Pamela FurstSenior Manager, Customer Success

Sorry for insulting you

Name: Sorry for insulting you
Uploaded: 2025-08-28T20:30:00+00:00
Duration: 6 s
Channel: Pamela Furst
Description: Two people break down how someone uses fake disclaimers to soften insults. He says "I'm not trying to insult you, I'm just providing guidance," then…

28 Aug 2025 · 0 min

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Two people break down how someone uses fake disclaimers to soften insults. He says "I'm not trying to insult you, I'm just providing guidance," then Speaker A realizes the disclaimer doesn't actually make the insult okay. They expose the pattern of passive-aggressive comments dressed up as help.

she realizes, I have not changed this man's mind. I am not passionate, and that I don't seem excited about my work.
And eventually he hits her with, by the way, I'm not trying to insult you, I'm just providing guidance.
Oh, I mean, since he just said that, it's not insulting now. Everything's fine now. Everything's fine. Oh, why don't you just start with that? Yeah, just say a bunch of insulting things and then just say LOL. I don't mean to insult you. Yeah, right. And now it's over. Like, what?