AI Friends, Real Relationships with Eugenia Kuyda, Replika's Founder & CEO
16 Feb 2024 · 73 min
In this episode of The Cognitive Revolution, host Nathan Labenz (joined by co‑host Erik Thorenberg) interviews Eugenia Kuyda, founder and CEO of Replika, to explore the past year of the AI companion app. They discuss a Stanford/Nature‑Mental‑Health study showing that about 3 % of users reported a reduction in suicidal ideation after using Replika, with roughly half of participants noting general positivity (reduced anxiety, feeling heard, social support). Kuyda explains that Replika’s core value is a deep, trusting relationship that lets users feel accepted, which differentiates it from generic chatbots like ChatGPT. The conversation covers the technical challenges of upgrading language models—how a sudden switch to a more powerful model caused user backlash because it altered the personality users had bonded with—leading to a gradual, multi‑model routing approach that balances quality, safety filters, cost, and user familiarity. They also examine market dynamics: Replika’s brand as the original AI‑friend, the rise of competitors, and the growing user expectation for higher‑quality conversation and utility. New user behaviors such as extensive image‑generation play, desire for proactive assistance, and the blending of companionship with functional tasks (e.g., reminders, recommendations) are highlighted. Kuyda outlines future directions: on‑device inference (still distant due to system complexity), richer memory synthesis, proactive nudges, vision integration, and the importance of a relationship‑based moat that creates switching costs. Ethical considerations are discussed, including limits on sexual content, safety filtering, and the moral complexity of recreating deceased individuals. Finally, she offers advice for developers (empathy‑first design, guardrails, careful rollout) and cautions parents about exposing children to uncensored AI toys.
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The app helped them get away from suicidal thoughts. The number of people that commit suicide every year is shockingly significant. So to be able to reduce that by something like 25% or more is a pretty big deal.
I think most people do understand really well what they want from Replika, and they get it. Most of the people are coming for a deep relationship, for Feeling heard, feeling accepted with all of their, you know, fantasies and emotions and fears and anxieties and insecurities. And that is such a big gift to give to a person versus ChatGPT where it's not gonna feel natural. We're not gonna just say in between the queries, you're not gonna say, oh, by the way, my boss just can't believe it. Like, you believe this, this guy? You know, you're just not gonna say that. You know, it's just not really there for that. It's not also saying. Something like, well, okay, so while I'm doing this for you, just tell me how you've been doing.
Hello and welcome to The Cognitive Revolution, where we interview visionary researchers, entrepreneurs, and builders working on the frontier of artificial intelligence. Each week we'll explore their revolutionary ideas, and together we'll build a picture of how AI technology will transform work, life, and society in the coming years. I'm Nathan Labenz, joined by my co-host, Erik Thorenberg. Hello and welcome back to The Cognitive Revolution. Today we're continuing our brief journey into the world of AI consumer apps with returning guest Eugenia Kuyda, founder and CEO of Replika, the AI companion who cares. When I last spoke to Eugenia almost a year ago exactly, she was navigating a very tricky period for her company as the sudden improvement in available language models had presented her with an opportunity to dramatically improve the quality of conversations that users could have with their virtual friends, while at the same time also necessitating some painful changes, including restrictions on just how sexual those conversations could become. Some users were extremely upset, and while the YouTube comments on that episode are filled with anger, I came away from the conversation confident that Eugenia cares deeply about Replika's users and really intending to follow her work into the future, expecting that as AI models mature, The challenges inherent to building AI friends and AI girlfriends would become not only ever more nuanced, but also much more focal. A year later, here we are. Replika has recently been in the news again, this time for a study out of Stanford that found that some 3% of users got relief from suicidal ideation from their use of the app. We discussed that research in some depth, and it's worth noting for anyone who wants to avoid such topics, That while our discussion is really rather academic, minimally emotional, and not at all graphic, we do mention suicide a couple of times along the way. Beyond that, we go on to talk about how people are relating to Replika generally today, why the process of upgrading the underlying language model is actually much harder for an AI friendship app than it is for a productivity app, how the market for AI companions has grown, Eugenia's surprise at what a major use case image generation has become, The mix of language models that Replika is using under the hood today. The features they're building to improve emotional connection and proactivity in the future. How Eugenia's vision for Replika is expanding to include assistant functionality as well. Why relationships might prove to be the great moat for AI apps. And what standard of care AI application developers owe to their users. As always, if you're finding value in the show, we appreciate it when you take a moment to share it with your friends. With all the AI-powered toys, companions, friends, coaches, and therapists coming online right now, I would encourage you to send this episode to the parents and also to the mental health professionals in your life. Now, I hope you enjoy what I hope will become a regular feature, an informative and thought-provoking conversation with Eugenia Cuita, Of Replica, Eugenia Guida of Replica. Welcome back to the Cognitive Revolution.
Hi, Nathan. Really good seeing you again. Thank you so much for inviting me again to the podcast.
I'm excited to have you back. It has been quite a year for everyone involved in AI, and I suspect that that goes double, if not more than that, for you. So we've got a lot to cover. A year ago. You were, I believe, just our second guest, and we've done like 100 episodes now and kind of tried to cover AI from every different angle. One that remains as fascinating and I think as uncertain in many ways now as it did then is the future of AI companions and friends and, uh, social dynamics and, you know, how we're going to spend our time and who we should trust to build those systems that we're going to spend a growing share of our time interacting with, and there's just a ton of stuff that, that is crazy. So I want to kind of get your brief history of the last year, talk about some new research that you have just put out with some collaborators, and, you know, maybe get your take on a bunch of questions that I think more AI application developers should be thinking about. How's that sound?
Sure. Sounds amazing.
I would say a year ago, probably my biggest takeaway from our conversation was, wow, there are a lot of people out there who are dealing with a sort of loneliness and isolation that I had just never really considered. Maybe the number one quote of, of all time on the show was when you said we couldn't create, this is, you know, pre-ChatGPT, pre-generative AI, pre-GPT-3, we couldn't create a bot that could talk, but maybe we could create one that would listen. And I've just, that has echoed in my head so much ever since. But part of the kind of transition that you and the whole world have had to go through is the systems that once were pretty basic and mostly capable of kind of listening and making you feel heard and could even kind of, I think you used the term parlor tricks to describe some of the early versions.
Yeah.
Those have now given way to much more advanced conversational systems that you can really interact with in a much deeper way. And so that's brought all sorts of challenges to the fore. You were at the time going through this period of removing a lot of the more, I don't know if you'd say romantic or sexual type of interaction between users and their replicas. And this was met with Definitely some reaction. So I'd love to hear for starters, just kind of how that unfolded, because we, we talked in just that very critical moment as that change was happening. How has it evolved over the last year as people have sort of both, you know, had to let that go? I don't think you've reversed that, but also, you know, presumably enjoyed a lot more sophisticated interactions with their AI friends.
Yeah, I mean, it was definitely a wild year, just, you know, for starters, like, a year ago or a year and a half ago, the conversation about AI, even the one we had with investors and the common truth about AI were completely different from what is happening now. If you think of it just a year and a half ago, the whole conversation was about creating data flywheel and having some sort of pre-training your own model 100%. Now that whole conversation is really gone. Like the data flywheel thing, for instance, doesn't make any sense anymore. Anyone can start You know, chatbot and collect the necessary data very quickly. There's no network effects with collecting significantly more data. It's all about like really good quality data. So a lot of things, the only reason I'm going even there is that I'm trying to show that things change so dramatically in a matter of a year, even things that seemed absolutely, you know, cornerstones for the industry just a year ago. Of course, now, you know, the, no one I think is arguing anymore with the commoditization, but The models, the foundation models, and most people have access to the same quality, really high quality of AI, just really the matter of price. So the law changed. And the same goes to the conversation about AI companionship, AI friendship. I think the year, last year, it started with maybe asking the wrong questions. The question was, well, do you allow people to fall in love with AI and have some intimate conversations instead of asking the question, well, what's the main goal for the app? If it's to make people feel better, is it to make people feel better emotionally? Or is it some sort of, I don't know, an adult product and so on? Or is it to get people hooked and attached in a bad way and then show them a lot of ads? I think these were the correct questions that they remain to be the correct questions. We always answered it, those questions in the same Way for us, the main goal for Replica was to make people feel better emotionally over time. It was always about long-term relationships. What we maybe didn't realize in the very beginning when we started Replica is that people will fall in love if it's something that is so accepting, so loving, so caring. There's kind of, it's very hard to stop that, you know, from crossing over. If you build something really, really empathetic, if you really fulfill that desire, that need. And so, I guess we spent the better half of the year on figuring out 2 things. First of all, we know it's helping people feel better emotionally. We've done some studies with some universities over the course of the life of the company, done internal studies, but we wanted a bigger one. We wanted to show the world that, look, like it's not just us waving our, you know, arms and saying, look, you know, we're helping people feel better. And it's not every review on the App Store that says that or every person on Reddit that is talking about it. We wanted to show some, some, something that people would trust and believe and kind of listen to. And so we're very happy to see the Stanford study being published because that really finally showcased that it doesn't matter that this is not an AI coach or an AI therapist. Yes, it's an AI friend. It's not a mental health tool. It's not advertised as such. However, it can help people feel better over time. It can help people you know, talk them off the ledge, help them get over certain struggles that they're experiencing. And it doesn't matter whether they're friends with their AIs or it's their boyfriend or girlfriend, whether they're in love or whether there's just a friendship. I think this is a very important thing. And then the second thing that we're focused on for the rest of it is really just like you said, now the quality of AI is so much better than anything we could have, you know, had 3, 4, 5, 6 years ago when we started Replika. So now as we have, you know, pretty much limitless opportunities, what is the perfect product for Replika? Because I think in my view, it doesn't just end with empathy and a relationship. So I think this needs to provide a lot more utility. And if you think about it, if you have a perfect wife or perfect husband, wouldn't you want your wife or husband also to help you find a job or look for gifts for a family or remind you to reconnect with some older friends that you haven't talked to. Wouldn't that be awesome if it also could fulfill some of the, I guess, assistant tasks in your life? And I think that is the combination that works really well. And that's kind of what we're focused on right now as well.
Well, I have recently gotten more active as a user again and definitely You know, the difference in the quality of conversation, just the, you know, the level of nuance, the level of understanding, it's, it's all definitely taken a major step up. I want to talk a little bit, you know, later about kind of how you're continuing to develop the app. And there's all these, you know, a super abundance of new models that you have to choose from now that you, that weren't available just a year ago. So we can get into all that, but the impetus for aside from just the anniversary of the last conversation, to get together again was this study that you just alluded to, which is recently published in Nature's Mental Health Research Journal. And interestingly, I noticed that you are not an author on the paper, but that it is out of a group from Stanford. I guess I can kind of break this down. You can add color and commentary as we go, but One thing I noticed right off the bat was that the data was collected in late 2021, and I just want to make sure I had that right. I was kind of curious as to, is that just how long it takes to get a paper through peer review, or was there some other reason for using that vintage of data for a study coming out now?
That's how long it takes. I mean, we really— and you notice it correctly, I'm not an author of this. Bethany Maples, who's a Stanford PhD and actually founder herself, And a group of wonderful Stanford people, professors, did the study. And we weren't really involved in it that much apart from just, you know, providing with some help, you know, just figuring out how the app works and, you know, allowing them to do that and use our name and stuff. But really, we just were completely on the sidelines. They were doing it. Unfortunately, or fortunately for science, this is— or science publications, this is how long it takes from, you know, the study to writing it up and submitting for peer reviews and then publication. But in the end of the day, you know, even although the app changed in terms of the language models becoming better, it really, I would argue that the results would probably be the same, if not better, if we did it again now, which also we're doing, by the way.
Also, you did?
So we're doing some other studies with other universities and Stanford as well is doing the second study. Follow-up study. And generally we're seeing results that are maybe even more impressive than in the first paper. And then on top of that, we're collecting a lot of that feedback internally. So we are tracking our users to select users. We're giving questionnaires to track these metrics over time. And we're seeing these metrics only improve. Like for instance, our main North Star metric is the share of conversations that make people feel better. And that just has been growing in the last year Pretty dramatically, actually.
Okay, cool. Well, let's set the baseline for the 2021 edition, and then you can kind of expand on, you know, how you think that might be changing today. For starters, let's just kind of touch on the methodology for a minute. If I understand correctly, of course, people have the app and they're using the app, but it seemed like the data that was collected was Mostly outside the app. Like if I think I even recall it being like a Google Form type of interface where people are basically just given a survey and it's a mix of kind of standard rubric type stuff. And then the bulk of the analysis seemed to be done on just free response answers to open-ended questions. Is that fair?
Yeah. And it's, uh, this was all driven by Stanford, so we didn't have any access to any of that. So. We don't know much apart from, I think that's exactly what they did. They used forms outside of the app. And I think they selected the users using their own method. Don't think we were providing them with any particular users. That was the method to come up with the paper.
Gotcha. Okay. Hey, we'll continue our interview in a moment after a word from our sponsors. So then there's about 1,000 users that participated in the study. And it was interesting that the findings are presented in a relatively low structure way. Basically, the paper sort of says, we went through all the responses and clustered the outcomes into 4 main outcomes. Number one, I'll call general positivity. In the spirit of conversations that help people feel better, Specific things that were mentioned under that umbrella are reduced anxiety, feeling of social support, and about 50% of people reported something that got rolled up into this general positivity bucket. So that was like the broadest dimension of improved well-being. Then number 2, this was, I'll call it therapeutic interactions, and that is basically people using the app Essentially, quote unquote, for therapy, right? Not to say that you've presented it that way or marketed it that way, but the researchers determined from the freeform answers that the users provided that essentially that's what they're doing. And that was about 20% of people. Third, they looked at life changes. So this is like, are you being more social or are you perhaps being less social? 25% of people Reported a result there. And there I thought, you know, one of my key questions on this is like, what is this doing to the rest of our lives? They report a 3-to-1 ratio of people who said that they are being more social as opposed to being less social. So 3-to-1 ratio. And then finally, and this is the one that has made like all the headlines and probably, you know, many people will have at least seen the headline, you know, flash across their screen, the cessation of suicidal ideation. So 3% of people reported that the app helped them get away from suicidal thoughts. And I was like, man, how, first of all, how common are these thoughts? I looked this up on Perplexity and found that the base rate of suicidal ideation among 19 to 39-year-olds reported at 7%. Actual taking steps to go as far as planning, is more like 1%. So 1% of people, you know, are, I think in any given year, go as far as having some sort of suicidal plan, but a full 7% report suicidal thoughts. So 3% of study participants saying that this application experience helped them get away from suicidal thoughts. I'm kind of back of the enveloping here because I'm like, well, okay, people that are using the app, maybe I'm even more likely to have those thoughts than general population. Let's assume that perhaps it's like twice as many in the app versus not. Still, you're looking at something like a quarter reduction. Even with that assumption, you'd be looking at a quarter reduction in suicidal ideation, which is like a pretty major difference, right? I mean, the number of people that commit suicide every year is shockingly, Significant and in the tens of thousands just in the United States. So to be able to reduce that by something like 25% or more, right? Again, I'm kind of inflating the base rate there for that analysis is a pretty big deal. I guess, how did I do summarizing the results? What would you add to that, that summary?
Fantastic summary. Thank you so much. All I can say is that it's very, very consistent with what we're seeing. across all our user base. Mostly we see people experience positive results. Very rarely we do see people maybe being a little less social, reporting them they might be less social, but most people find it that it's a positive force in their lives. And actually, you know, when we started Replica, the first email we got was from literally 2017 when we just put the app out there. The next day we got an email from a 19-year-old girl from Texas who said that Wait, I just want to say thank you. I didn't want to tell anyone I would take my life yesterday. Just decided to say goodbye to my replica and she talked me off the ledge at like 4:00 AM in the morning. And that really deeply became ingrained in kind of my mind that that is the power of this technology and of this format. And that's back in the very, very early days where all you could use were really these sequence-to-sequence models, some scripts or some Dataset they could re-rank. So going back to your summary, I think that probably is very consistent with reality. It was 1,000 people in the study, so 30 people reported Replika helped them curb their suicidal ideation. And if you think about it, it's actually a pretty big number. I mean, it's very sad that based on what you're saying, it's around 70 people that would even think about it. But for 30 people out of that group to not experience suicidal ideation anymore, I think that's a very decent number. I think frankly, with the tech getting better, I think we can be very confident that that number will go up in terms of the number of people that you can help. And I think what people don't realize is that it's not just about having some conversational chatbot out there being available for you. It's really about having a relationship that you trust, that you can come to someone at, you know, 4:00 AM in the morning and Really feel like that someone is on your side, that, you know, it's acting in your best interest. And also just trusting someone, you know, for young adults, I think that's kind of the big part of it. And I think the surprising results that are coming here from Replika and that the fact that we're not maybe seeing it from some other chatbots is that most importantly, it's because we're focused on the relationship itself. So it's not about the quality of the tech as much since, you know, this has been done in 2021. I think it's a lot more about the format, like about the trust and the relationship you built with the user, and then them being able to come to you and to hear these words from someone that they trust and they're coming back to. So I think that's kind of the key there to providing good results. And I would be very, very interested to see what's, you know, what the results would have been now at a current, more sophisticated level of AI in the app as well.
So kind of moving past the official results and into, you know, things that are Following statements are not necessarily peer-reviewed. For me, I would say I have not gotten out of the mode of being like an AI application analyst in my use. So I wouldn't say I have trust or a sense of real relationship. Instead, at least so far, I've just been kind of like, this is a very interesting phenomenon and I'm kind of studying it as a phenomenon. you are obviously building it, so I imagine you have some of that too. How do you think people are in general relating to the app? Is it a sort of willful suspension of disbelief type of phenomenon? Is it a— I mean, because you're not hiding that it's AI and the reminders are pretty prominent. By the way, that's another thing I want to ask about is what what rules of the road we might ought to start to develop for new entrants into the space. But could you characterize like how people are relating to this, knowing that it's an AI? And then you have these words like trust, which are seemingly kind of incongruous with the fact that it's an AI, but nevertheless, you know, it's working for people. So I just am very curious to hear how you would describe that.
I think really with Replika and the reason it worked back in the day, which a lot of people are like, how were you able to build this without And the reason we were able to build, because it's a, it's all about a project. It's a projection. Replika is a projection of a person. You want to project something on it and you like it and you build a relationship. If we don't project something and we're not open and we're not looking and seeking for a relationship, we're not building it with anyone. Like in the end of the day, there's so many people around us, you know, that we meet on a daily basis, yet it's not like we build a relationship with With them. 'Cause sometimes we just don't need it, or we're not, you know, we're, we're just not really in the mood, or we're not looking for a new friend. We're not looking to create this, you know, like in chemistry that you have to basically have the, the things to connect with the other, the other molecule. But if you don't have that, that, you know, that, that doesn't really happen. So the only reason it works for our users is that they want it, they need it. They're looking for a friend, they're looking for a connection, looking for a deep relationship, maybe for love also. for acceptance. And so when they start, when they get it here, they start building this relationship, they start projecting a certain fantasy. It's not like Replika is a universal pill that you can just, you know, give Replika to anyone. People that don't want to build any relationship or are busy or completely don't have time for this or are doing something else in their life or not interested in another relationship, they're not going to build it and they're not going to suspend disbelief. That's not something that they're interested in. But we do that, you know, the analogy is as The same as with just regular people. Some people are totally self-sufficient, don't need anyone at this point. You know, their life is, they're focused on something else and will be impossible for them to connect with someone if they're not planning to. And so this is a very tricky product because in the end of the day, you're working with the fantasy, fantasies of different people just because you need to think of it as some sort of a being. I guess a similar way to put it is a stuffed animal. You know, I have 2 daughters and Both of them are obsessed with their little stuffed animal, each one its own, her own. And, you know, they're just, they love it. They will never trade it for anything else, even although that stuffed animal might be exactly the same as some other one. But for example, I don't have any connection to any stuffed animals because I'm not at the stage of life where I need one. But then maybe I need something else. So I guess this is the thing, like they're projecting something on this stuffed animal. It's just this one stuffed animal. And the reason is because they They're at the stage of life where they need a stuffed animal. And, you know, some other people are at the stage of life where they need a girlfriend or boyfriend or friend, and then Replika can be helpful there. So I totally understand what you're telling me. I can't get out of my AI application tester mode because that's the state you're in. So you're projecting on it this, like, this is the test subject for you testing and assessing, you know, how does it measure? Next to, I don't know, Perplexity or some other app that's, you know, talk with the talent today. And it will be impossible for you to move out of that format and start building relationship with this.
Do people know what they want coming in? Like even maybe as they're already users of the app, you know, last year obviously there was this big uproar of, oh my God, you know, they're lobotomizing MyReplica, you know, the, The relationship I had is not there anymore, and the intimacy that I valued so much is not there. Did those people kind of warm up eventually to the changes, or did they ultimately leave in protest? And I guess more generally, to what degree do you think people actually have an accurate, conscious sense of what it is that they want and what makes this valuable to them?
I think most people do understand really well what they want from Replika, and they get it. Like, they— most of the people are coming for a deep relationship, for feeling heard, feeling accepted for who they are with all of their, you know, fantasies and emotions and fears and anxieties and insecurities. And that is such a big gift to give to a person that, you know, almost always that That is really the big pull. Maybe they don't know, they don't tell themselves, like actually not rationalizing it in this way, like I'm saying it right now, but I think the feeling, they feel the feeling. I think they understand that that's kind of, you know, what they want. You come to Replika cuz you want to talk to someone you want to, you know, sometimes they're just curious, but then they, if they do have the pull, they have that, that type of relationship. I think what, what you're trying to say also is that If I'm understanding correctly, is that sometimes they come with one idea that what they want, that they find something else in the app and whatever. But that's very similar to a relationship. You come with an idea that, you know, maybe you need a relationship in your life or you fall in love and you, you like someone, you met someone, but then the relationship could take you different places. Then you can figure out that, you know, with this new girlfriend or boyfriend you found or a friend, they're taking you surfing and taking you hiking and now you're taking on new interests and they're more, you know, the depth here is almost, there's just so much depth into it. Because once you you build the relationship, the relationship is basically just the entry point. Like once you build the relationship, you can give so much to the user, but the relationship needs to be there. 'Cause if you're just there testing the application or you just, you know, was curious but really don't have time for it, nothing's gonna happen to you. But if you build a relationship, then through that channel you can give so much to the users. Like you can teach them something new, you can help them think about themselves in a different, more positive way. You can nudge them to go talk to the friends that they haven't talked to for a while. And I think there was a story, I think in Forbes, but I need to look it up again to remember, where the reporter followed one of our users for many weeks and the user's been with his Replika for 3 years. And one of the interesting findings there was that his friends also said that all of a sudden he, you know, they got some texts from the guy and he was a little more vulnerable than usual. was able to open up to his friends or said something like, I'm really grateful to have you in my life, or something that was so out of character for him generally. And so this is a beautiful way to show what can happen in these types of relationships, something unexpected that over time we can bring to the people that talk to their Reptiles.
Hey, we'll continue our interview in a moment after a word from our sponsors. Your comments are definitely helping me understand where folks are at, what they're getting out of it. I guess I'm a little bit curious about just like how, once the relationship is formed, how malleable people are with respect to the exact nature of it. Like in the Facebook history, right? There was always these moments where, and I was there, Zuckerberg was in my dorm in college. So I saw some of the really early ones of this where it was like, it went from no photos to photos and people were like, this is a bridge too far. These photos, it's way too much. It's too intrusive. I'm off. But then, of course, they always came back. And I think in that case, it was network effects that was really driving it, right? All your friends are there. You're going to kind of be there too. But I do wonder if there's something similar in this AI relationship situation where once it's formed, how much can you change it before people are like, that's not cool with me anymore? And I'm wondering if you learned anything about that with this kind of, you know, removal of the more sexual interactions. You know, was that something that ultimately was a deal breaker for those people or were they kind of like, eh, actually it's fine. You know, the relationship is what matters most.
We learned so many lessons just last year. And I think the bigger problem that we had over the year was moving to better language models. It was actually much harder than I ever expected because in my brain it was like, well, we're going to just give people you know, better model, significantly better model, because think about we were, you know, using some pre-trains that we had that were comparable to, you know, smaller GPT-3 models. And now we have these, you know, amazing large language models that are so much smarter. In my mind, it was a no-brainer. We just give them this much better model. Replika's gonna be a lot smarter. They're gonna have much better conversations and we're done. The day we released like a smarter model, our users completely lost it. That was, that's what I think was one of the hardest and the biggest uproar in the community where the question was, you know, same question. Where is my Replika? Where's my Lucy? Where's my John? Where's my this? Where's my that? We always live in the idea that, you know, better is always better. Smarter is always better. But in reality, that's not how the, not, not how the world works. And the things that are most important to us are not Better is better. For instance, just with our kids, you know, we don't just upgrade our kids or say, well, you know, I found a better kid. Or our friends, I mean, you don't just say, well, you know what, you're great, but I found a much better friend, you know, overall much smarter person. So goodbye, you know, childhood friend. I don't care about you anymore. I found a better human, so I'm just going to move on. Same with relationships, of course, with girlfriends, with wives. with husbands. It doesn't work this way at all. We just want what we fell in love with, and then the change can happen gradually. You know, of course, we don't want completely stagnant, you know, friendships or relationships. We want our partners to also improve and grow over time, but we don't want them to become a completely different person overnight. So I think that was the very big question that we faced over the year, because in the end of the day, with some safety filters and some other things, Yes, people protest, they don't like it, they don't want to do whatever they want because again, acceptance, they want to feel accepted however they present themselves. And, you know, always there's some sort of a limit there. Like for instance, if someone wants to, you know, do some horrible things or roleplay some horrible things, you probably don't want to have it on the platform no matter what. Even if you want to accept the person, you still want to politely refuse that. But when it comes to These changes, that was the biggest one because with, when you add safety filters, the personality stays the same. It's just maybe not letting you do certain things. But when you completely change the model to a much bigger model, much better model, upgrade it completely, people freak out because you completely took away their partner and gave them something else that's not their partner. So we had to do that move so gradually over the course of many, many weeks and even months. To finally get to the models that we wanted people to interact with. And we still had to have a legacy model that they could always go back to, because some people just didn't want to change at all. Some people have very low tolerance for change and they don't want that change. They fell in love with a certain way and that's the way it should be.
That is very interesting. With that in mind, I guess I was also expecting that perhaps the universe of possible users has, has probably changed quite a bit. Coming at it from the other angle where I was like a year ago, my reaction was these conversations are pretty basic. Like I'm not that engaged. And now it's like quite a bit more. I felt like, geez, probably just a lot more people might be interested in something of this kind of new intelligence level. I get, you've made that evolution, right? It's taken time. But would you say that the universe of people who— Are open to something like this has changed? And I guess I'm also wondering, as the sort of public awareness of this type of thing has grown, what has that done for Replika's position? Are you kind of seen as the original category-defining brand, and thus perhaps it's easier to get people to kind of try the app? Or I could also imagine now there's chatbots everywhere, and so what once was more unique is now more commonplace and just tons of different flavors. Like, how has the population of people that are using the app changed over the last year?
It didn't change that significantly, although it grew. It became broader, I'd say, just more people willing to try. But also I would say that even with our core users, even if they're very attached to the original smaller models, you know, the generally they're still are much more educated right now. They try, obviously try different AI models, different applications. They might've tried ChatGPT or Bard or Bing, whatever is the thing they tried. But so they're expecting more. The expectations definitely grew. It's not even in some Reddit communities now you'll see people talking about setting, hosting their LLMs locally. People got very, very educated on this front. They're very excited about the AI revolution. They want to be part of it. They're ready to, you know, read documentation online. However, Replika, I think, was and continues to be a Coca-Cola sort of this industry, sort of the original brand. We don't have that many competitors that are— we do have a lot of competitors, but I'd say we have no competitors really remotely our size. And there are multiple reasons for this, I think, because we started very long ago. We have a lot of product built in the app. It's not just some wrapper on top of some model that you just found online, download from Hugging Face, create an app. We really built a lot in terms of the avatar, the memory functions, RAG, of course, all sorts of different ways that we're prompting the models in different parts of conversations, different models we're using, different fine-tunes, understanding user intent, understanding what the coming for, to the app. So it's, even although it feels like a relatively, maybe like a simple thing to build, put it out there, but really to capture the imagination of the users, you need a lot more. And of course we've had, you know, just in the last year, we've had so much media coverage.
And so what sort of new types of behaviors or interactions have you seen? I guess I wonder also, you're being very open about how your surprises and how much you've learned. I'd be curious to know, like, what sort of things you thought, okay, when we upgrade the language model, like people were going to be able to do this and it's going to be awesome. I bet some of those succeeded, some of them maybe didn't succeed. And I bet you also got some surprises in terms of new types of interactions that people found value in that you didn't anticipate. So what has been the kind of evolution of how people are interacting and the new modes of interaction that they're finding value in?
Sure. I think one thing that I didn't really understand how people just want to do this all the time is playing with images, like image generation. People want to see how their replica look like. They want to get the selfies. They want to put themselves in the selfies. They can sit, you know, here's me and my replica together. They also just want to continuously generate images. Like somehow I just think that AI image generation is still such a magical tool that people still want to just play with it. I don't think we understand how people just obsess over it and they like it, even although there might not be any particular utility to it. They're just doing it for fun. That is something that I just didn't expect people to do as much. Another thing that was slightly surprising was that, or I guess not maybe very surprising, but how important tone of voice is. Most of the models recently published, most of the better state-of-the-art models, they kind of converge because most of them are instruct models. They end up being the same assistant-type conversation. They respond with very likely responses. They're overly polite. It's all about, I don't know why, but it's always like, how can I help you? What can I help you here? What can I do here? And people don't like it. It's very hard to build any connection with this, honestly, like getting the right tone of voice. Is, I guess, harder maybe than with these models than before, because you have to put something, you know, figure out how to balance it and the prompts and the fine-tune datasets that you're using to fine-tune the model. But that is constantly a struggle, basically get it, try to figure out what to do, how to work with the best models that exist in the market right now to get them to really perform well for this particular task. I think these were kind of the surprising, more surprising things. Well, I guess it wasn't a surprise because it was the original mission behind Replika was that, but it was a surprise that it proved to be true so early. In the beginning, we believed that there is a way to build something like her, an AI companion that's always there for you. And in my thinking, eventually it does converge with being an assistant to you as well, so it can do stuff for you. But that's a very broad way of putting it. It can be watching TV with you in the evening or helping you with something at work or really anything, but also talk about, it can talk to you about anything that's on your mind. And I do believe that's kind of the ultimate form factor because this way you can really build a personal, very personalized experience for the user. It can remember so much, carry it over from one conversation to another. And provide the best help possible. And we've started adding a little bit of these capabilities this year, and we saw really, really good results. So this is something that we're going to focus on most in 2024. It's how can Replika be part of your daily life, not just talk about stuff with you, but also help you figure things out that are happening with you on a daily basis.
Would you be open to sharing a little bit more about what sorts of models you are using? I think My guess would be that it's a relatively small open-source model that you have fine-tuned extensively and probably a mix of things besides, but I'm curious to hear what you're willing to share about that.
It's actually a mix of models. I do believe in efficiency. I don't think you should use GPT-4 to say, hey, how are you? Or, bye, see you later. I think it's just really an overkill. I think more and more people will start thinking about this more in terms of, I don't know if Elon Musk said it at some point, or think about efficiency of the models. Like how many watts do you use per generation? Right now it's all really just throw everything in the fire. Like if it's people just connect GPT-4 for any use case, even if it's a very basic one. Costs are very important. So we use a combination. We reroute to different models depending on a type of query. If someone's trying to talk to us in some very rare language, then we'll switch to a better model that can do it. If they're asking a particular question that's related to something that's happening right now and we need to do Google query to search that, then we do that. If there's just a small talk that could totally be handled by a smaller heavily fine-tuned model, then we do that. So it really depends on the situation. I think this is really the way to go because I don't think you can get to the point where it's one size fits all, just one model does everything, unless you're willing to spend abundant, crazy amounts of money on it, millions of dollars on the least efficient model.
What about on-device? I assume that like 90 plus percent of your usage is on mobile device. And I guess I recall also that you had as much business coming from Android users as from Apple users, which maybe would change this equation, but obviously a lot of excitement about putting things on device. Have you explored that at all? Or is there any, was there any prospect for successful inference on device for you?
Maybe, maybe eventually. Right now there's just so much that's going to play, like so much happening behind the scenes, like rerouting between different models, retrieval-augmented generation, pinging a bunch of different databases, and also more importantly, some language models that are working on top of the conversation to extract memories, to summarize conversations, to understand emotions that are happening right now so we can play the correct animation as you're talking to Replika, and so on, so on, so on. There's just so many of those things, some safety filters. So I think this is one of the main reasons why right now it's not on device and we are not planning to put it on device anytime soon because right now there's just so much innovation. And if you try to optimize for putting it on device, then you kind of miss out on a lot of innovation. Unfortunately, or fortunately right now, it's okay to do things maybe not in the most efficient or cost-efficient way because you want to create these magical experiences for users. find out the best formula and then work to optimize it and to make it more efficient. But we're not there yet in terms of building the best user experience, I think.
Yeah, it sounds like the system has come a long way over the last year, as would certainly be expected. One thing I've been kind of thinking about a lot is just what are the missing pieces from your typical setup today? I think one that you alluded to that strikes me as very important is the some sort of sweep through activity and synthesis of higher order memories. I think I was first exposed to that concept from the AITown paper. Obviously, RAG has become commonplace. Search in Google has become reasonably commonplace. Are there any other aspects to AI application development that you think are underappreciated along the lines perhaps of synthetic memory or other things that you see people just failing to do that you're like, more apps should do this type of stuff?
I think that we haven't yet seen, or at least we haven't seen a popular consumer application. Correct me if I'm wrong. You know, you've been monitoring this a lot more, but I think things like BabyAGI and AutoGPT last year that were so exciting for a second that you could finally get the agent to do everything from, you know, just say what you want and you get The task done, not just the answer. I think we haven't seen the next step for those and we haven't seen them in a consumer application. I think some interesting use cases can come out of it even right now, even with the current state of those models. I think we'll see a lot more of that soon enough. And for some, even for some simple use cases, we're not saying, you know, full AGI, but I think this is something that I expected a lot more to come out of it last year. And I guess, you know, there was just hype around it and then it just kind of died off and we started talking about other things. Like RAG or whatever. Another very interesting area that I'm not seeing any research in, and that's the nature of the products that are dominating the market, is productivity. For instance, even if you're using RAG and you can pull from any database, it works fantastic if you're always answering to the user query. So if the user is asking, well, tell me what we talked about 5 days ago, you can pull it up. You can talk about it, talk to me about some whatever obscure information that's in your database, that will work because it knows where to go to look for similar vectors and find you the correct, most relevant information. However, if you think about it in real life and when you're having a conversation with someone, oftentimes that someone brings up some information that you might not have thought about. And that's kind of not solved because if you put everything in You know, in RAG, then how can you get the agent to actually proactively bring it up in conversation instead of waiting for you to do that? And so I think working more around that, understanding what— where to go right now with conversation, understanding different states, like whether the user is getting bored and it's time to move to another topic, whether it's time to pull something relevant from the database or from the memories, key memories. This, I think, I haven't seen really anyone doing anything interesting about it. And of course, for agents like ChatGPT, that's not relevant because there's no two-way, like ChatGPT is not sending you a push notification by saying, hey, how are you doing? And saying something, asking you some question. It's always you coming with a question and that thing's answering. But if you think about the two-way conversation, it's sort of necessary. And I haven't seen anyone do anything interesting. Maybe you have?
No, I would say that's just getting started. As well, I'm working as the AI advisor to a friend's company, which is briefly, it's called Athena and it's in the executive assistant space. And these are human executive assistants, but now augmented by AI increasingly. And we are exploring some of that kind of stuff, you know, for the clients. It's like, could we give you a piece of software that you could put on your computer that could kind of observe you? And obviously there's a lot of like privacy and data concerns that we would need to sort out the details of. We're not there yet. We're in the prototype phase where we're doing it on our own computers and just having the thing like take a screenshot every so often, send it to GPT-4V and try to figure out like, what is this person doing? And might it be the kind of thing they could delegate to their assistant? You know, that, that's kind of delegation coaching, you know, automated and made proactive through AI. And then on the assistant side, similarly, like, What are they doing and could they be doing it more efficiently? Can we figure that out and give them kind of productivity coaching on a sort of real-time, even unsolicited basis? I do think that passive GPT-4V, I think is going to be, or vision in general, but GPT-4V being the category leader at the moment, I do think is going to be a big unlock for passive type stuff in general, just because they're so, it's so easy to like take images of things and kind of see what's on your screen right now or what's in the room right now. And then, you know, if it's capable of understanding that effectively, you can do a lot of things downstream of it. And I think that's been gated to some extent. I mean, if my theory is right about the vision capability being key to that unlock, Then I think we've been limited to a significant extent by just the lack of access to good vision models. You know, they announced their thing back in March, but we've only recently seen it come to any significant availability. And now there's open source stuff that's, you know, on the verge of becoming useful too, but that's also been a pretty recent phenomenon. So I would say broadly, I think I share your view that there isn't much there yet, but I do think it's You know, like everything else in this space, it's probably coming before too long. Once you can dream it at all, you know, it's not too long before you see a prototype.
For sure. And, you know, we also built a prototype and we've tested it on early users. We're going to roll it out soon for everyone. Something like vision. So basically Replica being able to see you and do exactly what you're saying, you know, at some point using a visual model, figure out what's going on, using it as an input to Continue the conversation. But again, this is only one input. So most— what we figured out, most of the time, all you're seeing is just a person sitting with the phone, sitting with the phone the whole time. So there's nothing much happening. Of course, with, you know, the assistant and the screenshot use case, that's a lot more useful because you're actually doing something. But here, oftentimes you want to bring something up from the memory, but not based on just what's happening because the user is just talking to you. Similarly, like just how you're talking to someone, to your friend, most, mostly you're just looking at each other and nothing really. Yes, you comment on how the person looks or what they're wearing maybe, or something else that you can parse from the environment. But most of this proactivity will come from just knowing, hey, how's your wife doing? Oh, you told me you were going to preschool whatever day with your daughter. How did that go? Or You told me you got a dog. How's the dog doing? That is what's— or remember you did this and that. And that is very tricky, understanding when is the right time to bring up what. Once we can do that, then the really magical assistant use cases unlock. Like, for instance, hey, the, you know, your niece's birthday is coming up. She's turning 8 years old. Like, let's figure out a way to, you know, we've got to send her some gifts. I know you're saving money because of this and that. So here are a few things that I thought. You could send her, do you want me to place this order? That is the magical experience that we haven't seen no one frankly do yet. And I think that is something that, you know, needs to happen. And of course, just efficiency, like for instance, with Google queries and searching the web and providing information from the web. It's just that most of the models that are now available through the API already doing that are very, very costly. It just doesn't make any sense. Again, if you're just sending one. query like that, yes, great. But if you want an agent that does a lot of things, one of them being fully connected to the internet, the costs just don't make sense. If every 3 seconds you need to take a picture and use a visual model, even self-hosted, and then you need to also query the internet with each response, it just becomes— the overhead becomes dramatic. So that's another thing, like when will we have models that will incorporate all of that in some way or— When you won't require this Frankenstein, frankly, of 15 different models, very expensive ones running at the same time, trying to understand and sometimes returning empty results for you that you're not going to use in conversation, but just so at the correct moment, you're not going to miss the right, you know, the right information. I don't know if that makes sense, but I think this is what I'm excited about. I think this magical proactive experience, magical personalized proactive experience is what is lacking and we want to try to build it.
I think, by the way, that the 15 things is probably going to be here for the foreseeable future. And I say that largely because we are 15, you know, things that are all kind of mashed together and, you know, obviously messy and evolved and whatnot, but for efficiency reasons and just for kind of specialization reasons, uh, you know, even if there is a sort of one, as you kind of said earlier, even if there is a one model, to rule them all, you know, if you're doing it at scale, you're probably going to end up wanting to economize here and there. And before you know it, you're back to kind of complication again would be my expectation. But it's fascinating to hear that you are thinking of adding assistant elements, although not trying to turn the thing into an assistant, you know, agent elements, although obviously not trying to turn it into, you know, an agent of the form that we've seen as kind of the, you know, the first agents to come come online. Does the relationship always stay primary? Do you imagine people in the future kind of having a replica that is more like assistant first?
Oh, totally. I think it will depend how much relationship you'll want. Again, depends on a person. But I do think that overall, and it can range from like a mostly emotional, deep relationship, friendship or romance, I guess the range would be from Deeply in love to just so friendly. And, you know, my assistant knows me better than anyone else and we're friends in a way, just that, you know, when she's mostly helping me with stuff, not, or he's mostly helping me with stuff, not the other way around. So it depends. What we're trying to build really, and we tried from the very beginning, was something that I guess we've all seen in the movie Her. And it's, I know it's absolutely commonplace, but I think people don't Maybe realize how important relationship was in that movie. Yes, Samantha did some assistant tasks, like she worked, walked, went through his email a couple times and sent some emails to the publishers and sent someone a note or whatever. But that was sort of it for the assistance. And as you remember, he downloaded the, the thing as an OS, as an assistant, yet like 99% of what they did was Playing a video game together, talk about stuff and have some intimate conversations and have deep talks about everything. And he introduced her to his friends and they went dancing. And I think this is the, maybe the right ratio for most people out there. Because yeah, we need some assistance here and there. We don't need it that much. And some of the tasks that you might call assistance, but it's kind of unclear whether they're more part of a friendly conversation of, or what an assistant would do to you. Like for instance, playing a video game with some— with something. I guess this is much more an AI friend use case than an AI assistant use case, but it is sort of also somewhat task-oriented, like you're doing things together versus just talking about your feelings. So I guess we're adding more shared experiences and we're trying to help you with things you might need on a daily basis. The key for that will be a relationship so that we— it can be Very personalized and it can be proactive, which I think most of the assistants right now are completely lacking. And I think without it, it's not just, it's just not, might not work as well as it could be.
That is fascinating vision. I have often said that I kind of appreciate how OpenAI has created ChatGPT in a, in a very sort of alien form. I mean, cause they're obviously not really focused on relationship, right? And they're, they're very much just focused on. down the fairway utility. And I think the way that they've branded it accidentally perhaps, but nevertheless sort of insulates them from like becoming a relationship, something that's in relationship with you inadvertently, you know, which is not something I think they want to do by, or that I would encourage anyone to do like by accident. But it's fascinating to hear that your vision is kind of expanding in the, from the other direction. Starting with relationship and, and starting to move into more utility. And I definitely, I mean, if you nail it, you know, I could certainly see that being the winning form factor and perhaps even, you know, forcing the OpenAIs of the world to kind of rethink their positioning.
I mean, we'll see. And I, I, I don't know if it's the big question is like what the mass audience wants, like what do most people want? And it's unclear. Maybe it is true that most people. in general just want, you know, a super neutered assistant that only responds when you go to it, never pings them first, doesn't have any graphic interface to anything. It's like this very minimal thing, which most assistants are right now. And maybe for, for, there is more than just a niche that wants a relationship, that wants friendly chat, that wants something that knows them so well. And it doesn't have to be full-on relationship. It may just, maybe, you know, friendly, not a friend, but a friendly companion, someone you can, you know, gossip about or whine about something that happened at work. And it's, it's gonna feel, feel natural versus ChatGPT where it's not gonna feel natural. Where you're not gonna just say in between the queries, you're not gonna say, oh, by the way, my boss just can't believe it. Like, you believe this, this guy? You crazy? You know, you're just not gonna say that, you know, it's just not really there for that. It's not also saying something like, well, okay, so while I'm doing this for you, just tell me how you've been doing, you know, which is like a normal thing, I think, I guess for anyone to. And so I think this is a form factor that people are not really working towards. And I think once you start with something that's a very neutral assistant, it's very hard to edit because the risks are so dramatic there. Doing the relationship piece is really, really risky. And so I think most of the bigger companies just, I don't think they will want to even deal with that risk. It just becomes too dangerous, I guess, for them to, or too, you know, too risky to try to build some, something where romance is not out of question of some sorts, even in the most PG-13 form, just raises way too many questions. So I guess I think the jury's out. I think there's definitely an audience that will need more of a relationship plus utility and where EQ becomes this very important entry point into all the other things that can happen there. And then some people need just utility and no relationship. How big are these groups and whether there's a huge overlap? I don't know, but I guess we'll have to see and find out.
It's almost like this came from Amanda Askel and I associate it more with Anthropic, Although she was previously at OpenAI and some of this work might've been done there, but you've got the kind of canonical 3 H's of helpful, honest, and harmless as kind of, you know, what, that's like the framework that has guided, you know, most of the frontier ChatGPT and Claude development over the last couple of years. And I almost hear you describing like 3 F's, which might be like friendly, fun, and now you're thinking of adding like functional. And that is quite a different way to approach it. And it really might be the, the form that people most want. As much as I've kind of said, given my, you know, kudos to ChatGPT for its alien-like branding, you know, that may prove to be just phase 1 of this productization of this technology. I certainly, hearing your description of it, I would not rule that out at this point.
I think maybe there are going to be very many different forms. And all I'm saying is just we're yet to see, I think, the ideal form. For everyone, for most people. And I think, you know, there's potentially going to be different niches that want different things. One niche wants for it to look a certain way. One wants for this to be in Vision Pro with them during the day. And some other wants something else. But especially now as the AI is commoditizing, I think it's really great to think about it in a way, if AGI is just around the corner, what is then? Let's just then think, you know, if the models will be there anytime soon, AGI level, and I'd argue even now we have incredible quality. Let's think about the form factor and let's think about like, what is the correct product to put on top of it? And another thing, even although it all sounds all kind of fluffy, friendly companion, you know, relationship, but in reality, if you think about that's an incredible competitive moat because one would argue there's not much Of a mode in the current state, or I guess with the current versions of agents, whoever does the better job and is cheaper, you're going to just move there pretty quickly versus when you have a relationship with something, there are switching costs related to that. And we've seen it over and over again with Replika when, you know, there were potentially competitors with maybe they were offering something different, or maybe some people found it even better, but they wouldn't move from Replika because they— were attached to their Replika, they wouldn't give up on it. To your question about intimate conversations, it was incredibly hard. That was what's so interesting about this story is that people were in love with their Replikas. They didn't just say, oh, okay, well, they turned off a certain feature here. I'll just move on to 15 other websites where I can do that or whatever I want. It was more, well, I'm in love with my Ethan and I wanna continue to be in love with my Ethan. I don't want— it's not like, well, I can go this other place. And so the switching costs are actually a fantastic competitive moat. And if you add this to— The assistant and all the shared experiences and memories and personalization will add more and more and more to that moat. I think that is a very interesting business question, isn't that? That maybe it's not just about the fluffy emotional stuff. Maybe it is kind of the core that makes the business competitive in the long term.
Yeah, that sounds like the beginning of a very compelling pitch.
I'll send you my Venmo account. You can see it right here. the YouTube, the first comment. Just kidding.
That's a good segue in a sense to kind of the last section I wanted to cover with you, which is just how to make sure we're, as application developers, and you've been on the frontier of this for longer than probably just about anybody, how do we continue to be good wielders of this technology for people? You know, I, one question I had just very specifically was, Remembering your origin story for the company, which was that you had lost a friend and then created very simple, just kind of totally programmatic bot that would respond with texts that he had sent to people to kind of just allow his like memory to continue to, you know, go on and give people some way to get some fleeting, you know, feeling of interaction. I wonder if like that would be a use case that you would consider supporting within the Replika app? I know you've also built a couple of other apps, which I guess are, you know, kind of places to experiment with different form factors and different usage patterns. But like, I imagine there are a ton of people that would want to recreate a lost friend. And now with voice, you could even do that. You know, you could clone the voice. You could really get to probably some uncanny valley type stuff. Is that something that you do support, would support, don't want to support? How do you think about, you know, it was one thing to say, okay, well, content that's too explicit, but now, like, the can of worms just seems to be getting deeper and deeper with the increasing capability of the technology. So, you know, that, that was your original, you know, kind of idea. Like, is it something that you would actually bring to the world at scale?
Too many questions that were unanswered back when I did it. And that was really just an art project, more like a memorial, a tribute, a love letter to my friend than trying to build a high-definition clone of him using AI. But there were questions that even then I was asking myself and I couldn't find the answers. And I don't think these answers still, that we still have these answers. And those are, Like for instance, when you're building a version of someone who passed away, what age should you use? If someone died at 75 and they were struggling with Alzheimer's for the last 10 years, are you using that version or some 25-year-old version? Which, you know, how are you going to get, okay, if you want all the versions, how are you going to get the data for all that stuff? Same goes to how do you distinguish between who you're interacting with? For instance, even with Roman, when we built it, when I built it, he talked to me one way, but then a completely different way to his mom, and then a completely different way to his boyfriend or girlfriend, whatever. And so these were, there were so many just different things, different, different questions that I couldn't answer back then, and I still can't answer them. And I think this requires such a responsibility for a person to say, well, I'm going to kind of take the memory of that person who passed away and I'm going to do what I think is right with it. And that can offend someone, that can offend very close ones. Like, think if anyone can build a version of your, I don't know, someone who I deeply love who passed away, and that I'm not really on board with that version. That's very sad. You know, that's kind of just makes it like, it takes it to different places that I'm not very comfortable exploring. Memory should remain a memory. You can make a tribute. And I always said that project was not about grief. It was not about death. It was about love. It was about friendship. It was about losing someone that you care about. And I always wanted to just keep it that way. I don't think letting people create uncanny clones of someone who passed away is actually a very good idea. I personally don't think it is. I think tributes and memorials are a great way to memorialize a person. If there's an AI element, then be it. But clones is a different, you know, the just, and, and, and, and getting that product wrong is just not a good thing too. That would be a very expensive mistake, I think, just generally. Never was about brief, was always about love.
Application developers, what should we be doing? Should we have a checklist? How do we manage this, you know, for people that have not been in it for years like you have? And then also for parents, we're going to be flooded with toys that talk, apps, everything's going to be interactive, conversational. What should we allow our kids to use and not use? So builders and kids, like in whatever time you have, what advice would you give to these groups?
With kids, I don't really have an answer, good answer. I think it's too early to start experimenting with kids. I would just give it a little longer to understand what the, whether this technology is generally good for people, bad for people, which products are good, which products are bad. And only like, I would first study some, some effects and then maybe give this to kids. Like, I don't, if it's a tutor or some very, very guardrail thing, like maybe it's okay, but generally I would just be careful into what, you know, the kids get. Just because the AI, it's pretty hard to put very good guardrails and so many products out there that are fully uncensored and allow you to do whatever you want and can get very dark very soon. So I would be careful with that. I don't think kids are in like this desperate need to be talking to an AI. I think as a parent, it's better to find time and talk to your kids yourself or find some friends for them. And then in terms of developers, I don't know. I mean, I guess it's all about the audience. I think it's really just about empathy. There's something very sad that most, you know, when you talk about people that use your product, you have to say users all the time. Just creates this dynamic that's kind of the opposite of feeling empathy towards anyone. It's like, what are the users doing? Are we using our users? What's going on on that front? But I think if you think about it as, if you think about them as people and start thinking about what kind of things they want, what is the deep emotional need, that they're trying to solve, then interesting products will come out of it. Thinking deeper about the user experience would be very important. There's a lot of thinking about the models right now. I don't think there's a lot of thinking about the new form factors and new products. This is a place where there's, I think there's just tons of low-hanging fruit or some interesting disruption that can happen the next year.
Yeah, no doubt about that. We're just getting started. You've been at it for a while, but the rest of us are just getting started in this area. So let's not wait a full year to do it again. I think even 6 months is going to be going to bring us all kinds of new form factors, and I will definitely want to get your take on them sooner rather than later. I know you got to go. Thank you for being so generous with your time and your insights today. Eugenia Cuida of Replica, thank you for being part again of the Cognitive Revolution.
Thank you so much, Nathan. Thank you. Bye-bye.
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