Supermom Revolution Mission

Parenting coach Riddhi Deorah leads mothers through mindset shifts and practical tools to build faith and overcome fear-driven procrastination. She teaches the Five-Minute Brave Step for tackling postponed tasks, the Pray-Then-Move technique, and a physical Trustwalk exercise. The session covers Faith over Logic, Courage before Comfort, and Decision over Permission as core principles.
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Yeah, the streaming is live. You can just inform the mothers. Correct? So yes. So have faith in yourself, God, faith in yourself. And the third, have faith in people around you. Very important. Sometimes we do not trust the people we live with. I'm not saying that they are being, you know, maybe they are not kind to you, maybe they have said things to you which you do not like. But have faith in them. I'll also give you an example. Like you know, maybe your mother in law is not the sweetest with you or maybe not the kindest to you. But trust me, when the time comes she will probably be standing with you because she is family. And maybe some friends will not show up but your mother in law will show up. And I don't blame the friends because friends, they have their own families to take care of. So why am I saying this? Because maybe you don't have the best relationship with them. But you still have to have a basic level of faith in them because only then will that two way connection be there. And you'll be able to depend on them when the time comes. And they will anyway depend on you when the time comes. So trust your husband, trust your child. You know a lot of mothers, they message me and they say, ma', am, my child is not speaking good English. And I just tell the mother one thing, you are speaking very good English. What makes you feel that your child will not speak better English than you do? They will, you know, like my mom didn't speak English but I still speak English and my son speaks better English than me. Even though he's just nine, he keeps correcting my pronunciation. And I think that my pronunciation is already very good. So one day I was telling him taught toys, he's like, mummy is not tortoise, it's tortoise. Tortoise. Like okay, let me go look. Pura Bachpan have been like tortoise, Tortoise. I was like, and I was very confident. I'm like, like, no, mommy, it's tortoise. It's tortoise. I was like, okay, let me go and check on Google. I checked, it's actually Tortoise. So there is no age to learning. So the idea is to have faith in our children that my child will do best. My child is a good child. My child is an amazing child. My husband is a good husband. My child. My husband is the best husband for me. My child is the best child for me. Don't focus on what other husbands are doing. Don't worry about how other children are performing. How will that even help you by me focusing on what other husbands do for their wives. Right. So now I'm going to give you a bunch of activities, very simple activities. So let me share my whiteboard with you. Just one minute. So the first activity is the five minute brave step. So here's what you do. Do one small thing today that you have been postponing. It could be, I'm giving you some examples, maybe sending a message to somebody, starting a workout, posting that video, having a hard conversation, you know, whatever. One thing that you have been postponing is what you have to do today with faith. Do it before fear talks to you. And faith. This is a very nice line. All of you can write this. Faith moves or faith works or grows. You can write grows. Faith grows. When you move, faith increase. Like, I'll give you an example. Like Urvi. So one day, randomly, I called her and I told her that I'm not well. Can you do the Sankeertan starting part? Now she's not done it. Now she like, I'm not sure if I can do it, but I'll do it because you are saying so. So I'll try. I said, don't worry, just sit on the chair. God does everything. You just have to show up. So she showed up. She did it now. She did it a few times. Now she can do it easily. So now her faith in her has increased. But. I don't want to spoil it. I don't want to try. And if she had said no to me, which she can, of course, you know, because I cannot force her to do it. So she could have said no to me, but she said yes. And because she said yes, now her faith in her has increased in herself. So faith grows when you move, when you take action. When I made my first video, of course I was very scared, just like most of you. But did I still make it? Yes. Did I still go and post it? Yes. Now can I post? Yes. Now I can post A, no makeup, messy hair, pajama look, also on Instagram. I don't care, right? Why? Because I have faith. If the content is good, people will watch. If the content is crappy, I can put all makeup, stylish hair. Nobody cares if this is a ball bond. Put B. So first step, I'll give you one minute to think. I'll make you do half the mission with me. So think about one thing that you're going to do. Maybe a hard conversation. Maybe you're wanting to ask your husband for something you've not been able to or you want to tell him something you've not been able to. Maybe your mother in law, anybody maybe starting a 10 minute workout routine, maybe a 5 minute breath work routine, anything. Maybe wanting to speak with your teenager, somebody's writing, I want to talk about joining the Sankeetan. Yeah, so maybe joining the Sankeetan. Okay, so whatever you have been postponing the second pray and then move. This is what I do. So I'll give you an example. Supposing I have prepared for something and you know, I have this thing, you know, I prepared and I worked very hard. Now instead of worrying about what I do or Jesse, worry. Aye, fear. You cannot stop the fear from coming. Will I be able to do it? So that fear will come. But what you have to do is immediately replace that fear with praying, with faith. So you pray. Just whatever prayer prayer you do. You pray and while you're praying you just say that I have given this my best rest. You can decide, God, I have given this my best rest. Anything. A job interview, a conversation with your husband, a conversation with your mother in law, maybe asking about the platinum. Some of you are writing emails to me asking me to give you a full conf one mother, very sweet. She wrote to me, ma', am, you are very good with words. Can you tell me how can I go and exactly what should I tell my husband for platinum? So now I was like, you know your husband the best. I just told, I just replied saying one thing that make sure he's in a good mood. Don't go in a bad mood with a good request, right? So whatever you know, whatever you're worried about, first pray and then do it. It will give you so much courage, fear, you know, because when you're leaving it on God, it immediately, you know, infuses courage in your body. It will fill you with courage. And that fear that you were experiencing just a minute ago will become very small in front of that courage. Provided you have full faith in God and also understand anything that any thought that comes to you thoughts will come. I'll explain this to you before I move to the next activity. Any thought that comes, Encouraging thought, discouraging thought. You cannot stop the thought from coming. But you have one thing that you can do. You can choose which thought you want to put into action. If this is a bulb on and only human beings have this ability, it's called metacognition, thinking about your thoughts. So supposing I'm not putting all thousand thoughts into action, I'm putting the thoughts that serve me into action. And the thoughts that do not serve me, I will just remove it. But problem. They don't love me. They don't care. So what you do is you start entertaining the thought which is not serving you instead of removing it. You don't have to worry. If a negative thought comes, it will come. Nobody can stop it from coming. Thoughts, good thoughts, bad thoughts, empowering thoughts, disempowering thoughts. All type of thoughts will come. Even I get those thoughts. Like let's say if my husband, he goes skiing three times in the same year, every year. So abhi when he came, ABHI Vapas, he'll go. So whenever he is going, this thought will come, right? I hope he doesn't go on the difficult terrains and cliffs. Because every time with skiing you will hear so many news. So much. So much is happening. So I'm as a wife, that negative Dharava thought will come. But what will I do? I'll just remove it. And I will say God is protecting my husband. To 247 there is a divine bubble that surrounds my husband. Can all of you understand? You cannot control the thoughts that come. But you can choose your thoughts and then make yourself feel better by giving izzat to the good thoughts and giving rejection to the bad thoughts. You can remember it like this. You know how you have sales people door to door who are trying to force sell things to you. Earlier it used to happen. Now it has reduced. How many of you remember they used to come with those Oxford dictionaries and sometimes yellow pages. Sometimes even Whisper. You know, when Whisper had launched, they would come with the sanitary napkins. Door to door they would come to sell. Right. And we would not let them in. No. We would just understood. After a few rounds of this, we understood. Encyclopedias. Yes. So we would not take it all the time. Sometimes if it's of your interest, you take it. But otherwise mostly we would not. So just like that, there are people who will try to push into your space. That fear thoughts will try to push into your space. But you have to understand that it's not going to serve you. And then there are people who will come. Let's say who One. One person who really inspires you. Put in the chat. So let's say for me, Opera Winfrey. Right. So put one person who really. Now imagine you open the door. Jack Ma. Yeah. So sweet. So many of you are putting you. Yeah. So imagine. Yes. Thank you so much. I might come. Surprise. So imagine this person surprises you. You open the door and this person is standing in Front of your door. What will you do? Just pull them and come sit. I can't believe you're here. Right? So that's what you want to do with your good thoughts. You don't want to waste time thinking too much. Don't wait. You're not going to make them wait outside for 10 hours. If this is a ball bond, put Bo in the chat box. If this is a ball bond that you will not make them wait outside for too long just like that. When you have good opportunities, good thoughts, you just want to put it into action immediately. You don't want to wait. Make it wait for 10 hours, 20 hours. It will go, the thought will go like today in the this, meditation, silence and all of this. I got this thought just 10 minutes before the call that I will not start the call with shares. I will start with meditation, this, that and did I not implement it? I implemented it immediately. I now have a template also. Meditation, silence, breathing, gratitude, shares, action. Was I doubting? Let me not change, Let me not change things around. What I'm doing is already working so smooth. Everybody is enjoying already. Why should I change? No, I'm not doubting the thought. It's coming from somewhere. Where is it coming from? It's coming from above. If you love this, put love. So if something good comes from within, put it into action with faith without worrying about chalega nai chalega hoga nayoga, failure. But Kanna Zaruri. So pray. So first is the five minute brief step. Second is pray. Keep praying, praying, praying. Write your fear and tear it so you know whatever your fear is. Write it on a piece of paper, read it once, tear the paper and take one action. Anyway, this is very important. See, this is what I was telling you. Fear can speak, but it does not decide. You are the decision maker, your fear is not the decision maker. If you love this, put love. Fear can speak to you. But you have to make be the decision maker. Don't allow fear to be your decision maker. So supposing you know all the platinum mothers who are wanting to start their journey on Instagram, some of you already started. Maybe you will have this thing that I want to post my video on Instagram. So fear is speaking to you. But will you allow fear to make the decision or will you make the decision? If you are going to make the decision, put me in the chat box that I will make or put I will in the chat box I will make it. So this is very important. Don't allow fear to be the decision maker. You be the decision maker. So write one fear that you have and then just tear it and flush it. Then trustwalk. This is a very beautiful exercise. I did it a long time back with one of my international coaches. This is what you have to do, okay? And I'm telling you, if you want you can do it now because the power will be more. But for this you have to stand up. So let's do it. Those of you are in a comfortable space where you can actually stand up. Please stand up. Don't be seated. Seriously guys, like I'm saying, please stand up. Some others are like sitting and looking at me. Stand up. Stand up. Stand up. This is very important. We are talking about action. You will not stay stuck. Swati, are you okay? Swati Tyagi. Yeah. Just relax. Okay. Take action. Take action. It's all healing. Whatever is coming, don't worry. Yes. Please stand up. Yes. So now yours. And make sure there is some space between you and the table. Or maybe you can turn away from the table. Whatever. You don't have to look into the screen. Just listen and follow the instructions. Okay? So stand up. Close your eyes. Okay. Maybe look away from the screen. Just listen to my instructions. You don't have to look at me. Just listen. So all of you stand up. Santoshi Joshi, please. Class. Yes. Please close your eyes and put your hand on your heart. Keep standing. Close your eyes. Put your hand on your heart. And now as you take one step forward, You are going to ask yourself this question. What is my next right step? What is my next right step? What is it that you should do? What is your next right step? Close your eyes and ask your subconscious mind, put your hand on your heart and take one step forward. And keep asking your subconscious mind, what is my next right step? And then take one more step. Be careful you don't bang into anything. But don't open your eyes. You have to stay connected with your subconscious. And then you have to ask again, what is my next right step? Then stand. Wherever you have reached, just stand in that spot, keep your eyes closed, put your hand on your heart and in that standing position, ask again, what is my next right step? Now whatever has come to you without questioning that, whatever showed up for you, just make a note of it. You can come back to your positions. If you want to spend some more time with the right step, you can. Otherwise, please sit. Please sit on your chair. If it's getting a little dizzy. Giddy. Did all of you get something? If all of you got something, put. Yes. Yes. No. Thought you Want to do this exercise again? Something has to come. If no thought is coming, it means you do not value yourself enough. If you went blank, you have to work on your self worth. Because all of us should have something to do about what you should be doing with this beautiful energy that God has gifted you with. Then you have to work on your self esteem and self worth. So please write it in your notebook. Whatever that next best step was. And also some of you put it in the chat if you wish to. To change my job, improve my mom energy. To clear my death and become a money magnet. Kriya Yoga. Focus on my health. Act with faith to go on a vacation. Weight lost. Nish. No more fear. Fight with my fear. Create reels. Morning discipline. How many of you think that you got so much clarity in just less than one minute? If you love this, put love. This is true. Whatever showed up for you, you want to write it and no response. Beautiful energy, You know, means you are not connected with your subconscious. You're too much in your head, you're thinking too much about other things, outside people. And all of that somebody's written change my husband. Right? To support my husband. Yes. Those of you who didn't see anything, you have to try this again. Okay. Fourth, do it before you feel ready. Very important. So tell me one thing that you don't feel confident about in the chat. One thing that you don't feel confident about. No, not your height. Don't say height. And all because you can't change your height. Tell me something which you can change. Public speaking. Communication. Myself. Yes. So now whatever showed up, you want to do it even before you're fully ready. So let's say public speaking. Now, maybe you can't arrange a big public immediately, but what you can do is you can get some mother on a zoom call and say, I'm going to talk about myself. Two minutes. And can you be my audience? So prepare something for one minute. Two minute. Make that mother an audience and practice with her. If driving. Maybe you can take that first step of asking your husband to take you for a drive. If presentation, make a small presentation. Two, three pages. Weight loss Start. Ten minutes. Weight loss. An early dinner. Making videos. Make one video and post it. Relying on husband for everything. Build yourself for emotional financial independence. Speaking English with no fear. Connect with a mother who's good in English and ask her to make you practice. Just speak with her for 10 minutes every day and read one paragraph in English loudly and record it. If you love this, put love in the chat box. Like public speaking. Maybe. Do it with one person. That one person is your public. Then do it with two people. Then do it with three people. And then very soon you'll be able to do it with thousands of people. When I am speaking to you, even if there are thousand mothers in my room, I am only thinking I am speaking to one. Which means I'm. I feel that I'm only speaking to Kavita. Only speaking to Santoshi or only speaking to Mahashweta. How many of you can feel that? And that's why I never say you all. Have you noticed this? If you notice, put n for notice. You will never see me say things like how are you all doing? I say, how are you doing? Why? Because you should feel that I'm talking to you and not to everybody. But I'm just speaking with you one to one. Even if you're a thousand mothers, you should feel I'm creating this one to one experience for you. And how many of you feel that experience? If you feel it, put feel it takes practice, you know. Because in the beginning when I started I would say you all, how is everyone? But now I don't. I just say how are you doing? Share with me in the chat box. How are you feeling in this moment? Right. So this is a small thing, but it will just make the connection very deeper. Faith over logic. Which means choose courage over comfort. So egg problem, Second problem maker comfort. Right. One other reason because of which we don't take action. So supposing you want to make money, but everything is there. Husband is giving money or eating or sleeping, wearing good clothes. Everything is there. So you're not getting that inner drive. And that's why, because you are in comfort, you're not using your potential to the fullest. If this is a bulb on, put bo. So we have to get out of that. So tell comfort. I know you're there. But I'm still going to take action with faith. Because I can do better with God's beautiful energy. I don't want to waste it. I'm like right now as I speak with you, I'm in a lot of comfort. Like materialistically at least, if I don't even work for the rest of my life, given the kind of life that I want, I'm very simple. My needs are also very simple. I think I can live properly and die peacefully. Retirement. But that is not stopping me from coming here and adding value to you. It's not stopping me from doing what I should be doing. Because I have made service more Important than comfort. I have made learning and growth more important than comfort. I've trained my subconscious and also my conscious now to believe that my growth is more important than my comfort. My service to the mothers is more important than my comfort. Like today I had a tooth extraction, wisdom tooth extraction. Did any of you feel it? Like last four days I have crazy pain in my tooth. Nobody felt it. Why? Because when I'm here, I'm in full service mode. And it's not difficult and it's not like, you know, I'm like challenging or whatever, but because this is the way I speak to myself and it's possible for all of you. It's nothing extraordinary that I'm doing. It is possible for every single one of you. Inner dialogue change. So I got the tooth removed in the morning. I asked the doctor, can I speak in the evening? She said yes. I said okay. I told her it's very important. My calls, I don't like to miss them. Yeah, right now it's not that painful. Last three days was very painful. Now I don't feel. Now it's gone. So now the pain is lesser. But when the truth was there, the wisdom tooth, then the pain was a lot. But nobody can feel it. And even I don't feel it honestly when I come and start speaking. Because when you are in service you don't feel anything. You just feel love. So put courage before comfort. If you love this, put love in the chat box. And I'm going to put courage before comfort. And faith before fear notebooks. Faith before fear, courage before comfort. Then you can take action. Nothing can stop you. These are the two problem makers and there is a third problem maker. Can I give you the third problem maker? Validation. Decision over. Validation. You make your decision. You don't have to wait for permission or if validation is difficult for you to remember permission. We don't need permission from others. You have to make your own decision. This is your life. And you making your decision does not mean that you are disrespecting somebody. To iska matlab respect Nikari no iskamatlab. Yeki up Confident Wapna decisions could le sakte understood. Just one second. Just to send one message. So. And then connect with two mothers. So let me quickly revise so five minute brave step. Pray, pray, pray, pray. The fear will go away. You will fill yourself with courage. Write one fear and tear it. Trustwalk. We already did. Do it once or twice again. Now do things before you feel ready. So pick one thing. Even if you are not ready. And just do it. Then faith over logic means choose courage. And I will also add this one here. Decision over permission. So these activities will not take you more than. Because some are repeated only. But I've just shared it separately so that you have the ideas. Then connect with two mothers from your team and meet me live once a week. If you do all of this, you will get 200 points. If you think this is super simple, put SS in the chat box. If you think this is super, super simple, super simple. But if you do this, you can change the quality of your life. Because your quality of your life depends on the quality of the decisions you make and the actions you take. So I am sitting here because I took decisions even when it was very difficult for me. Even when I was not sure. Even on days when I didn't have any money in my account. Action with faith. I never doubt myself. I want all of you to write this. I can do it. I want all of you to write this. I can do it. Ma', am, do you eat your dinner? I usually eat last meal by 6 before the call. Like 5:45 is when I eat my last meal. Sometimes when we go out for dinner then I eat so I'm not sticky that Kaini Sakte types. So if I'm going out with relatives and guests outside then I'll eat inside my house. I try not to eat after 6:30. So on days when I don't have my call I can eat a little later. But if this call is starting at 6 I will try to eat my last meal by 5:45. In case I feel hungry and I want to eat something then I'll probably have something liquidy like a soup or mostly soup or there sometimes protein shake. So either protein shake or soup protein shake I don't like to have but my husband will give sometimes so I have to. But otherwise it will mostly be some different different types of soups I have like broccoli soup, vegetable soup, tomato soup. So yes. So if from how long you are following ma'? Am, for many years share my diet. You don't want to know. It's very boring. I have bindi and roti for dinner and dal and rice for our lunch and breakfast I have one platter Chana Avla and kafi kuch otahe and yeah join. I want to join English club. Yeah, every day Sometimes I'll experiment but very few days but mostly it's this. Yeah, it's basically there's no cognitive load, I don't have to decide so Basically my thing is I eat to live, not live to eat. Right? So. And my husband though will not eat after 3pm so my husband will not eat. He's even one level above me. So his last meal will be 3 o'. Clock. And he eats only for 7 to 8 hours in a day. So morning, 9 9ish, he'll start like his whatever, breakfast and whatever and one very heavy meal. The lunch will be very heavy. He'll eat everything. Chhola, Batura and kachori, sabzi, whatever he wants to eat, sweets, that will be a proper meal. But after three he will not eat anything. And sometimes when we have guests over and we have to take them for dinner and all, he'll eat. But. But not every day he'll eat fried. But if he wants to, if he feels like it, he would. Yes. Is there Readers club in Platinum? So right now our spiritual wisdom classes are more like Readers club. So we've combined the two. Correct. Okay. Awesome. So now before I share, I'll share the mind map so that you can take a screenshot. But before that I have a few quick updates. So tomorrow we have a very special call, the Platinum shares. So this time we are having the Platinum shares in the evening because a lot of working mothers are not able to join in the morning hours and they messaged. So I have shifted it. So tomorrow we will have this call at 5. So put 5pm in the chat. 5pm and tomorrow we'll be doing a different type of shares call. So which means Platinum mothers will be sharing their wins and their breakthroughs in health, relationship, career, money and all of that. But we'll also be spotlighting four unique stories. Right? So Pravalika will be sharing her relationship story how from being a completely silent person in her relationship, she is now full of power and strength. And now she also has more than 30,000 followers on Instagram. For somebody who was not able to speak confidently with her husband is now speaking confidently to thousands of mothers. And she was also at the verge of taking her life. So it's a story, you know. And she'll be speaking and sharing her story. Then we have Nayan, she'll be sharing her story about how she was able to totally change her relationship with her teenage daughters. So she was a full time working mother and then she quit her career because of her relationship was getting disturbed with her younger teenager. So she's going to share how that thing has completely changed. Then we have Shweta Goyal. She'll be talking about how from being a Very underconfident. Who? Homemaker, full of self doubt and not getting the kind of respect, you know, in a relationship. She's become, you know, she's teaching money leadership and she's become independent and you know, she's teaching investment and finance. And then of course we have Shagufta and her topic will be the Phoenix Within a Story of Reclaiming Power. So she's going to share how she was able to reclaim up her power and you know, improve multiple areas, her career and her bond with her daughter and her daughter had stepped out of school and how she was able to manage all of that and do better. So we'll be spotlighting these four stories and we will also do shares in between. So the way this will happen, we'll do one story, then we'll do some few open shares, then we'll do another story, few open shares, one story open shares. Just to keep it more interesting and engaging. So if you love it, put love, please be there tomorrow at 5pm so this call was originally only for Platinum Mothers because Platinum Mothers, this is a monthly tracker for them to track their progress. But now I have opened it up for everybody. And the reason I've opened it up for everybody because. Because when you come you will feel very inspired. So let me know in the chat box what is your level of membership? Gold, Silver, sorry, Gold, Diamond, Platinum, Whatever your level of membership is, just put it in the chat. Yes. So I want all of you, if you are listening to me right now, I want you to be there for tomorrow's call. If you're going to be there for Tomorrow's call, put 100% in the chat box. Right. And a few quick updates. This time we are having a very special three day boot camp called Divine Principles of Parenting. No recordings will be provided. So this will happen. So this time we'll have back to back calls. Okay, so tomorrow we have a call. Then Friday, Saturday we have the boot camp two days. Day one will be on Friday 6 to 8 8, 830 maximum we can go up till 8 30. Then Friday 6 to 830 and Sunday is day three. Day three will be decision day. Right. So day three is when you have to decide whether you are going to be in Platinum or not. That will happen on Sunday which is the 22nd of Feb, 11am so if you made a note of this, put note it in the chat box. So day one, day two, I will teach. Day three also I will teach. But day three you have to make a decision. Right? So I'm just clarifying so now all the gold mothers, I want you to fill up the Platinum wait list. I'll just close the chat so that the link stays on top. Kinjal has shared. Let me share it once more. Make sure you fill up this wait list. When you fill up this wait list, you will be able to connect with your super coach one on one. In case you have any questions that you want to understand about the Platinum membership, you can. And in the Platinum membership I will just take first, let me take your permission. So if I have your permission to share a little about the Platinum membership, give me P for permission and I'll share a little. Just like a. In brief, the full thing you will understand when you come for the call on the 22nd, right? So in the platinum membership you will get six certificates. And all of you are very lucky because I'm going to close these six certificates. Going forward, you will get only two. So right now you are getting parenting parent certification, Life Coach certification, Relationship certification, nlp, hope, nopo, eft. EFT is emotional freedom technique. So you will get all six. But after, after February or maximum after March, I am going to remove four and you will only get certified Parenting Coach and Life Coach. And after that, my plan is that if you want to get the other four, you have to be in platinum and you will have to pay separately for the other four certificates. So if you are in this call right now, you don't want to delay your decision of getting into Platinum. And I don't say things to say it. I actually do it because earlier also I was only giving two certifications under Platinum Parenting and Life Coach. Now I'm giving six. But after February or maximum after March, I'm going to remove four certificates and you have to pay separately for those four certificates and you cannot get into get those four certificates unless you are my platinum mother. So in platinum you will get six certifications. You will get live calls for yourself and for your children. And those calls are priceless. So today, after this call, just for you to understand what children are going through, especially the gold mothers, I am going to share a recording of one of the live sessions that we had with children. So you can see that recording today. So you'll understand that how important this is for your child, right? Because I want you to make a full informed decision, right? So you will have live sessions for yourself. You will have live sessions for your kids. You will have six certifications. You will have advanced topics which will open up inside the app. The app access will remain with you for lifetime Also, whatever you have paid for your gold membership, it will be given back against your last installment. So on the 22nd on Sunday when you come, you have to make a deposit of 20,000 to block your spot as a Platinum mother. Why am I sharing this in advance? Because I know when I'm going to show you what I show you, it is going to blow your mind away. So you don't want to be like, ma', am, Prepare clear. Plus in Platinum is not just about parenting. Platinum is about health, relationship, career, money, spiritual parenting. And you will also be learning directly from my teachers. If you think that's amazing, put a for amazing. So you'll directly. My teachers will also be teaching you, which I think is priceless. So now I'm going to put the wait list. So all the gold Platinum mothers, please don't fill up. If you're already platinum, you don't have to fill this up. Only the gold mothers, you have to fill this up. And now I will announce the winners for the previous mission and also activate the attendance. So first let me activate the attendance. Then I will announce the winners and then I will give you my affirmation. I remember. Don't worry. Yes. So I've activated the attendance. You can mark your attendance. And now I have to share the winners. Just one minute. Yes. Also one more thing you have to do. Okay. First, let me share the winners. So well done. This time we have more winners as compared to last time. So 1447 mothers have finished the mission. Very, very proud of you. Out of which so this time, gold wins. 720 gold mothers have finished. Last time platinum was winning and 720s. Oh, sorry. 726 gold mothers have finished. And 701 platinum mothers have finished. So well done. Very, very proud. So team one on position. Sorry, Position one, we have team nine. So team nine, you are on position one. I think this is a hat trick. On position two, we have team seven. Okay, let me open the chat so that you can celebrate. On position two, we have team seven. And on position three, we have team eight. So team nine, Team seven and team eight, well done. Super, super proud of you. And one last thing that you have to do right now before you leave this call is I want you to share your top two or three learnings from this call under this. Okay, I have to stop the chat under this link. So please go to the feed section of your app and please share your top three learnings. Very important step. All the two hours that you have given me just by giving two minutes extra all of this will go deep and you will take action in your real life. So share your top three learnings on this link. And as you are sharing I am going and checking who is sharing. And after one minute a lot of you have already shared. Very nice. Dr. Saraswati. Sachinder Kaur. Richa Garwal. Deepti Sonia. Wow. Very quick. Just copy paste it from your notes. But very well done. Okay. Awesome. I love the speed of action. Great. So with that we come to the end of this mission. Call. If you loved it, put love, love, love in the chat. Please make sure you put your learnings. Those who take action step by step will definitely see breakthroughs. Don't skip steps. There are simple steps but they're going to change your life completely. Oh yeah, the screenshot. Yes, please take a screenshot and I will see you tomorrow at 5 o'. Clock. Please be there. It's going to be a very inspirational, very, very motivating and where it's going to, you know it's going to shift something inside of you for sure. So please be there for sure. Even if you're a working mother. If you can't start at 5, join at 6, join at 6:15. Join whenever you can. But please be there for some time at least. And all the platinum mothers, please be ready with your breakthroughs and explain it in a crisp way. So come prepared. Don't get into full lumba lamba thing. Give you know, maybe share it in point wise that this is how I was, this is now how I feel. So come prepared crisp. So that you know we can do more shares. Done. You've taken a screenshot. Awesome. Amazing. Love this affirmation gang. The last people just like me. I stay till the end. I don't leave till my mentor leaves. No matter what. Okay, you can write the affirmation. All things work together for my good. All things work together for my good. The attendance is already activated. Radhika. On the app, on the feed section. So the first one was Divine orders take charge of my life today and every day. And the second one is all things work together for my good. Okay. So you can have your own nice beautiful affirmation diaries. And repeat. Please repeat. Just upper Li Kawe. Dr. Anupam. One second. I will copy paste it. See, I'm becoming smarter with every class. I know. Repeat. Oha. So Divine orders take charge of my life today and every day. And all things work together for my good. Relationship certification. Not this round. We will do it in the month of October. Because I just Launched. A lot of mothers have just started watching so we will definitely do it. But we'll do it in the month of October. Actually for the awards. I'm planning some very special things and I'll probably share that after 25th of February. Oh, wow. I love this. Anjana Sharma. Beautiful, awesome. Not Hatrick. It's the eighth time for team nine. I like how you're bragging. Okay. Amazing, awesome, Great. Well done. Shagofta. The next event. The next offline event. Okay. All the beautiful, gorgeous, amazing mothers. Amara. Next offline event, Goa Meoga. Final hair, second, third and fourth. The reason I've done it, it's an extended the second October is Gandhi Jayanti, Saturday, Sunday. So working mothers can also come. Second, third, fourth. Also. One other thing, my offline events are open for everybody. Gold mothers, diamond, platinum. It's for everybody. So, you know, lot of you have written emails that I did not book because I thought it's not for gold. Offline event is for everybody. So not right now. We have a wait list for the next event. So maybe on the 25th when I share all the new, new elements, after the 25th I will also open the wait list and as a part of the wait list I'll share everything when we meet. Right now I don't want to confuse you. Right now my focus is for you to just come for the call tomorrow and for you to focus on the three day divine parenting boot camp. Okay? So I will see you tomorrow at 5. Love, love, love all of you. This is Riddhi Devra, your parenting coach for life. Always here to serve you and I'm so, so, so proud of you for staying till the end. Thank you. What is the difference between. I saw one question even though, even though we don't do question. So basically the. I understand. So you're asking what is the difference between asking opinion and validation? So basically when you're asking for an opinion, you're seeking their perspective just to get a clarity. But validation means you are seeking like a reassurance that decision. So validation means reassurance. You need somebody else to tell you that is validation. It's a good question to ask because most people don't understand the difference. So if I am discussing something with my husband that I'm allowed to do, but I'm just taking a perspective, but I'm not going to allow his perspective to make my decision because there is something that I also feel about the situation and I'm going to trust my feelings also. But when you are somebody who's Constantly looking for validation. Decision. So supposing you're going to buy an outfit, then you are not going to trust your decision. This will look good. You'll ask Mummy Mayeleu or you'll ask your sisters. You think this will look good on me? So you're asking 10 people before you make a decision for yourself. That is validation. So that is validation. If they say yes, then I will do it. I don't trust my own feelings and opinion. Means that, you know, you're just like discussing trying to take a perspective or you know, just having an open conversation. That's very different from validation. Okay, awesome. Thank you so much. Love you. Yeah, Boot camp this time nobody can miss. I'm also working very hard on the boot camp. By the way, no recordings. I will give. Nobody will ask me in the chat also. Day one, first slide. I will tell you, no recordings. Please don't ask me. You have to prioritize this and you have to show up. 21st, 22nd, 2021. Sham Koga because it's a weekday Friday, Saturday, weekday weekend. Both Sunday in the morning, right? So that Sunday evening we can chill with our family. So Sunday morning, Friday, Saturday evening, right? Awesome. Thank you so much. Take care. Love you. Bye bye. Bye bye.
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