If you want a long and happy marriage, date your wife every day.
In this personal monologue, the speaker shares his philosophy that a thriving marriage requires daily courting of one’s spouse. He emphasizes the principle that the energy you bring into a relationship is mirrored back—rudeness begets rudeness, shortness begets shortness, and love begets love. By consistently giving more love, support, and attention, partners reinforce positive dynamics. He notes that many divorces result from partners ignoring the very requests they made of each other. The speaker highlights his own commitment to self‑improvement—staying fit, caring, and working on himself—while treating his wife as if he were still trying to win her over each day. He outlines concrete daily actions: sending thoughtful messages, making phone calls, buying small gifts, and planning surprises, all aimed at keeping the relationship vibrant.
