The Wholesaling Real Estate Ring - Watch Us Call Leads Live

In this live coaching session, Nathan Payne and veteran wholesaler Lane Peterson introduce themselves, share their experience, and demonstrate how they handle inbound leads by calling a seller named Susan in northern Arizona. They first recap a recent sub‑2 wholesale deal in Atlanta, explaining the structure (seller financing combined with a sub‑to contract) and the profit earned. The hosts then walk through the inbound lead process, gathering property details (a manufactured home on ~3.75 acres with multiple outbuildings, a horse setup, and recent upgrades) and uncover Susan’s motivation to sell due to rheumatoid arthritis and limited mobility. Lane presents two options: a quick cash‑as‑is offer around $250k with a rent‑back period, or an “Accelerator Program” that markets the property to investors for a higher price (estimated $345k) but takes 45‑60 days and requires an inspection. Susan raises concerns about timing, inspection intrusiveness, and the need for sufficient proceeds to relocate. The conversation shifts to fee calculations, motivation fees, and novation numbers, illustrating how the hosts structure their earnings while ensuring enough left for agents and closing costs. Throughout, they emphasize trust building, listening, and not rushing elderly sellers, highlighting the emotional nature of real‑estate decisions. They discuss analysis paralysis that can stall callers, the need to act decisively, and the stamina required to endure long, empathetic calls, likening the role to a counselor or lawyer. The hosts close by reinforcing the importance of taking action on inbound leads, offering assistance to viewers, and reflecting on the emotional labor involved in real‑estate negotiations.
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What is going on, everybody? You just tuned in to what's called the Wholesaling Real Estate Ring, where we pick up the dang phone and we make some rings, we make some dials, and we call people so you can see exactly what it looks like to call people. All right, because I know a lot of you guys want to make money, but how do you make money? It's on the other side of that phone, right, Lane?
Gotta call, talk to people, keep talking.
That's it, that's it. Okay, everybody, for those of you that don't know me or Lane, I'm going to introduce myself so you can see if this is even really worth you listening to. Why should you listen to me and Lane? Well, I've been wholesaling for 6 years now. I just had my anniversary, I guess, in May. I started in 2018. Been doing a lot of— I've done a lot of deals, a lot of dials, and, uh, just did a $91,000 deal. And, uh, well, not just one deal, it was actually two.
But what—
thank you, Lane, I appreciate it. And what we're doing is we're revealing the sauce. There's sauce to this, guys.
You—
and that's why we do these calls. So That's me. You should listen to me because I'm actually in the business. I'm still doing it. I do deals. It's not like I did a deal 5 years ago and I'm trying to show you guys what I did that used to work. Now we're doing it now. It's working. That's me, Nathan Payne. Lane, tell the people who you are.
Thank you. Thank you. Lane Peterson. Been wholesaling since 2009, since this market crashed. I was building homes before that, pivoted into doing distressed real estate. I have loved it ever since. I'm in this business because I love helping people. I love figuring out problems and solving those problems and being able to make a good living at the same time. So I've been doing this for many, many years. I've closed thousands and thousands of wholesale deals. I've been doing direct-to-seller for a long time. Got a little bit more years under my belt than you, Nathan, but that's true. It doesn't make us one better than the others, just been in the game for a minute. And I've been— I'm here grinding every single day. I've got a wholesale business. We do about $250,000 a month nationwide. Uh, 99% of what we do is all virtual. So let's go. This is what we do every day.
So Lane, that's why I love having you on here, man, is because you're, you're doing the deals. This is not something— this is not something, uh, like something out there that we, we learned about a while ago and it worked for us. Now we're doing it now. So guys, the plan today is to make some calls. That's why you're listening. You want to see if we're any good. Lane's going to show you guys the process. I'm going to use my nifty board to to write down and show you guys what he's doing so you guys can take notes and so you can go do it. Okay? And obviously we're here to help. We know that as we do these calls, people are going to say, hey, you guys are pretty good on the phone, can you help me with my seller? That's what we do.
I'd love to bring you— bring your deals to the table, DM us, do whatever. We can help you get it to the finish line. And then maybe you already got a deal and you need help dispo it. I'm dispoing at least 25 properties a month. We have the system down. We're really good at it. So yeah, hit us up.
That's it. That's exactly why we do these calls, because our plan is to help you guys do deals and show you what it's doing. And if you want to work with us, great. If not, just keep learning. And the promise is always, let's do some calls. All right, Lane, so I know you got some calls. Before we hop into some calls, do we kind of want to— I guess I am curious on that, that one deal in Atlanta.
Did—
I'm— I want some feedback. To find out like what happened. Did you— that move, what, what happened?
Sub-2 deal. Yeah. So that was a, that was, that was a good one. We locked that thing up here live. We did.
Yeah. That's why I want to talk about it.
Francisco, he, he hit me up. I was an inbound lead, right? Everybody knows the difference between an inbound and an outbound lead. An inbound lead is they came to me from a PPC advertisement. So those leads are way better than your cold calling, your SMS, which are outbound leads, right? So Francisco, he had only been in this house for about 2 years. He bought it. It was rehabbed by a flipper. I believe it was a flipper when he bought it. And then he got a job transfer. So not really a lot of equity in the home. So our cash offer was like below what he owed. So what we were able to do is saying, hey, listen, we can put some money in your pocket. You've already moved out. You've already moved towns for your job. So instead of taking a big haircut, let's put some money in your pocket at close. Leave that loan in place, which is a 3% loan, and your equity. I was able to tell him you have equity, but because your payments don't really cash flow, because his payments were almost about as what we could rent it for. And when you include vacancies and everything, I said, I can't really pay you anymore on top of that, or we're going to be losing money every month. So he agreed, all of his equity, his $69,000 in equity, he would just take in 10 years as a balloon payment. So 0%, 0 payments on his equity. We took over his $2,000 a month mortgage, and, and he was happy. He's going to get $20,000 at closing. We're gonna hold on to it. It's a good asset. It's a good loan.
Keeping it?
No, sorry. No, I, uh, I, I wholesaled that and we wholesaled it for $30,000, bro.
Let's freaking go. Was it Bobby or not?
No, it wasn't. No, Bobby's too busy. It's hard to get on the phone and get a commitment.
Come on, Bobby, step up.
No, it was, it was an investor that we found there. Local Atlanta's a— Atlanta is a big market. Like, there's buyers all over the place looking for deals.
So Did you do a wrap? Is that what you did? You took over and you wrapped it, and— or how did you do it?
Yeah, so we basically— I mean, so you have a— it's a hybrid, right? You have the, the sub-to portion of the contract and then the seller finance, and those are combined. And then we sold it to somebody for a $30,000, uh, wholesale fee. So they take over all the terms that we—
so you made 10— you made 10 on it because you gave them 20, correct?
No, they have a $50,000 entry. Okay, you're paying Francisco his $20,000 and give—
Oh, you made, you made $30,000 on it. You made $30,000 on that.
I did.
Let's freaking go.
I did that.
They had a $50,000 entry. Okay, so guys, if you don't know how to structure sub-2 deals, don't even worry about it. If you're not even there, we're not even going to teach it to you. Hit up Lane, hit up me.
Yeah, it'll take weeks. It'll take weeks to do so. And while you're learning the game and you need more options other than just a cash offer, hit us up. We can work deals together.
Hey, amen. That's it. And that's what we do. Whether you go hit up Lane directly or you go to pantsflipping.com, it all goes to the same place because we work together. All right, guys, so let's freaking make some calls, Lane. All right, and I'll write down as best as I can. I know you're getting that phone ready. Just to let you know, for anybody that's popping in, you got inbound or outbound leads. For me, the thing that's most important for me, for you guys, is just to freaking do anything. Okay, because that's the hardest thing. A lot of people just sit there like, what do I do? What do I do? Just go out and start talking to sellers, whether you call, text. I wouldn't RVM, that's not what I would do. But you got call, text, or you got to pay for ads. If you don't know how to pay for ads or you don't have money, you're gonna have to do it the cheaper way, and that's calling, texting, knocking doors, okay? But there is money to be made, so let's freaking go.
Okay, this lead is an inbound lead, came in off of pay-per-click, which is a Google Ads and it is actually here in Arizona. I'm in there, I'm in Phoenix. This is a northern Arizona town, a smaller town, uh, that this one came in. Uh, this lady's name is Susan. She didn't give me much information other than she just filled out a web form. So let's call Susan and see what she's got going on.
All right, Susan, let's get—
everybody knows you do not need to overcomplicate these conversations. You keep them simple. You don't need to feel like you have to play mind games with anybody because sellers They feel that once they feel that somebody's trying to manipulate. Hi, is this Susan?
Yes, who's calling?
Susan, my name is Lane Peterson. I'm calling—
okay, all righty. Yes, um, I— you don't have an area code up here. I almost didn't answer.
Oh, I appreciate, I appreciate you answering.
Hey, well, I was hoping it was you, so—
oh, well, good.
Um, they didn't give me your number and they didn't tell me it was not going to be a 928.
Oh, okay, just told you I was calling, right?
That you would call.
Well, good. Well, is now a good time to talk a little bit, Susan?
Uh, yes.
Great.
I'm kind of in a quandary about things, so if I sound funny, it's only because the whole process of everything is, is kind of hard for me.
Gotcha. Well, Susan, tell me a little bit about what you got going on there.
Um, the property or the reason for selling?
Both, if you can.
Okay. I don't want to leave. I have a very nice piece of property. Uh, it's just perfect, but I've been diagnosed with, um, rheumatoid arthritis, which has taken over completely. I'm at times almost crippled up. I can just barely get around and do things. I can't pick things up. I can't handle things, and I'm a— I was a considered an ultra athlete, and so this has been a life-changing thing.
I'm sorry, sorry to hear that, Susan.
Yeah, I don't want to leave. I'm, I'm, I'm twisted between, but the process of selling is just so horrendous that I, I'm, I'm having difficulties with it. So I've seen your ads, um, so I, I got looking and there was a phone number, so I thought, well, I'd call and see what you guys had to say. I didn't even know if you went out of the Phoenix metro area.
Yes, yes, I, I was— and, and we do, we, we do. And that's why, that's why I'm on this phone call, because I'm the one that handles all of those areas. Uh, I'm, I'm born and raised native Arizonan, know the entire state very, very well, and, and we love the northern cities. So, um, we definitely would be able to get you a cash offer.
Well, I did say— oh, and I was so grateful. Now, I'm old. I was so grateful that a live person answered the phone when I, I got looking on my tablet, and that's as high-tech as I get, and found a phone number, and she answered and was very nice. And so, because I, I kind of did this cold turkey, I didn't read reviews or anything, I've just seen Doug on the TV. And, uh, so my first question was, was he just city? Because things are pretty dry down there, and I am rural, and, and very unique.
Yeah.
So, so she said, and I don't know where you're located, so I'm calling you from just outside of Phoenix.
We're in Mesa.
Okay.
But we have, we have boots on the ground everywhere. So yeah, but we make all of our phone calls and conversations we have from here in our corporate office.
Okay. We do have a realty company up here. Unfortunately, I didn't really think about you guys. Like I said, I'm old and things have just not made life as easy as it should be. I'm not as sharp as I used to be. This is my fourth house.
Okay.
But up here, so I'm, I'm not new to selling, but it's different up here. I did happen to call the local realty office up here.
Okay. And how'd that conversation go?
Well, she was very nice and she hasn't come out here. She doesn't know it yet. I'm supposed to see her, but, um, you know, you hear things, oh, your place is this, and I got just under 4 acres. It's about 3 and 3/4 perhaps.
Okay.
It's a weird number. I don't remember the exact number, but it's under just under 4. It's over 3 and a half, and it's a very nice piece of property for up here. Um, See, that's why I was hoping maybe the gal said that there was somebody up here, and that's when she gave me your name. I thought you'd be familiar with up here.
Um, well, I, I am very familiar. I am very familiar with Eager. We've bought a lot of properties, um, in those areas, so it's not, it's not something that's foreign to me at all. Um, okay, so is it a single-family home or is it a mobile home?
Oh yes, no, no, no, no, I interrupted, I'm sorry. It's a single family or what?
Or is it a mobile home?
Okay, I thought I heard you say mobile home. I get irate when people call it a mobile home. It's a manufactured home.
Manufactured home.
Because they come, there's no axles, no wheels, no nothing. It's on a stem wall, there's no tongue. It's been permanently attached. When I bought it, the inspector says, oh my gosh, you've got more tie-downs underneath there than, than is required. Um, it's, it's just a square. It's not like what you're seeing in the valley these days, these things that belong in the Mediterranean. But, um, and I've maintained the painting and I've done a lot of added things. I had to evacuate with the fire. That's—
well, I remember, I remember when that happened.
Oh boy, I'll tell you, I wasn't up here that long and I thought, I'm going to lose my whole life. I know the grindstone and making my own payments in the valley, and I'm going to lose this. But anyway, I didn't.
Yeah, very, very fortunate you didn't.
Yeah, I'm on the south end. Well, they didn't lose any big structures, luckily, but still, when I came back, I went up on the roof myself. I was a dentist in sorts of things. I was physically active. I went up on the roof. I thought, you know, I don't like this roof, so I put a metal roof on.
Oh, good for you.
So I've done a lot of additions to this property compared to when I bought it.
Yeah, I see that it's, it's a 2005 build. Have you done any upgrades since its original condition?
Well, I don't know what you mean by upgrades. Um, I added a mudroom on. Out the back, uh, where the, the laundry room would be, because I brought a horse up with me, and I was raised with you don't wear outdoor clothes in the house, and that's the way I am. My barn clothes came off, I went up to the mudroom. I do not wear outdoor shoes in my house, and that's across the board. Oh nice.
Yeah, so it's in good shape, it's a very clean home.
Oh God, I'm a pain to people because I am very particular, very fussy, and I'm a neatnik.
Okay, well good.
I take care of things. I'm always trying to be ahead of the game and improve things all the time. So anyway, um, it's got an attached large back porch and it's above the ground because there is a slope to the property, a slight slope, and I have a front porch. Attached, and it's, it's very nice. Um, I don't think there's been any recent Google Earth type aerial views. I've added two buildings as well as those that came with the property. I have a hay barn, and it's secluded. You don't see it. A person that doesn't want horses or isn't interested wouldn't even know they had a horse property. I've got lots of trees around it. Um, I added a feed room, which is— well, it's close, but it's not staring me in the face. There's trees around it. And I also do have a nice chicken coop area. I put that in very nice, and I was meticulous. I cleaned up my chicken stuff every day. But, um, I've been told by people just off the cuff, oh, you ought to be able to get this if you ever decide to sell it. But you know what, I don't know. Yeah, because now I never thought about selling. I never thought that I would become in a position where I, I love yard work. I work in the yard all the time. I've gardened here. I just like— I'm very picky. I've landscaped. I just like messing around outdoors. I mean, why be— why otherwise I stayed in the city?
Yeah, well, so has your, has your sickness kind of forced you to move back down into the valley into, into warmer weather?
I have. It's been suggested to me that a lower altitude and warmer climate, plus the fact that, to be honest with you, this is more than I can— I'm 77. This is more than I can handle anymore. I didn't feel like this last July. I was climbing the, the trees, getting the mistletoe out to give to my goat. He likes it like candy. And give to the horse. But he was really addicted to it. I mean, I was doing— chasing them around. I could do everything. I was a jockey at one time. Okay, so I was— yeah, I was very physically active, physically fit and in shape. I've lost every ounce of muscle now. I am weak. My hands don't want to I can't use my hands like I used to. Uh, it's getting to the point where the handwriting— I'm not going to get younger, right?
Right. Yeah, we aren't.
No, I don't know how old you are, but, um, yeah. And, and this rheumatoid stuff, there's no cure for it. I never in my wildest imagination would have ever even thought I'd be a candidate for it.
Yeah, well, my heart goes out to you, and I really feel for you. I mean, I'm like I said, I'm a native here from Arizona. I grew up around horses. My dad's cotton farmer down in, uh, South Gilbert, Florence, Coolidge area. And so I, I grew up doing the same sort of thing. So I, I feel for you, and that's got to be tough for something to kind of slow you down when it sounds like you really, really like to stay active and do things.
Yeah, I don't, I don't fit in up here. Yeah, number one, I got to be very careful. I won't go any further than just saying that I'm a female that's not barefoot and pregnant or hasn't been and, and I'm out wrangling horses. Uh, the thing that kind of kicked this off— last July I was asked by a veterinarian to go and check out a lame horse over in Taylor. Do you know where Taylor is?
Sure do.
Outside of— okay.
Yep.
Um, a person decided that they had enough property. That's— I don't know how much they've got, so they found a horse thoroughbred, which I'm extremely familiar with. They're a different ball of wax, okay? Especially when they've been in training. Yeah, gets this horse up here, turns it out in this place, and this horse goes lame. Well, I was asked to go over and look. Oh my God. Well, this horse wanted to flip over because it was so lame, if you understand a little bit about horses.
I do.
Um, and it wanted to flip over and flip over. It wouldn't let me look at it, see what the problem was. This horse was turned out in a What do you call a derelict place for old vehicles and junk? Junkyard.
Junkyard.
Yeah, junkyard. Yeah, in Taylor. Rocks, rock everywhere. Where this horse was raised in the valley, and I know where it was, out on pasture, had been at the racetrack with only 45 days of training. Come springtime, it wasn't eligible to go anywhere else, so they put it up for sale. Well, this person took this horse. Oh God, they never should have had a horse there, number one, or a horse that came from the kind of background. Finally, this horse jerked me so much, but I didn't think anything of it at the time. The next day, it had pulled all the muscles loose on my right arm, down my side, and across my upper chest. And I didn't realize it at the time, and that's what kicked off the RA. They say old age onset is physical trauma and then stress. Yeah, which I have a lot of. But anyway, it came on to me suddenly. Yeah, and I already had a bad shoulder. My bad, I had a bad shoulder from handling horses my entire life, but it wasn't bad until this horse jerked it right out of the joint.
Oh man. Yeah, that sounds painful.
Oh well, anyway, So I was fine last July and things aren't getting any better. So I've been told I should go down. I don't want to go back to the Valley. I don't know how I'm going to manage that. I have no place to go.
Well, we can help. We can help you out there. I mean, we buy and sell houses all over the Valley. I mean, where do you want to be? You want to be on the East side, the West side? Well, we can help you find a house down here too.
Yes, I figured there's— but at my age, I'm going to need what I, I worked my entire life and just worked hard, never made a lot of money. My Social Security is minimal. I need to be able to live off of what I can get out of this. It's got to be my last. I've been a slave to a house since 1972 and I need to be able to have money to take care of myself, doctor bills and various stuff like that. So think buying another house at my age. I was in the Northwest Valley, Greenway. I worked at the racetrack. I worked in Sun City, and Greenway was my running.
Yeah, gotcha. Okay.
Yeah, and I lived in Sun City the last 5 years to take care of my dad. When he passed away, I jumped ship. I retired from the track and came up here.
Gotcha. Okay. Well, so what do you think? What do you think on timing? What, like, when do you want to close, like, start the process? What are you thinking?
Well, I, I'm still— and I'm sorry, I don't want to waste your time. I felt really bad, but I thought, you know, I need more information because I don't know what this place is worth to your kind of reality. Mm-hmm. If you don't mind me putting it like that. I don't know what I'm going to get out of it. That's another thing. It's what I get out of it as to where I can go.
Yeah.
The Valley is, um, so inflated. It was the number one city area for inflation last year. I was shocked.
Yeah. Yeah. It started to calm down a little bit. Um, it started to shift a little bit over into a buyer's market. So there's more inventory now. So you might not have that hard a time finding something. But the question is, would you want to buy or rent?
Well, until I knew how life was going to turn out, I would have to— I'd have to find a place to rent for a while. And Sun City would be where I would like to go. Looking back, maybe I wouldn't have been up here, and I've loved it up here. This is where I've been meant to be. If I haven't come down with this, But my house in Sun City was a little 2-bedroom house, and I miss it.
Oh, Sun City's great. Yeah, we've— I've been out to Sun City a lot, and I tell my kids all the time, that's probably where I'm going to be, so that you guys are going to be coming visiting me in Sun City. I love it.
Well, when I was in my 20s, I lived in Glendale, 59th Avenue, and between Bella and Greenway in there. I could I could look out my front window and I wouldn't see a light north of Bell Road. The Bell Road was nothing like it is. I've seen that valley change, but I've always lived within a mile, uh, you know, my two other homes and then moved to Sun City. Um, I had a little two-bedroom home across from the, you know, the graduate school at 29th Avenue and Greenway.
Oh, okay. I didn't know that.
You may not, you may not be familiar with it. It's called the International School of, uh, the School of International Management, something like that. Um, 59th and Greenway. I lived in a neighborhood just across from there for 30 years, a little 2-bedroom home.
Okay.
And, um, loved it. But anyway, um, I wasn't gonna say— darn.
Well, let me ask you— oh yeah, go ahead.
Okay. Well, I— and when I was in my 20s, I worked in Sun City. I worked at Boswell Hospital.
Okay.
Aside from my horse wrangling, my— I'd go to the racetrack every day and get on horses, and I'd go to my job at the hospital. So I got introduced to Sun City, and I like old folks. I don't have kids, therefore I don't have any family anywhere to go or nothing. I have no connections up here whatsoever. This is cold turkey. Yeah, but anyway, um, Sun City, uh, I, I met— was always working, so I couldn't partake of their rec centers, but now I would, I would, you know, that would be something I would probably look into. I don't even know if that's affordable, especially after I sell this up here.
Yeah, rent— rents have come— rents have come down a little bit, um, and like I said, there is a little bit more supply, so I don't think you'd have a hard time finding something. It's just finding what you— what you like. Um, let me ask you—
yeah, exactly what I can afford.
Yeah, let me ask you something. When you called the real estate company up there, what kind of feedback did they give you? Like, did they give you any sort of price range to help you figure out what you could sell it for?
Not yet, not yet, because I didn't get that far. Because, uh, you know, the realty business is— I don't know, it might be different up here. Um, I always was around in my house when people came. The first person that came to look at the houses that I had in the valley, there were 3 of them. One was in the '70s, a long, long time ago. Then the one I was in for 30 years, and then the Sun City house I was in for 5. I was there, I showed people around, they bought it.
Um, sounds easy.
Oh yeah, it was probably easier, but then I hear horror stories up here and I don't know what to think. I haven't gotten that far with them. I just found a person that sounds like they would— they understand me. I don't want people traipsing through my house. They can't— they have to take their shoes off. She says that's nothing ridiculous. Um, I don't want somebody going out. I have a really nice piece of property. It's the property.
Yeah, yeah, no, I can see. I'm, I'm looking at aerials and stuff of it, and it does, it looks beautiful.
Um, well, aerials don't give it justice because I looked at something once and I thought, boy, that doesn't look like my place because I'm right behind a big old metal barn that belongs to the people that are up on the road that I— my drive goes next to it.
Yeah, your drive goes for a long time. I mean, it's a pretty long driveway, and that's, that's a big portion of your lot too, is that, that easement for your, for the driveway.
Yeah, I got one side that's, that's, that's it for pasture. The other side I didn't do because their house is so close to the property line. I didn't need to do that, but it's the privacy. Um, I'll tell you what, um, you can walk down my drive during sunset and, and it's just The view, you don't see it. It's just amazing. But yeah, um, yeah, I could use that, but I do have a fence in there and we did that, but I have a gate. I keep it closed because of people up here and their rudeness about letting their dogs just— they think their dogs can run everywhere. Um, and it's kind of a flag-shaped property, I guess you'd call it.
For sure. I can— yeah, I would say that. That's a good description.
Yeah, that's, that's what I've been told it's called. I've got a nice workshop that's, that's closest, the closest building to the house other than the house. I've got a— like I said, it's just the aerial view doesn't really show you very good. I have a conex, the biggest conex. I've got an attack room and what I call my tool shed, and then the feed room, which is between the house and where the horses were. And, um, first year I stayed under a tarp. That wasn't very good.
Do you have a basketball court in your backyard?
No.
Oh, okay.
What would look like that? A basketball court? Oh, that's the people behind me.
That's behind you. Okay, now I got, I got where you are. So you have a circle pen for the horses on yours?
Yes, I've got a round pen.
Gotcha.
I've got a two big A big, large, uh, it's, it's 12 by 18, 2 stalls, 12 by 18, with corrals out in front. Uh, the Connex, you won't be able to see much. No, that drive behind me, that's my neighbor, and they're wonderful, but I never see them. They have a very long drive with— and yeah, yeah, mine's the one between their drive and the 2-story house on the other side of me. They've got a big metal barn.
Okay, so I see it. I got you. Okay, okay. So let's— I mean, what— starting this process, like calling, calling us, calling the realtor, what was kind of in your mind that you were hoping someone would tell you that you could get for it? Well, I have a number at all.
Yeah, I've been told Uh, now like I said, you want to tell a person that— but I wasn't selling it, it was just people, oh, you ought to be able to get this if you ever wanted to sell it. And I— that wasn't even a conversation, and that wasn't recent either. And I have a neighbor, uh, who unfortunately has left, and that, that's another reason why, yeah, it's time for me to go. Uh, he's— his house is listed as well at $450,000, and I've got a bigger house, nicely landscaped, is totally different piece of property, very open by the road. He's got a big old barn and he's got a roping arena, and he does have pasture next to the house. But this is listed for $450,000. Um, I, I can't give you the number of the house as you go up Spanish Trail.
I think it's 1294 Spanish Trail.
I, I couldn't— I'm 1208, so that could be— it's on the same side as me, and he, he's, he's got a road on two sides. Benny J is the road that's on his south side.
Yeah.
And, um, his is smaller. It's a manufactured home. It is older, but he's kept it up. It does not have a metal roof. I have a metal roof.
Yeah. Put it on yourself, huh?
Well, I didn't do it. No, I had it done.
Oh, you said you got up there.
I said, but I upgraded it, and you know, that's an upgrade if you want to call. Yeah, yeah.
So he's, he's got, he's got an arena, he's got some horse facilities, um, like you, which does, does add some value because those, that's the type of buyer you do get up in, in your area, which is great. Um, So I guess, I guess I would just kind of need to know, like, what is the best option for you? Um, is, is, is what's most important, uh, price? Is it timing? Because it kind of sounds like we've done a lot of different scenarios where, you know, we, we come in and we purchase the home, and then you need more time to stay there to go find another home. Is that going to be this situation we're dealing with, or are you going to find a place before we close it?
Oh, I, I doubt that. No, because I'm going to need money to move.
You're going to need your money. Okay.
Yeah, yeah. In other words, because— and that's also going to determine where I go. Um, it's been suggested to me to look down around the Green Valley area, which is south of Tucson. I, I've not been down there. I've been to the racetrack in Tucson. Uh, and I've been to the fair circuit around the— so I've been around the state, but nothing looking at, you know, oh, could I live here sometime?
Yeah.
So I— yeah, I need to sell, um, in order to know where to go, because how much I get determines— the Valley's gotten so terribly expensive. I'm familiar with the Sun City area, but it will be culture shock for me. The traffic I'm a country kid. Yeah, surprisingly. Um, and I can't go down there just thinking that, well, a racetrack— I can go visit the racetrack. That's my old stomping ground. I've been there since 1970. Yeah. Um, working there, and I retired from there. So that may not even be there. There's talk about it being eliminated. Who knows?
Yeah. Okay, so what I— what I mean, what I truly want to do, Susan, I want to—
I want to try to put you in a bad spot.
No, you haven't put me in a bad spot at all. I This is what I do every single day. I, I gather the information like what you have been so great at explaining to me, and then I want to find the best solution. I want to find the best solution for you that also we can accommodate, um, to be able to help you out because you are in a little bit of a different situation. Whereas if you go list it with a realtor, you're gonna— they're gonna expect you to be moved out before they close. Whereas—
wait, no, that frightens me.
Yeah. Right, we're able to accommodate, we're able to accommodate, um, what you need by coming in and closing it, allowing you 30, 45 days after we close to find a place and comfortably get moved out. Sometimes we go up to 60 days. That's a little long, but you know, we can accommodate these things. Now we just need to figure out if we can do it for the price that you'll— that it'll make you happy, because I do have other options other than our cash price that could get you more money at the end of the day. Um, it just might take a little bit longer because I, I really think that, you know, our, our cash price wouldn't be a good fit for you. I just, I wouldn't even want to offend you with it, and I would like to see you have the most money in your pocket as possible.
Um, well, I, this, you know, the people that I bought it from, and this is— I'm just weird, uh, I didn't dicker. You know, I looked around, something I wanted, and I didn't pick it apart. Uh, yes, there was an inspection, but the day we arrived for the inspection, that was okay. It's kind of me to go up there. You know, I, I don't— I'm not a picker when I've been on the other end. And the house that I was in for 30 years, it was a C.W. Grace home, or if you're familiar with them.
Doesn't sound familiar.
I bought it new. CW or WC Grace. It was a development across from the graduate school. This was in 1978. Um, I was in it for 30 years, and when I had one to go to move to Sun City to be closer so I could take care of my dad— I couldn't go over there and come back past my house and go to work and then come past my house and go to him again at night, so It was kind of almost equal. I could sell it and buy something in Sun City and it would be across people. So they said to me when they walked in, the realtor and even the buyer, first buyer, first lady that walked in, and we're still friends, she says, my God, it doesn't look like it's ever been lived in. But that's the way I am. I'm finicky. Yeah, I take care of stuff. I don't use stuff. I don't bang stuff. My cupboard, my counters were like brand new. I don't square spots. I put something over them in the using place. So, well, so I don't know how the market is these days. Um, I know if you look on the tax records, because taxes up here are so cheap, the place won't be worth anything if you look on the tax record.
Yeah, no, I never go off a tax estimate. The county doesn't know how to estimate the value of a property. Uh, I mean, you are, you are in a rural area, so your days on market are a lot higher than, like, a metro area. You know, like, the houses that are for sale around you, they're on the market for well over 100 days. And so if you— you got to be careful, because if you go and list it too high, you're just going to be sitting on the market forever and you won't sell.
I gotcha. I understand that. I want just market value or something honest. I don't want somebody to come in and say Oh well, I don't like the baseboards. They need to be painted. And they're no different than when I came in and bought the place. You know, those people are only in 4 years, but yeah, but still, um, I'm not gonna— I'm not gonna replace carpet. I'm not gonna do anything. And that's where I'm thinking I don't need people coming in and saying, well, you know, come down or replace the carpet. No, you put your own carpet in. Yeah, I, I improved this place. I didn't— I didn't insist that people that had it process it for me so I could have a horse in the back. Yeah, you know, I, I just— you either like what you see or you don't. And there's nothing in here that I can think of that is a problem.
Got it.
I upgraded curtains. I've got, uh, you know, those, uh, I don't know what you call them, supposed to be good for heat, or blinds that go up and down. But anyway, well, let me, let me tell you this, Susan.
So I'm gonna, I'm gonna talk about two options, and one, I like— I'm kind of dismissing right away, because I feel like the, the second option would be best for you, um, because it's going to put more money in your pocket and it's going to get you to where you need to go to be able to, you know, live the rest of your days down here in the valley and comfortably and be able to have some money to live off of. Because our cash offer is going to be at a discount and we can accommodate so, so many things, right? We can let you rent back for a while, we can do whatever you need to do, but it's— I, I just don't think it's enough. You know, it's, it's down in the mid-$200,000 range, and I just, like I said, I just don't even want to offend you by presenting that and sending you an offer with that kind of number on it.
Yeah, no, I'm, I'm not— I'm only— I'm a very short distance from town. I'm not out in the boonies. That's the amazing thing.
Right.
I've got—
yeah, but I'm just saying, I'm just talking eager Eager in general is not a metro— metropolitan area, right? And stuff sits on the market for a lot longer. So our cash offer would be around $250,000. Um, and I mean, if that's something you want to do, we can go down that road, but I'm not sure if that's enough to get you to where you want to go.
Well, yeah, see, and I don't know how much time I would have with you. Like I said, today I just called her and I told her, I said, I'm not ready to, to make a decision right now. I just need to know more information. I didn't even I don't know you guys did anything outside of the metro Phoenix metro area, so yeah, no, that's fair, that makes sense. Yeah. And wrote down your name, this is, you know, he'll give you a call.
Yeah, I'm glad, I'm glad you reached out. And, and if that cash offer is just not enough and you don't want to go that route, we can— I can see if I can get your home approved for our other program, which we call like the— it's called the Accelerator Program. And basically, you know, we pride ourselves in marketing We're really, really good at it. That's how you found us. And we also do the same thing on the homes that we sell. So if I could get your house approved for this program, basically what it looks like is we stick our team of marketing on it and our team of realtors and we send it out to our investors and we market it and we get a much higher price for you and we handle the entire process. Right. Some people have realtors they work with. If they do, They deal with us, they don't deal with you, and we pay all the closing costs. And if there's a realtor involved, we also pay that realtor. It doesn't come out of the price that I could give you. It just takes a little bit more time because we're gonna, we're gonna stick our marketing team on it. And we've proven to be able to sell our houses 35% faster than most other realtors in the market.
Well, even though you're not up here Um, no, we do.
We have it. We have to be—
you would be being a realtor is what you'd be doing. You'd be with, with the nice perks that you mentioned that you wouldn't be. Yeah.
So, um, um, well, can I, can I, can I tell you a little bit more? That it's, it's not us acting as a realtor. We work with realtors to help get you more for your price, but we're not acting as a realtor on, on your behalf. What we're doing is we are getting you a higher number for your home, which if we were— if I was able to get this house approved for this program, which I think I could, your walkaway number would be around $345,000. So almost $100,000 more what I could get you for the home. It just takes a little bit longer and a little bit more effort on our side to do it. The cash offer, we can close it quick, you can rent it back. For a little while. This, this, this one will take, you know, probably 45 to 60 days because it takes a little bit more effort on our side. We, like I said, we market it to all of our investors, and our marketing department, um, really works their tail off to get you more money for the home.
Okay, now you're talking about the second option? About—
correct.
How many days did you say?
On average, it's about 45 to 60.
Yeah. Okay. Okay. I wasn't sure if you meant the cash offer would take that long. Okay. No, no, it's the other one.
Yeah. Our cash offer, we can close it within 30 and we can lease it back to you, uh, for a timeframe that works for both of us.
Yeah. A reasonable time.
Yeah.
I'll tell you at my age, and I've got to do this all myself. How do I vacate it when I don't know. I have a little bit of savings, but still, I can use that and have this place completely emptied out and be in a motel and then have it fall through on the day it's supposed to close because the other people— I, I almost happened one time, but it, it didn't, thank heaven. And I was in the valley where I was in an extended stay temporarily between the two different places.
Yeah, you don't want to risk, you don't want to risk doing that, that's for sure.
Yeah, I would virtually be homeless and then to get back in. Oh my God, it's a nightmare. It's a nightmare. I, I, I still don't understand all this stuff, but I think the RA, the RA, you know, it's an inflammatory thing. It affects your whole body. And I notice I'm not quite as sharp as I used to be, and I was really sharp. I put in brand new racetracks, you know, the area that I— of my expertise once I quit riding.
Yeah.
And other brand new racetracks being put in, and I could do it, and they They were flabbergasted, but I'm not that way anymore.
Yeah.
And so I'm a little slow on the uptake, if you don't mind.
You're totally, you're totally okay with me, Susan. I really, I would like to help you, you know, the best option that you feel best about. I truly, we're in, I'm in the business of helping people and having different options presented to you. It kind of just helps you gauge on what is going to work best for you. So the cat— the cat— the cash, like I said— sorry, go ahead.
I don't know, it just prompted a thought and I didn't mean to interrupt you. I'm sorry.
No, you're— you're totally fine. I just wanted to reiterate, our cash as-is, no-nonsense, simple, straightforward, close it quick would be around $250,000. And then our—
okay, let me ask you this. What all will it Hail, um, normal stuff. I mean, I've already turned my heating system off, which I don't want some yahoo coming in here and wanting to restart the furnace and not knowing how to do it. And, and, and, you know, I'm talking about an inspector. And believe me, I've heard some horror stories up here. They aren't exactly, um, you know, I'm, I'm such a technical person. That I've done engineering, that I've got a really strange background. But, you know, I'm terrified of somebody coming in here and hurting my piece of property, and it's still mine.
Yeah. Well, what I can tell you is the only way to have that guarantee is you go with a cash offer.
If you want, if you want a lot more money, you're still going to come. If I go the second way, let's put one and two, one One's out right now. Number 2, you would still send— and I have no problem with somebody coming and inspecting as long as they are respectful. And it's no longer the heating season time, so they don't need to try to fire up my gas stove, which they don't know how to even do. And I would burn— I've got a beautiful fireplace. We all burn wood up here. So you would still, I'm sure, want to come through and make sure the place isn't falling apart, right?
Correct. Yes, the second option, it would require an inspection. We only use professional inspection companies and, you know, professional services. So, and you are welcome to be there whenever an inspector comes to make sure he's doing it right.
Because I— yeah, because I do have, um, indoor— I have to be honest, I have got a couple cats. Okay, they're indoors and I'm very meticulous, and, uh, so somebody shouldn't be allergic.
No, that'll be, that'll be fine. Cats are harmless. They, you barely even know they're there when you, when you show up usually. Yeah, exactly right.
So if they are going to meet somebody at the door and grab your ankle— yeah, and I don't have dogs. I do not have dogs. And, uh, so as long as they're respectful, I don't know what all they would want to do.
Um, yeah, it'd just be like a normal home inspection. It's, it's not very intrusive. And like I said, you can be there and make sure that he's handling your stuff in the right way. Um, but you know, I've, I've been doing this for 20 years now. Um, we are always very, very upfront in the process and make it very accommodating and very easy because, like, in your situation, you know, you kind of have a lot going on where it's like you do need your money before you move out, so you need a little bit more time. And so we're there right by your side the entire time, accommodating all of what you need to be able to get to where you need to go.
Let me ask— this is a, an off-the-wall question, you may not be able to answer this, but let's say the inspector comes— and I'm trying to remember in the Sun City house. He wanted to run the washing machine. I wasn't going to take it with me. It was going with the house, so he wanted to make sure it ran. So, I said, "Oh, okay. Instead of wasting that water, can I put a load of wash in? Then you'll see that it works." I mean, it's little things like that. And for the gas heaters, in the summertime it's going to be hard. To get that pilot light to relight because it's warm. And I have the gas company come out and do it when it doesn't quite want to fire for me. And the other stove I have that I got that I put in additionally because this is a longhouse and I don't even use the— what would you call it— the the heating unit that's in it. I put the pilot light on and that heats that part of the house just with the pilot light. I don't let the blower go on. I am so happy to be away from hearing heat pumps, and I don't like air conditioning, so I'm, I'm in trouble. But to have that cycle on, I don't use it. I don't use the blower because the time it gets to the other end of the house going underneath in the ductwork, which is underneath the floor, it's wasted. So I put another unit a gas unit in, and every year I start up— if I have problems getting it all started up, it's a standalone nice little, little, um, unit. I, I call the guy that— the stove company up here, and he comes and he starts it for me. But to have somebody who doesn't know how to get this thing started, I'd have to say no. You don't start that. Yeah, I don't know whether that would be oil or not.
Well, let's cross that, let's cross that bridge when we get there. Why don't we do this, Susan? Um, why don't you, you give some thought? I, I think I've, uh, kind of lined out those two options that we can offer you. One, you're gonna get a lot more money, it's just going to take a little bit more time because we're going to throw it over to our marketing department, which we've proven to be really, really good at, and get this thing get this thing moved for you at a higher, but a much higher price than what our cash, cash offers is. But you know, some people would prefer the cash and the peace of mind and the guarantee.
So why don't, why don't I can understand, I under— I can understand that completely, especially if you have, you know, a cookie cutter house. Yeah, no, I would go that route. But this is, this is so different. Yeah. Um, would there be people, see, uh my drive, if a realty sign went out, which I don't know whether you do that, it would be by appointment only for sure.
Yeah. Nobody would just be showing up to your house to come through, but we will be having part of our marketing does allow people to come through and it's only by appointment only for sure.
And they are pre-qualified because, you know, people drive down my drive. Oh, well, what's down there? This is a neighborhood.
Yeah, no one, no, no one will have access to your house and no one will be able to go through your house unless there's an appointment set and you have approved it and you're good with it. So no one can just— and if someone does show up and knock on the door, you tell them no, they gotta like— they can't go through it, right?
Do you put signs out or not for this?
For the Accelerated Program, we do. Option, Option B The second option we're talking about, we do.
Yep. Yep. You do.
We're trying to— we're trying our best to get you a lot more money. And so that's what we're really pushing. And like I said, we've proven to be very, very good at marketing. That's how you found us.
Okay. Because I thought, you know, the sign can't be— because people are rude. They do not respect— because I have people that drive down my drive. Oh, I wonder what's down there. And then they can't back out.
Oh yeah, I could, I could see that. Well, Susan, when can I follow back up with you?
Um, do you want my email? I do email. I don't have any means to text, okay? This is a landline, but I do have an email address if you want that, or you can call. I'm, I'm in such— and I appreciate your time spent. Yeah, I just have to make up my mind of what I'm going to do.
So I haven't— I have an email that my office wrote down and it's really long. I don't know your email. No, I have an email for you that my office wrote down and it's, it's super long. It looks fake, but I— this might be it.
I don't think so because I didn't give it.
Oh, okay, then they just made one up because they needed to have one in there. What is your email?
Oh really? Oh no, mine is not real long.
Okay, what is it?
Don't give it to anybody else. No, sell it to anybody. I don't do anything close by. Yeah, I did look you guys up. It's just a little tablet, but all the garbage that I get, I don't know how I get it.
I don't— Yeah, no, we don't give, we don't give your contact info out to anybody.
Okay, I'll give you my email as well.
Okay, I'm ready.
I can, I can then reply to, to the, uh, if you email me, I can reply back and it'll go back to where you want it. Or do I need to write down an email address for you?
No, what I'll do is I will, I will shoot you an email so that you have all my contact info.
Okay.
Okay, I'm ready.
That sounds good. Okay, I'm— whenever you're ready to write down my email address, and I'll let you know just as soon as I've made up my mind as to what I'm doing. Awesome. I've, I've, you know, I, I, I've dealt with various stuff through the years, and I've always told people, you know, I'll let you know immediately about whatever the scenario could be.
Okay, perfect.
Selling a horse, which I don't do. My horses stay with me. I have rescues only. I don't have any more. I'm done.
I'm done.
Yeah, but in the past, when somebody was needing something that I might have had, I'll say, I'll let you know exactly what is going on. And I do.
Perfect. Okay, awesome. All right, I'm ready for the email.
Okay, it's my last name Those letters don't come on. It's even worse. After my last name, period, my initial Okay, and then another initial, initial is an M. I always have to say that because people automatically want to stick another period in.
Okay, and then email. Okay, I got it. Steelwheel.s.m @gmail.com.
I heard something glitched a little bit.
Yep, I got it. Susan, I really, really appreciate your time today. Yeah, no, thank you for reaching out.
Your time. I wish I was more ready to, to— I wish I had my head in line. I just don't know what to do at this point quite yet.
And, um, well, no pressure on my end. I, I'm here to help. I'm here to answer any questions. You can bounce things off of me, run them by me, whatever you need to do. You can reach out whenever. You've got my number now. And yeah, I'll just— I'll follow up with you, what, in a couple days? Is that enough time?
Whenever is convenient for you. I, I've got to just— I don't know whether I'll even have— I, I've been putting this off for waiting for the weather to get better and then thinking what is the best time that people might be coming up from the valley to here. This place would be a perfect place for somebody to have as a second place to bring it up.
Yeah, for sure. Well, it's summertime, so people, people are going up there often now. All right, I'll, I'll follow up with you in a— let's say Monday, since tomorrow's already Friday, and, and then I'll kind of see what you found out with your realtor, if you're still going to do that, and then we can have another conversation, see if we're going to move forward.
I don't want to, to tell you the truth.
Okay. I don't blame you. I, I don't blame you at all.
Um, I, I don't know whether there's a trial period for somebody like that and see what happens. I, I— they're gonna have to give me a price, and you still have to kind of look at what it's worth from Plan B, right?
Yeah, I'm running rough numbers right there. I think that's around where we're going to be, but if we want to move forward, um, um, then after we get all the paperwork and stuff in place, I will definitely be by there to, to look at it.
So, oh, you would come up?
Uh, it would either be me or, or somebody on my team.
Oh, well, I think that's great. By the way, I've often wondered, do they travel anywhere to go see these places?
Oh yeah, no, we look at all the houses that we purchase. It's just that we usually have the agreement in place because we can't We can't go see every property that we talk to people about. We don't— I mean, there's not enough employees in the world for that.
No, no, business, you know, I, I just— I understand business. Okay, Plan B, what you thought would be about how much?
Uh, around, around $345,000. So almost $100,000 more.
Okay, can't up it to $375,000?
I, I don't, I don't think I can get that approved. Okay, but I will look at it. I, I will look at it and run it by my team, and then when we talk on Monday, uh, we'll, we'll finalize that number. Susan, I gotta, I, I gotta jump off here, and I, again, I super, I really appreciate it. Don't mean to cut you off, I just have another call that I need to jump on. I understand.
Okay, can I call you Lane?
That is my name. That's what everybody calls me.
You can call me Sue.
Okay, perfect.
Okay, thanks. Thanks for getting back with me. I'm sorry to be such a— I don't know what the word is.
Don't apologize for anything.
I'm in a terrible state.
Hey, you're great.
Let's see where I needed to go.
We'd love to help you out. Thank you, Sue.
Thanks. And I'll be, I'll be looking forward to an email from you and then talking to you.
Okay, sounds good. Thanks.
Bye. Yeah, bro, I think you might need to take the rest of the day off after that one, brother.
Yeah, I don't, I don't even know if I want that client now, bro.
I don't even know, dude.
Dude, that's a full-time—
I don't think— here's the problem is, I'm not kidding, I don't know if I even want that deal because that I don't know if she'll ever be happy.
I don't know. Yeah, I don't know you're going to be able to satisfy that, bro, because— okay, let's, let's address the conversation. Let's talk about it because I'm—
I watched the whole thing. That's something to talk about as well. I mean, you don't, you don't buy every house. I mean, sometimes it's the juice is just not worth the squeeze. Okay, that sounds like it'll be a lot, a lot of hours. But the one thing that I do like, because I Anybody that's still listening, I don't blame you if you're not, but if we go this option B, that is a novation. And the only reason I probably would still move forward is because I'm gonna hire a local agent that's gonna have to deal with her.
Yeah, not, not— you're not doing it now.
I mean, I'm gonna have to deal with the agent, and— but it's mostly that agent that's going to be doing the majority of the work. Because the way I figure out my novation number right there is I take what I think it's going to sell for on the open market, which I think, I think I estimated $425,000. Okay. And I take 90% of that, which is $382,000, and then I minus out $35,000. That's your fee? That put me at $347,500. So I took out 10%.
That's your fee, correct?
That's my fee. That's the motivation fee. So I, I $425,000 I can sell it for on the open market. I took out 10%. That's going to give me enough money to pay, pay 2 realtors because it's gonna have a selling agent and a buyer's agent, pay for any closing costs that are going to happen, and give me some fluff to if there's any like repair requests and stuff like that. 10% should cover it all. And then I minus out what our company is going to make. So I just, I left enough money in there so I can hire a local agent.
Deal with that. You don't want to list it, bro. Not even close. You don't. It's not worth your time. It's not worth anyone's time on your team.
Yeah.
So, so let's break that down. That— I, I actually was talking to one of the guys that I work with earlier today, and he told me that he met with a 91-year-old and an 80-year-old, and he told me the exact same thing that you just faced. It's very hard to redirect, unfortunately, old people to the the sales process. They take over. They really just wanted someone to talk to. Is that kind of what you're facing, Lane? It's just like it was very hard to get her back on track, right?
Uh, I mean, older lady, no kids, probably doesn't talk to anybody but her cats all day, every day. Sounds like she doesn't even talk to her neighbors that much. And so now she's talking to somebody, and she just talked about everything in her life.
You're a super— you're a movie star to her, bro. She saw you on TV. She— this was her time. Time to chat with the lane, bro. But anyway, that is rough and we've all been there. We've all been there because you're not— we're not disrespectful. We don't want to cut anyone off. We don't want to make them feel like they're not important. So yes, we do sit there and we listen, but you do your best to redirect. And I think you did a good job by at least getting to the end at the conversation by saying, hey, these are the options, you decide which works best for you. Because if you would have just been like, hey, let's just call again, you're going to run into the same issue and it's going to be another hour conversation.
You didn't notice, I usually have, I usually have 3 options, right? We usually can do a sub-2 or creative financing.
That's what's up too with that.
I didn't even want to approach that with this lady, man. Dude, bro, that would have been— we would be in here all day. Yeah. So I gave her the 2 options, right? I don't call it a novation because nobody knows what a novation is. I call— I've started calling it the accelerated program because I love it, and I like talking to them about focusing on how good we are at marketing, right? Because that's how they found me. They found me from our marketing. So they'd be like, oh yeah, you're sure, yeah, good marketing. So you focus on how good we are at marketing, and that's, that's what we do to, to be able to get you more money if our cash offer doesn't work.
I think she'll go with it because she obviously doesn't want to deal with people she doesn't know. Like, you took the time to spend with her, and that means a lot, right? And for a lot of people that are on here, like, oh my gosh, but guys, like I've done a lot of deals with older people, and usually you get their kids involved, but she says she doesn't have any, so she's going to make this decision. That's another thing I was going to say is like, if she had kids, I would try and work with them just to make sure this is even something she's allowed to do, because when they get older, sometimes they don't even make their decisions. But Lane found out that she does, and, you know, he was respectful, kind. So I think she's going to feel real good with you. I don't see many people sitting through that.
Kind of conversation, man. But you know, when you're literally— you gotta kind of change your mindset of you're not just trying to find your next deal, although you are trying to find your next deal, but you're talking to somebody that this is pretty much the biggest asset that they own in their entire lifetime.
This is—
yeah, normal human, normal humanity, the biggest asset they own is their home. It's a huge decision for sure. And if they feel that you aren't like really in it to help them and you're just looking for the dollar signs, dude, they're not going to give you the time of day.
No, trust is extremely important. So I, to be honest, I would be in the same— I would react the same way, probably like obviously try to redirect it as best as you can. But if you put rush somebody and they're that old, they're going to feel like you don't care. And you, you actually do care because we just sat here for an hour and listened to you care.
Yeah. And I'm straight up with them. I'm like, listen, I don't think this cash offer you should go with.
Like, I love that, dude.
There's no need. She needs money to live out the rest of her life. So I just, I mean, I told her, sometimes I don't even tell them what the cash offer is. Exactly.
Yeah. I think you were just, when you said it, you were just trying to take control of the conversation by doing it. That was it. That's all I kind of saw is just because you needed to get in there and say something so you could take over. So So great job. I think it was awesome for anyone that somehow made it through that. Um, congrats if you made it through that.
We'll see what happens. I don't know, she might, she might buy— just be suffering from analysis paralysis by analysis, right? So she's got so many things going on in her mind about overanalyzing everything, and it makes you not make a decision. Yeah, like people in our business suffer from that, right? We overanalyze 'How this guy's going to react if I make this phone call?' or 'What they're going to say?' 'How am I going to react?' or 'What am I going to say?' right? And then you paralyze yourself from just picking up the friggin phone and making a phone call.
Exactly.
And you did a good job, man. I'm proud. That was sweet because, you know, you could have gone two ways. You could have just kind of been like, 'Listen, listen, lady, I'm done talking.' Yeah, I'm just not talking. But that doesn't work. You know, sometimes it takes a couple hours to get through. But then they develop that trust and that's what she's— she's going to go with someone she likes, period. She's not going to go with someone that's like strong arms, a 77-year-old lady, and just is like, you're going to take this cash offer, period. Like, that's not how this works, guys. So I don't care how good you are negotiating. If you don't take the time to listen to people and care, they're not going to work with you. I don't care how good you are. And, you know, this is a big asset. This is a big decision. They don't just sign with anyone because like you have just mind-gamed them into it. No, you're, you listen, you took, you cared and you ask questions. And, uh, it can be painful sometimes, guys. This ain't sexy. This isn't always sexy. This isn't like you pick up the phone, yeah, I'll take $250,000. You're like, okay, done, I'll send the contract. That's not how it always works, guys.
Yeah, for this deal, it's probably going to take at least 1 or 2 45-minute conversations to get it across the finish line. I mean, you just saw it like right there live, like That was— that's— they usually don't go that long, bro. You—
and to be honest, like me, you, like, we've developed that kind of stamina to like withstand that kind of conversation. Like, it's tough. I don't think a lot of people can do it, but not without medication. Not with us. That's right. Well, hey guys, this has been The Real Estate Ring. You guys, you came on here to hear calls. You just heard what we do when we talk to someone who needs someone to talk to.
Sometimes it ain't pretty, but sometimes you got to be a marriage counselor, an advice counselor, whatever you want to call it, a lawyer, a law, whatever. I mean, sometimes you're like a little bit of everything.
That's exactly right, bro. Selling is emotional. It's an emotional thing for people. Like, it's not logical, because if she was logical, she would probably just, uh, you know, get like 5 or 10 agents through there, give them bids. Like, she'd go through the process to see who— how she'd get the highest price. Like, no, she's going to make an emotional decision, work who she likes and trusts, and you're going to get the deal if you want it.
Yeah, if you want it.
All right, you got anything left for us before we dip?
Uh, you just saw what an hour of my life was today.
Hey man, you made that lady's— you made her day, bro. Like, she saw you on TV. She's gonna remember this for the rest of her life. So it didn't— it was not a waste. Don't ever think that that hour— it was a good hour.
Well, welcome to a day in the life of us, right?
That's it, baby. All right, everybody, peace out. Great having you on here. See you next week. Lane, you're awesome, man. Catch you guys later.
Thank you. Thank you, bro.
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