If you want a long and happy marriage, date your wife every day.

28 Apr 2026 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker shares his personal practice of dating his wife every day, emphasizing that the energy you bring into a relationship is reflected back. He argues that treating a partner with consistent love, support, and respect—mirroring the effort you would put into winning them over—creates a positive feedback loop that sustains marriage. He highlights the importance of self-improvement, staying caring, and continuously surprising the spouse with thoughtful gestures, messages, calls, or gifts. The speaker also notes that couples who divorce often fail to meet the very expectations they once set for each other, underscoring the need for daily intentional effort.

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I date my wife every day. I learned a long time ago, the energy that I bring into my relationship is the energy I get back. If I'm rude, they're rude. If I'm short, guess who's short? If you want more love, give her more love. If you want more support, give her more support. I always find it funny that people that get divorced end up doing the thing that the person was asking from them. You got in the best shape of your life, you became caring, you fucking worked on yourself, treat your partner like you're still trying to win them, every single day? What message would I send her? What phone call would I do? What would I buy her? What would I work on to surprise her?