
In this impassioned monologue, the speaker emphasizes the importance of "holding space" for children during intense emotional moments, especially rage. They assert that a parent should remain physically present, even sitting on the floor, without attempting to fix or change the child's feelings. The speaker critiques the broader adult population for never being taught how to hold space, labeling this as a fundamental problem. By committing to stay with a child through prolonged anger, the parent conveys that the child's emotions are valid and that there is nothing inherently wrong with them. The speaker reflects on a personal wish that they had received this kind of support growing up, underscoring the lasting impact of such emotional presence.










