Journey Towards Freedom | Supermom Spotlight Kinjal | Riddhi Deorah

Anjali, Ramini, Priya, Supramita, Poonam, Pinky, Prashanti. Amazing, amazing stuff. Everybody is ready for the Supermom Spotlight? Put R for ready in the chat box. Amazing. Excited to learn, excited to move to the next level. So today we have with us somebody very, very special. Her name is Kinjal. I'm sure most of you already know of her because they are very active as even Supercoach graduates. So Kinjal is going to talk about her story of freedom, and not just her story of freedom, but freedom that she experienced with her family and how her family stepped into freedom because she decided to choose freedom for herself. If you love the topic, put love in the chat box. I think the topic itself is very interesting. So let me spotlight Kinjal, and let me tell you a few things about Kinjal. I think super hardworking, very committed from day one, has always been there for the community, and also constantly been telling me that, you know, ma'am, we can do this, we can do this, we can improve this. And I think it has really helped improve the systems at the back end also, because, you know, when we get ideas, we are able to implement it. So over to you, Kinjal. I'm going to make you the co-host and you can do your magic. Let me unmute Kinjal. Yes, Kinjal, you have been unmuted, and now you can just Inspire everybody with your story.

Thank you so much, ma'am. And hello, my soul sisters. If you can see me and hear me clear, please put yes in the chat box. Thank you. Yes. And first and foremost, I want to thank you, ma'am, because this is an absolute honor because I am speaking here It's not a small thing because this is the largest school at the India level of parenting. So this is not a small thing for me. And second, thanks because— So thank you so much for, uh, all these things and the opportunity to serve this community. That is, I cannot— I don't have any word for this. So now, uh, without, uh, wasting more time, I will share my screen and I will start sharing my journey. Yes, yes. So today I will share with all of you my journey towards freedom. But before I start sharing my story, I want to answer two questions. How many of you want freedom for yourself, put me in the chat box if you want freedom for yourself in your life. Thank you. And how many of you want freedom for your family, put F in the chat box if you want freedom for your family. Thank you. So whatever I will share today is not just about myself, It includes everybody. It includes my daughter, it includes my husband, and it includes my in-laws, my father-in-law, my mother-in-law, and everybody around me. So first and foremost, I will share is that how my life was before marriage, then after marriage, and after joining EPH. So, uh, I will share about these 6 things: my mindset, money, health, time, decision-making, and motherhood. So first is my mindset. What was my mindset before I got married is like on another level, So there is nothing impossible in this world because I have never heard no for anything in my life till the time I got married. Only two limitations were there. First was I cannot go for night out with my friends, and second was I cannot go for movie with my friends. And that too was explained to me. That too, no, was with explanation, right? Whatever you want to do, just do it. So that was my mindset, that because That was the thing because my upbringing was like that. Second was money. Money in terms of my father's dialogue that, if you want to buy something, you can't afford it. You can't afford it. You can't afford it. You can't afford it. You can't afford it. That kind of spender I was. So, uh, That, and my father was like, he never asked me, and he was like, I want to do cooking class because I am very fond of cooking, and like 47 cuisines are there and I want to do 2 to 3. Gave me and he said, 'Pay it and do it every, every kujin.' And I said, 'Okay.' So he was like that. So that was about money and health. I, I never got fever also, nothing at all. Have not taken a single medicine in my life. Till the year— till the time I got married. And time, time, I was very conscious about my time, so I was not wasting my time. And decision making was on another level. I took science, yuki, meri friend nahi liya, pehle bio liya, then I took math, yuki, meri friend math me chali gayi. When I was giving the final board exam in 12th, Physics, and I realized very tough, and physics, I will not pass this exam. He was very chill. Then I, uh, thankfully I passed it out, my 12th science. And then I said, science, fashion designing. You should at least do 4 science in nutrition. I said, no, graduation, I will do fashion designing only. Papa said, okay, graduation. He said, but I will not allow you for job because so I am allowing you to take this education because in future you can be financially independent. I said, okay, graduation, internship. I said, I want to do job. She said, okay, go. And I went for job for 15 days, right? I'm not a kind of person, right? I realized it. I don't want to do this job because I cannot work. I want that freedom. Forcefully sent me for 15 days to complete 1 month. And salary because I don't want to do it. So this was my decision making, I will do it at all. So, and after getting married, now we will search a guy for you and you will get married. Tell me your priorities. I said, uh, but everyone in that family should be educated. Agar grandmother bhi hai, she should also be educated. Mui poe esa nahi shaikhe jo educated nahi hai. So he said, okay. And he final one guy for me, and that was an arranged marriage. And I was like, Papa ne pura property mujhe bada kyun ke paas sitna property hai, toh mui pura rehga. Mere bolaa, ha chalega, I will handle. Okay, so after that I got married, and within 5 days my mother-in-law told me that, uh, and I said, okay, Mama, just like you are adjusting, I will also adjust. But it was not a— not an easy thing for me, not an easy thing for me to listen no again and again. Because life before was always traveling in car, and I had my own scooter, and here nothing was there. And even for a scooter, I had to wait for 2 years. And then I cried in front of my husband, "Yagarap nahin lage doke, I will do it by myself, but I want a scooter so that I can travel, I can go out." So that was the thing. And bar bar jo upbringing meri hui thi, jahan pe maine kabhi na nahi sunata hai, it started hurting me a lot. But because we always have taught that, bado ke saam nahi bolte, kabhi mana nahi karte, and I started suppressing everything. But jaise bootcamp mein mamna share kya tha na, pressure cooker wala tha, mera pressure cooker For 6 months, and one day my mother told me, "Kinjal, you do at your home." I said, "Okay." And I started blasting on my husband. And he was like very well known as a smiley boy. Bohot hi smile karna, bohot hi chill and mazak wala so bhaav. So I started like bedroom toh chaise bange aata, rone ka, ek bolte hain aap us pez, jaha pe complain hai, blame hai. And one day he said, just one year of our marriage, "I am leaving because of my parents." And that broke me completely. And then I started suppressing everything, everything. And it turned into a disease, cancer. And I diagnosed with a cancer in between a vein of nose and ear. There was a small tumor. Or uski wajah se, mera breathe bhi nahi kar paati thi after 6 PM in the night. Sham jaise ho di thi, mera breathing bohot hi. Complicated. I was not able to hear anything. And, uh, Dr. Nebula, 35 years of practice, and she said to my husband, she said to my husband, this is a tumor of cancer only, but still we will do a biopsy. And my husband was in shock. Because there were, there was fight, there were lot of fight, but there was a lot of love also. And he, he was caring for me a lot, so it was not easy for him too. And he was very tensed. And biopsy, the report was normal, but the doctor said report normal, 99% this tumor is of cancer only. So teen bar that biopsy happened, teen bar biopsy ki, three times that report got normal, and then operation hua. Uske baad breathing me toh problem sol ho gaya, but hearing wala problem was there only. I was not able to hear anything, and, uh, life was like that only. And in After 6, 5 years of my marriage, I got pregnant, and again that new journey started. Again I stopped crying. I was very happy that now I'm pregnant. I want to take care of my mindset so that I will not pass any trauma to my child and everything. But once I become a mother, the frustration still was there. That I was suppressing. So, who made me do this? And she was just 6 days old. 6th day, or when I was feeding her, and my stitches were hurting, and I was getting angry. I felt, "What will I do?" when she will turn in 1 year, 2 years, I will definitely hit her. And I started reading books, and in that book I read that parents should become a counselor for a child. And I went to my father and I told him, because I was there only, that Papa is me, Papa said, counselor and I want you to become that counselor for your daughter. And I said, very tough, but I will try. I come back to my home, and now the journey started again of complaining and blaming and crying because Papa ke karte toh fir se ho comfort sontha. And Instagram. It is a blessing of my life. Kabhi bhi nahi khol di thi. That was the second phase. Let me share my screen, how I find EPH and how I joined the Easy Parenting.

Riddhi Deorah, I think you're doing advanced sharing or something. There are gray blocks on your screen. Do a normal sharing.

Okay. Yeah, uh, okay, no problem. I just—

it's getting covered, your slides.

Okay, yeah, now it will show. Yeah, so, uh, one day, uh, in the afternoon when my daughter was sleeping, I start— I open Instagram. I just opened Instagram and I saw the link for masterclass. Riddhi ma'am, maine socha, this thing can help me, and I enrolled for the masterclass. But see, what was my decision-making and how it became after getting married? Jo strong decision mein lete thi, main apne aapke liye khadeera hai thi, I took 6 months to decide to join the Easy Parenting Hub. I attended masterclass for 6 full months. I had no courage to ask my husband, okay, yes, I have not shared, I have not shared the screen, I am speaking only. So it took 6 months to ask my husband, 6,000 rupees, because I want to learn parenting. Phir bhi main nahi kar paye. And in between I joined another mentor and Riddhi Ma'am come there as a guest speaker. And there I thought ki nahi, aaj toh mujhe decision lena hi padega. And I went to my husband and I said ki aap bas yaha pe payment karna hi hai, 6 month. And yesterday only when I was thinking, tab maine realized kiya ki decision-making power mera kitna low ho gayata. I was a fashion designer and after getting married, ek kapde ki liye bhi I was asking my husband ki mere pe acha lagta hai ki nahi. And now I am on another level. Go I went ki liye teen kapde mein lekha hai, though my husband don't like, And I still said, "Kimi aapen ne wali hoon, aapko nahi acha lagte, you don't look at me." Again, I got that real me in myself that was before marriage. So that decision-making power I got definitely after being a Platinum Mother. So, and after I joined Easy Parenting Hub in September 2023, And 23rd September 2023, date also I remember because this was not a small decision for me. And 21st October, there was a Platinum Showcase. Now I was thinking, ki, are, ab toh ye paisa mangne mein bhi matlab problem tha, and now how I will ask for this money? And I was, ki, ye toh mera liya nahi hai, bhai. I cannot afford it. Jobi hoga, dekha jayega. I started attending that showcase on the 21st of October 2023. I was in that zone only, ki mujhe leena toh hai nahi, but let me see, kikya mil rahi. And chaise ma'am share kareti, sabhi lag rata ki acha ye bhi mera liye, ye bhi mera liye, ye bhi mera liye. Now that I want to I want to live a happy life. Definitely this is for me. And again, by luck, I was at my parents' home. So I was like very in this zone. If I want to join Platinum, I will have to sell my gold. What I will do? Then I'd make a decision, uh, I asked in the chat only, ma'am, if I want to become a Platinum mother I will have to sell my gold. Or, ma'am, uh, showcase, she said, you sell it and after that you will become financially independent and you will be able to purchase so many gold jewelry. And I was thinking, Seriously, I'm not making it up. This was my thinking. This is for me and I am going to take it. And I asked for some time. Please give me some time. I will need some time because I don't have money. And she allowed me 2 hours that you can pay in 2 hours first deposit. And I asked my brother that, can you help me with this? He said, I will give you back, but you please help me with this initial amount. After that, you please arrange some money Because it was not easy for him also. So initial deposit I did, and then I told him to pay the full amount. And on the screen he was like, you just do it. 'You just click on this button.' And he was like, 'You are crazy.' I said, 'Okay.' And with God's grace, because after being a Platinum Mother, that magic started. Now, uh, because this was not an easy decision for me, and now I will explain how Platinum helped me because I was a 1-month-old Gold mother. I was not able to figure it out. Time always issue I had that I don't have time, and I realized after joining Platinum that how much time I had. I was doing nothing, just house chores. And I was upbringing my daughter. I was not doing any job, no business, nothing. I was a homemaker and had a lot of time, but was in that negative mindset only— criticism, blaming, complaining. And after becoming a Super Coach, I realized And that was a big burden for me. So, uh, that was the thing. And Platinum Club meets, that has changed my life one step at a time. First club meet, I remember Still, because I had no help at my home, I was doing everything on my own. Jaru, pocha, bataan, everything. Because my mother-in-law was with my daughter because she was also small. And kiara baje club meet tha. Kiara baje, I entered in the club meet with pajama because karkay kaam pure nahi hui the. And Ma'am started with, you should look good at home also. Even if you don't want to step out, you don't step out, but look good at your home also and don't be in your pajamas. That day I decided, I will be ready at home also. Then In one marketing mastermind, she shared, "Every woman should be financially independent." And that was a big bulb for me because I was a fashion designer and I had a good business before marriage, and I stopped everything when I got married. So, ushtaam pe mamne date pe fix karey ki fix one date today and think of one thing that can help you earn some money, where you can add some value. And that day I decided to start my organic cosmetic products business that I was making for myself since 5 years. Kabhi bhi idea nahi aaya hai. Because this ideas were coming because I was in a right state, my emotions were settled. That day I started my business, Mahashivaratri Aarati, 21st of March or something. And that day I started my business. Again, in one club meet, she said, even if you don't want to become a parenting coach, start teaching. I implemented. So many of us often say that take 3 takeaways and implement. I just take 1 takeaway from all the calls. I just take one takeaway and I just implement it. I started my free WhatsApp group, and such, you can become a parenting coach, then they will only come to you. And that happened. After one year, I realized that I can become a parenting coach, and I was I was in that zone, ki vo kaise usko pata rahe tha, ki yeh sab hone wala hai. She can see everything in us that we cannot see. And this, with this, I started my parenting coaching and affiliate. When I joined Platinum membership, everyone around me, my sister, my co-sister, sister-in-law, my friends, all of them started noticing those change and they started joining Platinum because I was not earning anything. They started joining Platinum and I started earning affiliate income. And guys, I gave it back to my brother first because my husband was not knowing this. Affiliate, and I said, and I don't use GP. This is my brother's number, see that. That was my thing. And decision making, and I was finding my true self. That was I, that was I when I was before marriage, because that was a lifetime journey. 13th December, let me tell him. So I told him, platinum membership, and he was shouting, independent, and yeah, and I said, see, this is the first time I, I have spent my money on myself, so you please don't tell me anything. You cannot shout at me. So this The confidence I lost in those between 8 years, it came back to me after joining Platinum. So, uh, this were all my resistances. Let me share my screen again.

I hold the screen for some time, Kinjal.

Okay.

Yeah, you can remove the gray box. Yeah.

Okay, yeah, so, uh, this all were my resistances: mindset, time, money, decision-making, support. Support was on another level. Gold membership joined, live call, live call recording. And my husband was like, Or usko time ni de rahi. And ek baar maine mam ko poocha, Q&A call me because I was a gold mother. To mam boli ki nahi, beginning me sunne ko milega, that's okay, you just ignore it. I said, okay, I will ignore it. And, uh, my home is very small, 2 BHK, and ek bedroom mein mera deva rete thek, bedroom mein mera husband rete thek, in hall my in-laws are there. I was sitting on my kitchen platform and I was watching my courses. My father-in-law was asking me, "What are you doing? You are not paying your bills." And I was saying nothing. My mom told me, "Just ignore it." I was just ignoring. So all the resistances were there— time was not there, money was not there, decision-making was not there. But One thing was there was courage, and one thing was there was hope, ki I can get out of this life. And now I want to share my growth journey. A homemaker who was earning nothing earned more than ₹5 lakh in just 1.5 years. And this was very small steps I was taking. And from affiliate, I earned— this is not an accurate amount, this is much lesser than what I have earned— ₹2,70,000 from affiliate, ₹67,000 from my organic cosmetic products business. And from coaching, parenting coach, and I earned ₹2,15,000 from coaching. So this was also not a small thing for me. And when I started earning, again I got that confidence back, okay? I can do anything and everything because chappi club mein join karte hai, ma'am was reinforcing that belief in me. And environment at Platinum, mothers were sharing their stories and I was connecting with them. 3:30 pe out rahe hai, itna karein, bachche chote hai, twins hai, fir bhi aise upkarein. I was getting that motivation. And then I become Super Coach, and that journey completely changed my life. When I was a Super Leader, I was getting those complaints that, "Pur din phone mein rehti hai, pur din nahi karti rehti hai, not giving time to daughter." Or jo vo log bolte the, ki beti ko time nahi de pari hai. Eh, that is Vedic school, and so I just asked her, and what she said was mind-blowing. She said, Every morning I will pray to God and thank Him, "Hey Bhagwan, itna acha din dena ke liye, Aapka bahut, bahut dhanyavaad." And I said, "Ki jo Subh bolte the, ki beti ko time nahi deti hai, uske piche dhyaan nahi deti hai, isme se kisi ne yeh nahi sikha hai." That was me, that was doing in front of her again and again and again. When I was writing my gratitude, she was asking me— she is just 4 years old— she was asking me, Mama, what you are writing? And I was just telling her that, beta, I'm thanking God for everything. So don't be stuck. Bolte hai, bolne toh, just ignore it and do focus on what you want. And now My top lessons from this journey are: Believe on your intuition. Take a tiny step and you will move forward. And everything starts with learning. Don't listen, just follow your intuition. Just do it, don't discuss. Second is take a tiny step. I started getting ready. Start. I started with a small thing. I started one small WhatsApp group. So just take one tiny step and you will not even realize. And Club Meet members often telling us, and I am realizing at this point. This was very true because I was taking just one step at a time. And third is everything starts with learning. Poor decision-making, poor health, poor relationship, anything financially not independent, everything, if you want to get out of it Start learning, start investing on yourself, because when you will invest on yourself, you will take action. If you will not invest on yourself, you will not take action. So that is one thing, start learning, because yahi se sub change hota hai. And now 3 power pills for mothers is First is show courage. Second is be stubborn for your growth. And third is learning creates freedom, not just for you but for your family. So you will have to show courage. Agar aap courage nahi dikha, okay, you No one will come and tell you that, "Nay, nay, show courage, aapko karna hai." No one will come and tell you. You will only have to show courage. Koi nahi aayega, because they don't know what you are going through. Jaise maine share kiya hai, my husband didn't know ki me kya fail kare woh andar se, and that all got suppressed and then turned it into a disease. And problem, it got healed after joining Platinum. Now I'm totally medicine-free, totally. Bombay topmost ENT, mentally All audiogram reports were showing, and now my audiogram reports are totally normal just after joining Platinum, after 3 months. So everything, everything has changed— mindset, decision-making, money, time, relationship, Everything has changed, not just mine but for everybody. Because my mother-in-law, just when I shared, I was from a middle-class family, there was no help at home. My mother-in-law has done so many things on her own only. There was no help. But when I am earning, I kept one full day help and I told her, Mama, And there was tears in her eyes. You just sit and just— you just give orders. My husband got freedom from a wife who was very difficult. Very, very difficult wife. Bohot ladna, bahut jagadna, bahut hi madlab. Blame, complain, ek word uske mood se nikla, I was ready with 3 sentences. This kind of difficult person I was. So he also got freedom. He is also sharing his business things, how much he is earning and everything with me. And one day my father-in-law was sitting with me and he was asking, how much you are earning every month? I said, I will not tell you. So he said, what is your target? I said, at least 3 lakhs per month. And he said, I will get retired. I want this. "Aapne bahut kiya hai, you just take retirement. Once I will cross 3 lakhs per month, I will tell you, Papa, no need to do anything." So this is not a journey of my freedom, but this is a journey of a freedom of a full family. My daughter, she got a freedom from a mother who was always shouting, who was always blaming, and who was always complaining. So this was my journey, and I really hope that— and one more thing, when she was saying, you will be able to earn and you will be able to buy some gold jewelry, and this is true. Now I'm buying gold, so I have bought one gold chain for my husband purse for myself, for my daughter, ring for my mother-in-law, everything I am buying. So whatever she is saying, at this level we are not being able to see that potential in ourselves, but she can see it because she has gone through this journey. So that was— I cannot thank her enough. And now 3 things I love about her, and I have never shared it with her till this time, is think abundant, total surrender. And this is one proverb in Gujarati, is Nishan chukh maaf, par nahi maaf nishu nishan, is missing the target is maybe forgiven, but Aiming low is not. So she's always thinking abundant. She never limit herself. I have never heard her saying a single negative thing in like this 1.5-year journey of Supercoach. Always she has very big goals, very big goals. And now I can relate that she is getting what she is getting because her thinking level is that level. She's always thinking abundant and total surrender, very ambitious and ground to earth. Or that is she. And third is she will never set a low target or low goal. She will always set a high goal. That is a different thing, but always set a higher goal. Then also you are making a progress. So these three things I really love for her. And there are so many, but here I have limitation. And yes, of course, she's so generous. She's so, so, so generous. And I want to tell you, ma'am, that this generosity is from your mother. Because in the Delhi event, when I met her, because I was in crew, I got a chance to meet her. And I touched her feet and I said, ma'am, I'm working as a captain in ma'am's tribe. So ma'am, I said, maybe Riddhi ma'am parenting coach banti jare ho. And what she said was, tum tumhari Riddhi ma'am se bhi age bachi ho. And I was like, and I shared it with my father, and my father said, A normal mother cannot say these words. I'm really thankful to Auntie also that she—

I think I have to just collect myself together. Thank you so much. How many of you are feeling very inspired? If you're feeling inspired, put SI for super inspired. And I think you took me back to my days, minus the cancer, I think. But, you know, I just feel that, uh, it's so similar for all of us. How many of you could see yourself in her story? It's the same. And you know, when Kinjal shares that, I don't know how she can see it. I can see it because I think I've lived it. And you know, I understand, you know, all of us as women, we doubt ourselves. We feel that I don't know if I'll be able to do it. I'm not sure time hogaa ki nahi, paisa hogaa ki nahi, koi degaa ki nahi. I just want all women to remove the word nahi from their lives. How many of you are ready to remove that word? That word nahi, you know, it is what keeps us stuck. You know, and every time when I used to have this, you know, this mindset which Kinjal spoke about, I had to create it for myself. It was not there in the beginning, but I realized one thing, that we can all create it. And when I have the freedom to create whatever I can create, why create small? So, you know, I started reading a lot, I started taking a lot of courses. And then I started learning from all of these top people— Larry, Zoltan, Taddeus, Blair, Paige— and I realized, you know, all of them had similar beginnings. Like, when they started, they didn't have anything. And I thought, if they didn't have anything and they are now sitting and teaching me, so maybe if I also don't have anything and if I start, maybe one day I can be like them. And then I started finding answers to all my resistances. You know, just like all of you, I realized that there are 4-5 resistances. First resistance for mother: time. Whether I'll be able to give time. Ki main kar paungi ki nahi. Then I realized that where is all my time going? Everybody has 24 hours. Some people are creating so much, they are so happy, they are growing. I also have 24 hours. So where is my time going? Something I'm doing wrong. And if I continue like this, 10 years later also I will see myself in the same situation. So I decided I am not going to worry about time. I'm just going to allow myself to do. They are saying, just like Kinjal shared, that, you know, my mentor shared, time you will create. When you start learning, you will create time. And that is why the most successful people are the people who learn the most, because the more you learn, the more time you create. So again, time is something that we can create. And when you understand the difference between Newtonian and the quantum physics, you will understand that time is not a linear concept. You can jump. What you are in 2026 and what you will be in 2027 will be phenomenally different if you understand that you can compress time. So I learned that, and then I was like, I'm going to compress it, I'm going to create time by learning. So I decided if I stop learning, I can't create. If I want to grow at a very good speed, then I have to learn to create time, for which learning is important. Then the second problem was money. Like, you know, I come from a very well-off family and there was a lot of money in the house, but there was no mindset to invest. Like, uh, you know, if I ask my husband to buy me a branded bag, he would buy. If I take— ask him to take me for a holiday, he would take me. If I ask him to invest in jewelry, he would do. Gold coins, he will buy. All of that we can do, but when it comes to investing in knowledge, in learning, it is an online scam, or people are fooling you because you are very gullible. This is what my husband used to say, that you are so innocent. This is what he thought. And then I understood it is not a money problem, it is a frequency problem. And you know, there's one thing I learned. I don't know why I have not shared this with you guys for so long, but it came to me when Kinjal was sharing, and this is This is what removed all the money blocks from my life. There are two types of people. One who are always begging the universe for money, that I want money, I don't have money, money de do, money de do, begging. And one is, you know, and the other group of people are people who consider themselves as heirs. Heirs, you understand, right? Like you're heir of your— like you inherit the money from the universe, because you're a child of the universe, you're a child of God. So you don't have to beg. The money belongs to you. You just have to order. Ki mujhe yeh course karna hai, ab mujhe karna hai, ab mujhe do. Because it is already your money. So you are not in that energy of scarcity. You're already feeling very abundant. So what I started doing was I started Thinking of myself, whatever I wanted, I made it my past. Supposing I want to be in a program, I would say I've already done the program, I have learned everything from that program, I have made a lot of money after joining that program, I've served a lot of people after joining. So my future, I made it my past. So there was no fear in me because in my head I had already achieved it. So my future, I turned it into my past, and I would think of it as if it has already happened and all the money was already given. I paid for it, and I don't know how to tell you this, it would just happen. I was such a small creator in the beginning, I had some 12-13,000 followers on Instagram, and I wanted money for a course and I didn't have the money and I didn't have the courage to ask my husband because this was the 4th program that I was investing in. So for 3 programs I asked him, ki dena padega, dena padega, dena padega. 4th also I would have taken from him only, agar nahi hota. But the day I wanted to invest, that day I started thinking, I want it. And just like that I thought of it, it's already happened. Mera hogya hai. And basic karke I thought, Same day, I'm such a small creator, I got a contract with FirstCry. And you know what I had to do? I only had to reply to 5 messages. For every message, they paid me ₹15,000 on a fee because of my credibility. I don't know what they saw in me or whatever, or maybe this was universe's way only for writing one message, kaun dete 15,000 rupees, on some Facebook group they had created. And I got all the money and I put it in the course. Again it happened and some random school called me. So what I realized was, I don't know, but I know one thing, that universe will give. The third resistance 'What if I fail?' So I changed my definition of failure. I made my definition of failure that if I am not doing what I'm supposed to do, I have already failed. So I'm not look— considering that only if I'm able to create that outcome will I pass or will I fail. For me is if I'm not taking the action that I'm supposed to take Or if I'm not making the decision that I'm supposed to make, I've already failed in my own eyes. So I changed my definition of failure. So my def— even now, this is the same definition for me, because what will happen will only depend on what you decide, because you can never see the end before you take the first step. How many of you agree with that? You cannot feel Switzerland till you sit on the flight to Switzerland. But if you want to sit in your home and feel what Switzerland feels like, you can keep sitting in your home all you want. So I decided that I'm just going to take off. Jobi kana hai, kiya kahaan land hooga mera flight, mujhe bhi nahi pata hai. But agar mein flight mein nahi baithi hai, tab toh kabhi land ho gayi hai. So I turned— sitting on the flight, my definition for success was board the flight. Where it will land, I have no idea, but I knew that if I don't sit, it will not land. The fourth resistance: my family. You know, they are thinking that I'm wasting time, they are thinking I'm wasting money, they are thinking that I don't know what I'm up to. I'm not— I'm neglecting my child. And of course, you know, just like all this what Kinjal heard, I also used to hear because I used to sit and learn from my videos late in the night. And my husband used to say, you know, your health will suffer, you're not sleeping, you should be with Veer in the room, you're not. So what I used to do, I would sit and watch my videos and I would put him on my lap. And you know, just, you know, my laptop is here and I'm sitting and there was like a sofa type thing, which now we've removed. And I would study, put the laptop on the table, and he would sit on my lap and he would sleep. And I would put earphones, disturb new. And this is how I would put him to sleep for 4-5 months at least. And my husband, every night he would tell me, this is not right what you're doing, this is not right what you're doing. I would not— I would just not listen because I had realized one thing. That if I had not— if I didn't do anything about myself, I would just be a very toxic mother and also a very toxic wife, which I did not want to be. I had realized this, that if I'm not being able to do what I'm doing right now, eventually the end will not be good for my family. So maybe right now my husband's not able to see my effort You know, there were days— I'm just being very vulnerable because you guys are so vulnerable with me— there were days when I would do my calls and I would come out of the room, and what do you expect? You know, after speaking for 3 hours, you are expecting, you know, how, your husband to say that eat something or rest. All I would hear was, you know, you have not done anything at home. 'If you are ignoring everybody, I don't know what you're doing.' And then, you know, I could not even cry in front of him, because if I would cry in front of him, he would actually always tell me that, 'Yissa band karo!' The first dialogue that would come out of his mouth was, 'Shut all of this!' Because financially we didn't need the money, because my husband was earning very well, my in-laws come from a very good family. But I realized one thing, that money cannot make you happy. How many of you understand that? And if you feel that, that, you know, you have a space in this world— or forget about the world, at least a space in your own home. Sometimes, you know, I just would feel that there is no value, nothing. And I realized, because of my mentors and because I read a lot, that I cannot blame anybody. I cannot blame my husband, I cannot blame my parents, I cannot blame my in-laws. I have to take charge. So I stopped blaming everybody. I just became mute. And I became— I don't know, like, I would not just— not mute, like, I would not speak to them. I would, but whenever they said these things Like I suggested Kinjal, I would totally ignore. I would just ignore and ignore, not just like ignore them and then sit and feel it. I would not even allow myself to feel the pain. I would immediately go and start learning something else because I realized if I go into that loop again of sitting and crying and feeling bad about what everybody said to me. Again, same cheese. So I would ignore, and then no, it would not hurt too much, you know, because I had my ways of distracting myself. Just the impact, you know, the when he's saying it to me. But after that, I would just switch to the next thing because I realized that what I feel is also up to me. So I would choose what I wanted to feel. So if I was feeling not taken care of, I would say, no, there are so many people who take care of me. Maybe my husband cannot in this moment, but it's not like he's not a good husband. He's a very good husband otherwise. And I also realized, you know, just like I was changing, it was difficult for him to accept, you know, because suddenly if my husband starts working so much, maybe as a wife I will also react, you know, because if somebody is not working so much and suddenly, you know, you're not getting to see your partner at all, so of course you might react. So I used to tell myself these stories and I would make myself feel better. But you know, I just want to tell every mother in this room that, you know, our stories are the same. Same, but the ending will be different for all of us. The beginning is going to be the same, the ending will be different for all of us depending on the choices you make. How many of you— for how many of you this is a ball bond? Put B. They can make it happen. And some of you are financially independent, but you are only stuck in your own head that I don't have time, I can't manage, this is not for me. I want to tell you one thing, whether you want to make more money, whether you want to do better, the way I have designed— and I'm not saying it because it's something I have created, but I'm saying because I'm seeing the results— the way Platinum is designed, it is for every mother. And it is something that if you get, you will be blessed. That's all I can say. It cannot come like that, you know. I got access to my mentors because I was blessed. Not everybody can get access to them, I feel, because God chose me for them. Just like that, I feel that every space that we had— even if you're sitting in this room right now It is divinely planned. Aap kahi bhi ho sakthe the, there are so many million billion mothers in this world, but some 537 of us are in this room. How can this happen without God's planning? Without God's planning, not even a flower can bloom. So, you know, I just want all of you to create Beautiful endings. Beginning, ending, you will decide the ending of your story of life, just like Kinjal did, just like all the other mothers are doing. So put D for decision in the chat box if you are going to make better quality decisions and not stay stuck. We stay stuck because of two things: comfort and fear. And sometimes a combination of these two things, comfort and fear combination. Throw it out. What is the— what is— there is like, you know, the investment in Platinum, according to me, it's nothing. Some of you are saying expensive. You know, just do the math. It's— if you do for 3 years also, you know, you're getting the app access for lifetime, live calls for 3 years. Even if you do for 3 years, it's not even ₹10,000 a month. Usse bhi kamein, uch paache hazaar rupee a month ka hai ka. Agar aap usko dang se math karoge. And how many of you agree that this much we spend on clothes, makeup, jewelry, khana peena, which we don't even Think, esse karte hai, me pata bhi nahi chalte hai. And this is not just for you, this is for you, your child, and the kind of calls you get for your children in Platinum. Even if you paid ₹30,000 a month, you will not be able to create that value for them because the way we teach them is not the conventional way of teaching. I'm teaching them using the techniques I've learned from some of the best people that I have been mentored by. And we saw the shifts in children yesterday. Who were not able to make friends are making friends. Children who were getting bullied are not getting bullied. Children are, you know, scoring well. Screen time for most kids in my class has reduced from 4 hours to 30 minutes. 30 minutes to 45 minutes maximum most children are watching. Yesterday only I was telling this to my husband, the maths. 4 hours into 30, 120 hours a month. Aap apne bachche ko 120 hours dere ho. You can't put a value to that. And if you do it for a year, it is 1440 hours. 60 extra days in one year. If you think this is crazy, put C for crazy in one year. So imagine over 10-15 years, how many hours are you giving to your child? 900 extra hours, almost 2 years lifespan increase. So I personally feel, you know, and I'm definitely, you know, I feel that Platinum right now is underpriced. I'm definitely going to make it 5 lakhs and ultimately 10 lakhs. And I don't say it to say it, I actually do it. Why? Because when you invest more in yourself, you take more action. If you agree, put A for agree. You know, some of you are in Gold, you're saying, ma'am, not taking action, I'm not doing anything. Why are you not taking action? Because You know what you have investment, investment is like insignificant. Only this class itself is worth more than what you have invested in your gold membership. How many of you agree with that? Put A for agree. So you know we invest ₹6,000, ₹7,000 and then we feel I'm— you're not taking action because So many mothers tell me, like Kinjal also shared. So yes, we'll do one or two questions. You can ask your questions, uh, you can ask Kinjal your questions. Okay, Monica, yes, you can unmute.

Yeah, hi ma'am. Hi Kinjal.

Hi Monica.

Yeah, really wanted to talk from long time and today I didn't expect like my turn will come, but yeah, God wanted me to give a chance today. So yeah, thank you so much. And hearing the story, like the same thing I am also now and then facing struggle with like my husband not understanding. And sometimes I literally like overwhelmed with that, like how, how should I like proceed with this journey, like if my husband is behaving like that. So I want to know like how you guys, like, uh, Kinjal, you have handle those situations?

You know, Monica, this journey is not easy, not easy at all. And when I become Super Coach, it become even tougher. And a few months back, I think 2 months back, there was a showcase and I was answering my WhatsApp queries on my phone at 12 in the night. And my husband got furious and he said, because we are learning, you know, just because we are learning, we don't react on this situation. Otherwise, he wants my time. And I said, okay, just because of the showcase I am a little busy, we will definitely be together. The moment we react, it gets blast. So because we are learning, it's our responsibility to hold ourselves back. Because when I could understand Understood. He is supporting me a lot. Even everything, he's supporting me very well. He will handle everything, but They are not being able to understand what we are going through, so we will have to hold ourselves back before we react. And now, reaction was normal. I made breakfast for him and everything was normal. And I said, definitely I am busy, but I will be free. That's it. Relationships are good, that doesn't mean it keeps happening, and this is life.

That is for sure, and that is the beauty of a relationship, I think. The small— yeah, but you just have to understand that, you know, it's There are different phases. Eventually your husband will become the biggest supporter. Like right now as I speak with you, he is the biggest supporter. Sometimes I'm doing calls, he'll also pass me some green tea. So it is a phase, but you have to allow yourself to be calm and focus on the main thing. This is a very important point that I want to bring out to all of you. Focus on the mission. You have started this to help somebody. So just focus on your students, everything else will become dundhila. You know, just like, you know, they show on the show in the movies, main actor ke face pe pura focus, and everybody in the background is dundhila. Just like that, you focus on your students, everything will become dundhila. And when your students will say good things about you, all these family people will come and hug you and they will appreciate. Like this time, if you came for the Goa event, you should have seen, no, from the stage how my mother-in-law, my husband, my own parents— most people were not understanding what I'm doing in the beginning, and I don't blame them. The only thing is you don't want to fight with them. You also have to try and understand them.

Yeah, true. Like for this time, Goa event, Rahul Sarkar's speech, That was like helped me a lot to understand my husband feeling. But again, like after coming, so many things he'll say like, I'm like literally, but then again, then I was like, literally I use Riddhi AI. And then I asked the same question, and then I got a relief. And then evening he came. If I was the before Monica, I would have like showed the ego, I would have not talked. But then I gave him thanda pani. He was just sleeping, ignoring me, but I gave them water, and I was just thinking how he will react. Still gusta hai ka? But then he smiled, and then things were normal. Yes, but full night he didn't speak. Morning also I made breakfast, then also he was like not at all ready to eat, showing all that anger. And then he said a lot of things in front of my in-laws.

Yes.

And then I was like too much scared, like if something happened. They are very good, you know.

This is also one thing that I mentioned— believe in your love for your family. If you genuinely love your family, they can say things, but they will never leave you. Yeah, how many of you are confident? You know, we are too good. Nobody can leave us, really. And especially for somebody who's not like shouting, fighting— amazing replacement. So nobody can leave you. They can say— let them say what they want to say, let their frustrations come out. But you know, I totally believe that nobody can ever leave us. We are too beautifully replaced. So that is the confidence you have in yourself.

And then like, okay, I have to keep quiet.

Men only need sex. I'll be very honest, if you don't give sex, they can leave you. Yeah, this is, this is true. This is science. This we have to understand. So if you are doing everything and not giving sex, then it's a problem. That's the— that's a need, biological need of a man. Yeah, women need emotional availability. If we don't get emotional availability, we get— start getting detached. And that's why it is important for women to hang out with more women, because men are not designed to give emotional availability. So all of you are healing because you are getting women who are emotionally available for you to listen to your stories, for you to express, for you. So you are getting that, so you are also feeling better. So you keep doing your work, do whatever extra things you have to do in the room. And I'm not joking, this is the reality. You know, I'm serious. If you give a man a handmade card which took you 2 months to make— it happened with a friend of mine. She made— she took 2 months to make some very big gigantic scrapbook for him, for her husband. He looked at it for a micro millisecond and then my friend cried for 2 days. Kuchh bhi nahi kiya. Then I gave her an idea. Next time, please don't spend 2 months making a scrapbook. Give him 20 minutes of sex. He will be happier. Yeah, if you are giving the wrong thing to the wrong people, they will not value it. So instead of sitting 1 hour and doing all of that, you do your thing and then you move on to the next thing.

Yeah.

These things sound very weird when you hear, but this is the reality of life. The sooner we accept all— you know, I've done so many relationship one-on-one. Most extramarital affairs that men have is only because the wife was not sexually available for her husband, and most extramarital affair that women have is because the man was not emotionally available for his wife. So it's not like only men cheat on women. These days even women cheat on men. Both are not correct, but this is the reason. Women will not cheat for sex ever. They will cheat for— is smiling on my jokes, is entertaining my conversation. For that women will cheat upon their man, and men will not do it for all that. They don't want to hear. They just want what they want. So that's why I always tell mothers that be, uh, you know, learn and then do things which are important instead of doing everything else which does not even count for anything. Right.

Yeah, thank you so much, ma'am, and truly grateful to have you as my mentor. And I can't express in words like what I feel for you. I just feel like you are a godsend angel to me.

Amazing. All of us, you know, like all of us are going to help so many women. And you know, like Kinjal shared, we can't see it right now. I can see it because even I could not see it for myself when I started, right? But, uh, one thing is clear that don't think small. None of us should think small. We are children of God, we are children of the universe. We have to— we are already abundant and we have to think abundant. So, you know, we should never say, 'Mera nahi ho sakta discount de do.' It is my policy, I never ask for discount. As not just because I don't value money, I value money, but why don't I ask for discount? Even if I'm buying clothes, I will not ask for discount. Why? Because I feel it energetically puts me at a low frequency. So I'm very careful of the frequency I'm putting myself on. The minute you put the word discount Automatically, level, are you guys understanding the game? It's much bigger than what we think. Discount, of course, but frequency, just asking that one line will put you on a very low frequency. So, you know, when you go for parlor services or any of those services, you should— I was watching this video by some creator, I don't remember his name. He shared that, you know, uh, people— there's this place where they sell coffee for $500. One coffee for $500. Just imagine, that would be some ₹50,000. Now, people might think it is crazy, right? To buy coffee for $50, $500, which will actually cost you less than a dollar to make. So this person, he goes for coffee and he's asking them, the owner of the coffee place, that how are you able to charge $500 for coffee and every single seat in your coffee place is occupied? How are you able to do this? He said, I am not charging for coffee. I'm charging for the people you get to connect with when you come for coffee to my place, because only people with that frequency and mindset will afford a $500 coffee. And he saw in front of himself that some young boy came and he cracked some deal. So $500, they came, million dollar. So, you know, it's not— you know, you— we have to remove the scarcity mindset that I want to save money, why should I put this much in coffee. So when you think like them, we can become like them. But if we think like we are poor, we don't have, we are scarce, mera nahi ho sakta, pure duniya ka ho ga. So it's not about what you think, it's about where you are placed in the frequency ladder. Is this making sense to everybody? Am I being able to explain? Yes, yes, amazing. Thank you so much, Monica. We'll do one more and then of course Kinjal is all yours. You can message her on WhatsApp. Sorry. Ketul is like, Riddhi, I will kill you. One more we will take. And by the time I'm taking this question, those of you who've not filled out the interest form, please make sure you do it. We just have 2-3 days and then 19th we are anyway meeting. So, and, uh, the Platinum, you will have to only make an investment of ₹20,000 on the day of Akshaya Tritiya, and then you will get 15 months to make the balance payment. So I've made it super simple, all of us can make it happen. All right, so let me get somebody I've never spoken to before or who's never been— Garima Goyal. Okay, let's get Garima.

Hello, ma'am.

I'm from your in-law's place, Alwar.

This is the first time.

Yeah, this is the first time I'm being able to talk to you and I'm like very scared. Yeah, very nervous.

Relax.

I, I've just joined on 22nd March, so I'm slowly, slowly getting what I mean, how to go about doing in all this Platinum and all. Last mission call I missed upon, but I've seen the recording and I called them. After listening to Kinjal ma'am and all that, I had a little, little question. Like, when I joined Platinum, I asked my husband that I have to do this, and he's like, it's not best to invest and all that. Same, whatever. When it's like, so I'm like skeptical how to go about doing, will it happen or not. I know I'm not on the right track, I should all again, I have that fear of I, I want to come out of that fear, how to go about.

No fear, have faith in God. Just say Be stubborn, be confident. You know, there's Yogmaya in our community. So her husband was also saying, this is a scam, yeah, she stopped making chai in the house. Husband is like, chai though. He's like, Yeah, exactly. You don't have to take life so seriously. Make it fun. You know, she's like, so we had a couple's call in Platinum and her husband was saying that I was totally against Platinum. And then I was like— and then he said that I'm feeling so good that she did Platinum because her son is doing really well in grade, grade-wise, and all. You would come 20th in last class, now he came first. He got full marks and everything. So he was saying that I'm very happy that she did it. And then I asked him that what convinced you? Like, you know, you were not going to do it. So he was like, so you know, you have to have that energy. You know, a lot of mothers said that, you know, don't take me on a holiday but do this for me. A lot of mothers You know, you have to show them how stubborn you are for it. You don't have to go with a beggar's energy. Go with that energy of confidence. You're from Malvanna, I know how they think. Then when you say This is all.

And one thing, sometimes I'm able to miss all the live calls in the evening after 7. So how to—

you can watch the recording and don't worry, even if you're missing some calls, it's okay. Either amount of calls I'm doing, I'm not even expecting you to be there for all the calls. All right, amazing. Let's put A for amazing for Garima. Yes, Milika, are you there? I just wanted to acknowledge you for being— I didn't know that, you know, some, some time back somebody sent me a picture of you. Yes, you can unmute. Yes.

Hello.

Yes, finally to see you.

Yes, amazing.

Thank you so much.

Are you able to follow the Hindi in between?

Riddhi?

I'm learning, I'm learning. I have so many Indian friends here and I work in international school, so I have a lot of colleagues also Indians.

And where are you originally from?

I don't know, I don't know actually Hindi, but I'm trying to catch up with something. I'm originally from Serbia, so Serbia is in Europe, you know, like it's a part of ex-Yugoslavia. Amazing. So yeah, and I'm living in Abu Dhabi for last 6 years.

Wow.

Uh, yeah, so I'm, I'm teacher here. I teach, uh, early years, like KG students. So I enjoy that one, and I always love, you know, dealing with kids and so on. But I struggle a little bit dealing with my own. So I have two boys. One is 7 years old, 7 and a half, and the small one is going to turn 2 in 1 week. So yeah, so I joined this program actually. I mean, God sent me to you and to this program because I feel like maybe like last year that even with all my knowledge like from teaching and, uh, kind of psychology and so on, I don't know, somehow I don't have that energy to implement in the house. So I feel a lot of struggling recently, like with my husband and my kids. The young one not yet because he's still small, but the old one, like whatever I do, whatever I said, it looks like an order. It looks like you have to do it. And then he's a little bit, you know, like resilient, like I don't want to do it. No, no, no. So like we struggle a lot with this. Uh, also screening time, like, now increased comparing to earlier. So this is the, the— but I can say that, uh, that the, the, the most I joined this program, the, the biggest reason, it was like really I found myself lost. Like, I, I found myself like I taught so many generations, so many students, like thousands. And I cannot deal with my own students, and I cannot find like proper communication with my husband. There is a lot of misunderstanding. My husband, he is from Colombia, and we speak different languages, so this is also kind of barrier. We communicate in English, his native language is Spanish, my native language is Serbian, so this is also kind of, you know, a little bit hard, plus different culture. You know, he has one type of the way, maybe raising kids, communicating with people and so on. I have a little bit different. And then there is— you should have like a lot of understanding, patience, you know, like all this. And I'm feeling like I'm losing it. I cannot handle anymore all this. So yeah, your program is really amazing. You are such an amazing person. And all, all people that join this program, really, like, I, I'm trying to join as much as I can, but I'm having work now. We are online because of situation in, in UAE, so this gives also extra work preparing program, working at home with my own child to complete his task. He's now grade 2, so I'm trying really to join now. I'm like working something for school and, and listening to this program, so like multitasking. So I know that it's better if I can focus like only on one thing at a time, but I'm trying somehow to catch if it is possible, you know, like, and to grow.

So, so honored to have you, very grateful. And I think I manifested you because this year I've been talking about I'm going international, and I think you are here. So only this year, you know, I've been thinking that, you know, now I want to venture out of India, and we have you. We have another mother who's joined from Nigeria. So I think God is listening to me and very happy, you know, because mothers, I feel universally we are the same. Our challenges are very similar. We speak different language, we come from different backgrounds, but the challenges are very similar. So thank you so much, uh, for being here and thank you for sharing.

Thank you, thank you. I just want to say one more thing. I mentioned that earlier You look so bright and so beautiful in green, in dark green. You should wear it more often. All right, done. Thank you. Thank you so much. Love you all and hope to grow.

Yes, super good.

Amazing.

Let's put A for amazing in the chat box. Let's take a picture, Kinjal.

Yes, ma'am.

Yes, awesome! How many of you are feeling super inspired? If you're feeling super inspired, put SI for super inspired in the chat box. Amazing! So love, love, love all of you. Keep taking action. Keep growing, keep helping each other, keep helping a lot of families out there, you know. And I can totally see it, 2, 3, 4, 5 years from now, we will be like a global revolution. Already I think India, we are the biggest, but very soon the world. And you guys will be like the frontline warriors because you've been with me from the start. So definitely it will happen. You know, like I said, the universe is my home. I can just place an order, I don't have to— so when it will happen, I will leave it on the universe. How it will happen also, I will leave it. I have to just do my part of showing up. So we keep showing up, and then the flight will land. So, you know, my takeaway for— you know, my not takeaway, but my message for all of you is stop thinking, board the flight, otherwise the flight will take off without you, right? And I just want to thank Kinjal for sharing so authentically. Loved it. You made me cry to a level that I was not able to control. But, uh, thank you. And of course, 5 lakhs is nothing for you. You have to get to 50 lakhs this year and 5 crores. And all of that numbers are going to happen. Amazing. Thank you so much, everybody. Take care, love you. Seeing you in the evening for the mission call, but be there. This is a growth week, so you want to like literally make the most of it. Oh yeah, attendance. Sorry, let me mark the— activate the attendance.

In the last, ma'am, I want to share one thing, that when you took 20 crore champion award, I was just jumping and I was just dancing and everything. My husband, I said, I'm very sure of it, 100%, 100%.

I feel every single mother in this room, we can easily make 1 crore a month. It's not going to happen immediately, but it is going to happen if you be on this path, because India is just getting started. We are just getting started. There is so much that people want. People, you know, right now they are just warming up to this space. You know, right now people feel online is scam, online is this and that, and they are not able to do it. Later people will feel this is only normal, everything outside is scam. When we create results collectively, online will become the normal go-to place. It's already starting to happen, and it is going to only keep improving because this is more convenient, this is more impactful. You can sit at home, do it. You're able to manage your house better, you're able to be there for your children. You don't have to physically go and sit in one room for 2-3 hours, leave everything at home. Amazing. Thank you so much. Love you, and I will see you at 6. Please be on time, okay? All of you be on time. Awesome.