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Ray Sorrell talks about a date whose body odor killed the mood, and why he won't compromise on hygiene. He sees it as a sign of respect and character, not just cleanliness.
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Somebody gotta say it, and I guess it'll be me. Hygiene matters. I don't care what nobody say. I cannot be with a person who does not take care of their hygiene. I'm sorry. You—I'm so sick of talking to people and they stink.
Somebody smell like shit.
Men and women, it is okay to wash. Your— I had experience one time and we got down to grown-up stuff, horizontal fellowship if you will, and it just wasn't right. It was a smell that made the room different.
I said, Jesus don't want this. He don't want us sitting like that, baby.
I, I ain't know what else to say. Now listen, I get it, everybody's different, but hygiene is something that tells you a lot about a person. If you smell before you even go to the gym, something I get it, you're in the club, you're dancing and everything else, but your deodorant needs to be stronger than your lying dancing ability. I mean, me and old girl, we lay down on the bed, and as soon as she spread, you know, her stuff— the Smack Madam, the Money Trap, the Wealth Walls, the Child Crock-Pot, her Pink Pocket Purse— the smell was so bad, y'all. I just, I literally repented right on the spot. She thought I was going down. No, I went and I said, Father God, we, uh, yes, we come right now in the name of a— hygiene means something, y'all. And if you are in this dating world, if you want to date somebody that stink, that's fine. But for me, that is something that is like, I'm just not going to compromise.
Love is a choice. It's God's plan.
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