Ray Can't Get Right argues that lying in dating ruins relationships before they start. Tell people upfront if you want marriage, if you have kids, if you're broke. Lying to yourself is worse because it kills who you actually are.
I bet we all know somebody like this, a person who lies for no reason. As old folks would say, you lie and the truth will do. What may y'all say? Uh, baby, you ain't gotta lie, uh-huh, the truth will do. But some people just lie and the truth will do. Don't be that person. If you're on a date, and just put out there, hey man, this is who I am, this is what I'm looking for. Now, you're gonna have mixed reviews with this one because sometimes telling people the truth, they used to people lying, but you got to tell the truth. Now, I'm not saying tell all your business, but tell the truth. If you look for marriage, tell them, look, down the road I'm looking for marriage, not next week, but I'm looking for marriage. If you got crazy baby daddy, let them know like before y'all get busy, I got a crazy baby daddy. Bro, if you know you got credit issues, tell her. If you know you got a crazy baby mama who might be in the parking lot looking for y'all when you leave the place, tell her. Don't lie. Don't be a liar. Worse than that, don't lie to yourself. Some of us lie to ourselves so much that we begin to believe it. Don't do that. That's crazy. Listen, if you gotta lie just to be comfortable with who you are, Something's wrong with that. Like, something is really wrong with that. So let me just, you know, this, this today is really simple. Stop lying. Just, just plain and simple, stop lying. You don't have to lie. You know what they say, you ain't gotta lie, Craig. Just tell the truth. I know it's hard sometimes because you, you know, it's kind of embarrassing. But here's the thing about it, when you start telling the truth, if they accept you they know what they're getting. No one likes to be told one thing and then down the road something else happens. No one likes that. Listen, I'm Ray Can't Get Right. We're about to turn this corner. Let's go. Love is a choice, it's God's plan.
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