A short monologue arguing that pride blocks learning and growth because it prevents people from admitting mistakes and starting over. The speaker contrasts artists and entrepreneurs who repeatedly reinvent themselves with those who get stuck by fame or success, and uses Elon Musk’s post-PayPal investments and willingness to risk starting over as a central example.
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Pride is the enemy of learning. So when I look at my friends and colleagues, the ones who are still stuck in the past and have grown the least are the ones who were the proudest because they sort of feel like they already had the answers and so they don't want to correct themselves publicly. And so this goes back to the fame conversation. You get locked into something, you said, it made you famous, you're known for that, and now you want to pivot or change. So pride prevents you from saying I'm wrong. It prevents you from. What's pride in this context here? It could be as simple as you're trading stocks and then you don't admit you were wrong, so you hang onto a lousy trait. It could be that you made a decision to marry someone or move somewhere or enter a profession, it doesn't work out, and then you don't admit that you were wrong, so you get stuck in it. It's mostly about getting trapped in local maxima as opposed to going back down and climbing up the mountain again. The great artists always have this ability to start over, whether it's Paul Simon or Madonna or you two. And I'm dating myself a little bit. But even the great entrepreneurs, they're just always willing to start over. I'm always struck by the Elon Musk story where, you know, he. He did PayPal as X.com originally. Actually, it was his. His financial institution that got merged into PayPal. And he said something like along the lines of, I made $200 million from the sale of PayPal, I put $100 million into SpaceX, 80 million Tesla, 20 into SolarCity, and I had to borrow money for rent, Right? This guy is a perennial risk taker. He's always willing to start over. He doesn't have any pride about being seen as successful or being seen as a failure. He's willing to put it all on the line. He back himself again each day, again each time. But the key thing is he's always willing to start over, right? Even now when he's sort of made his new startup is a usa, right? He's basically trying to fix it like he would fix one of his startups. And I think that is a willingness to look like a fool, and that is a willingness to start over. And a lot of people just don't have that. They become successful or they become rich or they become famous and that's it, they're stuck. They don't want to go back to zero. And creating anything great requires zero to one. And that means you go back to zero, and that's really painful and hard to do.
