If you want a long and happy marriage, date your wife every day.

24 Apr 2026 · 1 min

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In this brief monologue, the speaker shares relationship advice centered on treating a marriage like an ongoing courtship. He emphasizes that the emotional energy you bring into the relationship is mirrored back—rudeness begets rudeness, shortness begets shortness—so to receive more love and support you must first give it. He notes that many people who divorce eventually adopt the very behaviors their spouses had asked of them, highlighting the importance of proactive effort. The core recommendation is to "date" your wife every day: send thoughtful messages, make phone calls, buy meaningful gifts, and continually work on yourself (fitness, caring, personal growth) to keep the partnership fresh and winning.

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I date my wife every day. I learned a long time ago the energy that I bring into my relationship is the energy I get back. If I'm rude, they're rude. If I'm short, guess who's short? If you want more love, give her more love. If you want more support, give her more support. I always find it funny that people that get divorced end up doing the thing that the person was asking from them. You got in the best shape of your life, you became caring, you fucking worked on yourself. Treat your partner like you're still trying to win them every single day. What message would I send her? What phone call would I do? What would I buy her? What would I work on to surprise her.