My Journey Towards True Spirituality | Supermom Spotlight Timcy| Riddhi Deorah

Hi, good evening, ma'am.

Good evening, Timzy.

So you let me know when you want me to share, okay? Okay. Uh, good evening, all the mothers. Uh, thank you so much, ma'am. Thank you, all the mothers. If I just, uh, get emotional, I'm really sorry. Um, yes, ma'am, uh, the Title I have given for my story is like, you know, Journey Towards True Spirituality, because I've faced certain challenges. First, I'll just introduce myself that I'm a homemaker and I'm a mother of a 12-year-old boy. And, uh, yeah, the title, uh, Journey Towards True Spirituality is because I've faced certain challenges in my life after my wedding and, uh, not much people know, but maybe a few mothers have heard this, that I have faced black magic in my life, which was really bad. And I want to share with mothers because there are a lot of mothers who are facing this, you know. I, I came for the Goa event and we conversed, and it's happening these days, you know, that people are choosing different, uh, methods to get what they want. If there is God, there is evil too. So, you know, it's just what we choose for ourselves. And, uh, so I, I learned this after I lost my dad's physical presence and what I went through, the black magic. The only way to get out of your sorrows or, you know, whatever I was going through was spirituality. So I have a guru in my life and, uh, you know, I, I started worshiping him and I started listening to a lot of Gurbani and, uh This is how I could really come out of that, you know, going to my Guruji's temple, listening to his Shabad, going for Langar. So I just got this that it's only my Guru, my God, who can save me, nothing else in the world. Because I tried different things, nothing helped, nothing helped. And why it's true spirituality for me after joining EPH, because I was a lost mother when I joined EPH because I was hitting my child a lot, I was getting very angry. He was playing a lot of video games, and a video game called Roblox, he was playing that a lot. And I was shouting, there was a lot of chaos in the house. Before, I had a very beautiful relationship with my son, but as he was getting older, he was, you know, getting— he was facing a lot of bullying in his school, and he was also playing a lot of video games. So the only conversation in the house was, I want Robux, I want to play video games, my friends are playing, this is happening, I want the phone. So the only thing was all around the screen, uh, the video games and everything, and it was really making me disturbed. But I, I was very scared for the fights happening and the disturbances in the house, so I could not do much. He used to start crying, throwing a tantrum, so I actually could not do much. I did not know how to help myself. And I was feeling very lost. So I just felt that after coming to EPH, you taught us the true meaning, you taught me the true meaning of like, you know, spirituality. Because I was doing everything, getting up in the morning, doing my discipline of everything, but I was hitting him. That was not spirituality. Whatever I was doing, it was all going down the drain because what was I doing to my family? What was I doing to my son? Who's the most precious? You know, I've got him in this world. God has given me him like, like a beautiful gift, and what am I doing with him? So that's why I, you know, my title for my journey with EPH is that true spirituality is not just, you know, going to the temple or listening everything. It starts from home. That's, ma'am, what you have taught us. Like, you know, it's with your husband, with your family, with your child. And you've always talked about everything around God, which I so much resonate with because I've experienced so much in life. Like when I had everything in my house, like, like, you know, the money, everything, but I could not use it. I could not use it. I was just like a dead piece, you know, just lying down in my bed for 4 years. I suffered it. And, uh, I mean, you know, I could not like do anything. But yes, I was losing the essence of spirituality when I was losing my calm with my son. So thank you, ma'am. Thank you, thank you so much for making me realize, you know, what true spirituality is. And, uh, before joining EPH, you know, again, I was a lost, confused, guilty mother because I was hitting him. But, um, then there were a lot of changes And, uh, I started praying very hard to my Guruji that please show me the way. And that's how when I came across your reel on Insta, and I, I instantly wanted to join your masterclass. And I joined the masterclass, I instantly joined the gold membership, and I listened to your, uh, all the, uh, like, you know, um, the videos. And it really made a shift. I could really control screen time from where my son used to watch 4 hours a day, 5 hours a day, or 3 hours a day, especially if I was not home, then he was watching it for 4, 5, 6 hours also. It is gone in a day, he was watching screen. It came down to just 1 hour a day, and that too just on the weekends and just on special occasions. If he's behaved well, then I used to give him the screen on the weekdays. So that was a very big shift in my life. And, uh, I, I, I decided when I heard the Platinum shares by all the mothers, it really motivated me to join, to take the Platinum membership. And, uh, again, it was not just now my son, it was me myself, because I knew there was still a lot left, a lot of healing was still left for me. So I joined the Platinum not just for him, for myself also. Because I want to get that courage, that confidence, which I felt that was missing still in me, which I was before. So I took the Platinum. And like many mothers share that, you know, how the husbands don't agree and they feel that it's a scam. It was the same with my husband. He felt it was a scam. But then I was like, no, I am joining. I am not listening to anything. And after joining Platinum, especially the teenage calls, ma'am, what you have, That was amazing. The, uh, my son Rudra, he joined the teenage calls. He was reluctant to join before, but then he joined the teenage calls and he happened to speak to you and he spoke about the Roblox game and how beautifully you explained to him that what it's doing to your brain, you know, and he just got that thing instantly from you. He just loves you. He keeps telling me, can you meet ma'am for coffee? I love ma'am. I love Riddhi ma'am. And that, that shift in him— he stopped playing Roblox at all. He just does not play it at all. He just stopped it. So that was an amazing, amazing shift, ma'am. Thank you so much. Because it was actually poison. It was actually poison for him. Because I have seen my son, uh, even in his sleep, he was talking about the game. It was so disturbing. He was crying in the night while sleeping and talking about the game Roblox. And the way he used to behave so aggressively while playing the game and talking to his friends and then begging them for the Robux, that all was coming and disturbing him and coming in his sleep. So it was very disturbing for me. So, uh, I mean, thank you, ma'am. All thanks to you, he just completely stopped it and he's now got into outdoor sports arts, which he was not interested in. After talking to you, now he plays cricket, he plays basketball. He is in his— where we stay in the society, there is a league, the cricket league. He's in that league. He won the match. So I mean, that's a major shift. And, um, should I share?

I think your notes— I think let's do with your notes. If you want me to share, I can.

I think, ma'am, I'm good.

Okay.

Yeah, so 3, uh, 3 major breakthroughs. That is again clarity, what ma'am gave to Rudra for not playing any Roblox, so he's completely stopped it. A lot of calmness in me, ma'am, as a mother. That's again the second breakthrough which I got after joining the Platinum. And also confidence. Today, if I'm having— I had a lot of stage fear, ma'am. I could never speak in my school, but today when I had to share this, it took a lot of courage. And definitely the confidence you have given to us, you know, all the mothers. And I can definitely totally speak about myself, the confidence. I was like, when I'm getting a chance, I must take it up. Like, you know, I've got so much from this Platinum membership, I've got so much from you, I have to share it with all the mothers. So, uh, thank you, ma'am. And, um, I definitely cannot imagine my life without EPH because it's just given me immense, immense joy. As I also shared with you, ma'am, in the last call, especially the offline event Goa, when I was, I was there, I had a blast. In between 570 mothers, I did not know even one mother I did not meet anyone except one mother, Richa. That too, I happened to meet her one day before in a salon. I hadn't like— I, I didn't meet her at all. Yeah, so it was by chance, and I did not know even one mother. And in between 570 mothers where you don't know even one mother, the online connection we all mothers had was just awesome. I, I just had a blast dancing with them. I had a blast sharing with them. It was just beautiful, ma'am. So thank you for giving us this experience, and I have booked my ticket for another, like, the next Goa event. I can't miss it. I am very excited to be there. And definitely, ma'am, the support system you have given us— now we can't live without EPH. Like, you know, I can just talk on behalf of all the mothers who are there in Platinum, actually, and I can talk about myself— can't live without EPH, the support system. Like, I used to miss my old friends, my school friends, who are not really around me, but now I don't miss them at all because it is such a powerful support system, such a sense of belonging what you feel with all the mothers. So, so thank you, ma'am.

And then I would also like to share that, you know, no mother should ever feel lonely because I know how it feels like. Because when I came from Calcutta to Gurgaon, it was a very like a vacuum kind of a feeling. Yes, Chimsi.

Yeah, and I would like to share 3 things I just love about you, ma'am. Your honesty, the way you share your own breakthroughs, and the way you share your own story. And so beautifully and so cutely, when like, you know, people ask you, ma'am, you're glowing, and what makeup are you wearing, or what can— you're so honest, ma'am. You are so authentic. And you are just not a mentor, you are a friend. I mean, it is just so beautiful. Thank you, ma'am. I met you at the Goa event and I can't thank you enough. Your energy, your aura, it's just beautiful to be around you. So thank you so much, ma'am. And another thing, ma'am, I just love about you is the passion you have for all the mothers. The feeling you have that no mother should suffer We all, all should celebrate our kids. We all should celebrate our families. We all should celebrate God within us. God, what, whomsoever we worship, be it Allah, be it Shiva, be it Krishna. It is beautiful, ma'am. So just love that about you and definitely your spirituality, the importance of being God-conscious mothers and like, you know, raising God-conscious children. Just, I totally resonate with it. So thank you, ma'am. Thank you so much for everything. I can't thank you enough. Thank you, ma'am, for this beautiful community. I seriously can't live without it now. It has given me a purpose. It has given me everything. It has given me— it has made me complete, I feel, as a woman. I mean, you know, and What you say, ma'am, when— whenever I join your sankirtan, like in Platinum we have sankirtan in the morning, which is so beautiful. Whenever I hear you, it just makes me more connected to my Guruji. It definitely makes me more connected to Krishna, but it makes me more connected to my Guruji, and I just, I just feel so blessed. And what you say that when you get up in the morning, like I'm awake since 4 o'clock today in the morning. I haven't rested even for a second because I did not have any help. I was doing all the work myself. And ma'am, I just feel so energetic. So thank you, ma'am, for all the energy. Thank you, ma'am. And I think every, every mother should take this membership. It is actually a total, total investment in your own self, in your family, in your child, and it is for life. So thank you, ma'am.

Amazing.

Thank you so much.

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