Lost One Twin After 6 Days, The Other Was in NICU for 58 Days | Supermom Spot Isha | Riddhi Deorah

Since childhood, I was a very fun-loving, free-minded person. I loved to help others. We are 2 sisters, and people used to say to my parents, you don't have a son. And I used to say, And my father proudly said, these girls are my everything. And this one sentence gave me strength. It made me feel valuable. It made me feel enough. And life goes ahead. I completed my studies and got married. I got married to a very loving husband. I truly say, He is one of the God's biggest blessings in my life. I came from a nuclear family and got married into a big joint family. 4 generations living together under one roof. I was very happy. The early four months of my marriage was the happiest month of my life, and then I got pregnant. I was on cloud nine, but life has decided something else for me. I got miscarriage at the age at the month of six months. Something felt me so hard that day, and that time I didn't even knew the meaning of miscarriage when it happened to me. And that was the deepest, deepest phase of my life, deepest, darkest phase of my life. I used to cry. I was not feeling like myself. My family was with me, but I felt empty from inside. But now I am learning, and when I look back, I realize that time I was in depression. And then, somewhere deep inside, I was always wished for twins. कहते हैं दिन में सरस्वती बैठती है एक बार जवान पर। I was always. So, I again got pregnant, and when I got my first sonography report, I get to know it's twins. But now I am learning, and when I look back, I realize I have manifested for twins. That time I didn't even knew that I have manifested. I was very happy, but again life has different plans for me. My water bag leaked before completing of 7 months at home. I went to doctor in Rewari. They refer me to Gurgaon. Labor pain started and I went hospital after an hour. And when I reach hospital, within 5 to 7 months, I deliver 2 baby boys. But Again, something happened to me. I lost my one child after six days, and second was in NICU for 58 days. And I went daily go from Rewadi to Gurgaon for 58 days. I didn't even rest for a week. And when my son was of six months, COVID happened. As you know, I came from a joint family, so no house help. As a daughter-in-law, I have to be in the kitchen. I have to do other household chores, and I have given phone to my son. And as a newly parent, I didn't aware that much the side effects. But at the age of 1.8, I found something unusual. But as you say, ये तो होता है ये कोई नहीं ठीक है आपको लग रहा है ऐसा? It's he is totally okay. But at the age of 2.3, I consulted with one doctor and she diagnosed he is autistic. And that time, I didn't even know the meaning of autism. I googled it and cried for the whole night. And next morning, I consulted with the other doctor, and she diagnosed he is totally okay. He is not autistic, but he has some delays. And she suggested me the therapies. Then again. New phase of life started from Rewadi to Gurgaon. For almost, I think more than a year, I did therapies daily again. In all of these things, I was emotionally shattered, physically exhausted, and mentally drained. And one day, while scrolling Facebook, I saw an ad of Riddhi ma'am, and something inside me, inside her energy, I found genuine and peaceful. And I called my husband, "Can I invest five thousand rupees on myself?" That day I didn't even courage कि मैं invest कर पाऊँ five thousand. I asked, I asked my husband, "Can I invest five thousand rupees on myself?" And in one go, he said, yes, if you want, you can. Earlier, I was a very irritated, short-tempered mother, emotionally drained all the time. In all the therapy sessions, household chores, I was totally drained all the time. But at the day I joined the EPH, slowly something started in my life. I have learned how to do the things in that way. I got the courage that day, and within 20 days, I took the platinum. And on that day, I didn't even ask my husband, and I paid ₹35,000 on the same day until when he came back to the home. And I have invested all my savings, whatever I have, for taking the Platinum. After joining the EPH, I changed my mindset. Earlier, I used to struggle. I used to say— I, uh, you can say I used to control with the anger. But now I just say the things very calmly, more confidently. To everyone. These things I have changed— more confident, more positive. And something started me has changed on that day. And then I took the leadership, and later I became the Super Coach graduate. This journey transformed me. Really transformed me, and for someone who is totally broken from inside, this means a lot. After becoming a super coach graduate and in the my leadership journey, I again got pregnant. And when I was super coach, I blessed with a baby girl, and this. And this time too, I had the preterm delivery. My daughter was in NICU for 40 days. But this time things were different because I was different. Earlier. And NICU staff told me, I have never seen a courageous and confident mother like you. And I said, now I am learning and I know how to manage my emotions. And that moment I realized How much I have changed. This was a great thing, and even practicing this, these lines, I have just recite these lines to my husband, and he also appreciating that because I have gone through my journey. He was with me all the time, but I have started from where I begin, and He was appreciating me for that, that what I have did. Even even he didn't realize what I have did for the family, for my kids, for you. And yesterday only he has told me this: Every mother, every mother should deserves a place like EPH because yes, cat. Because we are carrying so many emotions inside us, and nobody asks how are we feeling. So EPH give me this space—a place without judgment, a place where mothers are healing, where mothers are growing. And supporting each other. Now I can't imagine my life without EPH. Every live call, every boot camp, every connection with mother gives me energy. My major breakthrough: I have learned prioritizing myself without a guilt. Earlier I was used to, but now I have to prioritize myself. I have learned emotionally balance. My relationship improved, my confidence improved, and moreover it, my whole life has expanding beautifully. After joining EPH, I also have started my freelancing work at home, and by God's grace, I have earned more than 7 lakhs within 1.5 years. And it's not all about money. It's a proof, when a mother starts healing, the whole family starts changing. And I have learned one thing during this journey. Emotionally exhausted mothers just not need, just not need judgment. They need support. They need encouragement. They need someone who help them bring their lives back. So Riddhi ma'am is one of. And in the end, I want to share three things I loved about Riddhi ma'am. First one is the way she gives hope to the emotionally exhausted mothers through her words. Through her lines, through her energy, they feel like yeah, we have someone who acknowledge them. They feel maybe my life can change too. Maybe my life can change too because after listening these stories, maybe my life can change too and I am. One of them. Second, her simplicity. Not in the way she teaches. She has the beautiful ability to explain even the deepest concept in a simple and practical way that that stays with us forever. This is a big thing. And the third one is the way she helps emotionally exhausted mothers and helps them to recover them. She does not just teaching parenting, she helps mother to rebuild confidence, self-worth, and emotional strength. And this is beyond— this is far beyond parenting. Thank you so much, Riddhi ma'am, for— thank you so much, Riddhi ma'am. Thank you so much, Riddhi ma'am, for helping me. Thank you so— thank you so much, Riddhi ma'am, for helping me and making me feel proud of myself first. And thank you so much for making me emotionally stronger, a calmer mother, and a better person. And today, when I look myself into the mirror, I no longer see a woman. Who lost by life. I see a woman who choose healing. I see a mother who learned from her struggles, and these things I can give it to. This is the biggest gift I can give it to my childrens. Thank you so much, Riddhi. Riddhi ma'am, you are like an angel in all of us' lives. Thank you. Yes.

Wow. Wow, what a story! Yes, how many of you feel— yeah, please. Yes, takes a lot of courage. 3 difficult pregnancies. I think one is enough to, like, you know, to take a lot of energy out of you. 3, and, um, yes. I just want to say that how many of you feel that there is a lot in us We just have to start acknowledging all those things that are in us. If you can feel that, shout out yes. Yes. So very, very powerful story and glad you practiced it with your husband. I also get some points, no? So yes, but I just want to say that, you know, one last line that she mentioned was my biggest takeaway. Thank you for not letting me come. Miss Ojata, that last line, because I think what she mentioned, that this confident, courageous mother is the best gift I can give to my child, I can give to my children. So all the time we are thinking, I want to give gold to my daughter when she gets married, I want to give This jewelry, this piece of land, this FD, this insurance, this mutual fund. But how many of you understand that none of that matters if you are not making them feel confident? And if you can give that gift of confidence to your child, even if you give nothing, they will still build it, right? So And for that, you know, we cannot give something that we don't have. We can only give something that we have. So we have to first create it for ourselves. We have to first make it possible for ourselves. I know that Hindi line that I keep sharing, you know, which you must have heard. I'm going to repeat this, which I learned from my mom, and, uh, is exactly what you mentioned. Yes. पूत तो क्या धन संचय पूत सपूत तो क्या धन संचय करेक्ट पूत सपूत तो क्या धन संचय पूत कपूत तो क्या धन संचय which means if you've not given the right values to your child even if you give hundred crores to them they will finish it in no time and पूत सपूत if you've given them the right values then you don't have to worry about giving them anything else They will create everything. They'll, uh, you know, they'll take care of themselves and they'll also take care of us. So focus on the main thing because your child is your real asset.

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So don't get lost in everything that you forget about the main thing. So thank you so much, Isha, for reminding us about the main thing. Amazing. Let's have a huge round of applause for Isha.