This content was created by Ray Sorrell. This content was uploaded by Ray Sorrell. This is a YouTube clip titled "Day 4 of the 30 day dating challenge #datingchallenge #TurningCorners #fyp #goals" (uploaded 2026-08-04). It features Ray Sorrell delivering a Day 4 message about accountability in relationships—encouraging self-reflection and taking responsibility for past choices (dating, sex, marriage, children)—followed by a brief response from another speaker who says, "Love is a choice, it's God's plan."
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All right, y'all. Day number 4. It's a tough one. I even have problems with it. Accountability. Accountability means I am looking in the mirror and I say, I am the common denominator. I am looking in the mirror and say, I am the person who made these choices. I can't blame my mama. I can't blame my environment. I can't blame the circumstances. I allowed this to happen. So what happens is we judge our dates, we judge our past off of what we've been through. But guess what? We are the common denominator in all these choices. So we have to look in the mirror and say, it is me. It's not you, it is me. You know, you know what I'm saying? You know, remember old church song? It's not my mom, it's my sister, but it's me, oh Lord. Right, it's me. So day number 4, gotta hold yourself accountable. You chose that person, you slept with that person, you married that person, you had kids by that person. Yes, she busted out your windows in your car, but you lied. You told her you loved her, but you didn't. You, you, you, you You told that man XYZ, you know he wasn't crap, and you put up with it. So quit blaming everybody else. Day number 4 is about doing inventory and saying, you know what, it's me. I'm not blaming nobody else. I am holding myself accountable. And I'll be honest with y'all, that's a hard one. But in this journey, you gonna have to do some looking in the mirror. We have to look in the mirror and see what we did wrong. Nobody's perfect. We understand that. There's honesty in this thing, but, eh, I have to look in the mirror and say, you know what, it was me.
