[FINANCIAL ADVISOR REVEALS] 8 Ways We Are Taught To Be Poor

Hey there, real quick, before we jump into the episode, listen, if your earnings treadmill hasn't set you free yet, running faster won't either. Listen, hustle without principles just going to burn you out. So here's what I want for you. I want you to join me for my money machine experience live. It is three free trainings. Deep dive into how to escape the treadmill and build a money machine that actually works for you. All right, grab your spot here by going to moneymachinelive.com and I'll see you in the free training. So I was trained as a cpa, a certified public accountant. So I'm a financial guy. I've got valuation credentials, valuing businesses, buying and selling businesses, and all of that. And all that training never taught me how to be wealthy. It taught me to be poor. And your education, your training, they may be teaching you to be poor also. And so in this episode, in this video, I actually want to break it down for you and say, how is this happening? Why is it happening? What do you need to do instead? What have I learned along the way, along the three plus decades of being in the financial game? All right, enjoy this episode of the afternoon. Entrepreneurship. Let's do this.

All right, let's talk about this. This is going to be an interesting one. This one's going to be a fun one. Let's talk about the eight ways that I think that they're teaching us to be poor. That happened to me, too. Like I said, I have been three plus decades as a financial advisor, as a cpa, as a valuation professional, valuing businesses, scaling businesses, building businesses, buying and selling businesses, helping entrepreneurs just like you build their wealth. But all of my schooling, all of my education, none of it prepared me to be wealthy. And had I just followed that, it would have kept me poor. It's because here's what we know. The fact is, is that wealth creation is a behavior. It's a behavior. It isn't about the money. It's about what we do with the money. It's a habit, it's a behavior, it's a decision, it's a choice. But our behaviors are created through our thoughts. So if our behaviors are created through our thoughts, then it is important for us to understand how we're getting our money, thoughts in place to do the things that we do. And so what ends up happening is that where do we get our thinking from? Where do we get. We get our money thinking from? Well, it's not school because they're not teaching it there. It's it's not at home in most cases. I grew up in a home where, you know, I'm a son of an immigrant family. We didn't. My dad came here at 17 with nothing to go to school. He was an engineer, chemical, plastics engineer. It wasn't like we had money came from money, any of that stuff. We didn't have that. And Lord knows, talking about money in our home, it was deemed to be impolite. Don't talk about money. So where else were we going to get this education or this thinking around money? From a wealth standpoint, from media. Now they demonize the wealthy. They demonize having money. What about social media? You think they know any better? Some of them. I mean, come on. So you've got people out there that are telling you, oh, buy a Lambo. That's the way to get wealthy. No, it's not. All right, so the fact is, is that there is. There isn't a formal education.

Around wealth creation. Living a wealthy life. Living a rich life and doing that unless you intentionally go and seek it out. And so what happens is that the thinking we get is caught, not taught. And since it's caught, not taught, we have to be aware of where it's coming from, because that's what's going to drive our behaviors and our behaviors will drive our money situation. And so one of the things that I think we need to do is break down some of this thinking, break down some of the behaviors so you start to understand where this came from and how we can look at it differently moving forward. Okay? And so the first thing I think we need to understand is this idea of there's two formulas, and one formula is the formula that we're all taught, okay? The one formula that we're all taught in school or it's driven into us as we're growing up, is what I call the earnings formula. Okay? In my book, in my upcoming book, the Money Machine, I talk about this. I talk about this being the earnings machine, okay? We are constantly told, go get a good education, go get a good job, go get a good income, go earn money, go earn money. Make sure that you have a good income. So we're. We're on this. This treadmill of earnings, which is the earnings formula. But. But the actual formula is what they tend to do is put us in an area where we're saying, how many hours do I have times my wage, whatever that number is, and I get a salary. And so we were put into this environment where we are swapping time for money. Time for Money. And there's some people that will sit back and stay in that situation forever. Look, I came from being an accountant. We use timesheets. We sell time for money, we get paid time for Money. It's a horrible business model and there's some that will move from it. But understand where this starts to play out, when we start to just do the math behind the Time for Money game. What does it take for you to be, to make a million dollars? What does it take for you to make a half a million or 2 million to build the net worth that you want? Well, I got something for you. I created a calculator that I'm gonna, that I'm gonna use. I'm gonna run through some numbers for you so you start to understand how this can play out. When you start to do this, and what does it take to get to a million dollars? What does it take to get to $2 million? And then we're gonna break down some of the other, other things. So stick with me on this. All right? We're going to do the math, but I'll do it for you. All right, so let's assume that you're getting paid 30 bucks an hour. Hopefully you're getting paid more than that. But we can change it because I have it. I have a calculator that, that can do it at $30 an hour, you're going to do 20, 80 hours per year. Okay. Which is the typical full time year. Now, hopefully at some point you're working less than. I don't work that many hours. Okay? But if you did that at 30 bucks an hour, you're going to get paid about $62,400 a year. Well, I can't invest the full 62,400 because I have to pay taxes, I have to pay for my living. I have to do all that. So I'm just going to arbitrarily say 50% is going towards taxes, living, and all that stuff. So you end up with half of it, $31,200. Okay? That's left over that you might be able to invest. So if I had $31,000 a year, how long would it take me to get to a million dollars? And the answer is at an average rate of return of 8, 8%. And the answer is 16 and a half years. So it's going to take you 16 and a half years to get to a million bucks. Now, if I wanted to go to $2 million, it's gonna take you almost 24 years to get there. Okay, so it's possible, but you gotta be hoofing it and making sure you're putting the money away in a proper way. And so it's important to do that. Now if your spending goes way up, say instead of 50%, you know, that goes to, say, 70%, because a lot of people are living check to check right now. But let's say that it was, it was 70%. Okay? And, and I, and I do that now all of a sudden I only have $18,000 going towards this. Okay. It's going to take 22 years to get to a million bucks. My point is, is this, is that your road to wealth creation can't be a math equation. It has to be something more than that. And there's this idea that I talk about called the time money loop. And what ends up happening is at the very beginning of our financial journey, almost everyone at the beginning of the financial journey, we swap time for money. At some point we go, I don't like this, I don't like this. So what do we do? We start swapping money to buy our time back. This is when we hire someone to do the yard work. When we hire someone to do the home cleaning is that we're using the money we make to get some time back to us, us. But then we get to what I call the wealth formula. So we have the earnings formula and the wealth formula. And when we get to the wealth formula, this is when we use our money to make more money. This is the wealth formula. But no one talks about this at all. Not in school. I do. My book does. Okay, we're not really having these conversations because we're teaching the earnings form, we're teaching that industrial aged kind of thinking of just swap your time for money, work really hard for a lot of years and hopefully you'll get there one day. And so one of the things to realize is that they're not teaching us the wealth formula, which is using the money that you earn from the earnings formula to acquire assets that are going to create wealth and create cash flow for you on an ongoing basis. That's the money machine that we talk about in my upcoming book. We walk through it all. Okay. The point is, is that that's one of the keys that we need to, that's the one, one of the distinctions we need to flip the switch on in doing this. But we don't talk about any of this. So the only things we, we know is to go earn money, go earn money, go earn money. And you wonder why we're on this earnings treadmill of. Of. Make it, spend it, make it, spend it. Save a little. Save a little. But we don't have the machine. All right? So that's the first thing. The second thing is that is. Is. Is the wealth. And then the third is that we see downturns. We're taught to see downturns as. As risk, as risky. Okay? So what ends up happening is that if there's a downturn in the market, we freak out, we go the other way. We're scared about it. We say, I don't want to be part of it. Warren Buffett said you need to be fearful when people are greedy and greedy when people are fearful. In other words, what he's saying is that when there's a downturn, that there's opportunity in the streets. When we're way up high, there's a whole lot of greed and something's coming back home to roost. And so what The. The wealthy see a downturn as an opportunity. They salivate. They know that this is an opportunity to get rich. This is an opportunity to build wealth. This is an opportunity to get in a market, you know, whether it's real estate or stock investing or other investments that allow you to get on that hockey stick curve. Okay, now, I'm not telling you to time the market all that. We can talk about that. But the. But the reality is, is that I'm just trying to change and shift the perspective. So you understand the difference. Yes. When there's an economic downturn, there's risk, there's uncertainty. But let's not forget, there's also opportunity. And this is why we build wealth the way we say to. To make sure that we have enough liquidity in place to keep us safe during the uncertain times, but give us enough liquidity to take advantage of opportunities during the uncertain times, because that's when they're most prevalent, to be able to make that happen. All right, next one is this, is that they understand.

They don't talk about the wealth flatline. Okay? If we talked about the wealth flatline, our youth would understand the importance of getting in early. The fact is, is this. When you first start investing, when you first start investing, you're in a situation where. Where our wealth creation does this like a hockey stick. But there's a zone here that's flat at the very beginning. Everyone. Everyone goes through this, and what you're doing is you're making investments on this line into your 401k, into your IRA, into your savings, into different investments, and you Keep doing it. And in the end you sit back and go, after doing it for years, you know, you look at your accounts and you go, we've only made 67 bucks. This makes no sense. Why am I doing it? And what do you do? You stop to give up. Worse yet, you do what I did. You cash out and said, I don't. This ain't working. This ain't working. See, what they don't tell us about is that on the other side of the wealth flatline is the acceleration zone. This is when our money starts to create more money than, than we could create with our efforts. But the only way to get to the acceleration zone is a four letter word called time. That's it. And the wealthy know that the sooner they get in the game and the longer they stay in the game, the better they are at at it. Now we're not educated that way. We don't talk about it that way. We don't talk to our youth and our kids to say, hey, start at 16, even if it's with $10. Start at 20, start at 22, whatever it is. But Lord knows, don't wait till 45 or 50. Now I know some of you out there might be 45 or 50, whatever the age or stage you're at, let's get in the game. Because the sooner we're in the game, the sooner we can get to the acceleration zone. But the problem is when I talk about this is how are they teaching us to be poor is by not telling us that we need to get in the wealth flatline but not telling us the importance of getting in the game early and staying in the game long. Okay, they didn't tell it to us. They don't talk about it. Next one. We're not taught to make wealth creation a priority. We live in a consumption society. Consume, consume, consume. Lifestyle paraded on on Instagram and socials and all that stuff. Even if you're financing it on credit cards and debt, yolo, you only live once. And that's what we're being caught. The problem is what's happening is that we are earning our money through the earnings formula. We're spending our money through a consumption type of society and then whatever's left over. We decide to invest to get on the wealth flatline. It's not enough and it's too late because we didn't make investing the priority. What the wealthy do is they make investing the priority. They earn the money through the earnings formula. They invest at first to get on the wealth flatline. And then whatever's left over, they build their life. And if they don't have a good life with what they have left over, they go and figure out how to make more money so they can have both. And so they know that investing has to be the priority because over time, by doing that, you'll build your money machine. And that money machine is going to produce more income than you ever could from your efforts. And when you have the right money machine built, like we talk about in the book, is that. That when you have that right money machine built, what's going to happen is that the cash flow from that is going to take care of you for the rest of your life. But we have to start building it earlier. Early, because it makes it easier. Doesn't mean you can't do it later in life. It just. It's just a little more effort. That's fine. We can do it. I've done it with, with both. Okay, I've lost it. I've recovered it. I've built the machine. You can do the same. You can do the same. All right, next one, the it goes along with the consumption, society and wealth priority is this idea of the Joneses. Keeping up with the Joneses comparison, if you will.

In the perspective of what we see paraded on the Internet, all of that stuff, there's no reason that just because your neighbor bought a Denali, you have to go get a Denali or a Porsche. Yet what happens is we make our buy. We tend to make buying decisions based on comparison. What did they do? I'm going to do it. What did they do? I'm going to do it. Keeping up with the Joneses will keep you broke. Because you know what? The Joneses are bankrupt. They live on credit cards. They live in debt. They live stressed, they're unhealthy, their stuff is about to be repossessed. So it's really important to sit back and not have that consumption first mentality, the comparison mentality. Here's the more important thing. Too many people are more concerned about looking wealthy than. Than living richly. I want you to live richly. I want you to experience life fully versus creating something from the outside that looks wonderful, but on the inside, it's stressful as hell. Number seven is the proper use of debt. Okay, when we talk about debt, okay, I am not one of those that says all debt's the devil. Let me be clear. All debt has two characteristics. No matter whether it's credit card debt, mortgage debt, whatever debt it is, if you owe money, there's two Things to it. One, it costs. You pay interest on it. And you might say, oh, but I got a family loan and it's interest free. Oh, no, there's emotional interest there. Okay, nothing's for free. Two, so the first characteristic is a cost. The second characteristic is it stresses. Stresses you. It stresses your financial situation. Carrying debt, no matter what kind of debt, is a stressor and it costs. Now what I want to make sure you do is, is that we're not taught how to use debt effectively and properly. There is productive debt and there is destructive debt. Destructive debt is used for consumerism. Destructive debt is something that we are using to fund a lifestyle, to buy stuff, to accumulate things.

That since we have to do it on credit card or debt means that we cannot afford it right now, so we're borrowing from our future to pay for it today. That's destructive debt to be avoided. To be avoided. Productive debt, however, is debt that allows you to create more wealth or allows you to create more cash flow. Done properly, productive debt can be called leverage. Leverage is maybe buying a rental property and using debt on part of the rental property. Done smart, you'll cash flow it. You'll have an asset that grows equity that builds up and cash flow that comes out. So there is productive debt. That's the proper use of debt. Okay? But we still have to be careful about it because remember, it stresses. If we ever have a situation where we can't pay the debt, even if it's productive debt, it's going to hurt because. Because that's when you get repossessions and problems with banks and all of that stuff. So you just need to have the proper use of debt. But we don't talk about. We're not taught that in school. We don't talk about it at the house. So how are we supposed to know this? Okay, number eight, we don't know what taxes are doing. We don't talk about it. I'm just going to hand it to the accountant. Do you know that if you look at statistics, a lot of accountants make mistakes? It's important for you to have a basic understanding of your rights under the tax code. What's deductible, what isn't deductible, Ask the right questions, make sure you're getting your fair share. You're not there to overpay your taxes. You're there to pay what is legally due based on the tax code. And when you're in a situation where taxes depending on what state you live in can be beyond 50%, it's really valuable to sit back and go, for every dollar I can save or deduct, I save 50 cents in taxes. And I have that 50 cents that I can go invest. That's huge. Think about it. If I can take a legal deduction for an additional 10,000 bucks, that means I save 5,000 in taxes, I put $5,000 away, invest it over time and do that year after year, see what happens. So we tend to not look at the tax exposure we're not taught about. We don't talk about it, you know, but it's. If you're going to be properly on this path to financial freedom in this wealth creation journey, it's something we have to think about. It's something we have to be educated on. It's something we have to be aware of. We don't have to be experts, but we certainly to have have a little bit of an understanding on it. All right, the last one I want you to focus on is that what we are not focused on is value creation. Here's what we're told. This goes back to the earnings formula. Hey, good work ethic. Work hard, get a good job, you'll get a good salary, they'll keep paying you. All right, here's the challenge. We live truly in a value exchange economy. And since we live in a value exchange economy, what they're paying you for is the value you bring to the company. Or if you're in business, your customers are paying you for the value of the solutions you provide.

So again, what we need to do is move away from an earnings formula where we're swapping hours for dollars, and rather come to a value formula of what is the value of the solution we bring. And if you are in a job and you want to get paid more, yeah, you can work more hours, but at some point you're going to cap out or they're going to say we're not paying you overtime, or you find a way to be much more valuable to the company, which gives them the opportunity to pay you more because you are more valuable to them. You make them more money, you make them more productivity, you make them more profitable, you give them some other things that come from it, and they're willing to pay you a portion of that. And if they're not, you find one that will appreciate the value you bring. But what we really need to do is start to understand value instead of doing some math equation between hours and dollars. And the wealthy understand this, the wealthy understand that they need to work from the wealth formula versus the Earnings formula. The earnings formula is there. They understand the time, money loop. They understand that downturns and uncertainty bring risk, but they also bring opportunity. They understand the wealth flatline to get in the game, stay in the game and stay in it long term. They understand that investing has to be a priority and that they're not going to compare themselves to the Joneses and they'll use debt as leverage, the proper way to build more wealth, to create more cash flow and do it that way. And they'll do what they can to minimize their tax exposure so they can keep the most in their pocket while creating additional value in their customer's eyes, the company's eyes, and the solutions they bring. If they taught us that rather than teaching us to be poor, they'd be teaching us to be wealthy. Well, now you know, and let's get going on. All right. I hope that you found this valuable. I hope you found this, found this helpful to start to look at a different perspective for your journey to financial freedom. To look at it and say, what could you be doing differently? To take control, to take, take control of your own financial destiny. To realize, as I say, that financial freedom is your birthright. We just got to know how to go claim it. Well, that's why I have this channel. That's why I have these videos. That's why I have my book. I want to help you go claim it. It's your birthright. Let's do it together. All right. Till I see you on another episode, another video, or on the road, as I always say, always, always strive. Live a life that always you.

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