Doctors Almost Gave up on me when I was born | Supermom Spotlight Aisha Farha | Riddhi Deorah

I was trying to do everything and anything that was coming to me, but yet feel not enough. That's where I got an inner message. I stopped doing things. Sometimes you don't need more time; you just need better alignment to do things better. Everything is tested, tried. She works on herself and then gives us जाओ जीलो अपनी जिंदगी। This is results oriented, right? And every word she said, you know. I felt she's just telling me, this is for you, Ayesha, this is for you. All it takes, that one person who believes in you, changes your entire life. As you've all understood that I'm a mom of 3 kids. My son is 15 years old, my daughter is 11, and I have a youngest one who is 2 years old. not keeping well, has fever, and my mom is taking care of him. And yes, but before I begin with— I would like to ask everyone a question. What if your life began with a gnome? What if your life would have began with a gnome? Would you still believe in your yes?

Yes.

Thank you for that answer. I was— I am one amongst them because I was conceived with a big no. My mom gave birth to me when she was 6 months, 6 days pregnant. And I'm a premature baby weighing 950 grams.

Oh my God!

Doctors had given up. Hopes were— no hopes. Deadlines were set. Hopes were fading away. But when God writes your story, no human prediction can rewrite your destiny.

Thank you.

It's all because of my dad, his determination, efforts, and my mom's prayers I survived. I was in incubator for 3 months in MS Ramaya Hospital, and that's where my story began. After that, till date, I'm the most pampered daughter in my whole family. The only girl child who is a postgraduate in education. Only girl child. And the only girl who has given the power to dream, to make your own decisions, and to live. With all this, one day I was sipping a coffee with my dad. A conversation just began, and I told my dad, Dad, I want to start a business. And without any second thought or any hesitation, he was like, just go ahead, I'm with you. Sometimes, you know, all it takes is that one person who believes in you, changes your entire life. With this, you know, I took a year of time to learn, explore, experiment, market research, and all that. After that, I successfully started my business. I am a skin and hair care formulator. I customize skin and hair care products based on the beauty concerns of an individual. Dad was a businessman taking care of things, market guiding me and everything. In few months, things felt wow. Everything looked perfect. मैं अपने आप पे खुशबाशी देती थी। मैं भी कुछ कर पा रही हूँ। But then. God had different plans. I lost my dad, my greatest supporter, my strongest believer who believed in me and my dreams. That totally broke me out. As I told you, the most pampered Sometimes life breaks you not to destroy you, to rebuild you and make you more stronger. Then comes my mom who helped me, healed me, and, you know, gathered me to restart my business. And then a few months later, I moved to Kuwait with my family. Again, a different country, new responsibility. God had again different plans. He blessed me with my second son. A different time zone, newborn toddler life, mom responsibility, business handling in different country. Everything was getting too much for me. I was trying to do everything and anything that was coming to me, but yet feel not enough. All through the day, I was busy, and end of the day, I could see nothing is productive. And every night, you know, I used to like, "Yar, 24 घंटे भी काम पढ़ रहे मुझे, काम ही खत्म नहीं हो रहा है।" It was like I was. Exhausted, drained out, overwhelmed. Everything was out of alignment. Like any other night, I was just scrolling over Instagram. That's where the magic began. Different time zone. रात के एक बजे थे। मतलब आईएसटी वाले। And my husband is like, क्या कर रही है बाबा? सो जा। And I'm like, नहीं नहीं आप सो जाओ। नींद नहीं आ रही है। I was just scrolling down and I get to see Riddhi. And next day I attended a master class, and every word she said, you know, I felt she's just telling me, this is for you, Aisha, this is for you. It was totally every word that she spoke in the master class was like totally like, this is for you. Without giving any second thought, I just enrolled myself. I enrolled myself to Gold, started working on myself, and within 15 days of time, I understood this is a platform that can give me my answers to work on myself, my family, my kids. I shifted to Platinum. That's again my second chapter of life began. Time management, I think everyone agrees, is the biggest struggle for everyone. Being in a different time zone, handling kids, wife responsibility, business— everything was there in my plate, and I was feeling, what is this happening? I was consistently drained out. Then I started giving time to myself, my learning, connecting with mothers in EPH. Attending these live sessions, that's when something inside me totally shifted. You know, that's where I got an inner message. I stopped doing things. Sometimes you don't need more time, you just need better alignment to do things better. I stopped telling yes to everything that was coming to me, and I started telling yes to only things that prioritized me, myself, my growth, my family. So this has helped me to work on many areas, and within 6 months of time, I could see the results by just taking small steps. In six months of time, I stay in Kuwait, but I own my own house. This is my dream, which has surprised my husband also. घर खरीद लिया, सब कुछ कर लिया without his notice. जाके फिर बताया कि मैंने घर खरीद लिया अपने लिए. So a dream, जो मेरा था, and now it's like he's like wow. And here you can see, right? You don't need permissions. You're making your own decision for yourself, right? So this has really helped me to work. Time management is not about you know. Just a skill. I think it's a total foundation for any transformation. This transformation has helped me to become best mom, best wife. जो मैं अपने आप को credit दे रही हूँ. A successful entrepreneur. My as a confident leader. My journey from being a leader to a super coach now in this magical community. Right? So this was only possible with aligning things together, working on yourself, time management. We all give excuses telling time नहीं है, different time है, कैसे होगा? Alignment, the criteria. You have to do it, so you will see the results. I would like to thank this magical community, all the beautiful mothers who have walked with me in my journey, helped me, guided me, hand-holded me in my journey, and definitely our mentor who believed in us even before we believed ourselves. She's a woman who thinks ordinary women like us can do extraordinary things. Thank you so much. And now I can proudly say that my alignment was like joining Gold, Platinum, then my commitment joining to 15 days, prioritizing myself and the growth that has happened. The story is not over, I'm sure. It is making me powerful each day. It's writing a new chapter each day for all of us. So we need to work on every alignment, every areas to make ourselves a better version. If a 950-gram baby who began her life with a no can stand before you and tell that I am filled with purpose in my life, then I think we all shouldn't give anyone a chance to tell that your story has already been written. One S in our lives can change the entire story, right? 3 things I love about Riddhi. I think that's the difficult part. Three ढूंढ ही नहीं पाते हमलोग. I think we can fill the pages. She believes a mother even before we believe ourselves. She is the purpose that she pushes us. She shows that path, courage कि you can do. That's where we all are here in this one room. ऐसे कहीं महफिल में देखा है कि all women are sitting in one Gathering, not doing gossip, gossip. No, no, right? So imagine इतनी सारे ladies बैठी हैं and learning, working on ourselves spiritually every area. So all credit goes to her. She leads with purpose and authenticity. I think we all agree to it. She empowers not just motivates. Her one-liners, her life experiences. I tell every mother whoever I connect with, this is a community. You don't have to give a second thought. This is like अभी कोई चीज भी लेते हैं ना तो होता है कि ये का ये चलेगा या नहीं? ये मुझसे होगा नहीं? But this EPH and with Riddhi I think you can trust, believe. Blindfoldedly, everything is tested, tried. She works on herself and then gives us. जाओ जीलो अपनी जिंदगी। This is results oriented, right? You don't have to try and वो doubt self doubt ही नहीं है। Failure का है ही नहीं EPH में, right? So that's the best part. Three things I love about easy parenting हाँ. It helped me say yes to myself. I was a person जिसको बहुत तकलीफ होती थी no बोलने के लिए। मैं सबको खुश करने के लिए हाँ भाई दे दो, हाँ बहन दे दो, सब कुछ करने के लिए तैयार होती थी। But then I understood things in life that pleasing people is not result oriented. No matter how much you do, कोई खुश नहीं होने वाला है, कोई Oscar नहीं मिलने वाला है। So start prioritizing yourself. And work on yourself. It gave me a community that truly understands. This is something you know I can say that it's a God gift, especially for me. I open my heart out anytime that I want to spill. As Riddhi just now said. Don't cry alone. I lost my dad, my mom. I was there and she got to know she's breast cancer and she is sixty-five years old. They didn't tell me because I'm the most pampered daughter. एक ही बेटी वो होता है कि दूर है ना बताओ types but I totally felt there was something fishy. But then I said, okay, without telling her, I just went to India. And I go there and I get to see a different thing. I think our mothers are the greatest powers we all have got. Trust me, I reached India at 4 o'clock AM. She goes to my bedroom. She's waiting for you. She was surprised because मैंने किसी को बताया नहीं था and she was like क्या हो गया क्या हो गया क्यों आ गई है अकेली आई है या पति के साथ आई है क्या हो गया झगड़ा-वड़ा करता करके नहीं आई है then I said no mama relax कुछ नहीं she made coffee for me she went and arranged my bed अभी बच्चे हैं सोएंगे नहीं मैं दूसरी बेडशीट डाल देती हूँ and she didn't utter a word she like तू थक गई है तू जा सो जा And I slept, got up in the morning, and I don't find her in the whole house. And she's gone for her chemos without uttering a word. And end of the day, you know, I was like, what is happening? Where is mom? And this is surprising. When I'm there, she doesn't go anywhere out. क्या हो गया कहाँ है? Then I get to know about the story that this is happening. So when I couldn't speak to my family, anyone, I think EPH was the community that helped me, made me strong. Because एक हीरे को बोलते हैं ना जितनी भी जायदाद है कुछ भी एक को तो खो चुकी थी मैं, अभी एक को इस हालत में देखना मुझसे नहीं हो पा रहा था। So I think EPH mothers gave me the courage, gave me the support to you know सब ठीक हो जाएगा। So thank you so much Riddhi for this. It creates real transformation through small practical steps. You don't need Too many fancy things to be doing. Small, small things, minute things. Life में हम पहले सोचते थे कि ये क्या है? वो छोटी-छोटी चीजें भी transforms into magical results. So she doesn't teach us definitely to do hard, hard things. Simple steps, great transformations in life. Ending my thing, I— as I told you, my mom, I would like to thank her for everything, from the time she's given me birth, for the struggles she's gone through and everything to give— raise me up and all that. And today, irrespective with her health, she's taking care of my 2-year-old who's running down with fever, and she's the only reason I'm able to stand here. Otherwise, I was about to write a message telling I'm not be able to coming down. Thank you. I मैं रिद्धि को मैसेज लिखने वाली थी। So thank you mom for all your love support and my husband for supporting me, believing in me more than he believes himself and guiding me towards what he thinks that I can do. He he always tells me you have the potential just go ahead किसी के बारे में सोचने की कोई जरूरत नहीं है। I'm always there for you let me know what you want. So I would like to thank him for that. I was supposed to go to Kuwait back. Even के लिए मैंने postpone कर दिया tickets. So thank you for that. And so all because of him, I was able to experience this magical community. Thank you. Thank you everyone for giving me this opportunity and time.

Hey, yeah! Thank you, thank you, thank you for everything. Step in the light, we're feeling so bright. Hearts beating loud, we're owning the night. No more doubt, we're ready to shine. This is our moment, the stars align. We feel the beat down to our feet. Moving together, strong and complete. This is our moment. We rise, we shine. This is our journey, your heart and mine. No holding back, we cross the line. Together we glow, together we rise. Walking with fire, lifting us higher. Dreams getting louder, taking us further. No more hiding, no more small. Together we stand, together we call. Clap to the beat, hey! Feel the heat. This is the place where we all meet. This is our moment. We rise, we shine. This is our journey. Your heart and mine. No holding back. We cross the line. Together we glow. Together we rise. Step in the light.

Thank you, thank you, thank you everyone.