Homemaker to ₹ 2 - 3L/Month Career Counsellor | Supermom Spotlight | Kanika | Riddhi Deorah

And I just ran into this one.

Yes.

Hi Monica, hi Shalini, Archana, Deepika, Rachana, Shruti, Shushma, Shobha, Pooja, Padma, Mosumi, Nishiganda, Sonal, Anu, Nityas, Nehal, Ami, Rosmi, Priya, Manogna, Riddhi Deorah, Khushboo, Avinash, Okay, maybe you're— I, you, she. Amazing, amazing. Isha, love, love, love the energy. Also let me know in the chat box, how are you feeling in this moment? This is a very, very special call because in this call I will not do any talking. Most of the talking will be done by Kanika, and we'll be spotlighting her just in a minute. And these calls are very precious because This is my real win. You know, when my students win, that's my real win. And the reason I stand— we just started doing this from last month because I've realized that, you know, when I say that it's possible, it's a different thing. But when you hear a mother just like you create those results, your conviction, your commitment, and your trust will instantly increase. If you agree, put A for agree. Then, you know, when you see somebody like you who started from nowhere to, you know, start being independent emotionally, financially, in all areas, you will feel that, okay, if she can do it, I can do it too. So that's exactly my aim with the Supermom Spotlight. So every month we will try to do at least 2 Supermom Spotlights, if not more. And we'll see if we can make it once a week, but to start with, we will do twice a week. One week in the month, we'll do 2 Spotlights. And the reason I want to do this back to back instead of leaving a one-week gap is because, you know, when you are hit, your energy increases. Then if you wait for another week, it goes down. So I want to give you at least 2 stories back to back in a week so that, you know, it just pushes you out of your comfort zone. So we will start with Kanika. So let me spotlight Kanika for you. Kanika, if your video is on, you can just wave at me so that I can spotlight you. Yeah, I see Kanika now. Yes, also let me spotlight myself.

Yes.

So hi Kanika, welcome to the Supermom Spotlight. It is an absolute honor to have you and to hear your story. I'm so, so, so proud of your story and what magic you're creating. So what I'll do is now I will remove myself from the spotlight and I want Kanika to take over. So Kanika, you have 40-45 minutes to share and then we'll do at least 20 minutes of Q&A. So the intention is to wrap this up by 12:30. So you divide your learning and Q&A accordingly.

Okay, all right. Thank you, thank you so much, ma'am, for giving me this opportunity. Like, it's a great, great privilege for me to, you know, be a part and be a spotlight. Like, it was a dream come true. Like, I always used to see mothers coming up. And to tell you, uh, like, to begin, first I'll tell you the backstory today. Yesterday I was not in Amravati, in my home, like in my town. I came back at 4 o'clock in the morning. So I was like praying my God only, like, these, uh, situations, I see banana, so that, you know, I'm in a complete position to attend the call and do the justice. And in the morning, then my mother-in-law said, okay, we have Mahadev ji puja today. It's a grand puja to all the relatives. So I asked my mother-in-law very politely, please, so that I have an important meeting. I tell you, this was not the situation 2 or 3 years ago. Things used to become very bitter at my place. So my journey is like, I have come to this place not only professionally but personally also. I have developed my relationships and everything, and all credit goes to Riddhi Ma'am. Like, gratitude to my God, and the second person comes is Riddhi Ma'am. Like, what I have become today is because— and I was so, so grateful and thankful. Things have become so, you know, peacefully arranged and like settled. Otherwise, and I have to go for certain things, to be honest, in very raw words.

Yes, yes, I understand.

But my— I'm not— because my approach has changed. The way you approach everything, the You know, there is a lecture, is like you have to think about what reaction will come. Yes, in one of your life. So, so it's always you have to put the things as per that so that the reaction comes and we are ready to take it.

Ready to take it.

Anyways, yes, so anyways, like you can see my dark circles, sleep deprived. So, but it's okay, it's a part and parcel of— yes, but I'm happy for this.

You look amazing and the work that you're doing is amazing. So we will just get rolling now. Let's all put good luck for Kanika in the chat box. Okay, I was on mute. I was just saying let's put good luck and let's get started. Awesome, Kanika. So now you are spotlighted and I'm your student now. I'm just going to listen to you. Yes, amazing.

Uh, see, my journey started— it's like I was expecting my second son. Um, can I be elaborative and, um, put everything like what I have gone through and everything in a raw way?

Yeah, the more raw, the more natural, the more we connect. Just be in your flow energy.

Yes.

So, uh, since 2018 or '19, like, uh, ma'am's son and my elder one both are of the same age. So I used to follow Riddhi ma'am, and I used to see what activities. I still remember the garden area. Ma'am used to daily upload the videos of son along with mom doing activity. So I always used to look forward, like, how calm and composed she is, how can she take out the time. Because daily, for in daily routine, uh, to take out the time for the kids and do the activities, it was a very big Herculean task for me, like, back then in 2019. So always used to follow her and even ask her for some links and everything which mom used to share earlier. So, and in 2020, when there was a certain crisis in my family, my husband got AVN. It's avascular necrosis because of COVID medicines. It was a side effect. So I was very shattered, like things came to halt. Literally, like doctor said, ki second toh conceive karna hai ka sochi nahi sakte ho. He cannot, you know, go for a— like those who are medicals over here, they can know what is AVN. So then Masterclass ka mujhe ek baar notification, because I used to rigidly follow ma'am, like religiously. Like every morning I used to look for what she has uploaded in her stories and what activities she's taking out and what type of content she's putting, just to be in her shoes and like be like her, ki like she is doing a lot for her son, so even I want to do it. Then masterclass ka hai ata, like both the languages are ma'am okay, like not like Hindi and English completely, right? So, uh, but unfortunately I was not able to attend because of disturbances and like a lot of things were happening in my family. But I always wanted to, you know, to look up to. Then, um, back in 2023, I finally made my mind like I have to do certain things for my society because I used to see a lot of mothers around me. And yes, in 2020, I did my certification of a career counseling from UCLA, University of California Extension. And my background is I'm MBA in HR and marketing and 9 years of experience with banking and education schools as a training and placement officer. But after marriage, I got married into a big joint family of 15 members, like me, mother-in-law, ko all do co-sisters see. So it's like teen saas mein ko ek saath and all sabki family we were staying together. And those people have like never, you know, step out of the home for anything, you know. Without husbands. So it was a very big challenge, ki after marriage there would be no possibility of doing job and all and working. It's like, first your priority is your home and your kid. So back of the mind, this was also, you know, a stress point for me, ki like I have done so much of education. I did my soft skill training from Singapore, and what I'm doing here is— and I was not able to give 100% to my son also. My elder one is 9 years old now. So kahina kahi, I was struggling a lot with my physical things. Things were not going in a proper way, handling a big family all the time in kitchen, kitchen, and like no self-care routine, nothing. So stress level was at peak. Relationships were degrading even with my husband. Like many times it used to happen, we do not used to speak to each other because of all this thing, because I was into so much of stress. Like I always used to ask me, I'm not deserving this. I have not married, like, you know, to deserve this kind of life. And that's why I was not able to give 100% to my son also. So in 2023, um, finally I made my mind. I was, um, 8 months pregnant with my second child. So I made my mind, I have to attend a masterclass of Nam. But to be honest, I was not at all in a frame or in a position, masterclass asked me what I'll be getting. I just, ma'am ka hai, so I have to— because, uh, since 2019, I'm saying, I'm following her. So I had known, you know, what type of content and what type of a person. A judgment, seeing a person's content or what type of the things she's putting up and what type of things that are coming from her side. So I still remember the date was January 2023. I— and same timing, morning 10:30 ka hi time tha, and it was a one-to-one session. I attended the session and believe me, like straight away I said I just want to go for Platinum membership. No Gold membership, no Diamond, nothing. That time I was only having 10K in my account, swear to God, but those vibes and those intentions were so pure so genuine. But I have to go for because why I want to go for because I want to uplift the mothers, uplift the society surrounding me. When I see every day when I step out of my home, I see every mother is struggling, no doubt. And so our kids are suffering. So the journey starts with yourself. First you have to heal yourself. And whenever, you know, parents come to me for career counseling, I say The problem is not with your child, it starts with you. So I wanted ki mujhe pehle kuch kohi hi karna hai, and for that this is the source what I have. And then gradually I settled down the payments, but there was no looking back. In 2023 March, I delivered my second son. I tell you, January, February, and March was my super hit period. Like every day I used to complete all the targets, everything, everything, like even the Facebook comments, all, all. Like every day I used to, you know, give myself 2 hours for learning and all. Then a U-turn came, like as always in everybody's life it comes. After my second delivery, when I was in my resting period, I used to complete the courses and all. But gradually, when my second son started you know, growing up in the toddler phase, crawling, and my elder one was also growing. So things became, you know, again started shattering. I was not able to control, like, can say, manage both the kids, family. Then again, the things started becoming better, worse, you know, with the husband, joints to set up. That time, yeah, my, um, resting phase of 40 days was amazing, which was not in my first delivery because I was not having good terms with my mother-in-law. But when I went to all the courses of self-care, self-connection, and all, which was Initiation, so things were very good with my mother-in-law. It was amazing phase, like I always cherish that with the second delivery. After my first delivery, I went into a huge postpartum depression, and because of that, I took 6 years to, you know, plan for the second child also. I was not ready also mentally, physically. But my husband always wanted for the second. And again, I'll say, don't go for others' opinion. Think about yourself, what you want as a mother. Like, if anybody is planning for the second, if you are ready, then only go for. I went for the second and I'm not getting any support of my husband, but learning was there with me. And second one, responsibility. Then academic year started, like my son was into the first standard, like as a 6-year gap is there. So uska burden bhot zada barge school ka second one, like managing 2 kids. And I had stopped attending the lectures, calls and lectures. So my ship, like everything went down completely out of blue on a single day. Like I asked many of my, you know, um, how to manage. Then one fine day I was like, "Bhot, again now I need to speak to Riddhi Ma'am." I spoke to her in an Inner Circle call and she just said me single one, "Kanika, you just start coming to Inner Circle call and take a very small step. I'm not saying you give 1 hour which you used to give earlier, but at least try to." And believe me, from that there is no looking back. Like no, no looking back. I started recording my own videos. You can visit my page. As it is, as a RightWay consultant, I've started myself as a career counselor. Practice initially, 2 months I had no single client student for counseling. Even I used to doubt myself. Even I had doubted, ki career options hai ki nahi. I'm like, you know, coming into this. Then I spoke to fellow mothers, like few of my friends are there, like Pooja Bhargava and Ashita. These were the fellow members who have joined along with me in 2023. So I was connected to them. I spoke to them also very 20. Like, this is— this tribe is a blessing for me. Like, what I am today can be because gone on mute.

Kanika, yeah, unmute.

Yes, ma'am, thank you. So, um, they used to even say me, Kanika, start going through the courses go through that courses which you really need now, like sibling rivalry, postpartum, and then I started recording the lectures. Then, um, like I was career counseling the students for India education only. Then I got an opportunity for overseas admissions, and like in this month of September, I got award as the best educator. So This is my journey, what I have come today.

Wow.

And earning part, many kabini so chatha, you know, belonging to a family, like, I can't say orthodox because— and I won't blame them. Initially I used to blame them, but now I understand their point of view because they haven't seen any— because I'm the first daughter-in-law of the family, so they haven't seen, you know, ki, uh, comfort zone se bahar ake women's going out and, you know, doing And mark my words, after seeing me, my sister-in-laws are now— they are also working. They have also started, you know, um, channelizing their dream and everything. And my income today, in a month, I earn around 1 to 3 lakhs per month.

Yes. How many of you can say that? Wow! From a mother who didn't have 10,000, who had only 10,000 rupees in her account when she came. And look at the courage, you know, direct Platinum. Some of you are sending me messages, ma'am, only 2 days I have joined Gold, should I turn into Platinum? You guys know me, you know the system, and still you're thinking.

And ma'am, I'll tell you one thing, for 6 months I did not reveal this thing to my husband because he'll not understand and he'll say, when I did complete and he was like, you have changed a lot. That time I revealed to him, I enrolled for this course, like for Platinum membership.

Wow.

So it was not asking him also, because that was genuine thing. I have to change because I cannot, uh, you know, waste my years into low life condition. Like everything was hampering, not only me, my stress level, everything. I had gained a weight of around, you know, 5-10 kgs. Not only emotionally and mentally, physically also. My relationships were shattering like anything. I used to like— I even thought of divorcing my husband at a point when I was expecting my second child. So things were that worse. And touch me today, it's like all— I'm a blessed soul, what I can say.

Amazing, amazing. Love this, Kanika. How many of you are feeling totally inspired? If you're feeling totally inspired, would I feel inspired? You know, I just want to tell you one thing, just follow the system, you know, go through the courses, follow the path. You know, Kanika, if you were to share your top 3, top 3 reasons, uh, for your whatever breakthroughs you had, what would those top 3 be?

Um, it's just, uh, go with the flow. Like, one second. There is— yes, it's never stop learning. It's like, you know, there comes the days when your body, your mind is not— but that is the day when you need more of, you know, learning part. And trust Riddhi Ma'am process blindly. I'll say, like many will say you are a fool, but no, I had seen myself. She's a modernized spiritual guru. Will give you everything. Like a plant, whatever plant needs, we are a plant and we need everything what she is giving. So trust the flow. She is sunlight, she is water, she is everything what you have. Like, so kahi bahazane ki nahi di niye, trust me, never. And this community, I said, many of my fellow friends were there, so I used to speak to them. It was not always possible to come for the calls and all, so I used to speak to them and they were my biggest motivator, not my family. No, my cousins, no, nobody. So 3 top 3 learning is not no stop, 3 takeaway points is like never stop learning. I still remember Riddhi Ma'am's, the day was the day you stop learning is the day you are going back in your life. I have to see a lecture, whatever it is. I have like, you know, 5-6 diaries. I have a habit of, you know, writing. I'm not saying you should even follow this, but stay top learning and never stop learning. Trust the process what Riddhi Ma'am is showing you, because she has— even I had seen her journey. And third is this tribe is the biggest blessing. No rivalry, no wrong judgments, nothing. It's pure, pure connection what you get.

Yes, love it, you know. And, uh, this is so important. So how many of you are going to do what Kanika did? But me, you know, I will tell you, you want success, just become the best student. You know, that's my story, that's Kanika's story, that's the story of every mother who was spotlighted— Dr. Aman, Surbhi, uh, Asha, all the mothers, Dr. Shauveta. The idea is that just Follow the process because, you know, people fail, systems work. So if you follow the process, it has to work. There is no reason why it will work for me or it will work for Kanika and it will not work for you. The only time, you know, like if I give you a mixie to make chutney, the mixie will make chutney for Swati, it will make chutney for Isha, it will make chutney for me. It is not going to say that nein mein pas riddhi ke liye chutney banao. Vananga, the mixie will be the same for all of us. So just like that, this process works for everybody, but it will depend on your level of faith and surrender. If you have faith and if you have surrender, 1000%, it will work. Now tell me one thing, by investing 3 lakhs or 3.25— now by investing 3.25 lakhs If you can get access to a system that allows you to make 3 lakhs every month, how many of you think it's a smart thing to do? If you think it's a smart thing to do, put S for smart. So when I say these things, you know, like, I just want all of you to take action. It's the same process. And you know, imagine, you know, Kanika joined me in 2023. Since then, the system has evolved so much.

Exactly.

I've refined—

we used to watch on Teachables, on Teachable.

They didn't even have an app. They didn't have feed. They didn't have, uh, for everything elsewhere they had to go because that time this app was only not there. They had to watch it on their laptop or on the phone browser. You guys, it's like even simpler. You just have to They had to remember password every time they had to log in. You don't even have to do all of that. Once you log in, you stay logged in. Or even if you have to log in, you just have to put the OTP. So, you know, the process— they didn't have all this Supermom Spotlight which I'm doing for you guys now. I'm bringing my old students and even some current students who have done well. So you have so much now, like even more than, you know, what you can imagine. They didn't have Sankirtan. You guys have that full spiritual thing happening in the morning which will give you the mindset, the courage to become fearless. So how many of you think that if Kanika can do it, you can do it too? Put 'I can do it.' And how many of you want to be sharing your story one day just like Kanika did? Put me with a lot of E. Now everybody is putting E, me, me, me, me, me. But sab ka nahi hoga, unka E hoga jo courage dekhainge. She was— yeah, yes, Kanika.

One thing to say, uh, like when students come to me for, you know, career counseling, the mothers always, um, have this complaint, my student, my child is not disciplined, but what, uh, in learning and all. But I personally feel it starts from a mother, how disciplined you are with yourself. And it's come with the learning also. Okay, kitna ham discipline, you know, he's not regularly doing. Are we regularly feeding ourselves? It's not only about the food we have to— this what you are giving is also food for our soul, for our brain, for mental peace. So how much discipline we are in giving ourselves. This is the big question. I am—

yeah, also Kanika, I want you to also mention about the time thing because a lot of mothers are thinking, how did you manage your time?

Uh, see, uh, I always had this, you know, one principle of mom, to be honest. I tell you, in the morning I came at 4, then from 6 onwards I have to send my both the kids school and puja bitha. And even I was fasting. So, so you have to keep that 1 hour. Like, you watch reels. Every mother has this habit because that is the time is they say, you know, we have got our me time. So that me time is not— yes, not to waste, but to invest for yourself. And believe me, you will thank yourself after a year. Okay, what I have come today, and discipline is the boring thing, but the boring and the random thing you do for yourself is the best thing for you. That will not help you grow. This is my personal experience, which, you know, will make you grow. So you have to think what you have to do. I had keep my time as 11:30 to 12:30. After my, you know, my husband takes dinner late, so I have to give myself for this learning. Now what I do is I'm, uh, that one hour content creation and learning. This is all I do throughout the day.

I'm just feeling so proud of you, you know, exactly what I keep repeating every day. How many of you think that even as working mothers you can do 11:30 to 12:30? Put me in the chat box. As a homemaker living with 3 generations of mother-in-laws— some of you only 1 mother or 3 mother-in-laws in the same house— 2 children, pregnant mother, homemaker. When I used to go, all resources you have, you are like a role model. Next showcase, I will put Kanika, homemaker. Kanika, no money. Kanika, 3 mother-in-laws. That, and she did it. Nobody in this room will make any excuse, ki time nahi hai, family badi hai, and all this that you keep telling me all the time. Yes, Kanika.

Ma'am, uh, like, you know, your words are fit in my brain like anything. Whenever you go for certain, you know, do some productive things. So what I used to do, like going for my gynec visit, going for my scan, sonography I used to watch the lectures. Overthinking, like I was an overthinker a lot. I have to utilize my time. So this also trick I use, and still I use this trick. I carry my AirPods everywhere, and you know, throughout the journey, or I'm getting 15 minutes also, I have to watch. 1 hour is dedicated apart from them. Like I'm now Because I want to grow. Ultimately, if I'm not growing, my family will not grow. Like, not in terms of physically, but mentally, emotionally. And iska result abhi nahi dikhta naam. After 10 years, after when your kids come into teenage, adult age, that time— because I see, you know, the parents who come for the counseling, they literally cry because tab woh galti ham karchu ke. So this is the right time. Don't waste your years. Invest in yourself because the more you give yourself, especially to your kids. I mean, these are the building years.

Yes, Kanika, your next target, 10 lakh month. It will happen, definitely.

I'm trying.

It will happen for sure, I'm telling you.

For sure.

And now you have shared, uh, with so many mothers. So, you know, when you help others grow, you automatically start to grow. So you will definitely hit it, uh, and, uh, so proud of you. Now, anything else you want to share? Because I want to open this up for Q&A.

Um, ma'am, this is only like, um, I said ma'am's words are hit in my— just I have come for the spotlight, that's why I'm not saying, but words, any lecture I attend of hers and everything. So it's like few things what I've taken religiously. Give yourself time. And don't waste your time in unproductive things. Like, I was a binge watcher Netflix. That I have stopped myself. I don't watch any web series. Yes, because I know I'll again go into that trap. And we all know our, you know, um, lackings. So overcome that. And trust the process. Again and again I'll say, she's much, much experienced than you. Like, she has got— she's a blessing in our life. Every time, like, you are a blessing for me. I don't know how I have come here, madam, and I can't— I was in a position, I used to ask my husband, shall I buy the lipstick? And I don't know how I, you know, No, ma'am, no gold membership, no, this just—

yeah, so that time the deposit amount used to be ₹10,000, now we've made it ₹20,000 deposit, and very soon you will— I'm not joking— very soon the deposit amount will become ₹1 lakh. It will happen. So the sooner you get in, the better it is.

And yes, yeah, one more thing, uh, I see many students come to me for, you know, Ivy League colleges. Many of them would be knowing Ivy League colleges, and parents are ready to invest hell amount of money to get into Ivy League. But I'll tell you, first you do these things, and it's quite obvious you will inherit this knowledge to your other generations also, to your sons, to your kids, daughters, and that will pass on to generation to the generation. And this, what you're learning today, is not less than an Ivy thing you get from those colleges. Because if you are good as a person, as an individual, kuch bhi theez hai aapko rookne sakthe to grow physically, career-wise, emotionally, and mentally. These are my words as a career counselor.

Yes, with all due respect to Ivy League students, because you know I am one from one such university like University of Cambridge, Yes, and you know, I'm saying this with a lot of humility. I'm at least making what they're making in 2 years, I make in 1 month. Ivy League graduates. And I'm saying this with a lot of humility, and not just in terms of money, in terms of the impact, the, the spiritual karmic points that we get for the work that we do. Nothing can come close to it. And you know, this is something that is so perfect for women. We can manage our homes, we can manage our children. And not just me, now, now my students are also making— like, I'm telling you, even if you come from Ivy League, you cannot get a ₹3 lakh job in India. If you agree, put A for agree. It's not easy. You have to work for at least 5 years to get to a ₹3 lakh job. Minimum 5 years. You can't even think of delivering a baby and then, you know, getting to that ₹3 lakh a month, which Kanika is already doing. And this is just the beginning, you know. 2023, she joined, she started taking action after, you know, she was pregnant for 3 months. After that, you started taking action almost. So when did you really start taking proper action, Kanika?

Um, ma'am, 2022, mid-'22, because I said now one year I had literally wasted. And I, if you remember, I was in 2023 who joined me. Yes. And for 6 months I was very active, then next 6 months I was like completely drowned.

When did you like really start talking about the career count? '24 then, right?

No, no, '22 and a half, like after, uh, sorry, '24. Yes, '24.

20—

because planting of the twin.

23, you said you joined. So 2024.

Yes.

After 1 year of learning is when you launched yourself properly. Yes, correct.

Yes, correct. Absolutely right.

Yeah. So like, and 24, so in 1 year.

Yes. And, uh, ma'am, like, um, before, like, uh, there is always 2 options available. I have to study for my career counseling also still today because there are the new courses and new things happening a lot. But, um, I always give first preference to this course because you have to be very strong as an individual, and then you can, you know, give that things to the others. And mark my words, uh, parents, counseling is only the 10% part of the career. 90% problem into the wrong habits. So this is not only, you know, um, you develop as a parenting coach, but every way these things will help you out. And I used to even speak about these sessions whenever I— and even I visit, um, the colleges. My biggest achievement, ma'am, last month was I graduated from a college, uh, of Pratibha Tai Patel was the ex-president, and there I was invited as a guest speaker. So this was like, you know, huge.

So proud of you. It's so amazing when I see students do this. And you know what you mentioned, you know, there is an equation for this. PD, personal development. All of you write this.

Yes.

PD is personal development plus SD. SD is skill development equals to BD. BD is business development. PD plus SD equals to PD. Now under PD, in brackets, you write 95%. Under SD, you write 5%. Equals to, under SD, you write 100%. So understand this, you know, skills are very easy. It is only 5% of the whole thing. So, you know, career counseling, what Kanika is doing that is 5%. Any— all of us can learn our skills. Yoga, let's say you want to become a yoga trainer. Learning yoga and teaching yoga, like 5% of the skill, it's not difficult because when you are in a learning mode, we are in our comfort zone. So all of us can learn and become good students of yoga. But PD, personal development, is what you need. What is PD? What will PD include? Discipline, courage, overcoming fear, communication, managing family, managing child, managing time, managing life, my emotional health, my personal health, my overthinking mind. And that's why this 95% you need in any area, whether you are in a job, whether you're a homemaker, whether you're a career counselor, a yoga instructor, a phonics trainer, uh, you know, uh, abacus trainer, a handwriting coach, whatever. If you can master this 95%, like, I can say this with a lot of confidence, I'm not going to do it, but give me any topic, give me any topic, I can teach that topic. And I cannot just teach, I can give you a guarantee that everybody will love it. Why? Because 95%— that confidence, that courage, that fear of whether people like it, will like it— that's, that is solved. So now in this age of information, preparing any topic is no rocket science. You can go and talk about— no, singing I can't teach. Okay, it's so funny, you guys. Okay, okay, so singing I can teach. Ulta singing, I can't teach. But see, very smart. So understand, 95. So how many of you are ready to master this 95%? And you know, all the Supermom Spotlight. And we have a course for those of you who are new Gold Mothers and you were not able to see it. We will be uploading Kanika's story also here. Instead of watching Netflix, I want you guys to watch this. This is master of all real stories. One second. These are real stories of mothers just like you. So when you go to courses, just go and type this Super Mom Spotlight. Can you see this course? There are 8 stories that we have already uploaded. This is How Surbhi Earns 1 Crore, From No Money to 15 Lakhs. Let me just go to the student view. Yeah, from no money to 15 lakhs in revenue. Homemaker earns 17 lakhs from home. Healed relationship with child and husband. Yosha, she was giving 10 medicines to her child every day, now zero. And now she's doing so much when the backend tech and all of that is concerned for the mission. From a broken marriage to financial independence, Dr. Brunda. From Village to a Thousand Hearts, Dr. Aman Patiala. Reconnected with her teenage daughter with ease and grace, Dr. Shaveta. Her teenage daughter would not speak with her for days, and now they have such a beautiful bond. And now we will add Kanika's story to this. So how many of you are going to go and watch these stories? If you're going to go and watch these stories, put yes with a lot of S You know, I'm telling you, these are real. This is not Bigg Boss. We've not staged it. It's not rigged. I swear on Krishna, these are real stories coming from real mothers. You will get goosebumps. They are teaching in English now. Especially if you go and watch Dr. Surbhi's story. She literally wrote the words and she read it out. She had no English. Now she is teaching in English. None of them had the money. If you go and watch Asha's story, she doesn't have— she is now buying furniture for her house. Last call that we had, because she was a— she's a Super Coach graduate, we had a call And you know, she was crying and she was saying, ma'am, last month I made 5 lakhs in a month and this month we are going to buy furniture for our house. All they had is 3 tables and 3 chairs, one for her husband, one for herself, and one for her child. No bed also. Imagine, kaddi lagake floor pe. How many of you don't— doesn't have a child? Yes, Kanika, please.

Ma'am, two things I'd like to share related to this only. When I was pregnant, our house was under construction. I didn't have courage to say to my husband that we can make a separate room for my coaching thing, but I manifested it. I write it in gratitude, and I like to show um, like, you know, where I'm sitting and what God Krishna has given me. Yes, please, I'll start the back camera. One second. So this is the place he has built for me.

One second, let me— your husband has built this for you?

Yes, and, uh, because I have manifested this and I believed. It's like, you know, ki— I saw like when there was a call of yours wherein you had shown your place, your table, what you all keep So I always wanted, you know, ki kuch toh bhi aisa hona chahiye, not very much fancy, but this kind of wherein I can, you know, counsel my students and everything.

Yes, I can't tell you how happy I'm feeling. I'm feeling very emotional. And you know, this is my dream. Every single one of you, this is my dream for each and every one of you. And I'm praying to God every day, you know, because every day I'm praying to Krishna that give me the strength to inspire my mothers that they can do this, because I know you can do it. There is nothing special. I mean, all of us are made of the same flesh, same blood. Nothing extraordinary about anybody. Only you have to have faith and take action. A little bit overwhelmed that you go through, that is natural, you go through it. But tell me one thing, little overwhelm is better, or you staying in pain all your life. What is better? If little overwhelm you are okay with, put okay. And hogabi nahi, you know, if you plan it like Kanika, 1 hour every night I'm going to learn, you're sorted. You can manage all areas of your life. This is the simplest. Yesterday I had gone for an event. This is the simplest time in the history of time. To do anything from home. And I can give you a guarantee, all the working mothers in the room, if you follow this system, within 6 months you will be making double of what you're making in your job. Don't leave your jobs, make this system. 1 hour you can give even with your job, like Kanika is giving. After job, give 1 hour. To your business. And even for me, you know, the first fashion business that I built, I did not quit my job when I was building that business. 6 months I was on the job. So I'll tell you, morning 8:30 I would leave home, 9 o'clock my work used to start, but I like to be on time always. So 8:30 I used to leave, 8:40, 8:45 I used to reach. 20 minutes I will do my puja from my office. Nobody is there in the office, only 1 or 2 people used to come before coming. That also because their husbands would drop them off, so they would reach early. So 2-3 of us would be in the whole office, and then 9, 9:15, everybody would start coming. Till 6, I would be in office. From office also, 1 hour, 2 hours, I'm thinking creatively about my own business, not doing too much business work, but I'm thinking what all I have to do. I'm making my plan and all of that. 6 o'clock, I leave and I start my fashion business. And I should take the Metro then because so much traffic Delhi, you can't even plan on taking a car or a cab, you'll be stuck in traffic only. 6 o'clock I used to go to Nehru Place, Nehru Place, Lajpat Nagar, to do sourcing for fabric. From 6 to 9:30 I'm doing working on my this thing business. I don't even have an office for my fashion work. In Nehru Place only, I'm just sitting somewhere on some bench, whatever bench I will find. I will sit with my partner Revika because we can't go to her house. Her house is in Green Park, again travel time. So I will source my fabric, then in some bench outside or some shop in Nehru Place only we will sit. There only we will decide, plan, designing, everything we will do in the shop only. 9 o'clock I will take the metro again. By 9:30, 9:40 I will reach home. And that time there was no direct metro, also I would get dropped at Sikandarpur. From Sikandarpur my husband used to come and he would pick me up. And within 1 year, with my own money which the business generated, I built my own store. In New Delhi. And it's not a joke to have a space of your own in Delhi, it's very expensive. And every other month I was doing exhibitions, and my son was only 1 year old. And at no point is my son feeling neglected. I gave him a lot of love, lot of time. Still share a good bond. Academically also he's doing fine, very disciplined. What am I trying to tell you here and why am I sharing this with you? That if you want to build something of your own, you have to push yourself. Who took care after 6? My husband took care. Otherwise I had one, uh, help. She had been with me for 9 years, like before my marriage only she was So I used to live with her, and weekends I was with my son full-time, Saturday, Sunday, when the store was shut. Sundays it used to be shut, but Saturdays my partner would go to the store, so I would not go. So I would go Monday to Friday. So how many of you think that we can either make excuses or we can make progress? And all of this, I honestly, I did not do for money. I come from a good family. My husband was always earning well, and so I didn't have to do it. It was not like I was in need of money, but I wanted to grow. I didn't want to stay stuck. So how many of you are not going to make any excuses that job hai, mai homemaker hoon, mera time niklega ki nahi hai? Put no excuses. Put no in the chat box, a big no. Because you're saying no to yourself. You're not saying no to me, you're not saying no to Platinum, you're not saying no to anything, but you're saying no to your own dream life. If this is a ball bond, put B-O. So stop making these excuses that I don't have time, I'm not good enough, and all of that. Okay, so now we will open for Q&A. If you have any questions for Kanika, you can ask her. So let me get a doctor— uh, not doctor, I have so many doctors in our community, you know. I put doctor before everybody's name, I think. Yes, let's get Archana, uh, to unmute. Yes, Archana, what's your question?

Thank you, ma'am, and thank you, Kanika, for your story. Uh, this, uh, session, basically the Spotlight Supermom, I never skip. I love this because it inspires a lot. So I am, uh, since 1 and a half year in this community, and I joined this community for my child. Basically, and after joining, I got to know, see, there are many things for us also. And I have a 4-and-a-half-year-old kid, and his speech got delayed. So basically, he's taking speech therapy. The question is, I have to plan a second baby. And at this point, I'm also, uh, in this phase that I can start my own coaching business, and I am in the way of a course creation. So if I will start the course creation thing and I will conceive, and you know, after delivering a baby, almost 6 months, you know, very dedicated, and you cannot do at that time, you know, the coaching thing and like with your baby. So what should I do now? Should I conceive first or first I prepare my course thing? So very, you know, confusing because I cannot take a break, you know. I should start my thing, then I will take break. No, no, be like this. So please help me with the— what should I do first, ma'am?

Uh, should I need— hello, am I audible?

Yes, Kanika, you're audible. You have to answer.

If you want to add, I will add later.

Yes, yes, Arshina, I'll tell you, you have got a golden opportunity. You will be teaching to, like, thing, you know, uh, abhi manyu, learn everything in a womb. So your child will automatically learn, and this pregnancy is just an excuse. You will have an ample of time. People will say, Arjuna, take rest because you are pregnant. And when they say you take rest, you take and grab this opportunity to learn and develop yourself. And I'll tell you, one week of hospital fertilization would be only the resting period. Otherwise you can do this. Would be, you know, adding a fuel and giving you a boost. Mark my words, it will boost you. It will boost your mood, your hormonal things, everything. So don't think about skipping, you know, or conceiving the second child and stopping this. This is from—

yes, yes.

And automatically a child will also learn what you are learning.

Yes, and there's also Gayatri in our community. She's pregnant and she's done so well. Like, you know, she's like full-time now. She'll be delivering any time and she's doing her one-on-ones and school visits, everything so easily. You know, it is a very natural part of our body. You know, it's not like when the baby happens everything has to stop. It can slow down but doesn't have to stop fully. And I always say this, pregnancy and children are like bumpers So when you're driving a car, when the bumper comes, we don't stop the car. No, we continue driving, we just slow down.

Actually, ma'am, my first experience was, you know, very— I got very bad experience after my first delivery. Actually, I am a PhD from IIT Roorkee. I was basically nuclear physicist. So my journey, my career has stopped for 3 years. So that fear into my mind, you know, it will happen again.

But that time you didn't have us. Now you have us, right? So this time we will be there to push you and support you, right? So don't worry, you know, don't compare what happened in the past with what went— because you have also evolved. You now are a mother already once, so you have one round of experience, right? So don't— we should never think, you know, this is also one very good thing that you brought up. A lot of us think that, oh, I failed once, so I don't think I can do again. Very wrong. If you failed once, it is your responsibility to do again. Because how— if you guys are thinking that I just came here without failing, it's a— it's not possible. You cannot reach anywhere without failing. The faster you fail— the— even now I fail. As I speak with you, so many things I keep trying at the back end which keep failing, but I still continue to try. Like the mission round that, you know, we've been done doing it for almost a year and a half. I'm going— I'm now— we are like, you know, making the sheets and everything so clean, all automated. But so many rounds, everything has been happening manually.

Yeah.

So even now I'm learning, I'm improving. So, you know, I'm not looking at that as a failure, that, oh, wish I had done it like that. I'm looking at that as, oh wow, I learned. Because imagine if I had not done it, I would have never learned that there is a better way to do it. But because I did it for a year and a half, now I know there is a better way to do it. Earlier we didn't have this app, it was on Teachable. It was so difficult, you know. Today, whatever Platinum Mothers we have, at least it would be double if I had an app back then. Because lot of mothers, they don't want to go on the browser. They will get— and in today's time, ₹7,000 is nothing for mothers. They will invest, they will not open the course because they don't want to go and check on a browser.

So, yeah, so thanks to you, ma'am, with your learning. So at that time I decoded the thing why it is happened to me. So at that time, you know, I was not able to, you know, prepare for the interviews because my juniors, my colleagues, they were in very good reputed, you know, labs in Japan, in the US, and I I was planning to, okay, I have to prepare the interview, then I have to go for the universities. And my baby was so hyperactive, so I cannot even prepare, I cannot study. So even there was a gap.

And in the face, they are babies. Did your colleagues have babies?

No, they are mostly boys.

So what you created, they were not able to create. You know, not money is only creation in this universe. I feel money— last easiest thing to create is money. The simplest thing to create is money. I'm not joking. No, so none of us should equate our worth with how much money other people are making. What you are— you are creating happiness for your family, happiness for your child. You created a child, you raised a child. That is worth more than crores and millions. Yeah, so none of us should think that, okay, my— I'm not making money, so I'm— no, you should know how to make money, but that money will not define your worth. You know, I made a reel, okay, I will show it to you guys. It's not out yet, but let me show it to you. Your work— okay, let me show it, will be simpler. Just give me a minute. Yeah, this one. If grades decide— just one second, I'll make it full screen. If grades decide your child's worth, then shouldn't your salary decide your worth? We judge our kids based on their marks, but ham apne salary ke basis pe judge nahi hona chate. Grades are just feedback, woh apke bachche ki identity nahi hai. A report card measures performance, not potential. So your child starts to think that if I score well, my mother will smile, and if I don't do well in school, my mother will either get angry or stay quiet. So your child gets confused whether you love their marks or you love them. So while raising child, please value their effort and not the result, because your child's worth cannot be graded, just like your worth cannot be salaried. How many of you love this? If you love it, put love. Your worth cannot be salaried, so don't worry, okay? Like, you decide your worth, not one money number. So you guys love me, you know, but once upon a time in 2017, the same Riddhi Deorah was making zero rupees. She had no money of her own. Doesn't mean that she was not a good person, or she has— she was— she had no value, or she was adding no value. But having said that, we should not stop ourselves. We should always take action and unlock the maximum potential that we have. So I was right, no, Archana, when I called you doctor? Your PhD, so I can call you Dr. Archana. Yes, amazing. Let's put A for amazing for Archana. And, uh, yes, all right, let's get to, uh, Shruti Satija.

Hello.

Hi, I was just manifesting. If I don't get the spotlight, I'll just lower my hand and go back. Okay, so thank you for picking me. So my journey is, uh, started in 2022 as well. I joined in 2022 as a Gold member, and because of my kids only— I had two kids. After my second child, I was struggling with the cyber sibling rivalry, postpartum. I was too much into depression, so I joined back then. After listening to a few courses, uh, for 2 to 3 months, I just went into that situation again and left all the things. And, um, I rejoined this, my, this year in July as a Platinum member. Then just all of a sudden, one day a reel was coming again on the Riddhi Deorah app, um, regarding the sankirtan. So I joined because of that. And a few days back, before joining for Platinum, I was like, I'm not able to manage time, so I must wake up early. And how to do it, I don't know. So that sankirtan thing clicked me, and it was You've gone on mute.

Unmute yourself.

Am I audible now?

Yes, yes.

So I was in the thought I must, you know, get, uh, get up early so that I'll be able to do my things rightly. So all of that, suddenly the Sankirtan thing, uh, clicked me. I think this is the way, uh, God is telling me that you should join Platinum. And make a habit of getting up early. So then I joined it, and after that I started getting up early and getting more time. So in 5 months, again, uh, in 2 months, I just literally was understanding what is this going on. And back 2022, it was the different, uh, platform, different thing. So I was not able to get what is all this going on, what missions going on. What is this app? What is EPH? So first of all, I was not understanding what is EPH. So it took me a lot of time, 2 months I just wasted getting all these informations. And then I started again, 3 months back I started writing gratitude and felt so many changes. Yes, it has. I felt so many changes in myself. I started going to gym, I started my physiotherapy sessions, I joined Kathak. And joined my husband's business. So he was also struggling to, you know, manage something. So I thought, okay, I must join you and so that you get help. So now, uh, one day all of a sudden, uh, I filled up the form last moment as a leadership. Yesterday I got opportunity and selected as a leader, so I'm quite nervous for that. You'll do better, I'm sure. With your blessings, I will be doing better. So my question is actually, uh, the thing is I am confused, uh, in opting coaching as a career, or should I continue in my husband's business as he also needs someone to look into the business as a family member. And I also think that I can contribute in somewhere or the other, but inspiring by other mothers, I feel I must also go into coaching. I must create something that will give me more happiness. But going there in the office, seeing his condition that he also requires me, I am not sure what to do. I am very confused. Can you guys guide me?

Anika, you want to take?

Um, ma'am, I'll just only say a single line. Um, see, do what makes you feel happy, and both the things you can do. It's not like, you know, this is, uh, just a thing which we have, you know, put into our mind. Even I do the recruitment part and financing for my husband's business. Like it's all over Pan India. So, um, I have come from that position to this, like full-time, you know, working as a counselor and even handling the business. So it's all in your head, that's it. Rest, Riddhi Ma'am will guide you.

I'm really loving it. My students are answering just like me. I would say do both, do both, you know, because it's not child— you know, because the coaching takes 1 hour a day. And with any family business, because I'm also coming from a business background, because my full family, 4 generations, they've been into family only. And future generations, I'm the only, uh, one who's gone into the education space, honestly. And no jobs also in my whole family. So it's always been all danda, plastic business and sarso tel, you know, mustard oil and garment. So, you know, I understand where you're coming from. So, but I know one thing, in any business you can build, especially in the kind of traditional businesses that we have. So you can go contribute and help your husband 3-4 hours in a day, which I think should be more than enough.

And that is what I'm giving right now, only 3-4 hours.

Yeah, so do 4 hours there and do 2 hours for yourself. And then if you see that your thing is building too much then he can come and support you, right? That can also happen. And both of you can do both. No, as business, you just don't have to have one business. As a family, you can have multiple businesses.

Okay, I'll try and manage.

I don't know, right now it will all depend on your priority and how driven are you from within.

Okay, so I think I have been into leadership. This will also require some time. And, uh, business also require time, kids require time.

You've just entered. No, by the time you're out of leadership, you yourself will tell me, ma'am, I'm ready to become a coach. That is what will happen. So don't— so amazing. Let's put A for— thank you for Shruti. Let's get Akansha Priya because you have to leave. Yes. Okay, before you, uh, start asking, or how many, what level of membership are you in, just let me know in the chat. Gold, Platinum, what is your level of membership? Gold, gold, Platinum, gold. So all the gold mothers, I want you to fill up the Platinum interest form if you've not filled it up already. You know, this is your only chance to get to the Platinum energy at this value because next month in January we will Even if you are a new mother and you have just joined Gold, please make sure you do not miss out on this opportunity. So please fill out the form. Can we have the form in the chat, please? Yes, yes, Akansha.

Good morning, ma'am. It's afternoon. Before I ask my question, I would also like to say, share that, uh, Like ma'am is sharing, I was also having zero money when I took gold. And after, when Platinum Showcase happened, I took Platinum and then Elite. I was having no money because I'm not earning. I used to be a banker, not anymore. So ma'am, I have, uh, I have two kids and a younger one is only 16 months old. So I am, look, I am doing everything as a good student checklist. I'm checking it all every day. I'm trying to do all which, which is making me really calmer and everything. I'm trying to chant and everything is happening, but— and I have also started making videos and I'm putting up on Instagram as well. But yesterday I saw one video of my friend and she was so naturally good, and I just felt I'm not good enough. And since yesterday my energy is really down. I am feeling I'm not good enough, I should not be making videos. And I just want some guidance. Though you have been telling since, uh, you know, beginning of this class that you should be doing it, you are, uh, you should not have any doubts, still my doubt is not going away. Yesterday, till, uh, till I didn't watch my friend's video, I was okay that I'm doing, but she was so good and I'm feeling really, really down that I should— I'm not good at it. So I don't know what should I do actually.

You want to answer first and then I'll add? I want you to answer. I want to see your answers. Checking. I'm checking. Yes, good.

Yes. Even I was in the same position and I used to say, ma'am, like, I was very, you know, phobic to come in front of camera and speak. I was like, I used to give lectures on stage, but coming in front of the camera, then it's going on the internet all over the world. So it was always a phobia for me. But again, then it's like there is no comparison. What you are doing is you're doing and giving yourself the best, and every day it would be the better version of yourself. And this is a comparison, there is no comparison. What your friend— this is what you are telling to yourself and feeding yourself, okay, she is best and I'm not doing the good. You're doing 1000% good. Coming up and showing yourself is the biggest challenge which you have come across. So treat yourself, gratitude, give gratitude to yourself. At least I'm showing up, I'm coming up and I'm, you know, shooting and recording because this also requires a hell lot of courage, mark my words, because I have gone through this.

Yes, and because what is happening, I don't get enough time to even do research.

I'll tell you one thing, When it comes to jealousy, if you get that feeling, instantly you want to remove it.

No, ma'am, it's not jealousy. It's in, uh, I just feel a complexity, actually inferior.

Yeah, same thing, same thing. It's the same thing. Jealousy, insecurity, inferiority, complex. Simply put, you're feeling jealous of she is doing better, which is okay. You know, we have to accept it first, because if you are not accepting it, you'll not be able to correct Okay, right. We have to first accept, and it's okay, it's normal. But understand one thing, that, you know, I have been doing this work for 9 years. People don't care about the quality and all of that. They care about the energy and the intention of the person who is speaking. I know so many people who are doing such fancy videos very fancy videos on Instagram, they have no followers, some 2,000, 2,500 followers. And I know women who are doing very raw, rough, normal videos, they have a huge following. Like Neetu from our community only, she has some 63,000. I don't know, one second, I'll tell you. I'll just, uh, it was— I got a reel from her. Just give me a minute, I'll tell you. So she has some 35,000+ or some followers and only some 200 posts. Can't find her page.

But it's anything with me too.

I'm actually—

I follow her on Insta.

Yeah, yeah. So, you know, just understand one thing, very raw content. There's no nothing fancy about what she's posting. Sometimes she's just putting text with music.

Yes.

So it is only your intention. It is only your intention. And never, you know, this is one thing that has helped me grow. I'm telling all of you have a very tunnel vision, which means I'm not looking right, I'm not looking left. Like a lot of people say, go and analyze your competition. I don't do that. I have never gone and analyzed anybody. If you were to ask me, I swear I cannot give you names of 10 other parenting coaches besides me. I can't. The only names I know are my own students. I'm not— I'm so focused on building myself that I have no time for anybody else. And you and your business— you are the business. When you are a coach, you are only the business. Like, you know, when we have a factory, the machine, the space where you put the factory, all of that is the business. But in coaching, you yourself are the business. So the more you build yourself, the more everything else will grow. The more your students will grow, the more your income will grow, the more your impact will grow. Everything. So I'm very proud of you, Akansha, for asking this question, because it takes a lot of courage to say what you, what you admitted to. How many of you agree that it takes a lot of courage courage to become so vulnerable and come and share. So first of all, congratulations for that awareness, because once you have that awareness, Akansha, very easy to fix. And you know, if you want this thing to remove completely, tell yourself, the only person I will compare myself with is Mukesh Ambani or somebody very big. When you have to compare and feel bad only. Why would you compare yourself to somebody who did one, one step more than you, or 5 steps more than you? Compare yourself with somebody who's doing 10,000 steps more than you, then it will still be worth your energy. But comparing yourself with somebody who is doing 2 lakhs more than you, or who is doing 10 lakhs more than you, or even 1 crore more than you makes no sense. We are all on our journey.

Yeah, actually this feeling is very new to me because I used to work and I have, I have this confidence, actually confidence, not overconfidence, because I have watched your plat— the diamond course also where I got to know about confidence and self-esteem. So this feeling is very new. I have never compared. I was confident that I'm doing okay. I never compared, but this time I'm feeling that so many people are putting the same thing out there. I'm not coming with something new.

You don't have to. The information will never be new. You don't even have to. You are new. Your energy is new. They come to you not for the information. They come to you for you. How many of you came— when you came to me for Platinum, you didn't even know the full information? Put me in the chat box. I'm telling you, it is impossible for you to know because there is so much I give in Platinum. Even if I tell you in the showcase, you cannot know what you will get. You can't even know. Like, even I don't know when I'm going to my teachers. Half the time I don't know what I'll be getting. So we don't come for the info. There is so much information. Information, chat GPT, I'll change my name. Kuch ni badlega. We don't come for information, we come for the push, we come for the trust, we come for accountability, we come for heart-to-heart connection, we come for environment. So they will come to— Akansha, you are on mute. So Akansha, they will come to you because they want to be with you and because they are sure that when they are with you their life will become what they want their lives to become. You know what Kanika shared, that, ma'am, after that call I was sure I want to be Platinum because I understood. So she got that feeling with me. Just like that, your students will get that feeling with you. Like some of my students, like Asha Yadav, she's charging more than I'm charging. She's taking 1.5 lakhs for 1 year. I'm taking 3.25 lakhs for 3 years, plus child call also I'm doing, mom call also I'm doing. I'm doing so many special calls. I'm giving an app. So understand one thing, you know, it's not about the money, it's not about the information. It has everything to do with you. How much you are ready to ask, people will give. I know now if I ask 5 lakh also, mothers will give for Platinum, and I'm going to ask 100% because I know, know what people are giving. 2 days event, 10 lakh rupees. 2, 2 and a half day offline event, no app, no post-event accountability, no post-event communication, nothing. So understand one thing, Akansha, never, you know, and this is something I learned from my mentor Dr. D Martini, never put yourself low, or never put anybody high, and never put yourself high. Put everybody in your heart. So if you're getting that feeling, it's okay. Tell yourself, this is a new feeling I'm getting, but I don't like this feeling. So I don't want to spend too much time with this feeling.

Yeah, unhelpful pattern of thoughts. Now your words just, you know, echo in my mind all the time whenever I go through this. I tried, so I wasn't— my confidence got low, that's it. And now I'm okay, ma'am, I'm gonna do my work.

Go and see my old videos on Facebook, you will not believe it's me. Go and see my videos from 2020. Yeah, it's so poor editing, poor noise. The audio quality is also not good, but it worked. Now also I'm making video. If I— maybe 3 years later when I see the same videos that I'm making, maybe I'll feel I can do better. I'll do better then, but I'm not going to stop myself. I'm going to do the best I can in this moment, my best, not anybody else's best. Best. I will do my best. So all of you write in the chat box, my best. You don't have to compare yourself with anybody. You know, in our Vedas it is mentioned, when you start comparing, it is the worst thing to your success. Comparison and putting yourself below others— all your talent, all your potential, all your good energy will go to waste. And that's why I'm making a big deal out of it. So Pinky Promise, nobody will compare. Put PP in the chat box. Pinky Promise. You know, yesterday in the event, one mother told me that, you know, I've been watching you, I really want to become a part of your community, but I don't know why, I just feel I don't have the time. I told her, don't worry, only when Krishna wants, you can come to me. And you can ask, there were some other mothers from our community also. I told her, it's not your decision to be made. Not everybody can come. Only when Krishna will give you the permission, you can come to me. Only when Krishna gives me the permission to serve you, I can serve you. So it is both ways. This is what I want, that all of you should be in Platinum, and I want to serve all of you, and I want you to give the best I have. But yoga, when Krishna will want But you are ready to receive the service. When both of us are ready, then it will happen. I'm saying Krishna, you can say whatever name of God you want— Jesus, Allah, Christ. Like, for me, God is Krishna. For you, it could be anybody.

Thank you so much, ma'am. And my life is turning really, you know, 360 degrees.

I'm—

I can't thank you enough. And even my husband is noticing. And yesterday I was sharing that this all thing like AI, Siddharth Rajsekar sir's, uh, everything I'm getting, uh, with you. So he was, you know, Initially he was not supporting me. I had a big fight with him because he was not giving me money, but somehow it happened. So he was very much impressed. He said, okay, you keep learning. And I felt so, you know, calm. And yesterday I, you know, tried to give him a foot massage in the 5 years of my marriage. So things are working and I can't thank you enough, ma'am. You are like my really spiritual— whatever, every guru, you are my guru in every sense.

Thank you. God is helping all of us. We are all channels. And I swear, I do not take— let's first put A for amazing for Akansha. I just want to say that I don't take credit for any breakthroughs that you get. I swear, all your breakthroughs belong to God and belong to your own decision. Because, you know, this is very deeply ingrained in me. Mera kuch nahi hai, main kuch nahi karti. Nothing belongs to me and I don't do anything. God does everything through us, because if God doesn't give us the permission, we cannot even move this tiny finger. So who am I? If Kanika is making money, she's not making money because of me. She is making money because she learned She surrendered, she put in the effort, she allowed herself to be used in service, and God wanted it to happen for her through me. So we are just all— and you know why am I sharing this? Because all of you will get these compliments from your students. All your students will call you like, you know, ma'am, you are an angel, you changed my life. 'Ma'am, you're this, ma'am, you're that, ma'am, aapke bajese meri life badal gayi, aapke bajese mera bacha ya chala gaya, bo hogya.' Always remember, jaise aapko milee turanta Bhagwan ko dedho, jo bhi aap Bhagwan ko bolte ho, Allah, Jesus Christ, Krishna, Shiv, jo bhi aap bolte ho, all of that compliments that we get those belong to God. And when we give it back to God, we have the space to work. We have to just focus on one thing: selfless service every day when we wake up. How many of you are giving me a commitment that you will do this? Put C for commitment. I am giving you kuch koi roki ni sakta ab ko bade ne se aage. Ab bhi ni rokh pao ke kuch ko. Because when God is on your side, you cannot lose. So we'll take one last question and then I want to say some good words for Kanika and we'll wrap. And those of you who've not filled up the form, make sure you fill it up because when you fill it up you will have an opportunity to connect with your super coaches and they can guide you in case you have any questions about the Platinum. They can help you. Okay, Deepti, Deepti and Sumaya both. Okay. Okay, so let's do Sumanya because you got spotlighted first, and then we'll go to Riddhi Deorah.

Yes, thank you, ma'am, for spotlighting me. Actually, um, these 2 days I was very, uh, low because my mama was with me, and he got paralyzed at my home only, got brain attack and paralyzed, and got admitted at the hospital. He was not able to walk, he was not able to stand at my home only. Heart attack like that. And yesterday I heard news like he passed away, and I was not able to go there as well. So, um, remove my stress, I have done some mandala art. I want to show you that as well. And, uh, this is my art. You are able to see?

Uh, no, it's very hazy, Sumaya. Yeah, yeah, move it a little back. It's not— yeah, yeah, now we can see a little. Yes, it's very neat. Yeah, peacocks, two peacocks.

Yeah, peacocks, like they are, uh, like one is a lady and one is gentile. So I have mentioned, like, I have put my stress in that and I got relaxed after making that yesterday. So I'm thankful to you that because of you only I have just made because I was not able to— like, I know art, but I was not doing it. I was doing some before my marriage, and now I started it because of you only. So, and now my question is like, I am like— I have not came in front of the video. Now you can see, now see, I have done some little makeup as well. So before, I was not like coming on the video as well. I was putting off the video. So my question is like, if I want to do some videos, like, is there any possibility, like, if I can mask it and I can just give the videos, it will work? Or I have to give like this only?

Kanika, you want to answer?

No, this is like, okay, I think you can better answer this because it's related to marketing and how the reach will go.

Yeah, so I think you can do whatever. Mask will also work, no mask will also work. The words and the energy works, okay? Nobody cares about the looks, okay? If you are talking and if you are adding value people will listen to you.

Okay.

If your religion is wanting you to put the mask and speak, you do that.

Yeah, because I have not come in front of the video, and in my family also nobody has come in front of the video, so I am not sure.

You start with the mask.

Okay, thank you, ma'am.

People will resonate because there are so many women who wear the mask.

Okay.

They will also be watching you, and they will also get the confidence that, you know, if we have a message to share The mask cannot stop us. Okay, the mask also I can share. Okay, yeah, it's a nice— it will put you, you know, you'll stand out with the mask, I feel.

Thank you.

Amazing.

Like, uh, yeah, relaxed now.

Yes, amazing. Let's put A for amazing for Sumaya. And last but not the least Deepthi.

Thank you so much. Thank you, ma'am. I am first time doing this live now. Uh, or I every time I have so many questions, but I never ask, ask you. I am not good in English. I speak only in Hindi. So that is good for you.

Yes, I love this and I'm so proud of you.

Or Hindi English, everything in English, but I am not comfortable in speaking in English. Yeah, good. Thank you, thank you. Yes. cold. Devotee, surrender, how to surrender. Yes, amazing.

Yes.

Exposition. surrender to Krishna, I will got the chance for you, man. Wow, love it.

First, number one, make the name simpler so that people can remember, right? Second is, uh, just start. Don't think so much. You will learn on the way. Mother, she got an opportunity where she did a full art therapy for their kids. You come for the marketing call, ladies.

I don't understand what can— what name choose and what—

so have you gone through the marketing courses Yeah, ma'am, but not completed yet. Go, go through it again because in that I make you choose and don't have to take a stamp on an approval from anybody. You decide, but keep it simple. That is my suggestion to you.

Okay, okay.

Simple because, you know, if you use such complicated words, people find it difficult to tell other people. So either you keep your name or like Art by Riddhi, Art with Riddhi, or something like that you can do.

But I, I will teach other things also. Now I will learn with you also.

And also you can't teach everything on one page. You have to, you have to be known for one thing. Okay, then you can give them more value when they come to you. Is everybody with me? If you're with me, put WM. You cannot sell everything. Imagine when you come to my master class, I'm telling you, I will teach you money also, I will teach you this also, I will teach you that that also you will not come to me. First you have to establish your credibility in one thing. Like whatever I teach in Platinum, they are all interrelated— life coaching, parent coaching, relationship— they're all life. NLP, hope— I'm not teaching artwork. I'm also very good at sketching. But I'm not teaching that because some things we do for ourselves. We don't have to be known for everything we are good at. Like maybe some of you are very good cooks, but you're teaching parenting. You're not teaching cooking. Cooking be, you know, I send you one recipe. You try that, but you have to pick one thing that you have to start with, because if you try to do everything, you will actually end up doing nothing. Okay, okay, so you start.

But I will choose art. I am fixed only in art, so pick art.

There is so much you can do with art online, emotional healing through art, so many things we can do through art. Okay, so pick art. If art is something that's your calling, you do art. Okay, don't think so much, but try at least, because otherwise you'll waste 6 months just thinking.

Okay, okay, okay, okay, thank you.

Thank you so much.

Welcome.

Let's put A for amazing for Deepti. Thank you for sharing. And nobody should hesitate to talk to me. I don't care about your language. PP, pinky promise in the chat box. If nobody is going to hesitate, we are all here to help each other grow. So nobody in this space should feel like that. Okay, Shivani, last. What do you want to share, Shivani? Very quickly, you have to share in 1 minute.

I always get 1-minute challenge.

Yes, what to do?

Yes, so I, I just want to You know, like, my story was very resonating with Kanika. Like, you know, I was— and I was feeling proud that, you know, that I am in Platinum. So every time I attend these things, you know, I, I feel proud that I have taken a decision. I've taken a decision for myself, and EPH come as a blessing, you know, blessing in disguise, and Yes, your voice is breaking a lot, Shivani.

Can't hear you. Hello? Yeah, unmute yourself. I think it was at my end. I think—

no problem, ma'am. I'll share my video in the group.

That will be good. No, you can finish and then we can just thank Kanika.

Yes, so it was regarding like apprehensions people are having for launching, people are having for health issues, people are having for time. So just get into this. This is not— I know this is not Platinum Share, but just get into Sankirtan. You'll get the whole clarity, you'll get everything what you want. You don't have to ask. Everything comes aligned one by one. That's only less than one minute I finished.

Yes, love that. You're getting better. One second, let's put A for amazing for Shivani. And before we close, we all obviously have to thank the star for today, Kanika. Thank you so much, Kanika, for being the student that you are, and I'm so, so proud of you, and I wish you Good luck. My blessings are always with you. I'm waiting for your 10 lakh month. 1000% it will happen. I have full faith. You know, making the first 2-3 lakh is the difficult thing. Just create that thought that I am doing easily and effortlessly 10 lakh a month, and it will start happening.

Ma'am, like, uh, I should say thanks to all my community members and a deep, deep gratitude to you for coming into my life and handholding my journey. Like, always will be grateful, always. That's it. And it's all coming from my heart, and you can see the happiness on my face in spite of being sleep deprived and everything. But it's very emotional thing, and it's, it's a dream for me to, you know, be on a spotlight position in your call.

Yes, amazing. Thank you so much, Kanika. We love you. Thank you for your time and sharing your story so vulnerably. Let's put love for Kanika in the chat. And how many of you are now going to be the next Supermom Spotlight? If you're going to be the next Supermom Spotlight, put SML SMS, I have to send an SMS. Super Mom Spotlight. Yes, I want you to be— I don't know, you can be a gold mother, platinum mother, but I want you to come and share your story, and I want you to have those breakthroughs, and I want you to trust yourself and make it happen. I'm telling you, it has nothing to do with money, it has nothing to do with family support. It has nothing to do with time. It has everything to do with you. That's it. And I'm praying for all of you, and my prayers are always answered. So I'm sure all of you will be here, but this is going to be a teamwork, so we have to do this together. So just stay committed, make it happen. Don't stay stuck in your head. You know, just, you know, surrender to the process and it's going to happen for all of you. Thank you so much, everybody. Love you. And the others, if you have questions, you can directly hit Kanika and, you know, ping her and get answers to your questions. But I'm so, so, so proud of each and every one of you. Thank you so much and love you. Thank you.