Divine Downloads Of Parenting - Bootcamp Day 2

able to make progress, you know. And I want to share with you something. Let this YouTube get streamed and then I'll tell you. To make progress. Yes. So I want to tell you something. All of us, we are not in this human body just like that. Right, we are here because we have to serve somebody. There is some purpose, agreed? By you choosing to not take action, like let's say Sunita single. Now Sunita, maybe God has assigned 1000 people who will get help from you. But for Sunita to give help to those 1000 people, Sunita first has to take action. And if Sunita chooses to stay stuck because of her fear and comfort, all those 1000 people who have been tagged to Sunita will also stay stuck. If this is a bulb on, put bio. So by you choosing to not take action, you are not just doing a disservice to yourself, you are doing a disservice to all those people who are waiting to receive service from you. So how many of you are now not going to be in that stuck zone? And I want to tell you one more point, some things I've added which were not covered yesterday, because I want to get you into that energy of action and understand that you don't have to— you know, your life will not change in one big dhamaal. Small, small things you have to do every day. You know, I am not like— on day one, I did not have a room of 1,000 mothers. How many of you are understanding this? If you are understanding, put yes. It started with 5 people, 5 mothers, 10 mothers, 15 mothers. 50 mothers, 50 became 100, 100 became 300, 300 became 400, and now it happens almost every time we touch 1000 or close to 1000. But this was not like it on day 1, and that is the problem with some of us. We start comparing our step 1 with somebody else's step 100. And then we feel overwhelmed and we are not able to take action. I want to tell you one thing. Right now, as I sit here and speak to you, there are many people ahead of me, but it doesn't matter. They're on their own journey. I'm I'm not sitting here and comparing myself to Tony Robbins. I'm not sitting here and comparing myself to Oprah Winfrey. I'm learning from them, and I'm always getting inspired when I look at them. Why? Because by doing what they are doing, they are making it possible for me to believe that that is possible for me one day. How many of you love this? If you love this, put love. So, you know, I always want to see people who are doing better than me because they make me feel that this is also possible for me. But you know, some people, they just get jealous or they get overwhelmed. And by getting jealous and overwhelmed, this is what God says: If you are in the jealous frequency, then all your skills, all your qualities, beautiful qualities that you have been naturally given— all of us have some qualities which are naturally gifted to us— all those qualities get destroyed. If this is a ball bond, put be you. Why do they get destroyed? Because you're not in the frequency to put them into action, because you are so focused on somebody else that you don't have the energy to put your skills into action. So I want all of you to put F for focus. Focus on taking action. Yes, uh, S, you want to say something? You're raising your hand.

Just one second.

Yes, please get destroyed.

Ma, actually the YouTube streaming, it is going in slow motion, so it needs to be stopped and restarted. The voice is very slow, like the frequency to put in slow motion.

Because you are so focused on somebody else sounding like a robot that you don't have to share with you something.

I just started again. It is going in slow motion.

I think it's okay now, just check. It's vision plus action equals to dream.

Yes.

All right, so now let me show you the revision slides. If you want, you can take a screenshot, but some things are extra because I'm always in my flow state, so whatever comes, I keep talking. And also, super coaches, if you can put the YouTube link in the chat. Yes, all right, amazing. Now tell me one thing. If I tell you— I'm just giving you an example— if I tell you that you have to get 100K followers on Instagram, does it sound difficult? Yes. But if I tell you that you have to post one reel on Instagram, does that sound difficult? Less difficult, correct? Not as difficult as getting 100K. Now let I— let's say I tell you don't have to post anything on Instagram. I tell you, you just have to make a video and keep it in your phone. Does that sound simpler? Yes. Now I tell you, you don't have to plan the script. In the beginning. You don't have to prepare anything. There's no topic. Jo apke man mein hai, aap achi light may make a selfie video. Does that sound even simpler? Yes. This is how we have to plan our actions. This is what I did. I can only share with you what I did. And I can tell you one thing, that if— I will never ever tell you something that I have not done. So in the beginning, make the most difficult thing sound so simple to your brain that you are able to do it. If this is a bulb on, put BU. So I, if some— I want— my target is to get to 100K Instagram. Let's say I don't care about the 100K right now. To get to 100K, I have to put on Insta, whatever. Now let's do this with children. So your aim is that your child scores better in school, correct? So let's say your child is getting 50, you want your child to get 70. To be able to help your child do better, your child should be willing to listen to you. Correct? So now you're not worried about the marks. Your, your more important step is to get to a point where your child is listening to you. Now you're thinking, how will my child listen? When will your child listen? Your child will only listen to you if your child is connected to you. Now, why— when will your child feel connected to you? When your child is not feeling scared in your presence, is having fun, or is being able to stay relaxed in your presence. So what is your main aim right now, to get the marks, or first to make your child feel good in your presence. Are you understanding how you can think and trace back? But the problem is we just want to do the end thing first. Right, so this is the first thing that we are going to start with today. So what we are going to cover today, let me share with you what are the different things. You don't have to remember it, but I'm just going to show you the slide. So today is all about action and your divine identity, which means we are going to change your Beliefs which will change your action. So, powerful communication method. I'm going to tell you how you can build connection. Then we'll do a quiz. Then, uh, emotional reset technique. Then live practice activity. We'll do a live activity together. I'm going to— a mindset shift. Leadership opportunities, which means you'll understand that as a mother you're a leader. Expand your purpose. And then I'm going to tell you, uh, about day 3 a little, you know, because your super coaches have given me a list of questions that they want me to answer. But we'll keep this for the end. So depending on how it goes, with whatever time I have left, I will answer the questions that your super coaches have given to me. Awesome. So if you are super ready for this, put SR in the chat box if you're super, super ready for this. Amazing. Now the first thing that we're going to learn about is— this is a framework, right? Yesterday we did a few frameworks, today we'll do a few more. So the first thing we are going to discuss today is the Conscious Communication Model. How many of you understand that communication is the main thing in any relationship? Whether it is husband-wife, mother-daughter, mother-son, father-son, any related— daughter-in-law or whatever, mother-in-law. Koibi relationship communication important, right? So today we are going to shift one simple thing: the way you speak. Because most conflicts at home are not about the situation. They're about your communication. If this is a bellbone, you know, we think, same situation. Let's say they're at same situation, and let's say, uh, Kaizen— am I pronouncing your name correct? Is it Kaizen or Casey? Kaizen. One second, you have to unmute.

It's kaizen.

Okay, so correct. So let's say kaizen and, uh, Samprita. Now both of them have ditto children. Let's say just an imaginary situation, dono ke bachche bilkul ditto hai, right? Now what happens in the same situation Kaizen is able to stay calm and she's able to understand her child and help her child, whereas Sampraddha, she's very exhausted. She had a very difficult day at work and she is getting mad with her child, like she's getting very annoyed, irritated. So the situation is the same for both, but based on how we respond we will end up with very different results. So for Kaisin, the child will become calm and very soon everything will be okay. For Sampritha, she will get an even worse headache, and the child will also feel more distant from the mother. So can you understand, it's not the situation that is the problem. The way we respond to the situation is the problem. And who can control your response? All of you, my intelligent, lovely mothers in the chat— me. So if something happens and things don't go the way you want it to go, who is to be blamed? Your child? Your husband? Your mother-in-law? No, right?

Me.

So Divine Mothers take responsibility. So step number 1 in the communication model is connection, because if you are not connected, you can keep talking, blabbering, nothing is happening. Now, so the first point is connect before you correct. Now, I've shared this many times. But today I'm going to tell you how can you really connect. So I'm going to give you a very simple, uh, you know, I'm going to give you some simple ideas that will help you connect. So the first thing, if you really want to connect, you have to stop asking your child to get interested in what you want them to get interested in. You have to be interested in what they are interested in. You know, like if your child likes football, start the conversation with football, not with homework. If your child likes tennis, start it with tennis. Whatever they are interested in, right? So you start with that. Also, instead of blaming your child, you have to help your child. So instead of telling your child, like, I'll give you an example. So supposing your child is not doing his homework, instead of going and saying, "You're so lazy, you're so irresponsible, you never do your homework," you can just go and tell your child that, you know, "I see you're very tired." "Tell me what happened." Or, "I see you are very distracted. Can I help you?" What did you do? You are addressing the same issue but with different words. Instead of using words that are putting blame, you are putting— you're trying to help them. Priyanka Puli, if they say nothing, it means you have to really start learning more in depth. You have to work on your energy. So Priyanka Puli, if your child is not listening to you at all, I'm not sure about what's happening, but this is what I'm sharing from my experience. Sometimes when we nag them too much or when we overcorrect them too much, they develop this thing where they become immune to whatever you are saying. And it is the same with us. No, there are some people in our life who always tell us what to do, and no matter how much we want to respect them, we are not able to respect them, and we choose not to do what they are asking us to do. How many of you have one such person? So the problem is not in you, the problem is in the way it is being communicated to you. So if your child is completely in the shutdown mode, you definitely have to learn parent and get, you know, rational, irrational parenting, the ABC of parenting, the EBP of parenting. Because it is very easy to say my child does not listen. There is no child in the world who will not want to connect with the mother. If all of you agree with me, put A for agree. It is very easy to lay the blame, and I'm not just talking about Priyanka, I'm talking about all of us in general. This is for all of us, not just her. I'm just, you know, she just brought up a good question actually. So if children are not listening, we have to understand how to help them get to a level where they are open to listening. And I will give you one thing, the re— what the most important way to connect, and this is my way which I use the most, is to have— is to spend fun time. Please write this: spend fun time with your child without any agenda. Spend fun time with your with your child without any agenda. All the time, if you're going, 'Ye karo, vo karo, ye nahi wa, vo nahi wa, you didn't do this, you didn't do that,' nobody wants to hang out with you. You know, we make ourselves the most irritating company for them, and then we expect them to listen to us. It's not going to happen, right? So first step in connection is you have to first see their emotion before you see their behavior, because the behavior is visible. So supposing your child screamed at you, now you are seeing, how dare my child disrespect me? What did you do? You only saw the behavior. But you have to see the underlying emotion. What made your child do that? Look at their expressions, because no child feels good after disrespecting the parent. So see the emotion first. Second, make them feel safe. What do we do when they are misbehaving? We behave just like them. But how can you help somebody if you are just like them? If somebody is sick with high fever, or another person with high fever can help a person with high fever, yes or no? You want a healthy person to help a person with fever. Or what do we do? My child is angry, I will get double angry. I have double fever. Put smiley in the chat box. So you have to calm down, mothers, because you're the— you have more weight in a parent-child relationship. So when your child is getting hyper, of course you're not feeling good. I understand, I'm also a mother. No mother likes to be spoken to like that. It is not a good feeling, but you shouting is not going to help you. You're going to stay calm and you can set— you can tell your child with assertion, "I see that you're not feeling good. We can speak when you feel better." I see you're not in a good mood. Let's discuss when you calm down. But we are not like— we are not going to do that. If one is Sehwag, we are Virat. Mere aur— you give me one sixer, I will give you double sixers. Yes, you can use that formula. Stop Look, listen, respond. But what do we start with? We start ulta, we start with responding. All of you do this. Stop, look, look at your child, look at their expression. They look sad, so look at their face. You will understand something is wrong inside my child. Then you listen to what they are saying. And then you respond. Response should come last, but that is what happens first. So emotions, and then understand before teaching. And we have become like, you know, we love giving gyaan, we just love it. You know, I want to tell you, beta, you should do this, I have more experience. I have seen life. I'm telling you, this is not good for you. This friend is not good for you. This girlfriend that you have, or this boyfriend that you have, you should stay away from them. But connection katham, they are like, my mother is in the lecture mode, I want to run away from her. So stop lecturing. So children will always listen better when they feel emotionally safe. How many of you feel that you want to listen to a person that you feel emotionally safe with? Otherwise the hearing is happening but nothing is going deep. So what are the things that you can do to make your child feel safe? Lower your tone, sit beside them instead of standing on their head like some sap. Some of us are literally like, like that on them, on our children. Like, we are like being your queen type energy. You're being your divine energy. Do you see most goddesses are in the seating position? They're sitting on a lotus or they're sitting on some, a swan or something. Very few goddesses you will see like Radha, Krishna, mostly because they're standing. But otherwise, all these— most gods, like Durga is also sitting on the lion. So all the goddesses are sitting, mostly. Even in her anger, she's sitting, Durga, right? So even if you're angry, you can sit. So lower your volume, make your face relaxed, relax your face. This will help you, help calm your nervous system. So now you know how to connect. The connection is to help them, not to blame them, to have fun with them, not to lecture them. To use less words. These are simple things that you can start using already in your life, and you don't have to use all together. Maybe today you— tomorrow you get up in the morning and you say, today I will refrain from lecturing. Today, whenever— today I'm challenging myself. That is a challenge I'm giving to myself. Today I am going to definitely do something fun with my child without an agenda. How many of you have been trying some of these things and you're getting great res— I have covered most of this in the courses also. Today I am going to speak in a low volume. The maximum volume— maximum volume is in my Zoom classes. Maximum volume, maximum words, both, both. I barely speak. If you meet me at home, barely. The only time I speak is kana dedije, juice dedije. So the lesser you speak, the more you can conserve your energy also. So first step is to connect, and I gave you a lot of ideas on connection. Second is to validate. What does validate mean? Supposing your child is coming and telling you, you love my elder brother more, you don't love me. What will we say? No, beta, this is not true. I love both of you. But you did not validate. You rejected what your child told you. So what, what is a trick to validate? I'll give you a simple hack. You want a simple hack? Put H for hack. I'll give you a very simple hack. Just repeat what they are saying. This is how you will start. So the first line, oh, you think I don't love you as much as your sister? I am so sorry I made you feel like that. What can I do to prove this wrong to you? How many of you think they will be in a shock? I have to tell my mother what she has to do. And then you will understand what your child wants. Because now your child will be like, okay, Mommy, you play Ludo with me. Okay, Mommy, today you are only going to sit with me, then I know you love me more. So your child will start helping you. You know, imagine if you go and tell your husband that you don't have time for me, you're only doing office work, and you're crying, and your husband is saying, yeah, din baar roti rehti ho. Kam ni karunga toh kaise chalega? How do you feel with this response? He did not validate your feelings. This is what we are doing with our children. So if you go to your husband and you tell your husband, what, you don't spend time with me, and your husband is saying, you're always crying, if I don't work, what will happen? So instead, what you have to do— instead, if your husband told you this, I'm so sorry, I, I agree, I'm always busy with work, but tell me, on a Sunday, what can I do for you? How many of you will be like, wow, what happened to my husband today? If you think, you will be just like— you'll not bother him all week. All week you will not bother him just because he gave you such a good response. So are you understanding how to validate? Mommy, I'm scared of cockroach. Don't say cockroach, what is the need to be scared? Say, oh, you're scared of a cockroach? Tell me, what about a cockroach is scary? I'm not joking. They will also understand and they'll be able to come out of their fears. Then the third step. So first step is connect, do this, anchor it in your body. First step is connect. Second step is validate. Validate, you have to use words to validate. So connect, validate, and the third is guide. Is to guide them. Guide comes last. Mothers, please remember this: guide comes last. Everybody remembers now. Nobody is going to start with guiding, which is what we are doing, and because of which we are not able to guide them also. Because if you start with guiding, your child is not listening. So connect, validate, and guide. Now, how do you guide? Not by telling, but by— fill in the blanks. Bootcamp, when I participate— not by telling, but by asking. Because you are a coach as a mother. Whether or not you choose to be certified, that's a different thing, but all of you are anyway playing a role of a coach. Now, if you learn and play the role of a coach, that's a better thing to do. Otherwise, you're playing. But understand, how do you ask good quality questions? A question that will help you to take your child to that same solution that you felt was good for your child. So let's say in the marks example, supposing your child is getting 50, you want to get your child to 70. So instead of telling padalo padalo, why don't you study, study, study, study, you can tell your child, you can ask your child, How much are you— how much do you think you can get? So your child will set a target. What, what is your plan to get there? How can I help you? What should I not do to distract you? Can you see? Because children, when they commit to something, they are more willing to do it. And not just children, everybody, all of us as human beings, We are designed like that. If we commit to something, we are more likely to do it rather than when we are being pushed to do something. You are in this call because you committed. What if they say 50 only? Start with 50 then. And if they're already getting 50, then you tell them that you already got 50, do you think you can do a little better this time? Yes or no? Clear to everybody? This is clear. Put C for clear in the chat box if you love. I'm making it very simple so that you're able to remember and use it. Connect, validate, guide. Connection, I gave you some ideas. Validation, repeat the same line. And guide, use questions, not sentences. The lesser you tell the more your child will do. You know, for all my instructions, even when I'm giving Veer instructions at home, now my natural style of talking has become like that. So I will never tell him, go switch off the light. I will always ask him, Rajveer, is it okay for you to switch off the light? I will never tell him, Rajveer, go get a glass of water. I'll ask him, Rajbir, can you please get me a glass of water? Can you notice the difference? And you know, with you guys also I do the same. I never say, Pooja, do this. Have you noticed? I will always say, Pooja, can I spotlight you? Or, Pooja, can you, can you send the link in the chat? I will never say, "Pooja, put the link," or I'll say, "Super coaches, can I request you to put the link in the chat?" I'll never say, "Super coaches, put the link." Can you see the difference? One is where you're in the, uh, order, order. Nobody likes to be ordered. People like to be respected. So when you give respect, you get respect. You give orders, you get orders. So you choose what you want. Aap samajh mai hai, why are your children ordering you all the time? Because that's what you've been giving all the time. If this is a crazy bulb on, Put CBO. I told you, leave this and sit now. That's, that's the kind of language your child will give you as well. Is everybody learning? Just a quick energy check. If you are learning, learning, learning, put yes. These are simple things but crazy, crazy impact. You know, today I went for Veer's PTM. And the teacher was asking me, what is the study, like how do you make him study at home? And I told her, I don't do anything with him at home. And I promise, I swear on God, I don't sit with him. She's like, what do you do then? I was like, I just play catch. And now these days we are playing one netter ball, like a You know, there's a niche in my house, so we do that. Ball and Uno, these are our top 3 things right now. No, because I'll tell you one thing, if you want your child to be a learning child, your child first has to be a happy child. A happy child with the belief that I am— I can do it. A happy child with the belief I can do it will automatically be self-motivated. But a happy child who is always being pushed and who's always being told, 'You are lazy, you can't do it, you're not focused, you're not sitting,' will not have the right belief and will not do it. And a sad child, even with the right belief, will not do it. And sad child, no belief, will never do anything. So all of us have to build our children to this mode— happy child with a strong belief, strong belief system. Now some of you are asking, how? First you have to become that, a happy mom with a strong belief system. No, I'm not— yeah, some of you are laughing at me. It's true. I know my face is a little funny, but this is true. But some of you have a very low belief system about yourself. I can't do it. Some of you keep telling me, I don't have the time. Your child will learn the same thing whether you tell them or not tell them. They are picking on your energy all the time. Some of you feel that you're not rich. Your child will also start feeling that. After telling so many times ki I am ke baad kujbi ganda nahi bolna hai, I get so many voice messages from you guys. Ma'am, I am very poor, from a lower class middle family. Yesterday I got— I'm not going to take the name— and then I sent her a reply. I said, first think that I am rich, I am God's child. How many of you are understanding that we are destroying our own lives by using the wrong words and creating the wrong beliefs, and then we feel stuck? So if you want your child to have the right belief system, you have to have the right belief system. You know, I want to thank my parents, especially my mom. You know, she was raising 5 kids, like 4 daughters and 1 son. Never ever in my— whatever, you know, I am 36— never ever in my 36 years of knowing her have I ever heard her say that I am tired or there is— I can't do it. Never. Even when we were packing, she was packing for like 5 of us. My father would do nothing. Like, all his work my mom would do. Nothing in the house he would contribute. He would only work and get money home, and, you know, sometimes in the evening have fun with us. But other than that, there was zero contribution of my father in raising the kids or changing the diapers or getting them ready, or even on holidays. Zero contribution. Because, you know, in those days it was like that only. So I think I got that from my mom, that I don't have this attitude where I feel I don't have the time, I can't do it. So, and she was always in a very relaxed energy. She was never in that high— you know, some people will do the work but with such crazy hyper energy. I have so much to do, this, that, this is also missing and that is also missing. So we have to let go of that because your child is watching that and they will just model you. Even without them realizing, they're picking up on this energy. So keep it simple, keep it clear, and follow this. Now we're going to do a small quiz together. It's called the Conscious Motherhood Quiz. So if all of you are ready for the quiz, put R for ready. You can take a screenshot of this if you want. One second, I'll share my screen first. Yes, you can take a screenshot of this. Awesome. So now I'm going to show you the questions. In case— try not to miss the question, but in case you miss the question, don't worry, I will show it to you again in the end. I'll not keep going back. All right. So the Conscious Motherhood Quiz. So I'm going to ask you 10 questions. You just have to give a yes or no response to these questions. So the first question: Do you sometimes shout at your child and later feel guilty about it? Just write it in your notebooks, not in the chat. Because you'll have to count the number of yeses. So write it in your notebooks. So if it's a yes, put one— yeah, one Y, like that. Do you repeat the same instruction again and again but you still feel unheard? Ab same cheez bolte ho, but bachcha sunn nahi rahi hai apki. Agar sach hai, to yes likhiye. Agar sunn nahi hai, then put no. Third, Do you sometimes feel emotionally exhausted after interacting with your child? Like, after talking to your child, you feel exhausted rather than feeling energized. And be honest, you don't have to tell anybody your score. So if it's a yes, put yes. If no, then put no. Just one second. Fourth, do you want to stay calm as a mother but you find it very difficult to stay calm? If it's yes, then put yes. Do you sometimes react emotionally first and then think later? Like, you've given the reaction and now you're thinking, 'Essa nahi karna chahiye tha.' I should not have reacted like this. So you think after your reaction has happened. Do you feel your child is changing? But you are not always sure how to guide them. You know, usually when they go from toddler to preteens, or from preteens to teenagers, or from teenagers to 21, 22, sometimes when they are getting married. So you can see a child changing, but you're not able to guide them properly. Then, do you sometimes compare yourself to other mothers and feel not good enough? Like you're comparing and then not feeling good about comparing. Do you wish your child would open up to you more emotionally? Do you wish that your child tells you more? Do you feel parenting is much harder than you expected it to be? And 10th, deep inside Do you feel there is a better version of you as a mother waiting to come out? Do you feel there is a better version of you waiting to come out? Now count your number of yeses, and you can put— for every yes, you have to put 1, for every no, you have to put 0, and count the number of ones so you will know how many 4 ones or 5 ones? How many yeses you have? Just count the number of yeses and put that number in the chat. Understood? So if you have 4 y's, then your number is 4. If you have written yes 5 times, it's 5. If you've written yes 6 times, it's 6. So let me see. My chat. Yes, so now I'm going to debrief and I'm going to tell you. 8, 9, 8, 9, 6, 4, 9, 4. Okay, so now I'm going to tell you what your score means, and none of you should feel bad, none of you should get hyper or anything. This is just awareness. Just for you to understand. So first I'm going to show you all the questions in case you missed any question. You can see, you just take a screenshot if you want to. Now let me tell you what your scores mean. Ready? So if your score— one second, let me go to that section. Yes. So if your score is between 0 to 3, then you are in a very good space as a mother. It's good if you have a low score. It's good. It means that you should learn because you can inspire others. The only thing you have to be careful of is that you don't get overconfident. As a mother, right? So 0 to 3, you should actually be a coach like me. Like, if your score is in 0 to 3 or 0 to 4 also, you are a coach material. You should start helping others. You should stop just thinking about your own child. You can— you are meant for bigger things, right? If your score is between 0 to 4 Okay, if your score is between 4 to 7, it means that you're learning, you're trying, but you are doubting yourself. You're inconsistent, you doubt yourself, and you are not like very structured. How many of you feel your scores are true for you? If you feel it's true for you, Like you're trying to learn and all of that is happening, but you are doubting yourself most of the time, or you're not— your— the structure is missing. And if your score is 8 to 10, parenting help, not in a bad way, but you need to learn, you need to hang out with mothers who are learning. And you need to connect more with each other, like not just try to do everything on your own, because if you're trying to manage all your energy on your own, you'll not be able to do it. So you want to connect more, you want to release. Maybe you're holding on to too much. Is this making sense? How many of you resonate with that? High score! 8 and above, it means you're playing the solo game. You're not trying to connect, you're trying to deal with your emotions on your own, and that's why you're feeling so stuck. And you're not even learning consistently, you're not learning from your courses, you're not coming for the live calls, and that's why your score is so high. So you got— this is just to create awareness, not to make anybody feel bad. But how many of you understand that only when we get aware can we do what is required to do? So your aim is to lower your score. If you love this, put love. It's a simple exercise, but it will give you a lot of insight on where you are. So stop doubting yourself, mothers. Learn, take action, put yourself in environments where you can keep growing. Now, okay, somebody is asking, how can I be more consistent? So now let me tell you, how many of you— okay, let me ask you, not tell you. I told you, you know, the best way to guide is to ask. How many of you are consistent with your sleeping? Ki rot soote hain? If you sleep every day, put yes in the chat box. Good. How many of you eat every day? How many of you give food to your husband every day? How many of you give food to your child every day? So you're not an inconsistent person, you're not an inconsistent mother. If you are inconsistent with your learnings or with your learning, it is because you don't care for yourself. You have put yourself last on your list, and you don't even know you're doing this. Because let me tell you one thing, wearing good clothes and looking good on the outside doesn't mean you're taking care of yourself. I know this from my experience. You know, when you get ready and you look pretty and you look good and you're going out and meeting friends That is indulgence, that's not care. So, you know, you're looking good, you're taking care of everybody in the family, everybody's thinking you're happy, but inside you're irritated, frustrated, feeling unfulfilled. So the problem is not consistency. The problem is priority. You have to make yourself the most important person in your life, even before your child. You are the sun, and from you, you will give light to your child, you will give light to your husband, to your mother-in-law, father-in-law. But agar aapka bulb hi dim hai, So you, from a sun, you have turned into a moon. Now you have to borrow light from somebody because you don't have any light of your own. So I want all of you to understand, put this in the chat box: I am consistent. Because remember, we will not put anything wrong after I am. I am consistent. And this actually means that I love myself. You know what we do? I can't ignore my child, I can't be on the screen. Excuse me, you're not ignoring your child. You are ignoring your child if you are on Instagram and shopping online, but if you're on the screen learning, you're not ignoring your child, you're helping your child. I rather have you spend less time with your child than you going and taking all your irritated energy and giving it to your child. And that is the mother I had become. After I gave birth to my child. 24/7 hours with my child. I'm thinking I'm such a good mother, I'm giving so much time for my child, but what am I doing to that little baby? It's become like some toy, some project of experiment, because I have nothing to do. So all my focus is on that my bachcha has not eaten this, my bachcha has not slept, my bachcha is not doing this. Aur kuch hai nahi sochne ke liye. Aap fir bachche toh apne— they will do things according to their plan. They're not going to follow our plan, small babies. So I'm trying to feed him khichdi, he's spitting. I'm trying to put him to sleep, he's fully awake, smiling. What is happening? I'm feeling frustrated, and all of that frustration is going on my child only eventually. So before you start spending time with your child, start spending some time with yourself, learning and educating yourself as a mother. So you giving 2-3 hours less to your child is better than you giving 24 hours to your child. Give 22 hours. If you love this, put love in the chat box. Now we will play some games just for fun. All right, so this is fastest finger first. Yesterday I forgot. So we had to push it forward to today. So I'm going to ask you some questions. First, let me load my chart till the end. I'm going to ask you some questions and the first person to answer will get a prize. Okay, just one second. Let me also Open it. All right, you have to finish this. Before you judge a man, walk a dash. Walk a mile, but there's more than mile. Walk a mile. I think one person got it. One, one, one. Yeah, Ramya. Ramya Raghavan. I think you're the first one if I'm not right. Yeah, Ramya Raghavan, you're the winner. So let's congratulate Ramya. And Ramya, you're going to win this. You're going to get this cup and you're going to get this bag of Supermom. So let's put— and Ramya, please put your phone number in the chat box. Please put your phone number in the chat box, Ramya, so that the super coaches can note it and they can take your address and ship the gift to you. So let me see if I can find Ramya and spotlight her. Okay, her video is off. Okay, the Ramya, can you turn on your video so then we can see your face? Yes, so that's Ramya, everybody, and she's won the first round and her daughter's with her as a good luck.

Hi, thank you so much.

Most welcome, you earned it.

And now, yeah, but I live in the UAE, but I'll give you an Indian address. Yes, correct. Yeah, thank you.

And now the second question is game 2. You have to name the person who said this: the best way to predict your future is to create it. Who said it? Oprah, so cute.

Nahin.

Not got the right answer till now. Not Riddhi, come on. Okay, yeah, we got it, we got it, we got it. Lincoln. Rashmi Sahi. Rashmi Sahi wins this one. So Rashmi, you get this one. You can also turn on your camera and put your phone number. Make sure you share your phone number in the chat. And then the third one. Yes, so this is Rashmi, everybody. And Rashmi, you won the second round. So let's see what you got. Even I don't know. One second. So you won this mug and this tote bag. So this will be delivered to your address. I am a proud mother. I'm becoming. So you'll get this mug. And now let's put congratulations for Rashmi. Rashmi, please share your phone number in the chat. And super coaches, please note their names. And then the third thing, I'm just doing this for fun. Game 3. Fastest answer wins. Tryophobia is the fear of— it is the fear of— Let's see who got it. Wow, I have so many. Arzu Chogule got it. Arzu is the winner. Arzu. Yes, you can also turn on your camera. All mothers, why are your cameras off? It's a boot camp. Keep your cameras on, show us your pretty faces. So Arzu, you have won. It is the fear of holes. So Arzu, you will get this gratitude journal, Believe You Can, and You Are Halfway There, and this flask. If you guys think this was fun— Arzu, please share your phone number in the chat. If all of you had fun, put fun in the chat box if this was fun. Amazing. Just want to create some life energy. And now I want to share with you a very— I want to do a very simple activity. And then I'm going to tell you why am I making you do this. So all of you, if you have a bottle, can you pull a bottle? If you have a bottle or something next to you, and then you hold this bottle on your palm like this. Quickly, quickly, quickly. Meenu, get something at least. Just like sitting like all the mothers who keep complaining, no, my child is not focusing. All of you, I'm watching you. Okay, so get a bottle and hold it like this. Now keep holding it for some time. Not like that, not like this, not urvi, not like this, like this. Open your palm, open your palm and hold it. Now what will happen? For some time we can hold it, but I wish we had too much time. After some time it will pain, your hands will pain, especially if you don't have support. So this is the same with emotions. If you hold it for too long, it will pain. But is the emotion problem? Is bottle the problem? Bottle is not a problem. Bottle is a good thing. No, we drink water. Water keeps us healthy. Water keeps us alive. Water allows us to stay longer. So water is not the problem, but the problem is we are holding it for too long and in the wrong way. Just like that, emotions are not problems. They are very good things. That, that's energy in your body. Emotion is energy in your body. It is here to help you, it is here to serve you, but the problem is instead of using it to your advantage, you hold it in you for too long. If you love this, put love. So this is a problem when you hold it for too long. Now some of you will say, what to do? I'm going to tell you what to do. So this is again a very simple activity, but before the activity, let me tell you what— so understand emotional reset. I'm going to give you 3 steps. So first, you understand emotions are nothing but it is energy in your body, and energy is a good thing. So getting, you know, Getting angry is not a problem. It is not a weakness. It's biology. But not knowing how to manage your anger, that's a problem. So we have to learn how to regulate our emotions, how to reset our emotions. So I'm going to give you 3 very simple steps. Ready? So the first step for all you, all of you, step number 1, do this. We did this yesterday, right? Stop. You have to stop talking when you are emotionally high. If somebody has hurt you, don't try to clear things that time. Don't try to speak to anybody when you are emotionally very charged. Because when you're emotionally very charged, your intellect— your intelligence goes very low. So when you're emotionally charged, step number 1 is to stop talking. Step number 2, and I should not do this earlier, but now I really follow it and it works, is breathe. Because there's a full science to it. When you breathe, you send a signal to your brain that there is no danger, when you breathe calmly. So you're forcing your brain to believe that there is no danger. And if you're forcing your brain to believe there is no danger, your brain will not make you react. Usually the brain makes us react or makes us get angry When the brain is suspecting there is a danger. If this is a Bulborn, put BO in the chat box. So first is step— uh, sorry, stop. First step is to stop. Second stop— uh, second step is to breathe. And then the third step, difficult for some of us But very important for all of us is to lower your volume. So now you know what to do next time when you are emotionally very high, especially with your husbands and kids. First is to stop, second is to breathe, third is to lower your volume. Now you've done it, but the emotion has not disappeared. The emotion is still there, right? Because just because you are not expressing your emotions does not mean that it will disappear. So what do you do? Your emotions are now inside you, just like steam is stuck in a pressure cooker. So you have to release it. And how do you release it? You never go back to the person who gave it to you, which is what we do all the time. Is this making sense? Do not— so if your mother-in-law did something, don't go back to her. If your husband did something, don't go back to him. You release it with EPH Moms. I'm not joking. You release it and then you go back to your husband. But don't go and release on them. If this is a bulb on— this is where most relationships get choppy. And you know, divorce doesn't happen on— in one day. It is a series of multiple choppy interactions. So problem doesn't happen in one day, it's a series of things that we did. So now you know how to regulate your emotions. Stop, Breathe. What is the third step? Tell me. Lower your voice. Thank you. Stop, breathe, lower your voice. Step number 4, release with someone else. And then step number 5 is go back and have a calm conversation with whoever you want to, whether it's your husband or your child or whoever. Okay, and now we will— and I'll show you another activity. Okay, do this. Let me give you these activities so that you'll remember. Take both your palms and rub it, rub them, rub them. What is happening? Your palm is getting warm, hot. Now you put your hot palms on your cheeks. You can smile. Smiling is good. Yes, come on, girl. Look, look at me and look at you. Somebody is doing this, like, seriously. What is happening here? What? I'm not doing this, I'm doing this, and I'm smiling also. Yes, come on. Now what has happened? Is the heat still there or it's gone? It's gone, right? So this is what, what is possible for all of us. You can get angry in an instant You can also choose to calm down in an instant. But the most of— but most of us, we get angry in an instant, we take 3 hours to calm down. You know who you are, you know your name. Somebody's put 3 weeks. I am very worried about your husband. Seriously, sending some healing energies to your husband. If you are taking 3 weeks to calm down, so difficult. Come on, 1 minute heat, 1 minute calm. Can all of you do it? If you can do it, put yes. All right, now I'm going to play a few videos, just one or two videos, because you know I love these videos. And then we'll quickly get into a very interesting activity, so nobody leaves before the activity. Just want to play a few videos, and before that I want to share this. This was a message I got on Instagram, and it was so appropriate that I put it on the slide. Look at this message, exactly what I keep telling you guys, by Buddha. No one crosses your path by chance. Some arrive as mirrors, some arrive— some as medicine, some as messengers you won't recognize until the lessons land. Every encounter shifts something— a belief, a boundary, a version that you needed to die or be reborn. The timing is never random. The soul orchestrates what the mind cannot explain. You pay attention to who appears when you think you are done growing. How many of you think you're done growing? Hopefully nobody in this room. They might be the reminder, the trigger, or the key that unlocks the next door. How many of you love this? If you love this, love in the chat. Exactly our situation. No, we just met each other and we realized that we have to grow with each other. And I, like I keep sharing, that nothing is random, it is all divinely planned. So I thought that I should put this. Now this, how many of you have seen this video?

Everyone's journey is different. Postpartum hits you in different ways, emotionally, physically. And in that moment, it's difficult for the woman going through it to give herself grace. It takes time. It's taken me 6 months. I'm not having this moment.

I don't know why I'm having it on your show, but it's a fact.

It takes time.

For 6 One simple mindset to yourself, just give yourself grace because you realize you're doing so much for everyone else, you forget about the relationship you need to have with yourself.

What's changed since my baby's been born is I finally found the time to nurture that relationship that I need to have with myself.

And it's probably the best thing I've done for myself.

I've learned to set boundaries. I've learned not to do critical comments. Conversations with myself. I learned not to focus on fear, and I've had to teach myself all of these things in these 6 months.

How many of you love it? Exactly. You know, we need, uh, to, you know, not criticize ourselves, to come out of our fears, to connect with who we are. This is what motherhood is. And you know, she's a celebrity, she's very famous. For me, how many of you understand that, you know, motherhood is the same for everybody? So it doesn't matter whether you're rich or you're famous or you're successful. All of us need to learn. If you agree with me, put A for agree. It's not just your problems that should make you learn, but no matter who you are, if you are a mother, you have to get out of these things of criticizing yourself and worrying and being in fear, being stuck. And just give yourself some grace. This one also I liked. She was just saying the things we, we keep talking about.

Helped me go through these 6 months going through postpartum was just my girl gang, that sisterhood, the mom network. Oh my God, it's that one group of people who just know what you're going through. It's like you feel so seen, so heard, so understood there. The way it's been stigmatized that, "Arey, tumhi toh kosh hona chahiye." Of course, nobody is taking that away. She'll do anything for her baby. That's a given, right? But she's allowed to vent. She's allowed to feel everything she's feeling. Her feelings are valid because look at what all you go through. Your hormones plummet. You go through literally like it's We say life-changing, it is.

Yeah, and it is.

And it doesn't just stop after you give birth, it actually begins.

How many of you feel that EPH is that network for you now, the mom network? Put EPH in the chat box. So, you know, we need a network. We cannot do do parenting alone. So first time I have really liked some celebrity talk about parenting. I used to only like Sushmita Sen a little bit, but after that I think Kiara Advani is the closest because at least she's talking sense. One second. And this one, rather than waste your time, listen very carefully. This is about people who are not able to make decisions. Rather than waste your time being stressed over making the right decision, make the decision right.

Randomly choose. Now you can randomly choose if you want an Almond Joy or a Snickers.

Nobody's gonna care, right? It's the exact same thing about getting married or or not, taking the job or not. You can only live one life. If there were some magical way that I could live a life as somebody who's had 3 kids and somebody who hasn't had kids, maybe I can make a comparison. But you don't have that available to you. So I say to my students, should you go to Harvard or should you go to Yale? So they made a decision to go to Harvard. So let's say it's terrible. 'Oh, I wish I had gone to Yale.' There's no way of knowing that Yale wouldn't have been worse, better, the same. And that's why regret is so mindless, because the choice you didn't take, you're presuming, would have been better. What does this mean? She's saying that people are not able to make decision because they are always confused between whether I should or I shouldn't. So she's giving very good examples. Supposing you have one child and you're thinking, I want— I wish I had another child, that would have been better. So she's saying that, how do you know that would have been better? You're just imagining it would have been better. So the idea is to make a decision and then to make yourself feel that this is the best. I have to make this decision the best decision for me. So it's not about whether the decision is right or wrong. The thing is, are you able to make that the best decision for yourself? So she's also giving another example about Yale and Harvard. So you go to Harvard and then you may be not having a good experience because Harvard is so difficult, and you're thinking maybe Yale would have been better. But there's no way of— way for you to know that because you cannot go to Yale. So what's the point thinking about Yale? So you are in Harvard. Now you make your experience in Harvard the best experience. How many of you love this? I loved it. You know, it's so simply explained that, you know, how you can stop being confused. And I feel I am exactly here only because of this attitude that she talks about. When I make a decision, I never doubt my decision. Because it's not the decision that will decide, you will decide whether it will work for you or not. One more, I'll play. Wait, one last. How many of you are liking these videos? How do you know when you are on the right path and what dream belongs what belongs to you, or what husband belongs to you, or what job belongs to you. You know you're on the right path. Here's your clue: you're not put in a position to betray yourself. You don't betray yourself anymore. You're not put in a position where you feel like you have to negotiate your sense of integrity, which is an act of betrayal. Your heart, an act of betrayal. You don't feel like you have to compromise who you are. It feels right. Yes, how many of you understand that this was such a difficult question but answered in such a simple way? How do you know that you are on the right path? Answered in one line: you are not feeling betrayed, you don't have to compromise on your values. And this is what happened with me. You know, I compromised on my values in the beginning, you know, because my value was to maybe grow and to serve, but I was only home not doing anything, and that's why I was feeling that everybody is betraying me or nobody loves me. This is a bull bond. Put BO in the chat box. Yes, so now ready for the activity? But before I give the activity, everybody has to give me a promise. Pee pee pinky promise that you're gonna do it, otherwise I'll not tell. And you're making a promise and God is watching, like always. God is always watching. Right, done. Everybody is given. And nobody— why are mothers also leaving in the promised time? Okay, so here's what we are going to do for this activity. So I want you to— I'm going to play some music, okay, for the next 5 minutes, and we are not going to learn, we are just going to take action now, right? Because growth will only happen when we are taking action. So right now, for the next 5 minutes, I'm going to play some music and I want you to choose one action that you have been avoiding for a very, very long time. Something which will push you out of your comfort zone totally. Something like you going, hugging your mother-in-law and kissing her. Okay, if you have never sent an I love you voice note to your father, or you having a difficult conversation with your husband Nobody is going to do— or your sibling, if you need to clear some things with your sibling, or secretly you've not liked them because you've always been compared. So having that conversation, no, trupti pal, if you can't hug and kiss her, that's exactly what you have to do. You have to do things that you can't do. Is this clear to everybody? I'm serious. This is your chance, and if you play at 100%, you will see yourself, you know, come out in beautiful ways. And I want you to do it right now. I don't want— I'm not going to give you time. You're going to do it right now, and then we'll come and talk about it. Right? If you're not at— if you're with nobody, then you call them and you do something. With kids, I, you know, with kids, I don't want you to go and say sorry to your child and hug your child. You do all that, all that, all the time. I want you to really do something which is uneasy. And nobody is going to say, I can't think of anything, because if you are saying you can't think of anything, then you have to work on your creativity. All of us have something we can do. Not control anger. Do something out of your comfort zone. Not driving. You can't do driving now. In the next 5 minutes. Is this clear to everybody what you have to do? Have a difficult conversation. Hug your mother-in-law. Kiss her. Keep hugging her that she feels, kya ho gaya jisko. If you need to apologize to them, you know, like I'll give you some examples. I think Swati Tyagi, last time she left a message in her family group, if I remember correctly. Then there's another mother who, uh, kissed her in-laws, her mother-in-law. Another mother, she sent a message to her co-sister. So I'm going to play some music. It is 7:42 and you can go do your thing and come back at 7:47. I want all of you to get up. Doesn't matter whether you're gold, platinum, or you've done it in the past. You have to do something new this time. Is everybody ready? If you're ready, put R for ready. Yes, some of you already done it, great. Those of you have not done it, please get up and move. Get up, get up, get up! I see some of you are just sitting. Come on, move! It's action time. Vidya Rani, all of you get up. If you're sending a message, it's okay. Get up and send a message also. Get into that action. Don't be seated in the same spot for the next 2-3 minutes. Get up, do your thing, and come back. Get up, get up, get up! No, right now! All of you have to do something right now! Priya Datta, get up, get up! Your child is crying. I like to move and move it.

I like to move and move it.

Can't dance, do something crazy. Dancing is not crazy. Dance is like you have to do something out of your comfort zone. Yes, you should do something that makes you cry. If you're not crying, you've not done a good job. You failed in the activity. It means you did something comfortable. It just begun, big action. Yes, if you're crying, it's completely okay. Please release. Jasmine Kaur, I'm very proud of you. If you did something, it means you really allowed yourself to step out of your comfort zone.

You know, hey yo, Moto Moto in the house, I'm about to turn it out.

All right, come back those of you who've done it, and I want some of you to share what you went in short. Okay, let's see, raise your hand. Raise your hand if you had a breakthrough moment and you would like to share your breakthrough. Let's see. Arzu. Yes, Arzu.

Yes, thank you, ma'am, for spotlighting. Yes, uh, I have good relation with my mother-in-law, but sometimes In that rage of anger, sometimes I shout at her that I feel very guilty afterwards. So I kissed her and hugged her and I said sorry. She also felt very nice. She told, 'You are my daughter only.' Yes, how do you feel? Yeah, I'm feeling relieved.

And do you feel that your relationship will never be the same now? It's going to be different just because of that one hug?

Yes, yes.

Thank you so much.

Thank you, thank you, man.

Love this. Let's put A for amazing for Arzu. Kaizen.

Hi, ma'am.

Hi, guys.

I, I don't know I— when the last time I said I love you to my dad, and it was— I don't even remember in childhood when I said it.

So right now I didn't call him, I've texted him and I've told him I'm in a class where I'm supposed to do it. I couldn't call and say it, but okay, so call and tell him now and then come back and tell us that you called him. You have to really get out of your comfort zone. So just call him and please don't say that it's a class activity. Just do it like you're doing it. Just say, I want— I'm not telling you, I did an event. I paid 13 lakhs for 3 days for that event. It's called MTS. And there was a person on the stage, 55, I think it was all age groups. And he was crying because he— his father left him and he never said I love you to his father. And it was his only wish that I hope I had done it. So I want you to do it. Even if you cry on the phone, it's okay. You know, every dad likes to hear that. So I want you to do it and then come back and tell us you did it. Okay, do it, do it. Come on, Preeti Shukla.

Hi, ma'am. Hi, Preeti. I've had a very typical relationship to India, uh, but, uh, I stay in UAE, or Muslim too many long hugs. But with dads, it's never happened, you know, to that level. Yes. So, uh, activity maybe, but, uh, yes, yeah, yeah. So I, I feel that which we don't mean, but you know how to get the thing you want, you know. They say mean things and they think, you know, and that's what I had thought, but my parents didn't budge. And you know, I didn't want to say But now you're feeling happy. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

So much. Thank you, Riddhi, for doing it. And forgive your parents and ask for forgiveness. This is one bond where we don't want any, any congestion in the parent-child.

I, I do hope, but you know, saying it different than imagining it's done, you know. So thank you so much today for doing it.

Love it. How many of you can feel how light the energy has become? We are crying, we are healing, but so many relationships have healed by just— in just 2 minutes, in 2 minutes of courage. Kate ki?

Hello, ma'am. So you just showed us a clipping of Kiara Advani, how she's gone through after the pregnancy deliveries and all. I think that's where things went wrong with me as well, and I haven't had a chance to kind of come out of it even though my kids are 14 and 11 now. I mean, I wouldn't blame it on— it's not like acute depression or something, but I just felt that I'm in Dubai and my in-laws were, you know, in Vietnam at that time, and they were just retiring, so they could have come to me and helped me out with my you know, my 6-month-old. But they, they chose to be in India at that time. And so that stuck to me, and it was not easy for me to let go of that thing, although they could see that, you know, I needed them at that time. And, uh, so since then— and obviously my sister—

so what did you do today?

So I messaged my mother-in-law today because she's in India at the moment. She just left last week from here. So I messaged her saying that I know things are not very at the comfort zone, but just— I didn't say I love you, but I did say I respect you deep down, and I would truly like our relationship to be on an understanding and respectful phase. Wow, that's my first step though. Thank you so much.

And did she respond?

Thank you, ma'am. Thank you. Truly grateful for that.

Amazing. Love this. Let's put A for amazing for Kate. Anybody who had a very strong emotional— just wave at me. Shabana. Shabana, share. Just share what you did. Don't get into the whole backstory. Just tell me what you did. Shabana.

Hello, ma'am. Uh, I'm very emotional now.

Uh, all of us—

I had joined— yeah, I had joined my EPH, uh, since just one and one month, and I learned a lot. And, uh, since when I am in EPH, after 15 days, I was, uh, feeling very regretful, uh, to my son. Actually, I have joined this EPH for my, uh, son's screen time. But after coming to EPH, I come to know that many things have gone wrong through myself. So I was just thinking of saying to my son that I have not behaved you properly, means I'm having a parental issues. I won't— he is around 20 years now.

Okay, great.

So I was feeling guilty also. So since 20 years I am unable to handle it properly. Actually, since childhood he was very hyperactive. I have went to many psychiatrists and counseling sessions.

Shabana, what did you do today?

I, I just— when you, uh, told, I just called him. He didn't pick up the phone, but I messaged him. I record— I sent him a voice recording, but, uh, when I was sending, but he just called back to me and I, I talked with him. I say sorry for my misbehavior. And he just said, it's okay, just leave it. He was outside, he was going to meet his friends.

But just two lines I said to him, and I told him that just we will talk after, uh, when you will come to—

when you come to home. But it's so releasing feeling, ma'am, I can't tell you. Feeling like I was just imagining since 8 to 10 days. I told also to Shraddha that I am making my mind to stay with him. Just I'm— I was finding out the proper time or proper chance to talk with him. I was disconnected and I'm trying to connect with him, but I was not able to do it properly. I was working on myself and today just you gave me that chance.

And I did it.

I'm so happy that I had done it.

Yes, thank you so much. Amazing.

And my thanks are because I am struggling since 15 years because he was a hyperactive child.

I tried to many ways, counseling, and what you are doing now, that thing I was searching since many years, and, uh, That is, I can say, God's grace. Allah has chosen me now to become in the EPEJ family, and I am thankful to God also and you also.

Thank you very much, ma'am.

How many of you can feel that there is no age to parenting now? Or some of you were telling me, ma'am, my children are already 21, 22. There is no age to this. We'll do one last Okay, let's do puja, Wali.

Thank you, ma'am. Thank you so much. Yes, ma'am, I just now called my mother-in-law. Actually, she stayed with us only, but just now she went to my sister-in-law's house. So I say, I called her and I said thank you for everything, whatever you do. Whenever we task, so I, I never said to her. So I feel very happy that she's also got happy that I mentioned her whatever she do.

Amazing! So awesome! So I wish we could go on and on and on. So those of you who took action, all the mothers who moved, you will grow very, very fast. Not because you are better than somebody else, but just because you took action. And how many of you feel that your happiness, your good life, your dream life is out of your comfort zone? If you can feel that, put feel. That yes, my good life, my happy life is out of my comfort zone. So, you know, every minute such things will show up, and you just have to do it. Again it will show up, just do it. And every time you do something which is difficult for you, you will come out as a better person. And how many of you would like to be that person? Put B for better in the chat box. So, you know, I like— for me, you know, this boot camp, I used to not do these boot camps earlier, but then I told my friends that, you know, I want to challenge myself and I want to do it in a few hours. They do like mornings 9 till 6 7 in the evening. And I was not challenging from a place of arrogance, but it was a challenge to myself from a place of growth. Because how many of you understand that in 2 hours you got many breakthroughs? If you got many breakthroughs in 2 hours, put many in the chat box. So now for you it is only 2 hours. For me, it took me 2 weeks. Why? Because understand, it is very easy to deliver in 10 hours, but it takes a lot of planning and you have to bring in a lot of simplicity to deliver so many frameworks in just 2 to 4 hours, like yesterday and today combined. So, you know, you never stop challenging yourself and you always push yourself to do more to be better. So never tell yourself, this is it. Is this making sense to everybody? Just one small action is going to heal so many relationships. And for those of you who did not take action, you know, maybe, you know, there are three types of people. Some people who are thinking, this is so silly, why should I do it? Or some people who are saying, I will do it later. This is going to tell you something about yourself. Some people are thinking, I don't know what to do. So that's a lack of creativity. And some people know that they have to do, but they are still stuck in their fear and they're still not taking action. So how many of you think that's a big problem? If you think that's a big problem, put B for big. And you have to solve that problem for yourself. You cannot live like this. You are worth much more because your future is not going to build— be built on perfect conditions. It is built on you taking small steps which are difficult for you. Like, you know, so many mothers in this room are in the Platinum membership. It was not comfortable for them. How many of you got into the Platinum and it was not comfortable for you? Put me in the chat box that I got into the Platinum and it was not comfortable for me. Like, it was not easy. Maybe because you didn't have permission, maybe husband was not agreeing. Maybe you didn't have the money, all those reasons. Maybe you think you don't have the time. But how many of you are feeling very proud of yourself that you did it? Put proud in the chat box. And how many of you think it is the best, best, best decision of your life? Put best in the chat box. That the best thing I did. So that's what I'm trying to emphasize here, that Your good life, your dream life is beyond your comfort. And you know, if you have to take discomfort for 1 month, for 1.5 months, but you can feel better for the rest of your life, how many of you think it's a smart thing to do? If you think it's a smart thing to do, put ST in the chat box. Why am I sharing this? Because now I'm going to tell you what your super coaches have given me, a list of questions from you guys. So those of you who have asked these questions, please hang around. And those of you who are already in that zone, all the gold mothers in the room, put gold in the chat box if you are a gold mother in this room. Put gold. So I'm going to answer some questions which your super coaches have given me because you have been asking them these questions. So I'm going to answer them because this might help you make a more informed decision tomorrow. Because I hope you remember, tomorrow is decision day. If you remember, put R for remember. And as a mentor, as a coach, I'm doing my absolute best to help you make a decision. Because if you're in this room with me right now, it means you need it, you want it. Either you need it, or I think everybody needs it, but you guys also want it. But there are some resistances that will keep us blocked. What decision, ma'am? The decision to be in Platinum. Who's this? Shree Vidya, where have you been, madam? So cute. Awesome. All right, so let me answer a few questions. And what I'm going to do is instead of me answering, I'm going to ask my mothers to answer for you. Is that okay? So that, you know, because it doesn't matter what I say, what matters is what mothers like you are saying. Is that okay with everybody? Because it's a boot camp, so we'll keep it interactive. Riddhi, if everybody is ready, give me some energy. Ready, ready, ready. Only I should be tired, none of you should be tired. You're just like sitting and chilling on your seats. All right, so the first question: I'm very new to gold membership, can I join? First of all, you must join. Now I understand if you are new because I'm a mother and I know how it feels that you join one level and suddenly you are told that there is another level. I feel you, but understand, this is not something I'm doing on you on purpose. This is something— it's a structure, and I always talk about Platinum, but it just might have happened that you are getting to know too much about it as soon as you've come, only because our showcase is tomorrow, right? And tomorrow is day 3 of the boot camp also. Why should you immediately join? Because you just have to make the first deposit. and the remaining you are getting 15 months to make equal monthly installments. So, and if you don't make that deposit, then next month the value of the Platinum goes up because it will go up every month. And this is— so if you are here, you are very lucky. And there are mothers who have directly joined Platinum, so you guys have at least experienced my courses, you have experienced me, you've experienced the boot camp. So you know all of this is for real. Anybody in this room who directly joined the Platinum? Saali, we have too many. So these people are— first, let's put A for amazing for them to be very gutsy. In 2 hours of interaction, they directly got into Platinum. So yes, Saali.

So I was like not even aware of who you are, ma'am. On that day, it was the first time that I saw your ad on Instagram, and that day in the afternoon itself, I was feeling that, what is my life? What is happening? Where is this going? I was about to quit everything just for my daughter because I want— I was getting frustrated at her. She was just 3 years old, and I came to the showcase, and this is when I realized that, like, instead of fixing things around me, I should maybe start working on myself. And that realization was something which blew my mind. Like, I knew it, that something needs to be done, but what was it? A clear structure a clear framework and plus getting certified, I was like, okay, this is like something new. It was like a ray of hope for me because I was suffering from this depression for like 5 years after my father's passing away. And this was like the biggest ray of hope for me. And when I came into Platinum, it was like the best decision of my life. I like, I feel that something happened that day and I came on Instagram that day in that point of time and I was the first one. I don't know, ma'am, if you remember, I was the first one to pay the deposit.

Obviously I don't remember, but thank you.

My heart was racing, my heart was racing literally. And I like, every time I used to be the first at doing everything. And even when you launched the book, I was the first one to purchase it. I was like, okay, okay, this is something new. And my trajectory just went going on and on and on. And now, like, after learning for a year, in 2024 and '25, I joined the leadership. Then in every mission cycle, by taking action and by your guidance, I started getting promoted, and now I'm a Super Coach. I was like, now I'm literally shivering. 2025 was like my, my year, I can say.

Amazing.

That was when I took action for real. Amazing. If you take action for yourself, it will happen for you. So this is what I want to say. We just keep ourselves stuck, but that day, that, that evening, I took the first decision of my life for myself without asking anyone anything. I just gave myself the permission to grow, and that is how I'm here.

Amazing, love it. Okay, I don't have the money, but I want to be in Platinum. Anybody like that in this room can wave at me. Anybody who didn't have the money? Okay, Asha Yadav.

Hello, ma'am, good evening.

Hi, Asha, where are you going?

Function. So I'm in desi look, my Rajasthani look.

Very different. I could not recognize you from your corporate look in this desi look. All right, okay.

Yes, yes. So, um, I really want to say thanks to you from bottom of my heart. Because when I joined Platinum, yes, that was the situation. I borrowed that money from my mother, from my friends. I joined the Platinum. I was very like, I was not resisting because your mission is now my mission. I resonated with your mission and that was a divine intervention. And I was collecting that money for some other courses. This is calling from my heart. So first I invested that money in this course, in EPH, and then I managed money, or that was different. But I was like, my bank, my bank, 100 rupees, but I trusted that and I joined Platinum. And after joined Platinum, from no money to I have, you know, received my 10 lakh Club Award. And, and I, you know, completed my leadership journey from leader to Super Coach, to Super Coach Graduate, and now I'm building my community. And that is all because of your trust on me.

So all about your English, like you were not speaking in English. How many of you think that Aasha is speaking very fluent English? She would only speak in Hindi. Look at her now. Amazing.

When I joined EPH I don't have confidence to speak in English.

I—

but speaking, not even, you know, with a smaller kid, that was not possible for me back then. But after joining EPH, just by connecting with community and the way you have created the entire system, have helped me to become who I am today. So my deepest gratitude to you, and my request to all the mothers, my request, 0.0001% chance, your life will, you know, entirely you will feel the shift. Your life will transform, definitely. So it's a calling. If you are feeling like this is for me, please come and join.

Amazing. Thank you so much, Asha. How many of you can feel? You know, now my plan is just snappy question. I'll just get you guys to answer and then I'll put my link. Come to Platinum. No showcase, nothing. This is my plan for 2026. 200 success stories. Watch the videos of my Platinum mother. You want to make money, go watch mothers who have made money. You want to heal relationship, go watch relationship videos. You want screen time videos, go watch that. And pura dekhe, then I will give the link, deposit link. Deposit, make the payment. Because how many of you understand that, you know, the biggest success for any product is when people using the product say good things about it? Then you don't have to try. I think I'm at the zone where I don't have to try. If you— and that's why very— I keep saying this also, you don't choose it, you lose it. Because I'm so proud of this, because of— not because I created it, but because it's creating such beautiful results for every single mother. I think it is too expensive. Who is going to tell? Priyadharya. Not at all. I will tell you this, dassaal pehle bhi agar aapko koiye de deta mera Platinum at this value, I will stop doing Platinum. I'm going to increase it till it becomes 5 lakhs for a year. And I don't just say it. You guys are very lucky that you're getting it at 3.45 with lifetime app access, lifetime community, and 3 hours of my time where I show up for you every single day. And I don't show up for you, I also show up for your kids. And it's like for your full khandaan, like all your kids and your husband. So okay, Priya, you tell, I'll not talk.

Yes, so, uh, hi Riddhi, thank you so much for giving me chance. And, um, all the mothers, uh, who are feeling that the price is high and, uh, it's I will tell you one thing, um, I am a working mother and I earn my own money. Still, I was not able to take the decision when I had to spend on myself. Uh, trust me, I asked Krishna to give me 3 signals why that I should go for this course or no. Um, not course, actually I should go for Riddhi Deorah or no. And I immediately got that 3 signs. And, um, the breakthroughs that I have got after coming into EPH, uh, there's a list of breakthroughs I would say, but to name a few, uh, and which I am very happy— relationship breakthrough. My relationship with my husband, my in-law has changed drastically. Career-wise, I have grown beautifully. I had never thought that I will, um, switch into multiple jobs and grow so much money-wise and have my own businesses, which is also doing good now. So in these 2 years, I have grown in leaps and bounds in terms of career. Also spiritually, um, I could visit Krishna's places like Vrindavan, Varsana, and Sreenaji, and I could get Ladugopal at my place, which was not really possible for me. So, uh, and there are many more to list. One thing I would say is, after coming into EPH, I thought that I want to become a better parent, or I want to become a coach, or like I had a list of things. But, uh, what changed is me, the way I thought about things, my thought process. That's what attracted all the good things around me. So it will not— I'm not saying that you will become a better parent or you will start earning more money, or— but that you will start attracting, you will start feeling good about whatever you have, you will be more grateful. So agar aapke paas, uh, if you have money, just go for it. If you don't have money, just wish for it. Money will be arranged. Because many bhot sari mothers dekhien ya pe jinki paas money nahi tha, gold sell kar ke bhi, they got into it and now they are earning into crores. So if you have the chance and if Krishna is giving you signal, just go for it. Amazing.

I want to say my life has become so easy. Thank you, girls. All right, I really want to do it, but my husband is not giving permission. Anybody like that who had permission issues in this room? We have all types. Chinky. Yes, Chinky, you can unmute.

Hello, ma'am. Thank you, thank you, thank you so much.

Before you go, Chinky, I just want to say one thing. My Platinum is like you are getting a Ferrari at the cost of a Maruti 800. Literally, it's like that. Ferrari, price though and you're saying no, I don't have. If you don't have the money right now, if I tell you I'm going to give you a Ferrari at the cost, will you not go arrange? You will. You're not going to say I don't have. So that's the attitude you should have for this. Yes, Chinky.

Yeah, true, ma'am. You are so true. This is exactly— I can feel now I have a Ferrari in the cost of Maruti. My husband was not ready to take Platinum, and I was like, he— and I didn't ask him that I am going to taking this Gold membership or not. I just go with the flow. I, I took the Gold membership, and then for Platinum I have to ask him really. And he said, okay, wait, and you won't believe, few days back he told me, you don't think so, really, you, you observe this. And this was my win. My child has started writing gratitude. 5-year-old he is, and he cannot make good sentences, but still yesterday he wrote, I am thankful to my teacher, I am thankful. And he has a gratitude jar, so he wanted to check I never stopped him. And what did you tell your husband?

Answer the question. You've gone somewhere else. The question is, your husband was not allowing you. My husband was—

I not ask for gold for how many years you want, ma'am. Trip cancel, gold cancel. This is for me and I am asking you something first time for me. So, uh, initially he agreed, and installments, I don't know, all the cash are with me in the home, but still issues. And automatically, installment. Yes. And when I checked few days back, I said, only ₹20,000 is left. Can I, uh, like do this payment with my account, or you want me to do with cash deposit only? He said, whatever you want, you can do. And I was like, this is so amazing. He was the one he said no, you can go. And he is the one now, he is supporting. He is never saying me like, you call Rose, Rose call. He is the one who is like accepted me as this, as I am today, and my confidence level is raised too much. I was so like suppressed.

Okay, thank you so much for sharing. I will have to lovingly interject.

Thank you, ma'am. Thank you, thank you.

So all of you understood, right? You have to be stubborn. And that's exactly what my story was. I was very stubborn. There was Yogamaya in our community, and she told her husband, you don't do this for me, I will not give you chai. I can't forget that story. She's like, I'll not give you chai, I will not give you khana. And that's how she got into Platinum. Like, chinki, her said that I will not go on a holiday, I don't want anything, do this for me. So, you know, you have to just show how badly you need it. If you are going with a beggar's energy, that nee, mere liye please kaddi jay na types, nobody is going to do. You have to go with confidence and you have to go with this. And also, I want to tell you one thing, if your husband is not doing, go to somebody else. Like Hiral went to her father, Kinjal went to her brother, like Chinki went to brother and father both. So just like that, you don't have to just depend on one person. If you need, you can go to multiple people when you need. Is this making sense? If this is making sense, put yes. I was worried, I'm thinking if I'll be able to do it because I have still not finished my gold. Who's going to answer this question that I have not been able to finish my gold, will I be able to manage platinum? Sarah Shah.

Yeah, yes, ma'am. Yes. Yes, ma'am. Ma'am, you know, but for the mothers— I'm outside, I'm sorry, I'm outside. So, um, yeah, I, I sold off my gold, um, as some mothers know, and I, uh, got into Platinum just 2 days after gold. I took gold, I had no money. I am a homemaker, I have no savings. Zero saving. And, uh, I was, uh, it is divine calling for me. I always say, uh, I was crying on my prayer mat.

It was a downtime.

And then this message came, ma'am's message came for this masterclass. And, um, and I picked it up and it, uh, it was a masterclass. I just joined without thinking. And then she was like, uh, there is a gold membership And I did not have ₹6,000. You can imagine how I was. But I opened my bank account, I said, oh my God, exactly that much amount was there. I took gold. I took gold membership. 27th of March last year. And no looking back. 2 days after, it was Platinum Showcase. I just attended the showcase and I was mind-blown. I, I, everything that was there, I wanted that for myself, for my growth, for my learning, for my relationships, everything. But then it was too much for me and I, I was already involved. But you know what I told my God? I said, Allah, You have thrown me on EPS, and if you want me to be here, just show me some way. I'm sorry for the noise around, ma'am.

No problem.

And right then, uh, someone was, uh, sharing that, uh, they had, uh, sold some of their gold, and I said, yes, I can do that. And I did not ask my husband.

I'll tell you Shara's story because your audio is low. I know your story. This is what she did. She was on the showcase with me. I remember because this has never happened with me before, that's why I remember her story. She was on the call with me in her showcase and she writes a message to me, ma'am, I am in the shop selling my gold, please do not close Zoom till I deposit my money. And this was 2 days after her joining the gold membership. I was also thinking, what is this mother doing? Like, while I'm teaching, she's with the— she's on the showcase with me, she goes to a shop while I'm teaching her, she gives her gold, and then she pays for the platinum. How many of you think this is how crazy you have to be for your growth? Put C for crazy. And that's why I say that it is not about the money in your account that will decide whether you come to Platinum or not. First, God will decide. Second, your intention will decide. You can have a money-full bank account, but if you are full of self-doubt, then you cannot come. You can only come if you value yourself, your life, your child, your energy, your dreams, your mission more than anything in the world. And some of you are saying, I want Elite. I want to tell all the mothers who are saying I want Elite, we have to learn to focus on what is available. If Elite is not there, crying for Elite is not a good idea. If you agree, put A for agree, because if you do not get into Platinum and you are thinking I will only get in when it is Elite, chances are you will not even get this because my ultimate plan is to have only one certificate. This time you will get two— life coaching, parenting. My ultimate plan is each certificate 5 lakhs. And some mothers in this room, they have waited, they have delayed their decision, they have paid more, and they have come into Platinum. So even if you are a new Gold mother And if you know that this is something you want to do at some point, if you are sure you don't want to do, then it's okay, then I'm not talking to you. But if you are somebody who knows at least 1% also, you know that you want to do it, then you should deposit ₹20,000 tomorrow and block your spot. No point making the deposit for a higher value. If this is making sense, put MS in the chat box. Now some of you are asking, how is gold different from platinum? Because in gold also I'm getting so much value. So first of all, I want to thank you because definitely I over-deliver. But you can understand, if in gold you are getting so much, you can only imagine what will happen in platinum. You can think of, you know, platinum, you get certified. You— it's not about parenting, it's about health, relationship, career, money. Spiritual life will change to a different level. It is a family membership. It's Platinum, is for you, your husband, and all your children. So husbands will have the app access, not the live call access. Sometimes we'll do, uh, couple calls, which is rare, but we will do that. But it's all your children will have access, no matter what their age. Plus you will have direct access to my teachers who teach me every month. One expert will come and teach you, and you will get so many bonuses. But I can't tell you everything today because I need to save something for tomorrow, right? So don't ask me so many— kuch toh secret hain hai, dije na? Then you'll also feel some excitement when you come tomorrow. Okay, so let me see what's the next question. Ma'am, I don't want to be a parenting coach. Should I still be in Platinum? Who's going to answer this? Riddhi Deorah, I knew it! I know I had this feeling that you will answer this one. Yes, Riddhi.

Hi.

So to everybody who thinks homemakers, uh, do not need this, whether you want to be a parenting coach or you don't want to be one, I think we should remember that we are parenting our children every single day. We are interacting with our family every single day. So you don't need a— even if you don't need a certification, we do need to have a good relation. We need to know how to connect well and beautifully with our family, and we need to give good values to our children. And I think what really prompted me—

and I have to mention this in one line—

I have scrolled through YouTube countless times. 3 years I never saw Riddhi's video until in March 2025. I decided I had enough.

And I wanted to change my stuck position.

Within 5 days, I saw Riddhi's masterclass, I enrolled, and next month— because by the time I had joined, it was only gold—

and next month I got into platinum.

One thing we all need to remember as homemakers: if you don't have the value of growth within you, you will not be able to transfer it in your child. So no point crying. I'm sorry if I may sound blunt to some people, but we want our children to become Abdul Kalam and the next PM Narendra Modi, but we don't want to take the courage to grow ourselves. So let's be that person who is willing to show that courage and then expect our children to do it.

They will follow it, but you first show the courage.

You are scolding everybody. Let's put A for amazing for Riddhi. I was like, what happened to her? All right, do I have to become a parenting coach? No, you can become any type of coach. Relationship— we have tarot coaches, we have handwriting births, yoga coaches. Some mothers are teaching, uh, Bhagavad Gita to kids. So you can become any type of coach. Anybody here who's a different coach, not a parenting coach, after coming out of Platinum, wave at me. Okay, Neelam, what coach are you? Yes, Neelam.

Yes. Hey, hi Riddhi. Yes, yes. Hi, how are you?

I'm good, how are you?

Yes, I am good. Thank you so much. It's been long time, but I'm so happy and glad I'm here. Thank you so much. So hello everyone, I'm Anilam. I'm marriage intimacy coach and sex therapist. It sounds different because I never thought to be in this position. 3 years back, I joined Platinum in 2022, and the intention was only to spread awareness about parenting and structure my knowledge and help other people, help mothers. That was my intention. And today, if I go back and see and just want to share It is not a— Platinum is not about the parenting. It is about how you will get to know about you want something different. So like we all cross board examination till 10, we all study 5 subjects, and after that only you get to know what you want to do in later life. Maybe biology, maybe physics, maybe chemistry, whatever. So same it happened with me. I started my this journey. This is my second career. And earlier I used to work as a lecturer in management college. And this is my second career. Thank you, Riddhi Deorah, for helping me to build a super, super, super solid foundation. I can't thank you enough for that. I'm so strong and the results that my clients are getting, they are super amazing. Even I don't know because of the foundation. When your foundation is strong, you don't know, you don't need to worry about it. Either you take maths or either you take chemistry, whatever, because the foundation till 10th is super strong. So this credit I want to give to you, and I'm so grateful. Um, thank you for your existence, actually.

So yes, sorry, you were speaking. I thought you're done. Unmute.

Yeah, so if someone is thinking, okay, I don't want to be a parenting coach, so I remember one line you always repeat, because you have to raise a child in the Indian family system, you have to learn how to be a best, because no mother want to compromise with the child, as well as in Indian context marriage is a very big thing. We don't want to compromise with the marriage and our kids. So I feel that you have given the structure. So enter into this zone where you get to know about your interest. So without giving the board examination, you don't know which field is good for me. I feel that. So you are the— this is Platinum is giving you the foundation of 10th class. You have to learn everything. You get a chance to learn in chunks and bits and pieces where you can get to know yourself, where your values, how it is going. And it is not a one-day journey, it's whole career you are going to put. So do not believe in this, okay, I don't want it because it feel like right now. Give yourself a chance, go on this journey. It's a training actually. Give yourself 15 months and after that you will be amazed the person or I'm really daily basis I'm writing a gratitude for you whenever I get received any review from my clients because I know this credit goes to my mentor because she has built a beautiful foundation. I am super clear with my work and everything. So thank you so much. Without any single thought, go for it.

Amazing. Thank you so much, guys. Don't add the last line, go for it. Why? Because they, you know, I want them to decide that. How many of you understand this? You know, I am not going to ask anybody to go for it. You have to tell yourself, I want it. So those of you want it, I want you to write this in the chat box: I want it, I deserve it. Nobody should tell you because this is your life, your child, your dreams, your energy. So if you don't want it, nobody want— you will not get it. Because it's— and it's also not about what you want, it's about what you feel. Only if you are in that energy that you deserve it, you'll get it, you know. Because, you know, one very important thing I'll tell you. There's this person— I'll ask— I'll answer a different question, which is a more important question, not about platinum. So one person goes to God and tells God I'll tell you two short stories. One person goes to God and tells God that if everything is written in my destiny, why should I work? Somebody told me everything is written in my destiny. Why should I do something? Everything you have written, now I'll just live. And God says, yes, correct, I wrote your destiny, but in some pages I wrote, as you wish. How many of you understand this? So don't blame God. Ki meri kismat mein yeh hai, aapke paas kuch power hai. Because God wrote, as you wish. And the second thing, one person goes to God and tells God that I have been working so hard. This friend of mine, I keep seeing, he's always partying. Sleeps also more than me, eats unhealthy, but he is getting all the results and I am working so hard. Why am I not getting all the results? So you want to know the answer? Who wants to know the answer? Come tomorrow. Just joking, just joking. Just how they show in awards, see you tomorrow. No, but the answer is, the answer is God tells that I do not I see your action. I check your vibration. I don't check what you do, I check what you feel. And that is why there are so many mothers in this room who didn't have the money but they are in platinum. Because logically it makes no sense. Somebody with ₹100 in the account investing in a ₹3.4 lakh, ₹4-5 lakh, whatever product. How did it happen? Because she was in the right vibration. Is this mind-blowing? If this is mind-blowing, put MB. And there are mothers who have the money, who are independent and all of that, but it might not happen for you because it doesn't matter what you have, it doesn't matter what you want, it doesn't matter what you do. What matters is what you feel, how you vibrate, and your intention. So even if these mothers keep telling you, do it, do it, do it, it will not happen for you till you feel you want it. And I have come after doing this work for so many years. I have, you know, earlier I used to take a lot of tension. Kaun aayega? Kaun lega? When you are starting off, you think like that. Now why will somebody come to me? Now there is no tension. Ek hai, do hai, pachaa sain, so hai, koi nahi hai. No tension. Why? Because I know that if God has planned for us to be together, we will be together. Nobody can stop it. And if we are not— if I am not meant for you or you're not meant to be with me, it's not going to happen. So how many of you feel it is for you. If you feel it, put feel in the chat box. And some of you are saying, I want you for a lifetime. All these mothers that you are seeing on the screen sharing, they have all been with me for less than 3 years. Okay, all of you tell me, Nidhi, how long have you been with me for? Oh, hi, it's been 1 year now. 1 year? Yeah, and the journey has been really beautiful. And thank you so much for creating this beautiful space, beautiful courses, and this community.

So for me, what really helped me—

so first of all, I directly, I joined Platinum. I was never ever any other member. And when I wanted to do the life coaching journey, I was very sure that I wanted to do it with an accountability partner, as you had mentioned in your courses. So finding an accountability partner, going through this journey, it changed the entire story for me because, you know, we would show up every day exchanging voice notes. And I realized one very beautiful thing that while we were learning, each time, you know, we were exploring something new about our own selves. So it was like getting to know entirely a different version of myself. And even on the days when we were low, we used to share, you know, we used to gently encourage each other and lift the spirits up. So that is what is something that really helped me finding the right accountability partner for me, that, you know. And one more thing that I realized, there are certain parts of our own self which we forget. We know that there is something, and finding that voice from somebody else, it really, at least, you know, for me, it worked magic. So I found my lost voice and that confidence that was all gone, that came back. So the whole community is so beautiful where each and everybody is encouraging each other and helping, you know, someone to rise, to empower. And to discover the best. So thank you so much for creating such a beautiful space. Thank you so much for doing what you are doing. I think it is purely magical for me. It is again deep, deep, deep gratitude for doing what you are doing.

Thank you, thank you so much.

Thank you so much, Nidhi. Let's put a for amazing for Nidhi. Will this— I only want it for my teenager. First of all, I feel that only teenager wanting is not okay because there is no issue with our teenagers only. So who's going to— just one second. Anybody who has a teenager and is in Platinum who would like to share? Shoba Naveen.

Hello, ma'am. Thank you so much for selecting me. Yeah, first of all, I'm so grateful I'm in this community, and I have joined directly Platinum and without surrendered myself totally. Your first boot camp and the showcase, I just blindly didn't inquire anyone anything, nor I was the first to see you that day itself. And I just deposited the first thing and I entered. It's been 1 year 8 months I'm in this community. And it's very beautiful. I've transformed very, very well, step by step. And I have a teenager son. And hopefully you have seen him in most of the sessions, but recently he's not joining due to his other activities. He's missing a lot, but he's seeing the recordings. And he's also transformed very well. And the way I be at home, his behavior also is changing along with me. And we have a very good bond. And he understands me, he never argues. And I reply to him in such a way— today's session when you said that you should never, you know, be in a teaching mode to them, you should always ask. So I always ask him with an example. So he replies me in a very calm way. So I'm so proud to be here, and I'm proud of my son also, and I'm proud to be his mother. Wow, thank you so much, ma'am.

Love it. Let's put A for amazing. And I just want to tell all the mothers here, you know, we have to stop thinking that our children need help. Now I want to tell you this Once you start working on yourself, you will see how beautifully they will shift. And of course, in Platinum, you know, I will also be talking to them directly. But you know, still— and some of you are saying, ma'am, 3 years are not enough for me, I know I'm too good, you want more of me. But let me tell you one thing, 3 years is a lot of time. You finish one degree in 3 years. Usually if you do certifications outside they will give you for 2 months, 3 months. But I don't want to create that kind of certification and just let you be. I'm— because I'm so confident about the system that I've created, if you follow the steps, 1000%, you will get results. And it's not like I'm going anywhere. The community support is lifetime, the app is lifetime. In the Platinum, the calls that we do are like this. This type of calls we do. So how many of you understand that this type of call, if you do for 3 hours, it is more than enough? If you agree, put A for agree in the chat box. So none of you think— should think like that. Ma'am, I really want to do it, but I'm really doubting myself if I will be able to manage the time. Anybody for time? Sujata and Pragya and Priya. Okay, we can't take— okay, Sujata.

Yeah, hi, hi everyone. So the— for the time, because I may be the best candidate to say the things, I'm working mother, I'm having the 3 children. So the mother who is having 3 children and still working Uh, in the work profile also, I'm dealing with a team of 200 people. So for me, dealing 200 people was very easy, but handling my 3 children, it was very difficult. Because, uh, being in this corporate world, I was always looking for the perfection and I was always trying to control them, try to make them very perfect because the way we live, we try to make our child in the same way. But, uh, with the— I joined with the Gold membership, but, uh, in the Gold we have lots of information. But again, the system that we get in the Platinum, it's very different because you handhold the people in the Platinum. So my journey, it was totally reversed. I was becoming 2.0 version of me. I was trying to connect with my children. I was getting more aware. I I was not controlling them, I was connecting them. So those little, little activity I was start doing with them. And the day I joined, I was like, no, I cannot give my time because I'm totally mess up with the things. So the 20-minute time you ask on that day, I was like, no, I cannot. I'm not even having the time to take breathe. So that 20-minute I cannot. But after Platinum, for me, the time management was becoming totally life management. Now I'm in the leadership journey. I'm able to give the 2 hours time to the leadership work, 1 hour for my learning, despite having all the corporate work and the child. And my children, who I used to be trying to be making them more perfect, they're doing their homework, every activity their own. I don't have to put my mind to them. Everything is going so smooth that I never imagined. Otherwise I used to shout at home and why this thing is here and there. Now everything is very perfect. At each corner they're keeping the things. They're like, no, Mama, you don't have to be worried, we are doing it our own. With that, that was my self-version which get changed. Second was my health version. Uh, many mother who are here always want to lose the weight. After joining the EPH, the dream of losing the weight from the past 14 year, I lost 14 kg in 6 month. And that was again the different version.

I think all of you should send me your before-after pictures. I can have an album. You know, mothers are messaging me like randomly Thank you so much, ma'am. I did not come for this. I lost 12 kgs. I was like, wow, it's crazy amazing.

Yeah, so the time management convert to the life management. So that was the health version. Third one was my child, uh, he is 3-year-old. He never put the tilak and do the puja in the temple. And after doing your Bhagavad class, I don't know what transformation happened to him because I'm— I never sit with them during the Bhagavad classes. And suddenly next day he was doing the prayer before the school in front of the temple. He was chanting the mantra. I was like, we were— everybody was shocked. And he was taking the blessing from all of us, you know, touching the feet. I was like, oh my God, something has been done in the class. And now from that day he is following everything. So for me, making the change in my 3-year-old child, I I never thought of in my dream that he'll be having this version. So I'm not only the 2.0 version, my whole family is 2.0 version in the Platinum. Because here we are, the Gold Mother who are there in this call, we are having lots of information in the Gold. You might not feel like, okay, I need to go for the Platinum, but the system that you get in the Platinum, it's handholding you and to— they are pushing you to make the change. So the area that you are stuck in, you will be coming out from that stuck zone to the different version of you which you never imagined in your life. So thank you so much for creating this system. Thank you so much, Riddhi Deorah, from bottom of my heart, because, uh, that personal zone you have taken care of and professional I'm taking care of. So everything is perfectly managed. So thank you so much. Thank you so much.

Yes, so this is also a very important thing. Platinum is for all types of mothers. We have business owners like Sujata, then we have working professionals, then we have homemakers. So no matter who you are, you will find that type. Why? Because you are a mother. So Platinum is not for like professional of— it's for mothers, and all of us here are mothers. And we, before making money, before doing danda, you focus on the banda in your life. I always share this all the time. You know, we're thinking, I'll join the membership, I want to make more money, I want to make more money. You'll not make money if all the people in your life are not happy, number one. So your child, your relationships, your family, you that is your first priority. And if you want to make money in my Platinum, I have a full system where you can make a lot of money. But even if you're coming to my Platinum, I want you to first make this decision for yourself, not for money. Why am I telling you this? Because a lot of us, you know, we get into these memberships to make money, and then we take so much pressure and then we are not able to take action. If you agree, put A for agree. And I want every single— I see some 400 of you in the chat. I want at least 300 A for agrees, because the black boxes, I don't know if they're there or not there. So I want— so keep your energy high. We're still in a learning environment, and this is not about me, this is about you. I don't have to do this. I'm doing this for you so that you can make a more clear, informed decision. So understand one thing, that, you know, do it for the right reason. And even, you know, in Platinum, I'm not going to just teach you how to make money. I am going to teach you how to make money for the right— with the right intention. If the intention is not there, the money will not happen. So you have to first think about learning first. Value first, student first, then the money will come. Can all of you understand that in the gold membership what I'm giving to you, it's not normal? If you can understand that, put yes in the chat box. If I was equating this with money, I would have never been able to do this for you. Are you understanding what I'm— if so, if you are always thinking about money settling and doing things as per what you're taking, you will never be able to serve people. Only this call itself I feel is worth more than 3.5 lakhs, in my head at least. Only these 2-day boot camps. How many of you feel it? This is what we do when we go in offline events. Only 3-day event, 13.5 lakh. 2-day event, 10 lakhs. And honestly speaking, I'm not trying to brag here, but they don't even cover half of what I've covered in these 2 days. And that is my value system which I get from my Guruji, that never take more than you give. In my Platinum, I'm at least giving you 20x I'm actually— it is way more than that, but minimum 20x attendance. So attendance, the attendance toggle is not working. All your attendance names on the Zoom report we will get, and then we'll put it on the back end, the points. Is that okay with everybody? If that's okay, put okay. So there's a tech issue where they're fixing the toggle. So if you have to leave, you can leave. I'm just here answering some questions that mothers asked. So if any of you have to leave, please feel free. Yes, let me see. I'm outside of India, will I be able to manage? Anybody right now here from outside of India? Okay, but let me answer this question for you if you're not from outside of India here. Somebody put me— put your camera on and wave at me. Bhuvana, Renu, one second. Can I spotlight you guys so you can answer for me? Yes, you can unmute.

Hi, ma'am.

Hi, can we see your face? The lotus.

Yeah. Okay.

Yes.

Hello, ma'am. Thank you so much for this opportunity. I am so blessed that I met you on 16th of March on Instagram. Suddenly it just appeared, it happened. I joined as a gold member. But on the 19th of March, I switched to Platinum Elite. So it's been a journey. I don't know what to say, but in these 2 months, the first month of March until some, sometime in April, I was very into, but then my son just got married. My oldest son is 27, so he just got married. So we were preparing for his wedding. It's a full-on Punjabi wedding because my husband is a Punjabi. I'm a Malayali. Yes, and it was crazy, but yes, after the wedding, now I'm back on track. And I just want to tell mothers here who have not come into Platinum, just do it. You will have no regrets. This is something you will never get in your lifetime. I think I have given myself this gift of joining EPH without a doubt. I have only good words, good thoughts, good everything to say about EPH and Riddhi Ma'am. And I'm from Singapore. I mean, sometimes it's the hours, we're 2.5 hours later. So, but whatever it is, I join Sankirtan even when I'm on the way to work. I'm doing it earlier now. I'm leaving earlier so that I can really get on it, and everything will start changing, like from my thoughts to everything. I, I mean, my kids are all, all very— all adults. The oldest is 27, the second boy is 25, my daughter is 20.

I'm 49.

But yeah, it's— I did this for myself.

I'm also waiting for myself to grow. You'll be amazed because you'll still be that mommy who will be, yes, come, Baba, come.

You know, you will still be looking after him like a baby. Yes, they never—

what's a mother? Always a mother.

I agree. Mother. That's why I put my, my foot here and I told— initially my husband said, oh, this is a scam. I think a lot of mothers here faced that, the husband saying this is a scam, you know, I don't know what you're doing, why you're doing. I said, no, I'm doing this for myself and for all of you. You will see the results. But yes, please, all of you, um, I, I, I, I'm being very honest here. I, I'm working full-time. But you know, when it comes to the, the dollar sign, everyone has issues. We have issues. You may think that, oh, you know, you have money or you don't have money. Somehow, miraculously, the money will come. The money will come.

So no doubt about it.

Initially, when I wanted to put that, that $50K, I was thinking that's about $700 Singapore dollars. So I thought to myself, okay, $700, 6 months, I have to put this aside. The first thing was like, okay, never mind, we'll take one day at a time. Tomorrow come, tomorrow you'll see. So that's how I've been thinking, and everything is just falling into place. Yes, I just want to say, please, everyone or anyone here who's still doubting, still thinking that I don't have the money, don't say that. Stay said, I have the money, I will be able to do this. Yes, just go out, just, just do it, just do it. Yeah, that's all I want to say.

Thank you so much, ma'am.

I love you very much. I'm gonna be here with you lifetime.

Yes, for sure. Love you. Let's put A for amazing for Renu. So now I think pretty much all questions have been answered. Now I have a question that I want to answer for all of you. If your families call me scam, okay, if they say Riddhi scam, I want to give you some answers which you can tell them, okay, which mothers helped me design. Simple choice for all mothers. This is one thing that you can use. Yes, dear husband, you are correct, she is a scam. She's a simple choice for all mothers, or you can say she's a smart choice for all mothers, or you can say spiritual choice for all mothers. But please make sure you defend me. You are not standing there and listening to your families call me scam. At least that much respect I deserve after doing so much for you guys. You should not stand there. There'll be some comeback. So for me also, have some comeback. Don't stand there, see your families calling your teacher a scam. Okay, amazing. And Shweta Modi. Shweta, somebody was messaging. I need— yeah, Shweta Modi. Yes, what do you want help with? Unmute.

Yes, hello. Thanks for giving me the chance to speak. Yeah, basically, uh, I'm listening to the conversation since now. Yeah, I have a long list of questions, but I'll keep it short. I want to know that, like, I am a telecom engineer, and I, since last 10 years, I've been giving priority to my family. I got married late. I have small children, 9 years and 11 years. So I have not focused on my career, and I'm— I feel that I am quite back. I should have been already in management surveying. So, uh, and actually I entered— I registered for your master class for parenting purpose, but when I entered, I realized that to improve yourself is much more important than First, I mean, thinking about the kids. So, uh, now I have started. I am overwhelmed actually with all the conversations. I have been hearing so many calls. First, initially I was not attending the classes, uh, these sessions, because my timings are different, evening timings for work. But then I managed somehow. And, uh, I mean, my question is that How Platinum will help me, uh, for rising into my career? Because I have invested so many years in my career.

I just answered your question for you some time back. It's not your action, it's your vibration that will create results for you. So you've been in action mode for so many years, but your energy and your vibration is off. and there's no better place to fix that than Platinum. Also, there are many mothers who were in corporate, who were stuck in their careers for 12 years, 13 years. They had the fear to change. They moved into better jobs. Like Priya, you know, she shared some time back, I don't know if you remember. So she was in a job where she was not very happy, just like you. She was not getting the promotion that she felt she long deserved. And she was not even having the courage to change because she thought that, you know, my child, and I don't know if I should quit and all of that. After coming to Platinum, she had the courage. She found a better job where now she's working from home 2-3 days, 2-3 days she's going. More pay, more respect, more love. So everything has improved. So you're just thinking that, you know, you want to increase whatever your level in the current organization, but for all you know, maybe you're meant for a different organization.

Yeah, I'm with this organization since 16 years now. Yeah, and I have much more experience behind that, but yeah, I am currently 49 years, but I mean, I want to retire with a guilt that I didn't put much efforts in my—

I tell you one thing, Shweta, your worth is not going to be decided by your position in your organization. Even if you get that position, there is no guarantee that you will feel happy, you know, because happiness is not in the titles, it is not in the money, it is not in the fame. Happiness is in service.

That is right. Yeah, that I understand from—

right. So, you know, these are things we feel because this is what has been repeated to us over and over again, that once you become that, you will feel that way. But, you know, even if you feel it, it will be for a micro millisecond, not more than that. And then you will again feel lost. Now what's next? And I'm sharing this from my own experience. You know, when I set off on this journey, I wrote a goal: I want to make 2 lakhs a month, which I achieved. Then I wrote, okay, fine, I'll make 5 lakhs a month, which also I achieved. And then the numbers did not give me any happiness. Are you understanding? I personally feel that, you know, this is a space for you to explore who you are. My Platinum is way beyond, you know, just parenting. It is something which will protect you forever. Like, what— when I say forever, not just in this body but also in all your future bodies. You know, so this is not something I very openly share because, you know, but I want to tell you, the— my end goal for each one of you when you come to me for Platinum is that at least when you come back to this material world, you'll come back in a human body. You will not come back as an animal. Or the best is you don't come back into this material world, you directly go back to the spiritual world. So that is an aim that I have set for all the mothers I am working with in Platinum, and that's why I focus a lot, you know, because, you know, understand, we are in this body for what, 20, 30, 40 more years? If we have a very good lifeline, we'll stay for 100, 110 years, or 50 years, let's say, more. But what after that? That's the real question we should ask. Why am I running so much? Why am I rushing so much? See, I'm totally relaxed. Why am I so relaxed? Because I'm not worried about anything. I'm just focusing on my real thing. My real thing is getting closer to God. And I know one thing, when you make spiritual advancement, the material advancement will happen like that. And I'm not just experiencing it in myself, I'm experiencing it with all my students.

Wow, so spiritual advancement is something which is very exceptional to achieve, and not just for you, for your whole family.

Like children, 2-year, 3-year-old kids are doing Radha Radha, and now we have calls for, you know, they're doing the Muslim chant, they're doing Gurbani, all faiths. So I feel like if this is something you can give to your child Why not as a mother? Because in Kali only Adhyatma can protect your child. And I'm not sharing— there's not Adhyatma outside that you only have to be in Platinum. But the way we do it in Platinum, it is suited to the kids because kids want to receive it in a fun way.

Yeah, it's difficult to make them understand that.

They will not, because you know, if you go to any spiritual organization They have their very strict protocol. How many of you agree with that? Ki aise karna hai, ye karna hai, aise— children don't want to do those things. Some kids will do it, but most kids will not do. And instead of getting closer, they actually start repelling the whole system because of the way it is introduced to them. In our thing, the way we do it, we— I'm not even telling them do anything, they're going and doing it. Mothers are sending me, uh, pic, you know, videos of kids, 5-year-old girl writing Radha Radha. No, actually, because I'm getting those videos, I'm sure Fatima, Gloria, and all of the mothers are getting from their respective faiths. So, you know, I just want to tell everybody one thing, that I'm not going— nobody should feel the pressure. We are all adults here. It's a very transparent system. You are able to interact directly with Platinum Mothers yourself. So it's a very, very transparent, open system. Even the pricing, I have told you. What you have to deposit also I have told you. I'm also telling you there will be no timer. There will be some special bonuses for those of you who make the deposit tomorrow. That's the only thing. So those— and what I'm going to show you tomorrow, it is irresistible, which means even if you're 0.00001% interested in your growth, interested in your child's growth and progress You are going to do it. So anybody who's going to come tomorrow, make sure you come ready with the deposit, because when I show you what I show you, you will not be able to say no to it.

It is important. Money is not a problem, but the thing is that how to convince the husband? I don't have a very lovey-dovey relationship with my husband.

Most husbands here did not agree, including my own husband.

So eventually it will open up later.

So yeah, and eventually he will be happy you did it. That's what most mothers tell me. So I'll tell you one thing, you're not doing something wrong. You're not taking drugs or smoking. And can you see how the society has conditioned us? It is our own money and we are investing in our own growth, but still we are feeling so scared. Don't you think that is something that we need to address?

Right?

How many of you feel that? My money, I'm investing in growth, and not just my growth but the growth of my entire family, and still I'm having to feel so pressured? Why? That's crazy. And I want to tell you one thing, it is easy to say my husband is not giving We have to earn our respect. We have—

I don't have to ask him, but yeah, maybe I'm not able to disclose him.

So don't disclose. If you could, you would. There are many mothers who didn't tell, they got it. I am not nobody to make this decision for you. You have to make the decision yourself how you want to go about it. But there are many— any mother here who did not tell her husband before she got into the Platinum. Monica, there, see. Kinjal, I think all of you are waving it to me, seriously. So it's not just you, Shweta. So we don't have to feel guilty, you know, we are not doing anything wrong that we have to feel guilty. Monica, yes. And now we'll definitely close in like 5 minutes.

Yes. Yeah, actually I see a lot of—

ma'am still did not tell him.

Yes, I really want to share my Platinum journey. Uh, okay, thank you so much. Thank you. I want to apologize for not believing in you earlier. I joined Platinum as a Gold member in August 2023, and but for the whole 2 years I was missing. I wasn't, uh, so you joined Gold in 2023, you mean? Gold 2023? Yes, Gold. And Platinum in this April, on Akshaya Tritiya, I joined Platinum.

Wow, you saw so many chances.

Yes, when the prize is up. And there's one interesting twist. In March, I was feeling very low, so I heard this, the community is giving this on relationship. So I joined that community also. I paid for their silver membership also. And on Akshaya Tritiya, I was about to join their diamond membership. I was just about to do the payment. I was clicking on that payment link, but somehow my Wi-Fi got down. I wasn't able to see that payment link also. Somehow your message popped up, like Riddhi Ma'am is last minute, Riddhi Ma'am is saying, sharing something, it is last minute to join the Black Girl Magic. And I don't know what got into me, I just click on that link and I do the payment.

Wow!

Like you said, that God has decided.

Divine connection.

In which community you want to go, who is going to be your coach, who is going to be your mentor. Everything is decided at that time, I feel. So I got goosebumps because it is like I was joining some other community, I was so into that, and one thing I learned from that community that If you are in a Gold membership, if you are in any community, that means you need help. That's why you are here, because you need some help. So she said one thing: don't do it alone. If you want help, be in a community, be together, and learn together. So that was my bulb on, and I was like, I want to join. But God has some connection with that I should join you. Yes, it was so divine. And from that day, I am regular at Sankirtan, and I am daily attending Sankirtan. And one thing, my husband's friend gifted me Bhagavad Gita and the Book of Self-Realization. So I haven't touched that book for 4 years. My daughter is now 4 years. I haven't touched that book for 4 years, but now I realized why somebody gifted me that book, because I need to open it with you. I don't know if you can see it on Zoom, but I have been connecting all the dots. And at the, uh, when my son was going to birth, I was going to birth him. Giving birth to my son, somebody gifted me Radha Gopal also. I wasn't into Krishna, I never worshiped Krishna, but now I don't know, somehow I feel so connected. Daily morning, evening, earbuds, song, nothing else. I'm so thankful to you. I was very resistant, I was very I haven't told my husband also. It's almost going to be one month. Let some change— I need to do my mother some changes inside me. Let my husband notice it first, then I will tell him. I love you so much.

Love it. Let's put A for amazing for Monica. But can you see the divine timing and the divine connection? 3 years. Some people came in 2 days, some people came direct. So can you see it's not about what you are thinking, it's just going to happen when it has to happen. Amazing. Aarti Pandey, hello ma'am. Hi.

Actually, ma'am, I know it's 9:10, but it's still— I want to actually— I joined EPH on April 24th. My second delivery time, I literally thinking ki mera first kesaat connection toh lose ho rahi shaith, mera second delivery ke bajese. But us mera 6-month period mein, maternity period mein, I'm working mom, toh mujhe laga ki nahi, mujhe jo first kesaat connection lose ho rahi hai, mujhe second kesaat repeat nahi karna hai. I joined with this intention but couldn't manage my time and Maybe abse connect nahi honata. Main abhi group ke, maine 8 bootcamp kiya hai, self-attend. Or 24 ke baad mein consistent nahi the bhi kul bhi, ma'am. Shaad, hardly maine aapki 2 calls karein. Abhi March, uh, December 25, I lost my brother. Family mein, I was totally in tears. I, he was my loveliest sibling I lost. In December. And January, February, literally husband support, otherwise husband always— he took care of my children, he gave me some time, but financially last call Platinum Elite Sunday, I want to emphasize, but on Monday message, ma'am is live now, 11:00. You will enjoy, dear. I cut the call, I made a payment. 50,000 immediately pay. Then we both are in banks. NFT, but I chose this way. I chose, I chose my courage. I have to do this. He also said, take low, like everybody says. But it's still— Ma'am, one more thing. 25th March, join. Next day, first class attend. 10 minutes from Fatherhood Park. I proudly can say, life, 4:00, 3:40, literally, ma'am, without any alarm, I'm without any fail. I, from 1st April to till day, I joined, missed only one sankirtan in the morning due to my travel. Otherwise I'm regular, consistent, doing my course, doing my studies, attending. Try to attend your call in between the meeting also. 6 o'clock ki hai, me 7 pe bhi join karte hoon. Ki mujhe utna bhi milega 7 to 9 wala, woh bhi mere liye hoga.

That's the attitude, yes.

So literally I feel connected. Or yeh mujhe lagta hai ki such mein divine calling tha, mujhe apne ko Community. So for those sentences, just try, you will pay. One mom is there, APH Shabarka, she covered. First call, connect to other. In 2024, but I join in 2026 with the broad smile.

Amazing. Love that. Let's put A for amazing for Aarti. And I want to tell you one thing, if you are a Gold Mother and if you're still with me, you are 1000% in Platinum. I know this. Whether you take it tomorrow or you take it after 3 months or 4 months or 5 months, you are going to get it. How many of you are understanding that? If you're understanding that, put yes, because there is something inside you that really wants you to do it. So the more you delay the decision, like all of these mothers paid double, like Aarti, I think you almost paid double, but that's okay. You know, for my Platinum, I feel even if you pay 15 lakhs, it's still worth it. So you will never feel you've paid more, that much guarantee I can give you. But I can also— I'm also praying for all of you that those of you who sincerely Sincerely, no, nothing will inflate like my Platinum inflates. That also I am telling you. So your return on investment, whatever you are doing on your mutual fund, it will be higher in my Platinum because you will feel acha wa maine le liya, thank God I did not leave it. That's the feeling you will get for sure. Awesome. So now 2-3 hands I still see. Very quickly you guys share, okay, in 1 minute. But before you share, let me just share a few things. So tomorrow is decision day, so I want all of you to come prepared for the decision day. There's also a homework which your super coaches will be sharing in your team groups, so please make sure you do your homework. We will be putting it in the team groups, and tomorrow is going to be the day where your life will not remain the same. Basically, your life right now and your life after becoming Platinum, it cannot be the same. So all of you, 3, 4 hands that I see, just because you have waited till the last minute, 30 seconds each. Okay, Kinjal.

Yes, thank you, ma'am. I just want to share that this is, uh, this Platinum is not just about parenting, it's about all areas—health, relationship, career, and money. And until I joined Platinum, I was thinking that I am only suffering in my house. All of them, my husband and in-laws, are doing everything with me, and I am suffering in my relationship and everything. And when I went through the segments—happy husband-wife relationship and mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship—I realized more than me, they were suffering because of my nature. And I started changing my nature because I was that person that if my husband will speak one word, I will be ready with 3 sentences. I just shout and scream and everything, and sudden all of everything will come, and I will not give him a chance to speak even. And then I will tell him, why are you not speaking? Why are you not speaking? Why are you not telling anything? And I was that kind of person. And till the time I was not in Platinum, I was just thinking that they are doing everything with me, and that's why I'm in not a good environment. But then I realized that they were actually suffering. Just because I was not working on myself. So it is really very important to work on ourselves so that our family also can live a happy life. Yes, that's it. Amazing.

Thank you so much. And I also want to tell all the gold mothers who are saying that, you know, I took gold, I didn't take action. I want to tell you why. Because you've invested only ₹6,999. And you keep saying, baad me karenge, baad me karenge, baad me karenge. But when you come into Platinum, your skin is in the game and you are hanging out with mothers who are more committed, and suddenly your action will increase and improve. It has to. You know, when I do these calls with my mentors where I am paying them ₹2.5 lakh for one call, I'm already working so much even before the call has happened. Now imagine for this call, if you guys had paid ₹20,000-30,000 and then you would have come, it would have been diff— your attention would have automatically spiked. So it has to be a fair exchange for action to happen. If your exchange is ₹6,999, your action will also be like ₹6,999. And that is why I'm increasing the value of Platinum, not because I need the money. Of course money is good, but it's not because I need the money. But if you give 5 lakhs, you will get better results. When you give 10 lakhs, you will get more results and quicker results. And how many of you understand it takes— it— you need courage to ask? Some of you are going to become coaches yourself. And this courage is not for me, this courage is for you guys, because when you invest in yourself, you feel you are worth it and you take action with that kind of energy. So all of you are stuck in gold, you're only stuck because it is not a fair exchange. So when you come to platinum, you will take action. Okay, Farah Khan, Mahashweta, and then please do not raise your hands. You guys don't have families.

Yes, thank you so much, ma'am, for taking me. Ma'am, I, I quickly, I want to say one thing. When I've joined this, so gold join karo, us time payment karo, maine GPK through kardiya. After joining Gold Membership, I took— I have the courage. I asked him for the money and he said no, this is like marketing and fraud and all thing. So I said, you can go search, search, Google search, you can do Google search and all. So still he was not agree. So I was like stubborn. So finally he was agree and he said yes. And now, as a condition, notes, what say, carry notes, or relationship be improved. Or earlier I made a sleep sleeps. Thank you, thank you so much.

Yes, and I think it's very easy to blame our husbands, but when you choose yourself, your husband will ultimately support you because in the beginning they don't and it was the same with my husband. Marshweta, are you there or not there?

I can't understand, you're like one coming and going. Yes, I'm— yes, hello ma'am, good evening. I'm actually— I'm in car, that's why light problem. Okay, no problem, ma'am. I just want to say that I, I joined in 2024, uh, in June, and within a month In July 2024, I upgraded to Platinum. I just, uh, my main intention is, uh, is my preteen daughter because at that time I was really struggling to manage between my work and my child and to just to make my relationship with my daughter. I, my, I join EPH, but after joining, I am so grateful to you, ma'am, and my daughter also because of my daughter. Whenever I get chance to, by including the CPH family. Yes, officer. No, I am WBCS, West Bengal Civil Service. Okay, civil service. So, uh, so after that everything become more easier. I follow religiously all your instruction. I am a silent action taker because I and not very vocal, uh, in case of sharing my experience. This is the first time I'm sharing, and after joining, I— my personal growth is very much visible because I become more consistent, more responsible, and more spiritual because of you only. Previously I have done my puja, all these things, but the connection with the God, the Krishna, In Janmashtami I just got my Radha Krishna murti properly. Every day I do puja and I never miss sankirtan. And I just, I become more, you know, I'm doing work, the main intention of this job is to serve people. But now I feel that I'm doing everything without any attachment. And I truly believe that I'm not the doer, everything is controlled by Krishna. I'm just doing my seva to all the public. I deal with everything and I do everything for the main intention. My purpose is that I am independent eternal soul spirit soul, and I got to know from you, Ma'am, because you just are my spiritual Guru, but you don't want to listen, but this is from the bottom of my heart, I know that because of you I become more spiritual and I am feeling so calm and relaxed as a mother, and my daughter is also inclined to these things like writing Radha Nama before sleeping every day, our both of us doing, uh, this gratefulness, 10 things I'm grateful for, from the very first day continuously we are writing together. And then now the Radha Nama is also we are writing. So thank you, thanks so much. Amazing.

And now your teenage Anusha is like amazing. Awesome. Thank you so much. Let's put A for amazing. And I think if you're in government jobs of Doctors, teachers, very important because you are— your energy is getting passed down to so many people. Okay, Ekta and Riddhi Deorah, next time, next time, okay? Because we have to call it a night because again I'm meeting you guys tomorrow at 11. So please go to bed early. I will see you sharp at 11. I want all the gold mothers-to-be there, definitely. Even if right now you're not feeling it, be there, at least see, right? Because if you don't put yourself in the environment, you'll never be able to take the next step. And all the Platinum mothers, you should also come because there's always more to learn. And some of you are going to become coaches yourself, so you can see the way I structure it so that you can also use it for your showcases, right? So we'll start with learning In the beginning, because it's a boot camp, right? So in the beginning part, we'll do some learning, and then I'll show you the Platinum System. And I will do a special prayer for all of you mothers who are really wanting it, feeling it, believing in themselves, are having the do whatever it takes kind of attitude. I'm going to pray for all of you that may all your resistances get cleared, may all your obstacles get cleared. May God give you the courage. May God stand next to you when you're making that decision. And I cannot wait to have you with me in Platinum because it's going to be a lifetime journey. You know, it's— we say 3 years, but it's almost like you're gonna feel it, like it's gonna— you'll— I actually sometimes feel that I've already know you guys for so many years. How many of you feel that? I feel we are not just meeting in this life. I think we've been with each other in some other world also. Now God is putting us back together. So thank you so much, everybody. Love you. Please come early because we have a 1,000 mothers limit on our Zoom. So if you're late, you'll be— you'll have to join on YouTube and the experience will not be so great. So be on time, try to join at 10:45, don't be in a rushy energy. I'll also leave a voice note for all the mothers who've left. But those of you are here, be on time and let God— I call God Krishna, you can call God Jesus, Allah, Christ, Bhai Guru— and let God reveal the decision to you, because the decisions in the spiritual world are made 3 months before they are made in the material world. So the decision in the spiritual world has already been made. Tomorrow you will get to know and it will get revealed to you. So thank you so much, love you, take care, stay blessed. Come with good energy, come with the energy to learn, come with the energy to decide, come with the energy to elevate. Awesome, thank you so much, take care, love you. And all the Platinum Mothers, thank you much for saving my voice and doing all my work. So thank you, take care.