Matt Cama's videos and podcasts

When I feel stuck in dating, how do I know whether I need to do more, better, or different?

How do I keep dating and doing the program when work, heartbreak, and life already feel overwhelming?

How do I stop getting emotionally attached to the idea of a man before I really know him?

How do I set a boundary around texting before a first date without pushing him away?

How much should I share about my child and my past early in dating if those questions create emotional intimacy too fast?

How do I know if I have a blind spot in a new connection when I’m scared of repeating past relationship mistakes?

How do I stay positive when dating feels like it’s not working for me and I’m exhausted from trying?

I have trouble putting myself out there in my own city because I believe the men here aren’t looking for family or marriage. How do I change that?

How should I handle someone who uses very direct, directive communication that makes me shut down?

What does it mean to invest less early on without losing momentum or taking too long to respond?

What are the best ways to show good discernment in the early stages of dating, from an app to meeting, and how do I know if they meet non-negotiables over preferences?

Is it too early to focus exclusively on one person after only a couple of weeks of dating?

How do I bring up a cleanliness difference with someone I’m dating without being offensive or rude, and how do I know if it’s a compatibility issue?

How do I handle the topic of motherhood and my age in early dating when men ask questions and I feel insecure about wanting kids?

How should I respond when a man asks on a first date why I don’t have children and I experience the question as rude or disrespectful?

How do I separate what actually happened from the story I’m making up in dating or a relationship?

Should I change my dating plan because the guy who has pulled ahead is upset that I’m still dating other people?

How much time is reasonable to give someone after a first or second date before they communicate?

What are your thoughts on giving gifts in a relationship, especially before an in-person date?

Are all the new Dating for Marriage videos also added to the old or previous dashboard?

Where can I find the PDFs mentioned in the Dating for Marriage modules if they are missing in School?

What specific Embody and Create modules would be helpful for defining foundational relationship pillars and creating collaboration and cohesion after a long period of singleness?

When someone doesn’t answer my questions, am I reading too much into it? Is it fair to see that communication style as something I won’t like, and how do I navigate it?

If I’m neurodivergent or highly sensitive, does that mean I have to accept things I don’t want or force myself to fit with people because I’m different?

How do I balance not operating from scarcity with knowing I can’t expect a perfect person?

How do I stop dating on defense when I’m afraid what happened in my last relationship will happen again?

What level of reassurance is healthy to expect from a man I’m dating, and how do I determine which part of my need for reassurance is mine to heal?

How do you deal with a partner who has severe social anxiety that makes him physically ill, and how do I know whether it could affect our future together?

If what I’m looking for is very niche, should I ask people, ‘Do you know anyone?’