Transform Your Mind To Manifest & Attract Financial Abundance w/ Dr Joe Dispenza EP 1288

I think it's so important for people to remember that they're the creators of their lives instead of the victim of their lives right so the victim is saying i'm feeling this way because that person or that circumstance or i don't have any money is causing me to feel this way that's my relationship with money what that really means is i'm using my lack to reaffirm my dependency my addiction my conditioning that's my relationship with money is that i put my attention on money because i don't have.

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Welcome back everyone to the school of greatness very excited about our guest the legendary joe dispenza in the house so good to see you man good to see you every time you come on people are wowed they're inspired they transform their lives from the inside out and they truly heal and i think healing is something that people need more than ever now from the mind you know which is causing a lot of the sickness the disease in their bodies and in their life and their relationships and their financial breakdown and their spiritual breakdown so i'm so glad you're here so grateful that you're on this mission to help heal people and help people transform their lives one of the things that is the scariest thing for people is that i feel like they're sick around is around money and the idea of money how money plays a part in their emotions how it plays a part in their thoughts in their self worth and their identity whether they have a lot of it they attach their their identity or their self worth or their love to their bank account if they don't have that much of it they attach their identity or self worth to the lack yeah and i haven't seen you do an interview around money as a concept on the psychology of money and how this plays a part in our lives yeah and we're to get to a second part of this really covering more of the research you've done in all the transformational healing work but i'm curious what is your thoughts around the identity of money and the psychology of how we how it plays in our lives because a lot of people want to make more they want to attract more but they're just struggling with.

Just the concept of it yeah well i think we've been programmed quite a bit with our relationship with money we have a relationship with everything known in our environment you have a relationship a neurological network in your brain for your parents for your cell phone for your computer where you live where you've lived in the past what you're going to do tomorrow for the most part the brain is a reflection of everything that we know right so along with that is our relationship with money and i feel like i have a really good relationship with money because i work on having a really good relationship with did.

You always have a good relationship with.

Money i think so i think so i've never really lived in lack that just wasn't part of it even when i went to college and i had to take out student loans and stuff i always figured out a way to always be a little bit ahead of the curve and so let's back up and just look at how people form beliefs because most beliefs are created from past experiences right so children when they're in their early ages their brainwaves are very slow like their brainwaves are in alpha when they're like seven to twelve they're in theta when they're like two to six years old and they're in delta like when they're newborn to two years old and so these brainwave states are states that were really suggestible to.

Information so when we hear information we.

Believe it and we accept it we believe it we surrender to it as if it's the truth without analyzing it because there's no analytical facilities yet the analytical mind starts around twelve or so seven to twelve and that analytical mind is actually what creates a barrier between the conscious mind and the subconscious mind.

So before twelve roughly what we see how we model our parents behavior what.

They say to us it's all being programmed subconsciously right so that's really really because if you heard money is the root of all evil money is bad only certain people are allowed to make money you have to work hard to make money this is how you got to do it and that becomes the foundation subconsciously that's like recording an audio file you just keep recording that audio file it becomes a subconscious program right so a lot of people have a relationship with with money based on either what they've been told or what they've experienced in their outer environment so then we gain information from our environment and the stronger the emotion we feel from experiences in our lives the more altered we feel inside of us the more the brain freezes a frame and takes a picture and that snapshot is called the memory based on an emotion based on an emotion the emotion alters our internal state so you're going along as lewis feeling really good and all of a sudden you have this trauma you have this cr you have this shock and all of a sudden you have this dramatic change in your internal state and your senses get heightened and then you freeze the frame and you associate this internal state with whatever it is that's causing it right and that's how we create long term memories right are.

Painful memories more powerful or beautiful memories.

More powerful they're both equal they're both equal but the problem is i think most people experience more the negative emotions right and those negative emotions really are derived from the hormones of stress the alarm system the emergency system creates an arousal inwardly that arousal is saying there's something dangerous in your outer environment it could be a person a circumstance an accident or whatever and that change in emotional state causes you to remember the event you got to pay attention you've got to stay really and narrow your focus on the cause think about people who have relationships with money from the past all beliefs are based on past experiences you have an experience where you lose money you have an experience where money's taken away from you have an experience where you don't have enough you're living in a place where there's not enough money or a family that's not enough money then the emotion that most people are living by on a moment to moment basis is lacking like i'm in lack of having something that i want okay now there's nothing wrong with that because the experience changes your emotional state you freeze the frame you take a picture the problem is that's hardware so we think neurologically within the circuits of that past experience and we feel chemically within the boundaries of that emotion which would say for example be lack right so now the person before you.

Go on to the next thing what happens to the body and the mind when it is in an environment of lack mentally or physically i'm in lack what is the body of the mind.

Saying yes so the body is saying i'm waiting for some external event to occur i win the lottery i marry the right guy whatever it is you're waiting for that event to occur that experience produces an emotion so the emotion then takes away the lack and so when we play the game in three dimensional reality the creation game in three dimensional reality we experience separation from everyone or everything because our senses fool us into the illusion the hallucination of separation i'm here and you're there i'm here and the door is over there so i'm aware that i'm here at one point of consciousness and the door is over there another point of consciousness okay so in order for me to get from here to the door i got to move my body and do something through space i got to do something and everything in this three dimensional reality is going to take time and energy right okay so then here's lewis right here and then he says okay i want this experience in my future and your brain automatically predicts and projects how far in the future you think it's.

Going to take maybe it's a year.

Five years ten years thirty years oh my gosh right because that's what it's going to take to pay off that house so now one point of consciousness i'm here the other point of consciousness is where i'm placing my dream so i mean separate from that experience so then how do i get to that experience in three dimensional reality you got to get up and you got to do something you got to go to work you got to drive to work it takes energy you got to fill your car with gas you got to eat food you got to work you know all this stuff you got to sleep you got to recover if there's stress and now people are in a sense waiting for the experience that's ten years down the road or thirty years down the road to happen to take away the lack of them not having it and unfortunately many times when the experience finally occurs they can't enjoy it because they're too exhausted right so then so you play the game you go to school you study really hard or you study on your own you develop some skills you make the right choices you start saving money you start learning from your mistakes and then the game is how many things can you accumulate and that accumulation then you associate with being wealthy or being abundant or being successful right and some people get really good at it right you can get really good at that but for the most part though when we create from three dimensional reality we're creating from lack and separation in other words you're driving down the road and see someone driving a car that all of a sudden you realize that you don't have the moment you become aware that that person has that car and you don't have it you're in lack of of having it right so what the brain naturally does is it naturally creates you driving that car and you have an image of yourself driving that car and you start identifying wow that would be a greater experience for me to have the problem is the distance between the thought of what you want and the experience of actually happening for most people is the concept called time between cause and effect right so some people develop the ability to manage themselves and manage their life they've up certain skills and they can pay for it and they can get it very quickly the problem is when the novelty of that experience wears off you know the car and they're no longer identifying with that and the feeling of emptiness and lack comes back.

They need to find something else they.

Got to go find something else and so there's this game that goes on where you never have enough right and that's the lack game right so then if you think about people having the things they want in their life when they create from lack and separation it's the experience in three dimensional reality that produces the emotion and the emotion is saying let's feel that experience this thing that you've been in lack and separation from and that emotion then takes away the lack or separation but you've worked really hard to get it okay nothing wrong with that is there another way to do it yes okay so the person who's living in lack is waiting for their wealth to feel abundant they're waiting for their success to feel empowered they're waiting for their healing to feel gratitude they're waiting for their new relationship to feel love they're waiting for the mystical experience to feel awe that's the newtonian model of reality of cause and effect waiting for that event to happen to take away this separation or lack nothing wrong with it it's the way most people create but what we've discovered is actually something else the moment you feel gratitude your healing begins the moment you feel worthy and abundant you're generating wealth the moment you're empowered you are moving towards your success the moment you're in love with yourself and you're in love with life you'll create an equal the moment you are in awe of life you're going to have a mystical experience and so that's causing an effect right so then if you can teach people then how to create instead of from lack or separation but create from wholeness and create from what we call the quantum field instead of three dimensional reality what's the difference okay so the way you first of all it takes knowledge okay the quantum field is an invisible field of energy that exists beyond our senses you can't see it you can't smell it you can't taste it you can't hear it you can't feel it it exists beyond our experience of.

Three dimensional reality would this be in our mind's consciousness or would this be.

In a different space okay let's look at that so the answer to the question is how much of your waking day do you put your attention on matter on the material world and how much of your awakening day are you aware of energy frequency for most people they're unaware of the quantum field and if you're unaware of doesn't exist for you just like you have a nose but if you're unaware of it it doesn't exist for you the moment you become aware of it it exists well the quantum field you can ask you can study all kinds of science and they'll tell you there is this invisible field of frequency and energy that exists beyond the senses that tend to connect everything physical and material in fact it's everything physical and material is connected to this field okay so how do you get there right how do you get.

There how do you get there how.

Do you get there so we discovered that when you take all of your attention off your body and you are not paying attention to your emotions your drives your habits if you could take all of your attention off of every element in your environment your cell phone your tablet your computer your car whatever it is your bed take your attention away from everything every place that you live where you sleep where you work and you're not thinking about time you're not thinking about your schedule where you need to be or what happened yesterday you can relax into the present moment there tends to be a dramatic change in the way the brain functions when people do this properly we call it getting beyond yourself but in a sense you're dissociating from your three dimensional reality why because if you're thinking about anything in your three dimensional reality that's where your attention is and that's where your energy is okay so we kind of figured out this formula when people really become nobody no one no thing nowhere and no time we are pretty much all of a sudden outside the constraints of the newtonian world of got to do something to get an outcome and if you can teach people how to linger there without a name without a face without a profession without a family without a culture without a past without a disease you teach them how to be in this place we call the unknown right and you teach them that from that place that invisible field is where everything material comes from and if they could create coherence in their brain you need a strong signal in the brain the more coherent the brain the more stronger the signal what do you.

Mean a strong signal okay let's see.

How i could say this when most people we look at when we look at brains in real time and we're looking at people's how their how their mind is working when you're under stress okay stress is created by not being able to predict something that's going to happen in your life the perception that something's going to get worse or you can't control something right so when that occurs we switch on that primitive nervous system called the fight or flight nervous system and the brain goes into this very alarm state called high beta that means pay attention to the outer world there's danger out there but if it's not predator and it's traffic or your co worker or your ex this is where it gets to be a problem because it becomes very maladaptive right so when we're in that state and the brain is in that aroused state we try to control and predict everything so every person every object every everything every place even your body has a neurological network in your brain right so as the arousal happens we start shifting our attention to all these elements and like a lightning storm in the clouds the brain starts firing very very incoherently and when the brain's incoherent we're incoherent that's not a strong signal that's not there's a static on the wire that's disconnection there is no signal right so when we're in that state we're always really looking for the worst case scenario of what's going to happen because if you prepare for the worst anything less happens a better chance of survival right so in this kind of aroused state as we shift our attention to each one of these elements that are known in our environment the brain starts compartmentalizing and firing out of order and that is what creates what's called autonomic dysregulation that causes the brain and body to get really out of balance right so in that state we're over focused you know when you're shooting stressed you're over focused on something you can't stop thinking about it our research shows that when you do that you actually make your brain worse because you're analyzing your problems within some disturbing emotion and that emotion is driving you further out of balance you're actually knocking your brain and body out of balance by thought alone and you're driving it into these more aroused states.

Right for someone that's been living like that for decades that's their base state how do they even realize how to.

Get out of that they don't usually it takes crisis right it takes trauma extreme breakdown breakdown a loss of death.

All of a breakup a divorce a.

Near bankruptcy whatever it is a disease a diagnosis whatever something where you just can't go on business as usual now it's time to really start looking they.

Have to wake up yeah yeah so.

So let's get back to the concept of abundance here because you need a.

Strong signal in this field right so.

Then if you can teach people to do the exact opposite go from putting all of their attention on everything physical and material in the world of separation and instead of narrowing their focus on something material ask them to broaden their focus and put it on nothing i know that sounds kind of crazy but when you put your attention on space and you divert your attention the act of sensing without thinking actually starts to slow the brain waves down not only slow it down but all of a sudden cause the brain to start reintegrating starts to synchronize right and so you see different compartments of the brain that were firing out of order start to resonate they start to communicate they're all of a sudden synchronizing and what sinks in the brain kind of links in the brain so when a person has their whole entire brain firing and rhythm that's a very strong signal that you can send out into the field so.

When that signal is strong in that position what can you create from that.

Space okay so but that's only one element okay so then the clear intention tends to be a very important element that we have to have to get down and the more coherent the brain the more clear the signal for that intention so with intention and attention we could actually make thought more real than anything else now what is that you're saying what would it be like to.

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Lewis what would it be like to be abundant what would it like to have all my needs met what would it be like to have more than i need what would i do if i had everything i ever wanted the answer always is the same you start giving stuff away because if an abundant person is truly abundant why would they hold on they would say i'm not in lack there's more for everybody okay turns out though that the signal sent out isn't enough you got to have to draw the experience back to you.

Send the signal out to you know.

Coherent brain financial freedom whatever that is all these different things whatever that is for you whatever that is for you.

Putting that out there signal with the intention and the attention right and then.

How do you draw it so in the physical world in the physical world you got to go get it you got to do something this is the plane of demonstration you got to go get it and when you you're in lack until it occurs right but i'm.

Hearing you say there's a way to not chase but attract all right so.

If you're creating from the field instead of from matter right there's a very strong possibility that you'll shorten the distance between the thought of what you want in the experience of having it and when there's a vibrational match between your energy and that future that you want to experience now if you're creating from the field you actually don't go anywhere to get it you actually draw it to you so here comes the synchronicities the serendipities the coincidences the opportunities and they come out of nowhere and you you say i don't understand i didn't do anything while you changed your energy and and so then the other element is a coherent heart right and the heart has a magnetic signature and the magnetic signature is what draws reality to us right so you combine that clear intention with a coherent brain now here's the key this takes practice yes because the person who's living in lack is usually unworthy is usually insecure is usually in their past they're usually frustrated they're usually impatient they're usually resentful because nothing's changing out there because it's taking too long everything takes a lot of time when you do matter to matter right so then if you teach them okay we know all about that we know the story behind that we know what your parents told you about money all that other don't worry about it it don't worry about it but now let's do something that would be really cool let's let's write down the feelings of how you would feel if that future happened and you're going to have to feel that feeling before it occurs so now okay what does an abundant person feel pretty much free a lot of.

Freedom peace excited joyful in love with.

Life grateful to be alive abundant okay now let's practice feeling those turns out when you're feeling those other emotions like resentment and impatience and frustration you're stepping on the gas pedal just turning on the sympathetic nervous system and you're stepping on the brake time at the same time which is angry you're frustrated but the fight or flight nervous system says run fight or hide and you're sitting in a zoom meeting and your neck is pulsating is because the heart is beating against the closed system right you're not you're not using it in an adaptive way so the heart starts firing out of order it starts firing incoherently and incoherent waves cancel each other out it's called destructive interference and then we stop trusting our future energy leaves the heart energy leaves the brain energy leaves the heart you can't get in touch with the feeling of your future because in survival those are hormones of stress all those emotions in survival it's not a time to create right it's time to run fight and hide okay so we gotta lay down the very thing we used our whole life to get what we want the habit of doing it that way for something greater to.

Occur okay and what happens if we try to create from survival emotions it.

Just takes a long time you'll just.

Force it little steps at a time.

You'Ll force it you'll force it you'll fight for it you'll compete for it and you'll manipulate you'll cheat you'll lie you'll do anything to get what you want because that's what matter does when it's trying to change matter and everybody's everybody's playing that game right everybody's trying to accumulate the most amount of things okay so that's what abundance means to certain people get as many things as you can okay you want that not a problem but let's learn the formula of how to create right so then so then you'd have to feel those emotions before the experience occurred and if you understood that you could dissociate all of your attention from this three dimensional reality and have no attention on anything known and understand it's the field that creates matter not matter that emits the field and if you could get to that place and change your energy with a clear intention and elevated emotion your heart starts beating in this beautiful rhythm like a drum we've measured it so many times and when that occurs the next thing that happens the heart informs the brain it's safe to create now so the person relaxes into the present moment and then we see this like if you took a big sheet you know and a blanket and you went like that the energy of the heart actually informs the brain to move into these beautiful elegant states of alpha brainwave patterns coherent alpha and that's saying what's the next dream what is it the next what's the next opportunity you want to experience that's a state of creation so now you have a wi fi signal you got a coherent brain that's a directive that's a signal out and you got this coherent heart that's what draws it to us right you combine those two and if there's a vibrational match between your energy and that potential in the quantum field and you're feeling abundant and whatever your brain associates with being abundant that's your call that's what the creative process is this is the creative center the brain frontal lobe actually says what would it be like to be the of part creative or abundant i don't know what it'd be like to be abundant well then go read a few books on people who actually became abundant and realized it wasn't a glorious process they failed miserably they got betrayed they learned a lot of lessons but they persevered and what are the qualities of that person that you could embody that's the key right because it's not about wealth it's who you become right because people think it's about their wealth but it's the becoming process it's the overcoming of course so then so then you got to turn the battleship around because most people say i can't feel grateful for my wealth because it hasn't happened yet that's the hypnosis waiting for the experience to happen to feel grateful well that's newtonian that's three dimensional reality that's cause and effect the quantum you got to feel it in order for you to experience it okay so this heart becomes like an amplifier and it sends that signal out and that frequency can carry the thought of your abundance suffering cannot carry the thought of your abundance lack cannot carry the thought of your abundance it's a different frequency we feel different feelings like suffering we think different thoughts so people can say i'm abundant i'm abundant i'm abundant i'm abundant all they want but that thought is never making itself to the body because it's stopping at the brainstem because the body's saying i'm miserable i'm unhappy i'm in lack right so the affirmation doesn't work right okay so let's go one step further yes so if you practice this and you actually understood you know we teach this pretty well but if you if you learned it just like learning how to play handball or learning how to hit a golf ball learning how to dance a salsa so you just practice the formula you got really good at it if you were doing it properly then what would be the outcome the experiment of being abundant would be that you would have to feel that feeling it's so good at doing it with your eyes closed you got to do it with your eyes open now why because if you're feeling the feelings of your emotions of your future you're no longer looking for them.

Because you're in the future now your.

Body is so objective that it's believing it's living in that reality where you are abundant and as long as you feel that emotion you're not separate from it any longer no longer in lack you're no longer looking for it to occur say why hasn't it happened yet if you're feeling abundant why would you look right so then our job then is to be able to maintain that modified state of mind and body so okay so does that mean like you should check your bank account tomorrow and see if there's a half a million dollars in it no you keep tuning into that potential and then here come the synchronicities what's that that's feedback in your environment the universe saying hey louis whatever you're doing all of a sudden we are starting to create right and i think it's so important for people to remember that they're the creators of their lives instead of the victim of their lives right so the victim is saying i'm feeling this way because that person or that circumstance or i don't have any money is causing me to feel this way that's my relationship with money what that really means is i'm using my lack to reaffirm my dependency my addiction my conditioning that's my relationship with money is that i put my attention on money because i don't have it so the relationship with money is of course built on lack of and so when they don't have it they feel bad and what they're really saying is my outer environment my reality is actually controlling the way i feel and the way i think so louis why are you in a good mood today things are going good why are you in a bad mood things are going bad today so this unconscious program of victimization is saying that we're allowing our environment to influence the way we feel and the way we think isn't that what victimization is and the stronger the emotion we have to our lack of the more we put our attention on the fact that we don't have it right so then the person has forgotten that they're creating reality because what they're creating is lack and they're creating more of it and then they try harder and they force harder and they can.

Exhausted and their body's tired and they're.

Breaking down right so the experiment then is let's try it another way let's create from the field instead of from matter get a coherent heart get a coherent brain relax in the heart and energy moves right into the brain we've measured this a thousand times and all of a sudden the person moves into these beautiful elegant brainwave states where they're super creative right so the longer you're conscious of that energy the more you draw that future to you so then what does the synchronicity mean it means whatever you're doing inside of you is producing that effect outside of you pay attention to what you did do it again so generate a little bit more abundance just do it for an experiment now when the synchronicity happens do you think you feel suffering or do you think you feel a little excitement you feel inspired right so then that synchronicity saying use this energy use this feeling it should be easier for you to feel this now and go back and do it again keep the experiment going then here comes the promotion here comes the email here comes the person you meet at the right time right well we have something happening here and then that that becomes the momentum right so then we generate a bunch of abundance that's how we do it and the.

Relationship it doesn't just happen by accident.

We generate it we generate abundance right so then if you have an hour meditation where you're tuning into your abundant future but then you're spending the other fifteen hours a day in lack don't expect anything to change you defaulted you're back to the old energy and if you say it's that person or that circumstance or that bank account i'm going to say you're back to unconscious the program of being a victim right so then let's go a step further if your personality creates your personal reality and it does and your personality is made up of how you think how you act and how you feel then the present personality who's listening to this podcast has created the present personal reality called her life nothing big there which means if you want to change your personal reality you're going to have to change your personality nothing changes in your life until you change right so then ninety five percent of who we are is on autopilot right it's a programmed thoughts hardwired thoughts beliefs perceptions unconscious habits and behaviors and really really emotional responses that tend to be really knee jerk and automatic right so if ninety five percent of who we are is a set of unconscious programs then the first step to change is becoming conscious of those unconscious thoughts now people think when they sit down to do the work and make their change that they're doing something wrong no those thoughts have to come up i can i'm not worthy it's never going to work but the person who's truly persevering towards their abundance realizes just because they have that thought doesn't mean it's true they're curious on what's on the other side of that thought ah well that's just the thought right and nerve cells that no longer fire together no longer wire together so you keep moving past that thought it has less and less power over you right now you have power over it or better better yet you're using your brain in the proper way instead of being a victim to your brain if you complain about money if you judge people who have it if you rush when you're in lack if you cheat when you don't have what you need an abundant person doesn't do that you got to look at that and say i got to break these habits oh my god if i truly want to be abundant i can't act this way now here's the big one if if i truly want to be a new personality that's in a new personal reality i can't take lack with me i can't take unworthiness i can't take the story that goes along with it with my parents or my grandparents or my ex or whatever that story has to end right i mean if not now when.

Right how do people end those stories.

Well of course well how many times do we have to forget until we stop forgetting and start remembering that's the game right that's the game called change how many times we have to go unconscious and default to that old personality when we catch ourselves and stop doing that and get conscious that's the moment of change so the problem is is that most people wake up in the morning and they think let me think of my problems right the brain is a record of the past so they think about their problems they don't have enough money and those problems are usually connected to certain people at certain places with certain objects and certain things what.

Didn'T work out or who screwed me.

Over so the moment they wake up the moment they remember those problems they're thinking in the past so now they're firing and wiring the memory they're keeping the memory of past alive in their mind the problem is every one of those memories has an emotion associated with it because we've experienced it so when they feel the lack when they feel the unhappiness when they feel the anxiety now the body's in the past thoughts being the language of the brain feelings being the language of the body how we think and how we feel creates our state of being but the conditioning process starts because conditioning only needs a thought and a feeling memory or an image and an emotion and a stimulus and response and you're conditioning your body to become the mind of that emotion and now the memory is not in the brain now the memory is buried subconsciously in the body and the body becomes the mind of that emotion so the body is living in lack and it's believing the body is is that.

Through the nervous system or is that.

Through neurochemical cells everything everything so the so the body's so objective that it does not know the difference between the real life experience that's creating the lack and the emotion that you're creating by thought alone called lack the body's believing it's living the same past experience every day why because the end product of an experience is an emotion well if your life is changing but you're still feeling lack don't expect anything that you won't even see it you'll walk right there past it you're viewing your life through the lens of the past okay so okay so then the person realizes that all their friends are making money and they're doing stuff and they're like wow i'm really feeling lack now so then when it no longer becomes about your abundance and it becomes about your change that's a valuable moment when it's no longer about your healing but it's about your change i paid attention to a lot of people in the last couple years tell their story the people who heal in this work from cancers and all kinds of chronic health conditions and parkinson's and strokes and paralysis and all kinds of things rare genetic disorders it never was about when they really got in the game it was never about their healing it was about what do i need to change in order to hear heal when the game goes like that so then the person who's feeling lack on some level or another it's not just in the mind it's in the body right let me say.

Let me hear what you say that again when someone's looking for abundance it's never about the abundance it's about the change they need to make for healing.

No i'm using healing as an example but let's use abundance as an example when you understand that you cannot get abundance when it's no longer about the game called abundance it's about the game called change what do i need to change the more i change the more i'll be abundant yes so then it's no longer why haven't how come it hasn't happened that's the old personality separate from the experience still in lack asking that question which is creating your current reality which is which is reaffirming it because that's the lens you're perceiving it through okay so so we should be.

Focusing more on what we need to change every moment as opposed to the abundance or the healing well the word.

Meditation means to become familiar with sit with yourself long enough and not turn on your cell phone not scroll through your social media do no tiktok no emails none of that stuff just sit and close your eyes and watch the thoughts that come up that's the exact reason why you're not abundant watch what you want to do when you're feeling lack to take away the lack and there's always something you do to take it away but sit with the lack and be curious on what's on the other side of it right because the body's programmed into lack now subconsciously right so the emotion of lack drives our thoughts and drives our behaviors so it makes sense then that if an emotion is a record of the past then we're doing things habitually from the past we're thinking in the past right so lower the volume to the emotion every time you notice lack comes up and just like breaking any addiction there's going to be cravings right so the body's going hey louis it's been about two hours since you've been you're so used to doing this yeah you've been thinking lacking thoughts about one hundred fifty thousand times a day and you're just going to stop now the body's going to start influencing the mind saying it's not going to work you're a loser it didn't work before it's too hard everybody else that's why it's so hard for.

People to like lose weight or get shape you might try it for a few days and then the cravings or i'm tired and i want to go default back into the old personality right.

Because why because the body which has been conditioned the mind the body is the unconscious mind so the body's got used to the familiar feeling even they don't even know it's lack it's just how they feel it's not guilt so okay so let me finish okay so the hardest part about all of this is making a different choice are you.

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And the moment you decide to make a different choice get ready it's going to feel uncomfortable it's going to feel unfamiliar your body's all of a sudden saying hey louis why don't you start thinking those same exact thoughts do the same things make the same choices demonstrate the same behaviors have the same experiences so you could feel that feeling of lack complain again to somebody call somebody up and say how miserable your life is right and that's the known right so the body is always influencing the mind to return back to the familiar.

Territory you're a default you're the default.

Okay all right so now the person says okay what thoughts do i not want would an abundant person think this way the people in our work that have created i had a guy come to our event i love this guy he healed himself of he tried to take his life three times he told me that when he came to our work he didn't have two dollars to rub together he's worth hundreds of millions of dollars now and just keeps giving it away his lesson was it wasn't the wealth it was who he became so it's the overcoming process that is the becoming process who did he become in that journey exactly he had to get beyond all of those thoughts of his past all the mistakes he made all the things he did wrong all the money he owed there all of that that was like he just had to no longer be that person any longer but he did say how would a wealthy person live and when he created his wealth what do you think the first thing he did started giving giving it away why because an abundant person doesn't have any lack and he knows how to create more of it and he's in the experiment well what would happen if i keep giving it away he keeps getting more that's a good experiment to have because he is actually living in that abundant state he also had tremendous healings taking place because when you heal your heart you heal your mind i mean it's just the way it is we saw it so many times right so he healed his heart you got an upgrade you got an upgrade right so then the next fundamental question is how would an abundant person think write it down dude and fire and wire those thoughts in your brain and install the hardware keep doing it with attention and intention it becomes the new voice in your head it becomes a software program then say okay how am i going to be in my life today what would an abundant person how would they behave and before you reach for your cell phone start scrolling through your social media close your eyes and rehearse in your mind how that person would walk how they would breathe how they would smile how they would greet people how they would be on zoom calls how would they be in traffic how would they be at dinner and the act of closing your eyes and mentally rehearsing the act if you're truly present the brain does not know the difference between the real life experience and what you're imagining in fact just a little bit of time you start to install the neurological hardware to look like you already did it now the brain is no longer a record of the past it's primed for the future keep doing it keep rehearsing no different than playing an instrument no different than learning how to dance no different than learning how to act or play a sport everybody's always rehearsing right the rehearsal process changes the brain to look like you've already done it you've already experienced it now what's the essential part of that the hardware is in place now all you gotta do is step into the footprint keep doing it it becomes a software program you start acting like an abundant person everything changes your energy changes your mood changes the way you walk the way you breathe your posture changes you're out of the known yes you gotta condition the body now emotionally into the future can't open your eyes in the morning until you are feeling worthy to receive and if you can't feel worthy to receive then if not now when if it takes you two hours to get there ask me if it's worth thirty years of running trying to get what you need matter to matter okay so then the person who wrestles with their lack they're out of the bleachers and they're on the playing field here's what we learned here's what we learned let's go back to beliefs now so remember belief is just a thought you keep thinking over and over again a belief is something that you keep thinking enough times that you hardwired in your brain and it becomes an automatic program and we have beliefs about all kinds of things money relationships god whatever it is it's all based on what we've been told or our past experiences right the boundaries of those beliefs are our emotions right so let's just say you got betrayed or somebody abused you or your father told you that money was bad and there's never enough of it or whatever that's a story okay but somehow it left an impression on you remember that event very clearly and that's kind of rooted in who you are right okay so that emotion then is the boundary of our belief okay so how you think and how you feel creates your state of being if you take a thought and a feeling a thought and a feeling a thought and a feeling a thought and a feeling that's called an attitude you have a series of good thoughts with a series of good feelings you say i have a good attitude today you have a series of negative thoughts that are connected to a series of negative feelings you say i have a bad attitude today so attitudes are just shortened states of being good attitude in the morning bad attitude in the afternoon if you take an attitude and attitude and attitude you keep those up and you string attitudes together you create what's called a belief and a belief is just an extended state of being so if you keep thinking the same thought you keep hardwiring it in the brain you keep feeling the same feeling you keep conditioning in your body the redundancy of that cycle over and over again conditions the body to subconsciously become the mind of that belief and all beliefs are subconscious states of being okay take a belief a belief a belief and you string them together you form what's called a perception and perceptions are just such extended states of being that we're unconscious and so then we edit out reality in fact most people don't see things the way they are they see things the way they are right and people are always filling in reality unconsciously based on their memory they could be married to a person for forty years and they don't see the person they see the memory of the person right and there's research to prove this okay so how do we change a belief or perception about ourselves for our lives okay we've studied this okay let's just say that lack is ingrained in there you got the story you lived on the streets you lost everything you got betrayed your business partner took everything took your wife took you got the story in the half okay okay you got to start telling the new story of the future right you got to believe in that future more than you have to believe in the past so how do you do that you only believe in the past when you feel the emotions of the past the only time you're going to believe in the future is when you feel the emotions of the future right okay so in order for us to change a belief or perception about ourself and our lives we have to make a decision with such firm intention that the amplitude of that decision carries a level of energy that's greater than the hardwired programs in your brain and the emotional conditioning in your body and your body literally has to respond to your mind that the choice that you're making to change in that moment becomes a moment in time that you never forget now here's the key physically physically the stronger the emotion you feel when you make that choice the more you remember the decision okay so then how do we downregulate that old belief if the trauma created emotional quotient of six or seven then your decision to change your beliefs got to be a nine right you got to come out of your resting state and that moment has to define you you could say i know exactly where i was the time of day it was who i was with when i made my mind up to change right because you created a long term memory long term memories are created from strong emotion right but if the amplitude of that emotion is greater than the betrayal boom the body starts responding to the mind and you're actually giving your body a taste of the future emotionally so you brand your what's possible no your body's actually getting the taste of that future event.

It'S experiencing the future now now exactly.

Big explosion in the quantum field big explosion so the side effect of that is if you combine that clear intention with that elevated emotion you're basically remembering your future and it looks no different than remembering your past think neurologically within the circuits of that memory and feel within the emotions of that new belief and watch your life begin to change because nothing changes in our life that we change and when we change our energy we change our life so now the experiment all of a sudden is no longer based on it being hard or trying or wishing or wanting or hoping that's what we do when we're lacking or lack or separation it's about change so then when we finally realize in order for us to become abundant we have to overcome the old personality and that's ninety five percent of who we are right yes so then the side effect of the beginning of this process is a lot of discomfort it is a lot of discomfort because you're stepping outside the known into the unknown and now you can't predict scary no no you'd rather hold on to your lack the pain and suffering rather tell the story of that at least it makes you feel something that's familiar when you step outside and you're saying i'm not going to complain about money any longer i'm not going to complain about i don't have any i'm not going to judge other people who do i'm not going to say i can i'm not worthy it's never going to work all those things got to go i'm not going to feel lack i'm not going to feel unworthy i'm not going to feel separation i'm not going to feel resentment these are the things that are keeping my reality the same now it's no longer about abundance about who you become so the overcoming process becomes the becoming process and so many people come through this work they want abundance they want healing they want a new relationship they want a new career they want the mystical but really they want wholeness they want healing they want peace.

They want wholeness because they feel unhole.

Well well when you're in lack or you're in separation you're not whole imagine feeling so much wholeness that's impossible to want that's what our that's what we're working on with people then you can really enjoy a sunset then you can really enjoy a meal then you can really enjoy your friends you can i i talk to people that are very abundant i mean in the billions abundant and you know so many of them say we are in misery because they're not whole we're in agony because they can't enjoy life anymore that's what they want i mean people want abundance to be able to enjoy life they want to be able to do whatever they want with whoever they want as many times as they want wherever they want that's freedom right people want abundance the sponsoring thought is really they want freedom right or whatever their sponsoring thought would be right so then creating from the field instead of from matter to shorten the distance between cause and effect requires that clear intention with that elevated motion coherent brain and coherent heart tune into that energy and feel it with your brain and your heart i mean we have plenty of ways to do that examine your personality and examine your personal reality change your personality change your personal reality don't make it be about abundance make it about becoming abundant by overcoming the person who's not abundant the person who heals themselves from a health condition who's no longer thinking the same way no longer acting the same way no longer feeling the same way you ask them where that disease is when they stand on the stage in front of fifteen hundred people or three thousand that's a four minute mile everybody's leaning in that's truth right on the stage they say where is that where is the disease oh it lives in the old person i'm somebody else that's like that's i don't even that's not even a story it's not even who i am any longer so lo and behold when we do our research and people do this in seven days of going all in at the end of seven days their body looks like genetically with all the metabolites that they're literally in a different environment you know here's the weird part they're in a ballroom right there's not a lot happening in a ballroom what's happening in a ball i've been to thousands of ballrooms but the environment somehow looks like they're living in a very prosperous very healthy very loving nurturing very whole environment why because they were signaling genes ahead of the environment and if the environment signals the gene okay that's epigenetics the end product of the experience in the environment is an emotion if you feel the emotion before the experience you're signaling the gene ahead of the environment and genes make proteins and proteins are responsible for the structure and the function of your body look at.

Jack by the way i like that look at that muscle over here the.

Expression of proteins is the expression of life so you actually become abundant you actually become that person and people who are truly abundant have no problem with.

Losing things i was always going to ask you next was let's say you make a million dollars in your business but then you invested a lot in the stock market or whatever and then half of it goes away overnight who.

Doesn'T have that happen every abundant person has that happen and their response is.

Minimal so what should people be thinking when they lose a lot of money.

Or they lessen something don't lose the lesson you may lose the money but don't lose the lesson should people feel.

This emotional attachment to the money loss.

What is money i mean what is that what people really want it's like people say to me oh i have this great idea for this new business and i need money and i say you don't need money you need opportunity you need opportunity but tune in there's some opportunity right so it's the framing of how limited we think that we have to get things through money it just is not the way it is yeah so the fundamental importance about all of this is i really don't care if people want to be abundant i don't care if they want to heal i don't care if they want to have a mystical i don't care what i travel the world doesn't matter to me i just want them to be in the experiment the experiment of actually trying it out yes and seeing god if i really change my energy well could i actually have an effect that's produced in my life and if i'm waiting for the event to occur i'm back to the illusion of separation and lack waiting for it to happen to take it away from truly a creator.

So let's say let's say they're not waiting what should they do instead of waiting keep feeling the feeling in the present moment and trust if you're waiting.

You'Re not creating i mean that's just the way it is so wake up every day how bad do you want it how bad do you want in your dream it's so much easier to forget that vision than to remember it right so if you're going to remember it you got to keep it alive in your mind how do you keep it alive in your mind you disconnect from your environment you close your eyes you play music in the background you sit your body down and it's got to pee and it's got to eat and it's got to just sit down for a few minutes like training a dog like stay when i say it's time to get up we get up don't be thinking about what's going to happen in your day you already know what's going to happen don't think what happened yesterday you already know that get in the present moment and say who do i want to be when i open my eyes who do i want to be today what would greatness look like how would i one day one shot one lifetime what would an abundant person do let me rehearse that with my eyes closed i'm going to remind myself who i don't want to be let me remind myself of who do i want to be let's not get.

Up louis until we get in that.

Until we are to where the tennis ball hits the sweet spot when you go oh i'm ready for the day now now game on now if you can maintain that modified state of mind and body the entire day without defaulting by seeing someone or doing something stay in that state the experiment still continues and you're changing your energy doesn't happen in two days you're not that good right that's it you're not that good keep practicing people who show up for the twenty one weeks in a row this woman twenty one weeks in a row the end of twenty one weeks she knew it boom her whole life changed boom was it twenty one days worth it ask her experiment she was just changing the process people who diagnosed with really serious health conditions and they start doing the meditations and they realize wow god my body feels better my pain feels better but my values my scans are still showing that disease exists all right does it mean that it doesn't work no doesn't mean it doesn't work it means like what am i doing the other fifteen hours of the day oh my god i'm in lack i'm in fear i'm responding to the same people in the same ways and you got to think about this as long as your response to everything in your life is the same you're not changing so change your response to things in your life and you're in the process of change so it's then now i got to get good with my eyes open now i got to be able to rehearse oh my god i fell from grace at that moment in my day oh my god i defaulted back to the old self went back all right no it's not only forgive yourself there's a forgiving process like shoot but if you're truly playing the game who cares right you just go god let me brush myself off let me get back in my heart here let me get back in that place let me remember let me get back in this energy and let's try it again let's try it again yes and let's just keep the experiment going now does that mean you have to be irresponsible no you still have to navigate with ethics and morality you still have to have personal conviction you still have to have a vision that's bigger than you and somehow that motivates you because not only you're doing it for selfish reasons but to contribute to others in some way of course there's going to be recognition and popularity and aggrandizement investment that goes with it and money should be the side effect of all that the game should be so good of your vision that vision of the future you have to keep alive in your mind.

That should be the game the ones that can keep that vision of the future in their mind now exactly and.

Have a personality even if your reality is falling apart and that's happened to a lot of people i mean there are people that come to our work living in the back of their car and now they're you know living very well or bankrupt and now they're you know their companies are just thriving thriving they just they just never stopped believing in themselves because if you believe in yourself it means you have to believe in possibility and if you believe in possibility you're going to have to believe in yourself and so something really cool happens when you do this that i just discovered recently just watching people at our week long events you know because you got to go all in you got to go all in and it's seven days and it's a lot and it's super intense and there's times where you don't want to show up because i'm pushing people across the river of change there comes a moment where people keep showing up for themselves they keep showing up for themselves in spite of the weather in spite of their foot hurting in spite of their bad dream in spite of the whatever their fight with or whoever they keep showing up they get really worthy to receive they feel really worthy like i am worthy to receive this gift and the universe only gives us what we think we're worthy of receiving right so we got to get to that point because so many people who are in lack somehow don't feel worthy right so the abundance then becomes the sign that you finally become worthy and for the soul it's not about the abundance it's about mastering your worthiness and the reflection is the things that you accumulate what's the what's.

The the strategy to start believing we're worthy of receiving now is there fill.

Your brain with as much knowledge as possible and and listen my dad used to say this to me all the time he'd say wait a second wait a second just sit down with me here if anybody else can do it you could do it also well let's just start there so how did these people do it like let's look at what they did all right let's study this is a school of greatness let's study greatness what is greatness like an uncompromising will invincibility lead with their heart adaptation and make changes let go of the past give life live it fully and completely and embrace it and enjoy it i don't know you get to write the script you tell the story of your future instead of telling the story of your past watch what happens.

So how do we should we be.

Speaking to others about our future or should we be more keeping that to our mind and our bodies and kind of speaking it to ourselves what happens when you say i'm going to do this and i'm going to do this.

Is my future yeah so i really don't leak it out i never leak it out because if i'm working on something i hold it right i don't want to when it when i know it's going to happen that's when i'll say hey you guys you're not going to believe this right so it's more to yourself right listen you know when you know when you're changing when you stop talking about it that's when you know you're changing because you're you're out of the bleachers and you're on the playing field the look so many people come to our work louis and they say i always believed that this was possible all this information seems i've seen people heal them some people create well i get it i just didn't believe it would work for me oh it's a big moment it's a big moment now you are on the game i mean the playing field you're out of the bleachers like we had people stand on the stage someone standing on stage this weekend in denver just said my god i really believe that this would work i just didn't believe i could heal i didn't believe i really didn't believe it i really didn't believe she was a physician is a physician i really didn't believe i could heal now is it about the healing anymore it's about overcoming the belief every day she's got to make that decision with such firm intention that the amplitude of that decision is causing her body to respond to her mind and that's the moment she's rewriting the belief and if she doesn't feel like it don't expect anything to occur in your life you got to come out of your resting state you got to make that choice what.

Do you for all the people that.

Go to your event.

And just in.

Life one of the biggest challenges people have is the consistency of doing these.

Things it's hard to actually go and.

Try it once no but here's the.

Deal here's the deal here's the deal let's just say you're in the experiment and now that belief is right in your face i guarantee you that discomfort from that belief being right in your face is going to get you out of bed in the morning and you're going to face off with there's an innate capacity that we have as human beings to want to overcome our limitations it's in there right so the community that we have that does this work they're not like oh god i gotta go create today that's not their game the magic is so good they show up because they don't want the magic to end to go away they're not doing it as a have to to please god do the right thing thing be spiritual none of that it's not an obligation it's something that they actually look forward to doing because the experiment in their life is creating all these wonderful opportunities and there's plenty of people in our work that started new businesses that are jamming they're jamming they're jamming and they would never be victim to those circumstances right they just wouldn't let them those circumstances defined them yes what defined them was the vision of the future and that vision they had to keep alive and the emotion was the energy that drove them right to it.

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