Self-Doubt to Success Her Story | Supermom Spotlight Neelam | Riddhi Deorah

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लक्ष्मी रिया दुष

sri devi manisha sagoptaswatinirja kiren amazing and let me know in the chat box, how are you feeling in this moment, yes its a very

very special call and also one of

my favorite कॉल्स the super mom spotlite

and why do like this call, because the focus is on you so today we have neelam and neem will be sharing her story of how she was able to start her life as a marige intimacy coach and how she got clarity about what she wants to do and how she was able to monitise her time so if you are super excited put s i for super excited in the chat box, yes and this

is also one of my favorite calles,

because its very nice to see our students do well in life students taking action students getting result i think that

the best gifts, you can gift to a mental if you agree with that

but a for agree that the best

gift for a mental is students are taking action and creating results so i

m praying hoping wishing that every single one of you re already creating results,

but you will continue to creat bigger and better results for yourself so if

you are going to do that one hundred percent put one hundred in the

chat box, yes also the intention of

this call is not to get over

weld is not to feel less about where you are the intention of this call to get inspired so if i have pinky promise from all of you put pep in the chat box कोई भी gbrygaनhenobody will get over vel nobody

is going to think what am i doing with my life am i not able to do it i dont want

any or few to think like that

why am i sharing this, because i

know how women thing i want you

to look at this as oपorचuनिty to get inspired as an opportunity to see what is possible for you and think of this as a blessing, because your in the right space, so is always better to be in a room, where people are doing betr the new, because that is what will pus you to your next level, so you do not want to belong to rooms where you are doing the best, because then you feel i m the best and you get stuck at that level and this is making sense for m s i dont want to just remain stuck at that level when i want to do

better some so now without wasting any

more time lets get need

yes hi neem

you can on me okay let

me make you a co host yes

welcome neelam super proud of your journey

super proud of what यू डूइंग and

o w टो यू नो

yes i

did so yes it feels so special

to be here to be very ones, this is of a second interview on

esy it feels like reflection moment for me ye

viwintwothousanad twenty thre i hope

your remember yesssafcors i do and from there तो ना again वी have taking big lips and today i want you

to inspire all the mothers in this

room with your story so i m

going to remove myself from spotlite and so the way this is structure you get forty five minutes to maximum one

or to share and then we open

for cuna and the cuna will not

be around parenting questions but the cuenta

will be more focused on asking neelams questions about her journey you know you

can ask questions that if you were feeling stock how did you con wins

yourself to take that for step and how quickly were you able to get the result did you feel like giving up what more keeps you motivated how do you handle the shift with how

did you manage with your family it is clear to everyone the kind of questions that we are going to ask it going to be related to her journey and related to you doing something

similar, but may be the topic will

be different for you but the journey

is going to be similar but not like questions like how do i put my child to sleep my name building my career as a maduro we dont want to with rod those kind of questions okay amazing so over to you

need you can do your magic

thank you so much for this opportunity because i look back at my journey i

dont see as a p्rofेशनl ग्रोथ i see it is a identity evaluation total shift so yes i m going to

share my journey if you can see

me her me clearly cut see for

chat box and thank you so much

i try my best to give my best every second you spend with me i try to give tenex better so

it s a owner to be here and genvinlyisharemy gratitud to my mentre redi and to egan everyone, who is here giving me time to listing me and allow me to sharing my story thank

you so much so today i work

with couples families mothers डcrsikitरिस but before all this i was just someone, who was deeply cures about human behavior and let me take you back two thousand and ten, because that is are the

this story actually actually started to thousand n in two thousand and ten i

m going to share my ppt all

so far what just give me one

minute

thank you i hope my steam is visible notes visible थैंक यू

yes

your scren is visible nela के

i think this is the given yes it so it was in two thousand ten i started my journey my carer as

a lecturer and in a managment college in luknow i remember out of one

twenty people i was सेलेक्टेड out of

one twenty end, candidates i was only

the one, who was selected at the

same time i that this was my

dream career, i hope you are also feeling like this got me in a chart box, if you are also feeling,

then we get job and i started my career as a lecture right।

सो it feel like it was a dream जॉब, but i started teaching personality

development human saycology, just so personality development human sicologyटू मई स्टूडेंट्स आस्क स्टूडेंट that

time ask very deep postions, and it

was very difficult to anser them, so i have to go through of the human sाicologीइनडीpर लेवल and i learn about human saycology and that time i realize

it was very important zero to ten years shape the mind सो i did not just tech i started starting deeper

human behavior, because i wanted to anser responsibly बeकuजe ई फील not someone i

am shaping the careers and we back

in to thousand and fifteen i deliver मई डॉctriमअमदरऑफ tenierolडॉटर एंड ऑनेसली thैटवaज ई

बिगेस्ट लाइफ लर्निंग पॉइंट मदर डु स्टॉप मी stop my लर्निंग it expended मई लर्निंग aक्च्वlलy दिस is a टू प्वाइंट वर्जन ऑफ नीलम बिफोर एंड आफ्टर सो

आई स्टार्टेड लर्निंग अबाउट पेरेंटिंग नोट हैज

थेरी, but as a live एक्सपीरियंस आई

होप यू आर आलसो अnडrsnीआरमदeर वी आर

लर्निंग पैरेंटिंग आल सो as lिveड क्पीरियंस

सो आफ्टर दैट आफ्टर डिलिveरिंg मई डॉटर डिड नॉट ज्वाइन मैनेजमेंट कॉलेज, आई ज्वाइन

प्री प्राइमरी प्राइमरी सीनियर सेकेंडरी स्कूल टेन

ें ट्वेल्थ बोर्ड क्लासेज सी बी एस एंड आईसीएससी बोर्ड सो इंटरैक्टेड मैनी पेरेंट्स ंड स्टूडेंट्स ऑन डिफ्रेंट ेज ग्रुप।

but i understand there is a deep

get everything was there, because i know about things। noleg was there experience was there, but

structure was missing

i did not know how to deliver my knowlege in a

structure to this world, i did not

know anything, but i i was very

inspire to share my learning about parenting

about child saycology about human behavior whatever i know that time i want to

share with world and that is var ride entered in my journey in two thousand and twenty two and help me टो स्ट्रक्चर my कॉलेज and help me to creat impact so

that was my journey, how it is a two thousand and twenty to i not go back

i was going every single day, every

single day, that was मई स्टोरी and ई ज्वाइन गोल्ड मेंबरशिप and within two month, within two month, i remember i

moved to plant in m not, because i was ready, but because i was

commited to becoming ready, it was only one year membership i remember that they very clearly, it was very big decision for me। because i quit my job and whatever

the investments i have and taking a

flat in a membership। it was only one er membership one call that was नो कोर्सेज नथिंग, and

only the certification, but again i took

that decision not, because i was ready, but because i was commited to becoming

ready and ride help me रeलyलॉtp्rovाइd मी

हैंड होल्डिंग and सजेस्टिंग so before platinum membership i want to tell you very

clear one thing is are listing me i had a passion, but after platinum i had a clarity pls fason that made a यूज डिफरेंस when you have

a clarity what to do what नोट टू डू एंड क्रिएट resिलिeंसinनूw because you

had a clarity and i got certification

certified ऐज ए पैरेंटिंग कोच, पेंटिंग कोच, लाइफ कोच, after that manage intmicycoccamsutra practise

and continue serving people from i लॉन्च

my courses build my community and today

i walked dp i have my own

community ver equal parenting and equal partnership up and i walk deeply in madigan

relaशinशिp transformations and working at a sex

therapist and this was this was a

certification, i received from the stage, the parenting certification and it was a एक्नॉलेजमेंट ड्रीम्स कम ट्रू

because i had a

dream i want to share my learning

with everyone, who about the parenting about the manage, whatever i know about that

time so

it was a journey of self believing and before believing in myself i m very fortunate and thankful for god। because my mental believing me before i

started believing in myself so।

thank you didi once again showing me back and still today i remember that was a one on one call with you the words are king in my। if i can do this, you can

do this to that word mad द डिफ्रेंस because your mental believe in new

it was it gives me lot of

forage it is just a head, this

is a voice in always coming in my she can do this, i can

also do this and this can tru

सो it was 9 जस्ट अबाउट बिजनेस लeरनिंग अबाउट पेरेंटिग लाइफ कोचिंग सर्टिफिकेशन it create a autometic discipline in my life, how many of you resonate with me put reजोनat बeकaजहoअंडers्टand it is नोट अबाउट जस्ट पेरेंटिंग कोचिंग लाइfcoचिंg it created atom

discipli in my life ईवन स्माल थिंगस क्लारिटी स्पेस डी क्लटर स्प्रिच्एलिटी clarity in action i m just moving in my speed and also i started so what happen after platinum there is a inner ship self belief activated

i started thinking like a leadership, i can see this leadership and even if you are to playing a role as a leader, i ve also plan the रोल as a

leader in the mission group इट क्रिएट लीडरशिप थिंकिंग यू स्टार्ट इवॉल्विंग यू स्टार्ट

सर्विंग people यू अंडersटanड what they are

gone throu दैट मेड मी रैली स्टार्ट थिंकिंग वेरी डीपली ंड डिसीजन पॉवर एंड कंसिस्टेंसी इन लाइफस्टाइल आफ्टर पलाtiनयoूu dont need

to put efort आई बिलिव दिस हैपंस

विथ मी ई डोंट नीड टू पुट

एफर्ड टू बी कंसिस्टेंट वhatएवरमईमेंटरसेट i just follow it and til i रमemबरriviलॉन्च content creatin chalenge in to thousand and twenty

two and tildatilnotbrekit til i not break it नो मैटर how hard बट स्टिल आइल डू इट एंड सेम वे सम

beautiful hevेtseriting gratitud formats राइटिंग राम राम ईवन ई कैन शेर this सो i

जसcerेndritthis is working for her she s

sharing with me why not इस नो चांस it नोट गोइंग तो work for me so i followed the patandthatgive। मी लongtoमvisnclalिty ज शी ज आलसो डेडिकaटेdटु

वर्ट्स विजन सो आफ्टर प्लाटिनम इफ इम टॉकिंग अबाउट माई प्रोफेशनल एक्सपेंशन येस आई डू गेट पेरेंटिंग सर्टिफिकेशन लाइफ कोचिंग सर्टिफिकेशन

आम सर्टिफाइड मैरेज इंटरमेसी कोच कॉपल काउंसलर सेक्स थेरेपिस्ट एंड दैट कालेज नेवर गॉट

इफ यू लाल नोट ज्वाइन प्लाटिनम सो

टुडे म अ वेरी बोल्डली कनेक्टेड विथ

मेल्स फीमेल्स एंड इंटरनेशनल नेशनल so sex

terpes it was not easy even if i never dent about it so it is a platinum who give me courage

corrig to see and my in i believe what is possible for me so

now i m working with doctors and

sicitristseरing रिसर्च with eveyवoन सो नोट ओनली दिस if i m talking about the

numbers, we all are very fascinated and i remember whenever i m lिsning टो समवन आलवेज want no the numbers how

many of you like me put me

in a chart box always want to notice। ये सब तो चल रहा है, लेकिन what द नंबर दे आर गेटिंग थैंक

यू थैंक यू येस मुझे भी ऐसा ही लगता था एग्जैक्टली सो टुडे एम

वेरी प्राउडली से टुडे म इन कम इस थ्री टू फाइलक पर मंथ ऊपर ही जाता है। फाइव थाउजनप्लसफमिलीज इम्पैक्टेड लास्ट ईयर का अगर मैं डेटा आपके साथ शेयर करूँ तो

फोर्टी टू कपल काउंसिलिंग मैंने की, जिसमें

से seventeen was wars on divas सम सम केसेस आर कमिंग आफ्टर फाइलिंग the

डिvॉसकेसेs सेवेंटीन डिवास केसेस हैज बीन रिवर्स

now they are living their गुड लाइफ सेवन इnटरनेशनltlाins, but i want to tel

you one thing it is a number।

फाइफफलैक दिस इस ग्रेजुअल ग्रोथ नोट ओवरनाइट

सक्सेस this is a very important thing

i learn throw out my journey like we have created or career learididndaand, then come on started my carer as a lecture so, what i want this is

also a career, this will also built step by step so inicial days when

i started it was free to पर मंथ टेन ट्वंटी फिफ्टी थ it is

a gradual progress when you do your hard work plus consistency, when you will not give up

and today my calender is full। because i am working with closely one on one basic so, i give the dates of aprel it is posible because

of the right part i can say platinum is a foundation for me it opens the dog it will show me a new version of me, but it is a journey of on st hardwork and consistency and trust trust on your trust on your dream।

if any that came to you i

believe that is came to you it is पॉसिबल फॉर यू otherwise it is not going to come it is not possible just sit

yes

so if i

want to share and am very happy to share this social work golaberationwerking with doctor sicaitrisanagina college is very closलy आम बेस्ड इन गुलबुडगांव एंड टू थेरेपी एप्स गोलाबरेशन आम वर्किंग विद टू एप्लिकेशंस फाइव

हंड्रेड प्लस मदर्स में मैंने एन जी ओ काउंसिलिंग किया हुआ है and th

सेम टाइम थ्री हंड्रेड प्लस स्टूडेंट सेक्सुअल

एजुकेशन काउंसिल इट मींस आई एजुकेट टीन

एज स्टूडेंट अबाउट द सेक्सुएलिटी हाऊ टू

nndअंडरstand themself and they are hormons in a better way, at the same time, so they are able to deal till the age of twenty, the this was

the very crusial a thirteen to twenty

the so i did three hundred pls student sexual education councingyesसो, i want to

share this my resistances and always never am thinking about my reजिसtnceridis fases always hel, because she is the one, even i dont know? what is resistance? what is over vel trust me? when i m sharing this i never heard this word, but i had this

feeling and she is the one, who

understand my feeling and giving the words

to my feeling the fear of visibility,

what if and mere pas tot ta if you go back and waचmi previous

interview with riti use the word, i

always had it out what i know

everybody knows i dont know anything everybody knows so some time, even clints came

to me and realized me they dont know that that time i realized this is a super power and the fear of visibility। हाऊ टू शो up on the front of camera, what to say सबसे बड़ा था what to say so that chalenge

help मी एंड सेल्फ डाउट बहुत था,

शुरू में बहुत ज्यादा था as it was crazy बट दैट वन कॉल वित ride the प्लाट टाइम न कॉल वी

गेट वन ऑन वन कॉल that help me to रिड्यूस सेल्फडाउटआलमोसटिल नाइंटी फाइव परसेंट

ई रिमेंबर बिफोर इन आफ्टर दैट डे even today also i have a नोट the diri विथ मी वर आई हैव रिटन वाटेवर वी हैव डिस्कस इन दैट कॉल बिकॉज डे द सेल्फ डाउट बिकम नाइटी रिड्यूस नाइंटी फाइव परसेंट मई रजिस्टेंस वस कल्चरल कंडिशनिंग बिकाज वोकेटईकवलईक्वल पार्टनरशिप सो द कल्चरल कंडिशनिंग वाज देर and now it become very so real, because the

couple came to me and say, see

we started sharing responsibility from last one year, this was happens। and there are so many other couples also want to know how we manage, but and every thing। i seem so very similar, so year,

there was so many things। and i feel that in the plating a member।

शिप the community support was the biggest

istrentanditwas for me, i just like a

aladincaciragy sharing this, because in the journy of self growth, because we are living

in a very normal families, there are no one is talking about self growth for me। it was true and in a joint

family system, it was very difficult some time, i was feeling like a alien, how many of you feel like it। i was feeling like a alien बच्चा हो गया, उसके बाद भी पढ़ते हैं,

पढ़ते जा रहे हैं it so this was always a tout so what happen

and i was थिंकिंग। पता नहीं क्या मैं ही ऐसी हूं डोंट नो। but what happen in the plain membr? इnटacटwitलइकमइंडेट पीपल you know more alien you realize no know। there are few people, but yes we are not alian and that was my biggest sistrent, i get connected with a

like minded people and when you see other start growing you grow faster yes this is absolutely tru वेन you see

your mentors are growing। because she is आलसो ivolviंगses लर्नर so i feel योर स्पीड इज आलवेज अराउंड

हैरन, देर it s नोट।

अबाउट बहुत ज्यादा डिफरेंस नहीं आएगा if

you are in this call आ म

हंड्रेड परसेंट शर डेफिनिटली यू विल बी

ऑन दिस seat definitely ये पॉसिबल ही

नहीं है कि यह संभव ही नहीं

है कि यह हो नहीं बिकाज वी

आर इन दिस जर्नी वेन यू आर citing with the ritkाind ऑफ peopl आपकी

ग्रोथ होनी ही होनी। i believe this and family believe and

how i over come this kind of

reजistencis the first thing, i can say

community sport community sport make you feel like okay काम डाउन सबकी लाइफ में problem है everybody is going through एवरीबॉडी हैज देर रजिस्टेंस n yes i m very fortunate। because when i join that was the very small community, i can say i get connected many as many times as many times i want to ask question जली i can get advice it seeing

other growing consistency in action सो i was

i कैन सी i वज वेरी

कंसिस्टेंट फ्रॉम डे वन ई ज्वाइन redi no marwat whatever habits आई पिक i पिक अप तिल टुडे नो मैटर वाट

आम वेरी शाह ं कन स ई कैन साइन ऑन पेपर अदरवाइज तो मैंने उस हैबिट को चूस नहीं किया if i use that habit i give it। मई हंड्रेड परसेंट hंdrेdmnसhंdd नेवर एवर कॉम्प्रोमाइज

विदाट वैल्यू because i feel and this is happen true to me also if

i not follow what my mentors are

expected to me it is a disrespect

to my menter,

it is a disrespect

no me what i what ever in

sharing ke i m so grad ful

i feel that every single day, when i follow the bat i m living

with the values whatever मई मेंटर्स told me or so me, but i should

live this is the biggest respect, if i can do anything this is the whole thing i believe this from my

heart yes सो इफ द थ्री पॉवर

पिल्स फॉर moters i want तो शेर first fall im feeling very betr flyin my stam, because i remember i used

to lissnthese powerful pills from her and

then and today god has giving me chance it was super privelisaoner and thank

you ride for this opportunity so the power pil is self groth is not selfish आई वांट टू टेल यू द

काइंड ऑफ लव वी आर गिविंग तो other people इन वर लाइफ उसका अगर

हम सिर्फ फिफ्टी परसेंट भी अपने आपको

देने लग जाए

one can stop you become the रॉकेट जस्ट फिफ्टी परसेंट काइंड

ऑफ लव यू आर पुटिंग टु योर हसबैंड योर सन योर डॉटर इन लॉ

ज र एनीवन जस्ट फिफ्टी परसेंट you

start giving back to your self, you

start creating yourself with respect lot of dignity car trust me three सिटी डिग्री चेंजेज going to happen and we are

the first generation is doing this definitely, it is dificult for us i totally

understand, but it is not impossible एवरी सेकेंड यू इनवेस्ट इन योर सेल्फ car self grot is give you the tenixreturnnot

you and i can see the tenex

return to the नेx्टजनरेशon, so it is the investment and i believe one thing if the that came to you it is possible

so i remember i was doing parenting equal पैरेंटिग advocating equal पेरेंटिंग t tartedworking on mars that tout came

to me, why not i started working with maid people maid cuples and it

is possible eventually the thing started i get certified in marigintemacythen sex theripisandso i

m holding the fifteen terpes exprties nowrdisi⁇mexpert in fifteen terpes सो what i want to tell you सेकondthinग इस if the

थॉट केम इन योर माइंड के आपको पेरेंटिंग कोच मुझे बनना चाहिए, तो मतलब

बनना ही चाहिए no merwat थॉट इसीलिए

आया बeकausyou deserve that it that रहा है कि आई शुड बी in this spotlite, it means it is posible फॉर

यू ऐसे ही नहीं आएगा कोई भी चीज and i believe i m hardcord

believer in my torts, whatever the thats have geting from the universe ama hardcord

believer third, very important thing is i believe।

we all are different, we all are

different, and that is over stent some

time out of the outside pressure, because everybody is doing this this this we

also start doing the same thing and

puting presure on our self,

some time we need to understand and believe in your unic special quality the way you are seen things, it makes use difference it makes सेंस जस्ट allow your inner

guides iner compus to make believe it so we all are different। i believe and that is my strent im different, that is my stent, that is not my weakness i m a

different, my way of doing things is different। and that s my डिफ्रेंट and the next very important thing be best in your field। no matter what what ever it takes। सो बी बेस्ट मींस be बेस्ट यू

नो योर स्टोरी वेरी वेल what यू

आर डूइंग how you are taking the cases everything?

अंदर से आवाज आनी चाहिए नीलम कर

लिया शाबाश एंड आई कैन सी आफ्टर

सम टाइम आई साई वाव यू आर द बेस्ट जान लगा दी कर दिया ये फीलिंग अंदर से आनी चाहिए इट

मींस दी बेस्ट इन योर फील्ड नो

मैटर wat बिकाज दिस इस द फीलिंग

गिफ्स यू नो मैटर वाट आप अपनी

लाइफ में कहीं पर भी जाएं वन्स यू पुट एफर्ट टू बी द बेस्ट

इयर फील्ड जो फीलिंग आएगी न that is more than one card, trust me this make you make your existence worth it every day, you will feel him

god a existed im able to lit

up someone s life and i get this feeling so i feel that be vestiges field is one of the very

important थिंग and today i want to share it is very lmitedtreething, i can share thirty things i love about my menteri very easily, but yes i get

chance limited time three things so the

first thing is make complex thing, very simple is very simple and every topic, whatever we get to know even the sprituality is very difficult non enters i believe i talk वेरी famous people also, but no body talk about the sprituality said it is very personalit is is, but she is the one, who make that complex topic is also very simple,

its just frolikebagwatgeta sukun everything it makes

like its a very simple thing, but

i know its not simple that her quality कॉम्पेक things simple yes i hope

you all are agree with me put day for agitajildboxyesye the hundred percent thank

you yes next very important thing।

dep vison dedication

शी ज विजनरी leader

and i am very fortunate i get चांस to met many times with ride

and i can see the zeel in

h and depvisnary dedication it means ses dedicated vison दिमाग में और उसके लिए depleshe⁇sready whatever it takes सो i रeललy love।

अबाउट it no matter what so deep vison and contagios energy it means whenever

you spend some time with ride you

feel the energy, how hindi of you

agreputefor energy in a chart box, i

can feel the energy even physical वेneveर गेट चांस तो मीटू online zom everything

i can feel the energy energy is contigs वेरी काम and you प्रेजंट even sometime my questins आर नौट गेटिंग आंसर but the प्रेजेंस यर प्रेजेंट make me

रिअल केस का आंसर ये हो सकता है सो sometime some people care that energy इन द एनर्जी सेल्फ यू विल गेट योर pat it means शी इज

टार्च वहाँ पर आपको अपना रास्ता दिख ही जाएगा so i feel this redi and your energy is contigs and for

me it works like a magic to

be very ones maजicntलास्ट आ वान टो

शेर e p c

easy perenting have

did not just gro my incom

not

incom it expended my identity leadership and

impact so im proudly share wherever i go when ever people are appreciating this said i स्टार्टेड माई जर्नी हेर very

proudly are here so platinum was the

entry gate of a different version of

you if you are consistent and hard work, if you believe in yourself and i m still learning im still growing

thank you so much this is mijernygratful

for didi शेयरिंग and giving me space to share my journey with you thank

you so much amazing thank you so much nela what a wonderful journey and i m so so so proud of f you and i love what you shared first i love how you spoke about i picked on some practices and i stick with them so those of

you who are saying that can you

talk about some point you have to listen closely so mega yadev im talking to you the praising was happening to work the end but before that she share a lot of value how many of you got a lot of value f you got a lot of value put we for value in the chat box yes amazing so i m going to share with you the points that i learn first dicipline habits and you neelam has been with me for many years i think twenty two things in

two thousand twenty two and gratitude content

challenge that she was talking about was posting content on instagram on social media so she s been posting every single

day since then if you think it

s wow put wow in the chat

box and it is a journey of

patients and it is a journey of

consistency so all if you who want

bulbonmoments i on repeat what nelamshetbecensistent be

patient be diciplinttrust in yourself follow the process

be a lifelong learner do not

dout yourself even on days, when you feel over went take action spotlite myself even on डेज when you feel over went take action there will be das

when you be scared when you be waded when you feel i can do

it, but you still have to show

up and do the work

and how many of you are ready for that but are for ready in the chat box so every spotlite that you see here it is a story of patience consistencies surentring to the process bing dicipline following the plan not following the mood and i love how she said that if a that you know thats a learning for me also neelam i love that what you said there is a tout that is come to you then it is ment for you and it is going to happen for you if you take action with fat and trust otherwise the that will not come to

you

and she share that if you think you deserve to be or coach if the that is coming to you then one hundred percent it is going to happen for you and how many of you are feeling the same conviction

that neelam felt for you if you

re feeling it put feel in the chat box and i want to share

something that i learn from my mental doctor de martin

we see what we

want to see

i want all if

you to right this and i m going to a one more line to that we see who we are

so

when you see god in others that god is in you if you love this put love this is very important because when somebody is sharing we want to see the god in what they are sharing and when neelam is sharing something। good about me it all that god is in her, because you cannot see a quality in somebody else that quality is not in new,

how me now,

if you agree it that, but our age, you can not see in others, what is not a new, if you are judging others, then thats the quality

in new

if you feel others are iritating that iritation is in new and all of us have this good side and the shadow side and if you see god in others that quality is

in new so, if she got inspired and she saw discipline in me its,

because she has the potential to be

discipline and now she is very discipline because otherwise you can not see that

quality in somebody else

so, how me now if you feel that this was

a very inspiring story and you would love to learn more from neelam if

you would love that would love in

the chat box

no because just like

all of you she started with nothing

she was a teacher a professor she

quit her career she showed colage she quit and then she was starting from

zero

so from zero to almost three to five lack some month how many of you agree its a brilliant gorny

put be for brillient its more than what a lot of top consultant in this country are making people working for

bcg and being and all of that and shes doing this all of the

shes doing from home while she ras is her dotm and take care of

her family

and joint family right neela

currently i m in a nuclear family, but liartothersbak was in joint family, because

i remember you telling me joint family

yes yes joint family learning managing a

child quitting a career starting from zero

not नूइंगवैरशी head it and still not giving up and showing up every single

day

so how many of you are ready to be on a part like

that if you are ready put are for ready in the chat box,

because you now a ready one thing which

keeps me motivated of cause the mission

but also this one line that i

learn from my mentor if you want

an easy life do the hard work

now

and if you want to live

a hard life continue to live in

easy life now,

because all of us

have to experience the tuf life, so

you can do the tuf work now

and experience a comfortable life or you can live in comfort now and chose

to remain in discomfort forever

all of

us are inteligent and we can make

the right choice so i won t give you to options option on easy life discomfort forever option to do the hard work now and create comfort for ever which wendy one one or to to

so if you are thinking that you can live in ease and comfort for ever its not going to happen if you use to much ease to much comfort, now, you will remain in

discomfort, later, you are not remain, you are choosing discomfort for yourself, but if

you chose to step out of your comfort zone and do the hard thing।

now, and when i say had its

not that had what i mean by hard is you overcoming your fear of showing up, which neelam spoke about visibility,

you doing things that you ve not down in the past

and also one thing that i have learned from my journey is

there is pen right, there is pen in action,

and there is

pan when you dont take action, how

many of you have experience the pain

of not doing anything put e for experience i m also puting e for experience in the chat box

the pan,

when you feel i want to do something, but i m not doing मेरे

अंदर इतना potential है, पर मैं नहीं

कर रही, मैं करना चाहती हूं, पर

मैं नहीं कर रही।

there is no pan work and that

pan so, if your body has the

tolerens to go through that pan it

is betr you take action and go

throu द पेन ऑफ एक्शन,

because that

pain of action, will create progress and

it will be less painful,

but the pain of in action, it is more

painful and it keeps you stuck

so,

if you are a smart mother, or

if you are in inteligent mom, what kind of pain do you want pen in action or pain in action,

pain

in action, because pan is going to be that ideas you cannot run away। फ्रॉम पेन यू कनोट रन वे फ्रॉम

डिसकoमfort so, how me new or you

think that your going to be on spotlite super soon, but me the chart walk with a lot of eat,

and there is no rush, its not a

res, its not a competition, you can

do it that you re on face

with ease and grease,

and there is

nothing extra ordinary about nela, theres nothing extra ordinary about me, there is nothing

extra ordinary about any body who gets

spotlite it all of us have the common qualities coंसिस्टेंसी पेशेंस dicipline action showing up in spite of bingsketsoingup, even if

you dont know, what is going to

happen,

because you can never know, what

is going to happen

and i tell you one more thing and then we open for co।

ani, how many of you a gree

or understand that we need a lot

of energy, if you agree and understand,

and we need a lot of energy

to do anything, but e for energy in the chat box that yes we

need a lot of energy,

but for some of us the energy is missing

not, because the energy is not there

the energy s always there, but for

some of us the energy is locked

in the past,

because you in the

past o i have field i don⁇t thing i can do it i have

tried and a dent work out

or

some of you like my child, who from us are keeping me stop

the

way, they treated me or i din get a good quality education,

r, i

live in grew up in a small

town, so many reasons you know mothers

we have so we are stuck in the past, so all your energy that you need to create something

it stuck

in the past, so you dont have any energy to create because all your energy stuck in the past

and for some of us the energy is not

stuck in the past, but it stuck in the future। what if i feel what if i lose my money

so, we will not spend on and what if it doesnt work out वैट विल people, थिंक सो यौर आल योर एनर्जी स्टक कुछ किया

नहीं है, लेकिन करने के बाद क्या होगा वो सोच रहे हम पहले कुछ

करना है सो एनर्जी स्टक इन द फ्यूचर so again, you dont have any

energy her in the present

so, how many of you want to create something with this beautiful energy that god has

gifted you with before you check out।

if you want to create even if

it a something small, it is a

community of hundred motors, two hundred motors, three हंडरेड modes, if you want to

create something that you can call yours, but see for create in the chat

box, that i want to create

so

if you want to create something with

the beautiful energy that god has gifted you with stop living in the past stop blaming past past experiences or what mistakes to made in the past stop thinking about that and stop living in the future stop, predicting the future।

because i know one thing।

if you are doing the right thing

in the present moment, you are creating

a better future and a better past for yourself।

because what you doing this moment will become past one day and if you re doing the right thing in this

moment, your future is definitely, going to

be better

so, how many of you are going to be present focused put p f in the chart box, present focus you know its very simple we, just complicated life is simple work is

simple being free is simple everything is

simple, but we will not do the simple things। वी विल कॉम्पलिकेटेड बाय जस्ट थिंकिंग थिंकिंग

थिंकिंग क्या होगा, कैसे होगा, कब होगा,

क्यों करें किस लिए करें बाद में

करेंगे 2 साल बात करेंगे, 1 साल

बात करेंगे, पहले किया था, नहीं हुआ

तो इस टाइम पी नहीं होगा। i can do it i m not

gottforiti⁇mnot mentforitso all of this we have

to drop, because we have one life, देर इज सो मच work to do so if you all ready to take charge of your life put or see in the chart box its very important we stop blaming people, whatever you are feeling in this moment, if you re feeling happy you re responsible for it if you are feeling low, if you are feeling that your doing less, then what your supposed to do your responsible for it nobody else

if you feel

that emotionally or not feeling good your responsible for it। if you feel that financially your not doing well your responsible for it। we have to stop blaming aur chilin that because of my child i quit my career and because of that i

m not making any money and i

m not financially independent i have a

child, there are so many mothers in

this room, they have children

you just

to blaming your husband stop, blaming your family set up you have to stop blaming the city that you are living

in,

because i there, you can blame or you can create

and this is

what change everything for me you know

i use to blame a lot complain a lot pore time i was blaming complaining making excuses nobody loves me nobody support me nobody cards for me nobody

understands me i m not able to

do it, because of this, because of

that and because i was stuck in this zone, i was not able to do anything and then one find day

i dont know if it was god

of whatever i made this commitment की

मुझे कुछ हुआ था शायद मुझे एग्aक्टलीयाद

नहीं है क्या हुआ था i just

remember i was crying a lot

कुछ

हुआ था i think i as समिंग

सoमeबdyटolमe दैट नहीं होगा, मुझे बहुत दुख हुआ था i dont remember exactly what

happen i was कराइं लौट

and in

that moment i मेड डिसिशन आज के

बाद मैं किसी से किसी पे डिपेंड

नहीं करूंगी अपने लिए only god

एंड

वाटेवर आई वॉन्ट आई विल क्रिएटेड फॉर

माईसेल्फ if i want a back, i will make my independent to get that back for myself if i want a toy for my child i m on make my self independent so that i can afford that toy onosly speaking i was never and still i feel it was never a very career oriented viss। woman you know how some women are very drive in a very ambushes i was a very gharelu home, maker kind of a person

and for me in

home and family everything was that only

and thats why you know when i left my previous business, i did not make i did not feel at all i fail very relax घर पर रहेंगे बच्चे का ध्यान रखेंगे सबका but i was not able to stay like that।

because my one of my values is to be independent i dont want to depend

i make people feel that i depend on them, because on them to feel i need them, but i dont

want to depend on others for my

happiness and for the things i need and that s very important for all

of us because that s pen the growth happens

ambition is important, but you

know i tell you one thing that if somebody tells you that you know you are to embisus you should very proudly say yes i am very embisesbecausethere⁇s

nothing rong with that if you are

not embisus, you can be very open about it theres no right or wrong

it is all about what is true

to you

this is making sens put

m s n sometimes women i met

to feel bad about being amvisies। i think its a very good thing to be amvisieswhy।

will you not be an vises it

your life, but for me i m

speaking नैचुरली im नोट वेरी मुझे इतना

कुछ वर्ल्ड फेमस होना है या कुछ

वैसा कभी नहीं था मेरे ऊपर that you know when i was in a job, i did not have that drive that i got promoted।

because i was always a performer i

would give it my hundred percent whatever

i would do i would do it with a lot of love joy and i would give my heart and sold to that।

but i was not case you understanding

the energy, the difference, i was not somebody was looking forward कि मुझे प्रमोशन

मिले मिल गया प्रमोशन, क्योंकि मैं काम

बहुत मेहनत से करती हूँ और बहुत मजे के साथ इन a रिलैक्स स्टेट i do it with a लोट ऑफ़

क्रिएटिविटी वो मिल जाता था बट कभी

मेरा वह एम नहीं होता था कि

मुझे वो चाहिए

हर सम फ्रेंड हो

एम फॉर इट so thats the difference

is talking about

so i want all

you to be aware of who you are and what are your values

very very important you want promotion you thinking

about promotion will not get promotion what

will get promotion your creativity or execution your speed your availability your accountability all

of that will bring promotion to you because promotion is the by product of

your efforts and outcome

so you have

to focus on the imput not on

the outcome the outcome will happen if you keep giving the imput it so

now we will open for co an

lets start with magna

hi nilam hi neelam thank you very much for sharing your janet was very inspiring asridimansaid the consistency and the thortthet if something comes to my over mind it is supposed to happen and that s peviagetingitso was just mode by these tru concepts that you explain so i hi to questions me e first question is you talked about different now getting certified apart from parenting in the life coching you also got certified in different areas right so is there any bo old or anything that from there you got it certified so i want to get something is in other areas as so that will give me an idea like how to aproch those and also how was your first line like how do you video also follow the system of getting them into the the bear the whatsapp group and you started like that was there any other way to attract your first plain to the opportunity yah this are

my questions yes thank you magna these

are very beautiful question so the first question i love to anser how to

sertifichow to get certified in different field,

so i want to tell you when i joinplartinam i was totally want be a parenting coc?

and thats how i started working and i do work in a parenting feel

i कनडक्टेड i one on one i connected with clints and after that after some time, what happen when i was

connected with mothers, they came to me

with the prescription of depression and exit i remember and i dont know anything

about depression and exit that time so

i realised that i need to know

if people are coming to me so

i jinsikitrisand learn about everything and i⁇mwoldingaexpertis in mental?

helth also now depresi exit and vypolersinrom is my exprties so that how what happen after platinum i get evolve so i get क्लाइंट? and with the help of clint so,

then i completed mental help srtification after that i started couple cाउंcliandaftr that it is a gorny of evolving। if you cos like this first। what will happen मे बी विल नोट

लैंड प्रॉपरली वट आई वांट स्टार्ट वhatएvर ऑन यouर प्लेट serve in that eventually

will get to नो सो। i was aडवुकेटिंg equal पैरेंटिंग टू years

back only two thousand and twenty four

i started my community, it was a equal panting and after that again i

was eventually involving so now i am

a manage intemisiqogan sex herpes सो it was not never be a plan to be very ones i started thats why

i said प्लैट was स्टार्ट फ me to open the different world, and is

a gradual income gradual certification, it is a process, so my doctor is tener its a journey of i can say

ten years in the second question i⁇msoryi⁇mिसयोर कोश्tiन सेकेंड वाज

yeah you can unmet

now so second one was i wanted to ask you like whether you also follow the system of you know having your daily me bina to attract your clint? or what was your? how will how do you do that of clint yah i remember when i

was i din flat in a membership in two thousand and twenty twenty two redi gives think you can create a whatsapp group that time that was only the final so i created whatsapp group i put my whatsapp group नंबर ऑन द इंस्टग्राम ऑल सो दैट हाउस शी ट्रेन स टू बी वेरyoनसndiगेt थ्री टू फोर क्लाइंट naturaलyndwit थ्री और फोर c्lाइnटigwdऑफ माउंट अगन फाइफकलाइंटgan के लो बूस्ट कर 2 इंस्टाग्राम पर बूस्ट भी करते हैं, पोस्ट को बूस्ट करते हैं सो i remember invested four hundred three hंडrेd रुपीस that give me reटrरn of sixty thousndtobevery ones सो सिकटी थाउजंड रुपीज आफ्टर दैट शी सेड वी शुड नोट बूस्ट दे पोस्ट बिकॉज इंस्टाग्राम ज्यादा वो करता है सो दन stop अगन फॉलो मई मेंटर वट एवर शी सेड टू बी वेरyonstमनोट उसिंग ब्रेन so i started like this and eventually this was the journey has been started and yeah i do conduct webinar because i have a community, but i m working very closely do to my nich madigintemisian sex therapies so i m working very closely on a premium

level one on one basis so my expertise in one on one so i

charge hi and because i m holding the herpes सो theripीसis ऑलवेज कंडcटेd इन वन ऑन वन बेसिस so that s

how my business model so i have

my community as well as my sixty persent business coming from the one on

one and working with doctors and the platforms thats how my business model is

working for now definitely in two thousand

and twenty seven i have their plans

yes i want you to build a big community and i tell you why

of course i love one on one

and for some issue things you know may be one on one works, but

i did a lot of one on one when i started and i still do one on one, but very very

few reduced, it very peaking about the one on one that i do why because the future of anything that you

are doing even if you are in

service of selling make up that even

if you are in a business of

selling make up you have to have a community otherwise you will not so wife।

because what is business business is building

something that is scalable number one number to something which will eventually give you freedom of time otherwise you will always please self employed if this is making sens put m s so if you

see how many of you think that i show up for you a lot and i do a lot for you if you feel that could feel in

the chat box, because sometime some of you are sing that man to many messages to many many calls to mine

this to many that, but if you

see even if i do for hours a day to hover call in the morning two hour in the evening twenty

hours i have free to learn

to learn to grow and to k create

more content i give it back to you guys so what neelam shared i love the way you anser the first

question it is a journey with which your students will design for you so

what you see in platinum also it

has been designed by you guys i

give you an example when i started i was only certified as she parenting

coach when i started speaking with mother

s i realised inko to life isu बच्चे में कोई इशुज ही नहीं है the problem is the mother is not able to manager emotions and all of that that when i got certified as

a life coach then i sat speaking

to more parents and i realized at

the problem in the relationship husband and wife or always fighting so how is the child going to feel com so, then i did relationship then one day platinum call somebody sing mam i need to heal i need more healing i m not feeling good we did hope nopol, then i did nlp now we did eft like just today i created a video on a meditation for chilrend to feel com during exams and a

meditation for mothers to feel com when

chien are taking exams now this is

coming from you guys i think somebody

sent me or message and then i

got like okay let me create one

for mothers also because mothers are taking

more stress than children children a relaxed there in the screen mothers are not getting sleep mothers are going into depression

and all of that so understand that

you know its very importent like in

the relationship this time when i launch

the relationship certification added a hold segment

on sex why because a lot of

questions i was getting from you guys

that you know some of you are

sending me messages that i dont want

to have sex i m just doing it like an act im getting those

messages i get emals i get whatsapp

messages a lot of you are sending

me messages that my husband doesnt want

to have sex with me

so you

know then i created on hold segment which i think will be launch i think it s already live or ma

will get life by to maru and so understand one thing that whatever you become you will become because of your students, you have to listen to your student very closely your students will tell you what they want and when they

tell you what they want you keep

giving it to them very quickly like this message on meditation for kids i

think i got to days a go on mother message my name it will be very nice if you can create

a meditation for my child during exams

and she gave me that message and that i dont let me create one

for mother so two days implemented now

by to more you will get it to de i recorded to more well edited and will put it

so listen

to your students and keep taking action or students will design your holder if you love and this is going to

be the same for all of you so true amazing love that lets puda

amazing for magna and nel lets get

kila

akela you can anmedyournotyable to something

from your and

yes my god thank

you

actually i had a few questions i had fo questions but after us pok a few things c clear thank you so much for the clarity coming to em im one of the person who always see neelams post in platinum ben and she always inspire me a lot from the beging when i started my video challenge from your whatsapp group she was the one first help me in editing and she s very silent even to her calender are busy i really didn know who she and what she is doing, but she help me। se are the first person who help me in video ting? when i got some problem, then later i got to know that she s relationship coach and all i saw her wins in platinum so neelam every post, whatever you post in wenis has been an inspiration for me so, i said i read your post, i get inspired from each and every feedback of your clinsthankso much for posting consistent patna group so one thing i always have problem in my physical draningसो i be drain physically so that i not be able to consistently do whatever i m doing so can you give me few tips on those things। because i do take care of myself eating goodfodbrinking water and slip everything, but still things are on me requirnment the availability of myself my family members is more so, sometimes i feel physically drain to these days in facing challenges to focus on new new things, which i have started parent digital coching or my classes my community all this things so how did you manage physical dan when you who are into so many things।

thank यू akila थैंक यू सो much i take your whats is a gratitud।

सो thank यू so much for appreciate

and the second question is very good। कैसे हम अपने होकर the first in m working with docter, i can be very ones, check your vitamin b t and vitamin d the first thing is this। इफ यू are a female। because i am seeing the reports and all इफ यू आर fीeलing dran प्लीज डू नोट पुश योर मच इस बॉडी

सिग्नलिंग यू something i imiditeली get चेक

bitinafoरमoंथ alवaज vitamin डी an bीटवेल इन दोनों में से कोई 1 चीज कम

होगा, जिसकी वजह से ऐसा हो रहा है।

simple and there is tablets are always

available first thing is this second thing

is fisica हाव कैन यू मेंटेन बिकज आलसो i रिमेंबर बिकज we have टो

वर्क अलॉट इन दिस field सो आई

रिमेंबर आई आलसो गेट जैसे लगता था 5 परसेंट बैटरी बची है शाम को 8 बजे 9 बजे आई फील्ड ड्रेन आउट सो अगेन to ride and i रिलाइज asgard jus work for me magically चूस तो slip इट इस नोट जस्ट लाइक ए म फीलिंग ड्रेन टू बी वेरी ऑनस वंस आई स्टार्टेड टेकिंग ऐशगॉर्डचूस फॉलो ड्वाइलरiधी सो अगेन कंसिस्टेंट फ्रॉम पास, इ थिंग नाइन टू टेन मंथ्स सो उसके बाद न आई विल चूस टो

स्लीप मुझे प्रॉब्लम नहीं होती की फीलिंग

ड्रेन नॉट ईवेन इफ गेट बट वन और टू कोई इतना फर्क नहीं पड़ता आई डोंट नो हाओ दिस वर्क ब उसको फॉलो किया है और मैंने अपने अंदर ही चेंजेज देखे सो यू कैन

आलसो फॉलो दिस आई होप दिस विल हेल्प यू आउट फिजिकल स्ट्रीम के लिए बहुत फर्क काता है सो यू विल हैव एवरी नाइट एवरी मॉर्निंग री मॉर्निंग

वेरी सिम्पल कोई टेस्ट नहीं होता उसे

पटाक से पी लो उसको एंड आई

फॉलowतोरिधीना न्होंने बोला था चुपचाप कर लो

उसको सिल थैंक यू थैंक यू सो

कैन डू आई कैन आलसो डू दिस जस्ट फॉलोइंग के manage जाएगा energy and vitamin d n vitamin be

you thank

you mala you re suchininspiration।

thank you amazing।

अमेजिंग फॉर किला येस मैनेजिंग और एनजिंग

नाव सिमरता

yes। thank you so much for this potli, i would like to thank dedeman for giving of this platform, where we can connect one another and i think some of us are made such amazing friends that you know we sol tel so comfortable with each other and when i started leadership neelam was in our team and she s one person, i c question poco even if she s not cias, she will revert back and she s always very com and composed and she will replied back as if you know very down to art so thank you so much neland i really look up to you for so many things, always and my questions like। right now। akila said was consistency you know hmg hamesha, we are consistent for the few days and after that i dels bani okay beacedintwenty days, thirty days, then you feel giving up for a few days and then getting back to the same thing। what cept you going। what always keep you going and second thing। i also wanted to ask what made you pick the maragentemisy field, you know a lot of people feel की हां it, शould बी mal ya you know i m some people may given comments to me or you know a time being in the indian, society you may face a lot of from your own family। also की ये क्या कर रही है? so what made you go to this field, was the second। thank you।

thank you sim for the ep्रीcिatioन।

ई टेक इट थैंक यू सो मुच एंड इस फर्स्ट क्वेशन इस हाव यू

कीप गोइंग कंसिस्टेंट तो चेतन भगत की

मुझे 1 बात याद है कि सम

टाइम वी ऑल

फॉल डाउन समटाइम आल

सो आई हैव क्रिएट a कैलेंडर ऑफ माइन मुझे पता है 21 दिनों में मुझे जान लगानी पड़ेगी बिफोर the period टू बी very on before the पीरियड न पुट कैलेंडर की 7 दिन है

जो बहुत मुश्किल है नीलम जहाँ पर

कंसिस्टेंसी ब्रेक होती है दिस इज माई

पार्टन सो आई कीप थिंग अगर तुम

करोगी तुम्हें आईस्क्रीम मिलेगी तुम्हें 500 रुपए का डिस्काउंट मिलेगा तुम्हें नाइट का से गिफ्ट मिलेगा सो आई कीप दिस फॉर

माई सेल्फ की तुम्हें न 500 की

1800 की लिप्सटिक लेनी है मैं तुम्हें बुलाउंगी तुम्हें 7 दिन मेंटेन करना ट्रस्ट

मी आई डिड एव्री सिंगल मंथ बिकॉज आई नो आई विल स्लिप पीरियड से

पहले वाला 1 हफ्ता आई विल स्लिप एंड आई क्रिएट दिस कैलेंडर फॉर माई सेल्फ सो अगर कभी स्लिप हो भी जाए तो गिव योर सेल्फ अरे यार तुम्हे 5000 की ट्रिप दिला देंगे तुम्हे

5000 का खाना खिला देंगे कुछ भी

और तो कुछ कुछ नहीं, समझ में आता तो मतलब कुछ न कुछ सबका 1। टेम्पटेशन होता है दिस इस द थिंग सो ना माई चैलेंजेस अच्छा अगले महीने में नीलम को कैसे लालच दूंगी सो माई चैलेंज इस नोट दिस नाव हाऊ टू ब्रेक में भी मैं कंसिस्टेंसी विल बी देयर और नोट टू बी वेरीoनबिकज आई क्रैकेट आपके भी कोई दिन होंगे जब वो दिन हो सकता है?

वो पीरियड्स के बाद में वो पीरियड्स

के अराउंड होते हैं? बिकॉज आई म वर्किंग क्लोजली वित मदर्स i m a कॉम सूत्रा एक्सपर्ट सो इट इज रिटर्न इन काम सूत्र एंड साल के दर्शन की फीमेल साइकिल ऐसे

ही काम करते यू विल नोट गिव

योर हंड्रेड पर्सन और एव्री सिंगल डे सम डेज यो ट्वेंटी परसेंट इज योर

हंड्रेड परसेंट सो मेक शोर हम अपने

आप से कनेक्ट रहें, प्यार करें एंड गिव योर सेल्फ सम लालच और कुछ काइंड ऑफ़ थिंग वर्क सो i डिट

sometimes we all slip ऐसा नहीं है नीलम?

कंसिस्टेंट है सो पोस्टिंग में थोड़ा सा कंसिस्टेंट है अगेन i want this is a feeling in?

मी अगर मैं नहीं होंगी सो इमडिरिस्पेक्टिग माई मेंटर i dont know, but this

is my self belief ive created so if i will not do the gratitude, and this may be disrespecting my mentor

so that s why i m doing it it its not me it is

my menter, who is running in my blood and making me to do this thank you to be very ones, this is how i creat, because i नो कौन से दिन में स्लिप होगा everybody,

तो use this idea want to be in everybody is blood

consistent in thing।

you are asking about the maris intemisiand sex theripisyathis is a very bold step, if i way back in to osan twenty three and twenty to even i

am not able टू थिंक अबाउट it

nevev सो it is again ग्रेजुअल प्रोग्रेस when i started working with mother सम

time दे केम टू मी वित पार्टनर

so i started they have their relatinship sus and i realize रeलaशnशip iशusnotrelatinsip sus they are inr child and troma inform people। सो आई लर्nइनरचाइल्ड हीलिंग ट्रामा हीलिंग अगेन विथ सम ऑफ मेंटर after that i can see the have improved, but there is a इंटमिसीइशूस that made me realize,

why not if people need it, you

should go again, be the best in

your field, and i can betet i

can rated on my paper the way i condectedthe sex teripisandeverything no when can do this, because i m the best and my ments are also saying this so, why i puting my efrt ve long that is imposible टो betme in

my field सो i believe in this

again, दिस इज आलसो in my blood। अगर मेरे पास कोई केस आया अगेन दैट मदर केम टू मेक वित द

प्रेस्किप्शन ऑफ डिप्रेशन एंड exाiटyicैn live it

and कontिनयूविt िस बट अगेन आई वांट

टू बी बेस्ट मैंने फिर उसके पीछे

पढ़केसएकएक्ट्रेस के साथ सीखा। इसी तरीके से ये जरनी evolve हुई एंड कम टू द सेक्स थेरेपिस्ट या दिस इज अ वेरी टेबो टॉपिक येस

बट एवरी सिंगल टॉपिक इफ टॉट इन अ रियल वे अगर आप उसको मास्टरी

लोगे आपको वो लगेगा यानी वन गो थ्रू द रिगवेद कामसूत्रा सांख्य दर्शन रस

सूत्र अब तो वो सबसे अच्छा टॉपिक

लगता है मुझे एंड एम टेकिंग द कपल काउंसलिंग एंड वर्किंग अबाउट सेक्स वेरी सिम्पल एवेरी सिंगल टॉपिक इवन people आर गिविंग मी द फीडबैक आई नेवर मेट 10 काइंड ऑफ थेरेपिसएवरआईव्श वुड कम अर्लियर

सो बी द बेस्ट एंड बेस्ट नॉलेज

मेक एवरी सिंगल टॉपिक वेरी easy जस्ट लाइक वोटर नॉलेज से पढना तो पैरेंटिंग भी बहुत डिफिकल्ट है, बट जब मेंटर्स हैं, सिखाने वाले लोग हैं तो सीखो और उसके बाद बट घुस जाओ उसमें

सो yes that थिंग एंड मुझे नहीं

लगता कि मुझे तो लगता है सबसे

खूबसूरत topic a sex to be very

ones a very comfortable talking with men

femal and everything and i viशबeकuज i m टेकिंग 10 टीन आलसो so i

m closely working with three hundred plus teens and i realized this is the one thing is mising इन इंडियन eजुकaशonandthats

wy creating a cos so yes yes

thank you so much neelam i think a lot of knowledge and you know even for consistency me all game i will be is in h ridimamcyakhega in future and yes you know i have to stay up to her so men this thing that you said we should be best in felwenbeusa you let s,

but a for amazing for simta annie and yes i just want to tell all। if you one thing and is just

like a precasnarything for everybody your whim sharing this। because, sometimes when you your something you

feel i should do that thing

its

very important to understand and that you

have to do what is true to

you

this is making sense put m

s in the chat box why।

because you cannot you know when i started this journey a lot of people

were telling me do for kids, because

mothers we only pay for kids। because mothers dont think that they need

help,

but i was i can not do that, because my thing is to help mothers।

because that s my experience and now

of cosse and platen we are doing children।

but i took my own time to a right that point so this is

very important to understand। and this is one line i learn

from my mental ble यू कैन नोट मेक milions डूइंग what s in ट्रेंड यू can only make millions doing, what is true to you so if you

follow the trend the trend may take off, but you will not take off, you will only take off। if you do what is ट्रू टू, you

so one thing all offers have

to learn all offers have to grow। and there are certain topics that they

are non negotiable s, like i feel parenting life coaching relationship these are topics that all of first need to know।

because its like a way of life।

because you have to raise your child you have to live your life, you

have to live with your partner, so these are topics that all of us need to learn, but understand that never

ever

get distracted and because every time

you your something, because i can sense that energy i could be rong, but

i can sense that energy thats why

as a mental im telling all of

you do what is through to you। if this has been received depliwicare for received in the chat box and im so proud of you need and very

important to be confident about what your teaching। because if you re not confident, you

can not transfor confidence to your students

so very important and you can only be confident।

if you are a good student of that subject that confidence will come if you are a good student of that subject so very very important amazing now

will take one more shagoftam।

yes peeling so proud of you nel thank you thank you for using me

i think nilam in terms of following the mental vibotararlike i always tel man wenever you say something मई सबकॉंशस जस्ट sक्सिtiन र इज नो interface over there so thank you so much, thank you so much and i m all rest in red because we had a valentin celebration so i think its very close to the intimecy so being a so being a gainak i had lot of patients coming in specially the newly weds so the husband would tell me please go in check harved something is rong with a she doesn allow me to go for the so that is something which is now i think what you said is very true it would be put in the schooling system, where they just teaching the sex education, but their not teaching intimacy both a equally important, but okay my question is like an you get in to coaching and there would be some question that somebody mit ask and you might fell ill stuck you may not have the anser so, how do you read that time

thank you sagte its a beautiful questions so its reality uan reality we dont know everything so i said i dont know,

because you are going to deal with

the real people and real pe no the differenc between you are telling them

i dont want to make any one

was any single minutes so i said

imidiatly i dont know that particular topic and i re direct them if i

know someone smon came to me and

i know this is a urologist case, i will re direct them।

i said i dont know anything about it so i can not help you आउट this is a human we are

you all a human we can not

know everything its very normal i feel that so casually even my daughter is asking to me something it she sten

so i said i dont know because i m also a first time mother, how do i know that have never get experience as a mother i am only tanierroldmother so dont way you are

teniri⁇m lso tenierroldmote ई डोंट नो so i said this imidiatly i said its not so i like this only, i

also give the same response to the second thing is when do you know you are ready just going to getting into the coating thing im recording in all। सो वेन डू यू नो you are ready ई डो think that is comes till you jump into the water, right और कम at some point of time,

so may be you heard me to saying when i din din platinchagofta i

was not ready i was i was i was ready to becoming the red me, i can i was not।

रेडी बिकज आप सोचिए न मतलब अभी मुझे कल अभी आइस्क्रीम खाने

i join platinum to get ready to be ready

so that same same with me। because you dont know the skills so

how can you be ready, जोन मई मेंटर्स ई डि नो हॉव to make

videos and that was one of my take a was that i remember i

did know how to make a videos or anything?

सो you join you get ready to so that you can get ready you

go to make up artist to put

make up to get ready।

because you dont know how to get

ready yourself

yes actually that was happen। सो i i रेमेम्बर कोई भी चीज का है न कुछ भी निकाल सकते है, मतलब आइसक्रीम खाने जाना है, उसका आंसर है भी हो सकता है, न भी हो सकता है तो कुछ नहीं अगर मेक डिसीजन एंड मेड राइट टू बी very on स ए जस्ट mad डिसीजन एवरी डिसीजन मेडेड एंड ईवन मई हजबैंड टोल्ड मी बोलने का कौन पैसा देगा माई मदर इन लॉ टोल्ड मी वाई यू आर पुटिंग थ्री लैक कॉन

दिस दिस है डोंट यू बाय गोल्ड जूलरी सो एवरीथिंग was हैपंड समटाइम यू

नीड टू ट्रस्ट ऑन योर सेल्फ राइट कुछ न कुछ तो सब बोलेंगे ही यू नेवर गेट वेट फॉर रेडी मतलब अभी मुझे शादी में जाना है तो आई कैन गो एंड आई कैन कीप टल टचअप डू थिंग्स डू थिंग्स उसका कोई रेडी का कोई भी साइन नहीं है जब लगे कि भाई मैं इतनी रेडी हो सकती हूँ चलो इतने के

ही साथ चलते हैं एंड पीपल को आप हो समवन नीड्स हो आई टेल यू when people are giving you feedback यू लिट their लाइफ मतलब आपके अन्दर

न वो वाली फीलिंग आएगी i कैननोट

xपलेट्रस्टमी आई कैन नॉट एक्सप्लेन ईवन समन

gives me fifty कarोds never get this

फीलिंग वन समवन इन फ्रंट ऑफ यू टोल्ड मी यू change my life you change the perspective एंड यू कैन सी

the रियल पीपल दैट मेड यू रियलाइज

द पॉवर गोड हैज गिवन टू यू

बिकाज यू डोंट नो वाट इज इनसाइड इन यू गार्ड ने डिजाइनिंग कुछ दुनिया को ऐसे किया कि हम दुनिया भर

को ढूंढते हैं, बस खुद को ढूंढने।

मुझे लगता है हमारे अन्दर न बहुत

अंदर बहुत कुछ है।

एंड गार्ड ने इसकी चाबी किसी और को दी हुई है। तो फाइन योर पीपल दे विल कम टो यू एंड विथ द हेल्प ऑफ दोस पीपल। you will get the feeling of milion dollar living life। i feel that you need to find the people and serving is only the

way, nothing is thank you so much nel।

thank you i feel like a little vivid going to flap into the world on career is over for the next। क career? i really feel like that little tadpole

that little fish just going to jump

in go little lances, but a very happy to go there, thank you so

much for amazing for jagotta, will do one more and then we may be to more okay nia।

बिफोर यू स्टार्ट क्राइम

थैंक यू फॉर द ऑफोर्चुनिटीमेरा क्वेश्चन यह है नीलम का तो बहुत अच्छा था, पर सुना नहीं, लेकिन उन्होंने जो है ये डिप्रेशन के ऊपर कोचिंग करे तो ये कैसे साइकराटिससीहानीलम मेरा कोेश्शनयेहैकी किस टाइप के किस किस साइकाटिसकेबाद उन्हों किस टाइप की आपको ट्रेनिंग दी।

ओके मुझे ही चाहिए।

थैंक यू दिस वेरी ब्यूटिफुल केशन अगेन सो मैं उनके पास गई, मैंने बोला की आपने कितने दिन का, कितने दिन

में यह सब कुछ सीखा है।

बोला मुझे 2 साल लगा और इतना पैसा लगा टू बी वी आई आई विल गिव यू द सेम अमाउंट ऑफ़ मनी इन सेवन मंत कैन यू डिलीवर

मी ही

वो देते हैं। तो क्या आप वो मेडिसिन प्रिस्क्राइब करते हैं का आप भी मेडिसिन प्रस्क्राइब करते हो?

नहीं, मैं मेडिसिन प्रस्क्राइब करती हूँ। नहीं, मुझे अथॉरिटी है ना आई कैन ई कैन नोट राइट मेडिसिन ऑन पेपर बज, नोट पी एस डी होल्डर रिकमेंड मेडिसिन नाव बिकॉज ऑफ होल्डिंग सर्टिफिकेट सो आई कैन रिकमेंड मेडिसिन आई कैन सी

रिपोर्ट न एवरीथिंग सो, दैट हाऊ आई स्टार्टेड सो।

आप लोगों के पास जाओगे उनसे हेल्प मांगोगे मुझे लगता है वो रेडी है

हेल्प करने के लिए सो दैट वाज

वेरी ब्यूटी वेरी जेनरेस डॉक्टर एंड। उन्होंने सेवन मंत मुझसे पे भी लिया, सिखाया भी ऐड द सेम टाइम आई डू द फ्री काउंसिलिंग फॉर देयर देयर

पेशेंट्स सो फॉर, थ्री मंथ सो इट टेन मंथ जर्नी। 3 महीने का मैंने रोल लिया तो

थ्री मंत मैं उनके साथ में काम किया।

इट विल गिव मी रियल में रियल

एक्सपीरियंस ऑफ़ पीपल और मुझे समझ में आ रहा था कि फिर मैं अभी भी उनके साथ में काम कर रही हूं। जहां पर रिजल्ट 8 महीने में आना होता है जैसे डिप्रेशन एंग्जाइटी में टैबलेट के साथ। जब हम साथ में काम करते है तो कभी कभी 6 महीने में आ जाता है, 6 महीने में आता है तो फर्क पड़ता है उसका बहुत क्या

आप पोस्ट बता सकते हैं की वहां

के

ने आपने कितना लिया था।

आज दिस कैन

मनी रेलेटेड केशंस okay yeah lets amazing for neha, because they are being very generic with sharing lets

not ask uncomfortable questions that okay with

everybody put okay in the jackboxsowe not

ask how much do you pay and where did you go and then me ha all this just put lot of

pressure and also may बी things that sometimes people dont want to share so

may be you can ask more generic

questions about her life that would be more easy on her okay so lets

go to karti

thank you so much ride for this opportunity and neelam de। i know you and we have a in multiple times, multiple times on her wins and i remember when i join पी एच nab during a couple of month itself i was able to connect with you and you are really really powerful and we have connected multiple times for other purposes as well i have some relatives or who i needed her and yeah she really generic with her support and the way you guide is really genin so thank you so much for being you that actually help us to connect with you without any fear and without even thinking about it so thank you so much for that my question i would like to us to question one is little one that i have a young dater she s only three and a half year scool so her shedul changes and if she home she go to school that is a please school so i dont have a lot of time for myself i work i work with one to one lines right now and the way you said it is giving so much satisfaction to me that i am able to support them in so many ways now and i am also going on this journey i am learning so much from them when i am actually connecting with them i am able to device more things for them। because i dont know a lot of things and i m able to device certin things for them so that itself is a great gorny for me, but as my daughter is really young sometimes i have some action item for me for the day i m not able to do it being the court and being practicing grafoterpi⁇mreally com now i understand that my days not be seen, but what advise you can give me in that situation। because i am come, but sometimes there are things that need rent requirment of my time and those cases sometimes i had to get up to lead in the evening also, and that disterb my shedul the next day so how i can deal with such a situation with the young child in a better way, first is this and second i am i am ready to launch myself as a coach i would like to work with my communities im working on that also and in twenty twenty six i am going to launch that as well so what would you advised me on that। because ve been working with one to one, but community is little different as compare to one to one so what advise you can give me on that

as well thank you caty its been amazing, thank you for your application, yes

its a very beautiful question three and

have fear oldatertresme gain am telling you

very onos बहुत कुछ। अगर प्लेट में रख लेंगे न तो डिलीवर नहीं हो पाएगा टू भी वेरी

ऑनेस्ट सो टेक दैट मच यू आर able to eat टू भी vेरyoनसटहनकहीं जा

नहीं रहा वो वापस, फिर आ जाएगा कल जाके वो खाना ले लोगे, 1

महीने बाद ले लोगे सो इन और

लाइफ वी नीड टू अंडरस् प्रायरिटी इज ऑलवेज प्रायरिटी सो फॉर एग्जांपल य डॉक्टर

विल नोट से नी थिंग बट यू

विल फील बैड if you are not

the टाइम सो इट इज योर bran विल नॉट स्टार्ट वोर्किंग सो फॉर मी

फॉर exampl if i m नोट गिविंग time to my डॉटर मई ब्रेन विल

नॉट स्टार्ट वर्किंग प्रoprलy if i had

not the good relationशip with my partner

brain is not wl्kiंगसोyjst want to ad

her my परोलिtीइजमई फaमिलy so its the work that i m डूइंग apart from this sometime take second t stand सो

कभी कभी न 2 बजेगा 3 बजेगा, उस दिन जग जाओ ये सोच के की ये 23 बजेगा न किसी दिन लाखों बना के दे देगा ट्रेस एवर ई गेट चांस तो नीलम परेशान मत हो यह तुम्हें लाख देगा चिंता मत करो व एवर यू आर इन्वेस्टिंग विल कम बैक टू यू नेक्ट मंत डोंट वरी परेशान तो आई काउंसिल माई सेल्फ से प्लीज परेशान मत हो अगले महीने का टर्नओवर देखना बढ़ जाएगा तुम्हे घुमाने ले जायेंगे सो बिकज दिस इस हैप्पनिंग होगा तो मेरे साथ तो ऐसा ही होता है, आई डू दिस एंड यू आर आस्किंग अबाउट द कम्युनिटी सो yes i am also being on the journey so, i am not a right person

to ansar this cossr, i feel rides

a right person talking about the community, because i am also on the process, so i dont have a big community, very small community to be very ones

and i am also working on it so i feel that ride anser this

beter सो टेल यू वन थिंग अबाउट community सो you dont think of the

community is anything, but your family, like

it is your family s understand that

when you are wanting to build a community, you have to have the mind

set, that the world is my family

so my definition of family is नोट मेरा पति, मेरा बच्चा, मेरा घर, और

मेरा छोटा सा ये संसार और परिवार।

because if that is your mind set,

it will be a struggle, your mind set should be that im god s

child and the world is my family,

and then the sky, the mount in the walls, the otion, the sun, the

moon belong to me so now, when

i do something for you city, i

m not thinking that i m ignoring

my child, because you are also a

part of my family so, when i show for you one one hundred percent in one thousand percent with you im not thinking that i m doing a disservice to my family by being here with you, but i feel i m giving so much to my son to my husband i need to do something for this family, that even when i have alidgiowarever i show up i⁇mnotlikenotjoing up and my husband i actually told me that you know why are you going with this space and doing a call you know ones i had that askin alegi and my whole face soledad, if i can show you my face, i can show them my face

so for

community, we have to all be very inclusive and we have to

priti the mission and this is one thing, i

learn from my meter bled mission first community next me last so this means

i will put myself last, i will

put you guys before me and even

before you i will put the mission।

what is this mean if you do

something that goes against the code of

one which means if you come to

the space and you start selling and

you try to corrupt a space i

will have to ask you to leave

why because i protecting the mission not

because i dont love you i love you i know you did it may

be it was just act sponteniusudidt maybe or intension was good, but still to

protect the mission i ve to ask you so first i विल प्रायटाइज दे

मिशन then i precise the community and then i think about my plans so

for community you have to

you have

to literally for your heart and soul,

but the love a community can give

you can not get it any where

in the whole cosmos the amount of

love i get from you guys i

feel what i do is nothing compared

to what i received mount of love messages every day।

you know like every day twenty thirty

forty alier you know n i started i would take screen short, i would

mentain a folder, now have sopditsimposible mentain a folder of the messages that i

get so and you know i also realized onthing in the begning।

when you re starting like for me

oneslyi⁇m being very onest mony was never

the motivator, but even if money is the motivator eventually to can not be a motivator, because there will come a

point where you have a lot of money a, and you not know what

to do with that money yes so

iventuallyor motivation has to be something bigger

than new something larger than new yes for me my motivation is to make

every single mother in every सिंगल home in the world a god cॉnशeसmother and

was cultivating a got consious child and

i know that even if i live

for a hundred and fifty years at

something that i have to keep working to words।

because the goal is so be so

the gol gol is never going to

the money is an outcome money is not the god the money is an outcome of the service and all if

you are going to become coaches, here

i want you to keep money, as an outcome of your service, you re gold should be to serve and you can decide who you wish to serve

and its not like we make the

decision god, makes the decision god will

del kati you are for henritingnelem you

for sex and relationship revit for this

got टोल मे र फॉर पैरेंटिंग and earlier it was happy families and suddenly got came and like make people got

cons i डेंट इवन नो द वर्ड

got कांशस साथ में ये 2 वर्ड

मैंने कभी कहीं पढा नहीं था, मुझे

कभी हर्ट कांशेस पेरेंटिंग because of few people do that, but are never heard

of these two words together got consious

and one day when i was rating my mission i right my mission every

day before i sleep i was ring,

it was the day of actrita and i show ve shared deciding in the

past i was writing my mission it was tritiya and i rod m m

i help mothers become got contes and

rise got consious cilriandmyholbody started vibrating and i started kring and i did not

understand why i road that। because i didnt know these words together lucky the next day। morning i had a call with my

mentor and i told him and then

you know he told me that now that it has showed up। you have to go in share। because it s very difficult to today lets today in the call am telling

you that my missen is to help mothers build happy homes to build happy families that is the mission।

अब मैं आपको अगले हफ्ते, आगे कोई अलग मिशन बताउंगी तो आपको तो लगेगा

क्या हो रहा है i you think

the what is rong with i was fीलingवeरीs्ced pls got cones i m not a spiritual guru iv not edsomnspriulनली नॉर्मल घर का जो पार्ट पूजा होता है

लाइक हनुमान 40 durga chalisa and all

those chalisa as i had done, but

i ve not read all these vedas

and tex and how can i go

in talk about god so i go

to my mental and i ofcourse you

know because i was over end, i

was crying and selling him that i dont know what to do with this

line it, but i dont now what

to do it this c most definitely

not going to go and talk about it।

because i feel i don⁇thave the credibility be it will be so veer। because just yesterda told them something else

and thats why having a mental is

so important and he told me that you dont have a choice,

but you

have to go and t talk about

this

and like ne live share that i do what i he tells me i do what my mental tells me

i don⁇t think so now he told

me you have to go and share now i am thinking okay he s told me i have to go and

share his name is bled he told

me have to go and share, but i dont now how to go and share

som asking him that you know

how do i go in shares?

you think।

यही पे और कुछ नहीं you think

and you wate the anser will come

to you that for he told me

you wet and you think and the

anser will come to you that all

paid to an a half lack rupees

for one our and im thinking।

ya ya खुद soc,

but thats the

anser gaming, but sometimes not giving and anser can also be the best anser

and that s by you know we

sometimes feel that okay wish i get the anser, but sometimes not getting so you know i didnt get the anser

that day and i gain i did

what he told me wat and you think and the anser will come to

you so i m pain im doing puja and am जस क्या बताऊं मैं

मदर को कैसे बताऊं गोट कॉनशस मदर

बनना है how do i connect this

with my previous mission, how do i

pevitfrommy old mision into this mission and it was आlमोsटलike bomb fel मी, and

i got this that riti you keep

talking about mom energy, because i is to give the situation right, mom energy

equals, child energy equals family energy equals

world energy, and i got this feeling mom energy कहा से a i had

never that about it till that day, but because i kept asking i got

स think, where is all this energy

coming from, and i was like okay, if i want more energy, we re

i get more energy from and then

i s thinking can i go to

my mom and then as like no,

i don t to take energy from my mom, she is becoming old, she

needs more energy, and can i go

to my sister, now they need there on energy, because first you think about

taking from your family, right, and then i was just game you minut

and thats when this whole thing came to me that if i want energy in

this material world, even if people have

energy to give i dont want to take it from them, because they deserve to keep the on energy, and i

can get it from any way so, where do i get it,

and then it all came to me that there s only one space, where there is

an unlimited flow of energy, when i

can keep going back to again, and

again again and again, and that s god, and then what i did was

just before mom energy added god energy

and the equation was complete, and then the equation became god energy equals mom

energy equals child energy equals, family energy

equals world energy and that s how you know i change i went to

the next class, and i told them he have telling you about building। happy family s happy ho shifting mom energy, but today i want to tell

you how will you shift your mom energy, how will you get all that energy from so you have to go back to god। when you want that energy so i feel that you know community will happen when you understand that this whole world

is your family every single one is

it every single person is my family why।

because we are all spirit soles, we are all part and parcel of the divine, we are all children of god so, we are all children of god,

we are all related the material world we give our sells lables hindu muslim american, indian pakistani this that but actually there are no lables, we are all

and we all belong to the same

family and there is one common language,

we have the language of god

so,

if you lookat that you will never

feel that when you re serving somebody your neglecting somebody

yes so for community that and of course for community unit

elite coragen that cordage also comes from god

amazing so lets go for amazing for kati and neo will take one

last question, because its getting very late

so lets do priyanka get

thank you for this an opportunity and yeah i dont know i think entering this self is a big blessing for me i met neelam and you together for the first time in vrindavan, where i lund i go deeper into krishna and you know i got good friends and neelam also i felt very nice i was just observe in the house talks both of you have a common thing, which is cana question to you botmantaining that come from vitinnwenever you say whatever you are explan it was easily seen that you have aplid first and then your teaching in my case im trying to absorb things remember trying to learn and then remember it again so can now guys help me neelam and but i

don t how to put it in

words, but can you please help me बाई शेरिंग your aपरोchtowiसहw रिमेंबर अप्लाई लोन पारली हाव, you devid remember it so

that is my थैंक यू प्रियंका yes

i रिमेंबर री मेड इन वृंदावन नाव

भी आर फ्रेंड्स grad सो thank you

so yes its a very beautiful question। बिकज राइट नाव वी आल आर इन

द इंफॉर्मेशन एज सो 1 टिप अगर

हम यहां सुनेंगे तो 10 चीजें हम इंस्टाग्राम पर सुनते हैं and it become very difficult, what to apply and what not to apply and how to take

it further so it become so i feel that how i am applying things

in my life so suppose i am learning something from reddy apply in my life spos i apply with my child

if it works great est work so i just leave it why not।

because स tip is west of time, because may be this is not sultan

again in back to the mental and

find it out what works for me? and what works for me?

i try again, and when you try and get experience that it becomes man,

i feel that now it become min,

it is not ans to anyone, now it for me, it is something। i can preserve for me so that how i started parenting and its not about।

because how many concept you are going

to learn i feel that life gives us the life experience and exपीरिंसtortus वे

मोर बेटर it gives us clarity एंड

इtaलॉwस तो follow the प्रोसेस विदाउट पुटिंग, efrt सो सपोज, मैंने कोई क्रीम ली

और अपने ऊपर लगा लिया।

i get result to its a live experience, i feel that so i dont

need to remember okay। मुझे ये क्रीम लगाना है i feel

that in this way, because today लिविंग इन इंफॉर्मेशन, इस गेट द इंफॉर्मेशन, इन पर्टिकुलर सोर्स इज वेरी, इमपोर्टंट थिंग बिकाज,

ई पर्सनली फॉलो दिस रूल सो, आई

चूस मई थिंग्स वर, आई गेट इंफॉर्मेशन,

रिलेटेड टू, हेल्थ फ्रॉम दिस सोर्स, आई

गेट इंफॉर्मेशन, रिलेटेड टू पेरेंटिंग, फ्रॉम दिस टू सोर्सेज और वन सोर्स और आई

गेट इंफॉर्मेशन रिलेटेड टू, दिस सो, ई

डू नोट रिलायं बिलिव एवरीथिंग वाटएवर शो आप एंड ओवर। because there is no स्ट्रक्चर, when the स्ट्रक्चर is prेजेnटit is easy for me

to apply in माई लाइफ।

and thats how i believe it become

min atomaticllynsi, get the lived experience with

that habit or anything same with the

gratitud for example in two thousand and twenty to इंटरड्यूस ग्rैटिट्यूट, उससे पहले भी मैंने सुना था to be very on

us, but i never ever been consistent

so, then rides said, okay rting gratitud

is the first thing in the morning, i started rting it and when i

started writing it i get some real

experience, and when i get real experience,

now it does not belong to ride

it become my thing rigtig gratitud, makes me feel happy थिंग are moving fast

and it make me feel a line,

it always make me feel like i

am always bor down in front of god। because someone superior is doing things for me। i m not a du r that kind of feeling, when i am writing the gratitud daly so, now it become

min so, i dont need। because of the lived experieंciकanसay।

इससे पहले भी मैंने सुना था, लेकिन जब मैंने उसको कर लिया सो i

नो now it become mind so that

s how i apply things in my life, i hope।

this help you also yes i just

a little to that priyanka so, first is dont try to remember।

because when you try to remember, you

will not remember so just be in a relax state।

like you know why, because she like

when you are watching or movie, you trying to remember the movie, you just

trying to have fun, but you still remember the songs। कुछ कुछ होता है, तो भी आपको गाना पूछेंगे तो आपको आता होगा शायद कुछ दिल वाले दुलहनिया ले जायेंगे ले जायेंगे उसका आपको गाना पूछेंगे तो आ याद होगा, but where you trying to

sit and remember no you heard it, you are having fun, you were in a com state।

so, when you are in a com state।

automatically things will stick, but when you re puting that pressure to remember you

not be able to remember। because it gos to the left side

of your brain, and you not be able to recall, but when you re

in a fun space, you are just

watching, having fun with it, it will

go to the right side of your brain and automatically, there will be a recall।

right, now, these are life skills, you

dont have to remember it as a checklist, its not like an economic exam on a comers examkisबहैडिंग। फिर नीचे पेरोग्राफ। जब आप लाइफ में कुछ करोगे, तो आपको याद आएगा वो पॉप करेगा पॉइंट्स कि मैंने यह पढ़ा था, मैंने यह सुना था, मैंने ये देखा था। और जब आप करोगे तो आपको याद आएगा कि मुझे ऐसा नहीं करना था। i can do bete next time, so

you have that owens सो दर आर, थ्री स्टेज, right, first is information, which

we get very easily everywhere on car,

gpt, you get it on instagram, you get it on poplexity, you tub, सब जगह इंफॉर्मेशन मिलेगा है, फिर नेक्स्ट ज जो होता है, वो है awarness that अवैरनेस विल, कम, वेन यू हैव implemented a few things and you re trying

and you re figuring out that you

re getting aware that yes, this is working, this is not working, this is

giving me results this i want to

try again, s your other warnes state, now, when you keep doing it again, and again

i। तो सपोजिंग आपको पता चला कि मुझे

बच्चे को नहीं मारना है, बच्चों को मारना गलत बात यह 1 पीस ऑफ इनफॉर्मेशन था, फिर आपने अपने अंदर 1 sंकlplikeyoumad a commitment that i m not

going to put a finger on my child। no matter what i will not hit my child? i you did that for a week for a month। सो what hap्पन ट विल टर्न इनटू

अ कॉ consesneslike your consesness will shift?

and then internally you not be able

to hit you dont have to try

so the real impact will happen when

there is a shift in your cansiesnessso,

awerness also a lone, can not change

anything information on, also can not change everything। बट यू नीड इंफॉर्मेशन टू, गेट टू, दैट कॉंशेसनes

सो यू डोंट वांट टू

पुट, दिस प्रेशर, ऑन यorsel्फकि मुझे सब

याद करना है, फिर वो क्या होगा?

it बिकम लाइक हाई स्कूल, जैसे हम

रख लेते थे, याद करते थे, फिर भूल जाते थे।

so you dont want to do this

and that s why tell you that

there is no need to make notes also you watch it like a netflix cities, just watching the videos you dont

have to take notes, because you have

lifetime access you rate watched three times instead of making notes for ten ours and this is a mistake you know। because what is a problem? we know what to learn?

but we dont know?

how to learn so knowing? how to learn is also very important, so you dont want to sit and make notes for ten hovers, wo apko bahut deficult lgega to continue the process of learning, you want to watch it once if you want to make notes also watch or video dont right everything listing to the whole thing, close is and ask your self, what do i remember? इस विडियो से मैंने 1 चीज, क्या सीखी बस वो 1 लाइन आपको लिखना है। फिर आपने दूसरा विडियो देखा, इस वीडियो से मैंने क्या सीखा जस्ट रइ दैट न लाइन इफ यू वांट टू आई डोंट यू डू दैट नाव। but if you want, because i have done it and i ve realized i never have the time to go back to my not so, if you want

you can right one on one line, may be ten line and that s

it

so dont put that pressure and how do we stake com number one im not always com and look com on so if i have to fully on समटाइम्स i m also in चंडी सो आई विल नोट लाई तो आल यू इम यूज नाइंटी फाइव परसेंट मे भी आम काम और बट काफी बार सी ई चंडी रूप नोट सी दैट यू आर आलवेज काम सो सच यह है जूम पे ऑफ, कॉस आप लोग इतने अच्छे हो तो आप के साथ वो चंडी रूप नहीं आता है, कभी कभी 12 बार आया भी है, बट

हमेशा नहीं आता है लाइफ में, जैसे

आपको कभी कभी गुस्सा आता है, मुझे भी गुस्सा आता है। my nature of my angel has improved earlier it used to be very long,

now it is less or, but it

is still there all of as a

work in progress सो न म न

लाइक सम मिस परफेक्ट की मुझे कभी

गुस्सा नहीं आता आता है आलसो काम आई फील one way of being com is when you are having very low expectations from mothers, and that includes that

you know not puting to much pressure

on your self also, because sometimes we

put to much pressure on our self also the m working mother i म

गोिंग for job for ten आवर्स and then im आलसो wanting to be with my child for six hours कैसे कर सकते हो आप?

पर कभी कभी हम अपने आप से

ऐसी उम्मीदें करते हैं to ham editat,

because we are not able to deliver so, we feel fra stated, we feel, we are not doing god, we are

not in of सो।

if you want to feel com let

people बी, who they are x them just as the are so if you stop trying to control what others do or what others think of you are what they say to you are what they feel about you you can not control what people feel about you are

they say to you are they think about you so, if you can just be okay with the way people and with the way, they do things and how they do things and just focus on your growth and on service, you will feel come and you also have a lot of energy, will not feel tired today have been shooting। all day, all day have been shooting

and रिकॉर्डिंग शूटिंग रिकॉर्डिंग बीच बीच में

थोड़ा mel breaks, but do i look it now why। because i very im having fun i m not doing it like a जॉब और टास्क की कितना करना पड रहा

है, क्यों करना पड़ रहा है?

क्या जरूरत है now i love it telling myself that you this is god।

अगर यह नहीं करे तो बैठ के

क्या करना है फिर लाइफ में so

relax dont have to remember anything just learn and have fun। और सब कुछ मakitयाrबलiफकि मैंने अगर 1 बार कोई चीज सुन लिया वो चीज

मुझे हमेशा याद रहेगी अपने सब कांशेस को आप ये ऑर्डर दे 2 यू

लिसन वन्स यू रेमेmबeर fॉrever and then you re sbconsies will do that। बट इफ यू कीप टैलिंग सेल मैं

भूल गई मैं भूल गई तो आप

सच में भूल जाओगे आपको अपने सब कांशस को बोलना है आपको या तो आप सुबह उठके ये फॉर्मेशन कर सकते

हो इफ प्रियंका लिसेंस to one thing।

शी विल रिमेंबर ट फॉर हंड्रेड यर्स

ts and you will okay some so lets you on me, thank you so much, thank you thank so much preanकाtsfोर। अमेजिंग फॉर प्रियंका एंड नाव just one minute no

yes so i want to

anser this, because people are asking ride,

how to be com, yes happy to

anser, because as you said, we all are not come every time, most of the time, so your number is ninety five percent i can say may is it।

इ आईटी फाइव परसेंट येस बट, येस

टेन और फिफ्टीन परसेंट आई डू नोट कम बिकज लाइफ throw the चैलेंजस i म नोट कम बिकाज लाइफ इज easy म कम बिकॉज आई हैव ट्रेन माई

सेल्फ टू रिस्पोंड नोट रिएक्ट बeकaus आई नो इफ आई रिएक्ट उसके बाद मेरा

3 घंटा बर्बाद होगा और मैं केस नहीं ले पाउंगी मैं काम नहीं कर

पाउंगी i can not afford that to

be very on सो ई सैड in मई फैमिली members my partner, i can

not afford please stake in and do what i ask to ask you to

do, because if you will not do it my three four overs will go and i am not able to give hundred person and that will create ipl effect, because i already taking the pament to be very on will go save

sin हू wil if are not taking

this session so every sesion cost ten thousand rupees you will by ten थाusnसोyoucannot be so yes i want to del सो फर्स्ट थिंग इस this i want

men discipline is very important for female

i feel this is very very important बeकauजe we have twenty das cाiकil सो

first thing is this why। बिकाज स्कॉमनेसइस कम्स वन म वेरी क्लियर अबाउट हो आई एम एंड what आई स्टैंड for when identity clear nice redeusis otomaticलyकॉबनेस।

अपने आप आ जाता है en you are clear when you re identity is

clear सो i dont try to prove

माई सेल्फ every var to be very ones, i dont react to every situation,

i चूस my fits very consiesly i chose wer my nerg gos सो if

we are very clear in this trीlाइns

t विल हेल्प यू बेटर and i m talking about profेशoनaलy प्रोफेशनली होव वी

वेरी कम आई वर्क ऑन माई इमोशनल हाइजिन डेली 10 ई लर्न फ्रॉम इट जस्ट लाइक बॉडी हाइजिन इमोशनल हाइजिन आय नीडेड सो फॉर एग्जाम्पल रिफ्लेक्शन नीलम आज क्या करने वाली हो? कैसे करने वाली हूँ सेल्फ ऑब्जर्वेशन किस बात का डर लग रहा है? किस बात से इतना परेशान हो आई

आस दिस कोशन क्यूँ इतना डर रही हो?

रात का तो टाइम है, अपनी रात है, कहा जाना है इतना क्या परेशान हो रही ह, 2 ही तो बज

रहे हैं सो and also i pos

so some time when i m going to react to my docter, i pos

why i m going to react she

is only ten my work is not

compny, she is not reस्ponसible सो what happen it is a ट्रेनिंग तो योर

माइंड इमोशनल हाइजिन अंडरस्टैंडिंग your triggers, wercestitve al have own trigrsibelive, i have down,

y trail trigr्sifyowil, say this trigroneof them

in it now also i get trager to be very own so, i ve note down and i come down my self ke know il take the responsibility, because com is not a persnality com,

nes is a practic, i feel that it is a practice and third thing। i feel that i deplyeंकr in my धrmaधrमa मींस there is a three things raधrmaartaanड kama सो वन you know वाई

यू आर डूइंग what यू आर डूइंग

stop small डistrvencis stop shaking you that

will create a hi level of self disciplin, because you अnders्tand your perps is

स्ट्रॉंग इमोशनल stroms become very small, because i feel that this is my dharma,

whatever i m doing this and when i m com i m able to an artha and when i m rning artha cama कम्स इन माई लाइफ प्लेसर, कम्स इन माई लाइफ सो दिस थ्री

वर्ड्स heल्pमी टू कीप काम डाउन ऑटोमेटिकली इ केंसी and i m still umen im i still feel everything and i just dont let everything control me to be very own is not everything a low to control me so thank you so much for everyone in family and

yes all the love amazing lets take

a nice cure and im so so

so proud of you neelam love love

the way you have anser all the questions lets all put a for amazing

for neelam thank you so much you

make me so so proud and onest

you hit ed you we you become

ment स्टूडेंट reजtswil मेक यू happier दान या रिजल्ट वेन आई सी यू शाइनिंग

एंड शेयरिंग शो कॉन्फिडेंटली आई कैन डेड यू दिस फीलिंग इस प्राइसलेस लाइक यू

शेयर न फिफ्टी क्रोड कोई मुझे देगा तो मुझे उतनी खुशी नहीं होगी। अभी आपको देखकर मुझे लग रहा है कोई मुझे हजार करोड़ भी देगा तो मुझे इतनी खुशी नहीं होगी जितनी भी आपको देख के हो रही है। सो थैंक यू स so much neem for doing। what you re doing for spreading your light in so many, how homes families

lives relationships and a very very very proud, few wise ten thousand students one lac students,

this was my second interview, the arliरiंटrv्यew was we do that time its around, thirty thousand per month, so now this interview add to more zeros

and i⁇mwatingyesfifty lak yes esilyyoucan do it

easily every single mother in this room, all of us can easily do one

crore a month and i m not making this number।

because you know when i athortofit i felt it is impossible, but it is happening, if it s happening for me it can happen for you the process is the same, the system is the same everything is the same, you just

have to put it into action।

and you know you dont have to be in a rush, but you have

to be consistent every day। do a little, do a little, do

a little do a litle and it all it up and it will compound so amazing first lets take a picture, before i for get

one second, yes my heart modi is out all right। yes i got it and how many

of you are now going to be

on the spotlight next put me in

the chat box im praying wishing hoping that every single one of you are spotlite and i know its going to

happen you have to just follow three steps believe in yourself believe in god and patently keep taking action, even when you are scad and this is the mantra, i follow show up for your life, so up for yourself शो प,

फॉर योर family for your dreams for

your community, फॉर योर मिशन just show up the work anyway got dus got

des everything, we just have to show

up thats all, but most people dont show up and if you dont show up god cannot do his work so if you are going to show up, but i will show up। yes even when you are scad, because

the fir will always be there, even

when you not sure, even now when

i do a few things, i m

not sure am lille scad, but still do it and thats the beauty its like a fun game that you play with fire। आप आ गए, मैं भी आ गई चलो करते हैं साथ में क्यों जब

भी आप कुछ नया करोगे, तो फिर

तो आए गए सो weneवr fir कम जस्ट have fun with your for।

यू आई हर as a क्पेक्टेड बिन

बुलाए मेहमान, but अब आप आ गए

हो तो करना तो है फिर भी so just like that you want to take action and you will see everything

will ship so i m praying hoping

wishing blessing all a few with massive

success five lac ten lak twenty fifty

lac one crode happening for every single

mother in this room for sure asm सो विद दैट वी विल क्लोज and

thank you neelam for being so wonderful

for your amazing time and doing this

for the community it really really really

means a lot attendence just one minute let me see have we cross the time if we have then god will

give you attendence if not i will give you attendence okay you can get

attendence on the ap so ive activated

the attendence please go to your app

and mark your attendence and i also

want to thank every single one of

you for showing up for staying to the end when you keep coming back for calls like this your dreams come closer to you how many of you

are feeling at least one step closer

to your dream if you are feeling at least one step closer to your

dream put one in the chat box yes do it like god new sandu yes i love that i am feeling

closer to my dreams yes see that the energy everything is energy right so

love यू गाइज take get this is

redi devra your parenting coach for life

always your to love you serve you

and like i said the world is my family and you are my family so thank you so much for being my family love you

thank you thank you so much naam।