In this motivational coaching video, Natalie Fisher explains that confidence isn’t an innate trait but a skill that can be rapidly built by repeatedly stepping outside one’s comfort zone. She uses the relatable example of learning to parallel‑park a car to illustrate how practice turns fear into competence, and applies the same principle to job interviews. Fisher then outlines her proprietary four‑phase system for landing a dream job: (1) generating opportunities, (2) mastering the interview, (3) navigating salary conversations, and (4) setting up for long‑term success. She encourages viewers to keep interviewing to accumulate experience, promising that each attempt builds the confidence needed to succeed. The video concludes with a call to action for a free workshop that walks through the entire system, along with standard channel promotion and contact information.
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In this video, I'm talking about how to handle nerves in an interview and what the secret to confidence really is, so stay tuned. If you don't know me, if you're new to my channel, I'm Natalie Fisher and I help you get your dream job using your mind and thinking differently. The common thing that most people think is that we are either born with confidence, we either have it or we don't have it. We think that some people have it and they've always had confidence, and so it's easy for them to succeed with all that confidence that they have, but that's not the case. If that were true, then everyone who was ever shy or unsure of themselves would stay that way for their entire lives. But we all know that doesn't happen. There's lots of people that are able to get comfortable speaking on stage when at one point in their lives they would have never imagined themselves doing that. So it's definitely possible to build up your confidence and do it quickly. So the truth is that confidence is something that you get from pushing yourself out of your comfort zone before you have the confidence to really do that. So you have to believe ahead of time that you're going to be able to do it. So you do it before you're ready to do it. And yes, it's scary. So making these videos for me used to be really scary, and now it's not. So that's how people who were shy or confident before built up their confidence to start with, is by doing things that scared them over and over again. Let's take the example of parallel parking your car. So did you ever have to parallel park a vehicle? Have you ever had to do that? I remember the first time that I had to do it. I was scared I was gonna hit the other car. I was scared I was gonna crash into the curb. I'd never done it before, so of course I was gonna not know how to do it, and it was gonna be scary. I was afraid I was gonna mess up. So the first time, a few times I did it, it was a little bit wonky. It wasn't very good. I kind of sucked. But after doing it again and again and again, I am now pretty good at it, and I can say that I'm probably the best Female parallel parker in my family. I definitely was not born with the skill of being able to parallel park, just like you probably were not born with the skill of doing well in interviews. You're probably scared you're going to mess it up, and that's why you're nervous, and that's completely normal. So the way to handle your nerves is to keep going on interviews. Keep putting yourself into the situation where you're going to be talking to new people who are either in the position to hire you or introduce you to somebody who can. So the way that you will do this is you're gonna get hired because somebody is gonna hire you because you met them, right? So you're gonna have to meet more people in order to increase your chances of getting hired. So that's why my system works really, really well. So I have a 4-phase system for finding your dream job. And while you continue to put yourself forward with your courage and your willingness to continue to keep going, you are gonna gain that confidence that you need, I promise you. So if you want to learn the entire system to gain confidence, and to continue to learn from your mistakes until you get your dream job, check out my free workshop with the proven steps to land your dream job quickly. So in the workshop, I cover 4 phases. The first one is generating those opportunities. The second one is interviewing— everything you need to know about interviewing, any questions you ever had are answered in there. And I'm going to give you this training completely free, so all you have to do is enter your information below and get— you'll be able to get access to it instantly. I also cover having that salary conversation so you're comfortable about talking about how much you want to be earning in your role. And I also cover how to get set up for success. Click the link below and I'll see you in that training. If you like the video, give me a thumbs up. Don't forget to subscribe to the channel, and I will see you next week. If you don't know me, My name is Natalie Fisher. I help people get their dream jobs, get promoted, make more money, all by thinking differently. You can find me at my website, www.nataliefisher.ca, and weekly here on YouTube. See you later. Bye.
