Natalie FisherCEO, Natalie Fisher Coaching

When Should I Give Up, How Do I Decide What I Want? Questions Answered! - PODCAST EPISODE #225

8 Nov 2024 · 1 min

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In this segment of her podcast, Natalie Fisher challenges listeners to separate what they are capable of from what they truly want. She argues that capability alone does not determine purpose or fulfillment, and that the key question is “What do you really, really, really want?” Fisher encourages the audience to imagine their ideal situation without constraints, visualizing the outcome they would consider amazing. She then points out that most people immediately shut down these visions with doubts and preconceived notions—such as concerns about feasibility, money, or ability—thereby preventing the seed of genuine desire from growing. The monologue serves as a call to recognize and set aside limiting beliefs in order to explore authentic goals.

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So what you're capable of doesn't equal what you want. It doesn't equal what you're meant to do. It doesn't mean really much at all, right? Because of course, if you had to, you would, but you don't have to, right? So the answer to this question is another question, and it is, what do you really, really, really want? If everything that you decided was going to turn out amazing, if you could have your ideal situation, What would it look like? Right? And this is where most people will shut down their ideal situations. They'll shut down and they'll say, ah, but that's not possible. Oh, but I could never make money doing that. Oh, but I can't do that. Oh, but that wouldn't work. Right? All these doubts and preconceived ideas come in at that point and just kind of shut down any seedling of whatever you might find that you want to do.