893 Sara Blakely: SPANX CEO on Writing Your Billion Dollar Story

This is episode number 893 with Sarah Blakely, the inspirational CEO and founder of the billion dollar brand, Spanx. Welcome to the School of Greatness. My name is Lewis Howes, a former pro athlete turned lifestyle entrepreneur. And each week we bring you an inspiring person or message to help you discover how to unlock your inner greatness. Thanks for spending some time with me today. Now let the class begin. George Bernard Shaw said, life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself. And Maya Angelou said, there is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you. Have you been creating yourself lately? Have you been Discovering who you are by taking the actions every day and failing over and over again to create something beautiful that's from within and put it out into the world. Have you been sharing those gifts that only you have with the world? Or have you been bearing an agony of a story inside of you that you haven't let out yet because you've been too afraid to share it with others? this is an opportunity for you. We're at the start of a new year and a new decade coming up, and this is your opportunity to really hear a story from someone who overcame some challenges, didn't hit success right away after school, didn't go off and become this massive hit within the first five years, but experienced failure, failure, failure until she finally reached inside the story that was inside of her and said, I'm going to share this with the world. And this journey led her to an incredible discovery about who she is. And she created something magical for the world. And if you don't know who Sarah Blakely is, she's the founder and owner of the shapewear brand Spanx, which sells undergarments, leggings, swimwear, and maternity wear in 65 countries. In 2012, Sarah was named the world's youngest self-made female billionaire by Forbes magazine and one of Time's 100 most influential people. In 2006, she established the Sarah Blakely Foundation, a philanthropic organization that has donated millions to charities around the world, focusing on charities that empower underserved women and girls. And since 2015, she has been a co-owner of the Atlanta Hawks basketball team, along with billionaire Tony ReStler, and has appeared as a guest shark on Shark Tank. She does so many inspiring things for people around the world. She's one of the most positive individuals I've met, got the biggest smile, biggest heart, and I'm so excited for you to hear her in this episode. And in this interview, we talk about Sarah's relentless entrepreneurial mindset and and why she was ready for her big idea when it came. Talk about the challenges of getting her company off the ground and the lessons she learned the hard way. This was before social media, before all these opportunities. She had to start selling one product to one person. How Sarah brilliantly guerrilla marketed her first order in Spanx and Neiman Marcus. Why being kind to yourself is so important, especially with all the comparison and judgment and and different things that are happening online these days, why it's so important to be kind to yourself and what grief and loss can teach us. I'm so excited for you to listen to this, consume it, and apply the wisdom and information that Sarah shares throughout this episode. If you have a girlfriend who's starting a business or someone who's got a side business or someone who wants to be an entrepreneur, text them this link right now. do them a favor, spread the message forward, be a hero in their life by sharing this inspiration with them. This is a story that is so powerful that can help transform so many people's lives. So if you have a girlfriend, if you know a female who's launching a business, send them this episode, lewishouse.com/893 because this will help empower them to believe in themselves and overcome the challenges that they're gonna be faced for many years to come. And if you're a guy listening, I'm telling you, when I talked to Sarah's husband, Jesse Itzler, who's a good buddy of mine, he was a brilliant entrepreneur and businessman. I go, who's the smartest entrepreneur you know? And without a hesitation, he says, My wife, Sarah. I lean on her for so much feedback, wisdom. She is so talented when it comes to business, marketing, brand, design, all these different things. She's so smart, so gifted. So I don't care who you are. man, woman, any human being out there, you should be listening to this. If you're looking to take on any big dream in your life, whether it be a business or putting an idea out into the world. So make sure to share this with any friends. But girl friends, I'd love for you to connect and text each other and just hold each other accountable, help each other up, support one another. That's what this is about. And Sarah's story here is just so powerful and I want you to get access to this.

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And without further ado, let's dive into this episode with the one and only, the inspirational Sarah Blakely. All right. Well, welcome everyone back to the School of Greatness podcast. We have a living legend in the house, Sarah Blakely. Thank you so much for being here.

Absolutely.

I really appreciate it.

I'm so excited to be here.

I'm so pumped.

I feel like I should take your order.

Take my order. What do you want? I want a milkshake. I always want a milkshake, so even though it's not chocolate.

Yeah.

Oh my gosh, vanilla chocolate, whatever. Yeah, whatever. I am down. I'm so glad you're here. It wasn't even six months ago when your husband was sitting right there.

Yes.

And we got to have a good conversation. He said amazing things about you. And I was like, you know, one day I want to have her on as well. And luckily you have the book, you're here, and we were able to make it happen. You're incredible. Publicist is so amazing, so beautiful, who's just on top of everything. Set it up for me. So thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this happen. And it's so good to you know.

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Yeah, thanks.

Yeah, and you are the founder of Spanks, which has blown up. It's like one of the biggest companies in the world, it seems like now, right?

And you're- There's a lot of butts.

Right.

There's a lot of butts out there.

And I know you shared how it all started, but for those that don't know Spanks, can you share how it all started? So we have an understanding of what it is and how you got into it.

Absolutely. It actually started with my own butt because I couldn't figure out what to wear under white pants. And I'm sure you've had this problem.

When you're getting dressed.

All the time. So what ended up happening was there was, you know, our undergarment options were no good. There was underwear that left a panty line. And then there was the girdle that was way too thick and heavy. And so then they came out with the thong, which just put underwear exactly where we've been trying to get it out of.

Right. That didn't help at all.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so Spanx was born out of just being a frustrated consumer. I wanted to wear my clothes. I wanted a smooth canvas. I didn't want to see lines or any kind of Yeah. Things going on underneath. So by taking the hosiery material, which was meant to be seen on the leg until Spanx sort of looked at it with a different lens and said, no, no, no, I want the hosiery material to actually be what I create the undergarment out of. And it was wild trying to convince the hosiery manufacturers to help me make this product with that in mind, because for so many years, they'd been using the material to be seen on the leg. Right. I said, no, it's just, it's the perfect material to create. the perfect canvas for women under our clothes. And it opened up my wardrobe, it opened up so many other women's wardrobe. We could start wearing colors we didn't feel comfortable wearing and the models get airbrushed. We get spanks.

There you go. There you go. I love it. And when was this? What year was this?

This was in, well, I cut the feet out of my pantyhose in 1998.

Wow.

Yes. I was 20.

Is it 18 years ago? Am I doing my math right?

Yes, I was 27. And then I spent the next two years getting it made. I worked at night and on the the weekends on the idea while I was selling fax machines door to door. And then the company was launched in 2000 when I was 29. Wow. Yeah.

Selling fax machines door to door. Where were you living?

In Clearwater, Florida. Okay.

Where I grew up. Fax machines on Clearwater Beach.

Are there even fax machines anymore around? No. I mean, thank God I'm not still doing that.

I don't know what would have happened.

There are no more fax machines. Just like no one watches the movie airplane anymore. I cannot believe I need to know. Is. Is he the only one on the planet who's not seen the airplane? I was airplane is to really put the headset on. I'm like, Stryker, you're too low. You're too low.

And you just stared at me like.

What is she talking about?

That's it, guys.

So how long were you selling the fax machines? I sold the fax machine door to door for seven years. Seven years? Yes, I know. And before that, I wanted to be a lawyer, but I failed the LSAT.

Not once, but twice.

And you wanted to be a lawyer. That was your dream. I wanted to be a lawyer. I was like, I'm going to be a lawyer. My dad was a trial attorney.

I used to watch him in court when I was a little girl. And I'm a terrible test taker. And so I am the worst. Are you the worst test taker? I was in the bottom four of my grade, my class all through high school because I could not take tests. And I always felt like the dumbest kid in the world.

Isn't that, doesn't that suck?

I mean, it's, it was like the most insecure feeling.

Yeah.

And we ranked, we had rankings on our grade cards. So I knew exactly how dumb I was. Oh, no. Always in the bottom four. I was miserable. Yeah.

Test taking. Why is it so hard? Test taking? I don't know. I have trouble reading and comprehending. Me too. I really do. Like, I, those SRAs, are you too young for SRAs? What's SRAs? I stand for forget it. I don't know. But everybody at school, I used to have to take the SRAs and I would read the paragraph and be, I remember vividly reading it and halfway through, I'd be like, Remember what I'm reading, remember what I'm reading, remember what I'm reading. And I looked at those four questions at the bottom and be like, I don't know what I read.

So I'd go back up and start over again. You're speaking, this is my life. Really? And I would just like make stuff up, Constantly whenever I had to comprehend, I would just read the same page over and over and I'd be daydreaming.

So much that I couldn't remember it as well. I either made stuff up or I sat next to Christina.

She was so smart.

I was the king, my best friend growing up. She ended up going to Dartmouth and was like valedictorian or something.

I'm like, I'll just sit next to Christina.

Did you have Scantrons?

Do you remember that?

No, I'm a, okay. You can't remember.

We were doing things with a number two pencil. I did that too. Yes. That's a Scantron. Scantron is like multiple choice. It's like a long sheet with a multiple choice, all multiple choice. Did you have that? Multiple choice, we had to fill in the bubbles?

Yes. Yeah, okay, that's scantron. And when you skipped a bubble and then time's almost out and you realize.

You'Ve just done all the wrong bubbles on the whole page.

Exactly. And you're like, no!

Exactly, but I'm on the same page. You're bringing up a lot of this. I'm remembering all this. I used to cheat because I couldn't.

Comprehend, so I would have an incredible vision. I would be like this, but I could see through and see all this. Is it like that?

That's a dead giveaway, like any kid in the classroom.

Class like this, just you knew that they were cheating.

No one ever caught me, so. All right. It's how I got through school was cheating. I could not have made it through class without it. Christina.

You had your girl.

That's hilarious. You were a cheater as well.

Well, I'm just saying, Christina sat next to me. Okay. You were an innovator.

I was resourceful.

Exactly. I like it.

I was being really resourceful.

But so you wanted to be a lawyer, but it didn't work out. I wanted to be a lawyer. I failed the LSAT not once, twice. So then instead of going to law.

School, I drove to Disney World and.

Tried out to be goofy. But you have to be 5'8. And you're 5' I'm 5'6.

And I'm 5'6.

You didn't wear heels? No, I didn't wear heels. I didn't wear heels. And so I was the height of a chipmunk. So you got the chipmunk? I got the chipmunk part, but I didn't end up doing it. I put people on rides in a brown polyester spacesuit at the World of Motion and Horizons at Epcot. Epcot Center. And I would see people that I hadn't seen in a while and-- Come through. Yeah, I'm walking on the moving sidewalk, putting people on rides, and they'd go.

Hey, Blakely, is that you?

Didn't you graduate from college?

And my big Mickey Mouse ears said, Sarah Blakely. quickly and I'd be like, yes, get on the ride.

Oh, my God. But that's what I did.

And then I sold fax machines door-to-door for seven years. Seven years. Did you wake up every morning and say, this is my dream to sell.

Fax machines door-to-door were you thinking? No. What am I doing in my life? Exactly. So what happened was a lot of people think that Spanx started when I cut the feet out of my pantyhose, but actually it started long before that. It started when I was selling fax machines door-to-door and getting my business card ripped up in my face, being escorted out of buildings all day, every day, that I woke up one day and just I thought, I'm in the wrong movie. Like, how did this happen? This is not my life. Cut scene director, like, call the producer. And I got out a piece of paper and I wrote down, what am I good at? And the only thing in the good column was sales. And I thought, okay, what am I going to do with that? And I ended up writing in my journal, I'm going to invent a product and sell it to millions of people that will make them feel good. And then I asked the universe for an idea, and I was very specific, and it took two years. and I only cut the feet out of my pantyhose one time and I was not going to squander any idea the universe gave me because I had really asked for it. And then the minute I cut the feet out, I started trying to make it. I started looking up manufacturers on the internet.

This is before Alibaba, wasn't it?

Yes.

Because I did this about eight years ago and I used Alibaba for something and it was easy to find like a manufacturer in China and test different things. But how did you find a manufacturer at that time?

A website called Thomasregistry.com and it lists all the manufacturers. manufacturers in the country based on category. And that's when I found out that a lot of hosiery and undergarments were being made in North Carolina. Oh, really?

Yeah.

So you got a local. Yes. So, I mean, yes. Yeah. So I called and called and no one would take my call and they'd either hang up on me or say they weren't interested. So I took a week off of work and drove around in person and just showed up.

And I just showed up. I want to create a sample.

Yeah.

Because if they weren't going to get a big order for something, they're probably.

Like, what's I'm not gonna do a sample for you.

Right, right.

Yeah. I showed up with my lucky red backpack from college. It's always with me. You still have it?

Yeah, of course.

And you didn't bring it here?

Come on. It's with me. It's with me in LA. Yeah. Oh, wow. Yeah. So anyway, I went into the manufacturing plants and they asked me the same three questions. And you are, let's say, Sarah Blakely. And you're with, like, myself.

Sarah Blakely.

And you're financially backed by. And I was like, Sarah Blakely. So you can imagine how those went. It was like, well, have Nice day, honey, and good luck. And about, you know, a few weeks after I made all those rounds, I got a call from a guy in North Carolina who had took pity on me and said, Sarah, I've decided to make your crazy idea. And when I asked him why he had the change of heart, he said, I have three daughters. Yeah. So he ran the idea by them and they're like, Dad, that sounds interesting. You got to give that girl a chance.

Amazing. So he called you back. You didn't follow up with these people.

Oh yeah, I was following up, but to no avail.

Gotcha. But he followed up and said, yeah, we'll give it a shot.

Yes.

We'll make this. So what was the next step? Was he just making a sample for you or testing different models or sizes or?

Yeah, so it just set up to make the garment while I was making it with his manufacturing plant. I was also wanting to patent the idea and I was also trying to come up with the name for the invention. So I was doing those three things simultaneously, driving up on the weekends and working with Ted in the back of the manufacturing plant that I'd become very close to North Carolina from Florida. No, from Atlanta.

I was living in Atlanta at the time.

What's that about eight hour drive, six hour drive? About four and a half hours. Oh, it's not bad. Yeah, it's not bad. And so anyway, Ted became my buddy and I went to get it patented, but all the patent lawyers wanted between three and $5,000 and I had $5,000 set aside to do this.

That's it, yeah.

So I wrote my own patent, I went to Barnes and Noble, and I bought a book called Patents and Trademarks, and I wrote the patent and then I called one of the The patent lawyers that was the nicest to me and said, please, please, please, will you write the claims over the weekend for a discounted price? I've done all the other rest of the patent. Yeah.

The legwork you'd done. Yeah.

You just kind of needed to button it up and, yeah, you needed to sign it off. The legal part. And so he did. He actually admitted to me that when I came to visit him, he thought.

I'd been sent by Candid Camera, which.

Let me put it in your words.

I know Candid Camera.

I know he was being punked. Of course. Of course. Wow. Yeah, he thought he was being punked, okay? And he thought-- Where's Ashton?

Where's Ashton?

Yeah, exactly. He thought that his friends were playing a joke on him.

No way.

Yeah, he goes, who's this girl? He goes, Sarah, I mean, like, you're not the typical person who walks in the door saying, I've got a product and I want a patent. So anyway, he did that. Then at the same time, I'm trying to think of the name. I had horrible names written on scrap pieces of paper all over the place in my apartment, in my car, in rental cars on the back of, like, Avis agreements. You want to hear how bad the runner up name to Spanks was? Yeah. Open toed Delilahs.

No way. Yes. I cannot believe that was even an option. It was the runner up.

Like how bad is that?

Open toed Delilahs.

I so wouldn't be sitting here with you right now if I named it that.

That is the horrible.

Yeah, so bad.

Wow.

Yes. So anyway, okay, so what does Spanks stand for? Well, it's all about the butt. And it makes your mind wander a little bit. Nobody ever forgets it. I had no money to advertise. It was risky. It was fun. At the time, listen, now it's become a household name, but when I first I would call people and say, hi, I'm Sarah from Spanx and they would hang up. Right. And I thought it was probably like a porn thing. Yeah, they thought I was pranking them. I'm called, I'm like, no, really, I'm Sarah and my company really is called Spanx. And I had department stores across the country that wouldn't sell it. They thought it was too risque of a name.

Yeah.

And my mom sent her whole lunch into the wrong website when I first started. I was like, Mom, it's with an X. Oh my God. It's super important. It's with an X. so, yeah. Anyway, I ended up buying the word Spanks from a man who said he was holding out from the porn industry. Funny enough that you say that.

I bet. Yeah, I paid Spanks with an X.

I paid some money for that. But anyway, yes. So amazing. Named it Spanks. It came to me because I narrowed down my thinking. I knew that Kodak and Coca-Cola were the two most recognized names in the world at the time. And I thought, what do they have in common? I like to think about words and phrases a lot. They both had a strong K sound in them. And the man that created Kodak liked the K sound so much, he took a K and put it in the beginning and the end of the word and played with letters in the alphabet. So. And I also have Maine, where life.

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So it was accident?

Kind of with the X.

No, I didn't.

You backspaced, gotcha. I backspaced because I stared at it for a while and I had done research. You like that. Made up words do better for product than real words. and they're easier to trademark. So then I had the name and I had the patent in the works, got my prototype, and my patent lawyer said, Sarah, I need to know what's in this garment in order to write the patent. I said, okay, no problem. We'll call Ted. So I get Ted on the phone. I'm like, Ted, can you talk to- Manufacturer. Yeah, in the back.

In the back.

I'm like, Ted, can you talk to my patent lawyer? He's like, yeah. So we're all talking and he goes, I go, Can you tell him what's in it? He's like, yeah. It's 70% nylon and 30% lacquer. And I'm like, All right. And so I'm taking notes. My patent lawyer is taking notes. And that night I could not sleep. I'm up all night. And the next morning I wake up.

I'm like, How is there lacquer in this product?

What is lacquer? Just so I'm aware.

I think it's like paint thinner or something.

Okay. So I called 30% paint thinner. So I called Ted, I go, Ted, can you spell lacquer? He's like, yeah, L-Y-C-R-A. me. Oh, my God. Lycra.

Oh, yeah. Okay.

Got it. Don't all change on lack immediately.

My patent lawyer was laughing.

He said, you know how fast you would have gotten a patent if you tried to make this out of paint thinner? He's like, they would be like, sure.

So was it challenging to get it? Did you get it the first try?

The patent? I did.

Wow.

Usually it takes a few turns, doesn't it? I got the patent the first try, and I got the Trademark name Spanks.

Amazing.

Yeah.

So it didn't seem like there was that many challenges once you submitted it or whatever. You kind of got the things you needed in place. You got the orders in. Was there a lot of challenges after that? Once you got the patent, the trademark?

That was a really hard part. It's just I heard the word no for two years. All the manufacturers, nobody thought it was a good idea. And also when you're just yourself trying to break into an industry like you mentioned, the manufacturers, it's not really in their best interest to slow down machine Or try to give a girl with a couple grand a chance.

Unless you're gonna give them a bunch.

Of money for a big order of something. Yeah. It's like, what's the point? Right. So that was the hard part. And then once I had it, I cold called Neiman Marcus, and that was.

The first account I called on. Did you get it? Yes. Well, you were great at sales.

Well, listen, you could sell it. I was so excited. It was my moment. I flew to Dallas. I called them and said, if you give me 10 minutes of your time, I'll come and meet with you. And she said, all right. Was it a buyer? Yep, the buyer. I first called the Atlanta store. They're like, girl, we can't help you. We have a buyer. I'm like, well, where is that? Give me their number. And I went in and halfway through my pitch, I could tell I was losing her. So I said, you know what? Will you please come to the bathroom with me? And she was like, so buttoned up. I mean, Neiman Marcus, like her pen matched her belt that matched her shoes. And she was like, what?

And I'm like, what am I gonna.

Do in the bathroom? I was like, just follow me to the bathroom and show you my own panty line. And I went in the stall with Spanx and my pants and without it in my pants. And she was like, oh, I totally get it.

It's awesome. And I'm gonna put it in seven stores.

Wow. Yeah.

I mean, just like that. Just like that.

It was so unbelievable. I was so nervous. And then, of course, I had to call Sam. I'm like, in the rental car on the way back to the airport, I called the owner of the manufacturing plant. I'm like, Sam, Sam, it's Sarah. I need more. I just landed Neiman Marcus. And he's like, what? He was in shock. He goes, Sarah, I thought you were going to give these away as birthday presents for like years. And I said, no, Neiman Marcus just.

Spotted it and I need more.

And he patched me through to Ted. He goes, okay, you can talk to Ted.

Okay.

So Ted comes back in. He's on the phone. And I go, Ted, I need more. And he goes, I go, I just landed even Marcus. He goes, well, that's great, but what.

You can do about the crotches.

Crotches? Yeah, exactly. That's what I said. I go, what? Don't they come with crotches? We've been making them with crotches.

He goes, well, yeah, but we only got one crotch machine.

It's being used by somebody else.

No way.

Yeah.

So what do you do then?

So I just landed even Marcus and I have no crotches.

Oh, my God.

Is it a hole in your crotches? I don't know where to go for a crotch. I mean, I don't know. Where do you go? I actually looked in the yellow pages. Crotch making machine?

Yeah, I just looked at crotch.

Crotch machine.

I looked up crotch.

I don't even know how you spell crotch. Okay, listen.

This is what I learned.

I'm gonna teach you something. Okay, so I didn't know this. What's the yellow pages again?

Yeah.

Oh my gosh. It's a big book. It's yellow.

It's what we used to look at.

Hilarious. What's Instagram? oh yeah. Okay, I just joined it seven days ago. All right, so where was it? Oh, crotch. Yeah, crotch machine.

So I looked it up.

Yeah, so anyway, in the yellow pages, it's not under crotch. So I learned there's a fancy word.

For crotch named gusset.

Gusset?

Yes. What? Gusset.

Never heard that word. So I started calling gusset companies. They were like, FedExing me crotches from all over. My roommate would come home and be like, you got another crotch in the mail. And then I ended up finding a man by the name of Gene Bobo that worked for a crotch company just 20 minutes north of where I lived in Atlanta. And he saved the day. And they made the crotches and then I could deliver Neiman Marcus.

So you had the leggings, they made the crotches and then you sewed them together.

Is that's how it works?

Yes, apparently, yes. Gotcha. Okay.

Okay. So then you had enough. How many did you print the first time?

3,000. 3,000. 3,000 pair of the first spank.

One, one skew, right?

Or yes, one skew.

$20, one skew. Three sizes or. Like four, four sizes, yes. And 3,000 of them. Yes. And that's what Neiman's ordered. And then I sent them to the, they sent them to the seven stores. I had no packing and shipping department, so the semi-trucks were pulling up to my apartment in Atlanta and I was shipping them myself to Neiman's. This is amazing. And then I called every friend I had in those seven cities, like people I hadn't talked to in 20 years.

Hey, go buy a few of these. Yeah, take your girlfriends there.

Hi, Christina, remember me? I used to sit next to you all the time in grade school. Will you please go buy this product called Spanx? I literally called them and I said, and I'll mail you a check. So I paid all my friends and friends of friends to go buy the product. That is brilliant actually. And I said, to get some moves. Yeah, I said, go in. I gave him a whole script. I'm like, go in and say, I've been looking for this all my life. I can't believe it's here. And create all this excitement. This is amazing. And then of course, a week later, I talked to the Neiman's buyer and she's like, Sarah, we are blowing out. I'm like, you don't say. No way. Meanwhile, I was buying them all. Yeah. Brilliant.

You have to.

Wow. Incredible momentum. You have to ensure your own success. Absolutely. So then once I started running out of money, Oprah called and put it on as her favorite product of the year.

How long was that for? Until the time was in Neiman Marcus to Oprah calling.

Like a month. It just happened that quick.

A month or a month and a half.

How did she even hear about it.

In a month and a half?

She sent it to her in a gift basket and her Andre, who dresses her, put it in her dressing room and she put them on and has basically worn them every day since.

Shut up.

I'm not kidding. So unbelievable. I had no money to advertise. I'm in the back of my apartment. I was selling fax machines like a month before that. But I have to say I was working every night and on the weekends for two years quietly trying to get this man. Building this thing. Yeah.

Building it.

Yeah. Did you have a relationship at this time? Yes. Really? Yeah. My boyfriend at the time quit his job as a healthcare consultant because he started helping me ship the Spanx out.

All night, every night. So he was fully in support and yeah.

Yeah. He was like, he came on board and was on board for like the first maybe six years of the company, six to seven years. Wow. He was amazing help. Wow. Okay, so if you would have not.

If you would have not had Oprah bring this on TV. I just have to ask you, did you know what Spanx were before I came on here?

Be honest. My assistant is wearing them today.

All right.

Okay, good. Of course. You know, I make man Spanx.

Well, I heard you still, I read they used to have like a men's line now.

I've never, I have a small cult following for this product. I've never bought that.

I mean, what is it? What are the man's? What are the manks?

The manks. Okay, so it's an under, all it is is a man's undershirt. And I just saw that my husband and my brother and my dad had the same undershirt since it came out. So I researched it because I think it's interesting things that never change.

Like a white Hanes undershirt.

Yeah. Like a, the man's undershirt came out in 1918. Not one thing is changed about it.

Yeah.

So I was like, it's not comfortable. That's why I wear it. Yeah. And it stretches out. So I, I said, let me put a little bit of Lycra in it. I'll make it the same. Cotton undershirt guys are used to, but I'll make it not stretch out as easy. Be a little tapered in at the.

Waist so it looks better under.

Yeah, I'll go buy them. I'll go to Neiman Marcus. And then I got men Spanx underwear that are amazing. They're just comfortable.

Okay.

We ream. We reinvented the pouch.

Okay, so I'll try them out.

I'm just gonna say the only thing. The only thing I can say is tell me what to get.

I'll get it, and the men that have wore. Wore it told me it keeps the family.

Together.

Hey, I will try it. So I'm gonna go get it. Okay. What store is you in now? You're in every store?

Yes.

Okay.

Yes.

The men's stuff. Banks. Banks.com. but you have to spell it with an X. Okay.

You're gonna get a real good treat. Exactly. This is amazing. So would you have, where would you be if over didn't pick it up within the first couple months? Like, if you had a year of trying to do this on your own, do you think you would have got.

Other press or you would have got the money to build it? Okay. I do. Because I was so determined.

I mean, what? As soon as I got the order, I was so committed.

You weren't just interested.

In seeing if this worked. You were committed and doing whatever it takes.

In it to win it. You have to remember, right? I was selling fax machines for years. Thrown out of buildings. I had no option in my mind. I was like, I am scripting a new life for myself. And was this movie about you that.

Came out a year ago? Joy?

Yeah.

Is that about you?

My dad called me. He goes, Sarah, I just saw a movie. It's basically your life except for the dysfunctional family part. Yeah, right. Yeah, right, Dad. Okay, sure. yeah, but I could really relate to her. I'm sure it was like the hustle and. Yeah, that's crazy. But when I got Neiman Marcus, I think a lot of people think that's when you've arrived. That's when I double timed. I mean, I. I got on a plane and was gone for two years straight. And I went to every department store in the country that sold Spanx, every Neiman Sachs, Nordstrom and Bloomingdales. And I would go before the store opened and do an all-store rally and tell them what my product was, explain it to do a demo, give out free product, and then stand there in the department for, you know, eight hours a day and tell customers what it was. Because I didn't have any money, I was selling it for them. But what I didn't realize I was doing was I was building a sales force, not on my payroll, because all these people started to become so ambassadors. Ambassadors. And they were rooting for me and they loved the product. And so that was a really important part of the formula. And then I learned what my next products were going to be because I was standing right there with customers.

Let's say what they need. What's their challenge is.

I can't do this, but I'll tell.

You what they wanted.

Amazing.

Yeah. This is unbelievable. You were like willing to do whatever.

It takes above and beyond.

Totally. So when Oprah had you on, or she didn't have you on, she had the product on.

You didn't go on, right? I didn't go on, but they called and they said, Sarah, it's her favorite product of the thing. She doesn't have people on this, but she loves that you're taking on this billion dollar industry and she wants to film you and kind of just show a little bit of B-roll so they landed in Atlanta and came to my apartment and they had all all this official stuff and they go, we discussed on the plane, we want to film.

You in your headquarters. Oh my gosh. Headquarters is like my living room.

Yeah, I'm like, you're here, I don't, you know. And then they wanted to film me having a staff meeting and I had.

No staff, so I called Connie. Did she go to the factory and.

You'Re like, I called up Sam and I know, listen, I called Connie that I had met at mailboxes, et cetera, because she'd been FedExing pantyhose for me and she left work and came with.

Three other friends of mine and that.

Was my staff meeting on the show. Amazing. What did the sales do after that? It was amazing. I mean, I went from, you know, when I saw somebody order that wasn't my mom's friend, I was dancing around my apartment and then to all of a sudden 30,000 orders.

Like it was just... Was this online at the time?

Yes, it was on Spanx.com. Wow. Yeah.

30,000 came in. And how, what type of time frame?

Yeah. Pretty quickly.

Like a week?

Yeah. 30,000 in a week or two? Yeah, it was crazy. I was up all night, every night shipping. I had friends coming over helping me pack and ship them. And this is how clueless I was. I was sending everybody's product in regular mail. So then I started getting all these emails and phone calls from people going, My product never showed up and I didn't have any way to track it. I was like, oh, okay. I guess they're supposed to be tracking with this. So, that X and everything else.

Yeah, wow.

So then I, you know, that's how I did the whole thing. I stumbled through it. I always tell people, what you don't know can be your greatest asset if you let it. Because, It ensures you're going to do it differently.

Absolutely.

And when I landed Neiman Marcus, all these people came up to me and said, I have been doing this for seven years, 10 years, five years. How did you land Neiman Marcus? And I said, I called them. And they just looked at me and I was like, why would you do? They're like, well, I go to trade shows and I set up my booth and I'm waiting for the Neiman Marcus buyer to come by. And we've been doing it every year for seven years. I didn't even know there were trade shows.

Wow.

So sometimes just not knowing how it's supposed to be done, you have to have the courage though to say, even though I wasn't trained in this, because a lot of people think, well, I didn't go to school for this, so how could I possibly know? But you know, it's inside of you.

Yeah. And you're willing to be creative and risk failure in a way that most people aren't. You put yourself out there in a major way and you said, Hey, come to the bathroom with me.

Right.

And I'm not going to do anything weird. It's amazing. It's an incredible story.

My dad, he used to encourage me to fail. So at the dinner table, growing up, he would ask my brother and me what we failed at that week. Wow. And if we didn't have something to tell him, he'd be disappointed. And I vividly remember being a little girl and saying, I tried out for this dad, and I was horrible, and he would high five me. And he'd go, way to go.

Wow.

So he's reframing my definition of failure. So failure for me became about not trying, not the what was the biggest.

Lesson he taught you? Was that it?

Yeah, for sure.

And what about your mom? What's the biggest lesson she taught you?

My mom is so supportive. She's the most lovely, sweetest person I've ever met in my life. And she's an artist and she's super creative. So I like to think and hope that she passed on a little bit of the creative side to me.

Who would you say is more influential to you?

Oh, both. It was such a balance.

Yeah. Yeah.

I got really good. My family's very supportive.

That's amazing. So, you know, some people I hear about when they get these big orders or a lot of press for something, they're not set up or ready to take it on and it actually kills the company because they don't have the funds to buy the product or the goods.

Yeah.

But for you, that didn't happen. You were, you were set up. You were good to go or, well, it was close.

I mean, I saw, I was in my apartment and I had $5, 000 that I'd started it with. So, and I stayed self funded from the start. I still own 100% of Spank.

Banks.

I never borrowed any money or went outside of.

And how many employees do you have now?

Over. Over 200.

200.

Yeah.

And based in Atlanta. Based in Atlanta. It's amazing. It's unbelievable. Now you have Jesse, who was in here before.

Yes.

How long you guys been married now?

Eight years.

Eight years. And when was Spanks started? What year?

2000.

2000. Okay.

Yeah. We actually started our companies at the same time. We didn't know each other. He started Marquee Jet in 2000.

Yeah.

And I started.

Wow. And you met eight years after, because it's been 16 years since you started, right? So eight years into Spanks, you met.

Yes.

And how did that, you know, how did you know that you guys were going to be married and start this life? Because you were in another relationship before it sounded like, correct?

Yes.

So how did it come about?

Well, I was a customer of his and our sales rep kept saying, you have to meet the owner and founder of this company. And they kept inviting me to things and I couldn't go. And then she said, we have a poker tournament in Vegas. that you have to attend. And it's a customer appreciation. So I went and that's where we met in Vegas. That's what I like to say. I met my husband in Vegas.

Oh, all right. And you guys just hit it off and you just knew right then or?

I pretty much knew right away.

Really? Yeah. Okay. And were you out of the relationship before then or were you transitioning or was it kind of, it was fading?

My boyfriend at the time was supposed to be with me and he got sick at the last minute.

No way.

Didn't come on the trip. No way. Yeah. And so my friend Julie came in with me instead. And then I just had a feeling when I met Jesse, I was like, wow, this guy, I just felt something like that. That he would somehow end up in my life. And we stayed in touch casually. Yeah. For the next, like, six months. And then when that relationship stopped.

Wow.

Jesse. called. Really? Yeah.

You kind of heard about it.

Okay.

Gotcha. Amazing. And now you guys have, you have four kids together, right?

Yes. All under the age of seven.

This is amazing.

Three in diapers right now. I'm like, what's my name?

What's going on? I understand how you're able to. And, and you said a, you know, joke before you, like, if you ask me how to balance it, I'm not going to be able to give you a good answer, but how are you, how do you, like, you're, you seem so graceful right now. You're so clear and and lovely and friendly and happy and joyful when you have this, however big your company is, to four kids, a husband, to traveling around, you've got a book coming out right now, we're going to talk about, you've got working on multiple products, different things all the time. I don't understand how you're this calm and lovely and amazing.

Well, thank you. The work-life balance thing is, I am a work in progress. That's my, but I don't have any wonderful advice to dispense.

Is that what you say?

I wish that I did. that I don't. But I will say the one thing that I feel like has helped me the most is to be kind to myself. So I realized that as a mother, I, when I became a mom, I spent a lot of mental energy beating myself up, like feeling so guilty. And when I was working, I was beating myself up that I wasn't with the kids. And mentally, and when I was with the kids, I was beating myself up about that. So I think a lot of mothers were our own worst enemy. And when I really stopped and said, I don't know how to juggle all this. Some days I feel like I'm doing it. right. And some days I feel like I just want to cry. I at least I made that change. And it was a huge change for me. I just catch myself when I start doing that to myself. And I just I change it to kindness and forgiveness.

As opposed to beating yourself.

Yeah, I'm just like, okay, it's all right.

Yeah.

And then that that helps me stay more present also.

Is there a woman or a mother that you really admire? admire that you see that is doing it gracefully as well. That is a good model for you or. Well, and you're on your friends or I moms out there.

Yeah. I think any, any working mom. I mean, when I see working moms, any mom, really, honestly, stay-at-home moms. I mean, it's like, it's a full-time job, no matter how you slice it. It's really impressive. I think women are really incredible.

You are. Yeah. I don't know how you guys do it.

I like to hire moms because I know that they are unbelievable at multitasking and getting multiple things Most of my team is women.

Yeah. One guy on my team and the.

Rest are smart, smart men. Yeah.

Because you guys are extremely talented.

Thank you.

Yeah, this is amazing. I agree. And what is the book? You've been working on the book for seven years.

You said seven years, right?

It's true. You took a photo seven years ago. Seven and a half years ago.

And what's the book called? It's called the Belly Art Project. And I'm super excited about it. It started with my own pregnant belly.

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It's out.

It's out.

Go ahead.

Because it takes so long. I mean, think about it. It's not like I can do a casting call for nine month pregnant women. I was stalking them in airports, nail salons, other people's weddings. Finding them. I'd read about them in the press and then start calling them and say, please, would you be in this book? And then each woman that you photograph, I'm like, okay, now we have nine women. I can't do a book with nine. All right, let's find a tenth. Then it'd be 10 and be like, we need another one. So when was it enough? And we have one man in the book who painted his belly. And I bet for all the money, you couldn't guess who the man is.

Is it a celebrity?

Yes, he's famous. He's the only man in the book with his belly painted.

Does he play a Desport?

No. He's over 80.

Larry King?

No, that's a good guess.

He's been on the show, that's why I thought of Larry King. But over 80? Stan Lee?

No.

I don't even know who's over 80 that it's a famous dude, I don't know.

The most unlikely person maybe that you could guess. His name starts with a W.

Wes Welker.

Who's that?

Wes Welker? No, Les Welker is what I'm thinking. Who's the guy who owns Victoria's Secret?

Oh, Les Wexner.

I had the football player.

I had the football player. I said, who is the football player?

I had the football player, Wes Welker.

Is the football player.

All right, all right. But I'm from Columbus where Victoria's Secret.

And Limited is at.

Okay. So that's why I'm thinking of Les Welker, right? Yes.

I don't know, who is it?

Warren Buffett. Warren Buffett, no way!

You! got him to do it? Yes. Painting his belly? Yes. That's worth buying the book just for that. I know, you have to see it. He's such an amazing trooper. He's so generous. with his spirit and everything. And he sat next to me at a lunch and I said, he said, what are you up to? And I said, here are the pictures. And he laughed for a minute straight and said, I want to be in the book.

No way. Yes.

He painted, what does the painted? So we were on a plane to Omaha to paint Warren Buffett's belly. We were freaking out. I was so nervous and so excited. And then we were all rehearsing, like, how do you ask Warren to take his clothes off? Like, do you ease into it? Do you say, hey, do you make small talk? And he came in. and he was just such a good sport. Took his dress shirt off and said he chose the yo-yo so we painted.

A yo-yo on his back.

That's amazing. Yeah. And what's the book? All for the cause. So 100 of the book proceeds goes to every mother counts and gives back to Christy Turlington's foundation. She's doing amazing work. My foundation's about empowering women, but this creative idea felt much more in line with pregnancy and childbirth. So I wanted to gift the money to a foundation that was much more like on the ground knowing exactly how to make a difference for maternal health.

Amazing.

And, you know, every two minutes a woman dies in childbirth on the planet. So this book hopefully will help make childbirth safe for women everywhere. So you got to get the book. It's a beautiful coffee table book or it's a cool shower gift. I'm hoping I also sell a belly painting kit. And I'm hoping women will do it at showers. Paint the paint the girl's belly at the shower that's cool you know have fun with it post your pictures belly.

Art project bellyartproject.com or.org.org and you can.

Get the big limited edition book the coffee table book at spanks.com you can also get the belly painting kit at spanks.com and the smaller book that's 29.99 is at Amazon and Barnes and Noble.

And everywhere belly art project yeah that's awesome I'm excited make sure you guys pick it up yeah what's the thing you are most proud of that a lot of people maybe don't know what.

A good daughter and granddaughter I've been, like, it's always been such a priority to me to take really good care of my mom and my grandma and be close. And, you know, I, I think just, you said what people don't know about me, so I was trying to think about it, but I'm most proud of the fact that that I was able to achieve this in a really kind way, you know, that I can look at myself in the mirror and just, I am where I am and I feel really good about it, really good about myself. I didn't feel like I had to compromise. You know, when I first started Spanx, I was at a cocktail party and three guys came up to me and they said, Sarah, we heard you just started your business and invented something. And I said, Yes. And they go, you, know, business to this war.

And I just looked at him and.

And, and then one guy, you know, pat me on the back and he said, yeah, I hope you're up for it. I hope you're ready for war.

Wow.

And I went home that night in my apartment, I sat down on the floor, and I literally started crying. And I remember thinking, I don't want to go to war. Like, why does it have to be war? I want to go about this in a completely different way. And so the whole journey of Spanx, I really took a feminine approach to it. I mean, I, I didn't know business. I'd never taken a business class. I didn't have a business plan. I didn't go out and raise VC. So I trusted my gut. I stuck with intuition. I, you know, just did things what felt very, yeah, I think traditional business has been very male energy. And so I wanted to see what would happen if I took a very feminine energy approach.

How have you handled, you know, kind of the recognition, the, I guess the fame of the business you've built? I think the, I don't know that the actual stat, but you're like one of the only self paid made billionaire women. I think that's like the line or something you're one of one of the top 100 most influential people in the world by Time Magazine. How have you handled the exposure and the awareness and all the things that come to you?

I believe money just makes you more of who you already were. So if you were kind, you're going to be kinder. If you're a jerk, become a bigger jerk. You know, insecure, you become more insecure. I see it as a magnifying glass, like, you know, money. So money didn't change me. It doesn't feel weird to to me to, to, you know, for me, it was really about, I was so inspired to make a product that was gonna make a difference and make people feel good. And especially women, I feel like the industry had stopped caring about how we felt in our clothing. And I was really, I wanted to take that angle of like, no, I do believe we can feel good and look good at the same time.

It doesn't have to be like a uncomfortable.

Yeah, it doesn't have to be a compromise, you know? Yeah.

Yeah. That's cool. What's your biggest fear right now?

Losing someone I love. What's your biggest fear? Am I allowed to interview you?

You can ask me anything you want. You know, it's interesting that you say that because it hasn't really been a fear of mine until recently because I'm just like, I have so many good friends and people that I've met over the last few years, especially with the podcast that have all these great relationships. And I'm like, gosh, at some point, like, it's either me or someone else, you know? I'm not sure who it's going to be. It's something's bound to happen to someone I know just because of the odds, you know, so. And I don't want it to happen either, you know?

Yeah.

So, yeah. I don't want to say it's a big fear. Just like, I feel like it's going to happen at some point. Like, it's just like a feeling, and I don't want it to be someone.

Really close to me, you know?

Scary.

I've had a lot of loss.

Really?

Yeah. A lot of people close to you. Really? Yeah. By the time I was 31, I'd lost 11 different people close to me from separate tragedies.

Oh, my.

Yeah. So I've been, you know, drops on my knees many times in life by grief. I mean, just, it's like unbearably painful. But I will say that, you know, going through that, I always think there's a hidden blessing in everything that we go through in life. And, one of the blessings was that facing my own mortality at a really young age had all these hidden gifts. You know, I use mortality and sort of the insignificance of all of this in a positive way. You you know, it doesn't, you know, just how temporary this all is to fuel me and to say, what? Why would I ever not do this? What? Because I'm afraid that person, that person's not going to remember me five minutes after I make a fool of myself anyway. Like, let's do this. We're all here for just a short period of time. So it freed me up in a way that I think most people in the natural course of life, you know, maybe starts to think about in their 40s when they might lose a parent or a grandparent or something. So, yeah, it really, how do you.

Get through a challenging loss like that. Like, what's your process?

Oh, my gosh. I. One day at a time. I mean, it is just one day at a time. Yeah.

Wow.

It was really. My best friend, she died in a tragedy, and I was her roommate, and I started Spanx in her bedroom.

No way.

Yeah. I've never really talked about that, but, yes, Spanx headquarters was in Laura's bedroom, and so that's pretty cool. I feel like I had. Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah. And she was always really so supportive of me.

Were you guys roommates or was it just, yeah.

Roommates.

She passed away when you were living together?

Yep. She was riding a horse and was hit by a car on the horse.

Oh my gosh.

Chapel Hill. A 92 year old man said he never saw her or the horse when he came around the corner.

Oh my gosh.

Yeah. So and she was so awesome. But anyway, yeah. many, many different things like that have happened.

11 different.

Yeah, I've lost very close people in my life.

Well, you've come out in an amazing way and been such an inspiration to so many people. So it's made you better. Thank you. It sounds like the experiences you've learned from it sounds like so.

Thank you.

Speaking of learning from lessons, you've been around a lot of incredible entrepreneurs. And I know you did a reality show with Richard Branson. This is 10, 12 years ago, you said.

Yes.

What was that like and what's been a big lesson you've learned from him? And what was the show and what did you learn?

Yeah, the show was called the Rebel Billionaire and it was the apprentice version, Richard Branson's version of that. They were looking for 16 entrepreneurs. So I'm like, Hey, I'm an entrepreneur. I want to do this. And I really wanted to meet Richard. I sort of had set intentions out there that I was going to manifest him becoming a friend in my life. So when I heard about the show, I was like, oh, this is interesting. This might be how this happens. So I applied for it. It was wild. And how big was Spanx at the time?

Was it really well known? Was it like just kind of picking up?

It was pretty, I mean, it was four years in. It was doing great.

Yeah, multiple seven figures and sales.

Yeah, my lawyers begged me not to do it. They're like, what are you doing? You own this company, you're gonna do a reality show? I was like, I just wanna know Richard. I just feel like this is a chance. So, yeah, and all the business challenges took place around the world in different cities. And instead of, if you didn't win the business challenge going into a boardroom to get fired, you had to do a crazy stunt. like a world record breaking stunt because Richard is obviously like a huge adrenaline junkie guy. So in addition to being an amazing entrepreneur, and the very first day of filming, I had to climb the side of a hot air balloon at 9,000 feet in the air on a dangling rope ladder and have tea, climb to the top and have tea on top.

Of the balloon with Richard. It's insane.

It's insane. So what did you guys talk about on top of it? Oh my God, I talked about like, how do we get down? And that's when he said, you climb back down. I was like, what? I didn't think about that. It was so scary. Oh my gosh. Yeah. So it took me 48 minutes to climb to the top. It's at the height of a 17 story building and the dangling rope ladder was just like hanging out into the abyss of nothingness. It wasn't anchored to anything. So I'm like climbing it and... And there's cameras there. That was the first day of filming. So two months later, I know. I like...

There's cameras up there?

Yes. I mean, helicopter was circling. I said, probably, probably. I had to do all these crazy stunts. The next stunt I had to do is I had to jump off the off the side of the Victoria Falls Gorge in Africa with a bungee cord attached to me. And my guy on my team was dangling on a wire, on a crane, 10 feet out from the cliff. And each person had to come up and stand there and you couldn't run and jump and you had to stand still and jump. And if he caught you, you were okay and they'd put you back on the cliff. And if not, you fell 385 feet on a bungee cord. And so I am beyond terrified of heights. It's like one of my, I'm so afraid of heights. I cry on airplanes still during takeoff a lot of times. Oh my gosh. And I was one of the only people to make the jump. Richard didn't make the jump. All these other guys that were like amazing athletes didn't make the jump. And I like to talk about this because I always talk about aiming high and the importance of aiming high in life. And then I think all of us, we don't aim high enough. And so watch where you're aiming. And that, that's saying, you know, if you shoot for the moon, if you miss, you're at least with the star. cars. And afterwards, everyone was like, Sarah, how did you make that jump? You're literally, like, the only contestant. Look at you. I said, well, I was aimed at the pulley six feet above his head. Where were you aiming? And I aimed. I didn't even look at him. I aimed six feet above his head, and I landed at his waist, and he caught me, and everybody else was aiming at his face and landed at his feet and missed.

Amazing.

So it was like, really just poignant example of the importance of aiming high.

Yeah. In all areas of life. Yeah. Yeah. Wow.

Yeah.

This is fascinating. So what was the biggest lesson you.

Learned from, from Richard? Richard is a really, first of all, he's such a bias for action. It was fun to watch him have. He doesn't think things through to the point, you know, I mean, it's unbelievable. He has an idea, and before you're even done saying, well, wait, writing it on He's doing it.

Really?

Yeah. He doesn't sleep much. He requires almost no sleep. Wow. And he's always got a notebook with him, writing ideas. He delegates. He's really good at delegating. He's very good at empowering the people around him. And he didn't ask us to do any business challenge, any crazy challenge that he didn't do himself.

He was doing it with you. Yeah, he'd already done it.

He did each one that we did himself also. Yeah.

Wow. Would you say he's the most inspiring entrepreneur you know or probably?

I mean, he's just, yeah. He's so much fun. He's a multi-billionaire that still lives his life like he has $20 in his pocket.

What does that mean? What do you mean?

It means he's up for anything. There's no entourage about him. He's not afraid of anything. Sometimes I've seen some people become a little bit more reserved or, you know.

Careful and he still takes risks.

Oh, yeah.

Amazing. Have you been to his island many times?

I have, yep, Necker Island.

That's cool.

Yeah.

Amazing. I'm curious, what is more challenging for you, running a billion dollar brand or being a mom and a wife?

Being a mom, because it's a moving target. Like what worked yesterday doesn't work today. I'm like, wait, that worked on you yesterday.

Just wait till our teenagers, right?

Yeah, it's the most humbling thing. I feel like I gave birth to, you know, four teachers to me. I mean, your children are here to teach you. I'm a believer in that, too. So I'm a student right now, and it's fascinating.

So being a mom.

Yeah.

More challenging than running a business for you.

Yes.

Wow.

Being a mom and, you know, running the business and the brand just required a lot of hustle. Just a tremendous amount of hustle. I always that, you know, anybody you think is really, really lucky, there's a lot of sweat behind that luck. You know, it just is.

Final few questions. I really appreciate this. I wish I could talk to you forever, but I know you got to get back to things. What are you most grateful for in your life recently?

My children. That's easy.

Yeah.

My four children.

I think every mom has to say that, right?

Or it's just, I mean, it's true. It's really how I feel. I'm also really grateful for being a woman born in the right country at the right time. I had nothing to do with that, and I'm very grateful. Yeah. And I wake up all the time thinking of that. You know, my mom, we're only 21 difference in age, 21 years. My mom, her choices were so much more limited and what was expected of her or what her opportunities were. So, I mean, if you think about how long we've been on the planet, some people think a couple thousand years, some people think a couple million. Anyway, it's time. And by just 20 years in the right country, I feel like I was born and had the opportunity for Spanx.

Yeah.

You know, to fulfill a potential or something inside of me as a woman that was in me. And so I'm grateful for that.

That's amazing. Yeah, it's amazing. This is something called the three truths question that I ask everyone at the end.

Okay.

So if this was the last day many, many years from now, for you, and it's your last day, and you've achieved.

I have no idea why, but mustard came into my mind.

Okay, perfect. We'll see if that's a part of it.

Okay. I don't know. I just thought I would shoot you a video. I want randomness.

I want mustard. Is that like a mom thing?

After you have kids, you're like, I don't know. Maybe it makes everything.

Just put mustard on it.

Perfect.

Okay. I actually don't like the last one on the planet. No, you're not the last one on the planet. No, no, this is, this is the last day for you. to 20 years from now. So, it's the last day, you've achieved everything you want. Everything in your business, your family, everything you want, you've got. But for whatever reason, everything you've created has been erased. Your books, your projects, your companies, it's all been gone. And your whole family and friends are there and they say, we don't have anything to remember you by. So can you write down on a piece of paper and a pen, the three things you true about the lessons you've learned in life that you would pass on to us. So three truths.

This is so heavy.

It's not that heavy. You can make it light. You can make it like can be simple. Oh my God, this is off the cuff. So again, three lessons that you would pass on to your friends, family, and the world. It can be anything you want. You can say eat mustard is number one.

But mustard makes everything taste good. Okay.

Three truths.

Please. The more you experience in life, the more you'll have to offer others. So experience everything, anything and everything. Don't hold yourself back. Smile and be kind and don't take it all too seriously. Remember to laugh along the way.

Those are great.

I love those.

That doesn't have to be heavy, right?

Use and pack mustard.

I like it. Before I ask the final question, oh.

My gosh, there's another one after that?

Okay. Before I ask the final question, I want to know, is there ever a question you wish people would ask you that they don't ask?

No, I think you did a pretty good job.

Okay.

How about that question for you?

I'll tell you off camera.

Okay.

I have to think about it. I don't know. I'm so focused on you right now. Well, again, before I ask the final question, I want to acknowledge you, Sarah, for being an incredible inspiration in the world, for being a leader for women where I think a lot of women didn't have a lot of great leaders before you came around. And you've really stepped up to show people what's possible to have it all in all areas of life, family, relationships, career, business, friendships, your health and it's an amazing example for so many people. And your generosity and your sweetness and your kindness is even more refreshing because of what you've created. You're still a genuine, kind, caring, loving person. So I want to acknowledge you for the incredible gifts you are.

Thank you.

Yeah.

That was so nice.

Of course. You're welcome.

I really appreciate that. Of course. I took that in. Yeah.

Good.

Yeah. Thank you.

Make sure everyone follows you on Instagram and you can do a giveaway.

Please, yes, I am going to do a giveaway. I just joined Instagram. Yes. Okay. So I ran around the airport asking.

People to follow me.

There you go. You're like hustling just like you were with Spanx. I can't help myself. I'm like, hi, I'm Sarah.

I just joined Instagram. Everyone in the terminal's like, who cares? It's funny.

Okay, awesome.

Is there anything else that we can do to support you before the final question? Because I still haven't asked it yet. There's a final, final, final, I haven't asked it yet.

I just keep promoting you. So what else can we do to support you? Go buy Spanx. Yes. Buy the book. Yes, please. Follow you on Instagram. because I give back to help women. So the more Spanx that are bought, the more I can do to help. It's all full circle.

There you go.

It's like a full circle thing here. I like it. Yeah. No, I think you did a great job. Thank you. And the belly book, the belly art project. Buy them for everybody. You know, it's all for. I mean, it's a gift that gives back.

100 is going to help moms. There you go.

Love it.

Okay, this is the final question. Okay.

Sarah Blakely, what is your definition of My definition of greatness would be going for it no matter what, despite fear, and making the absolute most of the life that you were given, because it's not a dress rehearsal.

Sarah Blakely, thank you so much. That was amazing.

Absolutely.

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