I think I learned early in acting people fear ego death more than actual physical death. So, humiliation. Humiliation. Really.
People fear the ego death more than dying.
There's been some studies and it's like that's why public speaking makes people terrified and all those things like getting up in front of people and taking risks or asking a dumb question in class.
What advice would you give to actors or anyone who's putting themselves out there on a stage in life on how to overcome that? So it doesn't be the loudest voice in their head, but they can go through and kind of experience with more joy and...
I think it's like anything, it's like just practicing doing it. So if it's, it's that, and I'm actually talking to myself because I have a deep fear of social media. Like, you're never on there.
Last post was like June or something.
It makes me really uncomfortable.
We're gonna do a post today.
Okay.
Together.
All right. And I'm like just got nervous. Yeah, I started scratching my rash. But yeah, I don't know what it is, man. I really-- But you're an actor.
You put yourself out there.
I know, but I'm behind a film of someone else's work. It's a professional controlled environment, and I know The raw, like, to you is, I think I'm inherently private and I just, I'm so scared of being judged and not liked in some way that maybe that's why social media makes me so uncomfortable. 'Cause, like, you know, someone can be like, what a dumb post or, I.
Think, I think everyone wants to be liked.
Oh, yeah.
I think everyone doesn't want the world to hate them. I don't think that's anyone's default. It's like, I'm gonna do this so people don't like me. and then you might have something off if you think that way, but most people want others to like them. I want people to like me. I get hurt when people say something nasty about me, but I think I'm also willing to put it myself out there because I believe in my mission more than I care about a few people judging me or saying nasty things. Like, those things will hurt and it will suck, but I'm just like, but this matters so much more. and if I put my energy towards my mission and I let my ego step aside and I focus on the people that are really close to me that I care about who love me no matter what, that's what helps me get through it. It still hurts me, affects me, but it's like, I feel like the mission of trying to be in service and help people is more important than my feelings of a few people not liking me.
Yeah, and when you say that, I immediately go, well, I think my mission Isn't quite clear enough to overcome my resistance to those social outlets, you know?
Interesting.
And that if I really believed in something specific, 'cause it can be whatever you want it to be, but I'm not gonna like just talk about the eggs I'm making.
No, I understand.
You know, I don't have that instinct at all.
Sure.
And I don't really like getting out of moments. I like- Being present. Yeah, I think like one of my favorite books is, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance. And it's a classic, but it's this idea of like God is in the fully present of anything you're doing. You can be washing a dish, like almost like sacredly, and there's, and if you're doing it with quality, with the intention of quality with a capital Q, that like somehow God lives there, that that's where the action is, the purest form. There's a whole book about it. I don't know. That's a facet of it.
Yeah, there's a book called the Way of the Peaceful Warrior by Dan Millman, which is, there's a movie out of it, too. I'm more of a movie guy, but powerful example of an athlete with a big ego, an all-American gymnast who breaks his leg, gets injured, and can't perform in his sport anymore for a year or something. And that's his whole dream. And he meets this gas station attendant who he calls Socrates, who teaches him the lessons of being here and now. And this one activity you're working on, this moment, this washing of the floor is the thing. It's not the dream of playing and being an all-American it's the present moment is what really matters the most. And finding the joy and the love in this moment.
Yeah. And finding this idea of quality, like, like, the capital Q. Yeah. And it's this thing of, like, you know, everything has a story and an energy based on, like, and you buy a terrible t-shirt that was made in a factory with terrible things.
Right.
It may look good, but it's gonna do something to you, you know? And it's because there's, there's, there's. No, no, your t-shirts, please are man.
Nikes are probably not in That's the idea.
No, no, I mean, but that idea.
Of that, yeah, of course.
That's why things that are made with quality and love, like, can have a profound impact on people and the things you do. Even, like, when I know I'm in the zone, it's when I'm doing the dishes and I'm, like, feeling the water and I'm gonna, you know, I'm gonna say, like, oh, look at this dish. I'm thinking about the story of the dish. And then I'm like, what's the best, what's a quality way of, like, honoring this dish, getting it? And there's, like, It's like this dream to make everything you do almost sacred in a way. And I think when you watch, you know, there's this great, what's that? The Netflix documentary about eating Chef's Table.
Oh yeah.
And there's this amazing episode with a Korean monk who has a garden there and it's like everything she does is--.
I saw this one yesterday.
Yeah, it's so good. And it's like the most simple ingredients how on earth does it taste like this?
It's just rice and it's the love and the attention.
Yeah, that's what I'm looking forward to. I moved to Maine and I'm looking forward to that slowness and cities have that energy and I think when you're just in a slow place, you're able to kind of, okay, I can do that. There's a four minute way of doing the dishes and then there's a 10 minute way that may teach me something, you know? And I don't know. But we're just gonna experiment with that. Powerful, man.
I love it. Living the main life. I want to respect your time, because I know you gotta catch a flight soon. I have a couple final questions. This one's called the Three Truths.
Okay.
So imagine it's your last day on Earth many years from now.
Okay.
You get to live as old as you wanna live. It can be 100, 500, it can be as old as you wanna be. But at one point you gotta die. And you gotta take all of your work with you. So all of your creations, all of your, the acting videos, the movies, they've all gotta go with you so no one has access to your content, your businesses, the information you put out in the world. They don't have access anymore. You've taken it with you to the next world. And you get to leave behind three things you know to be true from your entire life and all of your experiences, all the lessons you've learned that you would want to pass on to your kids and the world. And you get three things to share. What would be your three truths?
Nothing is as it seems. Everyone is hurt.
Everyone is hurt.
Yeah. And.
Don'T be afraid to long hug.
I love that. Yeah, that's a good, I mean, there's probably more to that. It's like being intimate.
Yeah, you know, I think, Fearless love is extremely, extremely powerful. And, you know, I'll feel, I don't know, you get in moods. I'll get in closed off moods where I don't really want to be around people. And I know what it feels like to walk down the street anywhere and just like feel a sense of brotherhood with every human. I felt that, but I want it more because it's fleeting and it goes. And so, trying to churn, trying to figure out, you know, ways to kind of stay in that state, you know?
Yeah. But that's powerful, man.
Yeah.
Those are good truths. I want to acknowledge you, David, for your childlike joy and curiosity. You've got this joy about you and this childlike love. This whole time I'm experiencing with you and every time I've been around you and on screen, you bring this type of like joy and childlike curiosity and love and fun and humility and wisdom to you. So I want to acknowledge you for all those gifts that you have.
Oh, amazing.
And for, even though we've only hung out three times now, I feel like we're really becoming good friends with the long embraces of the world.
Yeah, it'll do it. It'll skip some steps.
I know, right? So congrats on everything, man. You're doing amazing work in the world. I know you've got a business you're launching. I don't know if you're allowed to share what that is, and if you've got other stuff where people can follow you online, where can they go to connect with you?
Oh, well first, I mean it. I think what you're putting out in the world and your intention and your mission is beautiful. It's a truly beautiful thing. And I think when you go and take everything, you'll have left a massive imprint on this place. I think that's really powerful. But as far as, yeah, I've got some exciting things that's actually kind of tied into some of the stuff I'm doing, but I'm curious about cues, the way people, it's really hard to unwind and to kind of feel relaxed and to rest. And I think people need physical things sometimes to do that. So I've created this bathrobe company. I have this bathrobe that's really, really lovely and you put it on and it does that for me. It kind of just tricks me into just chilling and getting into a restorative place. And so it's an upgraded bathrobe, really, of an essential that people sort of forgot they needed.
Yeah, most men don't wear bathrobes.
Right, a lot depends on your age and things. So anyway, these bathrobes will be available around Christmas and I'll say some stuff on my, it's just my name on Instagram. and stuff and at David Walton. And yeah, I'll have some more stuff as we launch this company. And if you want a nice bathroom for Christmas, it's called the Perfect Bath Room by Wakanimichi.
I like it, man. There you go. You'll have to post more on Instagram now.
Yeah, when it comes out. I may have to come to you for advice.
I may be coming to you for advice. And are there any new series or shows or movies or podcasts?
Yeah, well, I just shot I just watched this movie called Later Days. It's kind of like a Breakfast Club, but everyone's 40. It's an independent film, so. That's cool. Hopefully in about a year, you can.
See it in the theater. So that's usually how long it takes. I know, it's annoying, right? Yeah, yeah. Hurry up and wait, right?
Yeah.
Amazing, man.
I've got one final question for you. Sure. And it's, what's your definition of greatness?
Of greatness?
Uh-huh.
I think it has to do with integrity. I think it has to do with knowing who you are, Deciding how you're going to operate your life, the values, and then putting your money where your mouth is. To me, that's great. It can be small and no one can ever know about you, but if you're living with integrity, that's a super high standard.
There you go.
Yeah.
David Wang, my man. Thanks, brother.
Thank you.
Yeah, baby.
Come on.
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