People Pleaser to Bold Decision Maker | Supermom Spotlight Suman | Riddhi Deorah

Hello, hello, amazing mothers! How are you feeling? Yes, let us know how you are feeling. Please put one word in the chat box. How's your feeling? Great, amazing, energetic, awesome, super calm, great, excited, happy, great, amazing, excited and nervous both. I know you will rock it, Suman. Yes, so just a quick note, ma'am will be joining a little bit late. She is in shoot, so she told me that we cannot stop the call, so we will continue. Till the time ma'am join, we will start the, uh, story and see, listen to Suman's story, and let's inspired from her. So ma'am will be joining in bit, but we will keep our energy still high if ma'am is not here, but still we will keep our energy very, very high. So now if you are ready to listen to Suman's story, put ready in the chat box. Everyone, please be very, very energetic. Let's put ready in the chat box. Till the time you guys are not giving energy, I will not spotlight Suman then. Yes, now it's good. So over to you, Suman. Just a second.

Yes. Thank you so much, Hiral. Thank you so much, and thank you to my mentor Riddhi Ma'am. I'm really grateful to have a mentor like her, and I was a very obedient student since my school time, so I really obey my all the teachers. Everyone is my mentor, but school ke baad maine kisi ko aise I still respect— I have a great, huge respect for my school teachers. And after that, being a grown person, she is my first mentor and she will be my mentor forever. Thank you so much, ma'am, for giving me this opportunity. And Hare Krishna to everyone. So we should take a name of, uh, Krishna Bhagavan. So ma'am is on the path that we should be all be the spiritual mother and a God-conscious mothers and God-conscious sisters we are. So thank you so much for being here. It means a lot and I'm feeling very much grateful. To be here and willing to share my story. So I would like to convey all of you that it's not a big, uh, story. Maybe apne se bohot log ye cheez face kare ho or sabke saath ho chukao, but I really wanted to convey my story, my journey with EPH, so that ek mother bhi agar aur inspire ho jaati hai, stuck hai. So please do not feel alone, and we all are in the same boat. Okay, so kindly forgive me for the background noise because there is a marriage at my neighborhood, so can't avoid that. So sorry for that. I will try my best to speak loud. So thank you so much. So, uh, Hiral, can I share my screen?

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Okay, dear, thank you for confirming. Let me open my slide. Yes, so my story in EPH and before EPH. So now I have become a from people pleaser to a mindful decision maker. Okay, so earlier I was like, I was giving my best. Life before joining EPH, part 1. So people pleasing, Ha, I'm not more, more than, uh, no more people pleaser now. So part 1 was that it's been 14 years of my marriage. So before, uh, 4 years before, 10 years passed very well. It was a happy family. I was buddy in the family. Still I am buddy, and I was sometimes called as gopi bahu. Because, because I was always be expectation, everything they wanted I was giving. Imagine, everything I was giving them in the same manner, and I was fully satisfied with the family members, with my life. So emotionally, physically, no doubt, but there was something missing. No self-care. Was working before my marriage but could work only for few months after my elder daughter. So before marriage, by profession I am a teacher. So before marriage, I worked as a teacher since so many years. I gave tuition when I was in 11th standard myself, and I was very much hardworking. So after being married, after completing my MBA, I got married. It was an arranged marriage and I was very much happy with my marriage, with my family, with everything. But I was having a doubt. I used to ask my husband, "What is the use of having an MBA? I have completed my teaching experience but I am not working. I want to do something." So what he said to me, that what is— what do you mean by MBA? MBA is managing things. So you are very well managing my family, my parents and kids as well. So yeah, I was very much satisfied within myself. Daily routine, mother-in-law, in-laws, my father-in-law was in government service at our hometown. So daily, mother-in-law's phone, Don't worry, we all are here. Just to please my in-laws. Parents, till the time it's been 14 years, vacation parents, in-laws, you can imagine, I belong to Bihar, so we don't have a luxurious thing at our village and all the thing, facilities, facilities. Being in a city, Delhi mein raikar jo facilities mein hain, gaon mein bo nahin hai. Chakar bhi bo available due to light and all, electricity, lack of electricity and all. There is not much facility there. So neighbors bolte dekhi, itni padi likhi aur bahar ki raahi hui, kyon kar mimiya apulale tho. But I said ki nahi, anti mujh achalak tha. So that kind of person I was. I will be there next time. I will be serving the same. So that's how my life was going on. Everything was fine. But after 10 years, when Corona came, uh, the COVID time, my in-laws— before COVID few months before the COVID time, my in-laws, my father-in-law got retired and he came at our place. They both came at our place. For the rest of the life. And they were in lot of doubt. But I assured them, I promised them, as you all know that I assured them, I understand because living style, husband, brother-in-law choices and all, but I will take care of that. I assure you, I'm taking guarantee. So this was the turning point of my life, and I, I will not say my life, my complete family. They came I welcomed them with the dhol, bhaja, and everything. I was too much happy. Expectation, and yes, of course, I am also— I will be supporting for them. But guess what? You will not do any job. Please, because nobody will understand more than you. If you will be going, we will not survive. So that was the first limitation. So I accepted that also. But you will not be going outside. I accepted that, which was against my expectation, but I accepted. And During COVID unluckily my father got Corona positive and he got admitted. Since 1.5 months he was in hospital. It was a very, very crucial time for us. And I understand, I truly believe that people are suffering Corona, but our life, life was like that, and it, it was like that after that only. Misunderstanding, because everyone was in different zone. Everything, everyone was at home. My husband, my brother-in-law, But after he got admitted, we again got together and we shown our strength to him. He, Papa, and all. But it was not in the hand of Almighty, it was not in the willingness of him. And father passed away, and it was the turning point for my life, my husband got into depression, my mother-in-law got into depression, and every responsibility was on me only. And I was there for everything. We will take care of the family, but everything was going on like— after learning, she was also not in good state, and I was kind of that— I was also in the reacting mode. She was like irritated, and you must know that During COVID time, kids were having online classes. Early in the morning, I was waking up, and I have two daughters. I will be giving them gadgets, different, different. And why? For part minute, because it was all new for her, for them, both of my kids. It was all new, online classes. Laptop, phone, it was all new. I will be sitting with them only, I will be helping them, and then I will be coming downstairs to help my mother, mother-in-law, and everything. Till that time, I will be not brushing my teeth, I will be not taking bath because I need to serve them breakfast, but still, wo, they will— they are not understanding and they will be complaining. No, she's not giving her best. Indirectly she was saying like that, and same my husband, he was also feeling the same, and Someday he shouted on me and he also said the same line to me, and you are not giving your best as a Bahu what you were earlier. So I was literally in shock and I was crying. I was very much low. Daily conflicts at home, daily may argue. I have my brother-in-law and co-sister also. She was newly married— not newly married, but, uh, now I understand every person has a different capacity and different choice of work and different interest. That time I was not learning, so I was also in the comparison mode. I'm not doing. Riddhi Deorah, conflict, sorry, misunderstanding, every depression, it was on to my health also, and I was getting very much affected with my physical health. And the day came, it was at the extreme. Kids were getting affected. My daughters were shouting and crying, and it turned into separation. My co-sister was not at home. She delivered a baby after 7 years, and she went to her hometown, uh, with his— with her baby, and nobody was there to support. And me and my mother-in-law got fight, and argument— took a step that I will be not there. We will be not affording this. I will be going and be in the different house. So he took my mother-in-law and she got it separated. And I was the same person. I assure you that Mary Wajese family and I was in guilt. And before I taken and accepted that guilt, my husband blamed me. You can't tolerate it. I will not be staying with you. So mother-in-law, brother-in-law, husband also went. He left the house. It was not at all tolerating for me. It was not the situation. I was not understanding, and they were be argue, and I was always responding, reacting, reacting, reacting, because I was also getting affected. I was also going into depression. But I was not aware. Suddenly I got an attack of this carpal tunnel issue. I was not aware. I was not able to take water from my aro. Hands were shivering. And while revealing all the things, while replying to them, reacting to them, Sometimes I got faint, but nobody was understanding. Everyone saying, uh, aggressive, and all. She's not the Suman same like earlier. So, and all. And I was seeing affect. In between, I'm making that when he went, then my parents stay near me, near me. And it was very much difficult for them also to tackle with this situation. They were coming, they were making my mother-in-law understand, please come back, please come back to your home, that is your home, not her. Please, but she was not understanding. She was not in the mood of understanding. And they were listening and going keep quiet. They were keep quiet and they will be making me understand. And all, I was not in the mood. And they are thinking that I'm making them fool, I'm doing the not a— and not a monkey. Okay, so just give me a minute. Am I audible here?

Yes.

Okay, so sorry, somebody has came back.

No, no worries.

I was not in the state of understanding anything. I need to be here because I deserve this. I have been came after being married in arranged marriage system, and I will not leave my home. In between, that will be a very big story. So in my anger, and I will be really revealing all of you that that was my big mistake. And now in the calls, in every call, in every mentor, I'm listening that we should not leave our house. The moment First of all, you are losing your respect at your home only, and when you are coming back, you are losing your respect again at your in-laws. Parents. That mistake I did. I don't care about that, but I did not took that step and I stay with my daughters. Aur main happe rahi, or I was crying one day sitting beside my little one and scrolling Facebook and found, found Riddhi Ma'am on Facebook. I was crying and my little one, her name is Sanvi, and she is so matured before her age, and I took the blame on me only. Situation, I was not aware. And I can see the anger, the argument, the shouting in her, and I very much regret for that. But thank God I'm learning. Thank God we all are learning. So seeing ma'am's courses and attending ma'am's calls, and thank God, or whatever happened, I'm making them polish lagana, usko hicktari ke se present karna, so that ki memory jo hai, meri betiyon ke mind se wipe out ho jaay. But I understand But still, so I was scrolling Facebook and I was crying. I found Riddhi Ma'am and she was talking like, and just like Dr. Savita said, yes, yes, ma'am. Yes. I feel the same. Are you shouting on your kids? Yes, I was feeling the same. I'm going into depression. I had started taking medicine of depression with the help of my parents. And I started my medicine. So husband was not at home, was very low on energy, sitting beside my younger daughter, scrolling Facebook, searching about what my— guess what I was seeing? Negativity. Facebook, family members, friends. I was in that zone only. I was scrolling Facebook for that only because I, I was not such a social media lover. Then my daughter Sanvi was listening to ma'am's question and, uh, I jumped into, uh, this workshop and she was also with me. 6,000, 5 triple 9. That was that time, the price was April 2023. But she said, mama, play low. That line hurt me a lot. Then I thought, I don't know, but I need this, I want this, and I paid for gold membership. I enrolled for that. I was not cooking food for some days, but But now, after being into the course, because I gone through self-care, daily basis, and all, I was learning, make time fix, and I was improving. So I was on medication since 1 and a half years. This is, uh, after these all situation. But I'm telling you that 8 days continuously, after being into Gold membership only, I thrown my medicines. I'm going to my doctor and I'm taking counseling. Counseling, doctor, session, I was paying 3,500. That too my father was paying. I had no money. And this is a little bit after this scenario. He was not ready to go with me for doctor, or maybe I will not ask him. I feel guilty. I don't want that. Please don't mind. And I was going for counseling. A per session I was giving 3,500. It was huge amount for me. After going through the courses, I'm getting out of that situation. I was always serial TV. Yes, I was living like a dead body, living dead body. Start compare word mother-in-law, word brother-in-law, reply the same thing might have hurt them also. So why I'm telling my story only? But his situation, misunderstanding, that I was not aware. I was— that phase. And that is a big thing, accept, I was wrong, because ma'am had taught us that you are responsible. Now I truly said that I was responsible, but I am grateful, parallelly grateful, that situation pass. I thank you God for that situation because strong understanding, people pleasing, but is it serving for me also? Is it serving to my husband? Is it serving to my daughters? If it is not serving to my daughters, it is not serving to me, my family, I will not be doing that. He is becoming angry. And husband was shouting on me. And I'm listening. Still she treats me like a daughter. She has no daughter. I don't have any sister-in-law. Or many of my parents is other respect or that I can say on this social media and everywhere. Because they were truly satisfied with me, but somehow it was not serving me. So gold membership ke baad bhi mujhe health challenges tha, melon kar riddhi, kar riddhi, aur dimaav me mera platinum chal rata, amisha showcase hota tha. I was not able to tell my husband. I took a step learning, and I took step many logos connect. He was not with her mother also, brother-in-law, but I was not aware. Then I took courage and I called in office, office colleague, and I connected with them. I told them everything, but I really want him. And I know he's not caring for me and all because I was not in that zone. Or learning, after learning, what I was thinking, whether he is eating or not. That thing I conveyed to his friend, and through him we met again. And he was not ready to come back at home. He was not listening at all, me or his friends. Then I started— then after all, also I started convincing my things only. So situation, how can I ask from my husband? 15 days he was not at home. He did not eat food of my hand, my cooked food. 1.5 months. He did not eat, and I don't know, is not liking the food outside, food prefer, but for living, he will— he might have some thing for living only, but strength, I will not give it give up. And I was cooking daily, I was packing his lunch, he was leaving. He was not taking lunch, he was not taking breakfast. I don't know, learning. One day again I said him, then he started eating. Situation and all. Then Platinum came into my life. I was able to convey him that platinum. So I was very much in low zone and I paid 6,000 for gold membership. Certification course. He sent me lot of YouTube videos of parenting, coaching, and certification. He agreed and he paid, but it was not the end. It was 2nd February I took, uh, Platinum, and on 4th February my husband, through online fraud, online scam he lost all his money, all our bank savings. OTP, earlier I was not aware with my passwords. I was not aware OTP or online banking. So he was asking me the OTP, I was giving and he was struggling since 3 days. He was into a big scam and he was giving money, money, money. Small amount, then you will be getting the your previous money. All my bank saving account Whatever I had, my husband I had, we lost our ₹22 lakh plus amount. And I was not aware, platinum ka bhi amount he had given with the credit card only. I was crying in a call and ma'am was sharing with the November offline event, Bangalore event, and she was saying, Suman, I put in the chat box I can't come due to the financial issue. She said, you have to come. Then I told, I was spotlighted and I was crying, ma'am, we lost all money. She gave me one Kuberi Yantra and I'm really grateful. I have a huge trust in money affirmation and letter to money. It was working. The missions we are doing regarding money, it was literally working. I had not a money, I had not much amount. I enrolled them in January for Taekwondo, both my daughters, and it was February and we need to purchase the dress code of the taekwondo, and we had not money. But he was not— she was not understanding. She's too much small. Later on she said, but the day ma'am took the money session and she said, So I started spending money. and we need to spend it at the real, or means right place. We should spend it right place. Husband say, and he, he was into very much guilt. He was into very much guilt, and he was going into depression. One day he said that accident, I will be not back at home because I myself spent all money. I gave transfer to a fraud. And how will be I surviving? And how will— how I will be fulfilling all needs of my daughters? So he was very much crying and into depression, but I took his hold. I hold his And, and I said that, but you never think, you will be earning the same money, more than that also. I have trust in you and we will together make it happen. So that, uh, that could not be happened if I would not be learning. And I was able to celebrate my daughter's birthday very well. January we lost our money and February she has her birthday. We don't have any money to spend. And in that call, ma'am taught us that she gave an example of his father. One time, ma'am's father factory, maybe it burned, and everything they lost. But still his father was wearing everything like that only. Earlier he was spending a lot. That day I learned Am I really grateful to my daughters? They are also understanding and they are getting mature and they are also cooperating with the situation. Then came leadership. Apart from this all learning, leadership karte koi jawabi nahi hai. I'm truly grateful to have this opportunity to— for being into leadership journey. But when the connecting part I was doing, but I was not in that zone again. So I took a step, I filled the form for leadership, and Kinjal called me that you have been selected for leader, as a leader. And I got Team 9 very first time. My team was Team 9, and I don't know why something was happening with leaders, my co-leaders scenario. I would not blame that they were not active. But health issue and all, it was running with them and it was all new for me. Or next day, score upload, Excel sheet and all. I was earlier computer teacher also, I have done web designing also, but scores put She helped me. Don't worry, it will be happening. Talk to me. And the day I started leadership, and I took a courage that in my leadership journey with my first Leadership month, I talked to— I tried to talk with those mothers who were not at all active since 4-5 missions. And I was maintaining my diary. I was writing, and she is in that situation. I need to help tomorrow. Then again, my carpal tunnel due to this laptop work and all, wrist was getting paining. I was putting band on my hand and I was selling in the celebration call. I was dancing and everyone was asking, we are on the leaderboard. And my daughters were also happy. My elder one, she was coming back from school. Baj baje, 4 baje ka deadline hota tha. 3 o'clock she come. Kitna score hua, Mama? Is bar me aap hai jitto hai. That was fulfilling my belief ki nahi, I can do it. And yes, we all can do it. Mothers trusted me. I'm really grateful to each and every mother in my community. Whether I have talked to them or not, I will be talking to them. Everyone is praising everyone. Screenshot. I will take the opportunity to take the name of a mother, Deval. Now she is a government employee. She's— she has become a government teacher. Nowadays she has become busy. I'm not a good reader. I have not a good habit of reading. I'm reading a book, You Can Heal Your Life, and I'm enjoying that. But earlier I was not in the habit of— and the same day she was reading a book and she got the same line in that book. She took the print screenshot and send it to me in the personal So since that, into the leadership, health issue, but I'm not giving up. And just to inform you that I'm not bragging and boasting, I got diagnosed with this brain tumor. I have a small brain tumor in my brain and I'm getting nodule creation in my voice. As I am a professionally, I'm a teacher, so teaching may be leadership because we are not living in the same city and all. We are talking on phone only, so everything we are doing on calling and so I don't know. I'm not— I must not say that ki isne mere kam ko effect kiya and all. But no, I have to take rest also. This is our learning. Take a pause, take a pause. But I was not accepting, and God has given me this gift. So I'm on the call, but So this was all my leadership journey, and in front of you now I am a Super Coach enjoying my journey. Whether it is brain tumor, whether it is vocal nodule, whether it is hand wrist pain, or go bam! So we have not to stop. Now, after learning into Platinum Membership, lot of things to learn. A lot of learnings we are getting that we— now I would appreciate the effort of Riddhi Ma'am that she is giving expert calls to us. Your expert call announcement, different background, a different— it is not related to parenting. Parenting Ma'am, life coaching Ma'am, but apart from that, she is giving a lot. We are getting expert calls, and one of the expert calls, Riddhi ma'am came, ma'am's twin sister, Riddhi ma'am. And that day was the turning point of my learning, changes be aarti thought process me. But that hit me hard, and that was related to relationship only. She said, uh, spiritual 5 hacks. One story I would like to share, that, that burnt bread story. Burnt bread story, I will recite it in a short form. That a person, he was baking his bread daily and early in the morning. And the bread got burnt and he was getting angry. He was getting late for his office. As usual, he daily used to take bread. So the— when the moment the bread got burnt, he was getting angry and blaming. He was cursing the bread because he had to prepare another bread for his breakfast and he got late for the office. But due to that bread only, he was safe from a major accident. If the bread, uh, did not get the burnt, he might have gone to the office on the same time and he will be suffering. He might be suffering from that accident. He met the accident. So that was the huge learning. In between, I spent one week in hospital also at World Brain Center. I was in too much depression. Shout, I got free. Then my parents took me at hospital or admit. I was not in the situation panic attacks, shivering. I was in the good situation. We can come back, we can take a step. So ma'am's story and one another, Riddhi Ma'am session may Q&A start. So in our community She asked one question regarding her grand-in-laws, her in-laws. I was telling everyone, that is not your end. Your karmas are being written there. Lifetime, that is your responsibility. So last year she took the session, and this year, January 2025, 1st January, on New Year, I took this decision And I asked my husband that, before that, she will be in my front. Okay, we are living nearby only. I was not disrespecting her, I was touching her feet, and she is on her way and I was on my way. But my brother-in-law and co-sister, they were not recognizing me. They were going, passing away in front of me, behaving like that. Till the time it was hurting me a lot. But now with the help of open, open thing and all, I have forgiven everyone, everyone, myself also. Now I need to take her blessing, I need to take her love again. And I know, I'm sure that she is loving me more than earlier. And the same thing is happening when I got this Super Family Award on stage, this time Delhi. She got to know from my status and all. But I went to her, I I touched her feet, she hugged me, she gifted me suit, she cooked food for me. She was very much happy. And I am the same person. Now the day is I have taken her to shopping after a gap of means 2.5 years. Before that, Everything, even her undergarments, I was taking care. But she asked me that, we went for shopping last month, I bought Her— I bought, uh, 3 sarees for her for ₹36,000. That is a huge win for me. Before that, I was not in that situation. And coming to my place, she's also coming to my place. I'm also going to meet her on, on every special days, on the festivals and all. And Jab Mera Brain Tumor So she was crying a lot. So she is taking care again for me. She's, uh, she has concern. And again, my— the extended family of my in-laws, they were not talking to me, they were not coming to my place, but seeing all these changes, they automatically change. They are calling me for their function. They are inviting me and they are missing me in the last function when they did not invite me. And again, I am the same bahu. I am serving them. I am doing my best. I am getting the same appreciation which I was getting earlier, 2 years before, which I was losing somewhere, I was missing somewhere. Same with my husband. He was a loving husband, no doubt he cares for me very much, but something happened and due to this all scenario, I am in the zone, depression treatment Inko handholding ki zarurat hai. So he has lost his father, my mother-in-law lost his husband. I should have taken that opportunity to understand them, but somehow I also went into the flow. But that is okay, that was my learning. So since 2-3 years, he has not been to my mother's place. But last week, I have come to the Spotlight this week only because I was chosen last week, but I had a function at my mother's place this Saturday, and I was waiting for this win. I was manifesting that my husband will be attending that function, and it happened with Almighty's grace. And I had a trust that ki vo jayenge, but kuna se doubt tha. Because he's not talking to them at all. But I don't know, he said me, it was a big win for me. He went, he spent some time, he ate food there, and it is enough for me. Gradually it will be improving, it will be the same like earlier. And with apart from my learning, with the, with all these learning, but he was not taking a lot at all. He was saying, now I am the silent observer and I am taking decisions so quick. Or he was like shopping, and I was in the guilt last month. I was purchasing that only. Now I am taking my own decision. I am affirm at my own decision, and he is also seeing the changes, and he's not directly appreciating me, he's appreciating but at my back, at his office, at his colleagues. But intelligent. So these all are my relationship breakthroughs. Now coming to money breakthroughs. Uh, with the money affirmation, money mission, I made a goal card and I was affirming that I am earning some amount. I will not reveal that amount per month from this, my teaching and all. I'm a teacher, I'm teaching right now also, but I'm giving tuitions to take care of my daughters only. I don't want to go outside and coming back the same salary will be okay. I will be taking the same money which I will be going for 8 to 9 hours because in private schools there is a huge long time gap for this time duration for teachers because in Delhi there is a stay also for teachers. So I do not prefer more to be working in the schools, so I am teaching students at since from home. Only. And my husband gifted a small property in my name on my birthday within 1 year only. This is the money— big breakthrough for me because that situation when I took Platinum, we lost all our money. This year on my birthday, he gifted me the property papers. That is not a very much used property, but it is a very big win for me. I have got an opportunity last year from my husband's office. I'm working from home for a small project. That was unbelievable. He is working in the same company since 15 years, but I never thought he— I will be getting the chance because he is talking about my professional thing also. But professionally, now he has started speaking that she has become parenting coach, community start, she is giving workshop in orphanage and schools. So he had started talking about me and I have attracted more students after being into Platinum because I have changed my teaching way. I truly believe that a teacher wants a teacher, a teacher needs a teacher. I am a teacher since I was in 11th standard, but the way I was teaching was not correct. Now I can say shouting, blaming, that is not the right way. And the same thing I am teaching to my students' parents. I have built a community. My students' mothers are there in my community, and I am nurturing them as a parent, as a daughter-in-law, as a mother. And it takes a lot of courage, and they will be talking about mother-in-law and all. So I was in dilemma, continue karu, but with all my, uh, deep, deep gratitude to my mentor, to all my Navdurgas, super coaches, my co-super coaches, our senior super coaches, Hiral, Kinjal, and Isha. With all our learnings, we all can take the same step and we can go ahead. I am doing seva. I will be helping mothers forever. And guess what? Now I am eligible for Five Flag Club Award also. This was my surprise to ma'am. I just wanted to tell ma'am that when I was in Delhi event, it might have— I need— and it has crossed 5 lakh.

Proud of you, Suman, and I'm very proud of your relationship breakthroughs also, like especially with your mom-in-law. Because you know, one is law kik dan, one is pal lo kik dan. So this law kik dan, 5 lakh, 10 lakh, 1 crore, but this pal lo kik dan, you know, you're getting real blessings from your family, from your in-laws. I think that is more precious than anything. So great, now you have both law kick and bad law kick. Really good, amazing.

Thank you so much, ma'am. And yeah, so proud of you so much. Culture, we have been taught like, so when they seen that I touched your feet, she hugged me, she kissed me on my cheeks. But I touched her feet. And the same thought I made for my in-laws also. Great, great. Of course. So inspiring.

Yes, Suman, can't wait to give you the award, and this time I will give you a tighter hug.

Thank you so much, ma'am. Yes. And thanks for trusting us, ma'am. Thanks for trusting us.

I'm so proud of you.

He had lost our trust from ourself only. But you made that. A long time back, ma'am, one, one of my husband friends, he said that he was talking to me for more than half an hour. Jesse, first time I met him, podcast, Facebook, that time, confidence, but whatever it is, but Yes, you have that quality, correct. So many mothers told me that every teacher has not that much Be proud of the qualities that you have.

You should not discount your strength. Yes, proud of you, Suman. And also with your health challenges, all of you are thinking that I cannot do it. You know, I just feel like Suman with so many health challenges, you know, she was not even allowed to use the screen, but she never gave up on her Super Coach duties. She never said I can't do it. If you think that's amazing, put A for amazing. She only used to tell me, ma'am, I'm not allowed, can I take a small break? But she never said that, ma'am, I want to quit. Yeah, you know, and as super coaches, they don't get anything. They are just here to help you, to serve you. And of course, what they get is a lot of learning and experience. But you know, more than that, you know, they are here because they want you to experience the same breakthroughs that they experienced. So how many of you feel that, you know, it's all about your mindset. It's not about, you know, ki bimar ho gaye, ya thak gaye. It all depends on how— what is it that you are repeating about yourself? What is your inner dialogue? So, so proud of you, Suman. You please continue. I will give lots of appreciation towards the end. I will save all my good feelings.

This is a great, great— it means a lot to me that through there and still you are here for me. Yes, and all of us. Thank you so much, ma'am. So after that money breakthrough, relationship, but I will not give up. Exercises and all, sabhi karein. And Riddhi Deorah, the community I have built, they are asking for the exercise session from me. I am not slim, but not much slim. That because I lost 10 kg last year after being into Gold membership. But traveling and all, I gained again. But even if I am not losing weight I need to do exercise to keep my brain healthy, to keep myself healthy. So I used to put my videos, and some of you might know about my status and all. So Mary community, we want dance classes from you. So I am planning for that also, and that is a very much big thing. But they are still wanting me to— so that is a big win for me. And after that, children breakthroughs. I have two daughters. My elder one is 13 years and the little one is 8.5, and I have seen a lot of changes into them after being into this platinum membership. She is attending teenage calls nowadays. She is having exams, so she's not much continued with that. But that was big win for me, and it was unbelievable. Some speech she has to give that for her homework she was preparing. Speech for school thing. She was practicing in the mirror and I seen her that, no, Pratista, you can do it. Yes, you can do it. She was telling to herself, yes, you can do it. That confidence she gained from this teenage call, Super Teens call. Yes, you can do it. The belief in manifestation and affirmation has made her more confident. So her belief has become more powerful. And she's reading ma'am's book, The Mother. She loves to read her book. Pictures, poem, affirmation. Means I told her once activity, she made it like a game. But reading you open— close your eyes and open the book randomly. Whatever the page shows, that is the message for you. And she's reading that book like that only, The Mother. And You Can Heal Your Life, she is also reading, and I am also. And she is getting more than— more affirmation from there, and she's writing affirmation and gratitude. Becoming more spiritual. And I would like to tell you all that on Janmashtami, I, with my community, I also did the non-stop 2 hours chanting challenge. It was not challenge, it was a call, just Hare Krishna Jap. Janmashtami ke din mein kiya tha. So mothers have joined, but due to network issue, some mothers were getting stuck. With the voice. And I was getting surprised, my upper hall, place, and my daughters joined with their phone. The way we do, my little one started, Radha Shri Radha, Radha Shri Radha. It was a big win for me, and I invited my mother-in-law also. She also attended. So things are becoming magically. And please, I would request you all that trust on the process, trust on yourself, and believe in God always. I was missing it. Parents, but I got a lesson. When you are lighting a diya in front of God, in front of your mandir or whatever the place you have, you are dedicating your thing to the God. But now I teach my daughters also, so please start doing puja. It is a humble request. Don't think, and it is better to take a shower early in the morning. And I take a blessing from my— this— I'm really grateful to laptop also. Gratitude. Like Dr. Brunda, I would also like to say that mis happening, grateful. Story, I was not supposed to share and nobody knows this one thing about my story. I'm very open for my story. I always tell my story to mothers Many of you are aware from my story, but a thing up, conflict start due to family and he was not at home. One of his cousin, my brother-in-law, he came. He was— he is too good in all of us eyes. Family may help and all. He's like super boy. But he tried to physically assault me. He offered me something like that, and my daughters were in another room, and I was into that situation. Nobody will believe me. That situation, I don't know, I— how I handled. And he also not believed on me. Please listen to me, please listen to me. He was like in that mood. And he was in that mood, for having a boy, I will be physical with him. He offered me. So if you are a mother of daughter, so please be strong. I took step for me. Are you sure? Then I took step for me myself. I raised, I shouted, and that was the reason I could able to let my husband back at home. I will not let you enter my home. This is not your home, this is my home. This is my home. I will be away with my daughters from you. That was not a small thing. Ki, we did not trust on Babi, but if she is taking that step, she's shouting a lot, and I went to police also. I get him reported and everything I did from my own. My husband was not with me. It means something big. I'm so sorry to interfere, but can I just take a picture with you?

I'll have to leave actually, the whole crew is waiting.

Yes, yes, ma'am.

We'll take a picture, you can finish. Okay, I want to take a picture. I just want to thank you before I leave. But I don't think I can keep them waiting for longer. So can you stop sharing your screen? We take a picture together. One second. Yes, amazing. So sorry, Suman, I'm having to just leave.

All right, it's being a long— I will be wrapping up.

Yeah, no, no, no, you continue. You are in good flow state. Yes, you'll also take one in the gallery with everybody else. And before I leave, how many of you are feeling really inspired? You know, I'm also getting to see a new Suman. I did not know this super superhero side of you, of this police report and all of this. So I'm getting to see this new side of you. But really, like, uh, every single mother who has been spotlighted, you know, they've really been phenomenal in terms of taking action. And, uh, you know, some of— you know, we have many more stories. We were not able to spotlight everybody in the month of November. We are going to have this every month now because I'm seeing that a lot of you have been messaging me, emailing me, WhatsApping me that, ma'am, we are just loving it. So I'm very happy that you're loving it, and we'll be bringing more stories. And Suman, I just want to tell you one thing, that you make me so, so, so proud as a mentor. And you know, it is my dream, it is my wish and prayer that every single one of you will be spotlighted. If you think you're going to be next, I I want you to type in the chat, I am next, I am next. I want every single one of you to be the next. You know, it's, it's not difficult. You just have to follow the step and trust your— trust yourself, and you will definitely be spotlighted. And it doesn't have to be a money breakthrough, it could be any breakthrough, because I feel money breakthrough happens only after all these other breakthroughs are happening or have already happened in your life. So I think, uh, according to me, you know, because I've been on this journey, easiest is money breakthrough. To get— earn money is the easiest. Everything else, you know, overcoming your challenges and resistances, connecting with your partner, winning your in-laws back, health, all of these are more difficult because this is not completely under your control. See, relationship, it's both-sided. Of course it has a lot to do with the move that you make and even health, you know, sometimes it's not fully under your control. But money, totally under your control. You keep adding value, money keeps coming with the right intention, right? So I feel, uh, so proud of you, Suman, and all of you who are watching, especially the gold, silver, diamond mothers. I want every single one of you to step up and to get into Platinum Elite. This will be a life-changing moment, you know, a turning point for all of you. How many of you Platinum mothers feel that, you know, getting into Platinum was a total turning point? Put TP in the chat box that you were not even expecting that this is what you're entering and your whole life turned around. And it was the same for me when I surrendered to my mentors So I just feel that, you know, when the opportunity shows up, do not be in your head. Take action and move forward. So sending you lots of love, Suman. Thank you so much for showing up even with such challenging health issues. And, uh, all of you, after this call, we'll be putting up Suman's picture on the feed. Please go and share your learnings. Also, I'm activating Okay, I think it's gone because Suman, you've spoken a lot, so the attendance has now disappeared. Don't worry, we'll just put the form link. You can mark your attendance on the form link later, but for now you can just listen to Suman's story and God can give you the points later. So Suman, finish the story. Love you, thank you so much for finding time and doing this. It means a lot to me. And love each and every one of you for showing up and getting inspired. Very important, because if you don't show up to listen, you would not shift. So thank you for showing up and doing this for your families. Means a lot to me.

Thank you so much.

You guys can wish me good luck for all day.

All the best.

Thank you. Love you.

So yes, I was sharing my children breakthroughs. So I have seen a lot of changes in my daughters, and I was also saying that we should— the— my— our kids are mirroring us only. Whatever we talk, whatever we behave, whatever we think in any situation, they will be also acting like that only, because who silent And I was— I am very much into guilt that everyone was shouting, fighting, and she was shivering, she was crying. So that situation was created with from us only. Everyone was low in that situation, and the big game whoever played the role, main role, is the extended family. Everything was happening in front of family only. My mother-in-law was not in a low phase. She started speaking wahi wahi batein, ko batana, and all. So we should not share any third person our family's conversation, our conflicts, our thing. Yes, each and everyone, every member of the house. And coming to my son, my small daughter, my little one, she is much matured, more than her age. But as per we are learning, that ma'am says that 8, 8 plus, they are behaving more than like more likely to be teenager. So she wants to be actress. She has lot of confidence. And she is getting up early in the morning, then I'm listening to Sankirtan, she plays her bhajans in her mobile and getting ready. More connected to me. Daughters, when they are seeing you suffering a lot, so they will be on your side, and I don't want that. But as per ma'am's teachings, ma'am told, in front of your child, husband criticize, mother-in-law, father-in-law, that I was also lacking. I was sharing, I was saying everything to them. Now With my doings, with my actions, I am teaching them, you can get back your respect. Nobody will think about the past. I don't care. They are not asking me directly, but they all are seeing my status. But nobody is there to take care. But nobody When I took this risk challenge, pregnancy, and I think because I was capable. The day I got some health issues, everyone stepped back. How can I serve you the way I did earlier? Just to please them, blessings, that is okay. But obedient student and all, she is not working. But I did not care. But you have to do some earnings for yourself. My top learnings from this community, from EPH, from Riddhi Ma'am: sabse acha ma'am ka mujhe jo nature bhi hai or wo teaching bhi aungi, intuitions do not stay longer, just like guest. Mam, example. One of the learning, and I was taking the name of Dr. Prunda, life challenges, she is grateful, and I am grateful to my dad, brother-in-law. She might be sitting with me, uh, like before only. Or under— under— she tried to break my relationship. She tried to— he tried to break my whole family. And her mother is also like that only. So I'm really grateful to all the opportunities, all the bad days, all the bad thoughts came to my mind, and because of that I am learning now. So first point, intuition do not stay longer, just like, yes, just implement it. I want all of you to do sankirtan. I made a group with my all students' parents. This is a small suggestion for you also. Might be it might work. Let's do chanting early in the morning. What, what time you are free? So some of the mothers are very much into spirituality and all. So I started my community with chanting only, with sankirtan only. Starting me, when I start the Zoom call, we do one mala, complete mala. Learning started Q&A. They had lot of question, lot of health issues, lot of family issues. Then I told them Don't you think we should learn something? So they said, learning. Then I took topic-wise and I, I'm teaching them self-care, and I will be taking them to the parenting also. And in between, I'm taking Q&A also related to life coaching mostly. Because why I am today, I'm at the spotlight, story, huge community. But I'm sure many of you are suffering from the these day-to-day chick and hesitation. I didn't thought, I just grabbed it. Next is do not think about others when you are right. Why? Same thing. I just want to put my thing in front of them. Do not think whatever the others are thinking. I don't care. I'm right at my place. The same thing I'm applying with my community. All are my neighborhood. Whether you are recording my session, where, whether you are making my video today also, it will be played as a recording also. I must not take my brother-in-law name and all, but I don't care because I know I'm right. Another is your truthfulness, hard work, dedication, trust will never go wasted. Into my leadership. Very sorry to say about that. Being a mother of daughters, as I said earlier, And last but not the least, always be grateful. And I'm really— I, whenever I write gratitude, I write one thing at the end: thank you God for everything. Thank you God for everything. Grateful. I was not a person like that only, and I am totally changed. And power pills from my side, I'm not a big personality that I can teach you, but I must say that Whatever I have learned from this community, from ma'am, and my own personality was also like that only. Trust that truth has saved my married life. Otherwise, he has sent me divorce notice also. In that situation, when he was not at home, he sent me notice also. Whatever, because I trusted him. Father situation is not coming back to home. He's not in the situation to tackle the things, but I trust him, and he has the same trust on me also about my character, about my major and all. Whatever the situation is, be grateful. The same thing, gratitude. Situation, when I lost our money, when we lost our money, I don't know, magic was happening. Till I was in that situation, yoga kar riddhi, meditation kar riddhi, puja kar riddhi, sab koi bachcho ko killar riddhi bana ke. So ki jo bhi us time mir pas available tha, I was grateful for that. Never leave your house. As I said before, that was a big learning from me. Delhi private school, I was not able to afford that also. And all, whether you are working, you are earning lakhs, but that is your house. Do not leave that in any situation. I did once or twice. After that, I was just hip-hop. Earn some money for yourself, please. It is my humble request. Whatever If you are earning your money, you will be confident and you will be feeling saved. And, uh, sometimes situation when mother's place or in conflict. I was feeling guilt. Before that, I was not feeling shy because I was going with my husband only. Now I was going alone. It will feel you, make you feel like confident. Know your talent and just implement it. Dere dere, it will convert to money. So that was all from my side, and that was my story. And so sorry for being this 3 hours, 2 hours. Since 2 hours I am speaking only, and heads up to you, you are all are listening to me. Thank you so much. Really grateful to this community and Riddhi Ma'am and my all co-super coaches. I'm really grateful to all of you and learning a lot from all of you. Thank you so much. Thank you so much, Suman. We really inspired from your story and I think most of the mothers got inspired and they will do action. Oh, thank you so much. Uh, Suman, it's time is already, uh, 12:52, so sorry we have the Q&A today because we have a limit for 12:30 for this call. So mothers, have the questions for next time, maybe in the next Super Mom Spotlight call. Thank you so much, uh, mothers and Suman for coming this call. And I have shared the attendance here. Please, uh, mark your attendance. Thank you, Isha. Yeah, thank you so much, Suman. Yeah, we shared the link for attendance. Yeah, yeah, I have shared the link in the chat. Yeah, everybody, everybody please mark your attendance and I just wrap up the call.

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Thank you so much, everyone. Okay, bye-bye.