How a mother saves her child | Supermom Spotlight Prasanthi | Riddhi Deorah

Hi Shoba, Suman, Shweta, Deepika, Prashanti, Lavanya, Kailash, Pankaj, Shailja, Rachana, Dr. Sojanya, Nasreen, Ankita, Namita, Ramini, Pooja, Disha, Deepa, Satvik, Ramya, Shruti. Amazing, amazing! Let me know in the chat box How are you feeling in this moment? Great, good, relaxed, happy, motivated, amazing, blessed, grateful, energized. Love that. Excited, excited to learn. Yes, and today we have a very, very special guest. Her name is Prashanti, and Prashanti is going to share her story of how she was able to calm herself down from being a hyperactive mom and how she was able to feel calm, feel better, and do better for her family. So we are going to spotlight Prashanti. Okay, I see 3, 4 Prashantis. Can you just turn on your camera and wave at me? Yeah, I see you now. Yeah, yeah, I see you, I see you. Yes. Hi, Prashanti.

Hello, ma'am. Good morning.

Good morning.

Hare Krishna. Hare Krishna.

Hare Krishna. And congratulations for being spotlighted.

Thank you, ma'am. Thank you so much.

So, so happy with the journey. So usually we do only money breakthroughs and all of that. Today I thought more important than money, we have to do an energy breakthrough, like, you know, because the energy of the mom is the most important. So if all of you are super excited, put E for excited in the chat if you're excited to hear Prashanti's story. Yes, I'm also very excited. I know of course your story a little, but I want to hear it, uh, from you directly. So good luck, Prashanti. Now I'm going to remove myself from spotlight and I want you to take over and I want you to do your magic.

Thank you, ma'am. Thank you so much. Hello everybody, how are you all? May I know how is your energy today? Super duper hype. Great, great. Oh, thank you, thank you so much. Thank you, Riddhi Ma'am, for giving me this opportunity. You are a blessing in my life. It's, it's a very, very emotional day for me, but still, with your learnings and especially with the spirituality, I have overcome with my emotions and everything. Today I'm going to reveal you major breakthroughs and a big secret of my journey. So here you go. Before EPH, that was— I joined in June. Before that, I lost my father last year in October. He was my strength, pillar, and everything to me. I was in that zone, and overcoming with everything. I have a teenage daughter, with her challenges are going on. I was seeing Riddhi Ma'am's pop-ups, many, I have seen many times in the Insta, but June 3rd where I have decided that I have to jump into it. Before EPH, I was very, very aggressive mom, hypered, short-tempered, whatnot you call it, you give a name, I'm in that. So then, and my child is very sweet. She's like, what do you say, she's emotional person. She can't let me down, even she was in that phase. So she was struggling with not telling what she's feeling. And if anyone hurt her also, she doesn't say much.

So where that time here, like, Prashanti, you can mention the age of your daughter.

So yeah, yeah, sure, ma'am, sure, ma'am. She was 13 years old, she's 13 years old, she's in 9th class now. So actually I have entered EPH to set the bonding between her grandmother and my daughter, not between me and my daughter. It was between grandmother and granddaughter. She was very close to her grandmother. So, so I, I want to correct her. I want to help them because, uh, my, my mother-in-law is a doctor. Both my in-laws are doctor, uh, and she was very, very, um, uh, uh, a studies-oriented person, so she wants to help her granddaughter. And as she— my daughter entered into teenage, so she was facing difficult where she can't, uh, tell back to her grandmother and what she is feeling. So then the EPH has entered into my life and I started learning the courses. At first I felt like, why ma'am has given that self-connection in the topmost? Because being a mother, we are emotional persons. We, when it comes to our child, we feel everything related like emotional way in every way. So then I took, yes, first I should focus on myself, then I can help her as well as my mother-in-law. So I started, uh, seeing the courses one by one. But before that, no one knows that I have joined the EPH. It was like when ma'am, in between, when ma'am gave that take a decision for yourself, then I thought, yes, this is the small decision which has blown me into a big decision where without anyone's permission I have taken this, and I have deep, deep gratitude for that. And nothing, all thanks, ma'am. Thanks for creating such a beautiful community, such a beautiful community. There is no judgment. Where there are women, there will be gossiping, there will be jealous, there will be Everything. But here it is nothing, no judging, no gossiping. It's purely love, dedication, everything you're pouring. In your guidance, we are doing that. So then I started learning and slowly— first one was when I— that was June 3rd, I took the Master Class. One week happened, then Showcase happened. Platinum Showcase. I blindly took that showcase call and I paid little amount. Then I started my journey with the lessons and all. The first thing is my daughter sitting for 5 minutes to study is a very difficult task. The first thing what I did, did when in one of the live call, ma'am has said mirror image. You should be a mirror image to your kids. Then I told my daughter, see, I have joined a school, a beautiful school where there will be homework, but teachers won't give punishment. We can enjoy, we talk to our mentor, we will play. So one day after a week, she saw and she said, I'm so jealous of your school. She told me, because your ma'am is giving so many good activities and you are enjoying that. Then I told one day, see, I have a calls, evening calls, so I will be learning exactly in front of her in another room. I used to sit with the live calls, take the book, write down the notes and everything. Slowly, slowly, slowly, one day ma'am, she sat for 1 hour without moving. Wow! And she, she completed her homeworks and everything. Then I told, like, my— she went and told her, her granny, Daddy, then my mother-in-law was telling that, no, you might have not studied, you are just telling that. No, see that, then she answered everything, and my mother-in-law was shocked.

Wow!

Then I told that, you go, you go and sit. Then I told my mother-in-law that I have joined a community where my mentor says that if mother start doing, mother starts nurturing, mother starts following, then automatically the energy of the mother goes to the child and as well as family. Then as they are elders, they don't believe much that So I was just— I want to be a mirror image to her. So that's why she is very, very sweet mother-in-law. I'm blessed to get her. She is purely— because here, but I will— I want to say a little bit about my journey. Yes, I got married to my mama's son, my uncle's son. Both my in-laws are my own mother's brother. He is and he is a special child to my mother-in-law. During the labor, she had 36 hours of labor where they couldn't judge the right time. Because of that, he lost his speech in that, and he's partially paralyzed, this person, and he is neurologically facing— he gets seizures, fits. And that being both my in-laws doctors and the big family, it's a huge thing for them. And that they realized after 2 years. So my mom raised him in his childhood for 3 to 4 years, and her wish was that I— can I marry him? So at the age of 24, when I completed degree, she asked me, beta, aapki Riddhi se shaadi karo gaye. To maine bola, thik hai, meri cousin hai, mujhe utna, ye nahi lag gayi. In the sense, yes, if some other girl would be, that is different. It's okay, Mama, I will do. But ma'am, the life what we will imagine that will not be there. Even they have a lot of emotions because society has seen him in a different way and all his emotions, it's like a pure volcano inside him, purely volcano inside him. So whatever as a wife I used to do, if he doesn't like, it will be like blasting only, blasting. So it felt me very difficult initial days where I'm very close to mother-in-law, but still then I saw her as a sasuma only, telling like I'm going through this, this. So it's like how she will be feeling because all the overthinking. Then all my society person like, Itna chubad dete hain ki aapko andar se todi dete hain woh. So everyone has judged me that you married for money, you married for— as your parents are poor people, so you got married. And what he can do? He's not even capable, he's not a proper man. So all these taunts, everything, everything It has hurt me a lot where I couldn't even reveal to my parents because I don't want them to feel bad. I was in that all these pains, all this was inside me and my journey went, went, went. After 8 years of my marriage, I went, I went with IVF. I got my child and that too after going for first time going for IVF treatment. Then I came to know that my uterus is a bicornate uterus. That means in the birth only, only one side of the uterus formed, the other side did not. So for that also, when my doctor said, you have very less— 2 follicles in one ovary and 2 follicles in one ovary— then she said, it may be your first and last. Then I told, like, if God wish, he will give, otherwise it's okay. Because I treat my husband as my child only. Because, ma'am, today I'm revealing in front of everyone that it's been 22 years of marriage, my marriage, we did not meet physically even once. Even once. He's a child to me. And then I told my doctor that if wish, God will give, otherwise it's okay. And she took it as a challenge of that, and in the first attempt, ma'am, I got pregnant with the twins.

Wow!

But fortunately, because my uterus is so small, where bearing 1 kg of weight of a child is difficult, they're twins. So my doctor said, let's see how it is going to happen. And the journey started. My present child heartbeat was good, 130-140. The second child was 70, 80 only. And slowly, slowly days goes on. Then when 9th week happened, then doctor said that one baby has to remove, but while in that process you may lose the healthy baby also. And it is emotionally to my mother-in-law, me, and my parents, it's less like— I was like Why this to me? Why this pain to me? Then I think my second child heard. I feel, ma'am, that when I enter into EPH, I'm spiritually— when you're teaching me all this, I connect somewhere. See, my didi should be there healthy, so slowly I'll go away. And that child disappeared, ma'am. It's like miracle, it disappeared. So, and after that, in the fourth, fifth month, I got revealed that my internal os opened, where which has to happen in the ninth month, it has opened and don't know how it is going to be. Then I was completely bed rested, like lifting legs in a slanting position, sleep like this for 2 and a half months. Then my daughter was born in 7th month, and she is the first grandchild in the family after one generation. And she is very close to my mother-in-law. Like, she was— when she was— totally 9 doctors were there in the theater. My mother-in-law, in her hands, I was born. And now her granddaughter. And while operating, she was literally crying, ma'am. She literally crying. And I saw my— after that, she was preemie and she was taken to another hospital. See, God has played everything with me, ma'am. When I'm listening to your Gita and everything, yes, God has tested me in every way. I saw my child face after 12 days. They did not even show me in that moment also. And my husband, I have very deep, deep, deep gratitude for him for giving me such a beautiful child. And I'm so happy that he is a child who was completely detached from the society And he— one child is calling him as a father. And ma'am, his face was— I told him, Ravi, congratulations, you became father. And he was so smiling, ma'am. Because he can't speak, drooling will be coming, ma'am, from the mouth. So he was like, emotionally he wants to say something, but in the sign language he was Then I told, yes, I understood what's your thing. So that's how our journey went, ma'am. After this, like, my mother-in-law used to take care of her like very precious. For a mom whose child is in that way, and for that child, a child is born. So imagine for a mother how much it will be. So she has taken completely care of her. Very challenges went on, ma'am. Then the EPH journey, so where my daughter in— my daughter who was teenage issues happening and she got distant from her grandmother. So for that I have entered this and I started learning and everything slowly when she started learning reading and everything. I told my mother-in-law, you give her space. That's what my mom says, they need some space, because she was raised with two boys, ma'am. So girls, how they will be, she doesn't know that. So then I told, this is how it will be happening. That's what my mom says, let us give her pause, let us try in that way, because nurturing her is very important for me, what I felt. Dhiri dhiri. Then I told like, it was like after coming from hospital, her total world was with her poti only. So she wants to give the best in that. In that, my daughter might feel that it is like love-protected suffocation in that. So then I told like, then I started showing, and your Delhi event happened, ma'am, you know. After joining that, on Dilli event day, my daughter's birthday, I gifted her with the Platinum Elite. And it was like very, very— I felt so, so, so blessed because in that one month of journey only I have seen many, many, many. Then I told my mother-in-law, see, I know you, you want to put your heart on her, but we should have our own things also where we should be giving them space. Then till event happened, I showed all photos to her. This is how my mom's teaching. She is anger to all, but she has an ultimate, ultimate energy. Then in one of the video, I saw Madhuri Aunty, and I was shocked. In such a, such an age that a lady of not even our age, more than our age, she's same. Then I ran to my mother-in-law. I showed that, see, Madhuri, one of the auntie who is elderly to you, like your age, she came to that. Then I, then immediately next day or second day, I called up to Madhuri auntie and I told, auntie, what made you to come to this EPH? Then I told, I want, I'm a learning, I love learning better. I'm a retired teacher, I'm a learning, I love learning. And I have even teenager grandsons also. Then I told my mother-in-law, see, learning, you are a very good teacher. As she diagnosed with brain tumor, ma'am, 2 years back, but it is benign only, but that was like came on the nerve where she is, she cannot balance herself. Now because of physiotherapy, she could able to. So I want to motivate her See, you don't feel like that as the patients are coming. So you give your best, you give whatever you can do, you enjoy that. So that little space will be coming both of them. So in that way, in between your learnings, self-child connection, family connection, everything I used to discuss with her. Everything. Then in the teenage, these are the things will be happening. That's what my mom says. Then she told one, one day she showed me her senior gynecologist, ma'am. She is 95 years old today. Even today she drives her car and go to OT. She's Srimanta from Hyderabad, and it was blown to her. Then she told I got your ma'am's point, what she wants to say. Now I'll be going back to my things. Then slowly, slowly things got settled between them, and it was a very, very good journey till then. That was my first breakthrough, ma'am. That was my first breakthrough. Then during this When I entered the Platinum Elite, then one of my friend from EPH, Sarita Bhandari, she told me to attend Sankirtan. You will see magics. And I think from July I started joining, ma'am. Slowly, slowly, when I got up, as you were telling, ready for Krishna, ready for Krishna, I used to get up ready, like lipstick, waghera, sab kuch dal ke. I never used to come in front of the camera because my daughter, you will be sleeping. So I used to get ready. I did everything, ma'am, like whatever you said, be gratitude, be giving, everything. So my only prayers for Krishna, just look after my daughter. I am surrendering her to you. I am surrendering myself to you. Whatever the challenges will be there, now I will face it, I will learn, I'll learn in that way. So slowly, this Sangeetan and everything, and that magic, ma'am, whatever the pain I was going through in my heart since years, it slowly disappeared when we heard the this is karma, this has to happen. So when Guruji in Bhagavad Gita class told, see, we come here, whatever the soul wears, if it is a woman, you become woman, if it is a man, you become man, but it is your soul and it is your dharma, you have to do. That slowly, slowly I like— yes, and the biggest challenge is with my father-in-law. It's like, so he is a typical man, he is a very typical person. It's very, very tough being my mama also. It took 7 years to me to talk to him directly. I was always like, 'Parde ke piche, sasuma ke, pallu ke piche.' Then when recently in a one family discussion, for the first time he called and he told me to sit and he was telling about an issue where he has given money to someone and they are not giving. And he is telling that you people also not asking. And he was yelling at us completely. Then like he says, like don't react, listen first, then you react. I was completely listening, listening, listening. Then he told, why you're not talking? And he calls me, in my house they call me Muni. Why you're not talking? I then I told, Papa, apka bolna agar ho gaya toh, me bolungi den. Yes, when you are giving the money transaction, the— here I used ma— tone of communication, tonality, because he is a person. So it's like tone of communication, tonality. Course, ma'am, deeply, and in, in my day-to-day life I have implemented many things. So in that I told that it is you who has given him, and did you kept any deadline to him? Did you ask in between? And, you know, no, I did not ask, he was telling. Then even that person should feel that I should give He also did not do. Because it is your money, it is your right to ask. Then how come me and Sasuma are blamed for that? How we are— like, when you have given, we don't know, we don't know. But you are blaming us that we are not asking. Is it right? The way you are speaking, it is hurting us. It's not the— with due respect, I know you are elder to us, we cannot— even if we speak right also, you take it in an egoistic way. Sorry to say that word, but it is hurting us the way you are telling to us. Then he listened to me every way and he said that, yeah, I got your point, I understood. Then he told, okay, I will tell, I will tell to him, you guys also follow that. Ma'am, to say that, my sasuma was shocked and she was telling, is it you, Muni? Are you talking to him in that way? And my mom was staying back, said, I'm so proud of you, after these so many years you have spoken to your father-in-law in such a way. Then I told, yes, it took me just literally 22 years. Of my marriage. All credit goes to my ma'am, my EPH community, every mother, every leader, proud of you, whatnot, whatnot. Then, ma'am, my biggest breakthrough, biggest— ma'am, with your permission, can I have some water?

Yes, yes, please, of course.

On October 28th, when our 7th mission call was happening, self-esteem, I was getting ready for live call, ma'am. That day my daughter took my phone to talk to her friend and she gave me by 5:45, Mama, your call is going to happen. Then I was randomly— I came into a leadership also, ma'am, in September to November. So I was just checking, uh, did any mother popped me or not. So I was going through the chats and During one, when I was seeing in the chat, ma'am, suddenly when seeing one chat, my inner voice told that, 'Hold on.' That was literally loud voice. It came from my inside, ma'am. Then with the hesitation, that was the conversation happened between my daughter and her friend. I was hesitatingly, hesitated to open that chat. Then when I opened, her friend told, see, you got a beautiful life, why you're thinking? You should not think like that. She told. Then when I scroll little upper, she was say, see, I have an autism brother, but still I thought of, um, I thought of like do best for my family. I want to lead my family. Then why you're thinking? I, I felt, I sense something is going wrong. Then again I scrolled up, then I saw there, if my twin sister or twin brother would have been, that would be much better. My mom will be, my family would have been very happy. Then I again went up, went up, went up. When I see, ma'am, I have seen a sentence that I want to commit suicide. I was sitting with the whole family, ma'am, and I couldn't utter one word. Just closed my eyes, sat for 5 minutes, then I went out. Outside in our garden there is small Krishna's statue, ma'am. I have— I simply told, 'Thank you, Krishna.' I did not emotionally break down, ma'am. Then I thought for 5 minutes. I called up to her friend. I asked her, like, her name is Chakrika. I asked her, Chakrika, how are you? How are you doing? It's been long time you did not talk to Satya. Um, so how is everything? Just now I spoke, Auntie. Everything is fine, she told. Then I told, uh, Then I asked her, how is Satya feeling? Did she share anything? How is her new school? How is everything going on there? Then after some time, I asked, Chikrika, I'm sorry, dear. First, I want to say sorry to you that I read yours and Satya's chat. In that, I have seen something, dear. So can you help me? In that where I want to know why she wrote in that way. Yeah, sure, Auntie, what is that? She told— I asked her, Satya wrote that she want to commit suicide. Why, beta? Then she told, frankly, Auntie, I also don't know. I asked her, but she did not say. He was just telling that I want to commit suicide. Then I told, thank you, beta, but for now don't say anything to Satya that I called you. And they say— I left the call calmly. Total 10 members are sitting in the family. It's a big joint family where people come and go. I silently went to my daughter. She was doing her arts and all. I sat with her. I was just very calmly, "What are you doing, Satya? What did you do today?" Everything in that way I spoke to her. And, "Mama, I draw this, I'm doing this, I just played this." I said, "Okay, good." She was not feeling well that day, so she did not go to school, ma'am. So after 5-10 minutes, I told, 'Satya, do you want to share anything with Mama? How are you feeling? Is there anything that you are unable to share to Mama?' Then I told, 'No, Mama, nothing like that.' Like that, 10 minutes passed, ma'am. After that, I told that, 'Satya, I'm very sorry, beta.' please forgive me. Like you said, no, ma'am, forgiveness we have to. So I asked her, please forgive me. But why, Mama? Why, why you are asking? No, I have read yours and your friend's chart. In that I have seen a sentence you wrote like, I want to commit suicide.

She—

her facial expressions changed. It's nothing like that, Mama. Then I told, if anything is there, I— you told, touch, touch them, let them feel your touch and make them comfortable. I hold it. She, ma'am, she doesn't want even to cry in front of me because she felt that I will be breaking down. So she went into restroom, she cried there, and then she came back. Then she was telling, 'No, Mama, asa kuch nahi hai.' Then I told, 'Anything is there. Your mama is there with you. Your mama will not judge you. Your mama completely trust you. She understands you. You, you can feel very safe You can please come out of that pain. She took for 5-10 minutes, then I told, Mama, till 8th class, I was a topper, right? I used to do all the things, but this year, Mama, 9th, it's a very huge syllabus. I'm unable to cope up. I'm unable to write down. I'm unable to match, and I'm not able to fulfill what Daddy is expecting. Dadi is telling you're wasting your time, you're not studying, you're unnecessarily doing all the things. These are the things. It is very hurting, Mama, and I'm unable to satisfy you people. It's feeling very heavy, Mama. Again, she was— ma'am, emotionally she was becoming strong, like she doesn't want to cry in front of me. Again, she went went back, she cried and again she came. Then she told, Mama, me aapki tarana perfect nahi ho. I am not able to do what the things you are doing. You are all the way, you are attending classes, you are managing house, you are managing Dada and everything. When I'm trying to do, I'm unable to do, and I'm not topper like Dadi. I'm trying my best. Even the other day when she asked her daddy also, actually she is a state topper during her period, her daddy was. So this was she is saying. And in between, like before EPH, I think, ma'am, I told, it seems, abhi tu na tikta rasi nahin pari toh sab mere upar aajaenge. That's what I told her, it seems. That also she has kept inside. In the sense, now if I don't do this, now everyone will tell to my mama because my father is not that capable to take us, be protected. So all this she was sharing, and I completely gave her open hands like this. Come here, bacha. And she hugged me, ma'am. Literally, she poured her heart crying for 10 minutes. 10 minutes. I was just pacifying her. Let it come out. Let it come out, beta. Let it come out. Your mama is there with you. Your mama is there. Ma'am, emotionally, me staying this is because of your spiritual teachings. You have saved a family, ma'am. You have saved a family. Nothing. Platinum payment, ma'am, in front of this where you have your teachings has taught me to be in this way and where I could able to handle my daughter. And for whom? Actually, during her birth, my mother-in-law sensed that my delivery might be happen little early, so she have given a medicine like Safesider wala, kuchh faisavaala. Where there she saved her granddaughter, here you have saved my daughter. With your teachings, I could able to save her. Because if emotionally, Ye hone ke baad na, ma'am. Me puri zara se robi nahi sakthi thi. Me apni pati ko bhi bol nahi sakthi thi. I was literally sitting. She was— she slept in my laps, ma'am, for an hour where she could able to deliver all the things. She slept slowly, I think. I came to room. No one should not hear my sound. I just kept like this and I cried. Then next day morning, I called up my super coach Suman. I shared my pain, everything to her. She handled me. And my co-leaders, they don't know this also, but they, they have, they have helped me a lot. Jasmine, Shweta, Aarti, Kushboo, Rashmi, Kavita, everyone, Shilpa, all. I, in this moment, I take this opportunity to thank all my Leaders, thank you so much. Thank you so much. Now biggest challenge is next, ma'am. How she told me, don't tell to Dadi, Mama, because I don't want her to feel guilty for this. See, ma'am, how the children are thinking. They are like, it's mind-blowing, ma'am. They're thinking where they are suffering and they're at the same time they are thinking. So next day is the biggest challenge. Then immediately, ma'am, whenever I see in the leadership also, if any mother says anything, I come back to the courses, I listen. Then if I can help them, I go back, or I'll tell them, see, go to this course. During that period, one of the mother told One of the mother, Ira, I think she told in Jaipur, one fourth class girl committed suicide because of bullying or something. Just after my incident, she revealed that to me and I was shaken, ma'am. Then I thought, Krishna, please bless my community that my ma'am should help many mothers that they should emotionally think about the kids first, not the studies, not nothing. Let they should come and tell to their parents, Krishna, please bless my community, please bless my mom, she needs, she needs. Then after going through that course, ma'am, how to protect your child from the depression, Then I have seen that you have given a purpose of life in that what my baby is doing. Then I encouraged her, see, if you're feeling overwhelmed with the studies, keep it aside. You draw, you do whatever you wish. You want, Mama, let's go and have a party outside. Let's have on it, let's go on a date time, whatever. I told her after she got up from the sleep, I told After that, ma'am, every day she used to bake 1-minute cakes. Mama, let's have it. So completely 360°, ma'am, in her behavior. I was like, then the task is how I should reveal this to my mother-in-law and my daughter should not know this. So after my mother-in-law came from hospital, I told her to have your lunch. Then she was asking, what do you want to talk? No, you first have your lunch. Let's have a little discussion. Then I took her. My mom had a cataract surgery. Mom, she was sleeping. What happened, bacha? Nothing, ma, just it's a family discussion because I don't want to make overwhelmed for anyone. So I took her to the room. I made her sit. I held her hands like this. Mama, you are doing so much to us, and we are blessed to get you. You are so, so, so sweet. I'm really happy. I'm really— I can't say how much blessed I am to be your daughter-in-law and your granddaughter. Such a sweet— see, now I'm going to tell you something. You listen, don't get panic, okay? Don't think in other ways. Yesterday this is what happened and she is in this phase. Ma'am, literally she was seeing towards upstairs like this. 5 minutes she sat like that only. She did not— just her tears was rolling, rolling, rolling, rolling, rolling. And she immediately, why? What happened? Did I do anything? Did you say anything? Why?

Why?

What happened? Then I told, it's nothing. Like, she was feeling overwhelmed with the studies and all. She was unable to take that pressure. And she is feeling that she is unable to satisfy me. First I kept myself, ma'am. I did not put her in the front. She is unable to satisfy me because I am yelling at her or whatever it is, and she is telling that I am not able to be like Daddy. Then she revealed that 3 days back she came and asked me, Muni, that Daddy, which rank you used to get in the school? She told, I was always topper. I was state topper in 10th, state topper in inter, and state topper like in medical college also I was topper. Then she was telling that maybe that, that's why she came and asked me. She was feeling that she is unable to cope up to my level. That actually my daughter told ma'am, that one I am not able to reach what Daddy is feeling. Then I told my mother-in-law, she was telling, maybe somewhere— no, no, no, don't say that, don't say that, she's a kid. It is, it's a proud moment. See, you have raised her, you have taught her in such a way where she did not do anything, but she could able to deliver her points so nicely And you know, Sasuma, she— what she told, please don't tell Daddy, she will feel very bad. I don't want Daddy to feel that bad. And ma'am, in our conversation between me and my daughter, I asked her, do you feel bad? Did anyone bully you, or did anyone tell you bad that you're not studying in You know, ma'am, what she told? Mama, you and Daddy, what says, that matters to me. The third person doesn't matter to me because they don't know in and out of me. They just know what they are seeing, that's it. So I don't care. See, ma'am, how their thought process is. We as mothers or what, keep taking on the third person's things, everything into our mind, and we feel panic. But she— that's what I told to my mother-in-law— she feels only what Daddy and Mama says, that matters to me, nothing else, nothing else. So it's like we should be very happy, Satsang Ma, that she could able to tell us this. Now let us give her space. Even we decided, Ma'am, that she also used to say, my Satsang Ma, she is like emotional person, she can't take pressure, that's why let us leave in a cool way, let her study in that way only. But somewhere Being studious, so somewhere we used to say, 'Chalo pallo, ek hum waste kare woh ek hum waste kare.' So that is also, they felt in that way. Now, ma'am, she is doing, and after joining me telling her like how she never comes into teen schools, ma'am, because she is occupied, and I don't want to force also. In between, when I told what is the power of chanting, what I felt every day, I thank God, I thank Krishna, chanting everything. I told her, but she was not ready. But she does secretly Ho'oponopono, ma'am. She doesn't want to show me, but she does secretly Ho'oponopono. And she is now completely relaxed. She is doing well. Tantrums throw karte hai, abhi mera is tara ho gaya na, ma'am, underse. Emotional, like spirituality, say, "Ye bachche hai, bachche nahi kare toh koun karega, toh din aam karenge." That's how I have turned. You have shifted me in this way where now any challenge, I can feel this, yes, I get some learning from my mom, I can become strong, I can deliver that here. So even multiple things are going regarding big yoga Being a woman, emotions. So treat your partner as a soul partner. Literally, ma'am, that I have taken. See, Krishna, God has chosen me. That's why we both paired, and he wants me to be his partner so that he can be in a safe way. And you know, ma'am, my husband is very close to my father. When he was telling me that, "Mere Papa aspirate ho ke, he couldn't able to revive, ma'am. Oh, mere ghar mein hi pas tere, main tab nahane ke liye upar gaye thi." And my husband being paralysis, he couldn't able to lift him and he couldn't able to communicate people ki wo ghir gaye hai, wo aake bachao. And he hugged me and cried, cried a lot saying that means with my hand I couldn't able to lift him and no one able to understand my this. Then I told Ravi, because he is into that, Then I told him, Ravi, I understood what you have gone through that day, but I'm so, so proud of you that you took care of my father so well. And he's blessed to get you as a son-in-law, and I'm so blessed to get you as a husband, and our daughter is blessed to get you as a father. For a child like him, someone telling this way. And that too, ma'am, iske pele unke andar, woh volcano wala, unka emotion kis tarah, bahas nikalna hai, sabhi pata nahi tha. And I used to be in that way only. But this journey of spiritual community, under aane ke baad, ham dono ke communication mein, spiritual connection hogya, because he will be seeing all God serials and all. Because he is connected. So now he listens to your live calls also, ma'am. He sits beside me and he listens what your ma'am says. In that way, this is what she says, this is what she says. Now it is my house environment is completely changed, ma'am. I'm so calm. Anything happens Now nothing will break. And you know, ma'am, set the boundaries. I have set the boundaries for the third person outside. That very good. But don't put tadka, oil, and everything. That is not the good thing. In a very polite manner. My daughter, she was telling the other day, Mama, positive way. And you gave one forgiveness mission, ma'am. Please, please, please. And she became so emotional, ma'am, that— And I write every day gratitude for my house helpers, ki I'm blessed to get my Lakshmi Auntie, my Monica, unke naam ke saath mein gratitude likhte hoon. And tab se na, ma'am, unke chutiyan kaam ho gaye. So, and as you say, no, ma'am, I love myself, I like myself, I trust myself, I believe myself.

It's all God, Prashanti.

Yes.

And M, ma'am, connections I took. Inhale connection with everything. Connection with your ma'am, connection with your courses, connection with your team, connection with your mothers. Connection call bolte hai, kisi ko bhi na call karlo, karke nahi bolte hai connection. That connection will change everything if you trust it and exhale expectations. Expectation har chiz mein, expectation se hi apko frustration ata hai, expectation se hi ye sab kuch ata hai. So ye 2 shab, jo bhi mere mothers, manager leadership kiya tha na, maine unko bhi bolata. Connected, connected, connected. And I got such beautiful friends in this, and mere team 7 ke toh leaders toh, they have like, they don't know all these things, ma'am. Only Suman knows this, but Who me low level pe na itna lift kar diye hai. And I deeply thank my friend Sarita. She's an accountability partner to me. Because of her, I have entered Sankirtan. She told me this is what, this is, this is. And thank you, ma'am. Thank you so much for this community. Thank you so much for coming into our lives. Thank you.

Thank you, Prashanti. And you know, I'm so, so proud of you. I cannot explain how I'm feeling right now. No, I just feel God is always with us and we are all divinely connected. I'm out of words for the first time. The first time, seriously. Just want to say thank you, and I'm feeling so proud that I can call you my student. So thank you so much. You know, the way you've used every idea, the patience with which you've dealt with such a delicate situation. I just want to say you're, you're an inspiration for so many. And how many of you can feel this? If you can feel it in your heart, would feel You know, that's why I keep saying, you know, this is, you know, doing this work, this is God's work. It's not a luxury, it's not an option. I just feel this is a necessity, especially now, you know. And, you know, now that yesterday we had a call with the teenagers where they were sharing so many, you know, yesterday was a shares call and And I'll probably share the recording even with the Gold mothers, even though it was a Platinum call. I'll share the recording and I want you to see what kids are sharing, how they are thinking, and how important this work is for them. So much bullying, so much ragging, so much they have to go through. Teachers not treating them well in school. Like one child was like, ma'am, My teacher will only scold me. I don't know why. That's his problem. One child, her problem is, I make art and craft, my friends steal it or they copy it. One child, I take my tiffin, everybody else eats it. One child, so beautiful, such a lovely looking girl, My friends are calling me Tu Kali, Tu Kali. One child, he's changed school and his friends are like, you know, you're, uh, you're not from this planet, you're from Jupiter. And you know, they're just these So, you know, you don't— like, you know, sometimes they're not able to share these things with parents because they don't want to transfer the pain to the parent. And sometimes they feel that, okay, no matter what I say, my parents will not be able to understand. So it is so important, you know, just like you have a safe space for yourself. It is so important for us to create that space for our children. If you agree, put A for agree in the chat. I don't know, also for yourselves. So, you know, when we say things like, time When we had the time to create babies and hold them in our wombs for 9 months and bring them into this world, it is our responsibility to learn. Because you don't know one idea, you know, like what Prashanti shared, like, you know, she's used like 6, 7 ideas from 6, 7 different things that she learned. But it all came together, and when she was learning all this, she had no idea what God was preparing her for. So those of you are sitting in comfort and thinking, ki mere life mein issa kuch nahi hai— nobody can plan these things. So it is our responsibility to learn for ourselves, not just because I want. I know some of you are sending me emails that I don't want to become a professional parenting coach, I'm in a job, I want to continue with my job, I don't want to become a professional coach or a life coach, so is Platinum for me? My finances are all good. Of course it is for you, you're a mother, You don't want to do it professionally, don't do it, but at least learn. Like, you know, I'm gardening, but I'm not a professional mali. I'm not going and doing gardening for other people, but I like to maintain my balcony and my terrace garden for myself, for my house energy. So we should not think about everything as return on money invested, that I put 3 lakh, so I should get 5 lakhs, or I should get 20 lakhs. Something is also return on relationship, return on memories, return on time. What are you doing with your time on this planet? And I know one thing, if your mind is in the right place, your heart is in the right place, you're advancing spiritually, money is the last thing you will think about, and it will automatically keep coming to you. And it is happening for so many people. But that should not be the reason for us to make any decision that I will only learn only when I want to do something professionally. And none of us should limit ourselves by saying things like I don't have the time. And I just want to tell you one thing, this is my experience and also, you know, Prashanti's experience and experience of most of you here. Every time you learn, you're not investing time, you're saving time. You create more time. How many of you have been experiencing that? Really, when you're going through it, You know, Prashanti, when I took Platinum, I didn't discuss. So we also have to stop discussing. The more you discuss, the more you confuse yourself, especially when you're discussing with people who don't understand your values. So make a decision for yourself. Don't be stuck in that same loop that you've been stuck in for so many years. Now, this opportunity— the opportunities will not keep coming back to you. You are here because God put you here. Yeah, and all of us know. Yeah, thank you, Sangeeta, for mentioning that. All of us know where we are stuck, what is happening, because nobody can know you better than you and God. God knows and you know, but we will not do anything about it. So can I have a commitment that you will show up for yourself? Put 'show up' in the chat box. Show up for yourself, show up for your life, show up for your child, show up for your family. Show up for your dreams. Start showing up. Stop hiding in the dark. Stop hiding your face from the world. Just imagine, you know, 9 years ago when Prashanti was sharing, I was just thanking Krishna that thank God Krishna, I did not listen to my husband 9 years ago. I love my husband. He's a very, very good husband. But I'm so glad that I didn't listen. I'm so glad I was stubborn. I'm so glad I did it even when I didn't have the money. I'm so glad that I showed up even when I was not sure of myself. Just imagine if I had just learned all of this and I was sitting with my resistance. That mujhe video nahi ata, banana toh main nahi banaoongi, mujhe Instagram pe sharam ata hai. You think I was very comfortable when I posted my first video on Instagram? Obviously not. You think I was comfortable when I was making my first video? Obviously not. But imagine if I kept telling myself, I don't know, I can't do it, 'No, I don't know how to make videos. Should I record?' So I know one thing: we don't do anything. God does everything through you, but you have to allow yourself to be used. Aapko Bhagwan ko use karna dena padega na. So when God is giving you an idea, do this. And you are honoring your fears and you are not honoring your faith in God. You know what Prashanti did when she got that news? She was not saying, "Why me?" She was not saying, "Mere sati kyu wa, meri bachini esa kyu kya?" What did she say? "Thank you, God. Thank you, Krishna." You showed this to me. That is a shift in mindset. That shift in mindset of Prashanti before and Prashanti now is what made all the difference. Just one shift. Imagine if she had gotten hyper and done what, something else. It would be a very different journey. So no counselor, no therapist, no psychologist, no doctor, no pediatrician can help your child. Not even me. Only you. Only you can show up for your child. Because your child, you know, what did Prashanti's daughter tell her? I don't care about what other people think or say. What you think about me matters to me. So what you think about your child is what matters to your child. And you know, when we see all these things happening in school and then parents create a big fuss and they're going and putting a case on the school that what were you doing when my child did this— with all due respect to those parents, I want to tell that no child will take such a step if the child is emotionally satisfied at home. If the child has that freedom of communication at home, they will never do such a thing only because their friends tease them. This is a balbon put bi ho. So we should not blame the school or bullying and hitting that the children are doing. And who is raising those other kids who are bullying the kids? Okay, your child is at the receiving end, but what about the kids who are bullying? Where are those parents? What are they doing? So I just want to tell you, you know, and I keep repeating this, mom energy stronger than solar energy. Stronger than nuclear energy. You are the light in your child's life. You can breathe joy into them, or you can fill them up with pain. You can fill them up with confidence, or you can fill them up with self-doubt. You can fill them up with spiritual values, or you can fill them up with material pressure. Yeah, Dr. Shaveta, she shared her story last time. Again, a teenage daughter who wasn't speaking to her mom. Imagine, we're sending them to fancy big, big schools, buying them luxury products, they don't want to talk to us. Not because they don't love us, because we don't know how to inspire that love and security in them that they can come and share anything with us. Renuka's daughter shared with her mom that, Mom, I feel so safe with you now. That even if by mistake I harm somebody or kill somebody, I can come and tell you. That's how I— how safe I feel with you. That's the kind of safety we have to create for our children. But before that, we have to feel secure and safe. We have to feel emotionally safe, stable, sound, relaxed, calm, peaceful, and only then can we create this for our children. So when I keep saying, come to Platinum, come to Platinum, I'm— I don't— I honestly, I don't need it. I don't need you to come to me. You need to come for yourself and your child. With God's grace, with Krishna's grace, if I don't work, I have what, 40 years left, or maximum 50 years if God gives me a very good life. I cannot spend more than a crore a year on myself, even if I'm going on luxury holidays and trips. So if I'm not working also, full life now, starting today, my life is full jingalala. I can go travel to the best places, relax, chill, and do whatever I want. This is for you and your child. And ab jab itna kuch karte ho apne bachche ke liye abroad, master's, undergrad's counselor, career counseling. What career with the mind? If the mind is not there, what career will we build? If they're not emotionally feeling strong, what will happen? You know, so many years ago when I was applying for universities abroad, And, you know, growing up we were in a modest family, and then my father worked very hard and he built a big business and we became very rich. But so I've seen both, you know, simple living, very, very fancy living. So when I was applying to, uh, colleges, I told my mom that only if I get accepted by the best will I go. She asked me a very simple question. She told me, what is best according to you? So I told her, best known colleges, LSE, Cambridge, best known, you know. And she told me something really good. She said, it's not about the best college. You can be the best student in the most ordinary college. And you can change the world. Or you can be an ordinary student in the best college and do nothing. And that's why, you know, everywhere I try to give it my best, whether I enroll for whatever I enroll, and I always tell myself I want to keep learning. So how many of you want to be the best version of yourself, not just for yourself but for your family, but for your God who put you in this room, not for anybody else? Not to prove a point to anybody, not to show to anybody that I can do better than you. This is just for you, your child, and your family first. So move, don't keep— don't stay stuck in your head. You know, there are mothers in our community, Gold membership. This time when we were doing Platinum Elite, 2022 they joined Gold, 2025 they became Elite. Anybody like that in this room? If you are in that, in this room right now, put me. 2022 or '23 they joined. See, Simrit Kaur, Gurpreet Supriya. And then they tell me, ma'am, I wished I had done this sooner. How many of you feel that you wish you had done this sooner? Put feel in the chat box. Uma, yeah, Uma was sharing last time. Wait, if you can feel this, put feel. You know, yesterday I was watching this video by Premanand Ji Maharaj. I don't know how many of you follow him. How many of you know of him? Put yes in the chat box. So I was watching this video. He shared very good thing. He said these days people want to do what is not important instantly. What is important, they will keep pushing it for later. Why did he say this? There was this ekanteek warta la, one person is telling him ki hum sab these chalis business owners hai, hum sab bohot acha kare apne apne life mein, sab kuch acha chal rahi hai mare life mein, aana chate ap se milne, but main ya ke la paya, baaki log nahi ya paya. And then he says, same for us, no? Parenting does not mean just, you know, giving a shot. You know, some mothers like, ma'am, my child is only 7 months old, I'm looking after my child, I don't have the time to learn. You're not looking after, you're spending, you're just spending time with your child. But what are you doing in that time that you're spending? Your role as a mother is not just to change diapers and to feed your child and to give them a shower. With all due respect, you can get somebody to help you with all of that. You know, I share this concept: work with and work for. There are things that we do for our children, like, you know, getting them ready for school, packing their lunch, sending them to school. Making them do their home. All of this is you working for your child. And then there is working with your child, where only a mother can do those things, where you are transferring values, you're transferring mindset, you're transferring energy, you're transferring spiritual strength, you're transferring communication, care, emotions. But most of us are busy working for our children, and then you know what happens as a result of that? Children will become bosses, and then you keep doing what they want you to do. And then later, when they become teenagers and physically stronger, you're saying, my child is not respecting me. My— some, some mothers are also sharing, my child hit me when I took the screen time away. One inner circle called, one mother mentioned, my child broke my hand and then he also hit his father when we tried to take the screen away. And then you're blaming the child? Was the child born like that? No, you were so busy working for. Till the time you don't work with your child as a team, no matter how much you work for your child, you're not giving your child what your child truly deserves. And if you don't give your child what your child truly deserves, you're not going to receive what you are wanting to receive as a mother. So when I shared that learn, it's not a luxury, I mean it. And you know, I'm bringing these spotlight stories and we're going to do more such stories because, you know, whatever I say, you might feel that because there is no difference between you and me. I'm made of the same flesh and the same blood. Just like Prashanti surrendered to my courses, I surrendered to learnings from my teachers. I was not born like this. I was a very, uh, aggressive, angry short-tempered, extra emotional, oversensitive, not knowing how to set boundaries, didn't know how to say no. Anybody could take me for granted. Just like Prashanti's daughter, I would go and cry in the bathroom, didn't want to cry in front of anybody. But I chose to change. I chose not to remain like that. And it takes courage to change because sometimes you have to make decisions and take action even when you're not sure. So how many of you are giving me a commitment that you're going to show this courage to change? Put CC even if you're in a good life condition right now. You know, life is not going to remain the same forever, and God has weird ways of preparing us. Abhi aapko lag rava kiya zarbat hai mujhe Sikh nahi ki. But maybe God aapko opportunity isle dere ki Bhagwan ko pata hai aapke sat kiyaone wale bhi saal baat. Aapko ni pata. When I was going through those challenges, I was feeling, you know, because I have 3 sisters, we are 4 sisters. None of them lost a child, I lost a child. None of them ever saw zero rupee in their bank account, I saw that day. None of them went through depression, I saw that day. None of us, none of them were emotionally totally lost. I was. And I always kept asking myself, my parents, same parents, we did the same things growing up, we went to the same school, everything was same. In fact, I was the quietest. I never fought with my siblings. I never hit anybody. Nobody ever hit me. I was such a submissive, good girl growing up. So why is God showing me all this? I kept asking myself. And today when I look back, I know why he did. Because he wanted me to be a parenting coach. He was preparing me for today, 10 years ago. Because now when a mother comes and tells me, I feel depressed, I can feel what she feels. When a mother comes and tells me, I lost a child, I can feel what she feels. When a mother comes and tells me, I have zero money in my account, I don't know if I can start learning, I can be a part of Platinum, I tell her, ho jaayega apka. Kyu ki mera bhi wata na, dasal pehle. With no money in my account, I did all the courses. Money kept coming. Now invested more than 3 crores in my education after my master's with my own money. Kaise hua? From zero balance in my account. How can I make this statement with so much confidence? Because I have experienced it. So if God had not put those things on the way, along the way, or, you know, when it happened, I would not be able to help you the way I'm helping. It would all be theory, but now it's all experience. So if, if you have failed in life You have all the authority to help. You know, sometimes people say, oh, I didn't do well, so how can I help? You can help. You tell people about don't do this because if you do this, you will fail. That's helping. You don't have to be some Miss Perfect to help. And people who claim to be perfect, you want to stay away from them. All of us should help because that's why God sent us here, to help. Okay, now we'll do a few shares. Yes, PK, you wanted to share something. Just turn on your video and unmute yourself.

Yeah, thank you, ma'am. Yes, uh, with your permission, I would like to unmute everybody and 3 rounds of applause for Prashanti.

Okay, and can we have your video on so that I can spotlight you? All right, one second. First, let me spotlight you, and I will allow everybody to unmute and give a huge Huge round of applause to Prashanti!

Thank you so much for sharing your story.

Amazing, amazing, amazing, awesome presentation.

You're more than an alumna now—

amazing, amazing, amazing girl.

God bless you all. For sharing us story and so many of us.

Congratulations.

You are no less than a goddess.

Truly inspiring.

Congratulations.

Thank you.

We are so proud of you.

Love you.

Love you.

We love you, Prashanti. Amazing. All right, you're on mute. One second, I'll allow you. Yes, you can unmute, Prashanti.

Thank you so much, ma'am. Thank you so much. Uh, I think the day when you have decided to create this community, that, that is like something for you. It is more than a Mount Everest.

You have—

you don't know what magic you are doing. It's like Krishna is an energy, and that energy is transformed into you, and you are giving us that to nurture us, everything, everything. It's purely what I have seen Krishna is through you, that energy, that learnings, everything. So for a teacher, always I feel like a student, teacher, teacher ka Bhagwan ka stan kyu hota hai? Because after the parents, that is the Guru. And we in this, like, I feel that jab hamare mami papa utne nahi pade hotete, But they used to trust us. Ki beta pallo, accha chitta ra pallo, ek accha za job lelo. That's it. Now we are in such a phase, we learned so much that we are putting so much pressure on our kids. Expectations, everything is expectations, expectations. And you, ma'am, truly you have designed this. If I see each and every mission, it's not for the kid. Not for the relationship, nothing. It's for mom. If you see deeply, every mission, every mission is designed for you. If you go deeply, if you understand it, there is a magic. Jab aap andar se woh feel karte ho, I always resonate, Madam, everything. That connection, that's what I said. I inhale the connection word so deeply. That love that, that soil connection. Imagine, yes, there are many things. See the connection, why ma'am has taken that connection word. Yes, please, please. It's not about money. You will learn for yourself. You learn. That has to happen. And spiritual journey, what I can say, ma'am, you have saved my complete family. And I can't even imagine if I could be in that way, how many lives. Because she is a blessing in our family. My daughter is a blessing. Bohot love mannat mangate, madam. Ek saal mujhe lagaa, un manaton ko puri karna ke liye. And today, just I shared for 2-3 people that I say that because of Riddhi Ma'am's teachings, especially why spirituality? Spirituality is not saying bhajan sanghan mein baithna kine. To calm yourself, to calm your minds, to calm your soul. When you calmly align with that, you will understand what the child is going through, why the relationships are up and down. Usually men are some like, ham log na emotional rehte hain, woh log practical rehte hain. We should understand that. And the relationship topic what you have taken, there the beautiful things. Jaise aap bolte hain, ma'am, ek word bilay lo, That is miracle, miracle, ma'am.

And we are all channels. Yes, love you, Prashanti.

Yeah, Riddhi ma'am, I always listen to your calls. You know, I may not be keeping my video on because there's so many things for me to do, but I— my 100% ears are all to you and my hands are doing everything. But today when Prashanti was speaking, I got so engrossed in what she was talking, which has never happened so far. Even when I'm listening, the only time I don't listen to your call is when I am traveling. And you know, I was so confused what I want to do. Everybody is saying I want to do be a super coach, I don't want to be a coach, I want to do this, I want to do that. I spoke to one or two of my leaders also, and still I I was not able to find my ikigai, what actually I wanted to do. One thing was sure, I wanted to grow and my family also has to be more aligned with one another and there should be peace in our family. My daughter is also an adult now, 19 years old, and as Prashanti shared that she saw the chats, but one day my daughter, she was excelling in everything academically and suddenly her grades started dropping and she asked me, Mama, is it okay that one day I won't be there? There is this other daughter for you. And I can't tell you, I dropped everything I had in my hands and I just hugged her tight. And from there onwards, you know, I have been very patient. I've been listening. And to this point, yesterday when I spoke to her, she told me, Abhi toh mujhe pata hai nahi chalta hai ki aap Riddhi Ma'am se sikre ho ki Riddhi Ma'am aap se sikre ho, aap dono toh toh kaisa bol lete ho. She likes you so much. And regarding my ikigai, I didn't know, but we have a farm in our native place, and both my in-laws are 75+ and there is nobody to take care. One person comes and goes, but suddenly I realized that I love gardening and I love plantations, so I want to do that. And I want— and with this urban jungle growing everywhere, I want, you know, people to come to that place and have some moments of peace. And the moment that happened, I think Krishna showed me that. 6 years it has been, we are searching for a couple to stay at the farm. And 15 days back, one couple on their own, they came to our farm and they said that we wish to stay over here if you allow us to work. So that is so amazing. For the— since the 23rd of November, I have made 3 visits to the place every weekend, you know, like it's a 10 hours, 10 to 12 hours journey one side. But I, I don't know where I have found the courage to do it, and I'm doing everything. It may be a small call or it may be a small video. I will just watch one or two videos, but I watch because I feel that, as my father always used to say, the result is not important, the process is important. You have to go through the process. And I am so grateful and so thankful to you. I just can't tell you exactly in so many words. And I request all the mothers, may jesse bandi jo Sab naaptol ke leti hoon. I will never give one extra rupee for anything. I took the Platinum Elite, you know. I request everybody, everybody in the world, people, that you should do this. It is for yourself, it is for your family. You— I mean, no words can tell you what exactly you get. So thank you so much. Thank you.

Amazing. Thank you so much, PK, and it's so sweet the way you've explained it. So, you know, so candid and so vulnerable. Yes, and all of you in the— how many? Okay, let me know in the chat box what is your level of membership. Yes, gold, platinum, what is your level of membership? Platinum, platinum, gold. Yes, so all the gold mothers, please make sure you fill up the platinum interest form and come prepared on the 21st to start this beautiful journey. This is a gift that you have to give to your family, better than any mutual fund, any gold, jewelry, bag, holiday, better than anything. So make it happen, and you have one full year, 13 months, to make the payment. So it's not a lot of pressure. I've made it very easy for all of you. So make sure you fill up the form. And the reason I ask you to fill up, so that your super coaches will connect with you in case you have any questions, you want to ask anything. You can ask them, and when you come on the 21st, you can come and make a more informed decision. So make sure you fill out the form. Yes, Dr. Shweta.

Hello?

Yeah, can you hear me? Yes, yes. Um, thank you so much, Prashanti, for sharing your journey. I— this is the first time in years that, you know, I, I cried so much. You made me so emotional, and I don't even know, like, you know, listening to Prashanti's word and telling what all she has done in, you know, last 22 years of her life, it was unbelievable for me to actually believe that, you know, what she's saying, like, is this a story or is this real life? But we were in the same team, and I I just don't know, Prashanti, how you do it. Even while she's telling her story, she has a smile. Like, you know, how do you do that, Prashanti? This is what I want to know from you because you are so courageous and inspirational. And I cannot believe how, you know, sometimes I listen to your story and then I think that, you know, the things that I might be tempted to complain about before EPH, And some of the mothers who are still in that, you know, energy that they complain about a small thing that, you know, this is not happening this way, this is how I want it, it's not working. How you have, you know, sacrifices and, you know, the courage, how you are handling everything. The one thing that I noticed in all these spotlights, you know, all these mothers who have gone and achieved these high breakthroughs Riddhi Deorah is, you know, implementing your teachings. They are being the good students. They are learning, they are applying, and they are getting breakthroughs. But this was, you know, beyond my imagination. This Prashanti's story is very, very inspirational. And Prashanti, if you could say one or two words about how do you maintain that smile? Like, you know, listening to the stories, I couldn't turn my camera on because I was just overflowing with emotions and a lot of mothers were crying. And how you were telling it with a smile, I have no words.

Thank you, Shweta. Thank you so much. Like, before it was very emotional. I used to deal with that crankiness, everything I used to do But it was all negative only, all negative. Why these people are telling to me? What I did? Can't they understand? Can't they think of that before saying? So all these, one word is expectation. Expectation. EPH has made me, to be frank enough, oh, mujhe majboor kardiya ki woh expectation nikal ke bahar fake ho. To be frank, no expectation.

Why?

When Guruji told that you came here to perform your karma or dharma, why? That's why spiritual journey— why Riddhi Ma'am is so particular about that? It is nurturing you, your soul completely, completely. Apne aapko na, aap is tarah aaj ke din pe If I see my both brother-in-law and brother are in US, kuch bhi hota hai. Mere Sasur ji 86 years ke hai, unko kuch bhi avar hota hai. I have to travel 3 hours to take him to the hospital. But mujhe itna shakti andar se ye connection, like spiritual journey ke vajese jo, align chanting, chanting, yes. Such a powerful— it's not about like I'm doing publicity. No, genuinely I felt that. Genuinely I felt. And recently when I was in leadership, 20 days back, because of his diabetic, he got infected. My husband is not capable and my mother-in-law can't So every time I used to travel and my learnings, and especially chanting, Boundaries set. I have set the boundaries. That's what I've learned. No one— see, imagine, but my daughter, who not even aware of that, she was telling, Mama, I don't care. Only matter is you and Daddy, what they say. See, children are way, way understanding. We should learn, we should learn. That's why Krishna has sent Riddhi Ma'am to teach us.

I just want to give you a tightest hug, Prashanti. I just don't know how to do that digitally. Love you so much, love you so much, love you so much.

Amazing. I always say that, um, Riddhi Ma'am, apna mother of mother child. That's what you're telling me, that's what Please, please, mothers, please, if you feel you deserve the happiness, happiness with your positiveness, whatever, go with the learnings. And I always see, I always resonate, ma'am. Mary Sasuma, she is 76 years. She very carefully handle each and every patient. She is dedicatedly working, and that I can see in you, ma'am. You are going to rock.

Thank you.

There is no ending. It's truly, it's from my heart. I, I every day bless this community, each and every mother. My everyone are nurturing me. That's what I do.

Amazing. Thank you so much, Prashanti.

Lots, lots, lots of power. Anything, anything, ma'am, all the blessings. I really bless you. Your mommy and papa are doing so much, and Siddhir, ma'am, also doing so much. Yes, so much. I tell you, yes. Spiritual journey, which topic? Ma'am, you are wearing yellow dress, and the word even now also I hear is Bhagavad Gita. It's a life lessons. It's a life lesson. No, nothing. Imagine if I not have learned this today, my whole family. So imagine, and when my friend that Ira told that That child at the age of in 4th class, school building, recently in the Jaipur, and she was telling to her mom, it seems. I don't know, she told the news, but mother couldn't. But All thanks, all thanks to EPH, all thanks to Riddhi Ma'am.

Well, thanks to you for being a great student. Let's put A for amazing for Shaveta. Yes, Gurpreet, we'll maybe not be able to do all, but we'll do 2-3 more and then we'll close. Yes, Gurpreet.

Hello, Ma'am.

Hi, Gurpreet.

Um, ma'am, I am a late student who just came, uh, May 2024, my main goal join I'm working in Social Security of Women and Child Development.

You're in Mom and Child Development?

Yeah.

Okay, then it's compulsory for you to watch.

Yes, actually I was very calm, calm, and Actually, I'm from Punjab, near about Dr. Aman Patiala. She's my friend.

So I don't know, one thing with you, Gurpreet, and see, now I'm at a stage in my life where I'm very calm, right? And every area of my life, just like you, Gurpreet, is pretty sorted. But learning is not just a solution to a problem.

Yeah, I agree.

Learning is a way of living. Yeah, because that's what we are meant to do. We are here to serve and help, and the best way to serve and help is when you are growing and you are pulling others with you. Yeah, so a lot of us think that, oh, I come from a good family, everything is sorted, my child is good, my child is well behaved. I'm doing good, so should I learn? Learning is for everybody, I feel. So most of us, you know, think that learning means problem. Even if you, even if you are blessed with the best child, all of us are blessed with great children, but even if you believe that my child, the best child, very calm, very sorted, I'm sorted. Still, we need to learn. If this is a bulban, could be. So I'm so glad that you brought that up, because a lot of us, we do not grow because of our comfort. And your comfort keeps you stuck. We feel Seriously, right?

So Gurpreet, what's your question? Is community. Yes.

Because every month I will increase it. Yes.

Amazing, amazing.

You know, so these things I feel are like what you mentioned, divine timing. It will happen when it's meant to happen. So And all of us are already coaches, you know. All of us as women Natural coaches we are. So I'm so happy that it happened and now you're in Platinum. Amazing! Let's put A for amazing for Gurpreet. And we'll do one or two more last. Okay, Nabanita Ganguly.

Hi, Nan!

Hi, Nabanita!

Hi everyone, lovely moms, thanks for, um, yes, thank you. I know, I understand Bengali.

I'm from Calcutta.

That time I felt, ki bachche kaise survive karte hain. Matlab, ham log toh sochte hai, kuta jayenge toh bahut bara teer maalenge. Like, in teer, inha bhi teh hai un log ki ethna pressure ek toh parai jo parai holo karte hain, wo matlab, ham sochne hi sakthe hain. Both of them, karme sochne hi sakthe hain. My experience, and I am a writer. Mama boys.

Mission already.

I will manage. Scam.

I will tell you one thing now, Riddhi Deorah. If not this time, next time.

In the meantime, Yes, community. I'm not perfect as a parent. I am not perfect as a human being. I am not perfect. Mental pressure. Yes. Correct. Platinum.

Next month, 100%. You know, I want sharing this with so much confidence. It's happened with so many people, like so many mothers, zero money in the account, in Platinum. My story, 10 years ago, same like you, golden cage, you know, like everything is there, good car, good clothes, good everything. Didn't have my own But yeah, my husband was not so—

yeah.

And, uh, so I had ₹60,000, uh, ₹1,40,000. ₹60,000 I had. The rest I had to take from my husband. And I still remember so many back and forth. Why do you have to do it? Who does parenting? This, that. Even though he's so educated, very forward-looking, because nobody— my husband be Nobody was talking about parenting, and I was like, I don't know why I want to do it, I just want to do it. You have to make it happen for me. And, uh, yeah, it just happened. So I know one thing, as women, you know, we give our whole life to our family, but they don't understand because they come from a very different value. And sometimes they understand, they love us, they all love us, but they don't understand our need to grow, our need to serve. So that only we have to understand. Nobody will help. So we have to figure out how can I make it happen.

So it— correct.

You have to become a coach. You are a very good speaker, so you definitely have to be a coach. You can really inspire. How many of you feel she's A good storyteller. The most important quality of a coach is to be a good storyteller. Even Prashanti, you, the whole room was crying, including me. I think I have—

Prashanti, you are a great person, great human being. Yes, yes. Yes. Videos, question answer, notebook.

Yes, this is my mission for all of us. The ripple effect. I cannot change the world alone. We have to— all of us have to do it. Amazing. Thank you so much for bringing it up.

Thank you, thank you so much.

Amazing. Let's put A for amazing for Nabonita. Okay, only Madhuri Ji now, and then we have to close. We have exceeded this call a lot. Yes, Madhuri Ji, you're on mute. You have to unmute. Namaste. Namaste. Yes, seriously, yes.

Voi exemplary.

Correct. Sessions. It is a good thing to do. It is best place to learn. And thank you, thank you. Yes, yes, thank you, ma'am, for creating this space this special, special, amazing place for us to learn and to grow and be connected to each other. Yes, thank you so much, Madhuri ji, for being a source of inspiration for so many mothers and setting the true example for being a lifelong learner. So with that, we come to the end of this very beautiful, soulful, heartful session with Prashanti, and we'll be bringing more such stories. How many of you love this? Idea of spotlighting moms. If you love it, put love. It was just, you know, the gap between the idea and the execution was 10 seconds. And this is what I want all of you to aim for— not even 10 seconds. You get an idea, you put it into action. That's how the gap should be. Like yesterday, we did a shares for the kids. Now I got that idea, immediately I asked the super coaches, please create a call for the kids. I want them to share. Because yesterday I was thinking, because tomorrow we have Platinum shares at, uh, 10. So I was thinking that, okay, tomorrow mothers are going to share, so I'll send them a voice note as a reminder. And then I was just feeling that, why not kids? Why are they not sharing? Now they are also my students. Why am I only asking mothers to share? Let me ask them to share as well. I got that idea and instantly, you know, I was like, you know, please create a link for the kids. We'll have a call for the kids to share. So I just feel that, you know, when an idea comes, it's coming from some place. It's just coming to you from somewhere. It's being delivered to you. Now it depends on you whether you want to receive it or whether you want to stay stuck. Will people do it? I don't have this or this support or that support or this money, that money. No, idea I have to execute. Whether it will work, not work, chalega, nahi chalega, I don't know. But if God has sent me an idea, I just have to put it into action. Without, you know, you can, you know, I share, I'll share this link with all of you, and I would love all of you to watch this. I shared this with the Platinum Moms, but I want all of you to also go through it whenever you can. Watch this, Nabanita. All your money blocks that you're thinking that I don't have the money, it will all break when you watch this also. So all of you, you know, like, have to— you can either operate in faith or you can operate in fear. So either when an idea comes, you either get fearful or you get faithful, that God, you sent this idea to me I have faith in you and I will put this into action. Or you are thinking that I am the doer. Main sab kuch karte hoon. Jab aap ye sochoge ki main sab kuch karte hoon, tab aap fears— fear will operate you. But when you have this feeling that God does everything, I'm just used as a channel, no fear. What is impossible for God? Nothing. So there will be no fear in you if you believe in your God, because you are just being used. Your body is being used to deliver everything God does. All the breakthroughs that you are getting now— Prashanti's daughter, God has saved, used me as a channel, but I allowed myself to be used, but the credit goes to God. Because without God's permission, we cannot move a tiny finger. We have to understand, we don't do anything. Me kuch nahi karti, mera kuch nahi hai. You just— the only thing you have to do is you have to keep saying yes to God. Okay, God, I'll do this. You want me to do this? I'll do this. I'll do this. I'll do this. I'll do this. And he'll do the work. You just have to say, yes, God, you can use me. So my prayer every day, and all of you can include this in whatever prayer you do every day, pray to God. God, I have woken up, now I'm ready to be used in service. Use me to the fullest. Way, because God is working through you. So God can work in magical ways. Dear God, please use me in service, use me to the fullest, right? So on that note, we will end. Prashanti, I love you, you make me so, so proud. You're an amazing student. Thank you for you know, using the teachings. And I think as much as I have taught you today, I have learned so much from you. So thank you so much. And that's the beauty of this work— we learn from each other. So thank you so much, Prashanti, for being that student.

Thank you.

Love you. And give, give a lot of love and a tight hug to your daughter from my side, also your mom-in-law.

Awesome.

Sure, ma'am.

Thank you.

All right, everybody, Hare Krishna. And I will see you today in the evening. We have a very special call. I know today you'll get too much of— but today I thought Prashanti is the lead. In the evening we have a call, Drain to Divine. It will be a 2-hour session, or maybe 1.5 hours, but please be there. Do not miss, right? So, uh, be there for the call. Even if you are keeping your cameras off, listen. Because even listening helps. Do whatever, you know, little bit in going inside is better than nothing. So please be there. I promise it will be worth your time. So I will see you in the evening at 6 PM. Thank you so much. Love each and every one of you. This is Riddhi Deorah, your parenting coach, always here to love you and always, always here to serve you. Thank you. Yes, jaadu ki jappi. To the whole group. Yes, amazing.