Pamela FurstSenior Manager, Customer Success

Don't text no man to hang out yo

Name: Don't text no man to hang out yo
Uploaded: 2025-07-17T20:30:19+00:00
Duration: 26 s
Channel: Pamela Furst
Description: In this informal monologue, the speaker shares a story about a woman named Rochelle who, after spending an afternoon with a man, texts him that same…

17 Jul 2025 · 0 min

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In this informal monologue, the speaker shares a story about a woman named Rochelle who, after spending an afternoon with a man, texts him that same night asking to hang out again. The speaker criticizes this behavior, stating that they would never text a man to request another meetup, describing it as not their style and implying it’s a dating faux pas. Using Rochelle’s example, the speaker underscores their personal rule against initiating follow‑up texts to men and hints at broader expectations about who should take the initiative after a date.

So they hung out in like the afternoon and then she texts him that night. She's like, hey, so I had fun. Would you want to hang out sometime? Which, by the way, I ain't texting no man to ask if they want to hang out again. That's crazy. That's all I'm going to say. That's not my style either. I'll never see you again. Anyway, this story isn't about me. This is about Rochelle. So he messages her the next day. So not that night, the next day already. Like I told you, Rochelle, you shouldn't listen anyway.