Law of attraction - Bootcamp 1

that you just saw. You're going to become that, and that's the intention for all of us. It's going to be different for each one of us because all of us have a different version that we are looking forward to, right, that you just saw. So you want to— let's— yeah, I've started the YouTube streaming, so if you want, you can let them know. Awesome. So now I'm going to share 3 simple concepts with you But before that, let's quickly revise day 1. So yesterday we learned that the law is always working. So we understood that your— the law of attraction is like the heartbeat. It's not like the switch which you can turn on and off, but it's like heartbeat which is always working. The second thing we understood, we are always broadcasting. So our So the universe is not going to give us what we want, but it is responding to the emotional state that we are in, what we are broadcasting. Then understand that your reactions will reveal your reality because your reaction will decide your vibration. So you can want something, but if your reaction is not aligned, then your reality— you will— the reality that you will be creating will be based on your reaction, not based on what you want. Then your desire is not a problem. The problem is the doubt that comes with your desires. Every time you create a desire, side moon, doubt Now this doubt will dilute your desire. So none of you should think, oh, am I thinking too much? No, that question, am I thinking too much, is the doubt. If this is a bulb on, put BO. And that, am I thinking too much, is what is diluting your desire. Then, you know, resistances are hidden. We understood that our resistances block us, and resistances are not very loud. They can be simple one-liners that you are telling yourself: I'm not good enough, I can't manage technology, nobody supports me. Or your husband saying you can't do it, or this is not for you. Those simple one-liners are resistances which will stop you from attracting. Then we learned that control— when you try to control the outcome, the timing, and everything, it creates a lot of pressure. Then we also learned that instead of creating a better future, we are repeating the same past because we are repeating the same patterns. And we also understood that emotions are not our enemy, but they are guide. In the inner compass. It tells us what is happening and how can we do better. And the most important thing, awareness is the first shift. So I want you to take a screenshot of this. Let me share this with you so you can take a screenshot. Key learnings from day one. Of course, there was a lot more, but like a quick snapshot summary. Now I'm going to share 3 very simple concepts with you. Somebody got it, you can put it in the chat for the others. Just a minute, just one minute. Got stuck, my screen. Yes, so now the first concept that we will learn is called the Law of Deliberate Creation. Now what does this mean? Because we have to understand that life is not meant to be something that just happens to you. It is something you are deliberately creating. And tell me one thing, when you're painting a picture, are you feeling irritated or frustrated? Or, you know, if you're doing calligraphy, are you feeling irritated, frustrated? How do you feel? You are in your flow state, right? When you are doing puja or anything that you like to do, you're in your flow state. Correct. So just like that, when you are creating your life, which is the most important thing, do you want to do it with force, with pressure, with irritation, with frustration? No, right? You just want to do it with calm, with peace, with love, with joy, with smile, with heart, without feeling helpless. And while feeling that, okay, there's no rush, I'm painting my life. So what will happen if you're not in a rush and you're in a joy state, peaceful state, calm state? You will actually end your painting sooner. How many of you agree with that? If you agree, put A for agree. Imagine you take a piece of paper and start painting like this. A, I will not enjoy the experience, and B, it will all be khichdi. See, the result will be not as good as I'm capable of, and maybe the results that I get to, I'm not feeling good about it because now my energy is only not great. I've already activated YouTube livestream. We can just share the link in the chat, please. Yeah, so, and should I close the chat for some time so that this stays on top? Okay, I'll just close the chat so this will stay on top. So understand, your life is the most beautiful art piece that you're going to make, and you want to fill it with love, peace, joy, smile, emotions. Care. You don't want to do it in a rushed energy. And you will realize that when you sometimes slow down, you actually gain speed. A lot of people think you feel anxiety, you feel stress, you feel like giving up, you feel like kuch ni hora. So be a little kind, be a little, uh, you know, be a creator, be a patient creator. So I want all of you to write this: I am a patient creator. I am not in a rush. Because all of us know, right, we are spirit souls and our lifeline is eternal. You're not this body, so you can continue the creation. Even if you don't achieve it in this body, you can achieve it in the next. You might feel like, what am I talking about? But this is a— this is the reality. But as long as you are doing what you're doing in this body, you want to do it with a lot of love and patience, not with anxiety and irritation. So I'm going to give you a few examples that will help you understand this. So the first thing we need to understand is that most of us live our lives like a passenger. Like, if the child does not behave well, we will feel bad. If the child is behaving well, we will feel good. If my husband is treating me well, I will feel good. If my husband is not treating me well, I'll feel bad. If my mother-in-law is appreciating me, I will feel good. If she's not appreciating me, I'll feel bad. If my parents are loving me more than my sister, or equal than my sister, equal to my sister, then I'll feel good. If they love my sister more than me, I will feel bad. Or if they love my brother more than me, I will feel bad. So who is controlling your life? You. One second, let me open the chat. I can't work with a closed chat. Yes. So who is controlling your life? Yes, others. If this is your way of living your life, then others are controlling and you have absolute zero control in your own life. So tell yourself this. Let's repeat this together. If my mother loves me, I feel good. If my mother shouts at me, I still feel good. If my husband hugs me, I feel good. If my husband screams at me, I still feel good. If my child listens to me, I feel good. If my child doesn't listen to me, I still feel good. How many of you are thinking, life problem? If you can understand that, put yes in the chat box. It is simple. Life is simple, but we have complicated it because we have just outsourced the power completely to others. And some of you might think that law of attraction, attraction. So I want to tell you one thing. This is why we are not attracted attracting because you have no power in your life. Other people are— other people are doing everything for you. They are controlling your emotions, and your emotions are the most important thing for you to attract. Remember, we discussed this yesterday. So the way I'm teaching you Law of Attraction is the way you can actually use it in your life. It's not just some concept. You have to work on yourself for the law to work for you. It's always working, but for you to be able to use it— only sitting and thinking good thoughts and writing good things Dear God, I want this. Dear God, I want that. Dear God, I want this. Sube utke, itna naad ho ke bed ki diary me likha, dear God, I want this, I want this, I want this. Bahar jaake, you're shouting at the help, you're shouting at your child, you're fighting with your husband, and then God is saying, sab kuch ready hai, pehle aap ready ho jaao. Mera sara arrangement ready hai, but aap nahi ready ho. So you have to get ready first. We have to get ready first. Seema Sharma, I'm exactly telling you how to implement it. This is what you have to practice. You have to keep telling yourself that and understand no change will happen in one day. I'm going to get to all of this, so wait. Today we will learn how to do it. So understand, you are not the passenger, you are the driver. So if you are giving the steering wheel to somebody else, they are going to take you wherever they want to. Maybe you want to go to Shaguftha's house. So let's say Sailee— okay, we'll do a role play. So supposing, let me spotlight. Saili. Parul, you abused me yesterday, now you'll not get spotlighted for 100 days. Badla. One second. Shakshi. Just joking. So supposing This is Saheli's life and Saheli puts Shaguftha on the driving wheel, right? And now, okay, we need one more person, Divya. So supposing, Saheli ki life hai, but Saheli ka life Shaguftha chaladi hai. So just imagine this car, now Shaguftha is driving instead of Saheli driving, she's gone to the passenger seat. Now Saali is telling Shaguftha, I want to go to Divya's house, okay? I want to go to Divya's house. I'm going to go to Sakshi. I don't want to go to Divya, I want to go to Sakshi. And Saali screaming from the back, take me to Divya's house! Where are you going? Wrong turn, wrong turn! But Shaguftha is not listening. She keeps going to Sakshi. And now what is Saheli doing? She's blaming Shaguftha. How dare you! I told you I want to go to Divya. Why did you take me to Sakshi? So this is what we are doing. You have given the driving wheel. Okay, let's put A for amazing for all of them. So understand this, this is exactly what we are doing. You have given the wheel to your husband or to your mother-in-law or sometimes to your child, and you say, I am not able to do anything because my child is too little. I can't do anything because my husband does not give me permission. If we were waiting for permission, all of us would be in our home kitchen, not on this Zoom call. How many of you understand that most husbands don't give permission for these things? Like, I think 5% husbands have now started giving permission. So if you are waiting for your husband's permission, then you'll be happy in your home, and no child is stopping you from doing what you want to do. Or we say, my mother-in-law is— Again, it's not her. She is being herself, but you are choosing to absorb everything and then be like, do whatever she's asking you to do. So how many of you are going to become the driver? Put D for driver. Don't worry when husband says that Sunday ko no calls. You have to say, baby, 22 hours for you, 2 hours for myself. There's no need to feel guilty. Seriously, absolutely, you know, if you are not doing anything, you will be sitting and they will be sitting with their phones. One, like one showpiece, you're sitting next to them. How many of you understand this? So it's never feel guilty when you choose your growth. Never think I'm ignoring my husband. You choose your growth, the same husband will choose you 100 times. He will make space for you on weekdays also. But you don't choose yourself, you keep choosing other people, then that's all you have to keep doing. Nobody's going to choose you, or nobody is going to make space for you. Only have to keep making space for everybody. So why am I sharing this? Because this is how we stay stuck. All of us as women should be confident that even if I do something which my husband is saying no to, I'm confident my husband is not going to leave me. That much confidence you have? If you have, put yes in the chat box. Because where will they find such good vibes? Like, seriously, like your respective vibe, like your They'll not. So they can say a few things to us, but they are not going to leave us. So you should still do what you want to do. You know, in the beginning when I was investing in these courses, my husband thought I'm crazy. And for every course he would say, 'Koi zarvat nahi hai karni ki.' But I would do. He would still become normal. To tin den toh chalta tha, ladai badaai, whatever, ladai also. But he would feel like I have not listened to him, I should have listened to him. That energy And after that, it would become okay. But imagine if I had kept listening to him, I would not be doing what I'm doing today. And now he's only the— he's so proud of what I do. So in the beginning, when they stop you, maybe they don't understand what you're up to. Also, if they stop you, they don't know what you want for yourself. So you don't have to worry about Uh, you don't have to feel guilty, not worry. We feel guilty as women, too much, too much guilt. Put DG in the chat box, delete guilt. Dent. The next thing that you have to understand, your thoughts are like seeds. You cannot plant like something, uh, random, and you can't plant like a weed and want corn. Just like that, if you are planting seeds saying that I'm so tired, this is too much, nothing is changing, and then you are expecting peace in your life, it's not going to happen. Instead of saying that this is too much, you can say I can handle this. Instead of saying I am so tired, you can say I will do my absolute best. Instead of saying things are always going to be like this, you're going to say things are improving every day. Because what you plant is what you reap. A balcony, you want to grow something, you're going to put something useful, know, something healthy, something, some nice flowers or some nice plants. You're not going to plant toxic things in your balcony. So why are you planting toxic things in your life? You choose, you make the choice. So this is how you can deliberately create your life by being the driver, by planting the right things. For all of you who are asking how to do it, this is the how. Ab aap yeh poocho ki ki plant kaise karna hai, woh koi nahi kar sakta hai, because you have to plant your own seed. If you want me to come and plant for you, I cannot, even if I want to. Because that is how God has designed it. So I cannot go and plant for Nishat. She only has to plant what she wants for herself because only she knows what she wants. If I had that power, I would have done it for all of you already. But God is very smart with his designing, no? Because if we can plant good things for each other, we also can plant bad things. And that's why God did not give us this power to plant for each other. We have to plant for ourselves, but in good association we can understand what I should plant and what I should not plant. So right now we are understanding what I should plant and what I should not plant. Ma'am, if someone is creating toxicity in your Neha Jain, nobody can create anything in your life but you. That's what I'm telling you. That's what I'm trying to tell all of you. Nobody has the power to create anything for you. If this is a bulb on, this is a part of God's design. You can only create. So somebody is being toxic to you, you have created that toxicity by thinking those thoughts. Nothing in your reality can exist without first existing in your thoughts. Then understand, you know, it is not— I'm not saying that you have to jump into the positive like instantly, because it's not so easy. You know, if I say please start thinking positively all the time maybe you will feel fake, maybe you'll find it challenging, maybe it will be very exhausting for you, and maybe you'll not be able to do it. So you don't have to jump from negative thoughts to positive, perfectly positive thoughts instantly. Some of us can actually do it, but in case you're not able to do it and you think this is too much for me, then you just take one step at a time. Just like you climb the stairs. So instead of saying that, you know, everything is perfect, you say, today I'm going to do one thing that is going to make me feel better. Take one step. My— instead of saying my husband doesn't love me, nobody loves me, go and meet your friend and say, today I'm going to create some love in my life. Today I'm going to consciously create some happiness in my life. A husband is not the only person who is going to give you love. There are so many people waiting to give you love, but you don't want to receive it. You blocked yourself completely. If this is a ball bond, put B. You just blocked it. Like, you're like, na inside chahiye bas, inka pyaar ni mela toh life mein kuch ni mela. Why am I sharing this? Because a lot of you are telling me all these husband stories these days on emails and WhatsApp and all of that. You have your friends and other people also, so don't be so low because of whatever your husband issue or one issue in one area in your life that you block all other areas. Take one step at a time, do one thing at a time. Don't have to change overnight. And then of course, your focus will decide your experience. You know, I used to do this earlier in my master class. Let me see if I have two things. Okay, yeah, let's do this. So supposing I show you these two things. Now you are going to get attracted to one thing automatically because you can't see both. You'll— my— your mind will automatically go to one. I want to know what's in this. So whatever your focus went on, like whatever you focused on that's what you will know more of, and that's what you'll create more of in your life. So just like that, if you are sitting and focusing on all the things that are missing, all the problems in your life, then you'll create more problems. So I'll give you an example. You know, some people, they enter a room and they're feeling very awkward. They're like, I think everybody is looking at me, I think people are judging me, and they start feeling very uneasy. Right? Or you can enter a room, same room, and you're thinking, oh wow, people are smiling at me. Oh wow, everybody here is so beautifully dressed. I'm so glad that I came for this party. Same room, different experience. Why? Because in one case you were thinking— some people think, oh, I'm not carrying a branded bag, I'm not looking good enough. Everybody is looking better. So it depends on how you think. This is a crazy Balwant Putsibio. So walk the space like you're a daughter of God. You're not like a nobody. You're very special. Like today in the sankirtan we were sharing, there are, you know, 84 lakh species, out of which human beings— we are— we've got the human body. In the human body also there are 3 categories. The uncivilized, the tribals. You know, you have those Adivasi tribes and all who live in the jungles. Human beings may be teen uncivilized, civilized may be do civilized who do not believe in God, and civilized who believe in God. We are the topmost So you can think that of all the brands in the world, we are the topmost brand. And in all— in the topmost brand also, we are like the limited edition. So you don't need like a purse or a bag to make you feel confident. You should anyway feel confident even without any branded bag on you or any branded clothes on you, because you're the most precious design of God, civilized, God-loving human being. So understand, same room, different experience. Now why is it happening? It is happening because of what you choose to notice. Again and again. So there was a time in my life where I would only notice all the things that were missing. I would feel my husband does not even light a diya for me. I would notice that, you know, my husband does not do this, he does not listen to me, he cannot stop the PS4 for me, I do so much for him. If I would feel sick, I would like, you know, he doesn't even sit next to me. So I was always focused on all the things that he was not doing for me. But when I learned this, I shifted my focus to all the things he was doing for me. Was paying the bills. He was taking care of me otherwise, taking me on holidays, buying me good gifts on my birthdays, listening to me when I was depressed, trying to make me laugh. So then when I started noticing all those things, I started feeling so different about the same person. The person whom I was looking at as a big problem maker or a problem started feeling like a blessing. So it's not anything to do with people in our lives, it has everything to do with what we are able to see in them. Even the most challenging person in your life is contributing to your life. How many of you agree with that? Put A for agree. Like, some of you say my mother-in-law is very challenging, but she takes care of your child when you're at work, so she's contributing. So understand that, you know, it doesn't matter what people do or say or think or feel about us. What matters for our happiness and for our emotional state is what we see in them. So I want you to write this, it's a simple line but it's very powerful: I see good in others. Train yourself to only see the good in others. Even if your husband is narcissist, I'm telling you, if you start to see the good in him, he will change. People change, but they change with love. They don't change with hate and complain. When you give anybody love, they shift. I've seen this with a few people in my family. Some of them were alcoholic, some of them were, uh, not like alcoholic, but they would drink a lot of alcohol. Completely stopped because of the wife. Because she came and she gave so much love, so much care, that he didn't have— feel the need to depend on alcohol. Everything you can change through love. Love is very powerful. But you know, sometimes even when we are giving love, we start feel— feeling arrogant for the love also. Feel me, expectation, and that's a problem. So when you give love, you give and you forget. You cannot be like, I do so much but still he doesn't do. This was me, that's why I'm telling you. So giving is important, but giving without expecting. Unconditionally. That is more important, because if you give and you start attaching expectations to everything that you're giving, that is going to create more problem in your life. And that was what was— I— that is something I was doing. I was giving, giving, giving, and I was feeling like I do so much for these people, nobody does anything for me. That ahenkar is the worst thing. That you can do to yourself. So you have to crush your ego. You have to say, 'Me kuch nahi karte, me kuch nahi karte, mera kuch nahi hai.' I don't do anything, nothing belongs to me. The false ego we need to crush. Yes. So we have to train ourselves to notice, and small shifts You don't have to change everything. This chota chota cheese, like tomorrow when you wake up, do this as an exercise. You look at your husband and you try to see 10 good things in him. You look at your child and see 10 good things about your child. Instead of seeing that my child is not doing homework, my child is not eating, my child— see 10 good things. See 10 good things in your mom-in-law. Maybe she's not good to you directly, but maybe she's good to 10 other people around you. That's also something good to notice. So every day when you wake up, start seeing good, good, good, and that will become the lens that you wear permanently, and that, that will become your life. Okay. So now we will do a simple activity, but before that, let me give you the slide. You can take a screenshot. So I speak like it's chalky, but you'll get the points at least. So you want to be consistent. It's not like about doing too much on the same day, doing small, small things every day. Done? Yes. Now activity. How many of you got a remote control, whatever, remote? Kindly reply. Seema Sharma, question. Seema, what's your question? I just saw kindly reply pop up and now I can't see. Your question. Why are we not consistent? We are not consistent because we are always distracted, and why we always start focusing on what other people are doing. And it's not like you're not consistent. You're not consistent with a few things. Some things you're very consistent with, like sleeping, eating, bathing— hopefully bathing, some people are not consistent with that also. So areas that are important to you, you automatically are consistent. Like working out, like my husband is so consistent with his workouts. Andi ho ya tufaan, raat kutin bajai, 4-5 sube chai bajai gym mein. So he's consistent because that is important to him. I'm very consistent with my calls. I never skip my calls because this is important to me. So if you're not consistent, it means those areas are not important enough for you. Okay, now we will not get into too much Q&A because then we will not be able to do it. We'll not be able to finish everything that I planned for you. Great. So now the activity that we have to do is I want you to take this remote control, okay? And this remote is basically— you raise your hand slightly so that I can see it. I only forgot to get one, sorry, but I'm glad that you guys got it. I'm going to use my phone as a remote. So in case you didn't get one, you can use your phone as a remote. Yes, and imagine you're holding it. Now this remote controls your inner state, not your TV outside, but your inner state. It does not control your TV, your child, or situations on the outside, but your inner state. Now on this remote there are two buttons. How many buttons? Two. One button says old pattern and the other button says New Choice. So now let's try this. I want you to think of a recent situation where you felt triggered, whatever you felt. Maybe your child didn't listen, maybe something didn't go your way. Now bring this moment into your mind, and now I want you to press the Old Pattern button. So press the old pattern button on the remote. I actually want you to do it because I want you to physically anchor you doing this. Now you see what you are doing in your old pattern. Maybe you're shouting, screaming, crying, feeling less. Some of you are also slapping, whatever, right? So you choose the old pattern button. When you select it, you see that whole scene play in front of you. Now this is your default response, and this is something you have been repeating. Now I want you to put the remote down, and I want you to shake your hand, or you can shake it like this, whatever. Shake it with the remote. Now you hold the remote again and you press the new choice button. The same incident But now you're responding in a different way. You're not raising your voice, you're not shouting, you're not screaming, and you're saying, it's okay, I can handle this, this is not too much, I can handle this, I got this, I'm strong enough for this, God is protecting me, I got this. Now notice your body. How does it feel? It feels good, right? Now once again, quickly press the old button and quickly go back to the old pattern. Again, you're feeling irritated, shouting, losing energy, crying. And then again, quickly press the new choice button. And switch to that calm, easy, simple, relaxed version of yourself. Feel the difference. And why am I making you do this multiple times? Because no change will happen in one attempt. You can put your phones down. How many of you can Feel this. This is what is happening. Now the challenge for most of us is to keep pressing the new choice button. So, jab next time ab kya husband chillaye, ya koi bhi bachcha chillaye, ya koi bhi kuch bole, boss, colleague, anybody for that matter, or even if it is a taxi driver shouting at you, like the taxi driver, you want to press the new choice button. Imagine you are pressing the new choice button. You're like, now I don't want to go back to that old pattern. I'm not going to do that old pattern button. I'm going to do the new choice button. Because the truth is, you already have this remote installed within you. You don't have to find it. You don't have to earn it. You just have to remember to use it. Especially when you feel triggered, when you feel overwhelmed, when you feel confused, don't say, 'I don't know what to do, I have no control.' That is wrong. You have all the control in the world. It is installed within you. God gave you that. Shaguftha, you want a blanket? For some of you, my voice is too calming for you. One second. Yes, so how many of you are feeling very powerful? Put P for power, that you have an inner remote installed within you and you can press the new choice button as many times as you want to. And sometimes by mistake you will press the old pattern button. But whenever you press the old pattern button by mistake, quickly switch, just like we switched right now. Don't have to stay in your old pattern for too long. And my biggest, you know, way to become okay these days is I quickly take a shower and then I start chanting. It helps, like, you know, instantly you will start to feel like bliss. Suddenly from irritation you will jump to bliss. Jab kood samaj mein hiya hai, inhaalo. Don't be lazy, I'm telling you, it works like magic. Take a shower and start doing something new. Don't, don't lie down on your bed and wet your pillow. Trust me, it's not worth it. Even between a fight. Yeah, you can do that. When your husband is shouting at you, just tell him that I'll be back in 5 minutes. Seriously, this is how life is. It's supposed to be fun. You don't have to stand there and wait for somebody to just keep screaming at you or fighting. You say, okay, I'll just be back in 5 minutes, just take a shower. And come out. And then he'll also be different energy because you've given him a 5-minute break. So maybe he's also got some time to think. These things work. You have to use some unconventional new methods. You've tried the old ways already, it's not working. Start dancing can be little too much, I don't know, but you can start dancing alone, not in front of your husband, like, not like When he's shouting at you, you're dancing in front of him. Yes, so you can just, you know, switch to the new pattern. So you always want to ask yourself, am I pressing the old pattern button more, or am I pressing the new choice button more? So this is something you guys have to track every day now. What button are you pressing, old pattern or new choice? How many of you are going to track? Put T for track. Now concept 2, very important and my favorite: the law of allowing things to come. Tension. What will happen to my routine? This was me sometime back when I was in the building phase, right? And some people are relaxed. So this is how God is sending things your way. Some people are not able to allow it to come. You get into the stress mode. Now what will happen to my child? Now what will happen to my husband? 'Will I be able to do it? Will I be able to manage?' So you're trying to control everything. You are, you know, just trying to hold on. You're resisting all the good things that are coming your way. So why are things not flowing into your life? Not because— you can write this— I allow for things to flow into my life. So things— you are not getting it not because you're not meant for— not because they're not meant for you, but because you are not allowing them to enter. So the idea is to stop resisting, fighting, controlling, all of that. Just loosen your grip and relax. Now, you know, I had been saying this to mothers that please note the time 6 to 8, Sunday 6 to 8. Suddenly my husband said we are going for Veer Das. What is his name? Yeah, whatever, that stand-up comedian Veer Das. And he's saying please change the time. So now I have to change to 4 to 6. I'm not taking stress. Ab mujhe padta ki mujhe karna hai. So what did I do? I just left a message to the Super Coaches. Instead of 6 to 8 call is now 4 to 6. Everybody is still here and in fact this is better for mothers because Monday children have school. So 4 to 6 is better for everybody. So it worked, right? Now next time also I'll do 4 to 6 Sunday. Better for me also, I can sleep early, right? So understand that there is no problem if we don't look at everything as a problem. And everything is a problem. I could have gotten very irritated also that you should have checked with me, you know how busy my life is, don't try to surprise me, especially if it is me blocking my 5 hours. But I press the New Choice button. The old Riddhi would have snapped, but the new— you know, I would have told him that how can you just think that you can plan without discussing or whatever. But then the New Choice told me that look at the intention, he's trying to surprise you. Such a sweet thing he's trying to do for you on Mother's Day. Now if you tell him you can't change, that would be so mean. And I changed the time. So understand that there is no problem if you think there's no problem. So I allowed for it. So loosen your grip. Things you want, you will get, maybe not at the exact time you thought. So I'll give you an example. Supposing, you know, like, uh, when you're tying a knot or something, and when you're trying to open, open it, then if you pull it, then it becomes tighter, right? But if you loosen it and then you slowly open it, then you're able to, you know, open the knot. But sometimes when people are opening it, they're so much in a rush that they'll pull it and they'll make it even more tight. How many of you have done it? Put me in the chat box. Done that? Most of us have done it, right? Amazing, Sakshi. Yes, so gently work through life. All the knots in your life will begin to open. Relax, you're God's child. It has to happen for you, whatever you want, but don't be fixed on it has to happen like this only. That's the problem. I wanted to be— I wanted to help mothers. I had no idea how I'm going to help mothers. I was not saying that I want to help mothers like this only, then it means I would be very— and by this time only. I want to help mothers. God, you guide me. And you know, in between there was this very, uh, interesting opportunity that I was getting, and I was in the initial phases, right? And a very big institute, they were going to take me as their coach, and it would have made me a lot of revenue or whatever. And then something happened, and then that thing got delayed. And I was feeling for one day, not even one full day, for a few hours, I was feeling very disappointed, you know, because you worked so hard and they approached you and everything, and it was almost going to happen, and then it just didn't happen suddenly. So for a few hours, I was feeling very disappointed. And then, you know, for everything, I go back to my temple and I sat there and I was like, you know, I have come till this point. This also I had never imagined for myself. God has carried me so far, so he is only going to carry me beyond this point. And I sat there, and I swear I'm not making this up, I sat there and I sat before Krishna and I told him that I'm not going to try and do anything. You only decide what is good for me. If you think it should happen for me, let it happen. If you think it should not happen for me, don't let it happen. I'm going to leave this decision on you. And you will not believe, it didn't happen. And today when I look back, I feel so blessed that it didn't happen, because I would not be doing God-conscious parenting. Because if you're working with someone, you have to also follow what they have to say. Now I have full independence in the way I want to do things, the way I want to build what I want to communicate, what I don't want to communicate. They would not let me do the child calls which I'm doing now. They would not let me do Gita and all the Quran and all of that that we are doing in the morning. So when I look back, I feel so grateful that it didn't happen. So you know, sometimes in life what you think you missed is your biggest win. Because we feel we missed, but God knows what we don't need. He will only gently remove it. So shift from tightness to softness and just start to allow things to flow to you. You don't have to control everything. And allowing does not mean giving up. It does not mean like you're sitting and just not taking any action. Let my bed gaya, sab cheez aara hai mere paas. No, it means you're going to care for it. It's not like you're not caring. It just means you are trusting. So surrender does not mean giving up. Surrender means taking action with trust, with this understanding that I don't control everything. So I'm going to give you a small example. Supposing you plant a tree, you are giving it like whatever sunlight, water, and everything. Now if you go and stand there or you sit on the— sit next to it for every living waking minute of your life, you think it's going to grow faster? Of course not. It will grow at its own pace. Just like that, for you to grow in life, you don't have to be too hard on yourself or work too hard or control everything. You just have to be in alignment, which means what you think, you feel, you do, and you do it with faith in the Creator, faith in yourself, and you're not in a rush. Like, I have a goal that I want to reach a million mothers. Now tell me one thing, does it matter if I'm not able to reach a million mothers before I die? No. I have that goal. If it happens, great. If it doesn't happen, still okay. At least I've gotten closer to it. And I know one for sure, if I hit a million, I will turn it into a 10 million goal. And does it matter whether I get to a 10 million? No. But what matters is, am I getting closer to it every single day? Am I getting a— becoming a better person every single day? Is this making sense to all of you? So do not control the outcome. Create space for growth. That's where real growth will happen. And also one other thing, how many of you have noticed that when you tell somebody too many times, do this, do this, or very classic example that we have when husbands come back and you tell your husband, TV chodo, TV chodo, you don't care about me, you're always watching the TV, always watching the phone, do you think they change? They continue doing the same thing. They resist you more, in fact. Or if your husband is hanging out with his friends and not so much with you, or maybe you're thinking more with his friends and less with you, or all your plans are with the friends whatever, and you keep saying something something about that, you think they will stop? No. So when you are pushing too much or trying too hard, they resist you more. But when you relax, the resistance is less. They become more open. Because pushing anything will create pressure, whether it is a person in your life or a thing in your life or anything. And pressure will create resistance. So whenever you're pushing— and I have experienced this, you know, till 2024 I was working, I cannot tell you how much. No, there was no need for me to do that. Because I was trying to control, push. I had this belief that if I don't work hard, I'm not going to do well. I'm not going to— I'm not— I used to feel guilty. I'm not doing enough for the mission. And I was creating pressure in my own energy. And because I was creating pressure in my own energy, instead of getting the things I wanted, I was actually pushing them away. Not because there was a problem in my skill set, but the problem was my energy was constantly under pressure. But when you relax and when you surrender all pressure to the Divine, your energy is relaxed. And then things will just flow. I promise, 2025— I show up many times, but 2025 I have worked the least. I have traveled the most. I went to Dubai, I went to Phuket, I went to Chennai 3 times, I went to, uh, Vrindavan 3 times, I went, uh, to this thing, Ketchidam. So many places I went last year. Bangalore, Mumbai, Mumbai event we did, then we did the Goa retreat. So many things we did. You're going to have— that was— I'm just talking about 2025. I went to UK, Manchester, to watch a match with my son. So I did like 3 international trips. The Indian trips I don't even have a count of. And the weddings, plus the weddings in the family. And I did all these calls, barely missed any calls. I think 3 to 4 max, because even on my holidays I plan my calendar. So that my calls don't get disturbed. And I did my spiritual practices very consistently, which I was not doing earlier. Every— so it's not— it's only because I'm not putting pressure. All of you can do it. There's no, no superpower here. There's nothing unique or special because till 2024 I was not, I was not planning holidays, I was not planning trips. It's always like, why? Because there is no pressure that I'm taking. So, you know, when you enter that zone of letting go and surrendering all your pressure and just focusing on action, God will guide you. So do not— so write this: I choose not to create pressure in my own energy. Don't create pressure in your own energy. And allowing also means you stop checking constantly. Supposing I tell you that I'm going to send you a message. Now maybe I didn't tell you the time. I just told— will you keep like checking ki Riddhi ka message hai, Riddhi ka message hai? No, right? Jab aayega, pudhik jayega. Because then if you're only trying to control when will it come, when will you do the work? So this is what we try to do, you know, we are always trying to think, why is it not happening? Why did it not happen till now? When will it happen? And whenever you are thinking, though, thinking this, no, why did it not happen? When will it happen? You're creating a mindset of lack, as if something is missing in your life. And when you're in that mindset of lack, you cannot create abundance. If this is a bulb on, put be you. Always feel it is done. Consider it done. Sab hogya. Be in that energy and take action from that place. So think of everything you want to create as a past event, not as a future event. You want to be a coach? Think that you're already a coach and work from that space. You want to be whatever the CEO of your company that you're working in? Think that you're already the CEO and work like that. Don't think of yourself as a staff and then aim to be a CEO. It will not happen. You have to look at yourself as a CEO if you want to be a CEO. You have to think of yourself as a parenting coach. You cannot think of yourself that, "Mei nahi kar sakthi," and then you will become a parenting coach. Jobi, and start working like how you would have worked if you were already that person. So I'll give you an example that I used to do for myself. So supposing you're thinking that you want to be a millionaire. Now you're going and you want to buy an outfit that is worth 20,000. I think this is too much for me, but I'm a millionaire, it's not too much for me. Get it? You might think that you're stupid, you're being irrational, you're wasting your money. No, you're not wasting your money, you're redesigning your mind, your subconscious mind. The day I used to get my salary in my first job, and that time, you know, I didn't have so much money also. The first thing I would go, I would go and I would buy this whole dinner set and all because I love to eat like on good, uh, whatever plates and spoon and all has to be very nice. So that's something I first day of my salary, office, and I'm not a shopper, but why would I do that? Because I wanted to increase the way my lifestyle looked. Because I wanted to feel like a millionaire, and I was already feeling like one by creating these experiences for myself. I was not thinking, I used to save also. It's not like I'm spending all my salary, but when I'm spending, I'm not spending with a sticky mind or with worry or with tension. I'm spending like I'm a millionaire. What is 20,000 for me? For one dinner set. Is everybody understanding what I'm trying to share? You know, when sometimes you go to a 7-star or a 5-star hotel and you're paying ₹1,500 or ₹2,000 for a cup of coffee, some people feel, oh, kitna stupid hai, yaar, koi kiyo piya gaya chhoti hai, 4 chuppe mein milti hai, 10 chuppe mein coffee milti hai, bhi road pe bhi 10 pe nahi milta hai. You're not paying for— you're not paying for the coffee, you're paying for the mindset. And how many of you think that all of us can afford to pay ₹1,500 to create a— create the right mindset? So you have to start thinking like that, and then you will see the results. So, you know, you have to change the quality of your thoughts to change the quality of your life, because it cannot be that the quality of your thoughts is this and this is— it can never be this. You want this life, your thoughts have to be at this level. So do not negotiate with sabziwala and pulwala and Dude, right? And then the last thing: ease is the new power. Please write it. This was my biggest breakthrough. Ease is the new power. Everything that I'm sharing is from my personal experience, and that's why you will feel This is such an unconventional way of teaching Law of Attraction, but I promise if you follow this unconventional style, you will attract things in ways you cannot imagine, and you will feel good. Because this is what we— you know, a lot of people just teach us Law of Attraction means positive line. Negative energy, emotional state, communication, vibration, mindset Ye sare cheeze dire dire change karni hai. How many of you are already feeling different? Like, you know, we've been speaking for a little more than an hour. Put D for different in the chat box. Now imagine you just practicing this every day in your day-to-day life. You don't need any extra time for this. In fact, this is going to save you a lot of time. And that's why I'm telling all of you that every single one of you will make 1 crore a month if you follow the system. So confidently I tell you, or jo bhi follow kar raga, 10 years baad milenge. There's no rush, no. 5 to 10 years baad we will meet. And there's always the Pareto's principle, 80/20. 20% people will believe it and practice it. 80% will go back into their old zone. So you have to decide in which category you fall into. So 20% will definitely be in that 1 crore per month category, and then we'll go on a yacht. Then everybody can spend money. I'm just waiting that all of you make 1 crore a month and fir hum bahar ghumne jayein har saal. And some of you are already doing it. Yes. So understand, so the effort— effort does not equal success. Struggle is not necessary. Don't have to think that if something comes to you easily, it is not valuable. How many of you think that the gold membership came to you very easily? If you think it came to you easily, put easily. How many of you think it is valuable? Put V for valuable. You don't have to put effort, right? You just have to come for a 2-hour master class where I entertained you for 90 minutes and educated you for 90 minutes, and then you got it. So it was easy, but it was valuable. How many of you are in Platinum? Put P for Platinum. Some of you didn't come so easily, you had to work for it, but how many of you think it's valuable? Or even if you had to put little effort, it was worth it. So this is life, you know. We feel it's very difficult, complex, and all of that. Thank you so much for those of you writing good things, priceless and all. Feels good because total worth. Yeah, I think it's like, I don't know, Hindi, but I just want to say that I am very proud of it because I, I personally feel like total paisa was sur, or it's like the best investment a mother can make in herself. Because, you know, these days especially, you know, when I look at things outside, I just feel that it's so good. And that's why, you know, I'm so vocal about it, ki platinum lo. And I tell this to the super coaches also in our meetings with them, that, you know, if somebody has come to me in gold, we have to try our best to make them come to platinum. Why? Because if they go outside, they will never get this kind of value. They cannot get it because, you know, some people are teaching business, some people are teaching health, some people are teaching wealth. Some people are teaching spirituality, some people are teaching only relationship, some people are teaching only parenting. We are teaching all, and not just to you, to also your children. That is why more than you, I am more excited to bring you in, because I know that, you know, this is what my coach tells me, that it is our responsibility to bring our students to a level which is better than us. And I feel my Platinum has that potential. If you follow that process, you can do better than I'm doing. I've literally given you more than what I have learned from my mentors. I've also infused my own personal life experiences into it. So things don't have to be very difficult. They can just be, you know, just like flowing water. When water flows It's not finding it difficult to flow, right? It just flows everywhere, it reaches everywhere. Now what happens to blocked water? It becomes stagnant, it is unpleasant, it stinks, it smells. Why? Because that blocked water is being controlled. So just like that, your life— when you will control, your life will feel very irritating, frustrating. You'll feel angry, you'll feel helpless, you'll feel unfulfilled when you're trying to control it. But when you're just flowing every minute, every second— I'm happy, I'm happy, I have enough— instantly, instantly you can, you know, make yourself feel better. When things are not going good— thank you, God, thank you, God, thank you, God, this is your plan, I accept it. Thank you, God, this is your plan. I accept it. Now you tell me what's next. You tell me what's next. Don't get into that low zone. Something is not working, accept it and ask God, what, what's next? You tell me. And you see how many new ideas will start coming in your head. So every time a problem happens, that problem is here to prepare you, not to punish you. Anytime you— I have seen a quantum jump in my life, it has only happened after 1 or 2 months of me feeling completely lost and low. And why does that— why does God do that to you? Not because he doesn't love you, but because he's preparing you to handle the new blessings. Supposing, you know, we do weightlifting, you can lift 5 kgs, but for 10 kg lifting you have to work harder and you have to prepare yourself to be able to lift, like you have to practice more. To be able— just like that, blessings, you will not be able to carry the extra blessings if you have not been prepared. And that preparation phase will be very challenging, but if you can pass through that challenging phase, then the new blessing will land on your palm and you'll be able to carry it. But most people quit in the challenging phase, and that's how God is seeing whether you're ready for that blessing. If you quit, then you were not ready. And if you go through it despite of the crying, despite of low energy, despite of feeling, I don't know what is happening, kuch nahi chal raha, kuch bhi nahi work hora. There have been, you know, in the last whatever number of years, so many times things have stopped, things have stopped working, money is getting wasted. Kuch nahi chal raha, but I didn't stop. And even now, so many days we run ads, some WhatsApp link will get disturbed, something will happen, but you can't stop because that is God's way of preparing you, not punishing you. Not— God is not never trying to make you feel low or bad. So how many of you want bigger blessings? Put BB in the chat box. Then do not stop feeling happy even in the difficult times. Smile. Tell yourself, I'm breathing, I'm eating, I'm wearing good clothes, I'm talking, I'm sleeping. Everything is there. Life is good. This has come, this will go. New things will come, that will also go. And when you be— when you are like that, when you can earn God's trust that no matter what, this girl will show up, then God can trust you with bigger blessings. Like, you know, some of us have that old employee in the office, we can trust them with anything. You can trust them with your bank account also and everything, old employees. Why do you trust them so much? Because they have showed up. Every time they show up, for 10, 15, 20 years they are showing up. Just like that, you keep showing up for God despite of whatever is happening in your life, and then God will keep sending bigger blessings and bigger responsibilities your way. So now we will do an activity. All of you got your rubber band? Yes? Let me also get mine. So sorry, I just forgot to get mine, but it's okay. So I'm just going to pretend that I have one because I don't want to waste time. So you just have to pull the rubber band, okay? Just pull it, pull it, pull it, pull it. Some of you don't have it, you can also pretend, okay? Right, but if you pull it, only then will you feel the activity properly. So when you pull the rubber band, what is happening? You're trying— and I'm giving you these physical anchors— you're trying to control everything. You're forcing things to happen. You're pulling, pulling, pulling. You're feeling tight. Your life is feeling stretched. Now if you keep holding this stretched rubber band for a few more seconds, you cannot be in this position comfortably for too long. It takes effort. After a point, it will become exhausting. Now slowly, I want you to release the rubber band and allow the rubber band to come back to its natural state. Now understand, now that the rubber band has come back to its natural state, do you still have the rubber band? Yes. So this rubber band is what you want. This symbolizes what you want. When you're stretching it, you have what you want, but with a lot of pressure and effort, when you're trying to control it. When you release it, when you let go and you put it, you still have what you want, but you have it, it with a lot of ease. There's no pressure. So now you have to decide whether what you want, you want to create with a lot of effort, stretch, anger, irritation, frustration, or you want to create it with ease. So anytime you're stretching or forcing the timeline or feeling You have to think that you're like, uh, you're stretching your wants like that rubber band. For how many of you this is a simple but a very powerful example? Put S for simple. Simple but powerful. And some of us stretch it so much that the rubber band breaks, snaps. And what happens when it snaps? You get into a mode of depression. You think that maini kar sakthi, mere liye nahi hai. You quit. You feel anxiety, you feel anxious. You start doubting yourself, you give up on your dreams. So don't quit, don't pull so hard that you're not able to manage what you want, that you finally— what you want breaks and it leaves you. And that's why, you know, and I'm telling you, if you do things with ease, you will create quicker results. Because it is not about effort, it is about alignment. Please write this line: it is not about effort, it is about alignment. And that is why some people like Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, Oprah Winfrey, Tony Robbins, Jack Canfield They are not working like donkeys. They are working with alignment. So it's not about effort, it is about alignment. If you are off alignment, even if you're putting in a lot of effort, your efforts will create no result. But if you're putting less effort but you're aligned That little bit of effort will create a lot of results. How many of you are feeling relaxed? Put R for relaxed. You want to hang out with the right people, you want to keep learning. Get a PhD in, you know, whatever, you know, do more of parenting. How many of you would love to learn more of these things? Not just because you want to become a professional coach, but just for yourself also. These are things you can talk about to your friends also. Your husband, your family, there'll be something to talk about. Otherwise there's nothing to talk about. If you're not learning. You know, I learned— like, I, I read stories and I keep watching these, uh, things and learning from my mentors. So whenever I meet people, I can tell them a new story. And once you tell somebody a new story, they can never forget you. They can forget your name, but they can't forget the story you told them. So, can you please— my company does not pay regularly. Yeah, so you can change that. Again, change your thoughts. Maybe you want a better job. Maybe you are feeling scared to leave this because you don't think that you deserve better. But maybe you deserve better. So it's not about the effort, it's about the alignment. Now we have 28 minutes. Now my heartbeat— now I have to keep my alignment on. One second, one second. Yes, but don't worry, we have one more concept. I'll manage. Yes, so now Let me share the screen. You can take a screenshot. The Law of Allowing, which means everything is coming to me easily and effortlessly. This is my favorite affirmation also. I'm God's favorite child and everything is flowing to me easily and effortlessly. Ease is the new power. Done. Yes, now the third. Just one second. Yeah, this one is called becoming the version who already has it. So real transformation will not happen by you just changing what you do. It will happen when you change who you are becoming. There's a difference between who you are and what you do. I'll give you an example. So maybe I'm doing a lot of things for my house, like I'm cleaning the home or I'm cooking food and I'm doing all of that, but inside I'm irritated. Kannaa patta hai, itna kuch kannaa patta hai, mujhe akele se naa patta hai. Can you see the difference? Maybe you're going to work, you're doing all the work, you're going to office, you're turning in all your assignment, all the time like what is 'What an irritating project this is. What an irritating manager. So annoying.' So that's the difference between who you are and what you do. So it's not about what you do. The universe is not watching that. It's watching who you are becoming, how you're thinking about what you're doing, how you're feeling when you're doing that activity. If this is a Balbon Put Bho, so you should have no arrogance for the things you do. You should focus on how you are feeling about what you do. It doesn't matter even if you're doing 100,000 things, but if you're doing those 100,000 things with an irritated energy or this energy of I'm the one who takes care of everything and nobody does anything, then it's not getting counted because your life is not responding to your efforts alone. It is respond— okay, write this line: your life does not respond to your effort, it responds to your identity. Your life does not respond to your effort, it responds. Okay, the next time we will do one dedicated boot camp on alignment. Okay, a lot of you are asking, so maybe instead of Law of Attraction, we will do how to align yourself, something like that. Super Coaches, please make a note of this. It's very easy. All right, so every single day, your focus, you know, and this is my definition of success for myself. My definition of success is not that when I become a millionaire or a billionaire, or when I've helped so many people. That is, these are my intentions, that I want to serve people, I want to serve mothers. EPH is the biggest community in the world, I'm the best parenting coach in the universe. All of that, those are my intentions, right? My pure desires. But what is my definition of success? My definition of success is my version today must be better than my version yesterday. If I feel that I'm becoming a better person today, that I'm happy with. But if in 2030, Riddhi in 2030 is the same as Riddhi in 2026, then I have failed. I want to grow and I want to become a better version of myself. And becoming a better version of myself doesn't mean that I want to change myself, but I want to reveal who I am. So you know, when we learn, we are not fixing or changing, we are revealing our real identity to ourselves, because most of us don't even know who we are. If this is a bulb on, put BO in the chat box. This is very important. It's not about transformation, it is more about revelation. You have to reveal to yourself what your true identity is. So now I want you to become the version who already has it, which means you are— I already shared this with you briefly— which means you are not thinking of your goal as some distant thing. You're thinking of it as something that you already possess, that you already have. And when you create that energy, you are not chasing anything. And if you're not chasing, you're not rushing. If you're not chasing, rushing, then you're in peace. And it is in that energy of peace that you attract things into your life. How do I realize my true identity? In one line, all of us are part and parcels of God. That's our true identity. But all of us have been designed with a specific purpose. God has a purpose for us, and that's why we are here to fulfill that purpose. And also understand one thing: you cannot identify your purpose by just sitting on your chair. What is the purpose of my life? It's like purpose is like your boyfriend. You can't sit at home and attract a boyfriend. You have to step out and meet people, or at least enter social media. But you cannot just be sitting on your chair and thinking, okay, I want to hang out. I'm just saying, like, we are mothers, but before you were married, before you were married, so if you wanted a boyfriend, you have to go to college, you have to go to school, you have to go for some activity, or you have to, you know, hang out on Facebook and Orkut and all of that that we have had in our times. High five, and then you can attract somebody. Just like that, your purpose is like that. You cannot just sit on your channel like, mujhe mera purpose kya hai, mujhe pata karna hai. You have to be in motion. You keep doing things, random things. Who's writing naughty? Seriously, I was the most siddha girl, by the way. I know about all these things, but of course Yes, so we used to do very weird things. We used to like prank call all the, you know, so we— I'm just, I don't know if I should. Okay, let me share it now that it's coming. So we— I was in an all-girls school and opposite our school was all boys, right? And there was a road in between. And you know how some— and I went to like a school where people were known to be spoiled and rich and use wrong language and everything. But thanks to my mom's parenting, we were very good kids. But, uh, so we— there were some, you know, rich boys who were very like showy, show-off kind of boys who were very arrogant about the money they had. And they would like literally, you know, they would like— you could feel it that they're trying to show off. So we used to prank call them and we used to say, driver, and we used to say, I'm standing here, why is the car not here? Right now, go and get the car. Excuse me, excuse me. Yeah, it used to be really funny. So we used to do all those things. So that kind of naughty things I would do with my friends, but not more than that. But, but it used to be so much fun. Yes, and we would sometimes tell them that Come to the gate, and all those things we used to do. Yeah, so now understand that if you feel constantly rushed, you'll not be able to create. So I'm going to give you a very simple idea about identity. So imagine a tree. Your identity is the root, and whatever you want is the leaf and the branch. I love trees and seeds. Everything I can relate, all my examples I can explain through a seed and a tree, I think. So understand this, that yeah, you can do a prank to your husband, no, with some other number. Now you can't do it in other boys, but you can prank your husband. Okay, so you can, uh, put seed— uh, sorry, if your, your root, the root of a tree is the identity, is your identity, and whatever you want is like leaves and branches and all of that. So tell me one thing, if the root is not good, will you— will the trees and leaves and branches, all of that, be good? Yes or no? So if your identity, which means who you are on the inside, is not calm, relaxed, peaceful, loving, easy, then what you want will never grow. But in case if your inside is all— your root is like full distorted, like jealousy, competition, rush, low self-esteem, doubt, fear, This is your identity, and that's the nature of the root. Can that tree hold beautiful fruits and flowers? Because the root itself is very weak. So strengthen your identity, and that's why I say learn from God-conscious parenting. Conventional parenting cannot strengthen your root. How many of you feel that? Those of you are coming for Quran classes and sankirtan and Gurbani and Bhaktambar, up to sapko chode hai, ya mera, woh route usse ya mera consciousness shift hota hai. So I have understood this after doing this work for almost 10 years now, learning for 10 years. Conventional parenting can create awareness. God-conscious parenting will allow you to implement, because only then will you have the energy, the mindset, the heart set, the soul set to implement. And this has been my experience. So only learning about How to talk to your child will not be enough unless you're not in that energy to speak to your child like that. You know the techniques, ki mujhe aise karna hai, but aap aise kaise karo ki jab aap ander mein pure disoriented ho. And that's why, you know, when these two come to— and also just being good inside will not help if you don't know the skills. I'm a good human being, but I don't know how to cook, then I can't prepare a meal. Just like that, if I'm a good person but I don't know the techniques of parenting, then I cannot parent my child. So we need both. So put B for both in the chat box. Both are important. And I just want to thank God, Krishna, Radharani. And now I call God Krishna, Radharani. You can call whatever you want— Jesus, Allah, Christ. But I just want to say that we are very blessed that we are getting both. How many of you feel that? If you feel it, put feel. Also, some of us, we keep procrastinating and we saying, I will do it tomorrow, I will not react from tomorrow. So understand, this tomorrow, tomorrow thing happens when it is about doing. Your identity is permanent, your behavior is temporary. Write this: your behavior is temporary, your identity is permanent. Like, you know, when the root— root is permanent. No, some trees you will see, the flowers will be seasonal. Kabhi flowers aayega summers mein, winters mein nahi aayega, but woh paid toh khada hai na, aapka pure saal. So do not try to fix your behavior. If you try to fix your behavior, you have to keep working again and again. It's like you're going on trying to change the fruit. You can't change the fruit till you don't change the root. And the only way to change your identity is to make better choices. Better choices. Like some of you mentioned that I cancelled a plan to be on this call. Who put that? Put me in the chat box if somebody, you know, some somebody said no, I cancelled some plan to be on this call. Nupur Chaudhary, Swati Tiagi. Divya Aurora. This is what it means to make better choices. Your identity— you could have been on that other plan, so many of you. Praji Goel, I am in a movie listening to you. So cute. Seriously. Yes, so this is how your identity will shift. It's not like some dhamaal in one day a series of small, small better choices. You chose to show up for the masterclass. You chose to become a Gold Mother. Some of you, in fact now most of you, are in Platinum. So you chose that. When you come to Platinum, some of you come only for your children, then you choose to help. Can all of you understand how your life is happening, how your identity is shifting? It did not shift on one, one thing, that you just did one thing and it shifted. You made a better choice again and again and again and again. And that's what I have been doing for the last 10 years. I'm just choosing better things. I'm canceling all the irrelevant plans. I'm showing up for less time. I'm not going till morning, till 4 AM in the morning, which I used to earlier because I didn't have anything better to look forward to. But now I don't hang in any party till 4 in the morning because I have Sankirtan in the morning. I made a choice. If I plant that, then I don't have an option to stay till 4. So I made that conscious choice. Can all of you understand what I'm trying to share? Small, small, small, small, small choices. Choice to stay calm, choice to not react, choice to choose, choice to learn from a mentor, choice to grow yourself, choice to show up, choice to take action, choice to follow the good student checklist, choice to connect with each other, choice to connect with your super coach. So it's not a difficult life. It's, you know, it's like you casting a vote every day. So every day you have to think, am I casting a vote for the person I want to become, or the person I am becoming, or you're casting a vote in the different direction? It's up to you. And when you become that person, life will change. How? Imagine you go to a stinky room, but you're wearing good perfume. Good example, no? The room is stinky, but you're wearing good perfume. You will not feel the smell. So you have to make yourself like that, that you are the one throwing smell and throwing light rather than depending on them to give you light. So your environment can be the same, they can be— it can be smelly, it can be stinky, it can be irritating, it can be whatever it is, But if you are throwing light, how does it matter? If you are throwing good smell, how— if you're wearing good smell, how does it matter what people are saying to you? So you have to become the source of that aroma that you want in your life, the light that you want. All the darkness in your life will go away Not by switching the light bulb on and off it will go away, but when you remove the ignorance within and you enlighten yourself from within by learning, that's the only process, Adhyatma Gyan. So how many of you are going to be that? So everything in your life will change, not because the world changed, but because you changed. Because now you're no longer chasing outcomes, you have become that energy. And I just want to say one thing after reading the Bhagavad Gita and the other books that I'm reading in the morning with the Sankirtan group. This is my realization that, you know, we are— we were never trying to change our lives. We were only trying to return to a more aligned version of ourselves. We were always good. We were always calm. We had just become something in between. How many of you can feel this, that you were— because if you were— yeah, we were just lost and we had forgotten our true selves and we had forgotten who we really are. And now we are just trying to return to that aligned version of ourselves. The real you. So nothing in you needs to change. You just need to remember who you truly are. How many of you feel that takes off a lot of pressure? So, you know, it's just about accepting first that I'm already very nice. Because if you were not nice, you would not be here, because you know your vibe attracts your tribe, and I choose to believe I'm very nice. Okay, so I just want to tell you one thing, that if you are here, I want to tell you that you already have a beautiful soul, otherwise you would not have made your way till this room for sure. So, you know, don't tell people, some people, you have to change yourself. No, you just have to remember who you are, your true power, the true place that you belong to. And when you remember that, you live in that power and you serve. You serve from that space, not from a space of lack but from a space of abundance. Now you guys only tell me, for 699 gold membership that you've given, if I start doing hisab of how much value I should give you for 699, you think I can give you this much? Or rationally, does it make logical sense? Yes or no? No, right? But I'm not thinking from a space of From a space of lack. No, I'm just saying I'm God's daughter. Then again, you're creating that scarcity mindset. I'm sharing this because, you know, I'm in a mastermind and some coaches think like that. I'm not going to take their names, of course, but they think like that, why to give so much in gold, then who will come to platinum? A lot of people say this, ki gold mein nahin dekhenge toh platinum mein kyu ainge? Mata hai, but this because you are thinking, kapko baat kuch mil gaya, I'm not going to stop giving more in platinum also and gold also. Is this making sense? Why am I sharing this? Because a lot of you here are going to become coaches. And how many of you think I give way more in Platinum? Put more with a lot of E. Way, way, way more. So why am I— so there is no lack of value to give. And if this is helping you, that will also help you a lot more, and that will also help you to help a lot more. So never in life do that hisaab kitab. Yesterday only I was watching this video by Napoleon Hill. I'll see if I can find the link and share it with you guys. It's a very long audio, but in between there's this whole segment where it's very clearly he was mentioning this only. That some people, they don't grow because they're always thinking about jitna, like, you know, giving this much, taking this much, giving this much, taking this much. But if, you know, if you can actually give more than you take, then life will bless you. God will bless you. And I can feel that blessing in my life. So all of us have to operate with this energy. We are God's child, we are abundant. I already have everything I want. I don't have to chase anything, I just have to allow. I have to allow by being in the right energy and not creating pressure. Now there's a small homework. How many of you did your homework from yesterday, by the way? If you did your homework, put me in the chat box or slide I have 3 minutes. 5 minutes I can make my husband wait. One sec, one second. This slide you can take a screenshot. Yes, let me open the homework. Yeah, so you'll have a homework like this. Again, same, you— it's— this one is called the identity shift. Challenge. So you have to just answer A, B, C, D. You pick your responses, then you give yourself scores, and then you will get to know what is the result of your score. And there are simple reflection questions. Please make sure you do this. And at the end, there's this Platinum Interest Form. So those of you are Gold Mothers, you can also fill this form and connect with your super coaches, right? So they'll tell you a little more about the Platinum, where you can actually get certified and do this work And it's not like you— when you come to Platinum, you have to give more time. Same time, better results, right? Because our interactions are of different quality. So let me— so if you're going to do your homework for day 2, put yes in the chat box, that yes, I will do it. So before and as we close Day 2, I just want to say one thing. I want you to reflect on not just what you have learned, but on what you have experienced. It's not so much about the screenshots and the, the slide screen. How many of you realize that you'll never ever go back to the screenshots? If you realize it, put R for realize. We take it in a lot of excitement but we never really go back and see them. I know it because I'm also like you guys, right? Taking screenshots, timing, you have no idea where is it. So it's not about the, you know, points. You don't have to remember it, but what you felt is what you experienced, that feeling you want to keep. So, you know, day 1 was all about law of attraction is always working, your thoughts, your emotions, your energy. Is shaping your reality. And we understood that we can attract what we consistently feel, not what we want. And day 2, today we went deeper. I gave you some ways of actually thinking and doing things, making small choices, not trying to control too much, letting go, working on your identity, not so much trying to fix your behavior, accepting that you're already amazing. You're returning to who you are, and there's no— you know, you don't have to force things, you just have to allow for them. So now you stand at this powerful point of choice in your life, whether you're going to choose that old pattern or you're going to use the new choices to create your life. Because awareness alone is not enough. Now you want to be consistent and take small, small steps so that you do not fall back into those old patterns. And that's why I always recommend that you keep in touch with each other. So make a decision that says that I'm ready to grow, I'm ready to think differently. It doesn't matter how my environment is, how people are. It doesn't matter as long as I'm smelling good, I'm shining from within. That's what matters. So you don't have to have everything figured out. You just have to be willing enough to take the next step. So I just want you to— we are going to do this exercise together because it's coming to me. So I'm going to play some music for the next 2 to 3 minutes, and I want you to close your eyes, and I want you to chant the mantra that you connect with. This chanting is a very, very, very, very powerful. So maybe, you know, Bhai Guru ka mantra, ya jo bhi apka Islam mein mantra hota hai. All of us have a chant, right? If all of you have a chant, put yes in the chat box. Some of us have been chanting, some of you have not been chanting God's name. It's just coming to me, I don't know why. Yeah, yes, all of us have, right? So whatever you got from your Guruji Mohini 2.0, don't have a chant, then you do my chant, Radha Shri Radha. I can only give you my chant there, right? So those of you who have from your Guruji and from your faith, whatever chant you have, you do. And those of you who don't have a chant, you can borrow my chant for today and later figure out if it resonates with you. So yes, you can do whatever you feel comfortable with. And I'm going to play some music and we're going to do this together. I want you to actually say it aloud, not in your heart. I want you to say it aloud. Close your eyes, stay— say it aloud and feel that God in your heart. You will feel the power. And if you feel like crying when you do that, it's mainly basically you're connecting with your God after very long. Okay, so I'm going to play music. And please, let's begin. Close your eyes, everybody. Do it, don't leave the call at this moment. This is your chance to connect with God. Close your eyes and let's begin. Do it loudly so that you can hear your voice. Sorry, it's on mute. Alright, I have to stop now because I don't want to make it How did you feel in the chat? Good, right? Calm, lovely, calm, great, goosebumps, good, grounded. Please do this every day. You don't have to do it with music, you can do it without the music also, but just do it every day. Yes, it's going to make you feel so good. And now I wanted to do this together in group because when we chant together the power. You got tears, very good. Some of you are saying good tears, emotional tears, full of surrender. Love that. Yes, so make sure you keep doing this, and of course also follow the principles that we learned. And with that, we come to the end. Uh, super coaches, if you can put this link— okay, I'll only put it. Aisha has shared it. Thank you, Aisha. So all the Gold Mothers, you can fill this out and then your super coaches will connect with you for the next steps. And before I close, I just want to thank all of you for being such good students and staying till the end. And thank you, special thanks to all of you who canceled your plan to be here. It means a lot to me. I hope I was able to make— I hope this was time well spent. And now let me activate the attendance, and you'll be able to mark your homework on the central.easyparentinghub link. So please make sure you also mark your homework. Do it and then you mark it as complete. Also, Platinum Mothers, today we launched the Super Child and Super Teen missions for your kids, and they, they have understood everything. So please make sure, especially the mothers with small kids, make sure that you go to your app later and you'll be able to see what the mission activities are. So you can get your kids to do those activities. And just like you mark for yourself, you have to mark for your child. The only difference is when you're marking for your child, you have to mark— you have to enter your child's name, email ID— sorry, not email ID— your child's name and city and age, because we'll be giving them certificates for finishing their mission. And if you have 2 children, then after you enter details for one, there's an option that you will get for add child. So you can add the details of your second child or third child, as many children as you have. So I want all of you to just make sure, because they'll be doing it through your app only. I was first thinking of creating a separate app for the kids, but I thought it's better if you also watch it, so I kept it on the same platform. I didn't want to do multiple links. So in the same central.easy parenting hub, when you get into your mission zone, you'll see a different zone which will be called child zone. So in child zone, you will see missions for young kids 0 to 9 and, uh, mission for, uh, teens which is 10 and above, because 10 and above now I consider as teens. So 10 and above, so they have different activities they have to do. And so once they are done, you just have to mark it on the app. Awesome. So thank you so much, everybody. Love you, love you, love you. Take care and have a wonderful Sunday evening. And also wanted to say, tomorrow I will see you for Q&A. Okay, so next week is our growth week. So all the new mothers here, every month once a week we have a growth week. The week starts from this Saturday, actually the boot camp. Saturday till next Sunday. So one whole week is growth week. This should be your main focus every month, the growth week. You should not miss, right? It will always be mid-month, the growth week. So this is how I've designed it so that none of you miss the growth week. And one week of good learning every month can change so many things in your life. So, and it's not going to be like all day, it's just going to be like today, 2, 2 hours. How many of you think this is Simple, 2 hours, simple, right? So just this you have to do is just come and watch your movie and listen to good, good things, and your life will keep changing without you even realizing how it's changing. So amazing, thank you so much, love you, and I will send you pictures from Veer Das if we are allowed. I'm not sure, I think they'll take the phone away, but if in case we are able to keep the phone, then I'll send you pictures. Bye. Okay, I'm keeping the chat open because some of you are filling out the form. After some time, the call will drop on its own.