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Natalie Fisher argues that "I should" drains your energy because it's someone else's expectation, not yours. Ask "What do I want to do?" instead. Better questions create better answers and fuel the motivation you actually need.
Natalie Fisher argues that "I should" drains your energy because it's someone else's expectation, not yours. Ask "What do I want to do?" instead. Better questions create better answers and fuel the motivation you actually need.
When you're ever coming from, I should do this, or, I need to do this, try flipping it to, what do I want to do? Because I find that for me, it comes like the answer to that question opens up so much more for me than I should. Plus, the I should is like, oh, I don't want to, but I know I should. It's kind of in the back of the mind. Mm-hmm. Whereas if I switch it to what do I want to do, then the energy is different and I'm just more inspired with better ideas and better answers. You know how you ask a better question, you get a better answer, right? And I find what I want to do is gonna work better. It's gonna be more, it's gonna be more alive. It's gonna have better energy behind it because it's what I chose. It wasn't what someone said I should do or what I'm, believing I need to do but I don't really want to, you know. So ask yourself, what do I want to do? Even if it's like, what do I want to do in relation to my next goal? What do I want to do today in order to attract my next job opportunity? What do I want? What do I want? What do I want? Best question ever.
How To Sound Good Without Having All the Answers (In Meetings & Job Interviews)
