From orthodoxia limits to open wings | Supermom Spotlight Aysha Wafa | Riddhi Deorah

Hello, hello everybody! If you can see me and hear me clear, please put yes in the chat box. Yes. Hi Manasa, Chaitali, Dr. Monica, Kailash. One second, let me just go back. Ayaz, Mona Lisa, Mehak, Ramya, Swati, Lavanya, Priyanka, Divya, Saloni. Hiral, Niti, Priya. Okay, turn on your cameras if you can. If you're at work, I understand. Let me just stop this. Yes, so welcome to the Supermom Spotlight. This is a very, very special call. Because I'm not going to be talking today. I'm going to hear a story, and all of us are going to hear a story, and the story will be from Ayesha. And, uh, you know, if you're spotlighted, it means you're a very good student and you have breakthroughs. And Ayesha has breakthroughs in all areas— as a mother, as, uh, you know, with her daughter. Financial breakthroughs. And I'm very, very proud of her because when you hear her story, you will understand, or at least you will feel, that if Ayesha can do it— okay, let me first spotlight Ayesha— you will feel that, you know, if Ayesha can do it, so can I. So I'm so, so, so proud of you, Ayesha. I will make you the co-host so that you can unmute and you can share your screen. So the way we do it, uh, till 12 you can share your story and half an hour we can do Q&A. So the Q&A will be not around, uh, parenting questions, but you know, if you want to ask Ayesha stories like, you know, how she did it, what was her mindset when she was going through it, how was she able to overcome it. So those kind of questions, if you have, uh, you can, uh ask Aisha, like, you know, Aisha, what made you do it? How were you able to beat that feeling or beat that inner voice, that little voice that stops us? So is this clear to everybody? If this is clear, put C for clear.

Can I take my mic and come back?

Yes, yes, yes, please, Aisha, go ahead.

Thank you.

Yes, and while Aisha is fetching her mic, how many of you can visualize yourself being spotlighted and sharing your breakthrough one day? If you can visualize that, put me with a lot of E, that yes, I can visualize myself being spotlighted and sharing my story. You know, because all of us, we start at the same space, but depending on how much we— how We think the surrender with which we take action, we create the results we create, not just for ourselves but for our families. So yes, Ayesha, now without wasting more time, I think I want to hand it over to you. So I'm going to remove myself from spotlight and you can do your magic.

Awesome.

So let's put all wish good luck to Ayesha and give her a power wish in the chat. So let's put good luck, Ayesha. Ayesha, over to you. Yes.

Okay, good morning everyone. First of all, thank you so much, Riddhi, for giving me this opportunity. And yes, all the good luck. Thank you so much for all of you being here today. I'm truly, truly honored to be here as a Supermom Spotlight. All right, before I begin my story, I really want to say one thing very clearly. I'm not here to show you how successful I am, or I'm not here to show you perfection or anything. I'm here to show you possibility. Because if my journey can help even one mother believing in herself again, then I'm very happy. Type yes in the chat if you are ready to listen with an open heart. Thank you so much, Riddhi Deorah. Amazing. Thank you. So let's begin. Let me share my screen. Yes, see, I came from a very orthodox family. I studied well. I completed my master's in mathematics. Uh, I always loved learning. I always had potential inside me, but just soon after my studies, life moved very fast. Just one month after my post-graduation, I got married, and the very next month I conceived. And when my first child was just 1.5 years old, I conceived again. Within a very short time, I became a mother of two. From the outside, everything looked very normal because I have everything, but inside something was happening. I knew I had so much potential, But I was very scared of people, scared of judgment, scared of opinions, scared of doing something different. Slowly what happens is I started feeling frustrated with the version I am becoming. Not because my children were very difficult, not because my life was so bad, but because I was not becoming the woman I knew I could be. And one day I realized something very painful. My frustration was not staying inside me. It was coming out on my child. And, and that moment really broke me because my child is my world. You know that we all feel the same. Our child is our world. I love her more than anything, and I did not want my frustration to touch her heart. So that is when something inside me said, enough, this has to change. Around that time, I saw Riddhi Deorah's Reels on Instagram, and she was talking about motherhood, parenting, mindfulness, and all those things. She was inviting mothers for a mindfulness room challenge at that time. I think it's the year 2022. Yeah, she was inviting mothers for a mindfulness room challenge, and I don't know how to explain it, something inside me said, yeah, this is for you. So I joined. Eventually I become part of the gold membership as well in EPH. And I started doing the tasks, one task at a time, one day at a time, and something changed. Not just an overnight change or a magical change or anything like that, but slowly I start feeling a hope, hope that maybe I don't have to live like this forever. Maybe I can become calmer, or maybe I can become a better version of myself. How many of you also experience that same thing when you join gold membership? If you also experience that, type me too in the chat. Thank you, Aishwarya. Amazing. Me too, me too. So many me too. You are not weak at that time. You are not late. You just wake up at that time. That's, that's that this hope really means. Okay. And at that time, I was not thinking about any business. I was not thinking about money. I was not thinking about coaching. I only had one intention. I want to become a better mother. Okay, I follow the process, I trust the system. Then came Platinum. Okay, I still remember the first Platinum showcase. Riddhi said, you can be certified as a parent coach. And my mind was immediately saying no. I thought, I don't want to be a coach. I don't want to do marketing. I don't want to show my face. I don't want public speaking. In my family, showing up publicly was never encouraged. Speaking openly was not considered okay. So I thought, this is not for me. And with that itself, Riddhi said something very important. She said, even if you don't become a parent coach, this certification will really help you. And that sentence stuck in my mind. It was stay with me. I took time, I thought deeply. Okay, I— the thing which comes to my mind was like, maybe I cannot change the situation which I am in right now. But I can give the best version of myself to my children. That's the main thing in my mind while I was joining Platinum. So I decided to join Platinum. The real moment which happens on that time, I'll tell you. When I was paying that initial amount for Platinum, my mother-in-law was calling me downstairs and I quickly completed the payment. I was really waiting for her to send that payment link for the last 15 minutes of that Diamond Showcase and I quickly did the payment and went down. My whole body was shaking at that time. My hand was shivering, my heart was beating so fast because that is the first decision I took after marriage for myself. First decision. I did not tell my husband, I did not tell anyone because I knew if I explain this to people around me, they will not understand. They will say, "Oh, we raise children too. Your child is not something special. Why do you need to learn all those things?" I did not have the energy to fight those opinions, so I choose silence. But that silence was really very powerful that day. I really feel I didn't bought a program, actually I made a statement for myself that I am important and I matter. Okay, if this touched you, type yes in the chat. Yes, I matter very much. Great. See, what you declare about yourself, what you say about yourself repeatedly becomes your identity. From that day onwards, because I took the decision to join Platinum for myself, from that day onwards I started learning very seriously. I follow the task, I show up, And I really want to mention Kanak also. In that initial time, whenever I reach out, she was there. She was so patient, she was so kind and supportive, and that support gave me a certain level of emotional safety. And I really experienced that when you feel safe, you grow very, very quickly. How many of you can relate to it? If you can relate, type R for relate in the chat. Amazing. So before me moving on, yeah, now next we can talk about my resistance. Okay, growth is not smooth. Okay, growth is very uncomfortable. These were my resistance in the initial days. I was a people pleaser and I was scared of judgment. I was scared of public visibility. I was— I felt I would not fit into my circle if I show up in public. I will not fit into my circle. I was so— because nobody else was doing the same. I was afraid of being seen as different. I was scared of failure. I was scared of starting something and not finishing it. Maybe you also have those kind of resistance. Just type one word: time, money, fear, or permission. Which one is your resistance? Just type it in the chat. Time, money, fear, or permission. Which one you feel as time? Time, fear, Great. See, in my experience, I have understood the fact that if you, if you are, if your main major resistance is time, which means you are guilty somewhere, you feel so guilty is the main emotion you carry with you. If money is your resistance, which means you simply feel don't worthy. If permission is the problem, which means you forgot your own voice, okay? And fear is the issue. Understand that fear is— your brain is trying to protect you with that fear, okay? Resistance is not at all bad. Resistance is a kind of information. It really means if you are not on your growth journey, if you are not, if you are not ready for your next level, resistance won't come. Resistance simply means you're standing at the door of your next level. Resistance means your growth is too close and your growth is near. Okay, thank you so much, Balbon. So how I overcame this resistance? Great, thank you so much. How I overcame this resistance? I did not overcame this resistance by fighting anyone. I overcame this resistance by building myself, okay? One small decision, one daily task, one step at a time. I stopped waiting to feel ready because the truth is, like Riddhi says, you can't— you don't become confident first. You become confident by doing. That's why Code of Honor action taker is one of the Code of Honor. You become confident by doing. I also understood something very important. On my tough days also, I survived because I surround myself with people who uplifted me. The mothers in EPH. Not people, not the people who question my dreams, not the people who reduce my growth, not the people— always with the people who uplifted me. This is very powerful because your energy depends on your environment. Your environment is not just your house. Your environment is the people you listen to, the voices you follow, the conversations you allow. I choose to stay close to the people who believed in growth, and slowly my inner strength is also increased. Type I if this makes sense to you. Inner strength. Type I for inner strength. Great, Pragya. Amazing. See, when you choose your environment focusing on who else you want to be in your environment, you choose your future. Okay, great. Thank you so much. So next I want to move on to the very important part of my life, something that always stayed with me even before I become a mother, which is sign language, okay? My elder sister is a deaf person, okay? So sign language is not something I learned from a book or a course or anywhere. It, it came to my life naturally. It came from my home. It came from my heart. Growing up, I saw her struggles. I saw how difficult it was for deaf people to express themselves. I saw how easily they get misunderstood, and I saw how often they feel invisible. So when I started working on myself through EPH, one thought came to me. If I'm learning so much about emotions, relationship, parenting and all, why not help deaf mothers also? That was the thought came to me. That thought also came very naturally. So I started supporting deaf mothers. So I listen to them, I guide them, I help them feel seen. I did this for more than, I think, 2 years. It was pure service, okay?

But I re—

I realized— thank you so much— but I realized something very important. Service is beautiful, but service alone may not give you financial freedom. True or not? If it is true, type T for true in the chat. Service alone will not give you financial freedom. Yes. And then something really unexpected happened because I attended a deaf community celebration, and I did not go there just for opportunities or anything. I just went there with a service mindset only because I want to provide my service like that only. And there someone noticed me, and later they connected me for an offer to— offered me to work as a sign language interpreter for an inclusive company in Dubai. This company provides job opportunities for differently abled people. The most surprising part is I got this opportunity without even creating a CV. Without even creating a CV.

I did not—

I don't— I think I don't even know how to create CV at that time. So I truly believe that God gave me that opportunity because I showed up with authenticity. What I am good at, I was showing up without any fear. Later, something even more meaningful happened. I have received— thank you so much for all the cheerings in the chat. Later, something even more meaningful happened. I received a Deaf Inclusive Community Leader recognition from the Ministry of Community Development in UAE. Let me tell you something very honestly. That recognition was not just a certificate, it was a reminder that when you use your life— it's a reminder that when you use your life experiences to help others, okay, using your life experiences to help others, the world will respond. Your past pain your— the pain which my sister has gone through, the pain which I have experienced, all those past pain can become your present purpose. Okay, when purpose meets consistency, recognition, everything will come. Okay, thank you so much, thank you so much. Great. Yes, now I want to share the most difficult phase of my life. This is not easy to talk about, but it is really very important, okay? If this can help any one mother in this room, I'm blessed. So when my younger daughter was just 2 years old, she was diagnosed with blood cancer, leukemia, okay? I still remember the doctor's words. They said, uh, she needs to start treatment immediately. You are lucky you brought her early, otherwise blood could have come, coming from her mouth and skin and all. As a mother, of course I broke down, I cried. But I want to tell you something really very honestly. I cried. I'm admitting that I cried. While doctor was explaining all those things, I was listening to him and I just put both my kids aside with my husband and I just went outside washroom. I don't want to stay inside washroom, and I just cried it out. But I can tell you one thing, that I cried for only 15 minutes. Only 15 minutes. Not just because I suppress my emotions, but because something inside me shifted. I remember something Riddhi said in this Platinum. There was a course. When parents discovers that their child has a disability or any special need, of course the parents grieve. How fast a parent move from grief to acceptance, that parent become more present, more empowered, and effective. Okay, the child actually receives better emotional support. If, if a mother stays stuck in a why me God, She's not helping her child. So after crying, I told myself, this situation is not in my control, but I show up. But how I show up is in my control. Okay, this situation is not in my control, but how I show up is in my control. I choose to stand up with my child. The treatment was, of course, it was hard. The hospital visits were hard. The emotional pain was hard. But something else was happening inside me and our whole family. We became stronger. Um, yes, we truly became stronger, and we discovered how capable we truly are. Okay, and one thing which really helped me with this— I cannot— if I'm not mentioning this, I won't do justice, because the one thing which really helped me to survive those days was this— not with the people who give sympathy, but with the people who gave you strength, people who spoke hope, people who reminded me who I am. This is very important. I consciously surround myself with people who uplifted me, like I said before. This is very important. When your life becomes heavy, you don't need advice from anyone. You need energy. Okay, and that energy also comes from the right people. Thank you so much. See, your energy decides the recovery speed. It really benefits. Whichever problems comes to you, if you want to recover from that, your energy decides all of this. Okay, today I am very, very, very grateful to share this with you, that my daughter has been going through chemotherapy for last 2 years, and by coming February, her 2-year chemotherapy journey will be completed. Truly grateful for that. And I want to tell you one thing, this journey really changed me, it changed my family, it changed how I see life. It taught me that a mother is much, much stronger than she thinks. If you can truly resonate with this, if you feel it's— oh, I don't need to say anything, you people are already filling the chat. Thank you so much. After all these things, something shifted me inside, because if I can handle this issue, I can handle anything. That was the thought come to my mind, okay? If I can handle this thing, I can handle anything. I started bringing my talents outside. I started coaching mothers in Malayalam, in my regional language. At first, of course, the doubts will come. Will this work? Who will I— who will listen to me? Am I good enough? Because my Malayalam is mixed with English. I cannot speak proper Malayalam only. It will most of the time, it will be mixed with English. So am I good enough? Will they listen to me? Those kind of thought came with me, okay, came inside me. But instead of waiting for the confidence, I took action. I followed what I learned. I started creating content. Uh, yes, I show up imperfectly. Last year around the same time, I created the new Instagram account. Last year at the same time, I started posting videos and posting videos because you can see the first picture, it's only 200 views, 300 views only, okay? But I keep on posting, I keep on posting. And in June, something unbelievable happened. One of my videos went viral. From one week, from that time, I received 935 leads, okay? Till now, without running ads, without any systems, fancy systems, I have earned ₹6.5 lakhs collectively, okay? Not because I'm special, but because I trust the process. Consistency will, of course, will create confidence. Confidence does not come— to come first, you will wait for your whole life, okay? Great. Trust the process. Amazing, amazing. Before I share my top lessons, uh, I want to pause here to talk about something really very important, because something many mothers silently wish for— respect. How many of you really wish to get respect? If you really wish to get respect, type yes in the chat. Of course we all wish to get respect. Great, because for a long, long time I thought respect comes from outside, from our husband, from our family, from society. But my journey taught me something very different. Respect always starts from within. That's why respect is one of the code of honor. Earlier I did not respect my time, I did not respect my dreams, I did not respect my growth. So how could others respect it? There was a time when my husband used to get very upset seeing me sitting in front of my laptop because I would be sitting there learning, watching videos, taking notes. There was one day, I really remember that, it's a long way back. Oh, Riddhi again, he says like that. I would sit there learning, watching videos, taking notes. And to him, it looked like wasting time. He could not understand what I was building inside. Same for me now. And honestly, I don't blame him because even I was not fully confident about myself at that time. I can assure that I was not fully confident about myself at that time. But something changed when I started showing up consistently, when I started talking to myself seriously. When you keep the promises you are giving to yourself, I started investing my growth. I still— when you do all these things, you will eventually— you will stop explaining. People don't respect what you say, you will do this, you will do that. They'll respect what you repeatedly do, okay? It's not like, okay, I will do this, I will do this. People won't respect that. I will become a coach, I'll become super successful, I'll earn this much money. People won't respect that. They respect what you repeatedly do. Slowly my energy also changed, my posture changed, my voice changed, my decisions changed. I was no longer asking for permission, I was taking action, okay? And life responded in a better way. Last year on my birthday, my husband gifted me a new laptop. The same person who once felt very upset seeing me sitting in front of my old laptop, he gifted me a new laptop. But what happened next really touched me even deeper, because this year on my birthday, he gifted me a higher level program from another mentor, and he said something I'll never forget. Okay, yes, he said, if I bought you a latest iPhone as a gift, it would benefit you, but These courses will not just change you, it will make all of us grow. I didn't say I'm doing this for all of our family, I'm— I want to make all of us grow. I didn't say anything. He said if I bought the latest iPhone or something, it will help you grow only, okay? It will maybe change you, it will give you some benefits or something. But these courses will not just change you, it will make all of us grow. This is really priceless. This happened not just because I demanded respect, okay? It happened because I became someone who respected myself. When your identity is changing, no, your relationship will also recalibrate automatically. I did not argue, I did not force, I did not prove. I simply follow Riddhi's path. Whatever I'm learning, just go with that. You will see the result. And as I grew, the way people look at me is completely changed. Not just my husband's. The last month I went to India for 2 weeks. The way people and family relatives are dealing with me is entirely different. Even conversations around me shifted. Because a woman start to respect herself, she silently teaches others how to treat her. Okay, this is what I want every mother to understand today. Yes, you don't need to fight for respect. Like Riddhi always says, the moment you truly respect yourself, everything around you begins to change. Bal Bhaun! Everyone type Bhaun in the chat. Amazing. Now I want to share, I want to quickly wind up. My time, it's my time, right? Yes, I want to quickly wind up.

You have a lot of time, you have 30 more minutes.

Oh really? Okay, fine, because the timing difference is something I couldn't figure it out.

You have a lot of time, you can go easy.

Yeah, okay, thank you so much. So for my top lessons is, yeah, trust, trustfully If you can trust, just trust fully, otherwise don't enter. Because if you decide to learn from someone, just trust completely. If you are only trusting half, it will only give you half results. Okay, trust fully. Amazing. The second lesson: building yourself is the best investment because your inner strength always stays with you. Thank you so much. Build the skills, okay? Communication is something you feel lack of, it can be learned. Confidence is something you can— you feel lack of, it can be built. Consistency is the problem, it can be trained and build it in you, okay? Build yourself. This is the best investment. Build yourself, okay? Then the lesson number 3: your pain is not at all a punishment. Whichever pain you are going through, it is not at all a punishment, okay? Pain is a preparation. Of course, each and every hardship phase, hardest phase is always shaping you, always shaping you. 'If I can handle this issue, I can handle anything.' That was the thought comes to my mind. Which one goes deep? Which lesson goes deep? 1, 2, or 3? Just mention in the chat. Trust, build yourself, pain is not punishment. 3, pain. I know people are all going through the pain. Different level of pain, but it is not at all a punishment. Okay, before I close this, I want to give you 3 powerful pills. Okay, how many of you ready for the 3 powerful pills? If you're ready, type R for ready in the chat. See, these powerful Power pills are not just theories, these are not any motivational quotes, these are the truths I live through, okay? Because when a mother changes inside, everything around her starts changing automatically. You have heard the same words from Riddhi multiple times, I know that, okay? The first power pill: you are the lighthouse of your family. A lighthouse doesn't run behind ships. Okay, a lighthouse does not shout, a lighthouse does not chase, it simply stands so strong and shines. The same way, when a mother becomes calm, clear, and grounded, the whole family starts finding their direction. Many mothers say, like, if my mother— if my husband changes, I'll be okay. If my mother-in-law changes, I'll be fine. If my child changes, I'll be peaceful. If my situation changes, I'll be happy. My life taught me something really very important. When the mother grows, the whole family grows with her. Okay, when you are into Platinum, your reactions reduce. The Gold level Aisha and Platinum level Aisha is entirely different. Okay, that is something visible in those two Q&A sessions also. Both are different. Because you're in Platinum. What I experience is my reactions are reduced, my tone changes. Actually, you can create a safe space for your family, and your child feels it, your partner feels it, your home feels it. Remember this very deeply, because your growth is not at all selfish. Your growth is not an extra thing or something. Your growth is really very important. Okay, great, amazing. Second pillar: people and opportunities do not come into your life by accident. Okay, I have got multiple reels of Riddhi Deorah. It didn't come by accident. If you are here today listening to this, there is a reason. If you are here today— some people may be attending the first Spotlight— there is a reason. If something inside you felt pulled towards your growth, your learning, and your best self, it is not random. It is not at all random. It's a signal. Let me tell you this very clearly. God will never put a dream in your heart which you cannot fulfill, okay? If you feel a pull towards your growth, if you feel a pull towards your learning, if you feel a pull towards your best self, take action, okay? Don't ignore it. It really means your old identity is very small. The next version of you is calling you. Okay, just allow yourself to grow. The moment you give permission to yourself, the growth, the clarity, everything will follow you. Clear everyone? If it is clear, type C for clear in the chat. Thank you so much for all the love in the chat. I can't take this much love because my community is a very small group, which can be very easy. And this is so much love. I'm so blessed. Yes, my third pill. This is also something taught me during my hardest phase. In your toughest time, protect your energy. Protect your energy all the time, but in your toughest time, protect even more, because protect your energy more than anything else. Maybe your husband will be the person who drains you. Maybe your husband is not standing so strong while anything hard happens. It's okay, protect your energy. When life breaks you, not everyone will come to save you. Some people looks like they are trying to save you, but it is not. That's completely okay. If someone does come to help you, If someone uplifts you, if someone holds your hand, just trust them. Walk with them, okay? Don't isolate yourself. This is something I learned from my hardest time, okay? Of course, that one thing that saved me during my toughest days was, of course, this one: I consciously choose to surround myself with EPH mothers. There was a day my child was taken to PICU and I was sitting outside. One of the EPH mother is calling and we are talking. Of course, that was the toughest, and we don't know what others are going through. She just make a random call only, but that itself make— help me get lots of energy. You know, when you are going through tough time, you really need extra energy. Okay, see, just trust them. If somebody is coming there to uplift you and somebody is coming there to work for you, just trust them. Walk with them. Don't isolate yourself. Okay, and I, I feel so happy that I consciously choose to surround myself with DPH mothers at that time, not people who scared me more. Of course, I can have lots of people who can scare me at that time. I can— I have lots of people who can drain me at that time, but I consciously choose to surround myself with EPH mothers, not the people who scared me, not the people who drain me, not the people who question my strength. People who said, 'You can do this, you are stronger than you think.' These are the main things those mothers were sharing with me. 'You're stronger than you think, you can do this.' This is very important to understand. Your healing and the healing of people around you, the healing speed will depend on your emotional environment, okay? And you have all the freedom to choose your environment. You're allowed to choose your environment. Protect your energy so that you can protect your family, okay? Greed is the best pill on a daily basis. Amazing. 3 things before I end. I really want to speak from my heart about Riddhi Deorah, my mentor. I know I have from head to toe, there are lots of things, but I, I don't think I can share that much things, but I choose 3 things, okay? From there, that itself, I choose 3 things. I really love her from head to bottom. Yes. With that, okay, the first thing I really love about Riddhi is her simplicity. Whether it is her courses, her live sessions, I mean live sessions, explanations, everything is simple. No heavy languages, no confusions, because no showing off also. She explains things in a way that a mother can actually apply. And this matters a lot because a mother like me, a mother coming to EPH is already overwhelmed. If she cannot take more complexity, the simplicity in her is the true match for an overwhelmed mother because that mother really needs a clarity. So her simplicity is the one thing I really love about her. Correct. Yes. Second thing is I deeply respect about Riddhi's service mindset. She doesn't just talk about values, she lives them with a responsibility, commitment. There are so many sessions I have seen, she's sick but still she's coming and taking sessions. That commitment, the code of honor, If you will never see Riddhi not following any of those code of order because she embodies it. This is very powerful because when a mentor lives what they teach, students feel safe to trust. If she is saying something and doing something, we don't feel like trusting. Of course, no students feel like trusting. If a mentor lives what they teach, students feel very safe to trust, and that trust opens up the change in us. The transformation in us. This is why her teachings don't just stay in the head, it also stay in the heart also. Even the toughest time also, the thing was coming in my mind is, stand up for your child. That voice, Riddhi Deorah, was not coming and talking to me at that time. It's coming because it stays in my heart, okay. The third thing I love about Riddhi is love for mothers. It's not just a fake, it's not a fake love, or it's not a marketing love. Whatever financial success she's getting is the result of that true love, the real love, the kind of love that she believes in us before we believing in ourselves. She sees our potential when we see our fear only. Okay, she holds space when you are breaking. The last time, the Inner Circle call, there was a mother, she was breaking, she was crying. She holds space. I saw that multiple times. That love gave me the courage, courage to take decisions. Courage to grow, courage to show up. Okay, her love really helped me to become the woman I am today, dedicated student. When someone believes in you consistently, your identity will, of course, it will upgrade consistently. Riddhi is not coming for one day and going for like one month. She's coming, she left you for 9 months. No, like that, not like that. She's coming consistently. That's her love. Okay, I want to end up this message to every mother here. You are not just managing life, you are shaping your life. Okay, your growth is not at all small. One day your child will benefit from the learning you are doing today. Okay, one day your child, your family, everyone around you will benefit from the learning you are doing today. Thank you for listening. Thank you for growing. Choose yourself.

Yes, amazing, Aisha. You made me cry. And yes, I just want to say thank you, thank you for being who you are. Thank you for not just watching but also being an action taker, implementing. And yeah, I think all these calls I cry because otherwise I'm always talking, and when I hear your stories, I just feel so grateful, so blessed. Because I, I had never imagined doing this. So I'm so grateful to God for putting us together and, uh, you know, creating the support for each one of us. So thank you so much, Aisha. I really, really love you, uh, for who you are, for what you're doing. And I was so proud of you watching you as a mentor. It just filled my heart with so much love Pride. Such a proud moment for me as a mentor. The ease and the grace with which you shared very simply with, uh, so many powerful lines. You know, I also took some notes because I feel we are always learning. So, uh, thank you. And I loved what, what you mentioned right in the beginning, you know, and so simply you explained that what is keeping you stuck It is— is it— I want to share my takeaways from what you shared, and then of course we'll open the room and mothers can ask and share their takeaways. But you know what you shared, that what is keeping you stuck? Is it time? Is it money? Is it permission? And there was one more thing, right? Fear. Time, money, fear, and permission. And so simply you shared that if it is money, then you do not think you're worthy. If it is permission, you have forgotten your inner voice. If it is fear, then it is your brain that is protecting you. Yes. And if it is time, then you're guilty to do things for yourself because you're so busy serving everybody else that you've forgotten that you are also important. How many of you think that's so powerful? And all of this, you know, signals to us that we don't show up for ourselves and we make these excuses. Time, I don't have the money, I don't have the permission. How beautifully you explained it in just one line, that it's you who keeps yourself stuck and nothing else. And the next thing that I really loved was If God has placed a dream in your heart, God will give you everything you need to fulfill that dream. And you know, and that's my story. I had no skills, just like all of you keep sharing, no, that ma'am, I don't know if I can do it, I can't communicate, ma'am, video ne banana, I don't know if I can be a coach. Like Aisha shared that I didn't want to be a coach, I just wanted to learn. For my family. Same story, I didn't want to be a coach. Like, I had no idea that I will become a coach one day. I just wanted to do this for my child because I was like, you know, we do so many things, why can't I do this one thing for my child? I'm sending him to school and I'm learning so many things— gardening. And you know, that time I was learning CorelDRAW and Photoshop. Now we don't need it, but that time, you know, I was learning all this. Online, CorelDRAW, Photoshop. And I was like, you know, if I can learn all this, why not parenting? So, and then, you know, when I saw the shift, I felt I want to give back, I want to serve, I want to help. And when I got this feeling, I had no skills, didn't know how to make videos, was super scared to put my face on the internet. And, you know, just like Aisha, my family also, you know, they are not very encouraging of you going on social media. Like my mom-in-law, nazar lag jaega, photo ma kalo, and all of those things. You know, we all come from similar, you know, similar, uh, you know, maybe different faiths but similar mindset. And, um, but you know, if you keep showing up consistently like Ayesha shared, you don't have to justify yourself. Your actions will shift their attitude towards you. And that is so true. Like, you know, even my husband, you know, didn't believe in all of this, and now he's helping me so much. Like, you know, when we went to Goa, I was shooting half day and I was coordinating half day, and not even once he told me that, you know, we are on a 'Holiday, why are you not giving me time?' In fact, you know, when I was working and when I was coordinating with the hotel people and talking to them, he kept asking me, you know, 'Can I get you something? Are you rested? Can I get you something to drink?' Because it was very hot. So you know how things shift. And in the beginning, you know, when I had just started this journey, I remember very clearly, and you know, when Ayesha was sharing, I could just like, you know, feel everything, like living through everything. You know, you know, we had gone on a holiday, and on that holiday also I was making videos because I was a part of some video challenge by this international coach called Peng Joon's 21-day video challenge. We had to make a video every day and post it. And I remember on my holiday I was making, and you know how husbands, you know, jokingly say that, what is all this that you keep doing? Kuch nahi hone wala. All of this is bakwas, and you know, you rather enjoy your holiday than waste your time. You know how, you know, so it's— I don't blame him for saying that because of course we come from different worlds and he was not going through what I was going through. But imagine that same— and this time when I was in Goa, I just felt that whole thing came back to me because we are very intelligent, no, we can't forget. We can move on, we can let go, but we can't forget. So, you know, and it's— I don't even want to forget because it proves that I'm not the same person. It proves that when you change, people change. And it also proves that, you know, it's very simple to say that, you know, nobody respects me, but you have to earn that respect by becoming the person you were always meant to be. You have to earn that respect. And the third thing that I really loved was trust. When you're trusting, trust fully, not partially. So if you have faith in your God, have full faith. There's no such thing as, you know, 10% faith or 20% surrendered, or I'm surrendered 20% or 30% to you. Then you will get, you know, she said you'll get half results. Half surrender, half results. In my understanding, half surrender, no results. So, you know, whatever, you know, you don't have to surrender to me. Surrender to the process. Surrender to the system. Surrender, you know, like I've completely surrendered to God. You know, these days I do things I can't even make sense of what I'm doing anymore. I'm just like totally left it. And it takes a lot of courage. It's not easy. Like right now I'm writing my TEDx speech and all morning I've been crying while writing because there is so much that's going, whether I should share, not share, whether I should do it, not do it. Like when I'm sitting for puja, the theme for the event that keeps coming to me is Radha. Now I want to do Radha, but every time I'm wanting to do Radha, I'm thinking, what will mothers think? Should I do Radha? I'm telling my husband I want to. He's like, no, you can't do Radha. What do you mean by I can't do Radha? He was like, no. So, you know, I in my heart, I'm very like, you know, I love everybody. Like, for me, everybody is the same. I swear on Krishna. Like, you know, we are all spirit souls and I love everybody. And you know, in the morning, in the sankirtan, I'm meditating and I'm— you know, you should not share these revelations, but I'm sharing this because you know it's going to happen with you as well. When you keep growing and when you keep showing up, things will happen which you will not understand what's happening. And I'm just, you know, meditating and I'm just thinking that, okay, you want— like, I'm just thinking, you know, in my meditation that I want to say Radha Radha, but There's a part of me that says, say it, say it. There's a part of me that's saying, don't say it, don't say it. So I'm just torn. I'm like, what do I do? And I'm like, God, you only show me the way. And then I got a message. I was like, okay, you can feel Radha but talk different. I was like, okay, I will not talk Radha, I'll talk different. So everything, you know, it takes Everything takes a lot of courage is what I'm trying to share. You know, you might feel that, you know, when I become rich, when I become successful, and yeah, courage is a never-ending thing. No matter at what level you play, you have to show courage. There is no running away from it, and you don't want to run away from it because That's where your growth lies. Like, you know what Ayesha did? Takes a lot of courage to get into acceptance so quickly, in 15 minutes. And how many of you think that's powerful? If you think that's powerful, put P for powerful in the chat box. And that's how learning helps. You know, when Ayesha came to me, there was nothing that was happening to her daughter. She didn't know why God has put her in this room. Because we don't know what's going to happen 5 years down the line, 10 years down the line. Only God knows. And maybe by putting us in this room, God is preparing us. How many of you can feel that? Put feel in the chat box. You know, when I was getting certified as a coach, I didn't know I'm going to be doing this, but that was God's way of preparing me for this day. When I was going through those challenges, I didn't know why was this happening. Why did I lose a child? Why from So much money in my account, I went to zero money in my account suddenly. Why I had a love marriage and after having love marriage for 6 months I felt that I married somebody else. I felt, did I really love the same person? And I kept asking myself that why is all of this happening to me? But now I know because God was preparing me for today. So now when a mother comes and tells me that, you know, this has happened to my child, I can feel her pain. I'm not just talking, I can feel you. When you come and tell me that, okay, I had a love marriage but now I don't know what's happening between us, I can feel you. When you come and tell me, I have zero money in my account but I want to invest in myself, I can feel you. And that's why I can speak with so much confidence and I can tell you that even with zero money in your account, apka ho jaayega. Because mera huwaata, itne log huwaata toh apka bhi ho ka. You know, and that's what Aisha spoke about, you know, your pain becomes your purpose. Maybe when you're going through the pain, you don't feel it, but if you have experienced something or if you are experiencing something, you have the highest credibility to help. A lot of us think, oh, my life is so challenging, how can I help? If you have gone through some challenges, if you've had some bodily experience of a few things, you have the highest credibility to help because then you are not just talking, you're feeling. Like, you know, like Dr. Nikita, she's going through, you know, she's recovering from cancer. So now the way she can help cancer patients, I cannot. Because what I'll talk is all like theory, but she can speak from a place of experience. Now tell me, if you had to choose between me and Dr. Nikita to help somebody in your family who is going through cancer, 'Who would you pick, Dr. Nikita or me?' You're not going to say, 'Oh, inko toh kutkoi cancer wada, ye kya help karenge?' Apne nahi bologe na, aap bologe, inko wada, inko anubhav hai, inko experience hai, inko sama jaye ka mera situation. She will understand. So if you having relationship issues, you are the best person to help with relationship issues. If you are having parenting issues, you are the best person because you can learn, you can come out of it, and then you can show others a way to come out of it. And that's my story. And we are always going through metamorphosis. It's always changing, you know. Like right now also, you know, this whole thing, this whole, uh, spiritual parenting, God-conscious parenting, all of this came to me like last year. Now it's been more than a year, and as it happens, I keep sharing. And it's not easy. You know, my husband, yesterday we were having this discussion and he's saying that, you know, uh, why are you doing this? Why are you taking— talking so strongly about God? I was like, I have to because that's me and I have to be in alignment. Because if you are not doing who you— if you are not being who you are people will not— people will sense your energy because your energy speaks before your word speaks. I said, I— for me, God is all same. Like today also in Sankirtan, we were talking about Jesus Christ, we were talking about Allah, we were talking about Krishna. Even Krishna has like 100 names. So I feel God is one, you can give him whatever name you like, and you can choose whatever path you want to choose to get to him, but the end goal is the same and the end person is the same. It's like if I'm going from my house to Ayesha's house, I can use a Maruti or I can use a Mercedes or I can use a BMW, but I'm going to Ayesha only. I can take a long cut, I can take a shortcut, I can take the highway, or I can take the underpass. So inside, if your consciousness is clean, then you can talk about whatever is true to you. But if you are only not feeling that way, then you can't talk about these things. So thank you so much, Ayesha, for sharing. And now we will do a lot of Q&A for you. So test of good students. Okay, Shweta Pandey, am I audible? Yes.

Hello, ma'am.

Hello, Ayesha.

Hi.

It was so nice listening you. It was like just you keep, keep on speaking and it was so motivational. Thanks for sharing. I will not take much time. I'm coming to the point directly. See, if I'm— I'm planning to start my journey, I'm already on the way. So what should be the first step? Means I'm asking about making videos and putting reels. I'm not clear about that. What should be the steps?

So like, you're asking what should be the first step you need to take?

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Yes, yes, many thoughts are coming in the mind.

Uh, I'm feeling like this is also good idea, this is also good idea, but, uh, that push factor is missing. So how to start?

You have any, uh, social media account?

I'm, I'm having, uh, I have made my professional account also 2 days back, and I'm having my personal account also.

So you're clear about which areas you want to help?

Yeah, I am clear in that.

Then talk something about it. Your first content will not be perfect for sure. Okay, better.

I have made 10-12 videos, but I'm getting very confused, means like if this is good or this is good.

So like, that is something the people will tell you. Okay, you try different type, the audience will tell you which one works better.

And one more question, uh, how language plays a role in this? Means, uh, which language we should go with? Like, uh, my mother tongue is Hindi and I'm okay with English also, so I'm confused in this also, which to proceed in which language we should go further.

You have two options. One thing is you can try with both, like One English video, one Hindi video. Try which one works best and then go with that. Or if you're talking about Hindi mothers or English mothers, you can look at which area. If you're talking about a very narrow down topic, you can help with a broad. If it is wide, you can choose a narrow paper like that. Got it, got it.

Thank you.

Thanks a lot.

Thank you, ma'am.

Thank you so much. Yeah, do Hinglish, Shweta.

Okay, ma'am.

We mix it, you know, because they should know that you speak both languages.

Okay.

So if you are going to— so you can do either. You have to identify whether you are— so like for me, I do Hinglish. So I— my audience type is people who understand English but prefer to speak in Hindi.

Ma'am, your English is so simple that is very comfortable for everyone to be understood, but Many times when I speak English, when I speak English in front of mirror, there is no vocabulary, no words are coming in my mind.

And so I'm getting all Hindi.

Do Hindi, do a few.

So you do 80% Hindi, 20% English.

Is that okay? Because, yeah, okay, okay, got it.

Yeah, because people understand basic English and those are the kind of people you want to come to you. So what is comfortable for you is what you will attract. So for me, I think in Hindi. Actually, all my thinking happens in Hindi. I don't think in English. So I speak in English and I do a lot of Hindi also, but pura sochti mein Hindi mein, like, like, if I'm talking to God, it will be in Hindi.

Yes, ma'am.

So in So, but English is what I have been speaking all these years. So when I started creating content in Hindi, it was very difficult for me to start. But as I kept talking, talking, talking, now I can create as much content as I want in Hindi. Because people don't want shuddh Hindi also. People want conversational Hindi and conversational English. So the problem with me was I was talking very shuddh Hindi when I was talking Hindi. Anubhav, Lakshya. Yes, ma'am.

That was—

that is the only thing, uh, which, uh, was stucking me. Um, is that okay to mix both the languages?

Yeah, you should, because even people don't want— you want to Speak to them just like you're talking to a friend. So you'll not say, confident and— my Hindi is very good. I, a Hindi teacher, was after my life to be in the Hindi debate team. So you will not speak such Hindi because again people will not understand.

Got it, ma'am.

Confident or independent, confident, independent, everybody understands. Even our house help will understand. Confident, independent, happy, right? So we want— yes, ma'am, we want to become happy moms. Only then can our children be happy.

Got it.

That you want to just like you're talking to me, you talk on the camera. And how will that happen? You just keep practicing. All your first videos, whatever you have created, go and start posting.

I just wanted to share, ma'am, yesterday your parenting call was there and the topic was fear, and I got so many points and it was so nice that I just started with making that also. And hopefully, thank you.

Yeah, just go and post. It doesn't matter, at every level you get, you will feel I can do better. Like now also, whatever I post I feel I can do better, which is a good thing to happen because you'll feel you can do better. But that feeling should not stop you from serving. Yes, ma'am. Even now I have this feeling I can do better, and that feeling will drive you to do better. But that feeling for some people becomes an obstacle and they don't put it, they don't share it. That is a problem that we have to avoid.

Yes, ma'am.

Okay, okay, amazing.

Can you add one more thing to Shweta? Because I am also doing in my regional language but mixed with English. I cannot do proper Malayalam for every word, each and every word. I'll also mix with English.

If you—

Shweta, you're on mute.

Unmute.

Ah, that's the reason, because you are speaking English so well, but there is some touch of Malayalam also. So was thinking about the same question to ask.

Yes, yes, amazing.

Yes, I just went into a little depth for this one because a lot of mothers have this question. Okay, okay.

Dr. Nikita Gupta, thank you for the chance, ma'am. Yes, hi Aisha, I just resonated with your story completely. I don't have any question, I just want to share my viewpoint. I went through all the process that your daughter is going through right now, and after going through the process, I feel like God chose me to have this cancer only to help cancer patients, nothing more than that. I am not in any depression because I got it, because now I have found the purpose of my life. I only had It because now I want— many patients are having cancer nowadays, but now I feel I want them to get out of it. There is no point of getting depressed having that. Nothing in your life has changed after that. I feel I have become more confident, more courageous. I have felt I have taken leadership this time. My treatment was completed last month only, in November. I took leadership in December, and this leadership is making me more courageous. I am talking to mothers daily, I'm helping them daily, and I am fighting. Like, I'm thinking like, I should— and no one should fight for their life. Everything is given for a purpose. You just get out of it. The treatments are there. You just get out of the treatment, do the treatment properly, Do as your doctor says, and the life ahead is very beautiful. You don't need to waste your life for that. You have a very beautiful life ahead, and I bless your daughter. She'll be out of it and she'll be completely fine. And the way you are handling everything, it's commendable. Hats off to you.

Amazing. Yes, love you, Dr. Nikita. Ayesha, you want to say something?

Love you too, ma'am.

Yes, love you, love you. And, uh, let's put love for Dr. Nikita. Yes. And before I take the next person, just a quick announcement. On the 18th, we have a Platinum Showcase, so I want all of you to be there 100%. Even if you are scared, be there, because you don't know what God has in store for you. But if you don't show up, even if God wants it for you, it will not get delivered to you. So make sure you fill up the Platinum waitlist. So I would request you to put the Platinum waitlist in the chat, and I want every single one of you to fill this out and to show up for yourself, for your child, for your family. And you know, this will be the best gift that you can give, better than you sending your child to the best university in the world, because this will not just prepare your child, this will prepare your house, it will prepare your home. It will prepare your family, just like Ayesha shared. Like, her husband is saying that investing in you is the best investment for our family. And even if your husband does not agree right now, that's totally okay. We don't have to fight with them, but we still have to do this for ourselves. So make it happen. Awesome. So fill out the form, because when you fill this out, you'll get to connect with your team leads and understand more about it. Okay, now let's get Pragya.

Yeah, thank you so much, ma'am. Good afternoon. Hello, Aisha, good afternoon. And, uh, truly, uh, we are deeply grateful to you for sharing your journey with us because, uh, this is what I believe that each and every mother here in this session resonates with. And even my story, uh, is— I can't say that it is 100% same, but yeah, uh, approx 80 to 90% it is same. So, uh, now, uh, I am, uh, into the beginner's journey, uh, towards, uh, digital coaching. So I have had a lot many things, I have prepared a lot many things. So I just want your viewpoint or your experience If you— if it is okay for you to quickly share, what was your first experience in the offline event? What you have conducted for people? Because this is very much needed for me, like, how did you felt before going to the platform, during your session, and post that session?

Are you talking about Supermom Retreat?

No, no, no. Any offline event that you have conducted for people as a coach?

As a coach? As a coach, till now I haven't done any offline retreat or anything.

Okay.

I have just do work as an interpreter.

Okay, okay, okay. So, uh, like, not such kind of workshop or any, uh, uh, stage, uh, coaching sessions you have not taken till now, right?

Regarding the coaching, I went on stage in Supermom Retreat only.

Okay, okay.

Yeah, apart from all of those things are related to the interpretation.

Okay, okay, okay. Thank you, thank you so much. Actually, I was asking this because, uh, I didn't want to share this, uh, in here. I have got an invitation here in my hometown for an offline session, a kind of boot camp. They have invited me. And so I just— how long is it, uh, ma'am? They have totally left it on me that, uh, whatever the time duration or content you want to deliver, you just deliver. This is for college students. They want me to deliver because So let's say if you're—

I'll just share with you how you can plan it. Let's say if you're doing a full day, 9 to 6 or 9 to 7, so you divide it into 4 halves. 9 to 11, then you take a break for 15 minutes, then you go on till 1, then you take a break for 1 hour, lunch break, then you do another 2 hours and you do a tea break, and then you do another 2 hours and then you break for dinner. 2, 2 and a half hours. So you've done 8 hours of content with 1, 2, 3, 2 tea breaks and 1 big long break in between.

3 breaks.

Now for these 4 segments, you can have 4 different concepts. Now for each, so in the beginning you will do your Earn the Right and all. Remember how we did that, how to speak from the stage? So you do that whole intro sequence first, what we practice. You go through that recording And then when you go on the stage, so let's say you introduce one topic, always make them first do an exercise before you teach. So get into teaching later. First there has to be an activity.

Okay, why?

Because when you do the activity, you ask them what were your learnings from this activity, and when they share their learnings, they have already done most of the— what you are going to teach, they have already learned. Right, so it's called the PIEF method of teaching, which means that you're— it is your— they are— it's an experiential way of learning. So supposing I tell you, I meet you, I'm just giving you an example. Supposing you come to me and I tell you this tea is very hot and tea is, uh, very, uh, you know, liquidy. I can either tell you or I can give you a cup of tea and ask you to have and then tell me what did you feel. So you will say it was hot, it was liquid, it gave me a gingery feeling in my throat, or it had cardamom, I didn't like it, lychee. So you, you will have your own experience of the tea. So now you are sharing with me. Now after you are done sharing, and now I tell you tea is hot, tea is liquidy, how quickly you will absorb it like a sponge. Right, because you just experienced it. So now I don't have to try very hard to teach. Is everybody with me? If everybody is with me, put WM. It's a very good question. So most people make this mistake— they will first teach and then do activities. You have to do the opposite— first activity, then teaching. Because in the activity, they have got the lessons themselves. And when you do this, you tell your audience or you tell your students that I believe that you are smart. Otherwise, most lecturers, most teachers, they want to go and show off that I know everything. And when you try to be that person from the stage, people don't connect with you. But when you can make your audience feel that you are an intelligent audience, you are smart, you know everything. They learn the best and they love you the most. And there is very less pressure on you. You can go on for 12 hours, no pressure. But if you are teaching first, they have so many doubts, there are so many questions. Why will I get that gingery feel?

Without experience.

Because they have not experience. So let's say I say I'll give you another example which will be more relatable. Let's say, you know, some cameras are off right now, right? Now I'm asking you this question. Tell me, why is your camera off? Why do mothers keep their cameras off? Some are saying office, some are saying at work, but the genuine reasons. Sometimes you're not at office, not at work, but you're still— camera is off. I'm not looking my best, correct. Thank you for being honest. Feeding my child, multitasking, like cooking, having lunch. So you're multitasking. I'm not looking my best. I'm shy. I'm not confident. I'm at work. I feel I'm not looking good. I'm cleaning my home. I'm not confident to turn on my camera. I'm having fever. So can you see all of this is coming? Now when you have shared all of this, now I will come and say that how many of you think that sometimes we hide because we are shy, we are underconfident? We are not fully focused and we are multitasking. Did I say this or did you say this? You said it, right? Now imagine if I come as a coach and I start sharing this, you know, some of you don't keep your cameras on because you're underconfident, you're shy, you're multitasking, and when you do this, your learning is not the best. You don't like me. You feel, who is she? She doesn't know how it feels like. To do so many things as a mother. How dare she say this to me? Can you see the difference? So now you are not saying anything. It came from you and it's coming from a good place. And I'm saying, oh yeah, see, Meena is— Meera is saying confidence, Nita is saying shy, somebody's saying I'm not looking my best, somebody's saying my hair is messy. So because of all, and then I can say, it's okay, don't worry, I love you even with your messy hair. Show me your face. I love you even if you've not taken a shower. Show me your face. I want to see your smile. It's okay if you're cooking. I want to smell the food that you're cooking. I want to see what you're cooking. Oh, you're at office? Don't worry, just give me a sneak peek of what you're doing. Can you see the difference?

Yes.

Oh, you're in bank? Let me see what check are you sending. Anything, you know, you're just not forcing anybody. So it's coming from a place of love and care. So that's simple. So you, 4 sections, you can have 4 concepts. Maybe 1 section can be intro, setting the context and all of that, the first 1, 1.5 hours. And then the 3 sections, you can teach 3 different ideas. One with activities.

Okay, uh, ma'am, one more thing. Do I need to give them some activity sheets? Because the time is very short. They have invited me for Saturday this week only.

You can, why not? Depends on the activity. If your activity is like sheet-driven, keep it more kinesthetic with kids. I feel make them bond and make them do things with each other.

Interact together.

Okay, yeah, if I have to just think of an activity, so supposing there are 50 kids, let's say, uh, for an example, I can just do an activity that I'm going to play some music and I'm going to call out a number and you have to get into groups of that number. So supposing it's 50, I say 4, so 4 kids have to go and hug each other. No, it's like the room is chaos. People are running around, they are dhakka dukki, chillare, and they're hugging each other. But can you see that bond? Now somebody wants 4, they have 3, they are pulling one child from the other group. And there are so many lessons you can have. No, speed, agility, alertness, focus, bonding. Not feeling shy. Some kid will be like, I wanted to pull but I was feeling shy. Yeah, so many learnings can happen because of this one simple activity. So it's, uh, 20 minutes they can run, they can hug each other. When they're hugging each other, they're like just getting so connected. Yes, because they're in a game, they have to, you know, pull and hug and do those things. So this is just a simple example, but you know, you can have a bunch of activities, like fun activities. So it'll be more like edutainment. You're not like making it boring for kids, then they'll disconnect. You can show them a nice video if you have that LED kind of an experience, and then ask them what they learned from that video instead of going and teaching them leader— 10 qualities of being a leader. Show them a video on leadership and ask them what they learned. Okay, can all of you understand? These are simple things, but it makes a lot of difference. So all of these things we learn in Platinum presentation, and how to, uh, you know, these are small things you can use in your real life also. How many of you agree that even if you're having a small birthday party for your child, you can have fun activities like this? No, it doesn't have to be like those boring crossword search the word all the time. We can also do something like fun in a good way, of course depending on the age of your child. Okay, awesome. Aasha Rani, let's put A for amazing for Pragya and Aisha. Okay, we'll just be able to do 2 more questions. Others can attack Aisha later. Yes, yes. Asha Rani, you can unmute.

Good morning, ma'am.

Good morning.

Um, actually, I'm, I'm very lucky to see you.

And you know, ma'am, I don't know English, but Yeah, so many.

One is Asha Yadav only, then Surbhi.

I'm also Asha Yadav, but like, yes, documents, 100% you'll speak.

Uh, so many. Dr. Aman Patiala from Punjab, proper English. So it's English is nothing, it is just a bhasha, it's one language, anybody can speak it, and even if we don't, it doesn't matter.

My question is that, you know, first time I was crying and I think before 20 days, so you know, ma'am, was of the side, like positive feeling. Understand, like consistency or laziness. Every month, one day, or 10 days, What is your question?

What is your question, Asha?

Spirituality and spirituality already.

Yes, you don't have to become spiritual, you're already spiritual. You have to remember, sometimes we forget. Because we are so in fear. Spirituality ka sabse pehla rule hai faith in God, no fear. So aapke andar agar fear hai, toh spiritual kaise banungi? Yes, ma'am. It can either be faith or it can be fear. Both cannot be existing at the same time.

Yes, ma'am.

So, you know, if you learn from Aisha's story, it is a story of faith.

Yes, ma'am.

The story of courage. She didn't ask, why me? Can I manage? She said, God gave this to me and now I have to do the best with what I have. And consistency, kyun hai? Because aap dare ho.

Instagram.

No, but on your phone, when you can send WhatsApp, you can—

Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am.

What is this app?

Is nothing.

One button you have to press and watch your course.

Yes, ma'am.

There is nothing you have to do. Consistency means 20 minutes. Whatever is important for you, you will find time for it. So when people say I don't have time, it means your growth is not important to you. It means you don't want to do anything for your child. You are only saying Yes, ma'am.

One big problem is with me. I will tell you one thing, Asha.

There is no loss bigger than the loss of staying stuck. Okay, that if I am ready to stay stuck, no failure bigger than that failure. So if you have experienced the taste of that failure then nothing in the future can be more scarier than that. It will only be better than that. If this is a Balwant Putt bio, all of you, if you are having this feeling, I want to do better, I can do better, mujhe kuch karna hai, it means you have experienced the worst pain possible. Iske baad jo ek awach hai, oh gaa, iss se bada failure kuch nahi hota hai. The failure of having this feeling that I want to do something but not doing it. So if you can go through this pain, you can go through any pain. How many of you agree with that? Put A for agree. So what are you scared of? There is nothing to be scared of because whatever is waiting for you is only going to be an improvement. So all the mothers who put fear— when Ayesha put, what are you scared of? I was reading the chat, a lot of you put fear. What are you scared of? Because there is nothing to lose, there is only to gain. But if you don't take action, there is everything to lose. If this is making sense, put MS in the chat box. And this is not just Aasha's question, this is a question that a lot of you should be having, because a lot of you put fear in the chat.

You know, ma'am, like, Like, you know, platinum.

When I take ₹3.25 lakh for platinum, it is nothing for platinum, nothing. If I take ₹10 lakh for the same thing, you will take more action. If I make it ₹20 lakhs, you will take more action. I will increase it 100%. 3.5 million. At one point I will make only parenting 2 lakhs, only life coaching. If you want to do, come for 3 lakhs. If you want to do only NLP with me, come for 2 lakhs, because that's what people are taking outside. So each certificate I can make 2 to 3 lakhs if I wish to, and I will make it eventually. Not because I want the money, but because people will take action, better action then. So when you invest ₹5,000, you know, there are classes I do like one session, ₹2.5 lakhs, ₹3 lakhs for one hour call. Now before I go for that call, I prepare so much because every minute is precious. So even before I show up, so much learning has happened. In that call, my focus, my attention, everything is like at a different level. And whatever my mentor is saying, it is like moti. Whatever he is saying, I want to implement. You come and give me 1 lakh rupees for one call, and I will see how your life will not change. Whatever I will tell you, even if you are very scared, you will go and put it into action. If this is a bull bond, put BO in the chat box. Ma'am, one question is, so you have to have interest in yourself to take action.

Yes, ma'am.

I am spirituality me, or like just a course.

Platinum. Spiritual, scientific, or simple?

I'm puzzled. Like, I will tell you one thing.

What is spirituality? It is a way of living. No, ma'am, actually, you know, I'm not sharing this only for you, I'm sharing it in general. Yeah, that's not spiritual. Spiritual means every minute I'm in faith. You know what Aisha said? Maybe she's not listened to Bhagavad Gita for 10 days, but she is living spirituality. So spirituality is not doing something, it's being that person.

Yes, ma'am.

Right, when you can be in faith that if God has put me here, God has a plan for me, there is nothing anybody can lose, especially in Platinum, Aasha.

Yes, ma'am.

You will only gain and gain like more than you can imagine, not just spiritually, materially also. If material advancement is also one of your aims Because material advancement cannot happen without spiritual advancement. And even if you advance materially without spiritual advancement, that material advancement will not stay with you for very long. It will go away. So that's why some people earn a lot of money, but they lose it.

Yes, ma'am.

Because they are not ready to hold it, because spiritually their vessel is not big. But I got certified not knowing I want to become a coach. I got certified for my child. So in— when you're sitting, you will get zero clarity. You only get clarity when you are in action. I want all of you to write this: you get clarity in action. You do not get clarity in thinking. If you are sitting and thinking and thinking, you will only get confusion and confusion. Yes, you want clarity, you have to be in action. And this is not just my experience. You can go and check any successful person in the world. Oprah Winfrey didn't know she will be on a TV show. Steve Jobs did not know that he will build Macintosh. The founder of Facebook, Meta, he did not— he was building a social media connecting, um, FaceMash. Facebook baniya, he didn't know it's going to become the biggest, uh, social media platform the world has ever seen. The founders of WhatsApp did not know that WhatsApp is going to become what it became, but they were in action. They were not thinking, ki haan, yeh idea hai, yeh idea karenge, karenge toh karenge, nahi karenge toh nahi karenge, woh kar raethe. To agar aap, agar main aap se, aapke ghar aungi, mujhe koi clarity nahi resta, mikiya honewale. But that doesn't mean I'll not come to your house. Is everybody understanding this? If you understand— so those of you who are waiting for full clarity before you take action, with all due respect, I want to tell you, you will never get any clarity because clarity comes when you move, when you take action. Clarity, consistency, discipline Yes, ma'am. All of those things come only when you are in action. They don't come by just thinking and sitting and doubting yourself. And you know, this is something I want to tell you. I don't care if your husband doubts you, but I take it very personally if you doubt yourself. Why do you have doubt in yourself? You have God's energy flowing through you. Unki upar kuch chodiye na. Aap bas— you are— we just have to show up. You keep showing up, rest God will take care of. And I will share my TEDx speech, a part. Not sure if I'm allowed to, but let me. One second. Okay, I'm not able to find that exact part. Okay, I'll read the closing part. So here's what I've written in the closing part. Remember, you are not doing this alone. You never were. When you trust in something larger than yourself, you receive strength on hard days, courage when you feel afraid, support when you feel alone. You cannot know what your child's journey will be. You cannot know what your journey will be. But life trusted you to take care of yourself, and life trusted you to take care of them. And that is more than enough. The sacred pause is always available. The connection is always there. You just have to stop, breathe, and remember you're not the gardener trying to control every leaf. You are the soil providing nourishment, support, and love. The rest life will take care of. Remember, you're more than enough. So if any of you are thinking you are doing everything alone, let me tell you, we are not doing anything. I am not doing anything, you're not doing anything. God does everything. But for that, you have to have faith and you have to remove fear. All of you put DF in the chat box— delete fear. We are so sticky with money, so scared of what will my husband think, but you are not scared of what you are going through. But you're scared of everything else, you're not scared of the most important things, you're not scared of what you are giving your child. And with all due respect, ₹3.25 lakh rupees you're spending on your clothes and makeup in 2 years. Clothes, makeup, and some of you win one handbag. Then you don't think about losing and loss. And one piece of furniture we will get for our house. Dabha mein dan nahi lagta hai, but jab apne liye kuch karna padta hai, toh main da lagta hai. It is a problem of not money, it is not a problem of permission, it is a problem of self-worth. I don't believe that I deserve it. So I want all of you to put this in the chat box: I deserve it. And your child deserves it. Your role as a mother is not just to bring them to this world and just bejdiya school khaana ke ladiya, or time se so ladiya. That's not your only job profile as a mother. How can you raise a confident child when you are full of fear? How can you raise a disciplined child when you are saying, 'I am not disciplined, so I'll not do anything'? If you are not disciplined, learn to be disciplined. Just like you learn how to cook, just like you learn how to clean your house, you learn discipline, you learn consistency, you learn how to take action, you get clarity. How many of you totally agree with me? Put T. So please, mothers, stop telling yourself, I don't know, I can't do this. Aapke liye hi hai, aur aap ko karna hai, aur aap ko khudi karna ho. Gakoiya ke aur nahi karega aapke liye. And I can only sit here and talk. The ultimate decision is yours, because not even yours, actually God's. The ultimate decision is of God's. If God thinks you are energetically ready, it will come to you. Otherwise, you can keep thinking, it will not come to you. And how do I say this? Because there are mothers who had zero money in their account They are now in Platinum. How many of you are like that? If you are like that, put me in the chat box that you had no money but you got into Platinum. See, kaha se aaya? God made the arrangements. God makes your arrangements if you have faith in him and faith in yourself. How many of you didn't have permission from your husband? I'm asking your 4 problems, Ayesha, now. Put H for husband in the chat box if your husband did not agree. See, how many of you were feeling scared or fearful? Put F for fear, that I was feeling scared but I did it. And what was the last one?

Time.

How many of you were feeling I'll not be able to manage time? See, and how many of you now think you can manage time, money, fear, and permission? Put TM. I love your force. TMPF. I can manage all. It is as simple as that. And those who are ready can come, those who are not ready, it's okay. It's your decision, your life. Yeah, if you don't know how to make videos, you learn how to make videos. Saipala, even I didn't know how to make videos. No, even Ayesha didn't know how to make videos. Nobody knows how to do anything till they learn how to do it. We didn't know how to read and write, we didn't know how to walk, we didn't know how to eat, but do we do all of this now? We didn't know how to ride a cycle, bicycle, we didn't know how to swim, we didn't even know how to run, but we learnt everything. When we were born, we didn't know anything, we just knew how to smile and cry. But we learned because we were not saying, "Oh, I can't learn, I can't do." So it's not about whether you can or you can't, it's all about what you repeat to yourself every single day. So if you're repeating, "You can, you can," if you're repeating, "You can't, you can't." Great, amazing. So with that, Anu John. Anu John, please write an email to Kanak. Yes, let me take a picture with Ayesha. Ayesha, I want to take a picture with you. And let's all put A for amazing for Asha Rani. So Asha Rani, binna dare binna ghab rahi, age badi hai. Love you. Yes. All right, one second. I'm looking like some— yeah, all right, let's get our heart emojis. Let's take a nice picture. Yes, all great. I got the picture. I want all of you to put thank you for Aisha or put love you Aisha in the chat box for her time and for sharing so vulnerably and openly her whole story. And, you know, I know one thing: if Ayesha can do it, if I can do it, all of you can do it. And how many of you feel the same about yourself? Put 'I feel' in the chat box, because if you don't feel, you'll not be able to do it. It has to come from you. Right, so please come on the 18th and make it happen for yourself. Actually, I'll not say please, come and do it for yourself. You know, you should be saying, I need it, I need it. You should be jumping with excitement. That's the kind of attitude you should have when it comes to your growth. Yeah, attendance you can mark. And tomorrow again we have a very beautiful story from Bhumi. And I want all— how many of you are loving these spotlights? If you're loving the spotlights, put love in the chat box. So tomorrow Bhumi will come and she will do her own magic. So come for these spotlights because, you know, what I say might land, might not land, but when you hear mothers like you speak, you will feel that it is possible for me. And that's the whole intention of doing these spotlights, for you to change your whole belief that I can't do it. I'm desperately waiting for the 18th. Manit Bhatia. Yes, love that. How many of you are waiting? Put wait in the chat box. Good, all of you should wait and then move, not just wait. Amazing, great. So we'll not be able to take more questions because we have a timeline for these calls, but Ayesha is there in the groups, so you can ping her and connect with her separately. But the whole intention is for you to come and for you to share. Shalini Singh, bol ya, itna bar mein enko mana kardiya na, I'm feeling guilty. What is happening? Told you, okay, one minute you have.

Sorry for always late na, ki aapko aur bar mujhe mana karna barte, but we will take nahi share sote, hain, toh mera man karte hai mein bar bar share karo. Thank you and love you. Take action. And I got my video viral with 325K.

Wow! No, this is what I mean by showing up. You keep showing up and you keep doing the work. God will— 100, you know, Aisha's video went viral. All my students who are posting, their videos are going viral at some point. You have to keep showing up. You want to do 2 videos and you're like, kuch nahi ho rahi hai, up kare toh 90 days without a break.

Followers. I think 1,300. Yes. How to convert audience in lead?

Audience type of question, Shalini, we'll do in the main call. That's okay, okay, because it will take time and we are— we want to close this call. Okay, so I'll do this in the Platinum call when we meet.

Yeah, definitely. Okay, okay, amazing.

Okay, yes, let's put A for amazing for, uh, Shalini. All right, love you guys, love you Ayesha. And I'm waiting for every single mother to be on spotlight. We're gonna do this every month and I want you to be spot— the attendance is activated. Oh, it must have gone. Okay, wait, let me share the attendance link. It activated it, but if you've not marked it, maybe it's gone. There, you can mark your attendance. I've shared the attendance form. Yeah, you can select Inner Circle call, correct. Awesome, thank you so much. Love you guys. And be awesome, keep learning, and always be in motion. Keep taking action. You keep showing up, and then God will do everything else through you. You don't even have to worry. It will happen in a very easy, effortless way. I was just writing a post. Let me read this to you before we close. Might give you some courage. I was planning to record an audio and send it to you guys so that you can hear this every day. I show up for my dreams even when no one believes in me. I show up for my life even when no one supports me. I show up for my purpose even when I'm scared. I show up for my child even when I'm unsure. I show up for my family even when I'm tired. I show up for my growth even when I feel it's slow. I show up for my healing even when things feel heavy. I show up for my voice even when it shakes. I show up for my strength even when I doubt myself. I show up for myself even when everything feels uncertain. Because when I show up, God shows up, and when God shows up, everything happens for me easily and effortlessly. And this is my story. And you know, I just feel it is all our stories. We just have to show up, show up, show up, show up, show up, and then God will show up and things will keep moving. When God— God is already there, but you know, you feel the shift when you feel the shift. So for some of you, maybe 1 month, for some of you 5 months, for some of you 6 months, some of you 1 year, but it will happen 1000% for every single one of you if you show up. I have no doubt in that. Depending on our past karmas and all of that, timing might differ. Because if we have to cut more karma, maybe we have to put more effort for 6 months. Maybe Mera aur Asha Rani ka ho sakta Asha Rani ko teen mein aalag hai, mujhe chahiye maine lag jaye. But koi baat nahi hoga am dono ka. Maybe Kinjal ko ek mein nahi mein ho jaye. So it's not a race, it's not a competition. It's you just becoming a better version of yourself. You don't have to prove a point to anybody. It's about you working on yourself with courage. Okay, awesome. So fill up the waitlist, come tomorrow, and then come for the showcase also. Love you, take care. Okay, some of you are filling up. We'll send the waitlist form on the team groups also, so you can fill it up from there also. Super coaches, you can just send it on the team groups because I'll close the call. Yeah, thank you.

Bye.