Journey From Childhood Trauma To Freedom | Supermom Spotlight Gloria Lingayat | Riddhi Deorah

Hello everybody. If you can see me and hear me clear, please put yes in the chat box. Let me see your faces and your names. Hi, Shreya, Simrandeep, Panchata, Niru, Shulba, Deep, Jyoti, Bhuvneshwari, Riddhi Deorah, Shrawini, Flary, Bincy, Mandip, Divya, Ankita, Jyoti, Swati, Pallavi, Pavitra, Priyamwada, Himani. Amazing! And how many of you are feeling amazing, amazing, amazing this morning? If you're feeling great, put your one word in the chat box about how are you feeling in this moment.

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Calm. Great, energetic, blissful, amazing, excited, peaceful, grateful, blessed, amazing. Feeling pretty like that. Blessed, excited, amazing. Love this. And today we have a very, very special mother, and she's going to share her special story with all of us. How many of you know her name? If you know her name, put it in the chat box.

Yes?

And all of you in this room, every single one of you, I want you to be spotlighted. Not just her, but every single one. How many of you agree that, you know, all of us have a story to share which can inspire somebody out there? If you agree, put "A" for agree.

A.

So do not hold yourself back. Don't think that, okay, my story is not important enough or it's not big enough. You know, sometimes it's like the small shifts that you experience is what can be very, very inspiring for a mother out there. So I'm going to spotlight Gloria, and Gloria is going to do her magic. So Gloria, one second, I'll just make you a co-host. Okay. And now you're doing Bible, so now you're very comfortable with Zoom also. So I made Gloria the co-host, and Gloria, you are going to share your story, and I'm very, very excited to hear what you're going to share. I don't know anything, I don't even know your topic today, so it is going to be a full, uh, surprise for me and for all the mothers, and we are waiting to get excited, uh, inspired. So over to you, Gloria. You can unmute yourself. I will remove myself from the spotlight and you can do your magic.

Thank you, ma'am. Are you able to hear me, everyone?

Yes.

Ma'am, thank you so much and believing in me. You know, I get emotional all the time when I come here. And this confidence, I got it from you, you know. Coming on Zoom again, getting into everything. I just want to pray for you. Can I, Ma'am?

Yes, thank you.

Can I request each and every mother to raise your hands towards her?

Sweet.

I just request each, each one of the mothers to raise your hands towards her. Yes. Father Lord, I come before you this morning. Thank you for giving me this opportunity. Thank you for guiding us each and every time, Lord, because you have given this person in my life, in each one of our life, Lord. She's not a mother, she's not a sister, she's not a daughter, but she is a soul whom you have selected for us, Lord. Today I release, I give that blessings from you, Lord Father. Give her life which never, which will never end, Lord Father. I give a kid, a family, her husband, and each and everything in their hand, Lord. Protect her, bless her, protect her under your blessings, your precious blood, under your wings, Lord. Wherever she put her hands, she'll succeed all the time, Lord Father. She is the best in this world, Lord, as a parenting coach. Her digital school is called the best digital school in this whole world, Lord Father.

Thank you, Jesus.

I bless her parents, her in-laws, and her EPH family always. Thank you, Lord, for protecting her and getting her till here, Lord Father. As I begin, Lord Father, give me that wisdom, knowledge, and Lord, let me share whatever my life was and how I was able to come out through it. Thank you, Lord Father, for each and every moment. Thank you, Lord. This I ask in the precious name of Lord Jesus Christ. We believe so and say, Amen. Thank you, Ma'am.

Thank you so much, Gloria. And whatever you give comes back to you a thousand times. So the blessings come back to you a thousand times. Thank you so much, every single one of you. I feel I'm truly, truly, truly blessed.

Such a beautiful message. Thank you, Ma'am.

Thank you. Thank you so much, Gloria. I'm going to remove myself from spotlight now. And now the stage is all yours.

Yes.

I'll begin, ma'am.

Yes.

Yes. Everybody know, hello once again. This is Gloria Lingar, mother of two daughters, 14 and 7 years old. And I would like to share my story with each one of you. Because we are sisters and whatever we go through, we always feel to share. So why share? Because we have already come out of that situation, many things. And when we find a mentor like Riddhi Ma'am, you always have to thank God. You always have to be faithful to God by giving this testimony. Whatever story I'm sharing, It's not a story, but it is a testimony of my life and how I overcame through many things. It's through God and through Ma'am. So I would love to share my slide. Shall I share, Ma'am?

Yes, Gloria, you can do whatever you want. You're the host.

Yes.

Yes, Ma'am. Yes, I'll just share. Excuse me a second. Yes, are you able to see each one of it?

Yes.

Yes. I'll just put it on slideshow.

Yes.

So my journey begins From childhood trauma to freedom. How is that now? A story of resilience, redemption, and reclaiming my soul. That means I was really surprised to even know that how blessed I am through this journey. Why I'm saying this? Because the life before the silent struggle, foundation of pain. What was this? And what is this? It's nothing but my childhood trauma was— I was a child, unwanted child, girl child, born in my family with a very educated, quite educated and Everyone, like my mom was a nurse, my father was working in Central Jail, Eroda, head officer, everyone. But then somehow I was born and then my father did not come to see me one week. And everything was going as I was growing and everything. As I was 6 years— sorry, 6 months old, I was so sick and I was at my granny's place, my mother's mother place. Just I was growing and then I was having too much fever. But like, as I came to know when I grow, when I grew up, that I was a child, like I didn't sleep for one whole day, but second day I slept for 10 hours. And when my mom came from office, from her duty. She saw me, I'm sleeping, so she asked my granny that how much time she's sleeping. She said almost 10 hours. I did not wake her up because she did not sleep for whole one day. But my mom said we need to check, and that time she, she took me, she ran to hospital, and then doctor said she's almost dying. Riddhi, whatever fever she was having, it has gone in her brain. So we don't have any hope. We need to keep her in a morgue for 2 days at least. Let's see. And then that— there my hope was finished. And again, third day, somehow God gave me life And I was— I got that breath in my nostril once again. And this is how I came to life because God wanted to do many works through me. And then in childhood I started growing. Somehow I was not able to be with my family. I have my brother, I have my sister, and the small child in my house. And then everybody used to sit together, but then I was not able to share my family time. Then somehow things started— I started growing. Somewhere people started abusing me, neglecting in school. Teachers calling me kachra, she's not of use. Apne ko pele ki uni mar diya, isme kuch dimag hai, ne, she don't have any head only. I don't know when she was born, whether God removed her head, her brain from her head. This was told by one of my sir in 10th standard. And then as every school, they want their result of 100%. My principal also called my parents and they said that, "We don't want your child in our school, at least for 10th now, because we have 100% every year." So they removed me and my parents without asking, they signed. And they signed in a way that all information was given on that form was wrong. My birth date and every information. And then I started going to a military school, night school. And where in one of the meetings they insulted my parents in front of 85 parents by saying, she is not of use. She cannot do anything in her life. She is a total waste. [FOREIGN LANGUAGE] She cannot be a waste also. So he used to abuse me. He used to pinch me. He used to remove blood from my hands, from my ears, pinching whenever I used to go and ask him for the math sums. But I was not able to share this in my house. I was completely lost and I used to say, "God, I don't know what I'm going to do, but I know there is a future, there is a life." upcoming, and You have plans for me. And wherever I used to go, I used to be neglected. I used to call— You're not good looking, you don't have nice nose, you don't have nice voice, you cannot speak properly. We don't want you in our community, we don't want in our family. So I used to live, I used to eat alone. I used to stay alone and that was the phase when I came across Lord Jesus Christ. He accepted me in Standard 5th itself and I used to be with Him, I used to talk with Him and I was given a room where I have to stay alone and do all household work and I did. There was a, there was a, I would really say there was a time when I used to steal in my house. I used to steal milk to drink. I used to steal fruit which were kept in fridge because I never have had that. And I used to feel very hungry and I used to feel how it tastes. Let me check. So these were the things which I went through. Everyone kept me insulted. Also, most of the people in— we were in joint family, 40 people, and few person also tried physically to be with me when I was child, but they were— they couldn't— they were not successful. And then last, I kept on finding my strength. In prayers. I kept giving all honor and glory to Almighty for selecting me and choosing me. And this childhood trauma kept— was in my mind, was continuously in my mind going continuously. I was thinking that how I'm going to come out of it? What is the life what God has given? And whenever I used to share few things with my parents, they were not able to come and sort it out. Not even— they used to not come for PTM meetings also, results also. But then somehow I was able to survive because God gave me these parents and I love my parents. Because every parents in your life are given so that you can grow, you can stand strong. And my parents also worked so hard to raise us in a convent school like Spicer, and I don't blame them, you know, but God's plan was here, I would rather say.

Secondly—

Tested by fire. Somehow I started doing, and then I started working. And then I was just working just because I just want to work and I just want to earn, nothing else. And I used to get very angry with the guys. And in my college itself, I was a tomboy. And I was in SNDT, if anybody knows SNDT College from Pune. And I was a tomboy, and the person who— the boys who used to trouble girls, I used to hit them, bang them with hockey. I used to pull them to the police stations. And most of the girls attempting suicide, I was able to stop them and bring them back to their families because of this boys. One way love. And this was through God itself. But I was still surviving and I was happy. And I had my childhood friend Rubina who always used to come first in class in college. She always helped me and she always kept on saying, "Tu karegi, tu kabhi na kabhi toh karegi." And I never trusted her. Then she got married and then I also got married with my husband, Simon Lingrai. He was my team leader. Somehow, where I used to work, that office just got shifted to Bangalore, and then I was not able to join in Bangalore, so I got shifted to this office, and there he was my manager. 4 times he took my interview. The person used to not speak with the girl, but then somehow I started speaking with him. I started sharing with him. I started telling my family things to him as a friend. And then somehow we got married. And then after getting married, we were not accepted from our family. As it is, I told my family, but they were not ready. And so even my husband's family, he didn't tell because he was afraid. And then, after marriage of 3 months, my sister-in-law comes home, and then everything is finished. She comes, and then somehow we were thrown outside. Just the reason was that my husband, my daddy, was admitted, and then the doctor said that here he needs to be operated as his heartbeats are very low. We need to fix the machine in it, but time is not I don't— like doctor said, it won't work at all. Call your loved ones and let them meet once. So I got a phone call. I run and then I come to know that if you go out of this house, you'll never come this— you'll never return to this house. Is your father dead? Is your father dead? This was told to me. Then I said, no, he's not dead. But my love, towards him is important and I will go. So I just left the house. Until we come back, our house, clothes and everything was thrown outside. That night, me and my husband, totally in depression, worried, cry and fever, we were finding the place And we stayed on bus stop. And then somehow, in office at the night, as my husband was manager over there, somehow we had the keys. So night itself, we used to take bath and we used to come before other people used to come. And then we used to work continuously. We used to not have food because we didn't have any money. That's right. At that moment, we used to wait. We have to wait for one month so that we may get our salary. Then somehow one of my friend, she just told me that, "I have a room, but that room doesn't have a roof. It's there, but it's continuously— when it starts raining, rain comes inside. So what are you going to do? Would you love to go there?" So I said, "Yes." And somehow I had one ring, my husband had one ring. We just gave that and we gave that deposit and we start staying over there. As we used to go for our offices, we used to go one time walking. If anyone knows Injivari, I was shifted there. Then I started working with Cognizant. And then while coming also, we used to come halfway walking and then bus. And then one time only we used to have that parle-g biscuit and water because we didn't have that money to take tea also. And then this was the struggle. Somehow we started working. Somehow my husband started taking extra laptop working, repairing and everything. I started working day-night shifts. And also I used to provide 400 chapatis to hotels at 1 hour. And I used to give them and I used to get this extra income as well. and then extreme struggle. But I had that great mindset to be passionate about a few things and to be loyal. And I said, "God, you have given this relationship for us, so we are going to be together forever. So whatever struggle it takes, you are there with us." And so this is— this was the— I always used to feel that this is the goal. This is the achieving goal for us, for me and my husband. And also I was doing my short films, but there also many of the people, they said in office also, in my— this world, this acting world, they also said that they want to compromise. So whereas I was not okay with that, because whatever I wanted to earn, I wanted to earn that hard money, and it should be trust, it should be through God. It shouldn't be like, we just want to earn money so we can earn anyhow. It wasn't like that. So I— how much? So many films I did, but they were not able to release because of this thing they kept between us. So my husband was with me, and I said, henceforth, I don't want to work with industry. Because each and every person, they complete the movie and they ask for compromise. So this was my journey also here. And next Before and after my mindset, money, health, time, decision, motherhood. Somehow I was able to— sorry, this— how I joined EPH. I was praying, and then at night, 3 AM— see, this is a time with connection with God, you know. So I was praying, and then somehow I'm not that person who will always be on phone because I forget my phone so many times. I was continuously going through Facebook, social media, and I don't know, I was praying, "God, I need breakthrough. Lord, I need something. Something is missing in my life. Everything is okay, everything is nice, but I need something in my life. I need someone who can love me, who can guide me." I need like this community. And then at 3 AM, I said, God, I just want to start again with my confidence. Low confidence, saying no. I was not able to say no to anyone. Idar karna hai, udar karna hai, sab jagah karna hai, all responsibilities. And I was lost everywhere. I found Riddhi Ma'am on Facebook. Continuously I was scrolling. First time I got the link, and then it was said, 'Are you a calm mother?' Second link came, 'Would you love to be confident? Would you love to join? Would you love to come back in your life?' So many things. 5 times this link came, and 5th time it was Would you love to have your confidence back? And that moment I just got in, I just clicked the link, and I was having money. I paid that money, and then I attained her masterclass. I came in gold membership. Within a 1 week we had a showcase. 0 balance, 0 money, did not ask my husband also. I, I just got in, and I, I borrowed money. And then after that my husband took a loan just for Platinum Elite, because first time he saw that how the restless I was, that I just want to join EPH. I just want to join EPH, and he just made it possible by taking that personal loan. And I really thank God, you know, that moment I took that mobile. I was searching for something, and at 3 AM, God answered my prayer, and that was my Riddhi Ma, my mentor. Who can resonate with this? Many of us, right? And as I started with Platinum, breakthrough started. Life before and after. Mindset changed, money, health, time, decision, motherhood. I was so happy that learning again can also be fun, and learning only in EPH is different. You know, my school, I once— I was thrown in 10th standard, and then somehow I got challenged, and then I said, if I'll pass, you need to remove this sir from this school. And I passed by God's grace and that sir was removed from that school. And this was my goal for my life that my parents have been insulted in front of these people, in front of these parents. But I can do through God. And God gave me that wisdom, that knowledge and that's why I was passed. And my principal's son was failed in 10th and somehow the result was 99% itself. And then I joined EPH after my marriage and everything, you know. And then that was my hope that I cannot learn anymore. I cannot— I didn't even touch my books, you know. After college, I used to just rectify, I used to read, and just— I used to just give the exams. But I was just passing, you know. And then when I got into EPH, I said, oh my goodness, here also learning is there. But the ma'am said, learning is fun in EPH. It is not a burden. It is not a burden to carry every day. It is a fun learning of 15 to 20 minutes, and nobody is going to judge you. Nobody is going to bother you. And here you don't have to continuously learn. You don't have to run taffy, you know, as school we do. People come first, kids come first. But they should understand what they are reading or learning. Here I got my peace. And here you can see life before, I used to earn, but I didn't have that joy, happiness, and that mindset of growing. Just I was earning, but that earning money monthly was not fulfilling each and everything. The time— I was wasting time doing so much of efforts. Decisions— I was dependent on others. And motherhood— all the time irritated because I myself did my 4 deliveries. I took care of my 4 daughters. I was not able to have a single cup of milk till 4 o'clock. Because so many things were there. Because everything was done by me itself— household work, laundry, floor cleaning, utensils, working, everything. And then I became housewife, you know. After becoming housewife, I got my mentor Riddhi Deorah, and this is how I came into EPH family. And then I didn't bother that now I'm a household person, I'm a house homemaker. But I started learning whatever she was learning, no? I started learning. I started giving time to the courses. And then my weight was 85 kg. Can you see me? Can you see my photo? I was ladhu. And then now my weight is 62. Still I'm on my mission to to come till 40. And this is because of Ma'am. You can see how I was and how now I am. And this is what I got through Ma'am. I really thank Ma'am, you know, coming here, joining, and God gives you this thing. And how Platinum is helping me every day. Learning by fun, doesn't matter. It shouldn't be fixed in your mind that this word should be like that only. You should understand what ma'am has given in a course. You shouldn't take— you take the notes but with your understanding. There's no force that you have to complete this in this period only.

Support.

That support we get from our team, our family. You'll never get anywhere, never ever. How much you pay, ₹1 crore also, I can guarantee you nobody else will will be there for 24/7. If one mother is not available, other will be there to help you, to answer your question. And this is the beauty of our EPH family and which I love. And this is the support I got from our team, our family. And as I'm serving, uh, After that, I took my studies for— I started, as I took this Platinum Elite, I was studying Bible also for Pastor degree, which I completed. And now my Marathi degree is also going on. So this is how helped me to work over there, to be consistent over there, due to Ma'am, due to her courses. Otherwise, all the time we used to get distracted. I used to get distracted. How is this going to happen? Will I be able to do? Always I had that doubt, you know. But support— whenever I used to speak with her on call, "You can do it." And most probably when I met her on Bangalore event, I was so worried to even go next to her because she's so beautiful and she's so What you can say? I was very worried to even touch her. So slowly I kept my hand on her hip and I removed the photo. And I even asked her, "Can I hug you? Can I hold your hand?" And I said, "Ma'am, I want to make you proud." And she said, "You will." I want to make you proud. I want to make God proud, my parents proud. She said, "You will." That was the trust. She didn't knew me also, but still she had that faith on me. And as I'm working as a pastor outside, somehow God worked and gave me that opportunity in EPH family also as a Divine Crew. I give all honor and glory to God and Riddhi Ma. And Kariyar, Once I was thrown out because I didn't have brain, I don't know how to learn, I cannot do good in studies, I cannot succeed, I don't have future. This was said about me. Now, because of this EPH family, because of Riddhi Ma'am, because of the courses and so much of learning, I am selected as a teacher in Pune, St. Anne's School. You can just see St. Anne's School. It is 6th in Pune and this is my offer letter and I'm joining from 10th June itself. If you have that desire, no, if you have that stubbornness in you, nobody in this world can stop you. Now resistance and how I came over it. I used to always feel— that fear. Even though I worked in IT company, I worked in Cognizant at an international level, everything, but after 8-15 years, my confidence was zero. I was not able to talk even. I used to feel that heaviness on me. But you need to come out of your comfort zone. Let people blame you, let people laugh on you. Your mistakes, you'll come to know, then only you're going to grow. So here I came out of my comfort zone. Since when? Since my childhood. But I wasn't knowing this is my life, this is my challenges, and God wanted to keep me in EPS. That is why these challenges I was facing. I was having fear. Others can do, I'll not be able to do. I'm not that much clever, I'm not that much beautiful. I used to feel that. But then one thing I used to know, I used to feel my mom saying, "You can do it, you can do it." And One attitude, mostly more than men, I can say, women have— I know everything attitude. We, we have to come out of this. Yeah, we— even I had once, no? I know everything, I know everything, because my mind was totally out. So much of going through so many things. I know everything, I know everything, I know everything. I don't want to listen only. I was so much pissed off, but coming in EPH, you become calm, you become close to each one of us, and this is the way you come out of your resistance. But you have to have your goals, you have to come out of your comfort zone. After my marriage, many things were there. But before my marriage, I used to get up the same time. It stopped, and again I started the same thing. It is difficult. First day, second day, third day. Now I get only 3-hour sleeps, but still I'm happy. You can— I think many mothers who have, who join in the morning for Bible prayer, they can understand how much we are blessed Only because of EPH we are able to read and come closer to God every day. This is the offering of fellowship what we do every morning and thanks to Riddhi Ma'am. But mothers, I want you to— I just want to tell each one of you that you need to come out of this attitude, "I know everything, I can do everything." Everything. 'Can be done by me.' No, we cannot do anything. We need God, God's hand upon us, and we need a mentor in our life. Then only we can grow. And that is why I'm so strong, and I'm so, you see, stubborn now, that I am able to say 'no' properly, with a very nice manner, without getting exhausted. The right attitude you get to know in EPH. Now I'm also taking one-on-one session. I have two mothers who have started for parenting, and then this is my income source where I thought from a homemaker struggling for parley ji to a financial leader. This is a blessing for me, you know. I always wanted to— how that— that's really true. Ma'am says nothing to worry about your background and everything. You need to have that right attitude to grow for your goals. And this is what I like. I never bothered about my background and everything. But yes, I always wanted to be a motivational speaker, a coach. And here my dreams are coming true. This is my growth, and once again, I really thank God and my mentor. Top lessons from this journey: Trust in your intuition, because in this world you'll get lost. Believe in divine calling. But many of us, what we do, we, we are able to listen to the world but not to the divine calling. And then we are lost somewhere, and then that goal which is near to us to be selected will not be able to select. Always take tiny step, baby step, then only you'll have that big step in your life. Because if you, if you try to take big step in your life, you'll fall. You need to have that ladder and you need to have right guidance. I came to know my small steps due to my Riddhi Ma, and that is how I kept learning. Even with me, many mothers were there. They are on higher level now. They have so much followers, they have many followers, they are doing so many things, but I was nowhere. But I never compared with them. I said, 'Thank you, God.' I kept on praying for my my partners in EPH who were with me, who were in my team when we joined. But I never felt that, "Oh, they're growing, I'm not growing." When you have this in your life, you'll never grow. That small steps should always be very— you should have that intention. And the small steps you'll start, but you have to start for others first, then only you'll get it. And in eternal learning, unstoppable. This is what God— and God gave Riddhi Ma'am in my life, and Ma'am is always teaching that. Until and unless you don't have right knowledge, you will not be able to survive in this world. You need to carry your key. Next, 3 power pills for mothers. Be raw and real. Let's not be artificial. Like how we put makeup, once we wash, we become real. So even though if you put makeup, we should be real, and even though if you don't put makeup, we should be real. And that is a connection from heart to heart. Never think bad about each other, but see how others will grow. This is the thing which I started learning. Focus, make a decision, and that decision should be firm. If you make one decision, do not change that, whatever it takes, whatever and how many years it takes. You start doing it. Believe in your intuition, take tiny steps, and be unstoppable in learning. And what is a blueprint? We go, we purchase our house, mansions, and everything, we get blueprint, right? EPH is our blueprint. And the gift of independence. This will be my first gift to my father because still today, we were small, that autorickshaw he took, and that still he's repairing and using it. My dream is to get an electric rickshaw to my father, from a burden to financial backbone of the family. I'm now a teacher at St. Anne's. One of the top 6 schools in Pune. The journey of freedom continues. Who has this desire in their heart? I never thought, you know, but this is possible only because of EPH. And that is why I love so much. People tell me, why are you so much involved in EPH? You know, whatever happens, my sisters, my mothers, my mentor, I say yes. This is my life because everything is there— prayers, staying together. Ma'am says right thing, we get up together, we sleep together, and that is a blessing. And this is what my dream is, and I know once I'll start, God is going to bless me. And this thing is possible just because of the direction of my mentor. And here, the staining of a fall heals faster than the ache of wondering what if. A tribute to my mentor Riddhi Ma. Means it's better to try and fail than to never try and keep wondering forever. So this is what she taught. Keep on trying. That doesn't matter how many times you fall. You'll get up? No. We have to get up. We have to stand. But for falling, at least you need to try, no? And then only you'll come to know that this is called fall. Once you understand, you'll start growing. Thank you, ma'am, once again. Here, 3 things I love about my mentor. Overcomes my self-doubt. Even when, when I hesitated, she hold me to a higher level because she continuously see potential in me that I'm not yet ready to recognize in myself. When I was not able to understand that I can do, she gave me that strength, that guidance, and she hold me tight. And she's the one who said— Yes. 'You can do it. You will do it.' A secure environment for harsh realities. She gave me the kind of candid, helpful criticism that is hard to come by. It is always given with complete kindness and a sincere wish for my success. She always have that smile, that desire to wish luck for the success. She's so big, and in this whole, uh, as a parenting coach, as a mentor, but she don't have that attitude. She don't have that ego. She always bless, you will do it, you will go to your success, you'll reach towards your success. Such a beautiful soul, such a beautiful heart she has got. Self guards not only my output but also my focus. In order to say yes to the job that truly counts, she has taught me the priceless talent of saying no to the noise. I love you, ma'am.

Yes, love you too, Gloria.

Because this was my hard thing in my life. I was not able to say no. I used to get so much exhausted doing everything, but I was not able to say no. But you, ma'am, you taught me each and everything. I know I took birth from my mother's womb, But I'm very, very big than you, but I don't know. That doesn't matter. The struggle you took to learn and coming up for many mothers, there you are higher, and that is why I feel to call you ma'am. You deserve many things in your life, much more, and I feel my life should be always there for God and you. To serve till my last breath, and I'll do that. Because today I am because only of God and you, Ma. And this is how now people— I'm able to say no. And so respectfully they message me, 'Can I talk to you?' The people who were seeing me in a different way previously, now everybody's giving me time, and we are very close now. My parents and everybody's thinking has been changed. Still few people are there, they will change. But I am so involved with my EPH family that I don't have much time to look over here and there. Thank you, ma'am, once again. And last but not the least, unlock your key. Unlock your key. If you were not locked into your situations, you would never have the key to unlock yourself. I repeat, if you were not locked into your situations, you would never have the key to unlock yourself. So I want each one of you to give thanks to the people who were problem in your life, who were— who made your life very challenging. You might say like hell. Give glory to them, give thanks to them. Because they are the one who pushed you to be here. And that is why I love my parents, I love my relatives, and I've forgiven everyone. Because God says, "Forgive and forget." And that is what He did on cross. So I have nobody to hold that, and that is why I'm here. And Ma'am has taught to take that key everywhere you go. And thank you, Ma'am, because of you that unseen key is with me. Because wherever that situation comes, I do like, and I just remove it. People say, 'What is she doing?' They don't know because they are not in EPH. So that is why my desire, I printed that cards. We have showcase, we have showcase, please join, please join. They might feel that this lady is crazy. Yes, I am. Because many things they don't know what is going on EPH, what is in EPH. Once they'll come, they'll say, thank you. And this is what we have to do, mothers. Keep blessing, mothers. Go to your enemy, I would rather say, and give them, please join this. Please come. We love you. Let them backbite, let them talk anything, but this is the keyword Ma'am gave. Because when you'll do good, good will always follow you. And thank you to God, and thank— big, big, big, big thanks to my mentor. I love you, ma'am. I love you, Riddhi ma'am. I love you, Riddhi ma'am.

Yes, love you more, Gloria. You make me cry like always, but I'm so, so, so proud of you.

And my husband, my backbone. Whatever he is, okay, don't worry. You want to learn, I'll do it. Now also my camera was not working. I said, we'll repair. He got me camera yesterday, ₹2,300. And I said, thank you, Simon. It really means a lot. He's saying, you're doing so much and Riddhi Ma'am is doing so much for you, then at least I can do this much for you.

Wow.

Thank you, ma'am. Thank you so much. I'll just stop sharing. Ma'am, can I request one thing?

Yes.

I have one song to play because this will touch everyone and they'll come to know they have to come out of this all resistance. And how many are blessed With Riddhi ma'am, not with me. I'm a student and I'll always be a student. I want to be a good student. Who want to be a good student here? My goodness, nobody's typing here. What happened?

They're all typing.

They're all typing?

Okay.

I thought they're— I'm not able to see. Oh, thank you. Let's say, "I love you, Riddhi ma'am," everyone. 1, 2, 3, start. I love you, Riddhi Ma'am. Love you, Riddhi Deorah. Oh my goodness.

Love you.

Ma'am, I'll just share one song.

Yes, please, please.

And I want everyone to dance wherever you are, because this is our freedom. And this is how I came out. And I don't think about my past, you know, now. The people who come in front of me who abused me, who physically tried to attack me, I blessed them. And now they are changed so much because what Riddhi Ma'am teach us, no, as a parenting coach for a relationship, they didn't have that relationship with their spouse. That is why those people were trying to do this all things. But we have to let go. We don't have to judge. So I'll just play this song. Thank you, Ma'am. Thank you so much for allowing me. Thank you.

Yes, of course, please.

Are you all able to hear?

Can you share the song? Should I play for you?

Oh yeah, yeah, I didn't share. I'm so sorry, ma'am.

And you have to share the audio also.

Yes. Just give me a minute, ma'am. My mouse is not working, no, so I'm just doing from the touchpad.

Yes, now we see the screen.

Yes. This is my— Favorite song from my childhood itself.

Okay, waiting to hear.

You're an overcomer! Stay in the fight till the final round. You're not going nowhere. 'Cause God is holding you right now. You might be down for a moment, feeling like it's hopeless. That's when he reminds you that you're an overcomer. You're an overcomer. Everybody's been down, hit the bottom, hit the ground. Ooh, you're not alone. Just take a breath, don't forget, hang on to his promises. He wants you to know you're not overcome. Stay in the fight till —until the final round. You're not going under, 'cause God is holding you right now. You might be down for a moment, feeling like it's hopeless. That's when he reminds you that you're an overcomer. You're an overcomer. Yeah! The same and the greater, yeah, the one who overcame death, he's living inside of you. So just hold tight, fix your eyes on the one who holds your life. There's nothing he can't do. He's telling you.

[FOREIGN LANGUAGE] Don't quit, don't give it. You're an overcomer. Don't quit, don't give it.

Yes. Wow, beautiful. Love this song. Thank you for sharing.

Yes. Yes, ma'am.

Amazing, amazing. How many of you are feeling Super, super, super inspired. Gloria, you're truly a God child because after all you went through, I love how you kept saying, "I just believed in Jesus." And this is what I feel is true surrender, that no matter what happened, you did not blame God. You know, "Why are you doing this to me? Why me? Why am I getting this treatment? Why am I having no food, no money?" But you just kept saying that, "God is there, God is holding me." And that's exactly the song also, that, you know, do not give up, God is there, and He has the power to turn everything around. So thank you so much, Gloria. It is an honor to have a student like you. And I don't know, I'm just out of words. I'm just speechless. Hallelujah! How many of you understand that, you know, all you need is faith in yourself, faith in God, patience, and keep doing small, small things, tiny steps? How many of you can feel that? If you can feel it, put 'feel' in the chat box.

Yes.

You know, somebody told her, "You're kachra, nobody needs you." And now see, 336+ mothers stayed till the end. Nobody left Gloria. I'm watching. Yes, and some of them are very, very educated— doctors and lawyers and Supreme Court judges, IT officers. Because all of this is only a label, you know, parent, coach, IT, this, that. How many of you understand that we are only spirit souls and we are the same, same? All this Muslim, Christian, Hindu, Jain, all of this is just like labels we put on ourselves which limits us. But if we can understand the fullness of what God has created, we are— we have unlimited potential, unlimited love. Unlimited everything. Yes. So now we'll take 2-3 questions and then we'll wrap. So if you have a question, you can raise your digital hand and I'll spotlight Gloria. And while we are doing Q&A, please fill out the Platinum Interest Form because that's where the real, real, real shift happens. And I want all of you to prioritize this and make it happen. You know, Gloria shared she had no money, but she did it. And you know, some of us, we have all the money, we have everything, but we are only stuck in our head. Think of this as one extra year of investment in your family, in your child's education, in yourself. And I can tell you one thing, that if you want to become a coach, you'll become a beautiful coach. And even if you do not wish to become a coach, How many of you feel that we all need this? If you feel it, put 'feel' in the chat box, that all of us need this without a doubt. And I want to tell you one thing, it's even if you have all the money, you will not get it unless you are chosen for this. And now I say this with a lot of confidence because I've been doing this work for so many years. Mothers with no money are in Platinum, and mothers with a lot of money are not able to come to Platinum. It is only because, you know, we are not able to think right. We are not able to prioritize what is important. So make sure you do that. Please fill out the form. And now let's get mothers to ask. Yes, Anshuta. Gloria, you have to answer, okay? Yes, Anshuta, you can unmute. You have to unmute, Anshuta.

Yes, ma'am.

Good afternoon, everybody. Hare Krishna, Ma'am.

Hare Krishna.

Gloria, your story was so heart-touching, was something that which will shake every individual from inside. What you went through and the way you handled it, and your surrender towards God and your belief in Him is something that is making us motivated that with having so much good and so much of support, if we are not able to do, then it's something lagging behind in us and not the Universe. Universe is trying to help us in all certain ways it can. And during this moment, after coming through the Goa event, I was fully, you know, on a very high speed in achieving my goals, working towards it. Suddenly some challenges come in the family, or my grandmother-in-law passed away just 15 days back, and everything, you know, went in reverse gear. I was sharing it with my friends in EPH that with the josh which I came back, I want to achieve, I want to do, suddenly it again disappeared somewhere. And it's just been 3 days, I resumed back the courses, I started learning the courses, NLP and everything. And today All of a sudden I was just scrolling my phone, and I opened the Elite group, and I saw there's a spotlight call, and I was like, I'll attend this. And you know, again, this is a God-sent message that just go in this call, you will get your energy back, you will get everything. So kudos to your surrender, kudos to your hard work, and kudos, kudos to everything like you faced with so much of strength and courage. It is really motivating for all the mothers there, including me. Also, I could resonate with the colleges and the schools you named because my Nani's house belongs to Kharki and Bhopuri. I know all the places, and I'm traveling to the same place today. So see, all these things are connecting the dots. Like, God has just sent you to give the good message that get up and rise and just don't sit with your excuses behind— I can't do this, I can't do that because of these and these things. So thank you. Like, you have come again like an angel. Riddhi Ma'am is always there, but you know, these are again chota chota chota chota angels. We are joining Riddhi Ma'am with including in her wings. So no questions. Your story is truly motivating, truly inspiring. And after hearing this, it's like we have everything in our life. We just need to work towards our goals and God is blessing us with the best.

Thank you so much.

Amazing. Beautiful. Let's put A for amazing for Anshuta. And yes, and that's exactly why I'm doing the Supermom Spotlight, you know, because I'm the same, the system is the same. And the reason I'm spotlighting my students is because it doesn't matter what I say. What matters is when you see mothers like you do it, you will get that energy, you'll get that hope, you'll get that understanding that I can do it too. How many of you felt that after listening to Gloria's story? Story. You know, because sometimes we feel that, okay, it's easy for Riddhi to do, it's not easy for me. Riddhi ke liye possible hai, mera liye nahi hai. I want to tell you, just like Gloria started, I started. Just like you are starting, I started like that. The only difference is I have been on this journey for 9 years and you are just starting off. So 9 years from now, you are going to be in a similar position, or, you know, like my mom says, better than me, or maybe sooner. You don't even have to wait so long because you have an easier path. Because I was experimenting, I had to go to 100,000 places, 100,000 mentors, and then create this path. You don't have to create the path, you just have to walk the path. So now my students are getting results in like 6 months, 1 year, 1.5 years. And I personally feel that, you know, it's not a race, it's not a competition who did it first. You have to respect your pace, your ease, and you just have to move forward like one tiny step every day. That's all it requires. Just imagine, even if you're doing 3 small things towards your goal every day, not too many things, 3 small things, that's 150 things in a month. 1800 things in a year, and if you keep putting in that effort, how will God not help you? And why will God not help you? And you know, I think that is also my story. I didn't have any skills, no skills. I had no video making skills, technology, nothing. I kept showing up, and then I think God felt, ki ye toh rukhne wali nahi hai, ye toh karte rahi hai ki kuch bhi. I used to do random things, used to get up in the morning and, you know, just send random messages to random people. So when you show up every day, whether you, whether you are confident or not confident, you just show up and do something. Aap mujhe baad batao, aap ko apne ghar se— you want to go to your friend's house. You might not know how far it is, you don't know how much time will it take, but instead of worrying about how far it is, how much time will it take, when will you reach, if you just start taking few steps in the right direction, Are you guaranteed to reach your house? If you are, put yes in the chat box. And that is exactly how our life is. In the beginning, you can never know who you will become, what you will do, how long will it take. You can never know the answers to these qu— I never knew that I'm going to become a parenting coach when I started. I only started for my child. Riddhi Deorah. And for myself. I was like, I want to do better for my child. People learn so many things, I want to learn parenting. And that also, I think, the thought God put in me, because nobody I knew of was learning parenting. And my whole family was in a shock when I broke this news to them, but I still did it. And I would tell people, On gym subscription, you know, people are spending 1 lakh and they barely go to the gym. In my family only, I know so many people who give, you know, they do cult subscription and this subscription, that subscription, and they'll not even go. How many of you know such people? So I just want to tell you one thing that none of us in this room, we can ever lose. And that's the beautiful thing about this journey. Even if you fail, in your failure also, you will become a better version of yourself. How many of you think that's beautiful? Put B for beautiful. And you know, the end goal is not just to become rich and famous and all of that. The end goal is to get closer to God. And I know one thing, that this journey, the way this will bring you closer to God, nothing else can. I have done 2-3 things in the past also, but the beautiful thing about this work that we do, it is going to make you a better human being. And how many of you think that's the ultimate goal? Like, you know, becoming a better human being, getting closer to God. Bringing that energy into your family. Because all those other goals that we have, you know, materialistic goals— I want to make a house, I want to have money— of course, I'm not saying that don't have those goals. You should have those goals. But those goals will not stay with us. Maybe 30, 40 years more till we have this body. After that, it doesn't matter whether Shreya has ₹10,000, I have ₹1 crore, Shaguftha has ₹3 crore. When we die, we all of us take nothing with us. So how does it matter? What matters is who we become on that last day and the thoughts we think on that last day, how you feel about yourself on that last day. Now imagine Gloria's journey, and you know, I was just thinking about this when she was sharing. Because she came in and she trusted the process and she surrendered to the sister, She's not going to leave this world thinking, "I am kachra." She's not going to leave this world thinking, "I'm good for nothing." But she's going to leave this world thinking, "I'm an angel." Because, you know, that's what Anshuta just told her, that you're an angel, and I helped so many people in my lifetime. How many of you would love to design a life like that? Put me with a lot of E, because if you are not desperate for this, it's not coming to you. So start getting desperate for the right things. Don't get desperate for only career, money, fame. All of that is a byproduct. If you are not a— if you are not feeling good about yourself, all of that is never going to come. It's a byproduct. And some of us, in the attempt to get all of that, we turn ourselves into some version we don't want to live like. So many people in the business, you know, come from a business family, and I see this all the time in business families— evading taxes, doing some gaffla here and there, having so much money in the bank account but no peaceful sleep. always stressed, going to astrologers, doing puja part. What's the point of that? Going to doing puja not for God, going doing puja ki God mera debt khatamo jaay. What's the point? So all of you should prioritize yourself, prioritize your growth, And I'm praying for every single one of you that, you know, we can stay connected for life and we can do this work together. Because trust me, you know, this is a beautiful world, a beautiful life, and this is how we were meant to live in the first place, not with stress, anxiety, low feeling, and all of that. Amazing. So now let's get Dr. Rupal. I'm spotlighting a doctor for you, Gloria. Seriously. Thank you. Just to make you feel good. Yes, Dr. Rupal.

Hello.

Yes.

Since long I was waiting that I have to share, and I have a question also, ma'am. So, like, I'm learning so many things here, but my problem is that I'm not able to come out of my situation. Like, if my husband, he's Narcissist, but like, I do feel he is, but, uh, I'm not able to move forward in my life. Like, I just want to do— start my clinic and all. I'm in a job currently, but I'm not satisfied with that. And since long I am trying to get out of this feeling, but don't know why I'm feeling stuck because of this blame, criticism. And all that. Although I like do many things, spiritual practices, and trying to implement the learning here, but still I'm not able to make out of it. How should I proceed? And my children also, like in the same way, they are also becoming the same pattern narcissist and all that. They are also dominating and superiority complex, all things are going in them. So I don't know how to handle the situation, like how I parent them, how I correct my relationship. Sometimes I find that it's very tough and challenging. Sometimes I want to correct him, fix my relationship, then it's not happening for my growth. But sometimes it's very confusing, overwhelming, that where should I start from?

Riddhi Deorah, you want to answer?

Yeah. Yes, ma'am, I'll try to.

Yes.

Rupal, I just want to ask you one thing. Are you happy today?

Today I'm not feeling happy because I'm always in this John Keating I have to do something. I have to, uh, get my, uh, self-respect back because I was, uh, I'm always dominated by my husband. So I just want my freedom back.

Hey, your happiness is not from your husband. Your happiness is within you. It is not—

that is what Riddhi Deorah make out of it. I know the theory thing, I'm not able to make the practical out of it.

You need to forgive your husband, no? You don't have to keep in your heart. Then how are we going to be very close with each other? That is what Ma'am teaches us. I'm sorry, I don't know whether I'm giving you right answer, but I can just tell you, forget about this world. God has made you so beautifully, and ask God, what is your will today? That I have to do. Your career, money, and everything will follow you for sure. You follow God. Just go sit at your place where you feel that comfort and say, God, I surrender to you. I don't know what to do. I give my children, I give my husband, I give my relationship in your hand. I just want to work for you, and I know you have made— I'm sorry. You have made me beautiful and everything is through you. And these challenges, I'll tell you, I know I can resonate with you, but these challenges are to get to our best goals. Just feel free whenever you— we have so many mothers in IAPH family. Whenever you feel like talking, you go speak. But one thing, just don't think about you have to do this, that, that. Everything is there. But a life is very short. Before our life finish, ask God what is there which is remaining for us to do. You'll feel so peaceful. I don't know, I can give you just this answer. But feel— try to feel about, uh, good about yourself. Don't think about son. I, I don't say that don't think, but I want you to come out of your, uh, heavy burden you have taken so much right now. Okay. You need to remove that burden. See, when we have burden, we'll start walking like this, like this. But when we are free, we'll start walking very nicely. Free. Because you know God is there with you, no? Then why to worry? And main, we have our mentor with us. Anytime. Anytime you can go, anytime you can ask, and that's good. Your tears are coming out. These are the healing, and everybody loves you. But the thing is, maybe some things are there your husband might not be able to share, and maybe many things happen from us also. We are the ladies first. We need to accept what we did wrong, what we said. Many things are there. Just accept, forgive, and forget. Find peace today. I think you're feeling better now.

Ma'am, over to you.

Yes. So, Dr. Rupal, I want to tell you one thing, that tell me how you wish to feel in life. What do you want to feel?

I want to feel happy.

You want to feel happy. Great. Now just imagine that if your husband was not there, what are 3 things you would do to feel happy?

I think like I—

Can you increase your volume a little? Just come closer to the screen and increase your volume. I can barely hear you.

Yeah, now it's okay?

Yeah, better. Yeah.

Yeah, I just want to do the things which I enjoy, like seeing my patients and learning things and spiritual practices.

See your patients, learning new things, and what's the third one?

Spiritual practices, connecting with Divine.

Spiritual practices. Now tell me, can you do these 3 things Even if your husband is there? And are you already doing it?

Difficult in front of him.

So no, don't have to do it in front of him, but are you doing it? Like, are you seeing patients, yes or no?

Yes, I started from my home itself. I just want to take it off Your volume is very low.

I can't hear or understand anything you're saying.

Is it okay, ma'am?

Yeah. Can you also show your face properly on the camera? Can you hold it properly? Yeah.

Yeah.

Yes.

So I just started from my home, so I just want to start from outside so that I can make full out of it.

No, but you've already started from home, right? And are you getting to see a few patients from home?

Yes.

Yes. Are you learning?

Yes.

Are you doing your spiritual practices?

Yes.

Yes. So I want to tell you one thing. Spirituality is not about sitting and praying to God. Spirituality is carrying the strength of God within you. That if God is there, I don't want anything. Are you understanding? So the main— all those big Bhagavs, their lives were very challenging, but they were always living in ecstasy, in bliss. Why? Because they had so much faith in their God. How many— I want all of you to do this exercise. It's a great exercise. What do you want to feel? Put it in the chat box. What do you want to feel? One word. Oh, the chat is closed. Oh no, it's open. Yeah, it's closed. One second. Yeah, now you can put in the chat. Yes. Now list 3 things you can do to feel what you want to feel. 3 things with the— which is not dependent on anybody else. So don't say that I will go for a dinner date with my husband to feel good. 3 things you can do independent of anybody else in your life. And then just do it. You know, I'll tell you my top 3. I want to feel that I'm the best servant to God, and there are only 3 things I do: pray, learn, and teach. These are my top 3 things that I do because I feel that whatever I have, God gave me, and it is my responsibility to serve him. So I say that I serve moms, but actually I'm serving him, and because I'm serving him, I'm serving you. So I want to tell you, no matter how difficult your husband is, no matter how difficult your child is, no matter how difficult your life situation is, you can still create the feeling you wish to create, because we all have the power to do it. And that is your true freedom, that is your true power. But as long as you keep saying that, "I will feel good if my husband talks to me a certain way, I will feel good if my husband does not disrespect me, I will feel good if my husband is only giving me attention, I will feel good if my husband supports my decisions," it's not going to happen. My husband is a very good husband, but he does not support all my decisions. My happiness is not dependent on him supporting and saying yes to everything that I say yes to. I'm still happy because my happiness is dependent on these 3 things: praying, learning, and sharing and teaching. And for these 3 things, I don't have to depend on anybody else. So create your life, and if you want to depend, then just depend on God, not anybody else. How many of you think this is simple? Put S for simple. Life is very simple. We just want to complicate it. So Dr. Rupal, count your blessings. You are an educated doctor, you have a house, you are also able to open a clinic from home. It's okay, maybe you're not getting a clinic outside, but at least you have something at home. So many people don't even have that. There are so many people who are educated, but they're not allowed to practice. At least you have the permission to practice. So your life is nothing to do with things, situation, and people in your life. It has everything to do with your own thoughts. Your relationship Relationships— your relationship with your thoughts will decide the quality of all other relationships that you have. I can give you a guarantee, Dr. Rupal, your narcissist husband will turn into an angel if you change your thoughts about him, if you start to see the good in him, because nobody is perfect. Everybody has a shadow side. For some people, the shadow side is more prominent, and you cannot see in others what is not in you. So if you are seeing the dark side in your husband, that dark side is also in you, because we cannot see anything which is not in us. We don't have that power. So none of us should feel that I am some Miss Perfect and I do everything right and I am being tortured by so-and-so person. Nobody is torturing you. You are choosing to be in that energy by creating those thoughts. You change your thoughts, your reality will change. Most difficult people will turn into your most strongest pillars of support. So you just have to, you know, be very confident because you're God's child, and just be like, nobody can harm me, God is protecting me. If you have that much faith in God, God will protect you. But first you have to show that much confidence. You know how children do? When they're small, we are throwing them and then we are catching them. Do they cry? No, they laugh because they are so confident that, 'My mom will catch me, my father will not drop me.' That's the kind of confidence you have to have in the Creator and in yourself. So whatever we want, we can have. Just know what you want. That is step number 1, knowing what you want. And then step number 2 is knowing what you're going to do, what, uh, to get what you want. And then do those things with a lot of faith in yourself, a lot of faith in the Creator. I'm giving everybody a personal guarantee. Every single one of you want to experiment. Even if you're making ₹10,000 right now, you set this goal. Because why am I giving you a number goal? Because it's easy to track. You give yourself this goal: I am going to make ₹1 crore a month. Every single one of you will make ₹1 crore a month. But you first have to have faith in yourself, faith in God. And you should know that you want that. Because if I can do it, all of you can do it. There's nothing different. But you have to show up with that faith. Ki ho gaya, ho gaya, ho gane, ho chuka. I'm already living it. And then there is no fear. Now, if you already have the 1 crore in your account, what is the fear? Then you're not doing anything for money because you already have the money. So please believe in yourself and take action. Dr. Rupal, so what are you going to do now?

Uh, But I'm not able to find the things.

Again you are complaining. Again you're complaining. I asked you what are you going to do now.

Okay, so what can I do is start from my home. Me, then slowly, slowly I can get out of it.

Only focus on what you can control. Don't focus on what you cannot control, because if you focus on what you cannot control, you will waste all your good energy. Like, let's say right now, if I want to go and live in Dubai, or if I want to go and live in Vrindavan, can I do that? No. Because my husband doesn't want to move. I would love to go to Vrindavan and sit. I have a house there, I can stay there, we don't have to pay rent, I can work from anywhere, it's very peaceful there. That's my dream, but my husband doesn't want to move, so we are here. But am I complaining? No. Am I focusing, thinking too much about it? No. Why? I'm counting what I have. And I know one day will come where I will go and settle there. Why? Because I have faith in myself, I have faith in my Creator, and I know it's going to happen. But I'm not in a rush. I will patiently wait till one day my husband himself will come and tell me, let's go and stay. The problem is we want everything instantly. We want people to do everything for us. We want them to understand us. We want them to cooperate with us. It's not going to happen all the time. So stop expecting from them and start doing whatever you can do with what you have. When you start doing whatever you can do with what you have, God sees your resilience. He will notice that she's not giving up, she goes on with whatever she has, and slowly, slowly he will remove all the challenges from your life. How many of you can feel this? If you can feel it, put feel. So you don't have to have all the support in the beginning. In fact, very few of us will have the support right from the beginning. But if you are waiting for that support to start, you will only keep starting. You will never start. If you are waiting for things to become perfect before you start, it's not going to happen. You start, you put in the effort, you put in— you show up, you keep doing the little bit what you're supposed to do, and then God will notice and God will remove. I have never had a help issue because I have never ever told God ki, main kaise karun ki aya, always se mere 2 hath hai, 2 power hai. Hoga toh, thik hai, nahi hoga toh, I can use my body to finish all the important things in my life. Same place, no, my friends are struggling to find a help. It's not like we are living in different cities and there's no money problem they have. So why do I always find it so easily? Why are they not able to find it? Because when you are living your Dharma— this is in the Bhagavad Gita— when you are living your Dharma, God will make— it is God's responsibility to make the arrangements for you. You don't have to worry. God will make the arrangements for you. You have to just do the work. But if you are not living your Dharma, you're doing some— you're always doubting yourself, always staying in fear, always staying stuck, you're not showing up, then why will God supply? Guaranteed, you start doing what you're supposed to do God will start providing everything. Like Gloria, she kept doing what she was supposed to do. God provided her with this environment. 9 years ago, I only created a thought, I want to help mothers. I didn't have any ecosystem to become a coach. But I was not saying that, mujhe nahi pata kya karna, I started sharing on Instagram. Because jo samaj mai, I started doing that, and I kept sharing, I kept answering, I kept helping whoever came to me. So I was doing what I was supposed to do, and then God started providing all the resources. Some mentor showed up, 'Some opportunity showed up, somebody called me, somebody paid me, this, that, everything got together, and then, you know, all of this happened.' But the problem is we will not do anything, and we will just keep thinking, 'Why is my life like this? Why is this person like that?' So put RC, or put TC. Take charge. Take charge of your life. TC. Stop blaming people in your life for where you are. Stop blaming your situation, your experiences, your past traumas, and all of that. Take charge. If you're not doing anything for yourself, nobody else is going to do anything for you. All of you are struggling to find help. Start doing all your work with a lot of love. Without saying Doh aapte gandaar help aapke ghar ke andar khada hoga. But you're doing, but you're always complaining. So if you're in that complain-wala frequency, help will not— you will not attract the help. You do as a service. I'm giving you guarantees. Why am I able to say these things so confidently? Because this is science, it has been proven. You be in a state of gratitude, okay? God has given me a functional body and I can keep my house clean and nice and I can give food to my family. Do it with a lot of love. 2-3 weeks you do, and then God will be like, okay, she can do it, she's passed the test. Now let me send somebody else who can do this for her and let me make her do something else. Great. So with that, we come to the end of this call. If you loved it, put love, love, love in the chat box. Yes, and we will have more such stories. My intention is to have at least 50-60 stories in a year. Try to do once a week at least to start with. I actually wanted to do one every day, then the super coaches were like, ma'am, don't do so many calls, mothers will go crazy. Do only once. Because we have so many stories that we want to spotlight. Then I was like, okay, let's start with once a week. So we're going to do this every Thursday morning, 11 o'clock. Do not miss this, you know, this is going to be very, very powerful. something inside of you will shift permanently. So awesome. Thank you so much. Thank you, Gloria. I love you for who you are, for what you do, and for all that power of Christ that is in you. And thank you for always sending me such lovely blessings and prayer. And I want to tell you one thing: whatever you give, universal law, it comes back to you a thousand times. So even without me saying it, it's all gone back to you, I think. Uh, a gazillion times multiplied. So thank you so much. Let's take a picture together. One second, we will post it. Amazing. And I want all of you to set this intention to be on the spotlight at some point. I have already identified a few names, and, you know, team will be reaching out to you, and you'll be spotlighted. But all of you, you know, keep an account of your breakthroughs, your stories, life before, life after, because, you know, when we spotlight you, we're going to ask you what's your story. So you should know what your story is, and if it's powerful enough, then you would get spotlighted. So there's a whole selection that that we do. Awesome. Thank you so much. Love you. Take care and stay awesome. Stay blessed. Some of you are still filling out the form, so I will just close the chat. Make sure you fill this out so that you're able to connect with your super coaches in case you have any questions or doubts. Awesome. Thank you and take care. Stay blessed.