Setting This ONE Daily Intention Will Transform Your Life

If you do this one thing every single morning for seven days, you will feel an incredibly powerful energy shift faster than you might think. Day one. The first thing you need to do on day one for the next seven days, is to center yourself before the world grabs you. Because most people do something that you should never do. The first thing you do when you wake up is you reach over and you grab your phone and you stare at a screen. When your brain hasn't fully centered itself, you're allowing chaos to take command of you, and you're allowing dopamine and chaos and fear and gossip and news and what's happening in the world, stresses of the world to infect your system, your energetic system, your thoughts, and to start creating confusion and chaos in your mind. And when you start the day with confusion and chaos in your thinking, your heart, your energy starts to feel overwhelmed. And it's almost like you feel you're behind. Have you ever woken up in the morning and felt like, I'm rushing, I'm behind and you're not, but you just have this anxiety feeling like, ah, there's so much happening in the world and you haven't even taken a moment for yourself. If you don't command your morning, the world will command it for you. You've got to center yourself before the world starts to add and infect your mind with chaos. And one of the best things you can do, one of the best things you can do is to create a few minutes of silence in the morning. First thing when you wake up, do not grab your phone, do not turn on the tv, do not start playing video games, do not start working right away. Just take a few minutes to either lay still, sit still and take some deep breaths. You don't have to do an hour meditation. You don't have to sit there, you know, like a monk, you know, meditating for an hour in some perfect setting with incense and lighting. You don't have to do this. Crystals and sound bowls. That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about laying in your bed. You wake up, just do not reach for your phone, please. Everything in life will start to shift energetically. You'll start to feel different and you'll attract incredible things because you're going to be different, you're going to breathe different. If you start the day by breathing chaotic, you're going to feel behind, stressed and anxious throughout the day. But if you start the day with stillness, with deep, calm breathing, and you ask yourself, what is the energy I want to carry today? What is the energy I want to carry today? Is it calm confidence? Is it poised, powerful? Or is it stress, anxiety? Because if you don't think about it and you're not having the intention to be still and to sit still and really center yourself before the world grabs you, then you're always going to feel off balance. So why this works is because it's creating an anchor energetically for yourself in the morning. So you're going to feel like you're constantly grounded when if you don't do this, you're going to feel like you're stumbling throughout the day. You're going to feel like people are just pushing around, you're being pulled in multiple different directions. You're going to feel off balance all day if you're not centering yourself for just a few minutes, some deep breathing, without the phone, without the tv, without the video games, without distractions. One of the best things that you can do is not have your phone in your room at all. You know, I'm not perfect at this every night. Sometimes I put it on the other side of the room, but my goal is to put it in the bathroom, plugged in the bathroom, where I don't see it, where I'm not thinking about anything. If it is in the other side of the room, it's because it's my alarm and I put it on the other side of the room with all notifications, everything turned off so that there's no buzzing, there's no flashing, there's no sounds. It's on the other side of the room and it's not in my frame of, oh, I can just reach and grab for it and have dopamine. If you don't have an alarm clock and you need to do that, that's fine. Put the other side of the room if you wake up early. But one of the best things you can do is a few minutes of silent meditation, deep breathing, prayer and gratitude. Start your morning with a frequency of abundance, not a frequency of stress and chaos. If you set yourself up for this, you're creating the next seven days to create incredible opportunities. But more importantly, just you're going to feel more in flow. And that's what I want for you. I want you to feel like you're in flow, not like you're in chaos. Because the world is in chaos most of the time. Most people are living on autopilot. And you might be feeling like you've lived on autopilot now or in the past. And it's one of the worst things to Do. The only way you should live on autopilot is if you're living into the habits that are supporting you every single day. And that's autopilot. But not just I wake up, I do my some routine, I grab my phone, I'm stressed out, I'm getting into gossip conversations, I'm limiting myself with my beliefs. My self talk is already in stress and chaos. We need to get out of that automated system and create a new system for yourself every single morning. That creates peace. Because when you are peaceful and calm, you can sense your surroundings, you can sense your physical surroundings. You're not going to jump in a car and you're not going to, you know, be screaming at people in cars because they're cutting you off. It's almost like you're just going to flow through life with total control of what's happening in your surroundings. You're going to be able to respond, not react. And a lot of people are in reaction every single day from the first moment of grabbing your phone and reacting. Ha ha. It's like this fight orf flight feeling as opposed to the feeling of flow. So start your day with this number two. Set an intention. Set an intention, not a to do list. This is not about productivity. Wayne Dyer says energy flows where intention goes, not where to do lists and productivity and all these different things go. Yes, there are going to be a number of things you're going to need to get done every single day. Specifically, if you're trying to create more opportunities for yourself, if you've got big goals, big dreams, if you want to make more money, if you're trying to go on trips and travel the world or whatever you're looking to do. You've got to get things done. People have careers and jobs and businesses. That's part of life. But Wayne Dyer says energy flows where intention goes. Again, not to do lists, but intentions. And when you shift from productivity to intentionality, everything starts to change. So instead of diving right into tasks, set 1. Intention. Today the intention can be, today I'm going to choose to live in peace. Today I'm going to choose to lead with confidence. Today I'm going to listen deeply to everyone. What is your intention today? I want you to leave a comment below right now and share what what your intention is. Not the results you want to get, not the money you want to make, not the relationship you want to have. What's the intention? Because when you live with intention, you start to manifest and attract from that intention. When you live from I got to get this done and I got to hurry and I got to rush and let's productivity and to do lists. It's going to just feel like stressful because you're not living with intention. First, from the morning, from the moment you wake up, breathing, prayer, meditation, or just silence and not reacting, then intention. What is my intention? My intention today is I'm just going to live with joy. I'm going to live with passion. I'm going to live with gratitude. Every moment I can take, someone cuts me off. Yes, thank you. Thank you for cutting me off because I'm in the car to go to a job that I get paid for. Yes, thank you. I have the opportunity to work when so many people don't have the opportunity to work right now. Now. Thank you. It's shifting the perspective no matter what. And when you live with the intention of gratitude, gosh, things just open up to you. Doors open up, people offer you jobs, people want to want to provide for you in different ways. People want to be around you because you're living with that grateful intention. I'm not saying gratitude needs to be your thing today, but think about what is my intention for today? And typically I like to think about what is the thing I feel like I've been lacking in my life. And now I'm going to shift into an intention where I step into the thing that I've been lacking. So if I feel like I've been lacking connection, my intention is I'm going to be connected today. If I feel like I've been lacking love in my life, my intention is I'm going to be loving. If I feel like I've been lacking, I don't know, joy, fun, playfulness. My intention is. Intention is I'm going to be play. I'm going to be playful, you know, in every moment that I can be within the right, you know, boundaries. And you obviously don't want to be too crazy at work or something. You got to live within the boundaries that you have at specific settings. But I'm going to be a playful human being today. I'm going to make jokes, I'm going to laugh, I want to play little games. I'm going to just bring playfulness to my moments throughout the day. And why this works, you know, quoting Wayne Dyer's the power of intention is that energy flows where intention goes. Energy flows where intention goes, not where to do lists go, not where I need to be productive goes. But the energy goes from the intention. And if you're. You have a to do list, but you're just like, reacting, reacting, reacting, or you're just, like, hustling. That's your intention. And maybe you need that for this moment. But it's not going to shift your life when you do this every single day. From a reaction rather than, my intention is to be my word. My intention is to be love, be joy, be play. It's like we've got to be thinking intention and then remembering the intention throughout the day. You don't just think and do it once. And then I'm back to reactive mode. It's like, how do I be intentional throughout this day? It's a powerful thing. So when you set the intention, so many things show up for you. And an example I have from my podcast. I launched the School of Greatness, this show 12 and a half years ago. I had no experience in broadcasting or podcasts or no one knew what a podcast was. 12 and a half years ago, no one knew what it was. They didn't know how to go listen to a podcast or watch it. There was no podcast on YouTube. None of this was here. I didn't know what I was doing. I didn't have the skills. I didn't have the equipment. I didn't know that the back end of uploading it to the, you know, the hosting provider and how to put it out there. I didn't know how to do any of this stuff, guys. But I had an intention. I had an intention. I said, I want to create something that gives me the tools that I wish I had when I was growing up in school. Because school, I didn't feel like it gave me the lessons I needed. It didn't give me the experiences I needed. It didn't teach me how to navigate money. It didn't teach me how to navigate rejection from a girlfriend. It didn't teach me how to navigate my emotions and my feelings. It didn't teach me how to learn about nutrition and optimizing my health. It didn't teach me about all these different things that I'm trying to learn in life right now. So I was like, man, I wish there was a school that taught me about how to be great in all these areas of my life. Well, let me go create it. My intention is to create a school where I interview the world's greatest minds to teach me and then teach you how to overcome these challenges. That school didn't teach me. This is like the school of life, the school of greatness. And that's how it stemmed from my imagination. This intention to serve, to learn and to serve you. And I remember sitting down with my first few guests and I was like, how do you do an interview and how do you record this? I don't know, what do I. And I kept going back to Wayne Dyer's Power of Intention and I just said, what is my intention? Because I'm not going to be perfect. I'm not going to have the best guest prep. I'm not the most intelligent human in the world. I'm not the best looking or the most well spoken person in the world. Like, I don't have any of these skills that so many people have. So many people have way more advantages than me. I don't have more money than people. All these different things, obstacles were in my way. But I said, what is my intention? What is my intention? And I remember I sat down with Robert Greene, my first guest on the podcast, and 12 and a half years ago, and I said to myself beforehand, I did all the guest prep. I was like nervous. I was excited. I did all the prep. I researched him for days to try to like read his books and get all the questions, the right perfect questions. So I was like, every question is going to be amazing, right? I was like, you have no idea how it's going to go until you start the interview and you start with that first question. And I remember saying to myself before the interview, I said, what's going to make this great is not the interview. It's going to be the connection we have before I ask the first question. It's going to be the moment I arrive to see him to all the time in between of sitting down and connecting to right when we press record on the audio and the cameras and we do the episode, everything in between those minutes before we start is what's going to make the podcast, that's what's going to make the episode. And I just said to myself, what's my intention for how I want to show up? And I just said, I want to show up. Excited, joyful, appreciative, grateful, curious, and really just honored that he would take his time to spend it with me. And that's the intention. I showed up to that first interview with Robert Green where I was like, I was just like, Robert, thank you so much. I'm so excited to put this out there and share with the world. I was just like, man, I'm so excited to hear what you've been up to and share all these different things. We were promoting his book. I'm excited to sell copies of your book. I was just sharing the excitement and the gratitude. I was living with that intention as I was connecting with him before the first episode. And I literally said to him, when I sat down across from him, I said, robert, my intention. You can speak your intention into existence. You don't have to only hide it internally. I said, robert, my intention is to make this the most powerful conversation you've ever had so we can impact millions of lives around the world to live better. Is that something you're up to? He was like, that sounds like a great intention. And that's something I say before every interview. I say, my intention is to create a powerful experience for you, is to add value to you, is that the things we talk about inspire millions of people. I say my intention to my guests. I say my intention before I go on stage and speak to an audience. And I say, my intention is to serve you today, to help you overcome this thing and find the answers to this thing. From my personal experience, my intention is, and I want you to start thinking about that just for the day, and I want you to write your intention in the comments below. Write your intention and it could be from something you either lacking or something you want to create in the world. Write your intention of how you want to build be today. And if you can think and act in alignment with your intention today and for the next seven days and make that an automatic habit of how you intend to be your energetic presence throughout the world, it is going to shift your life in some incredible ways. And it could happen very quickly, but the more you do it consistently, you're going to feel better. You know, you may not be getting the external results you want, but you're going to feel more empowered, more free, more joyful, more loving. All these things. It's about the power of intention. So write below your intention for today how you want to live in this day. I intend to be grateful, I intend to be curious, I intend to be compassionate, I intend to be forgiving. I intend to be integrous with my word. Whatever it is that you want to live more empowered with, intend, say it internally or say it externally and then act in accordance with your intention. But when you don't have an intention, you are reacting to the world and you're going to feel stressed and overwhelmed. So think about that. That is the second thing. The third thing, this is huge because most of us, we go throughout the day and we never fully analyze how we showed up. We don't give ourselves that feedback. Day three. Or the third thing is to reflect on yesterday with compassion and curiosity. The way we speak to ourselves shapes our reality. When we learn to treat ourselves with compassion, we start to heal. And that healing moves us toward abundance, success and peace. And it's something a lot of people miss out on. The way we speak to ourselves shapes our reality. And when we learn to treat ourselves with compassion, we start to heal. At the end of the night, most people go back on autopilot. I've been guilty of this many times. We get home from either work or wherever we're going out for the day, come back, you turn on the tv, you eat a little bit, maybe too late when you shouldn't be eating at 10, 11, 12 o', clock, you're snacking. You're scrolling on your phone and looking at more stress and chaos and reacting energetically to to that chaos on your phone. You're seeing what's on tv, you're snacking. Maybe you've got a video game console next to you and you've got three screens. Maybe you got your iWatch or something. You got four screens in front of you, trying to relax and reflect on the day, but numbing yourself to chaos. And you're either nodding or smiling right now because you know this is true for you. If you're someone who's nodding and smiling, then leave a little smiley face in the comments below because hey, we've all been there. We're all guilty of this. So no judgment. And this is not about judging and making yourself wrong and beating yourself up. That's not what this is. This is about taking the next seven days to completely transform your life and eliminating some of these automatic comforts that we choose to just do because it's comfortable, I'm going to jump in and watch. I'm not saying you can't watch TV at night or you can't have snacks, but it's when it's automatic and you do these things and you got four screens in front of you and the iPad and the computer, seven screens some of you might have, right? You got all the screens in front of you. You're eating, you're laying there, you're exhausted and you're distracted by a million different things. It's hard to reflect on how you showed up today. And the practice I want you to have is in the morning. Yes, but almost more so at night. I want you to look at back at your day and it's really only about 16 hours, right? When you look back in the last 16 hours and say, how did I show up today? Did I show up? My intention when there was challenge and stress and overwhelm? Or did I fall into automatic systems? Did I fall into automatic behaviors where I react, I get frustrated, I have no compassion, I have no gratitude, I'm grumpy, whatever it might be, whatever your automatic thing is. I. I've got my automatic thing. My automatic thing is I'm impatient, right? It's like I like things done now. I like things done the way I like them. I don't like to wait. You know, that's just a bad habit of the past where I like to live in a certain way. But I have to constantly remind myself and listen, you know, I'm married now, I've got, you know, a baby on the way, I've got all these different things. And it's like life has got to constantly put things in your path to make sure you show up differently or you're going to have to feel pain, stress and exhaustion because you're not shifting your intention and you're not showing up in different ways. So it's like I'm always learning how to be more patient, right? And it's not like I'm this horribly impatient person every single day. But it's like I have a tendency of impatience. And so I've got to constantly remind myself, like, today I'm going to be patient and I get to reflect at the end of the day. Is beautiful for me to be able to reflect and ask myself, how did I show up today? Did I show up patient? Was I showing up my intention? Was I giving? Was I loving? It doesn't mean I'm going to be like this perfect saint every single day. That's not what I'm asking me or you to do. But I know we can be better and I know we can improve and I know we can live more free, abundant lives if we're willing to reflect. One of the greatest things that sports has taught me is that having a coach recording your practice or your game film and watching it back and having someone coach you up and then having you reflect on how you could be better, that has given me such an incredible gift throughout my life. Because at the end of every day, it's familiar for me to replay the day and say, ah. And I'll speak with Martha, my wife, and say, man, I was kind of a jerk in this conversation with this, you know, business deal I was trying to do with someone, or I was kind of impatient here. Gosh, I probably could have been better there, or I wasn't really present in this situation. And it doesn't mean you're here to beat yourself up or make you wrong. That's not what this is to do. What it's to do is to say, okay, that's great. It's just feedback on how I can improve tomorrow. And hopefully God will grant me another opportunity. When I close my eyes, I'll open my eyes again. I'll be able to take a breath and say, thank you for another day. Another day to show up my attention. Another day to give generously. Another day to cultivate my gifts and share those gifts with others. Another day to learn skills to overcome my fears. Another day to hug people a little longer. Another day to connect with loved ones deeper. Another day to show what I'm made of in the world. And that's what we all want. We all want another day to be able to show up and be our best. And that's what I want for you. But when we're living in this stress and chaos and we don't reflect at the end of the day or even in the morning reflecting on the day before, it's going to be a stressful life. And every night, when I lay down in bed next to my amazing wife, Martha, I ask her, what are three things you're grateful for? She shares her three things from the day. I share my three things that I'm grateful for, and we talk about what we appreciate about one another. It's a simple exercise, a practice, a habit, a routine that allows us to be present, to share gratitude and appreciation for our day for each other, and to reflect on how we could be better for the next day. Because every single day is a gift. You're giving this gift right now to exist, to breathe, to experience everything around you. And I'm not saying everything around you is beautiful and pretty and fun and enjoyable. Some days are challenging and hard, and there's deep sadness and suffering that might be in your life right now. Because there is deep sadness and suffering in the world. And I know that's not what you want. It's not what you want for your life. It's not what you want for your family, your friends. You want everyone around you to have peace, joy and abundance. And when you think about these things every night as a reflection, you think about what you're grateful for, even if you had a horrible day. Find three things you're grateful for and express them. When you're grateful for something, the world creates more opportunities to create gratitude for you. It expands. So even if you're going through one of the worst days of Your life. It doesn't mean you need to downplay the hard, the challenge, the pain, the grief, the loss. It's not what I'm saying. This is not about spiritually bypassing and just finding positivity. And even if you went through a bad day, acknowledge the challenge, acknowledge the pain, and find three things to be grateful for. I'm grateful that I have food today. I'm grateful that someone was there for me today. I'm grateful that I'm healthy. I'm grateful that someone gave me a long hug when I really needed it. Find those three things. Because when you reflect on how you can be better and what you're grateful for, everything is going to change in your life. If you do this for seven days. The fourth thing you gotta be thinking about is how to rewire your identity before you actually start going after and chasing your goals. Because you don't get what you want. You get what you believe that you actually are. Now, what does that mean? You don't get what you want. You believe what you actually are? Well, this is a quote that is out there in the world that is kind of quoted by everyone and no one at the same time. But you don't get what you want. You get what you believe you actually are. And if you believe that you are unworthy, unlovable, financially screwed, unhealthy, unable to overcome challenges, then, man, the world is going to remind you of all those things you believe in. You're going to attract guys or girls in your life that treat you horribly or just lie and cheat on you because you believe you're unworthy of love. You're going to attract crappy financial opportunities or crappy jobs just because you don't believe you're worthy of being on a team or being with a company that sees goodness in you and wants to see you succeed and wants to elevate you, you and train you and sees your talents and gifts and puts you in a position of opportunities for growth. You're going to attract things that remind you of what you believe you are, right? You don't get what you want. You could say, I want a Ferrari. Okay, you say, I want a million dollars. But if you don't believe you're worthy of those things, you're going to get a Toyota. Or not that a Toyota is bad. I mean, I had a Toyota for many years. But you're going to get whatever it is you believe, right? You're going to get those things. You're not going to be creating and unlocking the next Level of possibilities, freedom, abundance, love, joy, health. You're going to create more of these things. And so first we need to be the energy that we want to be in the world. It's not about having something and then feeling good. It's not about having money, success, the car, the girl, the guy, whatever it might be. It's not about having the thing and then I'll be happy. It's about being grateful, being happy, being joyful, being present, being loved, being energetic. And you're going to create those things as a byproduct of your believing who you are and being those things. So ask yourself, who do I need to be today to attract the life I want? Then act like that person every moment of this day, because our identity shapes your behavior. And when you believe you are a certain identity, you're going to attract people in your world, opportunities that are in alignment with your identity. Right? So if I think I'm stupid, I'm going to constantly reaffirm places in my world, in my life, why I'm stupid. If I believe I'm unworthy, my identity is unworthy of love, then I'm always going to attract guys or gals who flake on me after the first date, who abandon me, who abuse me, whatever it might be. So we need to have our identity of what we want our identity to be, and then start living in alignment with that identity so it becomes one. You need to mesh the identity and the alignment with the actions and the behaviors. I'm not saying this is going to happen overnight, but if you can start practicing this every single day for the next seven days, gosh, you are going to unlock something incredible in your life. And for years, I thought I was unlovable. It was an unconscious identity. I wanted love, I wanted intimacy, I wanted connection. For some reason I just thought, ah, but who could ever actually love me if people truly knew the shame, the guilt, the things that I've thought in my life, the things I've done in my life, the things of how people abused me sexually in my life. If people actually knew this, could they actually love me? Could they actually accept me? I had so much fear, I had so much worry about, like, could a girl ever really love me for who I am? Knowing that I'd been sexually abused, knowing that I'd had all these different challenges growing up, knowing that I was in the bottom of my class, knowing that I wasn't smart, knowing that I was like, had these thoughts that were just not healthy thinking for most of my life, could anyone ever Actually love me? Am I really a lovable person? Like, I get it, I get it. It's not easy to overcome some of these identity beliefs that we've been built in our psyche and in our heart and in our cells throughout years or decades of our life, Especially when all we have are examples that show us and prove to us something else. Guys always leave me. Girls always cheat on me. Every time I make money, I lose it. Every time I get close to someone, they block me and they abandon me, whatever it is. If you've had experiences and memories that are painful from those experiences of the past, you have an identity based on memories. And we need to start every single day shifting our identity. And that means shifting our behaviors. Our beliefs and our behaviors are going to form and shape the emotional identity that we have inside of us. And when we start shifting the emotional identity inside of us, the external identity shifts with it. But if I'm constantly thinking I'm unlovable, can I really trust this girl? Can I trust this person? Like, I'm going to attract people that I can't trust. You know, it's like that are going to abandon me because I'm living with that intention. And that identity is embedded in my makeup of my cells. So we have to start shifting that every single day. Start shifting it, Start shifting it every single day and start embodying the identity that you want to live into. I'm not saying this is easy, but if you can just practice it today, if you can practice it now and then at the end of the day, just reflect. How'd I do? Ah, you didn't do that good. Okay, well, let's try this again tomorrow. Let's see if I can get a little bit better tomorrow. Gosh. You improve 1% better in your energetic identity every single day for the next seven days. That's a 7% change. Boom. It's starting to unlock a new level. 30 days. Boom. 30% change. It's just unlocking, creating opportunities. Things are flowing to you, and that's what this is about. Day five, the fifth thing. Man, this is tricky. This is tricky. And again, I don't want you to be a. A person that spiritually bypasses something with just think positive, everything's gonna be okay. That's not what this is about. But day five is being grateful for what's not guaranteed. Being grateful for what's not guaranteed. I have so many goals and dreams and aspirations in my life. Nothing is guaranteed. It's scary because you're putting energy, you're putting Resources, time, money, trust into actions of creating a life that you want for a dream, a goal, a relationship, a physical, healthy body, whatever it might be. Where nothing is guaranteed, my friend, none of it's guaranteed. And you're thinking, ah, well, I don't want to get out of this relationship because I've invested years of my time already, so what if I lose all that time? It's all these unknowns, all these fears. Never underestimate the power of gratitude. Appreciating what you have opens the door for more abundance to come in your life. The idea around this is we don't know what tomorrow brings. Life could be long, life could be short, we don't know. But we have to be appreciating the miracle of today. That's why when you practice this as a daily thing and it's really a 16 hour window, if you're sleeping seven, eight hours a day, it's around a 16 hour window. Don't think for the next rest of your life. Think today. Wake up, presence, calm, breathing, meditation, prayer, whatever works for you. Think of intention. How do I want to live today? How do I want to show up? Even though I've lived my whole life in fear and reacting and I've always acted a certain way, that doesn't matter. I'm not living in the past, I'm living in today. This intention right now, I'm living into it. And the only thing that matters is today. Knowing that if I didn't know that tomorrow was going to come and I was given a task, I was given a goal, I was given a challenge to live the identity of the most empowered, positive, generous, excited, passionate person today. Could I do that? And how would that look? Make it a fun challenge for yourself. You don't have to make life so daunting and exhausting. And oh, life is just beating me down and I'm like, nothing ever comes to me, I'm so unlucky. Like that is not going to create miracles in your life. The energy of victimhood is not going to create the possibilities of a victor. You have to be thinking differently, acting differently, intending, and your identity needs to shift with it. So a practice you can have is to write or speak three things that you are excited about, are grateful for. If you only had one more day to live, if you only had one more day to liveSight how could you find those three things? And then how could you go express those things for the next 16 hours before you come back and go to sleep? How could you go express that fully, be the identity that you want to be and express it. When you do this, it awakens your emotional center inside of you. When you start thinking in creative and imaginatory ways, it starts awakening a power inside of you emotionally, not just your logical mind. And this is the blessing of having another day thinking about man, if this was my last day, how would I live? You know, a story around this is. Some of you may not know this, but my father passed away a few years ago. And when I was 20, 21, he got into a severe car accident where the car that he hit came up on his car, it was an suv. Came up on the car and hit him right in the head through the windshield, cracked his skull open. He had to. The paramedics had to come and they cut the car open because he was jammed in the car. So they had to cut the car open, got him out. They airlifted him from a helicopter to a hospital while someone was holding his head closed because he had a car smashed right in his forehead. And for three months he was in a coma. We didn't know if he was going to live, if he was going to die. We didn't know. I'm 21, I'm playing college football. I get a call at night, right before a game, around 11 o' clock at night for my sister. And right when I picked up the phone, for whatever reason, I get goosebumps thinking about it, whatever. For whatever reason, I picked up the phone and I said, what happened to Dad? I didn't know something happened. I just had a feeling because my, you know, my family wouldn't call me late at night before a game when I have a game the next morning. They wouldn't call me like that. So I just saw the phone, I pick it up, I say, what happened to dad? He went on a trip to New Zealand and was gone for a couple weeks. And I just had a feeling because the last time I saw him before he left, we were at a weekend family campground, this is a week before this. And I saw him sitting on a couch kind of in the lobby area of this campground. And he was sitting there by himself. And he just had a different look about him. It was just something different about him energetically. And I went up to go sit next to him and I was like, dad, how are you feeling? And he says, I'm really excited about this trip, I'm going to go on. But something was off when he was talking to me, like I was looking at him and it was just like, huh? He just looked. It's almost like he knew something was going to happen, like his life was going to change. But it was just a weird feeling. I can't really explain how it is. Maybe you've had this in life in some way. And I'm sitting next to him. I'm like, dad, how you feeling? He goes, I'm really excited about this trip. And I go, why? And he goes, I'm excited to go on a spiritual adventure. And when I think about it, I didn't know that was going to be the last day that my dad was going to be who he was. Because after his accident, he was in a coma for three months. He eventually did wake up right around Thanksgiving, which was a beautiful blessing and a beautiful gift. He was in a hospital for many months on life support. Then he woke up. Then he got a little bit better. But when he came back from New Zealand, back home in Ohio, I saw him in the airport, went to go grab him, and I knew that he would never be the same. I knew life would never be the same with my father now. I had belief, I had faith. I was praying nonstop. I was trying to find the best doctors, the best therapists, the best everything. But dad was never the same. For 17 more years, until he passed away a few years ago. And it was pretty devastating. I mean, it really was hard for me and my whole family because here's a man that I really looked up to, a man that I admired, a man that taught me so much, a man that showed up to all my games, who supported me, who wanted to see me succeed. Not a perfect man. He had a lot of mistakes. And childhood, early childhood was not fun. But then later childhood, my teen years, college years, he started to transform into a better man. And it was just. It's hard to have someone alive but emotionally gone, Especially your father. Someone that now you have to teach, now you have to take care of. Now you have to remind them who you are. You have to tell them your name when you see them. And when they ask you, how do I know you? You have to remind them, hey, dad, I'm your fourth son. It's Louis. He goes, didn't you used to play sports? Yeah, dad. You used to come and watch my games all the time. Here's some photos to remind you. And every time I see him, you have to retell him the story of his life and my life and our life together. And for the first four or five years, it was devastating because I wanted him to be back to the person he was. I wanted him to be My dad, I wanted him to have his memories. I wanted him to be able to be emotionally there and present. But every time I saw him, he'd get tired after 30, 40 minutes, he'd want to sleep. He couldn't remember much. He couldn't work anymore. Another day of his Life. He needed 24, 7 support, and he emotionally wasn't there physically. He was there emotionally. My dad wasn't there. And it was probably one of the hardest 17 years of my life to experience that experience. And at the same time, had I known that was my last day when he said, I'm going to go on a spiritual journey, had I known that was my last day with him before he had his accident, I might have hugged him a little bit longer. I might have just sat next to him longer instead of, like, ran off and did what I did. I might have just really just been there and said, tell me more, dad. Tell me more. What do you mean, a spiritual adventure? Tell me more about your life. Just being present. Like, I didn't know that was going to be the last day. And you can't take that back. You can't take back these moments today. This moment, this day will never happen again. Never. And tomorrow's not guaranteed for me or you. I hope it is. I hope I live a very long, healthy life, accomplish all my dreams. I hope you live a long, healthy life, accomplish all your dreams. But no day is guaranteed except for this moment. So I want you to be thinking about that. Think about how you can show up fully today as we go into day six. And the sixth thing that I want you to apply for these seven days is thinking all about fear. Because the biggest thing that blocks us is our fear. So on day six, I want you to turn your fear into a superpower. Your biggest fear is often the doorway to your greatest gift. And what if the fear holding you back was actually the key to your greatest growth? What if the fear holding you back was the key to your greatest growth? And there's something that I talk about in my books that's called creating a fear list. And I want you to do this right now. I want you to make a list of three, four or five of the biggest fears that you have, whether it's fear of judgment, fear of failure, fear of success. Is it fear of public speaking? Is it fear of being lovable? Is it fear of being vulnerable? Is it fear of intimacy? Is it fear of someone leaving you and abandoning you? Like, what is the fear that you have? I'm not talking about, you know, Snakes, necessarily, or spiders or something like the sharks. I'm not talking about that necessarily, although you can write that down as well. But more of these psychological, emotional fears that block you from taking risks, from having courage, from doing the thing that you're meant to do. What is that fear? Write that down. Something that. A big fear for me. I've talked about my fear of public speaking and how it. When I went all in on public speaking every week for a year, I made $5,000 by the end of that year on a speech, when a year before that, I couldn't get up in front of five people without stuttering or sweating profusely and just being like. I couldn't remember how to speak for 60 seconds, I was terrified. But when I went all in on the fear, allowing myself to be fear, to be terrified, to be nervous, to sweat and look like an idiot in front of people that were much smarter and much better than me, by allowing myself to be fear, I overcame the fear. But I had to put myself in the situation of fear every week. And by doing that, it made me more confident, it made me more courageous, it gave me more skills, and it created an identity of myself where I can speak in front of any amount of people. I can present and share a vision of what I want to share with the world and let it be received. Is it perfect? Am I the funniest or the smartest, the most eloquent? No. But I overcame a fear that allowed me to create financial freedom for myself and impact people in a positive way. And if I never went all in on that fear, I never would have had this superpower. And again, this doesn't mean, you know, I can still improve on this. You know, 15, 17 years later, I can still get better as a speaker. I have a long way to go to get better, but I stepped into a new identity where my fear was my identity. I am not a public speaker. I cannot speak publicly. I get nervous when I speak. I'm not good at this. That was my identity because that's what I believed, that's what I spoke, that's how I felt, and that's how I acted. And you need to shift all those things in order to create a new identity. Okay, I'm not a good public speaker yet, but I'm working to improve every day. Great. Then act in accordance with that. Feel the tremor, the terror, the nerves, the excitement, the judgment. Feel it in your body. Allow yourself to fricking shake. Allow yourself to be nervous. Allow yourself to switch sweat. I don't Care if you pee a little. Whatever you got to do, feel that fear and do it, do it over and over again. The more afraid you are, the more you need to do it every day, not every week. You need to do it daily. Until the fear, the shakes become stillness, until the insecurity becomes wisdom, until the stutters become sturdiness, until you become more poised at the ability of the thing that you're most afraid of. And when you can start to embrace the fear by being the fear, stepping into it daily, you say, oh, I just got a little bit better than the day before. Oh, man. I could see myself improving because I'm allowing feedback and I'm allowing myself to reflect on it and know that I'm not going to be perfect. And that's absolutely okay. I don't need to be perfect. I just need to keep improving. And you may be blocking yourself because you're too afraid to be fear and step into it and just allow yourself to fail miserably over and over again, because that's the only way you're going to start to succeed by failing over and over again. And day seven to unlock incredible freedom for yourself is you've got to visualize your future self looking back. Visualize your future self looking back. What does this mean? The path to anywhere worth going requires taking action. I remember a time when I was going through something challenging in my life, a personal breakup. I was going through. This is probably like seven, eight, nine years ago or something. And I remember I was kind of like getting like, people were gossiping online. What happened? What did he do? What did she do? You know, what did Lewis do? Did he blah, blah, blah, all this stuff. And I started to get all this, like, negative talk and judgment on social media, and it felt kind of unfair. And I remember I was interviewing my friend Robin Sharma, who wrote a book, many books, but he wrote a book called the 5am Club. And he wrote many other successful books. And he. I just met him like two weeks after this, had kind of been going on online. And he walks in the door, this is like three studios ago in my apartment, he walks in the door and he goes, hey, Lewis, nice to meet you. And he goes, how's it going? And literally, I don't know how to, like, do small talk with people. I don't know why that is, but it's hard to be like, yeah, everything's fine. When something's not fine, I can't just say everything's good, you know, everything's fine in my life. But it's like, I'm more of a type of guy that just shares what's on my heart with people most of the time. And he's like, hey, nice to meet you, Lewis. How you doing? And I go, actually, I'm not doing. So I'm kind of, like, going through it right now, and I just. Going through a breakup, and it's like, getting judged and blah, blah, blah. And we're just kind of telling him what's going on, and we're, like, sitting down, and he's, like, waiting to do the interview, and I'm like, just kind of like, you know, unloading. And he was very calm and very poised. And he goes, I've been through this about three or four times in my life. You know, he's a much wiser, more successful man than I am. And he goes, I've been through a few of these type of things in my life. And he just looked at me and said, everything's going to be okay, and you're going to get through it, and you're going to be wiser. And he goes, this is actually something that you should be looking at and thanking as a blessing for you. You should be thanking this situation or this person who's speaking bad about you or people that are gossiping about you. He said, you should be thanking all of it. And I go, why? And he said something I'll never forget. He said, a bad day for the ego is a great day for the soul. And I was like, oh, man, that is so good. But it hurts really bad right now. Can we just get through this and just get to a better day? And he goes, a bad day for the ego is a great day for the soul. And he said, over the next six months, you're going to find out who your real friends are. You're going to find out who fake friends are. You're going to find out who's in your corner, you're going to mend these wounds, and you're going to improve, and you're going to reflect on how you can be better, and you're going to have so much more wisdom moving forward. And it's better that this happened now than 10, 20 years in the future when it could be a lot harder. And it just gave me so much peace right before I started this interview with him. And then I go, you know, how can we make this the most powerful conversation you've ever had? He goes, let's start with this. And I go, perfect, let's do it. That's my intention. And again, A bad day for the ego is a great day for the soul. I'm not saying you need to have bad days with your ego every single day. That's not what this is about. But sometimes we need to purge. We need to cleanse. And that might be relationships, that might be old behaviors, old ways of being, limiting beliefs. That might be lies that you're telling yourself. That might be people in your life that are no good for you anymore. We need to purge things. We need to cleanse our souls, spiritually cleanse our egos that are holding us back, cleanse our environment, cleanse the words we're using, cleanse the foods we're eating, cleanse the content we're consuming, cleanse the clutter. And sometimes these things every once in a while, hopefully that'll happen that often to you. They allow you to make your soul better. And we've got to be thinking about our future self. When he said that to me, I go, huh, that gives me an idea. And it literally hit me in that moment. And most people say hindsight is 20 20. And in that moment, for whatever reason, I was almost like, you know what? I have future hindsight now. I have future hindsight. Because usually, literally in that moment, I flooded back to maybe 10 years prior, was like, oh, man, when I broke my wrists and my dream was over playing professional football, and I was sleeping on my sister's couch for a year and a half, and I had no money, and I was a truck driver, then a bouncer, then I was just broke, jumping around. Then I was begging people for food, and I was just scrapping around life for a couple years. And I remember thinking, God, it sucked so bad being in that environment, that situation. I felt like a loser. And then I reflected, oh, hindsight's 20 20. As I look back, that's actually the thing that developed me to launching my business, to creating the school of greatness, to becoming a better human being, was all that challenge, all that mess, all that adversity, all that struggle. It got me, like, boom, out of myself, out of my. It's what I created my fearless and started going all into my fears. It like. It's what allowed me to shake life up and go create what I wanted to create. I'm not saying it was enjoyable, but if I look back, I'm like, man, I'm actually grateful all those things happened. What if I didn't break my wrist? I wouldn't have created the school of greatness and been able to reach millions of people to help them improve their Life, maybe it was a blessing. The thing that was one of my biggest pains and biggest challenges and things that was the hardest thing. I look back at my father. If my father didn't get into his accident, I don't think I would have been as resourceful as I am, because I kind of always had him as a backup plan. He always said, like, go play football. Go do your thing. Then you can come work for me. He was always there, and it was a great thing that he was there. But I don't think I would have had the courage to go do things on my own. I wasn't born a leader. I wasn't born to go create on my own. It was when that experience forced me to go create on my own. Now I'd much rather have my father in my life, but I can't control that. But what it created for me was an environment, an experience to go become something that I was meant to become. And I said to myself, you know what, Robin? This is giving me future hindsight. And if everyone could think 2 years, 5 years, 10 years in the future when they're going through something challenging or they feel stuck right now, or they're in a relationship that they don't love, or they're in a job they don't enjoy, or their business is going bankrupt, we need to start having future hindsight. Our future self, our higher self. We need to jump in the Future, not have 2020. Hindsight's always 2020 when you jump back. We need to jump in the future and start asking our future self, why is this happening for me? And live in the future and say, this is happening for a reason, so that you can overcome this, so you can get better, so you can improve, so you can move out of this environment, so you can rid yourself of these people that are holding you down, whatever it might be, so you can shake you up in life and start living more authentically. Because most of us haven't been living authentically most of our lives. We've been people pleasing. We've been. We've been projecting, we've been living in fear. We've been judging ourselves and judging others, and we need to start shifting this. We need to live in alignment with our true identity, with our higher self. And in order to do that, we need to think in the future. And I love this quote from Matthew McConaughey from his famous speech that he gave when he won the Oscar. Matthew McConaughey We've had on the show a couple of times. I loved this quote in his speech, one of my favorite speeches he gave. He said, when I was 15 years old, I had a very important person in my life come to me and say, who's your hero? And I said, I don't know, I got to think about it. Give me a couple weeks. I come back, two weeks later, the person comes up and says, who's your hero? I said, I thought about it. It's me in 10 years. So then I turned 25. 10 years later that same person comes to me and goes, so are you your hero? And I was like, no, not even close. No, no, no. My Hero's me at 35. So you see, every day, every week, every month, every year of my life, my hero is always 10 years away. I'm never going to be my hero. I'm not going to attain that. I know that I'm not. And that's just fine with me because it keeps me with somebody to keep chasing. And I want you to think about who your 10 year future self is, but not just this version of you. The greatest version of you, the highest version of you, the most conscious, elevated version of you ever. And imagine he or she is 10 years in the future and you're going through this situation in life right now and you're looking up to yourself who has more wisdom, more clarity, more peace. Is living in alignment. Is their true authentic nature not just pleasing everyone around them, not just going with the flow, but living the life you're meant to live. And you ask them why is this happening right now? I want you to reflect and just listen for 10 minutes. Turn your phone off, turn your computer off, turn the distractions off. Be present, close your eyes and listen to what your future, greater, highest self has to say to you right now. I hope you enjoyed today's episode and it inspired you on your journey towards greatness. Make sure to check out the show notes in the description for a full rundown of today's episode with all the important links. 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