Bootcamp Day 2

are spiritual beings. Why? Because all of us know, right? We are— I'm not this body, I'm not my emotions, I'm not my thoughts, I'm not what other people think of me, I'm not my past experiences. All right, we are live on YouTube. All of us know this, right? So now I want you to imagine— I want you to imagine that you can't see anyone's face. We are all spiritual beings, we are all the same, right? We just have different bodies in this material. So we are spiritual beings, but right now where are we living? Are we in the spiritual world? No, we are in this material world. But in this material world, there are two types of principles that you can use. Either you can use material principles or spiritual principles. In this material world, if you choose to live by the material principles, then you will feel anxious, you will feel confused, you will feel depressed, you will feel angry. Material world, material principles use. Can somebody share the image of the slide in the chat? Yeah, but in this material world, if we use spiritual principles, only then we can feel fulfilled. And what are these spiritual principles? These spiritual principles are principles that God shares with us. In the books, whatever your faith is. It can be Quran if you are from— if you're Muslim, it's the Bible if you're Christian, it's Bhagavad Gita, Bhagavatam, Bhaktambar, and Gurbani. All of those different, different books that we read. Is this clear to everybody? This is clear, put C for clear. So ab hamare pas option hai So which one do you want? If you want SP, put SP. If you want MP, put MP. MP is material. SP. Now why are we using SP? Because SP is a chabi. All of you do this boot camp method action. Is material world. Now tell me, when you are passing down things to your children, would you love to give this chabi to your child? If you would love it, put love. Or you just want to leave your child? Do you only want to leave jewelry, land, bungalows? Some of you will leave debt. Family business is in debt, now you take over. So many people in banyas, they do this. Family is like down the drain, the son has no option but to take over that business. Now he's clearing his father's mess all his life. How many of you have seen that? Put me in the chat box. So if you want to really be or really do True Parenting in the real sense, then you have to give this spiritual key to your child. As an inheritance. This is a Balbon Putbio, because according to our books, if you are not passing down the spiritual key to your child, you are cheating your child. Because our aim— Would you feel good as a mother, yes or no? So this material world is a jail. It's just God's jail, so it's a little fancy. But if you are in a jail, do you want to make your life comfortable in a jail, or you want to get out of the jail? You want to get out. The only way to get out is to design your life based on the principles of God. Is everybody with me? If you agree with me, put A for agree. You know, all of us already know this. I'm just sharing it in simple words, and I'm just reinforcing what you already know. I'm giving you visual anchors, so I'm using a lot of NLP techniques here to help you anchor this information so that you can actually implement it in a very simple way in your life without finding it very complex. Right, so this chabi we have to pass on. So how many of you are super, super excited? Like, maybe not fully. Like, today I will give you maybe some ideas, maybe not possible. How many of you agree? But I'm going to give you the essence, I'm going to give you a feel. Right, so, right, so amazing. So the first thing that we have to understand is the difference between material success and spiritual success. What is material success for our children? Good wedding, achi bivi mil gaya, chapati mil gaya, grades acha hai school mein. Marks, job, business. All of this is what? Material success. Schooling, education, and grades, job, employment, marriage. Now I'm going to ask you something which will help you realize what I'm talking— how many of you already have all this? Or you had at least a job or whatever, or even if you're working at home, right? Generation Shapers. The Dubai Prince renamed Homemakers as Generation Shapers. So all of us are doing something. You don't know. So the Dubai Crown Prince, he renamed all the Homemakers as Generation Shapers, and his mission— the line he shared is very close to what is our mission statement. That the mom's energy is, uh, going to— is responsible for changing the world. So understand one thing, that— where was I? Yeah, so this is material success, and most of us already have. But tell me in the chat, how many of you, after having all of this, you still, still went through a period of anxiety panic attack, depression, medication, confusion, dissatisfaction, hopelessness. So just imagine, if this is a major ball bond, you know, we are not doing anything different from what happened to us. We are doing copy-paste. Literally, we are doing the same thing what happened to us. We are giving the same thing to them. We are putting them in the same education system where we will invest 30 lakh, 40 lakhs on one child easily. Easily. Like, if I do the math for my child, it is only in high school I will invest double of that. In Gurgaon, one school, one year, it's like 5.5, 6 lakh is minimum. And school bus, school food, and all of that is extra. So imagine 1 year if you are giving this much, 15 years they are only doing education. So even if I take a very modest number of 6 lakhs, which is actually lesser than what we usually give, 6 into 15, 90 lakhs only for him to finish class 12. Then 3 years of undergraduation, then 2 years of master's, 20 years education. And of course, inflation, it's going up, the fee structure is whatever, right? Thus percent, 5%, 10%, depending on the grade your child is in, right? And if you're sending your child to a boarding school like Doon School or you know, Woodstock. Like, my sister is going to send her child to Woodstock. Only one year, I think, is some 18 lakh or 20 lakh. Only one year in a boarding. So it's insane, right? So if you do the math, it will come to whatever. Like, let's just take a very basic, let's say middle class, medium, whatever, 50 lakhs per one child. So if you have 2 child, then 1 crore, 3, you do the math, 1.5. No guarantee of getting a job also. If you agree, put A for agree. Now imagine our children do so much and after that they don't even get a job. How is that child going to feel if that child has no spiritual grounding or if that child has no spiritual base? They're just going to feel lost. So what mistake are we making as mothers? Bachpan se jo munkein dar grill karte, success ka definition, that is the reason for the anxiety they experience in adulthood, and they equate their worth with the salary in their account, and that's what we also do. Just imagine, we are God's children, we are spirit soul, and what is our worth? The salary and the job. We are much more than that. We are not here to just make money. This human body is not given to us to just make money and to earn a living. Of course, money is important for comfort, but that cannot be the main purpose of our life. If this has gone deep, put D for deep. So give your children spiritual, spiritual definitions. What is success? You help a lot of people with the skills that you have. This is what is mentioned in our books. Use your skill to the fullest to create value for the world. You can write this. All of this I don't have written, so don't ask me to share. I'm just speaking. Use your skills, whatever skill. If you can bake cakes, use that skill to the fullest to help people. How do you help them? Make them happy on their occasions. Special days. If you are good at painting, use your skill to the fullest to give painting or to spread the art of painting. If you are good at talking, you use your speech to help people like I'm doing. So this is what you want to tell children. Don't say that agar aap ka boards exam, board exam me acha hai, then you are successful. No, I know a lot of children who do really well in school and they do nothing in life, with all due respect, and I don't think it is their fault. It is because of the way it was communicated to them. My own cousin sister, she's a CA rank holder. She's not serving anybody now. She's not even practicing CA, and I don't blame her because that's the mindset that was transferred to her. So you want to tell your children from day one that real success means not just living for yourself, but for creating value for the world and using your skills to create value for the world. This is the definition of success that we are going to give to our children. And we will say that as you create value for the world, you will need energy, and that energy I cannot give you. That energy only God can give you— Allah, Jesus Christ, Vaheguru. So you will need energy, and he is the only— and God is the only source of energy. So if children ask you, who is God, just tell them God is the Creator, Controller, Proprietor. He creates everything, he controls everything. Explain it to them simply. You say he creates everything, he's controlling, and they're like, why can't I see God if he's creating? So can you see the Prime Minister of India? But do you think he lives? Yes. So just like that, you don't see God, but he's there. Can you see Ronaldo? This is what I told my son. He said, how? When can I see God? And then you can see it in a house, temple. He's like, but real God, real God. Like, this is real God only. It's like, no, real, real. I was like, Ronaldo, do you see him? Have you ever met him? He's like, no. But do you think he's there? He's like, of course he's there. I was like, that's how God is. You don't get to see him. If you want to see him, you have to first do something very powerful. You just don't get to see special people like that. You can't see Ronaldo just like that. You cannot meet Messi just like that. You want to meet them, you want to do something extraordinary, right? So you're going to tell them that God creates everything, he controls everything, and he owns everything. And because he is so kind, he has given these things to us for us to use it. So now all of you know how to explain things to your child. Why? Because some children who don't do well in school, they have a lot of potential to do well in life, but because of the way we communicate with them, they don't do well in life. I cannot do anything in life now. So that's why you want to tell your child that even if you are not being able to get good grades, I trust you will do something wonderful for the world. There is a lot of power in your faith in your child. I was a good student, but I never came first or second in class, and I'm saying this with a lot of humility. In my batch, I think I'm doing the best. I'm not saying it from a place of arrogance. So why am I doing it? Because my parents never put pressure for marks, or they never equated success with marks. So service— if you want to remember it simply, serve skills equals service equals success. Ki apne skills use karo, service karni ke liye, aur agar apne skills se serve karo ki toh success apko zaroor milega. And these skills you might have, but you will not be able to implement these skills without having God's energy. You can give them this example that supposing you have a car which is very nice, like a Ferrari or whatever car your child likes. But if it has no fuel, can you run the car? No. Just like that, if you have a lot of skills, can you use your skills? No, if you don't have God's energy. But if you have God's energy, then you can use your skills. So you can make like a small picture for them. God energy, which is going, getting, or you can do God energy plus skills. Don't put arrow. God energy plus skills, then you put an arrow, service, then you put an arrow, success. Clear? Should I draw it? Should I write it and show it, or you got it? Got it, right? It's simple. God energy plus skills. And this is the same for us, by the way, because we are also children, right? We are still kids. Right, so don't think, yeah, because they are not here. But I would love for you to share this with them because all of this, first you have to feel it and then you have to transfer this to your child. I'm telling you, I can give you a guarantee, EPH students, or EPH, not even students, children in EPH they will stand out 1,000% because this spiritual anchoring is something that they need. And I don't blame the schools because they do— they don't have this in their curriculum and they don't talk about these things. So now all of you understood this Beginning part. Now, now let me share. So now you've understood the spiritual definition of success, how to teach children what success really means, and now we will understand how will you have the key. So for you to have the key, you have to adopt the same definition for yourself. You have to drop all those, you have to delete it from your brain that hamara jo definition hai, I am a homemaker, main itna padli ke ghar ka kaam karein, it means I am not a success. It's wrong. A working mother also will not be a success if she is not following this equation, which means if you are work, if you are using this human body just for to live for paycheck by paycheck Where is the service element in your life? How are you helping the world? How many of you can feel that in your core? And that is why, you know, some of us are making 2 lakh salary, 3 lakh salary, still we are not feeling happy. How many of you experience that, that the money comes but you don't feel the happiness? I'm also raising my hand because I felt it in my fashion business. Why? Because the quality of your soul is to serve. So I'm not saying that leave your jobs. Please continue with your jobs. But with your job, you have to also use whatever your skills are to serve. And as you serve, don't serve for free. This is the nature of Kalyug. Free me gyan bato gaye, log ko lag gaya ki aap kaun hoteyo, unko sikha nahi wale. Who are you? If this is an MBO, Major Bulband, put MBO. People don't value you unless there is an exchange. I know this because I have been through that, because, you know, I come from a very spiritual upbringing and all of that. So I used to feel, you know, let's do everything for free, let's do everything for free. But then I realized when I do everything for free, I'm actually not helping anybody. And honestly, I didn't realize. My mentors forced me to realize this. So you can write this: money is nothing but it is energy, and energy is nothing but it is an exchange of the value that you are creating for the world. How many of you agree with this? And of course, how much you take will depend on you, and it will keep increasing with your own confidence. So money is energy, and energy is an exchange for the value that you create. So whatever you have in your bank account right now, don't worry about ki mere paas kaam hai, mere paas zada hai. It is a reflection of the value that you have been creating for the world. So if it is less, don't feel bad about less money. This is what we feel, ki money ka mein. You should feel service ka mein. Balbon, put BO in the chat. Hamein shaq kabhi bhi aapko yeh ni soch na mere paas paisa k paisa hamein. Hamaare paas agar abhi aapko main bolu, just visualize there are 10 crores in your account. Let's all of us imagine, magically they have credited our account with 10 crores. Nothing will change in your life, honestly. Maximum what you'll do, you'll buy a better house and you'll keep one extra help. But otherwise, or maybe you'll get one or two massage here and there if that's something that you like. But otherwise, same husband, same child, you'll get up, you'll probably do the same thing. You'll be with me on Zoom only. And travel a little more. So it's not like— and most of those things we are already doing. If you agree, put A for agree. That das karod aane ke baad, ab jo cheez soch jo ab karoge, baap already uska 80% already upkari reho. Maybe 20% you can enhance and improve. So it is a— it is the service. So understand one thing, children are growing inside your unseen world. They are not growing in this home, they are growing in you, in your energy that you are carrying all the time within yourself. How many of you remember that, you know, you know, supposing you enter and I have this really one smell of talcum powder which my father used to apply. So whenever I see, whenever I get that smell, I'm taken back to that moment in my childhood. When, you know, my father used to apply whatever talcum powder. Whenever I will smell atta ka halwa, I will remember my mom. Now, this only the smell. Just like that, your child is anchoring certain feelings with you even without Use, you know, just like the perfume that you did not really put. You walk into a room, there is a smell. You can't see it, but you just smell it, you feel it. So what I want to share is that even without you telling your child how you are feeling, your child can feel it. How many of you feel it about your parents? That sometimes, you know, your mom is stressed or she's not feeling happy, or or she's— but she's not telling you what's wrong. She's not expressing anything, but you feel. And then you keep probing her, 'Mummy, you have to tell me what happened. Come on, you can tell me.' It's the same for our children. So if you are thinking that you can hide your feelings from them by not speaking and not telling them, you are highly mistaken. You can't hide anything from them. Then of course, you know, sometimes, you know, there is so many things that are running in the background. Like right now, you know, maybe not so much, but you know, when you're sitting at home, you're thinking about 100,000 things when your child is sitting and playing some game with you. So let's say your child is playing catch with you, or is playing Uno with you, or is playing Ludo or chess, or whatever games you play. This is also pending, and that is also pending. How many of you do that? Put me. Yeah, see, Kanchan is putting. Thank you for your honesty. So understand that we should not do that. We should consciously, when you're with your child, not worry about what's left and what you have to do. It is possible. Like I said, if you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't. So start thinking that you can. How is it possible? Just tell yourself This is what I do. And you know, like, after, you know, sometimes, you know, I get up at 4, 4:30 in the morning, and then I sometimes go on till 9 in the evening. And after that, my child will come and say, Mommy, let's play Uno. I will never tell my child I am tired. Why? I have trained myself not to say these words to him. Because I don't want my— because see, this work that I'm doing is my choice. Nobody forced me to become a coach. My child is not asking me to be on Zoom calls. I am doing it by choice because I love to do this work. I love to serve. I love to help. It makes me feel fulfilled. So he doesn't deserve this, that, you know, he'll come and I'll say, no, I'm very tired. I can't play with you right now. I don't want him to feel that my Zoom calls are more important than him. Even, you know, sometimes, you know, there is no— there's no need to feel guilty even if you are enjoying this more than that. Like, of course, if I— truth be told, I would enjoy this more than playing catch with my child. But I don't want him to feel that. So I will play 15-20 minutes. I'll say, if I can do so much for everybody, I can do 20 minutes for my child too. 3-4 rounds of Uno. See, when you are having fun with them, cooperating, engaging with them, they will also cooperate with you. And your work, but you are doing everything, and when your child comes, you don't have energy. So then of course he'll have a problem. It's like, you know, I'll give you an example which is a little funny. It's like, you know, your husband, he goes out and he's, you know, like, you know, or not goes out, let's say you are saying, chalo, chalo, let's go somewhere, let's go for a drive, this, that. And he's saying, no, maybe this, that. And then a friend calls and he's like, how will you feel? Will you not feel bad as a wife? This is what our children feel for our work. If you are always prioritizing work, if you're always prioritizing other people but you are not prioritizing them at all. And sometimes it's not about the time. Sometimes we are spending a lot of time with them, but the energy with which we spend time is not the right energy. So I rather have you spend less time. I don't spend too much time with my child, 1 hour, 1.5 hours max in the whole day. In the morning before he— not because I don't have time, because he doesn't have time now. In the morning before he goes to school. And I'm sure it's mostly the same for all of us with, you know, kids who are 9, 10. They don't have time. They go to school, and then they sleep. But every connection, you want to make it worth it. You don't want to waste those pockets of time that you get with your child. In shouting, screaming, correcting, lecturing, blaming, finding faults, judging. Imagine if you meet your mom for 1 hour for coffee, or she comes to your place. Or whose— will you want to spend time with her again if she's only like giving you gyan and she's correcting you and she's No, even though she's your mom, you will not, not like it again and again. And if it's our mom, we can also tell her, but if it's our mom-in-law, we can't tell. And you know, we will just feel irritated. So some children will tell and some children will keep it inside, and they will get irritated, and they will slowly distance themselves from you. And some children will be with you and they'll shout at you. So you, you know, just like in the phone, I shared this example earlier also, I think, like a lot of background apps are open. You have to close those apps. So you are not parenting your child, you're parenting your child with a lot of internal load. So that load you have to reduce. Then also understand this one thing. Let me think of an example. So supposing aap ka phone hai, usmein bo autocorrect feature hota hai na? When you write something, the word gets autocorrected and it becomes the word that the phone is guessing is the word that you are trying to write. Just like that, it doesn't matter what you're telling your child. Eat with spoon, but their eating will get autocorrected to eating with hand, right? Now, if you are telling your child, don't, you know, bring shoes in the house, but you are bringing your shoes in your house, If you are saying your child, if you're telling your child don't have cola, but 100% you're saying no cola, autocorrected to drink cola. Right? How many of you are understanding what I'm trying to share? You know, all these small kids in, uh, you know, this— I created a video of all these small kids. Like, I was in tears. 1-year-old child chanting, 2-year-old child chanting, 3-year-old child chanting. Did the parents ask them to do? No, they just saw it, or their behavior got autocorrected to that. One question. So we shouldn't say? No, of course you can say, but as far as long as you do So for a 1-year-old, okay, for a 1-year-old it's very different. For a 1-year-old, when they are throwing things, they are not throwing it with the intention to break it, and that's why learning is so important. They throw with an intention to explore. They are very fascinated that when they are throwing, they're learning about gravity. So we cannot get angry when a 1-year-old child is throwing things. We should feel very excited. Every time they throw it, you want to pick it up and put it back. So by doing that, you are also teaching them what to do when an object falls. So, you know, it was very funny, like, now that you've mentioned this. So when my son was around 2 and a half, you could speak properly then. So, you know, obviously in the house there are many things which are kept at his height, right? And we have those low, low, low height drawers and all also in some areas of our house. And there were things— so one day he came to me like, what? He's like, can you remove this? I was like, why? Because if you don't remove it, I feel like throwing them, I feel like playing with them, and it will all fall. So can I request you to remove them? So, you know, children also have this. Some, you know, some children will also tell you to remove, some children will throw. So, and sometimes when they throw, you show them what to do with it. So I'm not saying that you should not tell your child or you should not train. You can tell as long as you do it. But if you are saying one thing and doing another thing, then it will not work. Then it will get autocorrected. Is it clear to everybody now? They'll not do that. When you come home, you wash your hands if you come from outside. Your child will also learn to wash. But you're not washing and you're telling your child, you've come from outside, go wash your hand. It will get autocorrected to bus jado and bed jo. I will do what mommy does. So I'm giving you these, you know, visuals so that— because all of us probably know this, but we don't do it. That's why I'm giving you these visual examples so that you're actually able to do it. Slowly, slowly, you'll be able to do everything, basically. Also, this is a— this is very important for us to understand. Your silence is not empty. Your silence is something that your child feels all the time. It's the most difficult thing for a child to live with. When a mother is in her own pain, grief, anxiety, depression, and she's become so silent that she's not expressing anything, she's not even shouting, she's not even having fun, she's not doing anything, she's lost in her own world, that's the worst feeling for a child. So, you know, and of course, you know, this is life and maybe things are happening with you. And I personally, when you understand quantum physics, you will understand it's nothing is happening to you. Everything that you are experiencing, you are only creating. Either you created and now you are reaping, or you are creating in this present moment. You know, some sometimes people say, why is this happening to me? Nothing is happening to you. Whatever you are experiencing, you are the creator of that thing. So can I have a pinky promise, PP, in the chat box? None of you are going to sit in silence with your pain, anxiety. Itne sare madars hai connect. Don't try to deal with your emotions alone because we don't have the power to do so. No matter how educated you are, you can be a doctor yourself, you can be a psychologist, a therapist yourself, but there is no shame in asking for help. No, sometimes we feel, my doctor, my psychologist, my therapist, my— It takes courage to ask for help. We have to stop living with these, you know, titles and all of this. You know, address your feelings first. Forget about your title. What will you do with your title when the feeling is only not good? The title will not stay for too long if you don't get back to the right emotion and the right frequency. See, I am a parenting coach and I have no shame in admitting that, you know, I have to keep going back to my mentors to pump in energy. I'm also a human being, no, I'm not a god. High, low, up, down, and as long as you're in the material world It is going to be there, but the idea is if you have principles and if you have an attitude to reach out to your mentors, you'll be able to bounce back. But some of us are like, we want to do everything on our own. And this is my filter: I never go to a mentor who doesn't have a mentor. So my mentor has a mentor, he has a mentor, and his— my Char, CD.

Why?

Because if you are surrendered to somebody who is not surrendered to somebody else, they might feel very arrogant. They might feel, I know it all. So very dangerous to put your trust with somebody like that, because all of us need that help. So it doesn't matter whether you're an owner of a school or you're a doctor, In fact, if you are in these professions, it is your moral responsibility to have a mentor. Compulsory or not, if this is a ball bond, put bio. Especially if you are a teacher, principal, doctor, or in any place, in any service where you are constantly interacting with people. I feel it is compulsory for all, but especially for you guys. You know, sometimes mothers will be like, you know, I got this question and I want to share this with you. I got this question: I want to be a tarot coach, so should I be in Platinum? Answer to your question: is tarot coaching going to help your child? Is tarot coaching going to help you? Tarot coaching will help you make money. So you know, we have to get our priorities correct. Is this making sense? See, what is our top priority? Family, child, my energy. If these three things are aligned, only then whatever money comes into your bank account will you be able to enjoy. And of course, in Platinum we also have tarot coaches. Like, I don't teach you tarot, but if you know tarot and you want to teach that, I can give you the skills to teach. But understand one thing, you know, it's— no, we have to stop thinking like one mother is like, I want to become an AI coach, but what is stopping you from learning parenting? Is this going deep? We have to change the way we think. Why? Because our success definition is paise kama, paise aura, right? That success is only very temporary, 30, 40 years at the most. So now let me give you a— so basically you have to understand that your child lives in your unseen world. You can take a picture of this. So till now, what have we covered? We have covered that what does it mean to be a spiritual mother, a mother who is constantly— we are spiritual beings living in a material world. But want to design our lives based on spiritual principles so that we can exit this world and then ultimately pass on this chabi to our children. And you are not going to give this chabi to your child when you are exiting, just like we do with the material sampatti, na? Ki jam last ka time aage toh will me likhe jate hain. This chabi you have to give like on an everyday basis. So it's not like something you will wait. Now we'll do a simple activity. It's very, very simple. So I want you to take a piece of paper and just write one thing that you are carrying in your heart right now. My child was spiritual but he's not. No, everybody is spiritual. First we have to understand this. There is nobody in this world who is not spiritual because what, we are spirit souls. Sometimes we forget. So it is impossible for anybody to not be spiritual. Everybody is already spiritual, but we have forgotten and we have gotten distracted. And the only way for you to become spiritual again— I'm not making this up— is is for you to be in the right association. You, if you are thinking, you have to be in this, you have to be in a gang. Now you find your own gang. It has to be in company. Why? Why company? That also I'll tell you why. Because outside, the Maya, the material energy, is very powerful. You cannot beat her alone. You know, like, imagine you're playing tug of war. Will you ever win?

No.

But imagine if the opposite person is very strong, but you have like an entourage of people on your side. 50-60 people on your side, you will win, or at least you can win. So that is why association is so important. If this is clear, put clear. So if you are reading everything alone and doing everything alone and thinking, oh, I'll only do my readings alone, I'll do my chanting alone, I'll do everything alone, You can keep doing it, but you'll never be able to beat Maya. She's too strong. And it's all— it's so obvious now. We see it all the time. You take any faith, they pray in groups. Of course there is solo prayers also, but mostly there is some provision for praying together. Okay, so the activity. So now what I want you to do is I want you to write one word which has been sitting inside you. Maybe it is a worry, maybe a tension, or a thought, or anything that has been like, you know, it's just like playing in you again and again. How many of you have written it? If you've written it, put done. Just one word— anger, fear. Fear of what? You can write. Anger for what? Towards what? Whatever it is that is in you. Now imagine you are carrying this, but you're not talking about this to anybody. But the thing is, your child will feel it even without you mentioning it. So if you are feeling anger, your child is going to feel anger. If you are feeling fear, your child will feel that fear, and it will become a part of them also eventually. It is a law. It is not something that I'm making up. It will get passed on. Even you might— even they might not tell you. Yeah, even if you're worrying about your child, your child will worry about his future. Very simple example, you know, let's say if I go to my mom and I— and my mom is like, I'm very worried. Or even if she's not saying, but I can see that worry on her face, I'll also start to worry. Now maybe my worry will not be for my future, but my worry will be my mother is worrying. And you know, some Platinum kids are actually writing this to me, that, ma'am, I have my exams, I'm trying my best, but my mother is so worried. I'm very worried that what will she feel if I don't do well. They're not worried about the grades, they are worried about what will the mother feel if they don't do well. And I promise I'm not making this up. A child actually wrote this to me. I'm not going to mention the name because I don't want the mother to know who the child is. And then of course I told the child, don't worry, I'll talk to your mom. But you just go and do your best, nothing will happen to your mom, I'm taking guarantee. So whatever you feel, it will get transferred. You know, before my exams, you know, I would really take a lot of stress. I would cry and all, but my mom was not worried. She was like, koi baat nahi chau bhi, just go give your exam. So she would actually relax me and calm me. But imagine if I had a mom who was also like me, it would have been crazy for me to manage that stress. If the father has feelings, will that— yes, of course. But right now I'm only talking to you guys. Of course, if the— but most they feel more with the mother because that's the biological connection that we have with them. But even if father is going, you just put yourself. No, if your father is stressed, you'll not feel stressed. Tell me yes or no in the chat. Of course, Papa, Mummy, same type. Like, it's not like they are like— moms are some special beings. But what I'm requesting all of you is don't try to force your husbands to follow this principle. It will create a problem in your house. Put smiley in the chat box if you are understanding what I'm sharing. See, I'm a parenting coach. I'm teaching so many people. I don't talk to my husband about parenting skills and techniques, what to do, what not to do. He's not my student, he's my husband. So this room is where everything happens. The minute I leave this room, I am a housewife, I am a wife, I'm an ordinary mother. Because I don't want my child to feel that he's living with a parenting coach. I don't want my husband to feel that he's living with a coach. I want him to feel like he's living with a normal— otherwise he cannot. If I start giving gyan all the time, he'll not be able to share anything with me. So with him I have to put my cap, like coach cap, utarna hai. So for everybody, like, you know, for my mother-in-law, for my— I'm normal, like a next-door girl. And I don't talk about my work at all with my family. Now a little bit with my husband because he's helping me with a few things, but that's also like our things are very much divided. We don't— we barely like— and we have floors are also divided. He's ni che aam hooper. And I was very calm because you don't want to like see each other all day. So now that you have this word you're carrying, so now you want to say this: I choose to release this. Please release it. If not for yourself, release it for your child. And the only way to release it is by you becoming aware of it. It's like like, you know, some rat died and there is a smell. So you know it's died, but you can't find where the rat is. How many of you have experienced this? Put E for experience, that some, you know, some weird smell is coming and you don't know where that smell is coming from. So till the time you don't know that the rat is dead, you can't do much about it. But when you know ki kuch wahi hai smell aara hai, you will look for it, and then you look for it and then you remove it. So just like that, till the time you don't know that this feeling in you is getting transferred to your child, you don't do anything about it. But now that you know, you have to become more conscious and you have to remove it. Sorry about my examples, they just come, I don't know from where, but this is what came to me. I just shared, but all of you understood, right? Otherwise it will spread to everybody in your house because these emotions are contagious. It's like dengue or it's like chickenpox. If one person gets it, everybody gets it. Yeah, COVID. Of course, COVID was not good, but for me it was a blessing because I became a coach. So I have some special love for it also. I don't like what happened, but I have a special gratitude for that time period because it gave me a lot of realization about what I was not meant for, right? So now Is everybody learning? If everybody is learning something, put yes. Alicia. Okay, all of you will have a lot of questions today, but I'm going to focus on this boot camp. Is that okay? Because this understanding, these concepts are more important for now, right? What if the child is following father more than mother? Then through your— by shifting your energy, you can make your child follow you more than the father. It's not a competition, but I'm just saying, it's not like you have to compete with your husband or anything. But trust me, children pick the energy they like, and children usually like happy energy. So if your child is sticking more to the father and being more with the father, maybe because father has a more relaxed, happy energy. So if you want— and it has happened with so many mothers in this community where the child was always picking the father, father, father, and then suddenly the child is like, no, Mommy, you be here, Mommy, you Because the mother shifted her energy. So like my co-sister's son, he will not stay anywhere, but he stays very easily with me even though we don't spend too much time. Very like, he'll not stick to me also, but he'll stay in my house easily without them. Why? Because we give him a lot of space, he's allowed to do what he wants to do, and not like wrong things, because in my house there is very little scope. But understand that children can sense your energy, and then they will automatically gravitate towards you. Now, the next concept. Now, if you want to help your child understand or listen to you, you have to be able to connect. So there are times when children listen to us, and there are times when they don't listen to us. Agree. If you agree, put A for agree. Kabhi kabhi baat torant mal lete, kabhi kabhi toh kuch bhi karo, nahi maante. Now why does that happen? Now let me explain this to you. So imagine that there is a door inside your child's heart, maybe here, okay? In this heart area, there is a door. Now sometimes this door is open, sometimes this door is closed. When the door is open, your child will listen, your child will share, and your child will connect. When this door in the heart is closed, your child will resist, ignore, and shut down. Now here's the most important part. You cannot, or you do not, open this door with only words. You open this door with your presence. So you have to ask yourself this question: is the door in my child's heart open or is it closed? How to open? I'm going to tell you a few ideas. So how many of you experienced this, that Okay, I'm just going to use this example. Like, my mother-in-law is very nice, but you know, just imagine, you know, sometimes somebody will come and sit next to you. They're not saying anything to you, but you're just like feeling very awkward, and you're not just being able to be your normal self because you feel that, you know, they might observe you very carefully, or they might judge you. So body language, it automatically shifts. Yeah, maybe father-in-law. Who's that person in your life? Put it in the chat box. Maybe father-in-law, maybe mother-in-law, maybe boss, anybody. May— for maybe some of you, sister-in-law. Could be anybody. In-laws both, co-sister, brother-in-law. Right now they are not saying anything, but why is your body stiffening? Because of their presence. Because you feel in their pre— you don't feel comfortable in their presence. Just like that, some of us, because of too much correction, that, you know, too much we are correcting our children, too much judgment, when you sit next to your child, your child starts feeling uneasy. They're not out of fear or out of this feeling that now if they do something, you might find a fault in them. So now what I want you to do is slowly shift that energy about yourself. How do you shift it? Not like, you know, it not happen like in one day, but in one week it can easily happen. Start complimenting your child a little. Start saying, oh, I love this t-shirt on you. If they are like, sometimes if they are leaving their things where they were playing, don't correct immediately. Later, maybe 1 or 2 hours later, you can say, can you please put your books back? You know, how do we say, you always make the place so dirty. Now you're showing them what they did. Tell them what you want them to do. No. So instead of saying, you always make the place dirty, you never clean up, all you can say is, can you please put this book back? So you know, when we play Uno, because Uno cards, you know, it's collect, put it in the box and all. Sometimes my son will be like, no, Mommy, you do it. No, you do it. No, I'll— okay, both of us will do it together. So, and mostly he— and our rule is whoever loses does it. So we'll play like match of 3. Whoever loses, or if 3 maine wato, 5. Match of 3, a match of 5. So you can make rules like that if you're playing a game and to wrap up the game. So the idea is you want to tell them what you want from them, not what they are doing, because what they are doing, if you're repeating, it's like you're nagging. So when you drop that pressure, the connection will increase. So please do this. Pressure reduces. Do this. Pressure reduce, connection increase. Connection increase. Please do this. You know, some of us are not able to hug our own parents. We are not able to kiss our own dads. We feel that formality with them. Like my husband, when I got married to him, he was not able to like hug his parents. And then after, you know, he saw me, he was like, what are you doing to my parents? I was like, this is what I do to my parents. I'm kissing my mother-in-law, I'm taking a selfie, and my husband's like, what? And I'm like, you also, you kiss from this side, I'll kiss from this side. And then we'll take a picture. So, you know, it's very important to be in the childlike energy. You don't have to become— just because you got married, you want to become like some auntie. So you want to create that same childlike energy for your child. Then of course, this is also very important. Sometimes we speak like Rasdhani Express. Too many words are coming out together, and your child has lost you completely. So I want you to make a note of this point. How many of you as mothers want to command some authority? Authority not in a, uh, negative way, but like, you know how leaders have an authority? You cannot command any authority if you are shouting and screaming. If this is a bull bond, put BO in the chat box. If you are shouting and screaming, you only attract disrespect. And sometimes if they are not disrespecting, then you will attract distance. They will distance themselves from you. So 2 Ds. If you are shouting and screaming, two things will happen. Either your child will distance themselves or they will start disrespecting you. So if you are experiencing any of these two things, it is not your child's fault. Yeah, so if you are facing this, then you have to change the way You are communicating and connecting with them. And that is why I say it's so important for us to learn, learn, learn, learn, and keep learning. You know, I've been learning for 9 years, but I still continue to learn. So when you are speaking like too many words together, your child is feeling rushed. They are not feeling received. So imagine if Mona Lisa comes to my place and I tell her, Mona Lisa, you come, you come, you sit there, you go eat. What is the vibe that she'll get? Now if I give her 10 instructions the minute she enters, what And instead, if she comes to my house and I tell her, Mona Lisa, let's just relax and have a nice cup of tea, a green tea, okay, or whatever, and let's just sit and talk. How is she going to feel? She's going to feel a very different energy. Just like that, when your child is coming home or you are coming back home to them from work, please don't carry so many words and so many instructions with you. Please leave it in your office. And if you are, you know, if you are a homemaker and your child is coming to you, you please take all of this and put it in the kachraaka dabda. If you want authority less words and slow speed. You can write this: the lesser words you use and the slower you speak, the more authority you command in your house. Those of you are doing it, great. Those of you are not doing it, please do it. Now we will take a 1-minute break, and break doesn't mean you can go off Zoom. I'll tell you what to do in the break. First, you have to turn on your cameras. This is a different kind of break. You have to turn on your cameras, and then you have to show me your best smile, your photo smile. 1 minute, everybody has to smile. You can also laugh. Bio break. Then you turn off your camera and take the bio break, not with the camera on. Yes. Okay, I like Richa and Richa's son. Both are smiling together. Even Priya. Is Priya's son smiling? It's a smiling break. Everybody has to smile. Just got a root canal. One-sided smile, then you can do a one-sided smile. By the way, I've not shared this with you, but EPH is famous for being a community with the best looking mothers. Because I am in a lot of masterminds. I'm not making this up, I'm serious. So I'm in a mastermind and there are many coaches in that mastermind, and every time I'll put my event pictures, everybody will say that, you know, how is your— how can everybody in your community look so good? Because they have natural spiritual glow from within. I don't have to say something, they're like, we have spiritual glow. So yes, so I'm very— so you know, it's very important. You know, this is something I learned from my mentor. Always show up with your cameras on, because if you don't keep your camera on and you are not showing up, you know, you are just feeling— that's an internal message that you're giving to your subconscious mind that I am not important enough. I don't force you to turn on your cameras because I understand as mothers we have to do so many things in the background. So I totally get you because I am a mother myself. But as much as you can, jithni bar aap on rak sakte ho, utna aapko on rakna chahiye. So the lesser you speak, the more authority you will command. And this is very important. So you don't want to become a perfect mother, you don't want to become like the best mom or whatever, because your child is not responding to you, they're responding to the version of you they see. So if they see a calm version of you, they will respond calmly. If they see an irritated version of you, they will respond in an irritated way. Now I understand some of you will say no, it's not true, because especially teenagers. Now understand, that's a very unique time in their life, preteens and teenagers. So it's like there is a storm inside them. So when they are in that tufani mode, you don't become tufan yourself, right? Because then there will be proper dhamaal in your house. So when they are in tufani mode, you have to be relaxed, and then they'll be able to— you'll be able to help them. And you'll be able to connect with them. So understand this, you know, you have different versions: a rushed version, an irritated version, a distracted version, a calm version, a present version, a connected version, a relaxed version, a friendly version. So you want to ask yourself anytime you're entering a conversation with your child, what version am I entering with? If you carry the right version, chances are you'll be able to connect with your child. But if you are going in a rush and carrying a weird version, then it will create a havoc. Is this making sense? If this is making sense, put yes in the chat box. So basically, my personal thing is, if you want to become somebody, just become someone that your child can open up with. Ki vo kulkhe aapke saath, aapni man ki baat kar paye. Agar ye aap nahi dere aapne pachhe ko. Ye necessity, it's not a luxury. You have to create the space, and creating the space does not come naturally to all of us. Some of us have to learn how to create. Is this making sense? If this is like— I had to learn. It did not come to me naturally when I became a mother. I could be good at 100 things, but there are some things that I might have to learn. And I personally feel that even if you're good at it, how many of you feel that you are learning something? If you're learning, put L for learn. You know, by keeping this ego in us, ki ye sab bakwaas hai, main kyu sikhu, mera toh ghar tik chal rahi hai, you are just depriving yourself and your child from a better life that you truly deserve. Because, you know, I can say this, that I would not be the mother I am— forget about the parenting, coaching, and whatever I'm doing— But I would not even be 1% of the mother I am today had I not been learning. And my child would not be the child he is had I not been learning. Because if I imagine giving my child the mother I was 9 years ago, I feel scared. Kya agar main wahi version reh jaati, aur wahi mera bachcha hard din dekta, toh padhaniyaaj mein aap bachcha kaun hota? Or kesa hota? How many of you can feel this? If you can feel it, put "feel" in the chat box. So you know there is no end to evolving ourselves. Now we'll do another very simple activity. Now in this activity, all of you have your pens? Pen hai sabki pas? Please take your pen and hold it very tightly. It's not a good feeling, right? It pains, it hurts, you don't feel good about it. So now you release it because we, we love ourselves, we don't want to hurt ourselves, okay? So we can open, open the fist. Okay, amazing. Now understand, replace this pen with your child. Some of us are parenting our children like that. You're not physically holding them like that, but emotionally, mentally, everything, their action, everything they're doing You're controlling them too much. So your child is not reacting to what you're saying, they're reacting to how tightly you are holding them. Not physically, not emotionally, but sometimes, you know, just through your expectations, through your constant correction. Sometimes through comparison. So this tight grip your child is feeling. And how can I fix it? By becoming aware and choosing not to do it. You know, all of you keep saying, "Kaise ho gaya? Abhi maap quick exercise karati ho." Camera on, please. Now do this. Supposing you take both your hands. Okay, wait, wait, wait, let me show it and then you do it. So here's what you have. You join this and you do this. You will see one hand will be bigger than the other. Notice which hand is bigger, right hand or left hand. And if it is equal, you also notice that. For me, the right is bigger. So you put in the chat box which one is bigger for you, right, left, which one. Okay, everybody is written. Okay, so now what you have to do, leave your hands. Now your— if your right hand was bigger, you will say my left hand is growing taller and taller. What will you say? My left is growing taller and taller. My right is growing taller and taller. Clear? Or agar equal tha, you pick any one hand and you say ki yeh wala taller ho raha hai. So for me, right was taller, so I'm going to say my left hand is growing taller and taller. My left hand is growing taller and taller. So let's do it, okay? So I'm going to say my left, you say whatever you want to say based on what you saw. My left hand is growing taller and taller. My left hand is growing taller and taller. My left hand is growing taller and taller. You do yours, okay? Now you do this again. You do it and then you see which one is taller. Close it and do it. Is it OMG? Oh my God. If you did it right, it will happen. See, some of you are putting OMG. Same in a micro— goosebumps. If it is same for you, you didn't do it right because you're maybe not— you're distracted. It has to— whatever you chanted will become taller. Now, how does that— this is how powerful our subconscious mind is. So quickly, through your thoughts, you can change your material reality. This is how powerful God's design is. You will become, you will start getting the courage to take action, you will start attracting opportunities. You don't need only skills, you need an unwavering belief in yourself. I am not extraordinary, I promise. But I have trained myself to believe in myself and in my Creator to an extent that nobody can shake my belief. And all of us can do that. And then of course you match it with these material skills that you learn from everybody else, and you will see crazy results. So how many of you think you can be calm? You just keep repeating, I am a calm mother, I am a calm mother. How important it is to be a calm mother? Teach them, because it is impossible for you to teach something every day to 5 people and then not to become that person. If you love this hack, even if you are not calm, you tell them, calm ho ne ke ye paachh fay de, gussa karn ne ke ye paachh nukhsaan. Isliye hamein calm rehna chahiye. Apaachh log ko kuch sikha aur hoos. In 2 days, if you don't become BK Shivani, I will change my name. Trust me, you will become calmer than her. Priyanka, I'm saying that, you know, if you want to feel calm, get up in the morning and teach 5 people the importance of being calm, and you do this for 2-3 days. In 2-3 days, you will become very, very calm. And now So release the tight grip. So let me give you a picture of the second concept. Your presence decides their openness. Just one second. Yes, you can take a picture of this.

Awesome!

How many of you are loving it so far? If you're loving it, put love, love, love in the— LLL in the chat box. And now we will do a very simple quiz, and I also have some fun games which we will play just in a bit. So in this quiz, it's a yes or no quiz. So for every question, I'm going to show you the question. For every question, you have to put yes or no. Copy me, because so please write it in your notebooks. So the first question: do I feel proud of how I handle the fights at home or conflicts at home? If you feel proud, put yes. If you feel you can do better, put no. Put it in the notebook, not in the chat. Second, do I make my child feel safe talking to me about their mistakes? Can your child come and talk about and be honest? This is just for your understanding, so give the right answers. It's not about what you feel. Is your child feeling safe sharing about their mistakes? Do you think that if your child gets pregnant, can they come and tell you? Something like that. Third, do I model the calm I expect from my child? You want your child to be calm, but are you being that calm mother yourself? So put no. What was first? Do I feel proud of how I handle conflict at home? Then fourth, if my child copies my behavior, will I be happy? Will you like your child to be a mini you? Will you be happy if you see that your child is just becoming like you? Yes or no? Then fifth, do I respond from faith more or more than fear? Like, is your faith stronger? If your faith is stronger, then yes. If your fear is stronger, then put no. Do I correct without shaming? You know, sometimes when we are correcting our children, we say So what you're doing, you're correcting, but you're also adding shame. So if you are doing that, then put no. If you are not doing that, then put yes. Do you correct without shaming? Then 7: Do I lead with clarity instead of confusion? Like, are you leading your life with clarity, or are you leading your life with confusion? Then, 8th: Am I emotionally stronger today than I was 1 year ago? Has your emotional strength increased? If it has, put yes. If not, put no. Ninth, if nothing changes, will my home improve on its own? Automatically? No, right? Then the last one, am I actively becoming the mother I want my child to remember? Are you trying to become that mother? Yes or no? Done? Everybody has their yeses and nos. Now count the number of yeses you have. For every yes, 1, 1 number. For every no, 0. Then count how many ones you have. What is your total ones? You don't have to tell me if you don't want to. It's just for you to know. If you want to share, you can share. Now I'm going to tell you what your score means. You want me to share that? If you want me to share, put yes in the chat box, that yes, I want you to share. Amazing. So these are all the questions. In case you missed any, you can take from here. Okay. 0 to 1, your family deserves a completely new version of you. If your score is between 0 and 1, please kuch kare. 2 to 4, you need to grow. You have started, but your growth is overdue. Matlab, 0 to 1, you don't have an option, you just have to start. 2 to 4 means you are thinking, you're postponing, you're pushing. You know you want to do it, you have that awareness. 0 to 1, awareness, 2 to 4, you have that awareness but you keep telling yourself, you keep pushing it away. 5 to 7, you are very inconsistent. You are doing like you are aware You're taking action, but you're very inconsistent. You're not doing it consistently. And 8 to 10, you have the ability to inspire and lead, lead others. If your score is anywhere between 8 to 10, you should think about, um, helping others more. So for how many of you, you feel the scores were correct? I don't know how it works, but it works all the time. Correct, correct.

Yeah.

And now one more thing I want to teach you, and then we'll play a few fun games which will be like fastest finger first, right? But before that, I want to make you do a simple— wait, let me share with you this. This one line you can write. I shared this yesterday, but some of you were not there, so I want you to write it again. Your child is not just learning— or you write it ulta, you write it like this— you are not teaching your child how to behave, you are teaching your child who to become. So instead of just teaching them ki ye karna hai, ye nahi karna hai, esse karna hai, esse nahi karna hai, just don't focus on the doing. Focus on the being, who your child is. I'll give you a small example that will help you understand. Now imagine your child is doing really well and is a class topper, but your child's behavior is not good. Is very arrogant. Just making an example, okay? But, or forget your child, imagine my, I, me, okay? So imagine I have a lot of parenting gyan, but my behavior is not good. Will it matter to any of us? No, we will not want to be with each other. Same if your child is topping the class, but the behavior is not good. Nobody cares about the child topping the class. Yuki, apuleya kitna arrogant hai, kitna rude hai, kya ho gaya, top kiya toh.

Making sense?

So this is why who they become is more important than what they do in life. If this is a ball bond, put B-O in the chat box. What your child becomes— is he a good human being, is she a good human being— is more important than what they achieve. And that is why whatever you become is what your child is becoming. So you also have to focus more on the becoming. You know, when you be, only then you can do. When you do, only then you can have. I'll give you an example. When I put myself in faith, so when I am in faith, only then I can take action. I can make decisions with courage. Only then the doing will happen. and when I do, only then will I have things or the results. But mostly, ya multa karte hain, bas woh sochte rehte hamein, kya chahiye? So you're thinking about the result, then you try to do something to create the result, but when you try to do it, you are not able to do it because you are in fear and not in faith. So you have to reverse the sequence. Be, do, have. It is never have, do, be. Yeah, that if you don't have faith, you have to build that faith. You cannot do anything without faith in this world. You will remain exact. You have to put yourself in the right association and learn to build faith. So listen to this again, one more example. Very easy. Who wants to volunteer? Raise your hand. I will spotlight somebody. One second. Or tell me if you want to do something but you're not able to. Okay, namita. One second. Oh, so many hands. Yeah, so Namita, tell me one thing that you want but you're not able to do anything to get there. Just unmute.

Hi.

Yeah, you can speak.

Can you hear me?

Yeah, I can't hear you. Can you hear me now? Yeah, yeah. Okay, so, uh, like just for example, I had made a commitment in January, uh, beginning this year that I want to complete my courses and qualify as a coach by end of, uh, you know, May. But I'm still far from my journey, so I have— there are whatever, you know, things happen and So I'm still far from reaching my goal. Correct. So what was the commitment to myself? Yeah, what is stopping you? Uh, events, people coming, going, you know, your own health. Sometimes you're just lazy, daughter's exam, this, that. So excuses. Correct. So why is this not happening? Because you are trying to do but you are not being. So I'll give you an example. The minute you are being inconsistent about something, it means you don't care about it enough. Like, will it ever happen that you will not give food to your child?

No.

Will it ever happen that you will not give food to your husband? Will it ever happen that you will not clean your house? So now you have to bring this in your being, that I care. Because when you say, I care, I matter, then you will not push this away for later. Can you see the change in the body language in Namita?

Yeah.

Can everybody observe it? If you can observe it, put it's now gone in her being. From tomorrow, she will not postpone. So once you become aware— and how much time did it take? 10 seconds for you to get that realization. Then you do, and when you do, you have. Is this clear to everybody? So when we say, "mere pas time nahi hai," it is just a different way of saying, "I am not important enough." Or if you don't have time to learn about parenting, you are saying, "My child is not important enough." Because if it is important, you will find the time just like you find time for everything else in your life. And by finding time, it doesn't mean that you need 100 hours. You need consistency, 20 minutes every day. How many of us can put 20 minutes? And also, one reason why we are not consistent is because we do things like a task. You don't want to do it like a task, you want to do it with fun. This is something I love to do for myself. Don't do it like this is something I have to get done with. You know, I'll tell you, learning is the most beautiful addiction. Once you get addicted to this, you will not feel like— I don't know how to even put this in words— like you will just feel like a different energy all the time. But don't make it like a task. Don't put pressure on yourself. I do many calls. You don't have to come for all the calls, I tell you. Do ganta miliya mood se, hafte mein at least. To das ganta woh gaya, aad kanta. But let's just for math simplicity, 20 hours in a month, 240 hours in a year. But you know what the problem is? We will try to do 4 hours on one day and next day we will not do anything. So don't do 4 hours, do only 20 minutes, but do it every day. If you feel like it, you do it, but you know, don't, don't challenge yourself. Sometimes when you don't want to do it, you just open, get inside the school and say, I'm telling you, you get started, you'll keep watching more. But if you tell yourself, I'm going to watch this whole topic today for 2 hours, chances are you will not even enter the app. And that's not you, that's your brain. The brain that always wants you to stay in comfort. The brain that always wants you to do the same thing every day. So you have to learn to control your brain rather than your brain controlling you. So these are simple techniques, you know, because a lot of people know what to learn but they don't know how to learn. So that's why I'm teaching you how to learn. And when you do 20 minutes, feel happy about it. Then you go to Wednesday, maybe you do Wednesday and you end up doing for 2 hours. Good. But Thursday, again, reset the clock to 20 minutes. So every day you start with 20, you might end up doing more, but don't start with that expectation of doing more because chances are you will not even start. I'm telling you this because I go through it every day. Is the message received? A message registered? Put MR. So well done, Namita. Let's put A for amazing for Namita. So be, do, have. Same for children. Focus on their being. If your child is feeling calm, if your child is feeling happy, if your child is feeling peaceful, if your child is able to open up they will definitely do wonders and they will do much better than us. And when they do, the results will automatically happen. The having, what we have, is a byproduct of what we do, and the doing will happen when we be. Clear hai sabko ye equation? Be, do, have. Ulta apnei kar sakte hai. You can never have without doing, and you can never do if you are not being. So now, is everybody ready for the fun game? Fun game. Wait, I'll ask you some questions, and the person to write the answer first in the chat is going to win a gift, a physical gift which will be delivered to you. So let's see. First, let me scroll my chat. Ready? Okay, now don't write anything till I ask you my question, but be ready. Okay, should I show you my screen? Okay, let me show it to you. A mother's love knows no answer. One second. It's going up so fast. One second, who is number 1? Just a minute, my chat has like scrolled up like crazy. No's? No. Richa Mera, you have won this one. And this is what you will get. You will get this t-shirt and this tote bag. Just decide, don't discuss. Okay, now the next question. Ready? Okay, you have to be really fast, so be focused. Who said this line? Be yourself, everyone else is already taken. Not Oscar Wilde, can't be. One second, Tony Robbins, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, you Steve Jobs. Yeah, Dr. Suchata, you have got this. It is Oscar Wilde and your gift is you will get this Easy Parenting Hub mug. And the tote bag. Let's all congratulate Richa and Dr. Sujata. And then the third, game 3. Acrophobia is the fear of, fear of, once again, Supriya! Supriya, you have won this. Let's see what you will be getting. You are going to get this tote bag and this gratitude journal. Now Richa, Sujata, and Supriya, please drop us an email with your address. Okay, so please make sure you send us your address and make sure you also put your phone number. How many of you got that adrenaline rush? If you felt the rush, it's just for fun, just to add a little bit of smile. Yes, amazing. Answer is heights. Acrophobia is the fear of heights. Oscar Wilde is the person who said it. And then, a mother's, a mother's love knows no bounds. Amazing. So with that We come to the end of day 2, but I have a small homework for you. Also, I want to answer a few questions which your super coaches have given me about the platinum membership, so I'll be spending some time answering those questions. But before that, everybody ready for the homework? If you're ready for the homework, put yes. How many of you did homework from day 1, by the way? Let's see. Con-con homework. Good. If you didn't do it, at least do this one. It's not going to take you much time. You don't have to print out nothing, just go through it very quickly. In 5 minutes you'll be able to do it. So now what is your homework? I will put the link in the chat. One second. Have you shared the homework link in the chat? Yes. So let me close the chat once. So that the link stays on top. Thank you, Ayesha. Let me also see if I'm going to paste it again. Yeah, so I've also pasted it. It's going to stay on top. So please open this link. You will see your homework. So your homework is becoming the woman your child experiences. So the first part is your presence check, because remember we learned that your presence really matters. So there are few multiple choice questions. Please go through them. Second is the standard that you want to set for yourself. And third one is quick reflection. So I've given you some examples like, one moment I am proud of today. So it doesn't have to be from the examples, you can have your own experience, but just in one or two lines you want to write. One moment I want to handle differently next time. So just like that you have to write. Your answer for day 2. Great! If you can do that, put yes in the chat box. Also, all of you must have got a coin. If you've got a coin, put yes if you read the message and you got a coin. Oh, sorry, chat is closed. One second. Yes. So I've opened the chat. If you got a coin, put yes. If you didn't get a coin, get one or pretend that you have a coin. I think it's better if you get one coin, right? So here's what we are going to do. In the reminders we sent, get a coin— link is not working. Oh, one second, let me just see. Oh, they put a star in the message, Aisha. One second. In the link you put a star, that's why it's not opening. Wait, you have to remove the star and share it, then it will open. Yeah, okay, I'll give you this link. Okay, super coaches, just make a note of it. Don't do it with the star, the link. Yeah, yeah, now it will open. Okay, please try opening it now. Should open. Opening. Good. All right, so make sure you do your homework, and let me share with you what we will be covering tomorrow. Is day 3. Tomorrow is a very special day. And then for those of you who asked, I'm going to answer those questions and then we will take off. We'll just another 10 minutes, I think, max. So tomorrow I will give you a decision. So tomorrow is spiritual purpose. So tomorrow is basically, I'm going to create it, you know, and tomorrow is 11 o'clock in the morning because tomorrow is Sunday. So put 11 in the chat box. Not in the evening, right? So tomorrow the boot camp is about spiritual purpose. I'm going to design it in a way so that you have the courage to make a decision to step into that spiritual, purposeful life that you should have created a long time back for yourself and for your child. Is this clear to everybody? If this is clear, put C for clear. And tomorrow is when you are going to— those of you are in gold and diamond, tomorrow you will get an opportunity to get into platinum. Having said that, I feel the decision has already been made for all of you. How? Because the decisions are made in the invisible world 3 months before they are revealed to you in the visible world. But you have to show up to receive it. Whether platinum has been chosen for you, because after doing this work for the last 9 years, I know one thing, that we don't choose these things. These things are chosen for us. How many of you agree with it? Put A for agree in the chat box. So tomorrow we'll do decision energy reset. Then I'm also going to share with you, uh, you know, a simple future visualization. I'll share case studies of, you know, mothers' breakthroughs in different areas— health, relationship, career, money. I will give you a complete roadmap. Now tell me one thing, how many of you think that if you have been living in this energy— put your age in the chat box, all of you. Put your age in the chat. 36, 34, 43, 43, 34, 46. Yes. Now tell me, if you have been experiencing whatever you have been experiencing for so many years, how many of you are ready to give 1 to 3 years of your life to change the story of your life completely? Health, relationship, career, money, you think it is totally worth it. If you think it is worth it, put W for worth it. This AC is so tricky. When I turn it on, I feel cold. When I turn it off, I feel hot. So poor with AC management. Need a manager to manage this AC. Yes, if you think it is, yes. So why am I sharing 1 to 3 years? Because sometimes, you know, we are always in a rush. We start feeling more anxious. If you agree, put A for agree. Now it can happen for some of you, it happens in 2 months, like for Gayatri it happened. But I'm not going to make any— not set any false expectations. Kissika chaye maine moga, kissika ek saal me hooga, kissika deir saal me hooga, maximum teen saals se zada kissika bhi nahi lagta hai for all these areas to shift. So how many of you are ready to invest, you know, and it will start. It's not like you will see the shift after 3 years. Every day you will experience some shift. So how many of you are ready to work on yourself little by little every day? To experience that shift. So tomorrow I'm going to give you a roadmap on how we are going to do that. Then I'm also going to give you the Platinum system, jo mera Platinum membership mein, what will you get. And trust me, what I'm going to show you is going to blow your mind away. And I'm not just saying this to say this. I'm sharing this from a place of humility and from a place of confidence and from a place of my students sharing their wins with me. So tomorrow, those of you who are going to come for the boot camp, even if you're not sure, please come ready with a deposit amount of ₹20,000. Now, why am I sharing come ready with a deposit amount of ₹20,000? Because after what I show you, you will not be able to stop yourself even if you're 0.0001% interested in your personal development and doing better for your child. Is this clear to everybody? If this is clear, put C for clear in the chat box. Awesome. So now I will answer a few questions that your super coaches have given to me, which you have been asking them, and they have requested me that I can answer them for you today so that tomorrow you can make a decision, more informed decision with clarity, right? So first question is, what is— I'm a Gold mother, can I join the Platinum? I'm very new. My personal— see, we are all adults, we can all make our own decisions. My role as a mentor is to guide you. Tomorrow you're not making the full payment anyway. Tomorrow you're just making a deposit of ₹20,000, and the next installment will happen next month. So you have already experienced me so much. There are mothers who have directly joined the Platinum. At least you guys know that all of this is true. The app is there, I am there. There are mothers like Saili, Kosha, Neetu, and I'm sure there are more, but they all directly jumped into Platinum. And whatever you deposited for your Gold will be adjusted against your Platinum deposit, like in the last installment. Now what is the price of the Platinum membership? So let me share this also. The actual value of Platinum membership is ₹5 lakhs for a year, and I will 1000% make it ₹5 lakhs. I don't say this to just say it, but tomorrow, because you'll come for the showcase, it is ₹3.85 lakhs for 3 years. When you apply the ₹50,000 voucher, it will become ₹3.35 lakhs. For 3 years, and you only have to make a deposit of ₹20,000, and you have 14 months, which means more than a year, to make the balance payment. Nobody in the coaching world will give you such a long payment plan. There will also be a special payment plan which I will share with you tomorrow when you come, okay? That's called the 1-month payment plan. But I'll share the value of it tomorrow when you come. I really want to do it, but I'm not sure if I can do it. I just want to tell you one thing. If you are not sure of this, with all due respect, I want to tell you, you'll never be sure of anything else in your life. Because this is too— it's literally, I feel the value you're giving for Platinum is free. A, you will work on your health, relationship, career, money. Pura change. You will get 2 certifications. You'll get certified as a parenting coach and life coach. You will have lifetime access to the app. You will have lifetime access to the community. You have live sessions of this nature with me for 3 full years. How many of you think it is a lot? College, 1 year, 2 year, 3 year. And you know why am I making it 3 years? So that you guys take action. It is a lot. You know, my mothers are getting results in like 4 months, 5 months. So 3 months, and in Platinum, the live calls are not just for you, it is also for your children. Plus you will get access to my mentors, and tomorrow I will also be giving you 4 lakh worth bonuses. And because tomorrow is Akshay Tritiya, it is such a special day I'm also going to give you a special bumper bonus, right? How many— you know, most certifications are for 2 months, 3 months. A baajake check karo, ek paper aapko pakda denge aur bolenge, aap certify ho chuke. How am I able to give you a guarantee? And I show up for you every single day because I don't want to leave you with this piece of paper. I really want you to shift. And for those of you who want to make money You will definitely make money if you follow my system, because there are mothers who are not making money are also making money. Jaya Carla, see, all the lifetime— you have lifetime access to app. I'm repeating it once again, please listen carefully. Lifetime access to all the topics in the app, lifetime access to this community, which means whatever live calls you get in the Gold, you will continue to get them for lifetime. The Platinum calls will be for 3 full years. If this is noted, put en for noted in the chat box. And I still feel it is a lot. And there are some mothers who are asking, I don't want to make money, so should I be in Platinum? Yes, in Platinum we have all types of mothers. Some are homemakers, they are very happy being homemakers, they don't want to make money. There are mothers who are full-time working mothers. They don't want to become coaches. They want to continue with their jobs, but they also want to work for their, you know, learn this for themselves and for their families. And those of you who are in your job, this will be a very good add-on on your resume. My mothers are getting promoted, they are able to get better jobs. All of this will enhance your skills. And there are mothers who are in the transition phase. From homemaker, they want to become coaches, or they want to leave their jobs ultimately and they want to turn into coaches. So we have all types of mothers. I'm not good at technology, can I do it? You don't have to know anything. I didn't know anything when I surrendered myself to my mentors. If you don't know anything, the only way for you to know is to learn it. You don't know because you've never learned it. And now technology is very simple. Coin, regya. Sorry, abhi coin karenge. Tikkay, you ki beach mein aap log lena chalega hai, main bol gayi. Some of you are saying this is too expensive. If you think this is expensive, this is not for you. That's all I can tell you. You know, you guys do the math. You know, even if you divide it by ₹36,000. It is less than ₹10,000 a month for you, your child, and your entire family. 2 certifications, direct access to my mentors. With all due respect, this much you are spending on your makeup, clothes, and parties and holidays, and buying things like phones and all of that for your house. So if— I'm not going to put any pressure on anybody. If you think you want it, you get it. Is this clear? All I can say, this is literally like even 10 years ago, if somebody would have given this much to you at this value, it is a no-brainer. 10 years ago, almost 9 and a half years ago, when I did my first thing, it was 2 lakhs only for 8 calls. No certification, only 8 calls once a week, no recording. Offline boot camp, ₹10 lakh. And I'm not making these numbers, these are real numbers. You guys are also going for those. Some of you are actually going for them. Will this only help me with parenting, or can I become any type of coach? You can become any type of coach. We have handwriting coaches, tarot coaches, NLP coaches, whatever yours. I'm going to give you the skill to transfer your knowledge. And I'm going to teach you parenting, life coaching, relationship, and all of that. And I'll not just teach you, my teachers who are teaching me will also teach you. I'm struggling to finish gold, will I be able to manage platinum? I want to tell you one thing, why do you struggle to finish gold? Not because you are not an action taker, but because you have not You have only invested what, ₹7,000? So you don't have the skin in the game. If this is a bull bond, put BO in the chat box. Now some of you are saying, why did you not take action last time and this time you will not take action? Next time you will only get parenting. My ultimate plan is eventually one certificate, ₹5 lakhs. And I'm going to do it. You guys are watching me. I'm not just bluffing here. So that's why I'm saying the sooner you take action, the better it is. Forget about what you missed, focus on what you're receiving. Is this making sense to everybody? If this is making sense, put MS in the chat box. And this is what a lot of mothers were saying. When I was in gold, I was not taking action. You know, right now you're paying what, 3.35 lakhs? Why are my platinum mothers taking more action than gold? Same mother only, you know, in gold and platinum. They are taking more action because they are more invested. Now for the same thing, when I will make it ₹5 lakhs for a year, more action will happen and you will get better results. If you agree with this, put A for agree. So those of you are getting it for 3 years, you are actually in a good space because your speed of action will be higher. You will get 2 certifications, Priyanka. Parenting certification and life coach. If everybody has registered this, put registered. And this is also a lot because only for my parenting certification I paid 10 lakhs. Only for life coaching, learning from Larry Zoltan, Taddeus Pooja, I paid I think 10-15 lakhs. And this does not even include the one-on-one coaching that I did with them. One call with Larry is 2.5 lakhs. All of that you are getting at 3.35 lakhs. You know, I'm going to show you a video. Let me play. Okay, first let me answer the questions, then I'm going to play this video for you, and then you will understand what you're getting. Will this be useful for me if even if I have a teenager? 100%. I am not sure if I'll be able to manage the time. I want one Platinum Mother to answer this question. Who is going to answer? Okay, Urvvi, you know, this time is in your head. Yes, Urvvi.

Yes, I completely agree, ma'am, because first, first resistance was for me was time only, because I am working across different time zone, working from home. My kid feels I'm always available and approachable. Not only my kid, sometimes my mother also. Just happened, just happened while I was on this call and writing everything. So they feel that I'm always available, right? And after joining Platinum, I feel that it becomes so simple because I could ignore whatever was happening and I was calmly dealing with that thing. So the simple techniques and simple hacks that has been provided in all Platinum courses repeatedly in each and courses because we feel that courses are different, but the technique is so simple and put it in simplified way, we save upon time.

Why I am saying so?

Because ma'am told one thing that invest your energy and time on high impact areas. I used to take bath for 15-20 minutes. Now as soon as I started waking up early, I take it 5 to 7 minutes only. So that how in every small, small activities I have started, you know, creating space for that. And I'm literally saving 4 to 6 hours a day for this study and investment. Otherwise, if before, I could have never, because I'm working across time zones. So sometimes I have call at early in the morning, so I attend that and then I join Sankirtan sometimes, or night also. But now I have tried to set a boundary there as well, and I have tried to compile all the things In a simple manner, again the way ma'am told, because I used to communicate that to my boss and manager that can we compile mutual time zones into one, and 2:30 to 4:30 we could actually find across many countries that matches. Somewhere is early, somewhere later. So I have tried to compile morning and evening call in that zone. So I've reduced that early morning and night The way you— whatever you expect, you put it in a simple way. That I learned from ma'am and ma'am's courses and the way she explains. So it has become more simpler for me rather than more complicating. So I can definitely relate. Thank you so much, ma'am.

Amazing. Thank you so much. Let's put A for amazing for Urvi, session host. Only one thing I'm concerned with: why is it only 3 years? It is 3 years so that you get results within 3 years. And you know, honestly, this luxury that you guys are getting, you please go and test outside. You don't get anything recorded on the app for lifetime. Everything that I teach in my certification step by step, it will stay recorded with mind maps on your app for lifetime. You know, when I did my certification, 2 months, pura handwritten notes. There is no reference. If you miss something, you miss it forever. So I just, you know, I am so confident about my Platinum that I also say this: if you choose it, if you don't choose it, you lose it. And right now also, some of you will be in your head, you will not take action, then you will come after 3 months when you'll only get parenting for 5 lakhs, and then you'll be like, Okay, then the next question that we have is, I'm a homemaker, can I do it? Any homemaker? Okay, Deepti Jain, very important.

Thank you, thank you so much, ma'am. I am very, very proud homemaker. Who has turned her life. I am who I am all because of you. Thank you so much to all the homemakers listening to me. You are not just, you know, a homemaker. You can do a lot just because of EPH Platinum membership. When I started with the EPH Gold membership, changed my life. I was super happy. And Platinum used to, you know, feel ki itna gold mein hai toh platinum mein toh I don't know what will happen. Instantly, in a month, I upgraded. And because of Platinum, I am an author now. I am doing consciously. I'm living my life because of the spiritual calls. I'm very active. I can do anything and everything I know if I choose to. I'm choosing to be a homemaker. That's my choice. But because of Platinum, I have many options.

I can be a relationship coach.

I can be a parent coach, I can be a health coach, I can be a life coach. Life coach, sab mere options hai. But because of Platinum, I am the most happy self that I have ever been in my life. And that is for true. Like, after this bhaktambar classes that I have started, I've started analyzing, you know, that what I was before, I am a very different person now. And it is totally because of DPH. It's not just to be a coach or to earn money, but I have started adding value to other people's lives, which is something very greater than earning money. And what you are doing, ma'am, is extremely grateful. This cannot be said in words. And to all the mothers who are listening to me, this spiritual journey It is— it's— we cannot pay, uh, you know, in money to you what you are giving to us. Those values that you are not just adding in our lives but in our kids' life through, you know, uh, Super Mission Kids calls, then Bhagavad Gita reading with the teenagers. So everything is like a win-win for us. And those who are thinking about money It will, you know, it seems to be very expensive at once, but when you enter this community, you have so much to do that you can recover that cost very easily. And if you're a homemaker, you feel I cannot recover that cost, it's okay. The value that it will add to your life is incomparable. Also, the, like, I have so much to share, ma'am, I'm really sorry. I'm short of words today. Like, every time it comes, you know, about sharing, I'm like, I want to say this, I want to say this. But Platinum is like a life changer for me. I have never been this version of myself. I have started setting boundaries after 9 years of my marriage. I never ever spoke back or in front. That is one of the reasons it's holding me back, you know, not being a coach. But Now I have started setting boundaries that, no, I have to wake up early, so I'll have to sleep. I cannot do this right now. So that strength I have got because of you. The community that you have built, I have not seen. Because of you, we have access to many coaches. We are in Shruti Ma'am's community, and there are many more mentors that you have given us. I've been to their calls, but their energy and your energy is unmatchable. And for the cost, what you guys say, it's too much, it's too much. I have told many a times that my husband, he's in a trading course. He has taken high-ticket program that was of ₹7 lakh for 1 year. He renewed it for ₹3 lakhs a year. My family also doesn't know about it. So when I see that, then this feels like it's free of cost you are giving us. What, for lifetime you're giving us the course access? Then this community itself is so beautiful and pure, and I can go on and on about that. But if you are a homemaker, if you are a working woman, just ask, close your eyes and ask yourself that, do you want to upgrade yourself? Because if the answer is yes, kaise bhi karki, just jump in. God will help you and things will work out for you because ma'am is bringing that divine energy in our lives. It is changing everyone's life. Up till maine japtak Sankirtan nahi join kiya tha, I could not feel that energy. But after joining Sankirtan, bhaktan bhar came to me, and now I am also, you know, a part of this journey. So thank you so, so much, ma'am. Sorry if I spoke a lot.

It's okay. Thank you so much, Deepti. Let's put A for amazing for Deepti. Will this help my child with screen time? Yes, Timzy will answer this. You already shared this, but we want you to answer it. Yes, I am not— you know, my ultimate plan with Platinum is I'm not going to do any showcase or anything. All my mothers will share. This is my ultimate plan. I'm going to show you 200 stories. You see those stories you click on the link and you get in. You know, right now I'm going for Tony Robbins this December, 3-day event, only 3 days. Pura 3 days bhi nahi hai, 2 and a half days. I am paying for my travel tickets, stay, only 3 days, ₹6.5 lakhs. And I'm not making this, only for 2 and a half day program, Date with Destiny. You guys can go and check online. Yes, Tim C. You can unmute. Hi everybody. Hi ma'am. Yes, yes, my life has become so much easier because of you guys. You can answer my questions. Yes ma'am, in fact Rudra is there, my child is there right now next to me, and he also would want to speak about the game Roblox, what he's stopped playing at all, and definitely I'm in the screen time. What Rudra knows himself, he used to watch screen sometimes for 3 hours, 4 hours, 5 hours at a stretch. And if I was not home, it's happened that he's watched the screen for 6 hours also at a stretch. But now it's reduced to just thrice a week, and that to 1 hour. Rudra, you want to speak?

Yes.

Only if you want to. Yes.

First of all, hello everybody and hello Riddhi Ma'am. Hi, uh, so, uh, thank you, Riddhi Ma'am, for giving me the opportunity to speak. And today I would like to say how I managed to quit Roblox. So at first I was, I was playing it thrice to four times a week, at least for one hour. My parents didn't like it, but they didn't stop me for one to two months. I got more addictive, addicted, and they could see, like, what do I say, You can see aggressiveness in me. I was getting more aggressive when they tried to take it away, so they decided to put a stop to it. Then, uh, my mom said that why don't you join a Kids Share call. Um, then I was like, okay, I joined. I got the chance from you. I asked you if Roblox is a bad game. Then, um, you said that Oh, what do I say? You said that in, in like, like once a week it's fine. So I decided— then my parents decided that you can get it once in a week. But I was like, what's the point of playing such a game like which harms you every day?

So then I just quit Roblox and I haven't played it in a very long time. So amazing, so proud of you. How many of you feel this is amazing? And you know, I want to tell you one thing. Just like you get this energy and you feel better, how many of you just think that our children also deserve to be in a space like this? Children also deserve to be in a space like this. So in Platinum, you know, they are not just learning from me, they're learning from each other. Because when they see that some other child is getting bullied and they are also getting bullied, they feel, I'm not the only one. Or when they see that one child has been able to quit— now when Rudra shares his story in that group call that I was able to let go of screen time and Roblox, other children get inspired. Maybe not all, but many do, and some of them will stop playing because of him sharing his story.

Yes.

Okay, so cute, the kids are okay. Richa, let's put A for amazing for Timzy and Rudra. Thank you for sharing so nicely, and we'll make the coffee thing happen. Your mom shared, I remember. Yes. Okay, so I will hand it over directly to Revansh, and he'll tell you more about what he wants. This is even getting better. He's got a mind of his own, so I won't say anything. Let him say what he has to. I'm loving this. You know, I was thinking that I will delegate delegated to you guys my work. Now you guys are delegating it to your kids. So we have become an expert at this. Yes.

I also have a story about Roblox. I have stopped playing Roblox from now around 1 to 2 months. I completely banned Roblox in 2025. And my screen time, I already told you in that call, that my screen time is reduced to 20 minutes every day, like, and in the whole week I do not watch more than 1 hour 20 minutes. I also, I also wanted to tell that I have a special studying time from 5 to 6, and I study every day from 5 to 6.

Wow. My heart is going to melt listening to you guys share your stories. How many of you are feeling this energy? If you're feeling it, put feel. You know, this is the world and the education that we need to expose our children to. Love it! Thank you so much for sharing.

Thank you, Mom.

Love it! Let's put A for amazing in the chat. All right, I'm a working mother, can I do it? Who's going to share? Just wave at me. Working mother. Okay, Anupma Kaushik.

Uh, hi ma'am.

Yes.

Uh, so, uh, let me introduce myself. I am a doctor by profession. I'm a pathologist and my job is 24/7. I don't get off even on weekends. And I have two kids. My elder one is 21 years old and she's studying in US, and my younger one is 14 years old. He's a teenager and he is really giving me a tough time. He was actually giving me a tough time, but now the situation is really, really better. You know, when I joined, I joined ETH in month of December, on 24th of December, as a Gold Mother. That time I was also thinking that I won't be able to give time to doing the courses and going through the videos. But now I feel that it's the only source of energy You know, it's the most important source of energy to me. If I don't see your video, you know, I really feel low on energy. And since I have joined, you know, in next— I joined in December, and within a period of 1 month, I upgraded to Platinum, and now I have upgraded to Platinum Elite. Since then, I have not even missed a single boot camp, your live calls. I think except one or two live calls, I have not even dared to miss any of the live calls because I feel that it really helps us to upgrade ourselves. I can see a big, big, big shift in me. Last week I was in Delhi. My parents stay in Delhi, so I was there for my mother's eye surgery. I was there for 10 days. During those 10 days, I was not able to watch any of the courses. But I really want to share, I being a doctor, a daughter, And I have never received this compliment from my parents. My parents always used to say that you are a very loving person, very hardworking, and, you know, a lot of compliments they used to give me. But this time they told me that, Anu, we can really feel that you have become very, very mature. You know, that Initially, whenever there used to be a situation, you know, an odd situation, I always used to react, you know. But I, this time, you know, when I was talking to my parents, a lot of problems are there in everybody's house, you know. There are few things and parents share, you know. So when they were sharing their problems and they were talking to me, I didn't react. I was responding to them, and that was a major shift in me. And with that shift, I am handling my house, my kids. And my kids, I think within a period of 1 or 2, I think 2-3 weeks after joining EPH, my son, he came to me and he hugged me. I still remember he hugged me and he told me, Mama, you are the best mother. So, you know, after joining EPH, I am getting compliments from all over. You know, my friends are complimenting me, my parents are complimenting me, my kids are complimenting me. And this is something which, you know, I, even after doing so much for my kids, for my family, for my parents, I was not able to get. And after joining EPH, uh, you know, visible results are there. So really, I'm very, very thankful to you, ma'am, and my EPH family. This platform is not for parenting, it is for changing lives. You are changing lives, you're shifting the energy within us, and I'm really very, very thankful to you. This is from bottom of my heart, uh, that, uh, you know, it's, it's, you are really touching lives. And the, the best part The best part which I like about EPH, you know, I have seen a lot of mentors, I have seen a lot of teachers who teach but they don't give you the opportunity to build the same platform, or they don't, you know, help you to build your platform on which you can serve. And you are doing that, you know, that's commendable. That's something which we can't, you know, as a human being, a lot of people think, yeah, But that thought of yours, and you are doing it so beautifully, you are helping everyone to build their platform, to earn something, to upgrade yourself. That's really great. Very, very, very thankful to you, ma'am.

Thank you.

Thank you so much, Anupma, for bringing this up. Because honestly, you know, when I see this room, I'm not just seeing 500, 800, 1,000 mothers. I'm seeing 1,000 communities. You know, maybe right now we are all in a space where not most all of us believe in ourselves and we don't think, "Yeh banaa sakthe." You know, when I started, if I were to be honest, I did not believe or I did not know that I'm going to build a community. I had just started for myself. But I want to tell all of you one thing, that if you experience the shift, there will come a day in all our lives where we will not be able to stop ourselves from helping others. And every single one of us will have a community. And that's my vision, that's my mission, because I cannot reach every home alone, but collectively, you know, we can create Crazy impact. You know, there are so many languages that I don't speak, but now my students are helping in Punjabi, Telugu, Kannada, Hindi, Marathi, Gujarati. Now they have all these communities and all these languages. Otherwise, and you know, with all this language, we would not be able to help Gujarati moms who don't understand any English.

True, true.

So many languages. And even there are mothers who are doing it in English. So we can do it in our regional languages. It is, you know, and I personally believe in universe there is only creation and collaboration. So for me, I feel when we create and we co-create together, only magic happens. So thank you so much, Anupma, for sharing.

Thank you, ma'am.

How many of you are feeling super inspired that, you know, if they can do it? I've showed you homemakers doing it. I've shown you working mothers, full-time working mothers doing it. I don't have money, how can I do it without— is it okay if I do it without telling my husband? Now I want to tell you one thing, it is not my place to make the decision for you. It is completely up to you. But I can only tell you one thing, that there are a lot of Platinum mothers who are in the Platinum membership and they have not told their husbands about it. And I personally feel that if they could, they would, but if they can't, they can't. But they will eventually— okay, Anshuta, you want to share something? So, but yeah.

So hello everybody. As ma'am said that many of the mothers here are being questioned with the feeling that what if we don't tell our husband? So even I am amongst you. While joining Gold, my husband didn't know that I am entering into something. He always had a faith in his mind or his belief system was She'll enter into some random course and she will just— she'll do it for a couple of weeks and then she'll just leave it. So after seeing the changes and everything, when I was doing it consistently, he asked me, what is this? What is going on? So I said, this is a gold membership which I am in. So he's like, can you talk to ma'am? I said, yes, we can talk twice a week. Okay, then what next are you planning for? I said, I don't know. There's a platinum membership and there's a showcase coming on Valentine's Day. So he's like, so means he got my question, my feeling, what I'm expecting from him. So he was like, I have made arrangements for myself. And at that moment, in that time, ma'am said that as we are ladies, we always have Sridhan with us. The envelopes, the this and everything. Investments, we always keep it. So with everyone's personal choice, I just got an insight, this 1.5 lakhs, 2 lakhs rupees which has been kept in my locker is not going to multiply, is not going to give me interest at any moment of my life. And it is my money, still I am not able to use it for myself. So what is the use of that money? So without asking my husband, I just did the initial payment, which was the booking amount. And then later on, as a wife, I thought I should tell him that I have used my money here and here. So fingers crossed, I can swear on my children, my God, my husband was the one who made the remaining 80% of the payment. And after a week, he was the one— membership. And I was so happy, so happy. So this is the best gift which I gave to myself. And because seeing the changes in me, my husband was like, I'm ready to do all the investments what you like, and whichever membership do you wish for, I'll support you for that. And with this, I would also like to add about the offline events. I am always the one who is thinking about everyone to join the offline events. My husband is the person who immediately pays when I'm in the event hall. He just book the seat and you go. When you know you have paid, you will make it 100%. So come out of your comfort zones and take the decision. Whatever amount you have kept in your tesori, this is the place where you need to invest it.

Yes, I totally believe it. And I also want to say one thing. I don't want any of you to feel the pressure because, you know, it's about if it is meant for you, it will come to you. Nobody can stop it. And if it's not meant for you, it will not come to you. I have a personal belief about my Platinum. You cannot be in Platinum if you have a lot of money in your account. You can be in Platinum if you have a lot of good karmas. And I'm again saying this with a lot of humility, because all of these things God will decide. If we are meant to be together, nobody can stop us from being together. But I know one thing, God is working, but you have to show up for yourself. And that's what I keep doing for myself. So I don't want any of you to feel any pressure. Just come, just come tomorrow, see what you're seeing. If you feel it, if you get that feeling that this is for you, you get it. If you're not getting, you do your own thing. I do my own thing. I will continue to do this only. But the idea is for you to not stay stuck, because you know, this is what my mentor told me, de Martini. That if some feeling or a message is coming in your heart, it will not come in you if it is not meant for you. So we'll do one or two more. Shalini, people will think you're my sales representative.

Ma'am, can I speak Yes, can I speak?

Yes.

Yeah, so again, many of the times husband don't invest or don't support you because they feel you will not do it. But when you take a decision for yourself, they get more confidence in you. If she is investing in herself means she is going to do it, and then they support you 10 times more than they were doing. So this is my personal experience.

That is so true, and also my personal experience with my husband. Let's put A for amazing. With, uh, for Anshuta, there is nothing between gold and platinum. I have stopped diamond. Why? Because I feel gold ke baad, if you want magic, it is only platinum. So there are only two now, gold and platinum. There is no access to anything in between or anything below. I'm following Steve Jobs. Less is more. Kinjal, I want to focus on quality. Thank you so much, ma'am. So first of all, I am— I was a homemaker when I joined.

I didn't have money, I didn't have any support, and I also didn't want to become a coach, but I ended up.

So for the homemakers, I just want to say If you are a homemaker in this room, this is for you. And you don't have any choice, but you want to go for it. Because if you are a homemaker, you do all the house chores and everything for all your lifetime, you will not have that fulfillment in your life.

But if you will invest once in yourself, trust me, you will not have to ask for money again.

And if you are a homemaker and you want to become financially free, this is for you. Because I personally believe that if you want freedom for yourself, you just need to learn, invest in yourself, and grow yourself, and become financially free, and then you will have everything, and you will have that fulfillment in your life. So that's what I want to say. And even if you don't want to become a coach, but once you will invest in yourself, you will get that confidence. And even if you will not become a coach, you will just do amazing in your life. So just go for it, all the homemakers.

This is my humble request.

You try for politics.

Kindly, you should try for politics. Because I have experienced this shift in my life, because I have no— I can't believe that this much potential I had, a homemaker to earning minimum 50,000 per month.

This is not a small thing for me.

So yes, many corporates also don't pay that much. And you know, I just want to add to this that, you know, some of us, we make our decisions based on what our current feelings are. Don't make your decision based on your life right now, then you'll never be able to show courage. Make your decision based on the life you want to create. My energy was very low, but I had to show courage and make a decision even when I did not believe in myself. Forget about you, my husband was definitely thinking that I am doing something very foolish, but even I was not sure. But I did it because I didn't have a choice. I was like, either this or nothing. And that's how I made the decision. And when I started, just like Kinjal shared, I was also a homemaker because I had quit everything and I was with my child. I would have never known that this is even possible for me. Had I not made my first decision. Is this making sense? You will never know what is possible for you if you don't take a chance. And you know, honestly, this is not just about you. This is about you, your child, your whole family. Like, even mother-in-laws are sending me messages now. This time, go, I went there, my mother-in-laws and father-in-laws also who came, they were literally hugging me and blessing me so much. What else? You know, right now, so, you know, we are off, but all these mothers are waiting and wanting to share. What else do you do? Does anybody want in this life? I feel, no, there are many ways of living life, but I feel there is no better way than this, according to me at least. All right, we'll do one or two more and then we'll close. Shalini, I'll give you one minute in the end.

Yes.

Hello. Yes. Hare Krishna, ma'am. Hare Krishna. Let's put A for amazing for Kinjal. Yes. Hare Krishna.

Amazing, Kinjal. So I just really want to say that it's an overall life-changing community and environment we are getting from this. And it's like 360-degree transformation in each area of your life. And which I experience, it's totally different because massive parenting, but I get like many drastic change in myself, my daughter, my husband, as well as in my relationship with others, other people as well. And even in my like finance journey, which I share with everyone. So, uh, actually I cannot express myself fully with anyone, even with my parents, even with my siblings, even with my husband. Like, I cannot openly express with anyone. But in this community, I can like feel the connection and the emotion emotionally, like, so I can regulate my emotions as well here. And my itni sari community, like, for different, different things, I'm in different, different communities. For health purpose, I'm in different community. For accountability and discipline coach, I have different people in my life. For trading journey and finance, for wealth management, I have different coaches. Like, but which I am experiencing here, I'm feeling like it's family, not community. Like, I'm not only learning something for parenting as well as like Yes, thank you.

Yes, that is so true.

You know, this is beyond any community, you know, because even I'm learning and I'm serving to my own community as well. We have Trader Inner Circle community as well, but ma'am is serving with her heart, so it's It's really very different feeling. I cannot express in my words.

Yes, thank you so much for sharing that. And you know, I just want to say one thing, like, for me this is not work, you know, because otherwise it is not possible. I'm literally—

and we can, we can clearly sense and feel that, that it's not work for you. Like, how— like, it's heart-to-heart connection between you and me, with all other mothers. Like, we can see them They are growing each, each second, each moment. You have surround yourself, right? Correct. Amazing.

Thank you so much.

Thank you, thank you, ma'am.

Zeal. Let's put A for amazing for Zeal. Yes, honestly, you know, the work that I do here, it is literally, you know, I In my heart, I feel this is my service to Krishna, because never ever had I thought that I would be doing this work. You know, even now when I wake up, you know, when I see that, you know, our community right now, as I speak with you, 60,000 students, it sounds very unreal to me. So I personally, you know, every day I wake up, I am just thinking that, you know, I'm doing this for God. I get up with that energy and I sleep with that energy, and I get up and I tell God, I'm ready. I'm here to serve you. You tell me what I have to do. Of course, you know, I say my community, Easy Parenting Hub and all, but in my heart I truly believe, and I'm not just saying this to say it, I truly believe it belongs to God. Your breakthroughs are coming from God through me. I'm just like a channel, a delivery person, but I don't ever take credit for your breakthroughs because I am a human being. I cannot heal somebody's boil on their head. Cancer, thyroid, depression, diabetes, divorce. Now these are not in my possibility. Only God can do this, but I just allow myself to show up. So my result is this: me coming for my cause, me doing my work, my service. This is my result. The actual result which we think are results, that I feel are results for God. And I'm sharing this because a lot of you are going to become coaches yourself, so you also want to carry the same thing. Never think that, you know, lives are changing because of you. Who are we? Lives change only because of God, but we are just here to be used as channels and to create that space and that environment for the change to take place. The full form of scam It is simple choice for all mothers. And there are many versions that if your husband's— so you should have— you should defend me, okay? Don't say simple choice for all mothers.

Hello, ma'am, you're looking pretty as usual. Thank you, thank you so much for choosing me. EPH is a next home for me. Morning get up, that time everything, because my life have a 360-degree turn. And ma'am, Riddhi ma'am have given me that confidence. Riddhi ma'am, after 8th March, Women's Day, I met you, Mumbai meetup. I'm not wearing my wings. I'm just, you know, so confident. You gave me that confidence enough to carry on. I look beautiful. I like, uh, I, I just can't thank enough the EPH family and Riddhi Ma'am. Her teachings are amazing. Like today's boot camp, I was realizing each and every single thing Ma'am taught and the learnings, everyday learnings. I'm just short of words what to say, what not to say. Now I have almost finished my chemo. I'm affected with cancer. Through EPH, I could have that confidence that it's okay, mujhe aaya hai, but I can do.

Why?

Because I was using Riddhi ma'am every day in the sankirtan. Okay, it is okay, just accept it. So I accepted it, and 6 months through the journey here, I finished my chemotherapy. Now next month I'll go for my surgery, but everything is very good. I'm laughing. Riddhi Ma'am checks on me personally that I'm fine. That is so heartwarming, or having a personal message from a mentor. I don't think so. In any other community or anywhere outside, any mentor will message you personally and asking for your help. Like, it's really heartwarming that there is a feeling that there is someone behind you. And like, Riddhi ma'am, you know what, I got so excited now you told you're going in December 2026 for Tony Robbins. So you know what, she goes, she learns everything, and she— she learns from there. Whatever teaching she's learning, she's giving us. I don't think so we will be able to go and attend, uh, mentors, uh, you know, workshops and all that things. But Riddhi Ma'am is always open, full heart open. I'm like really so glad that— I don't know, I'm just thanking Krishna that what good things I've done that I became a part of EPS. I know it will be exact 2 years and less of 1 month. 18th May I took my Platinum Elite thing membership. I had just joined it and I did not know. I just attend the this and I was like, okay, I had 10,000 at that time. 10,000 was the deposit. Let me deposit it, let me do it, then we'll see it. And I just did it. And then I was asking, I don't know if I've done the right thing or not. So, but Ma'am's positive words and the community of moms we will get here is heartwarming. I still get— I'm from Mumbai, I have EPS moms coming at my house, ma'am. They come to meet me.

Wow.

Yeah, they make plans. Riddhi, how are you? I don't think so anywhere in the world this is there. I think so this will be a patent mark for you. That moms connecting moms. Obviously we are discussing, okay, when we see, uh, turn senior citizen, 60, we will have a class. But as of now also, ma'am, there are moms who take care of me. They are messaging me. They are— this kind of community and home you have built for us. And really, every single mom who still thinking, must go for Platinum. Yeah, tomorrow please be there for the showcase so you will get your life back. I know what I have got. I don't know what will have happened to me if I was not here, but I'm living my life.

Amazing. Thank you so much. And I'm coming for your daughter's wedding. Amazing. Let's put A for amazing. For, uh, Deepti in the chat. Yes, you know, when I call you guys family, I actually feel it. If I just don't say it to say it, you know, if something happens, I feel it, you know. And, you know, I just, you know, feel that, you know, we all belong to the same family. And it's just that now we are meeting each other, but I have this feeling that we've been connected for many, many, many years. Because nothing in this universe is random. No connection— there are billions and millions of people in this world. Why just us in this room? So there is a deep connection that we share, and that's why we are here together. And, uh, yes, this is beyond community now. It's a beautiful family, and we'll be seeing each other when we are 50, 60, I don't know what age, and we'll be talking about our grandchildren. Like right now, we are asking what my mother-in-law said this, then you'll say my daughter-in-law is parting 3 in the morning. What do I tell her? How should I tell her? Or should I not? Should I let her party or should I go with her? So right now I have a course. So then I'll have to have another level for our daughter-in-laws and for our son-in-laws, how to be around them, right? Some of you are asking what's the difference between Platinum Elite and Platinum. I would tell you, forget about Elite. Why? Because there is no Elite right now. So even if you get to know, there's nothing you can do about it. So my recommendation is get into Platinum. When you get into Platinum, I will definitely at some time in the future might give you a chance to get into Elite. But if you're not in Platinum, you'll never be able to get into Elite. Is this clear to everybody? And trust me, you know, my Platinum is like beyond amazing. And you tomorrow just come, no, tomorrow Akshay Tritiya bumper also I'm doing. I can't tell you everything everything right now. I'm very good at telling everything, but so you come tomorrow. Tomorrow I will tell you a few things which will make you feel happy for sure. Okay, so now last but not the least, we'll end with Pragya. Pragya, very quickly, okay, because I think we are very late.

Yes, yes, thank you so much, ma'am. You always pick me when I am at the highest level of my emotion.

When are you not emotionally high? First you tell me that. I have always seen you emotionally high.

Yes, so thank you so much, ma'am. Yeah, uh, quickly I will share that being a Platinum member and being a member of EPH community in a full-time working job. I earlier used to feel that it will not be easy for me, but now I can proudly say that I am a super coach. I am handling my full-time work profession as associate professor in the college. I am taking my classes. I am trying and comfortably handling all my duties and services for our community mothers being a Super Coach and also running my own coaching as a conscious, uh, coach. And seriously, believe me, thinking about all these things all together does not seem easy, or may not seem easy to everyone. But starting your day at 4 AM in the morning, ending at 10, 10:30 With full energy is what I can say, what I can feel throughout. I wake up early in the morning. First, I used to wake up just considering this as my duty because my mentor has asked me to do this. But now I wake up for not only my mentor, for the supreme energy which is giving us the energy. And always ma'am says that the L connection Now I feel that L connection every moment of my life because each and every moment, not only me, my son, he always give me nowadays example from Radha Krishna's journey. He has his book Krishna and he will say, tell me all examples from there only. So I am truly blessed, ma'am. Thank you so much. For reconnecting me with that supreme energy, for bringing my energy back. Wherein, I would tell you that since childhood, I was the most lazy person of my home. I used to wake up at 10-12 in the morning.

Now God is making you compensate. Seriously, how God works! Seriously?

So yes, yeah. So my mom, earlier she used to worry that how will you handle, because since after my marriage and after my child was born, till his 5 years of age, we were around my parents and my in-laws only. And after he turned 5, we shifted to Sikkim to a very new place, nuclear No house help to find over here. Everything I had to do on my own. And now I can proudly say that I am handling my household chores on my own. I'm cooking for my family with full love, full energy, full Krishna power into that cooked food. And I'm balancing all my duties. Also, my son, earlier he He used to like make excuses to go to school, but now he is very energetically— he wakes up, he cuddles me for 5 minutes, and then gets ready by himself. So he has now become independent on his own. So this is all what I can say, that Platinum may seem high in cost, high in demanding your time, but seriously, it's just the opposite. It will give you back all the values. It will give you back all your time because now you will learn how to cut the negative time zone from your life and end with positive time zone. So thank you so much, ma'am, for introducing us to this beautiful level of membership and handholding us. The most important thing that you never leave us.

Thank you so much. I'm just looking for somebody who can do my showcase. I'm going to delegate it to one of you. Amazing, love it! Let's put A for amazing for Pragya. Shalini, 8-minute time, 9:11 or 9:12.

Oh, okay, thank you so much. Thank you. Okay, uh, first Not telling husband. I did not tell till now. It's almost 2 years completed. Okay, and second, I'm full-time working. Also, I'm doing my all duties with Supercoach in the work community. And third is— ah, ma'am, sorry. Of course I knew it.

Sorry, this is her with Tabeth Karab, so you guys can imagine her with Tiktaabits. Like, seriously.

And, um, ma'am, and you do it in English.

There is a request for English here. This is a good idea for you to practice your English. Do all your shares in English.

Ma'am, even I give the testimonial in English. I don't know about it. After that, I know, oh, I give you English.

Okay, nice.

Okay. So about my energy, you can ask to any member of the EPH because about me, according to you, telling about you, the ma'am doing this, this, and this. Lots of mother telling about me also, where are you come your energy from? I don't know, from 4 AM to 11 PM. Yeah, my, uh, full work also going on hand. Even I got transferred to, uh, another, um, my another branch, and there also I have lots of work to do on the computer also. But I don't know in 24 hours where I come the time.

I think it's 48 hours become for me.

Yes, and even who's the filmmaker? Trust me, I will become a coach also in some time with gold grades, and I will quit my job. Even I have got my job. So go to this, I did something about just believe, just trust. Platinum, without any doubt. And okay, I don't want to cry today. I don't want to cry.

Good. Thank you so much, Charlene. This is, by the way, her record, record timing. I think it's because of her health, let's put, or because the child has come. So let's put A for amazing. For Shalini. So thank you so much, everybody. And before we end, I just want to read something to you that I wrote some time back. And I love to write, so I keep writing. So I want to just read this out. It's like a prayer or a message or whatever you want to call it. Your dreams, your new life, what your child truly deserves is waiting for you. Is looking for you as much as you are looking for it. The moment is here, the opportunities keep coming. The moment you choose who you are becoming, that's when your heart will make you choose the right thing. It's not just a feeling, not just an inspiration, but it is a commitment to who you truly are. I really believe that God is already preparing you for the choice that will bless your future. If you're still here, if you're still listening, if you're still growing, you are choosing your identity. And nothing in the universe is random. You are not here by chance. You are here because something inside of you is getting ready. You are here to expand, you are here to lead, and you are ready to invest in becoming the woman your family really needs. And when a mother invests in herself, she's not being selfish, she's updating the entire future of her family. So thank you so much for your trust, thank you so much for your presence, and thank you for choosing to become a Divine Mother. I will see you tomorrow where you will elevate and you will begin living a life with a true spiritual purpose. So I just want to say I love, love, love every single one of you. I will do a special prayer for you in the morning, and then we will leave it on God and then let God do his magic for you.

Awesome.

The coin thing we will do next time, okay? I want to do it with a full room. So we'll keep it for next time. Awesome. So thank you so much, everybody. I will see you tomorrow sharp at 11. Please join on time. And tomorrow we will not do a meeting format because tomorrow is the decision day. So I want you to be focused on— keep your energy focused, collected, and to be centered so that you are able to step into your life with a lot of clarity. So tomorrow it will be on Zoom. But it'll not be a meeting format, it'll be a webinar format, right? And I'll show you everything, why you should do it and what will you get. And you just come ready with a ₹20,000 deposit because I have experienced this. If you don't come ready, you will regret it because what I'll show you, even if you're a little interested in yourself, in your child, you will really want it for yourself. The coin thing we will do next time. Our Coin will happen next time. Coin exercise next time. Okay, amazing. Thank you so much, everybody. Love. Attendance was activated a long time ago on your app. Go to the feed section, you'll be able to mark it. Yes, amazing. Thank you so much. It's not there now. Wait, let me give you the attendance form. All right, there, I've given you the link for the attendance form. You can fill out this link to mark your attendance in case that thing is gone. And if you've not filled out the Platinum Interest Form, you can also fill that out. But tomorrow anyway we are meeting at 11, so it's okay even if you don't fill this out because now I don't think you'll be able to connect with a super coach. It's too late because we are meeting tomorrow. But if you still want to fill it out, you can.

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So thank you so much everybody. Love you, love you, love you. Sleep well. I will see you tomorrow sharp at 11, and Tomorrow is going to be the first day of your best, best life. And I know this, even if you don't know it, I know it. Because once you are in Platinum, your life before Platinum and after Platinum, it just cannot be the same. And you will feel it in just a few weeks. Awesome. Thank you, take care, love you. I'll keep it on because some of you are marking your attendance. For 1 minute I'll keep it on and then it will get dropped automatically.