Setting a dating app filter for older partners won't fix what you're actually looking for. Age isn't maturity or stability. You need to know what qualities actually matter to you, or you'll keep choosing wrong people, just older ones.
Say you want a new relationship and you're like, you know, I'm tired of these immature, unstable people. So I'm going to just— I'm going to enter in my app. I'm going to say 10 years older than me. I'm going to unconsciously just start seeking older people for my whole life. But if your goal is to find an older person because you believe that they are more stable and more mature, well, then you're only seeking an older person. You aren't seeking the characteristics or the values that you have in a partner.
