Supermom Revolution Mission

To live stream. To live stream. Okay. Yeah. We are live on YouTube. Yes. So the first thing is an attitude to win. So put W for win in the chat box. If you are going to enter your WhatsApp team groups not as a spectator, but with the intention to win, you know, Olympics player, they go, they get only 20, 30 seconds. They prepare for four years. And when they're preparing, they're always practicing in their head that they are visualizing themselves winning. The second thing is this is a team activity, which means that your 200 points will get added to the 200 points of every other team member. So if you don't contribute your 200, the overall team score goes down. So how many of you are going to do this for your team? Put FTP that I'm going to be a fantastic team player. Do this for your team. Now, all of us like to give sometimes, you know, it's easier to do things for others than to do for yourself. Specially for women. So don't lose, because when you lose, your team loses. And it is so simple. 30 minutes in the whole week, 30 minutes. There is a serious issue with your life. It is a serious problem. I'm not joking. If you agree with that, put a. For a grief. Any mother in this room, I don't know what job you are in. Even if you are the prime minister of India, you should find 30 minutes. So if you are going to a job that does not allow you 30 minutes in the week for finishing the mission and 20 minutes every day for your personal learning, you should think of something else in life. And if you're a homemaker, The third thing, this is a mission. This is not some regular WhatsApp challenge. Let me go and check out. That's not the space. This is not the space for that. Why? Because this is creating real impact, real shifts. You know, when you go through this mission, you will experience breakthroughs. And I'm saying this with a lot of confidence and a lot of humility at the same time, because it's happening for so. And they are sitting in this room right now, so many of them, mothers who were so scared of speaking in English, they are speaking fluent English. Children who would not even talk to their mothers are now communicating, bonding, connecting and sharing. Children who would not write are writing and coming second in class. Husbands who would not respect their wives are now respecting and booking theaters for them. So, you know, I share this. Even in the master class, I share this. Put R for respect in the chat box. Put R for respect. If you want to Be respect. Get into the Gyan zone. Hazar Lok Apnea life. If you agree Pute. Because in today's time, day and time, taking money, very easy thing, lot of people have a lot of money, but time people are very particular where they want to invest their time. So Jab AAP Gyan loge. Family will come last because they are the last ones to understand. See Banita, my husband gifted an iPhone recently. Yeah. It is going to happen for all of you if you are in this zone. Because this is not my principle. This is God's principle. I call God Krishna, you can call God Shiva, you can call God Hanuman, you can call Jesus Allah, Christ. They are all the same. Vaiguru. So what is our mission? Our mission is to become God conscious mothers. Put GCM in the chat box. God conscious mothers. Why God conscious mothers? Because if you. No matter how much knowledge I give you, no matter how much knowledge the world's best parenting coaches give you, you have to have God by your side. I have gone to the top coaches in the world, the top universities in the world, and this has been my personal experience with all the Gyan knowledge that we have. We need God for energy because in this material world we cannot borrow energy from each other. Because everybody here is looking for their own energy. So I go to God. God gives me energy. I take this energy, I give it to my family, give it to my child, and then I create more better and I create better world energy. I want all of you to write this. The world is my family. The world is my family. You know, I'll tell you something very funny that happened. So today, my son, you know, when I drop him off to school, you know, he just chit chat, you know how kids just talk. So he's very fascinated by Elon Musk like most kids are. And he's like, he does a lot of research on Elon Musk and Ronaldo, these two people. So, you know, he was just doing the math of, you know, how rich Elon Musk is and how humble he was and how he became what he became and all of that. And so he asked me, mummy, can you ever be as rich as Elon Musk? Is there a possibility? Okay, so he asked me this question. Now I didn't know what to tell him. So this is what I told him. And this came to me very naturally because in the morning we do Sankeetan, right? And Sankirtan Keturand Baad, you know, I take him to his bus stop. So I told him I'm Already richer. He was like, what do you mean you are richer than him? I was like, yeah. You didn't know this? He's like, what? He's like, yeah. The ocean, the stars, the moon, the galaxies, the sun, the star, the rakes, the rivers, the mountains, the valleys, they all belong to me. He's like, how does it belong to you? I was like, because God is my father. And if God owns all of this, then all of this I can use whenever I want. Whenever I want, I can use. So I told him the sun. And I was like, you know, go and ask Elon Musk does he own the sun, the moon, the star, the galaxies and this and that. So he was like, yeah, maybe. I don't know. I'll have to check. Yeah, okay, you first check with him. Till you don't check with him. I'm richer than him. Okay. Till you don't check. So that is what I'm trying to tell all of you. That we have to come out of this scarcity mindset. You know, when abundance will come, it will come so quickly that you will also not realize how quickly it came. And from nowhere it will come. But you have to shift. It will not come to the same person. It will come to you when you start speaking like this about yourself. So we are God conscious mothers raising God conscious children. So this is a mission. My mission is to make sure that every mother is raising her child based on the principles of God. Because that is real parenting. If you read our Vedas, it's very clearly mentioned. If you are not raising your child based on the principles of God, then you are cheating your child. And mostly, you know, with all due respect, 95% are just. And including me. Few years back I was also on the same journey. Even though I was a coach helping so many mothers, but I didn't have awareness. But now that we have awareness, we have to do better. This is if all of you can feel this. Put feel in the chat box or agar. AAP is room me bet ho me AAP Kupas Ghee bona Chatiyo. You have been divinely chosen by God to be on this journey. You cannot be here randomly. There are so many parent coaches in the world. Why this room? Because maybe God wants you to raise your child based on the principles of God. Maybe your child's luck brings you here. So I want you to put M for Ms. Life. We don't have to do the same thing every day, same routine. Beast these minute. Apnili Kuchalakanikali time Nikali Hade. And last but not the least. Dwit. Do whatever it takes to create the life that you deserve. To create the life that you want for your child. Dwit. You know I say this. A happy family, a calm mind and a fit body does not come for free. You have to earn it by putting your time, money and energy. You have to invest your time, money, energy to create these three things for yourself. It will not come to you. It will not be served to you. And we see this all the time. Mothers who are fighting, who are on the verge of divorce, best friends, husband, wife. Because they got the awareness of what they are supposed to do. So please don't make excuses. My child has board exam, so I don't have time. Your child has board exam. You don't have 20 minutes for yourself. There are guests in my house. Still you should have 20 minutes for yourself. I'm traveling. Still you should have 20 minutes for yourself. I'm not well. Still you should have 20 minutes for yourself. I'm. Somebody's in the hospital. Still you should have 20 minutes for yourself. 30 minutes. 20 to 30 minutes is a non negotiable like all of you have to consume. I am creating and still I am finding two hours for my personal learning every day. One hour reading. I do without fail every day. And I know one thing. It is not a problem of time. It is a problem of priorities. It is a problem of you managing yourself. There is no such thing as time management. There is only one thing, self management. If you can manage yourself, the words you say, your energy, your time will be managed. Everybody has 24 hours. You know, my son took grade four piano exam and he was saying, this time I don't think I'll get distinction. I think I'll get 80, 82. So I am not very fussy about the marks. So I asked him, okay, but why do you think you will get 82 and not distinction this time? It's like because this time I didn't get enough time to prepare. And then I quickly corrected him and I told him that no time is always there. And I used his idols only. I was like Ronaldo and Elon Musk also have 24 hours. So do you really think it is a time issue? And then he was like, no, it's not. I'll do better next time. So understand one thing that you know. These four commitments. A winner's mindset. Always play to make other people win. The fantastic team player. If you are playing to make yourself win, win, you can still lose. But if you play to make others win, you can never lose in life. If you love this put love, You can still lose in life. But if you are thinking about showing up for others, helping others, doesn't matter what level you are in, gold, diamond, platinum, help each other. You know, some of you like, there's no problem in my life, I don't know what to connect for. Great, there's no problem in your life. Go and help somebody. Use all this beautiful energy that God has gifted you. Don't just use it for your own family. Help one or two people every day, if not every day. Two people in the whole week. How many of you are going to do that? Put me in the chat box. Not everybody gets an opportunity to help and serve. You're getting an opportunity to be there for somebody. And if your energy is not good, please connect, reach out, don't stay in your zone. Can I have a pinky promise from all of you? PP pinky promise that nobody is going to cry alone in her room or in her bathroom or wet her pillow. Please send a message and ask in your team groups, is anybody free to connect and get it out of your system? If you don't get it out, it will create a lot of illness. And this is all scientifically proven. It is not some, you know, I'm just saying to say the stress hormone in your body, cortisol, increases your immunity shuts down or it slows down. And if you take acute pressure and if you keep suppressing your immunity shuts down, your this thing organs do not function properly. The sympathetic nervous system will give you a shock. A lot of people get into paralysis. All of this back pain, thyroid, pcod, migraine, diabetes, depression, anxiety, all of this is nothing lifestyle, it's years and years of, you know, emotions that you've been suppressing. So don't try to deal with everything on your own. Share, share, share. So if you're giving me these four commitments, put 4C in the chat box. Now, what are the four commitments? Win fantastic team player, do it like a mission and also dwit do whatever it takes. So now I'm going to share my whiteboard. Okay, now before I continue and tell you what the mission is and what the mission activities are, I want to ask you in the does everybody here have access to their courses and do you have access to the M mission team group? If you added to the mission team group put yes. If you're not added to the mission team group, put no. If you're putting no, then I want you to drop an email right now. Please drop an email right now. If you're putting no at mail at the rate riddhidevra.com and just put your WhatsApp number. All of you should be in a team group because the minute you come into the community you get a call from a team member and they send you a message. In that message we send you the link for your team. So maybe some of you have not seen that message. So maybe if you know you want to first go to your WhatsApp and see and your team will be allotted to you with a WhatsApp link. In case you're not able to locate that message anymore, please drop an email@mailatrididevra.com and somebody will share the team number with you. When you go to your WhatsApp group you will see team one, team two, team three. That's your team number. So your step number one. Especially if you are a new mother or if you've been around but you don't know anything about the team. Step number one, get added to the team. See, because most of you know your team members, so few of you, I think five, ten of you don't know out of a batch of thousand, which means you missed out on some communication which is completely okay. So number one, get added to your team. Second, please connect with your super coaches. So when you go get added to your team group description super coach, please save karma or Unse BAAT curry. So they will give you a small orientation of everything. Even though it's very simple, I already give you an orientation but please connect with your super coaches. It will just help you feel relaxed and it will help you feel that okay, I'm comfortable, I understand everything. If this is clear, put clear. So three things you have to do. Course access you should know Team group, you should know you have to connect with your super coaches. Very important. And when you connect with your super coaches, they will explain the good student checklist that you have to print out. You have to tick everything and in case you're not able to connect with your super coach, drop an email mail at the Rate riddhidevra.com Please note these three steps, especially if you're a new mother. Course Access Second Team. So 6:30 to 9:30, the team groups are open 9:30. We will close it so that you don't get disturbed in the night and then again so you can interact with mothers. And the third step is to speak with your. There are two super coaches you can connect with. One if you want to connect with both, you can connect with both, but at least make sure you connect with one of your super coaches. Okay, so now let's start with the mission. Can everybody see my whiteboard? If you can see my whiteboard, put yes in the chat box. All right, thank you so much for confirming. So our theme for today is forgiveness and acceptance. If you love the theme, put love. So understand, you know, why is forgiveness so important? I'll give you a very small example. How many of you, Let me explain it to you very in very simple language. So how many of you want to attract prosperity and abundance into your life? If you want to attract prosperity and abundance into your life, wave at me like this or do this like attracting prosperity. Okay? All of you do it. Okay. At least for the activity, turn on your cameras. So attract prosperity and abundance, right? But to receive something, you have to first create space. So supposing you have a cupboard full of clothes. Now you do good new shopping and then you mix your new shopping with your old clothes. New shopping. How many of you experienced that? Put e for experience. They all look the same. So that's why very important. Before you buy new stuff or put in new stuff, you remove some old stuff so that at least you can identify the new things that you got. And it will also save you some time and energy. So just like that, if you want to receive more, you have to first let go of all the kachra in you. Anything that is holding you back. Anger, resentment towards somebody. Like, you know, if somebody has wronged you, they have not treated you well, they've not behaved with you properly, they've said things to you, they've abused you, they've slapped you, they've given galis to you or they did not, they were not there for you emotionally. Now a very important thing, you can never forget this. So don't even try to forget it. Because the more you try to forget, the more you will remember it. You can't forget and you don't want to. You have very intelligent brain. You don't want your brain to stop working. No. Our brains are very good, in good condition. This is what a lot of people try to do. They try to forget, but you can't forget. How can you forget? If somebody has slapped you, can you forget that? No. If somebody has abused you, can you ever forget that? Obviously not. If somebody didn't treat you well, you can't forget. If somebody said something about your parents, you can't forget. If somebody told you you're good for nothing, you can't Forget. You can never forget and you don't want to. But at the same time you don't want to hold on to it. That all of us can do. I'll give you an example. All of you put your hand like this. Activity results better over. Okay. Imagine cotton rakhai. Cotton ball. Just imagine there is. Okay, put. Put cotton ball. All of you put cotton ball. Then close your hand. Now cotton ball is inside. Now you keep pressing your hand. You're pressing and you're holding that cotton ball. Keep pressing. Don't open. Keep pressing hard. So slowly, slowly it will start to hurt. You're feeling like I don't want to do this anymore. Now you open it and you release it or drop the cotton ball. Drop it right. So this is what forgiving means. Some people hold on to it and they keep pressing it. Now cotton ball. But if we keep pressing it inside us and we hold on to it, Our fault. If somebody is giving me a cotton ball and telling me, But I am foolish if I listen and if I do this to myself, I can just say, I can't do this. Bhai, this is your cotton ball. You take, you go. But I don't have time for this. So forgiveness means letting go of anything that does not serve you. And the first person you have to forgive is yourself. For all the kachra you have been telling yourself, if this is a balbon put bio, I can't do it. Technology. I'm not consistent. I'm not disciplined. I'm not an action taker. I'm not a good mother. I'm this, I'm that. I'm not paying attention. My child has become this because of me. I can't manage home. I can't keep anybody happy. Whatever kachra you have told, I'm just giving you statements that I keep hearing. So first you forgive yourself for putting all that kachra on yourself. So can all of you now understand what forgiveness means? And told anybody can forgive somebody. Some people say, ma', am, it's not so easy to forgive. It is very easy to forgive. Because letting go is always easier than holding on to it. So if you have the energy and the capacity to hold on, you definitely have the capacity to let go. This is a balbon purpose. But. I'll tell you that because some of us are addicted to feeling sad. You feel good when you feel sad. There is an addiction to feeling sad. And that's why you choose not to let go. It's not like you can't let go. You can, but you Just won't. Because your low energy and your sadness will become a reason for you to not do anything in life. And then you can say I'm not feeling good. And by doing that, you are not serving anybody. You are just harming yourself. And you are wasting God's beautiful energy. So I want all of you to write this. I easily let go. I let go. I easily let go. Maybe when they are saying maybe temporarily you will feel it. But don't hold on to it. You can't stop yourself from feeling what you feel. So let's say your husband comes right now. Just an example. If your husband comes right now and tells you something rude, of course you will feel something bad. It's not because we are not some Devi or Bhagavan ki lagiga but Usko. So allow yourself to feel. Get aware of the feeling. And then tell yourself that this feeling is not serving me. And because this feeling is not serving me, I will not keep it with me. I'll tell you one very nice thing which will allow you to understand how simple it is. The reason why we are not able to do it. Because we don't know who we are. Who are we all of you? Let me know in the chat box. Who are we all? My Sankeet and mothers will get excited. Yeah. Spirit soul. SS Right. So you are not your thoughts. You are not your feelings. You are not your brain. You are not your experiences. You are not what other people think of you. You are a spirit soul. So supposing. Let me pick a new mother. So let's say Ami. Ami Nichani. So let's say Ami tells me something very rude. Okay. Just an example. Okay. So if she tells me something very rude, very mean. Of course I'm a spirit soul. But I'm in this material world. And when I'm in this material world, I will feel bad when she says something rude to me. So I am feeling bad. But now because I'm learning the principles of God, I understand that I'm not this feeling. I'm a spirit soul. And I have a choice. Whether I want to honor this feeling or not. Whether I want to keep this feeling or not. I'm not confusing myself that feeling so instantly. I can remove that feeling from my space. Supposing a thought comes. Supposing somebody is forcing me. Let's say Deval. Deval is forcing me to do something. I'm getting very irritated. So. Whatever those thoughts are coming to me, who is she to force me? Why do I do this? Because she wants me to Do So these are thoughts that are coming to me. Let's say. But these thoughts, I have a choice. I'm going to ask one question only. Just one question. Is this thought serving me? Yes or no? If it is not serving me, I will say goodbye. My husband comes and tells me something. Now whatever he said is his opinion of me. But am I that? Is his opinion of me helping me? No. So I am going to say bye bye to his opinion. Can all of you see how simple this game is? If you can see how simple this game is, put s for simple. If somebody is telling you you will take 10 years to heal from your childhood trauma, stay away from them. You don't take 10 years to heal from any trauma. And probably somebody is telling you you'll take 10 years. They are still in trauma, still healing from their own traumas. All you need is a moment of awareness. That's it. And the minute you get aware that I have full control, I control feelings, thoughts. What I understand about what other people think of me. It's really simple. It's like a game that you play with yourself 24 7. Temporarily you can feel it. But you don't want to feel it forever. Like you don't want to keep it in you for too long. And the duration for which you feel it will keep reducing as you get more aware. How many of you are already experiencing this? If you are experiencing this, put e for experience. Because some of you have done this mission and some of you come for Sankeetan. So understand this concept. That will decide how the rest of your life is going to be. Like I have lived it. You know, nine years ago I was honoring all the wrong thoughts. Nobody loves me. Nobody cares for me. Everybody blames me. Nobody understands me. Nobody does anything special for me. All this is what thoughts. That's not me. I'm honoring those thoughts. And because I'm honoring those thoughts, I'm getting depressed. But now this thought will come. I will give one jhapa to the thought and ask my. Ask this thought to leave. Just leave my space. All of us have the power to do that. But we don't use the power. And the reason why we don't use the power is because most of us are not aware of this power. Until now if you were not aware, Chaleka, but now you are aware, you better use the power. It's like you know you have a gun and somebody is trying to kill you. And you are just sitting with the gun because you don't know that the gun is with you how to practice a daily practice at every moment. I'll do it once with you, Dr. Sujad, I'm putting you on Spotlight. Okay? So unmute yourself. You can unmute. Okay. Your child is here. He's going to listen to everything I say. I probably not have them in the room. They will hate me after this role play. Yes. Yeah. Hi, Riti. Yes. Yeah. Okay, so I think since your children are here, we'll do. But for you to. Can you ask them to come back after two minutes? No, no, it's okay. They left the room. They are in the room. No, no, no. They left the room. Okay, then it's okay. Yeah. Because I'm going to say some mean things to you. So I don't want them to think that your mentor is saying such mean things to you.

Give me five.

Just a second. Okay. Let me do this with someone else. You watch. Okay? Because I can't do this with you if your kids are in the room. Okay? So let me do this with Priya. Okay? Okay, Priya, you can unmute. Yeah. So Priya, I'm going to say a lot of crappy things to you. And then of course, you know, whatever you feel, you honestly share. Okay? So Priya, you just make big commitments and you fulfill nothing. You take no action. You're just in your fear zone. You're totally useless. I told you, you're good for nothing. I knew you couldn't do anything and I just knew that, you know, you're just thinking too highly of yourself. But you're not the. It's not for you. You know, just leave it. I knew it. You're gonna waste your time, you're gonna waste your energy, you're gonna waste your money or just gonna waste everything. You just keep saying, I can do it, I can do it. But you really can't do much in life. Okay, so I'm done. I think this is the best I can do. Okay.

So.

Yes. How did you feel?

I think you don't know me. I mean, I don't know how to react.

You don't have to defend. See, again, this is a problem. Okay, let's notice this. No, no.

What I'm.

Yeah. So don't get into defense. You tell me exactly what you feel. Feeling is like words like, you know, I felt sad, I felt irritated, I felt nothing or whatever. What were your feelings? Riddhi, you're not a good actor. Thank you. I know that. Thank you. Yeah.

So we.

It was not coming like that. When you're talking, I was smiling. Actually, I Was like I was trying.

To hold my smile. So I think. But yeah, actually, I, I, if somebody will tell me, like, that I'm definitely feeling sorry and like, definitely feel sad. But in my head, I think I, I feel like she doesn't know me. Like, how. What she knows about me.

Let's say if I were your husband.

Yeah.

And if I said these things to you, and if I were a better actor. Both.

Yeah.

I only think it's very me.

It's very mean to say something like that. It's very. Maybe I'm not fit for this activity.

But I'm just feeling like I just, I will just feel it. Everybody is fit for this activity. See, again, you're having thoughts about yourself. This is something you have to delete. You have to drop this judgment of yourself. So not mean. What is that? I did something mean or your husband did something mean? How did that make you feel? Give me a feeling. Word, not explanation. I'll feel.

I feel, I'll feel sad. In general, I'll feel sad that now.

You'Re speaking despite of doing everything.

Why? So you know, you'll find sad. Hurt definitely is hurt.

Yeah.

Yes. And like, no, he's not able to judge me properly or maybe understand me properly.

Come from the right ways.

In certain ways that, yes, I might feel sad and hurt. Emotionally broken also, because when you say something, I immediately, I just crack, you know, if he says something, I'm like, okay, yeah, I cry.

Yeah. So you'll feel sad, hurt. You'll start to cry. Like somebody else would feel angry. You know, somebody could feel very irritated, you know, all those things. But for you, it's hurt and sad. So now you want to ask yourself, is this feeling helping you?

Definitely not.

And then, so you want to ask yourself, is this feeling helping me know? Then you have to ask yourself, do I want to keep it?

Definitely no.

Do I have the power to remove it?

That's a process to learn.

That's what I'm trying to tell you. This is the process. All of you, this is the process. You have to ask the right question. Do I have the power to remove it? All of us have the power to remove it. Just if you have the power to create it, you have the power to remove it. See, you feel hurt. You feel sad when you feel that what that other person said is true for you. But when you have that inner confidence that what they said is not true for me or I choose not to honor it, you can. You have the power to remove it. But unless you are not sure of how you feel about yourself. You will not be able to remove it. Is this making sense to everybody? If this is making sense to everybody, it is very easy is what I am trying to tell you. Because I practice it all the time. If any of you are thinking that everybody in my life is an angel and they only have good things to say. I want to tell you it's not true. I have many difficult people in my life. Because I am also like a grihast. I live with Sansarik. Sansarik Lok. And it's not like I am some Devi. And I don't say things. I'm sure I'm also saying things which is hurting other people. Maybe I'm not saying it with the intention to hurt them. But you know sometimes when you are saying things, people just get hurt. So what is the process? You're going to ask how am I feeling? Is this feeling helping me? Do I have the power to remove it? If I have the power to remove it, I choose to remove it. This thought. Supposing you're feeling jealous of somebody. Thought. Jealousy. Supposing. And you know you're feeling. It's normal in this material world. These feelings will come because it's created by Maya. You can't stop them from coming. Because those feelings. Those thoughts are not you. The problem is we feel. Because thoughts you cannot control from coming. They will come. If somebody will irritate you. You will feel irritated. You can't stop yourself from feeling irritated. But if you honor that irritation and do something wrong, that's a problem. So supposing you get. Supposing you are trying something challenging and a thought of fear comes that I think I will fail. This thought will come. You can't stop it from coming. Even I get this thought. I had a TEDX speech. So I'm thinking. I hope I remember. Because you know how when you memorize something if you miss one part you feel Types you know. Because you're linking the sentences. So I am feeling scared. But I'm asking myself, is this feeling helping me? No. Do I choose to keep this feeling? No. Can I put this feeling on the side? Yes. Simple. You just have to ask. Remove. Ask. Remove. Ask. Keep. If it's helping you, you also keep it. Is this feeling helping me? Yes. I want to keep it. Is this feeling helping me? No. I want to remove it. So let's say 10 years ago somebody did something very wrong with you. You ask yourself, how do I feel when I think about that? Not good. Is it helping me? No. Do I choose to remove it. Yes. Can I remove it? Yes. Then just remove it. Because if you don't remove it, you will not receive more. So it's up to you. If you don't want to receive more. You can sit with your dialogue. It is not easy to remove. But jisko bhi life may receive Kanna aapko remove Kannahi parega naito ab Receive Karhi nai sakte. Because. And I'm not making all of this. These are all principles of God. Remove and receive. And removal is very easy. It does not take years and years and years. It just takes awareness. So how many of you are ready to remove and receive? Put RR in the chat box. Yes. Okay. Let's put A for amazing. For Priya, for playing along. And B for bad. For my bad acting. But at least I did it. Okay. Just. Just having some fun. Yes. So now why is forgiveness important? Very simple. Let me give you a list. Emotional freedom. Very important. You cannot have any financial freedom. You cannot have any relationship freedom.

You cannot.

You cannot have any freedom. Without emotional freedom, no money you can make. If you're not emotionally free, you cannot be in a good relationship. If you are not emotionally free then cycle of growth. You cannot grow. You will stay stuck in your past. And if you are in your past, you cannot receive in the future in the present. Because the delivery address for universe is present. So supposing Poojaar. She orders something to the universe. Now universe is ready with her new palace. But. Universe. Address is present. But Pooja is in the past. Some of us are in the future. What if I fail? What if nobody comes to me? What if this? What if that you're in your future. So again universe is sitting with your house. You're in your future. It cannot deliver. Just do the right thing in the present moment. Live your life second by second. Second by second. Is this second happy? Yes. So next second happy? Yes. Next second happy. Yes. Din happy. Don't think about creating a happy day. Think about creating a happy second. If every second you're happy day will automatically be happy. How to remove public re Anxiety will come. You just say this. Is this helping me? Anxiety is nothing. It's a different name for fear only. Is this helping me? No. Do I want to keep it? No. Can I remove it? Yes. Replace it with faith and go into it. Do your work. And the best way to remove anxiety is to practice. If it's in the context of public speaking. The more you practice, the less anxious you are on stage. Then stress relief. You know, if you hold on to grudges and all of that, you create so much cortisol in your body, you reclaim your power. You are able to live who you truly are. If you are not, you know, if you have forgiven people and you moved on, you are space for joy. Your relationships will become stronger. Of course. You know, like so many things happen, you know, in a relationship, in a family context, just forget you know your mother in law told you something yesterday. Next day we carry forward. That's how much you need to do for yourself. You're not doing this for her, you're doing this for yourself. Because if you fill yourself with that, how will you attract more? And that is why some people who are full of potential, skills, talent, they're not able to attract. Because with all that skill, talent and potential they also have so much inside that they are holding on to. So there is no space to receive. How many of you can feel what I'm sharing? If you can feel, put feel in the chat box, You can share it. But I don't know if it's going to. You know, repeating your past will only reinforce it. You know sometimes people are like but it's not. The only way to come out of it is for you to make a decision to come out of it. That I choose to put it away. I choose to step out. I choose to delete, I choose to erase. I choose not to think about her. Better inner world. If your inside is good, your outside will be good. Because your world within creates your world without. Without is means world outside. And the most important one for me. I'll just mark this. Better service, better use of God's energy. How many of you want to become beautiful servants to God? Put want in the chat box. If you want to do this then stop thinking about yourself. If this went deep, put deep. If I am sitting here before you today, I had no skills. I had zero skills. I didn't know how to make videos. I was very. I didn't even know what zoom is. Forget about using zoom zoom. I didn't know how to record courses, build a digital school, nothing. If I am sitting here before you, it is only because I have always thought that this is my work for God. And you know, when you think like that, God will give you the courage. God will give you the resources. God will give you the strength. God will give you the skills that you need for his service. You know, we all read know in Bhagavad Gita. When God is on your side, when Narayan is on your Side nobody can defeat you. You know, one side is Narayan, one side is Narayani Sena Konjeeta Bhagwan. Just side may right the Pandavas. So just like that, the whole world can be on one side. But if God is on your side, you cannot lose. So stop worrying about. But you have to get yourself into that zone or where you stop blaming people because you don't have the time to blame. You stop thinking about other people because you're so busy serving God, you don't have the energy to waste. You don't have the time to fight with your husband. You don't have the time to shout. You don't have the time to prove, justify, defend. Because. If you are somebody smart, what will you do? Option one, serve God. Option two, fight with this material world and material people. Try to appreciate them, try to please them, try to get their good compliments and all of that. Go for option one. See, I'm telling you, whatever you are experiencing right now, it is because of the kind of choices you have been making. We cannot blame anybody for what we experience. I want all, I want all of you to put IAR in the chat box. I am responsible. And today, only in the morning, I was thinking we will do a special call for spiritual parenting shares. You know, we like, we do the platinum shares now because in platinum we have Sankeer, we have Bible, we have Quran reading. I want to do a dedicated call only where mothers are sharing how spiritual parenting has helped them. If you love this, put love. I got this idea today when I was meditating. Why am I sharing this? Because, you know, we have to understand that conventional parenting career, you can only go so far. I'm not saying that that's not important. You have to learn both because you're living in the material world. So you have to learn conventional parenting. Because in the material world, you have to work on your behavior. In the spiritual realm, you have to work on your intention. Is everybody understanding this? Put yes in the chat box. They will think who you are. Like, if I come here, maybe I have a very beautiful heart. I really love you guys. I want to serve you and all of that. But if I come here and I disrespect you and I don't talk to you nicely, you don't care about how good my heart is or what my intention is. You will just ask me to get lost. You'll be like, just, you know, whatever, you know, you're not going to care about it, about me. So here people will gauge you based on your Behavior. But in God's world, God is gauging you on the basis of your intention, Then you will make progress. That's why spiritual parenting and this conventional parenting, both are very important. But if you're only doing conventional and you're not doing the spiritual parenting, no matter how amazing your child is, no matter how rich, famous, pretty, beautiful, supported you're supporting your family is, you will not feel fulfilled. And that's been my experience. And also experience, also the experience of so many other mothers in this room. So now, now we will take just five minutes, please, probably to give you the activity. So the first thing you have to do, think of people you need to forgive. So make a list. If you don't have anybody, just say, nobody to forgive. If you have some people who have wronged you in the past, or they continue to do some things to you, poke you and all of that, put their name on the list. Then think of people you need to ask forgiveness from. So let's say you have done something and you're very guilty about it and you feel. Yeah. So where they ask everybody, they send a message and they ask for forgiveness. I love that ritual. So nice. Like you are just messaging and asking people that, please forgive me if I made a mistake. So like that, you make a list of all the people you want to send this message to and ask for forgiveness. And the most, mostly we need to ask from people who are closest to us, like my husband. Like, if I were to make a list, the first person on the list will be my husband. Please forgive me for being very rude to you sometimes. Please forgive me for not always being there with you sometimes. You know, maybe he wants me, but I'm with you guys or whatever. So just like that, you know, make a list of all the people you feel that you know you can ask forgiveness from now. Forgive all the people in your life and bless them. Send a lot of blessings to all the people who have wronged you or you feel they have wronged you, because maybe they did not do it with that intention, but you felt it. Send them tons and tons and tons of blessing. You can just sit, visualize them standing and you're sending them lots of blessing. They are smiling, they're glowing, they're shining. And trust me, as they feel better, you will start to feel better. You might feel that they have hurt me and how will I bless them? You can, because you are God's child and you have all the qualities of God. Now, all of us have done some mistakes, but God is still taking Care of us qualitatively, we all have godlike qualities. We forget about it. We can never be God. God is God. But qualities we can have and we don't can have, we have. We just have to use them. It's already there, but use it. Then. Fourth stone release ritual. You can do it on a stone, you can do it on a paper. Whatever you feel comfortable with. Take a piece of paper and write the names of all the people and just say, I love you. Whatever, Whatever. Goodbye to whatever you did to me. I love you. Xyz. Whatever the name of the person is. I see. I. Okay. For whatever you did. I forgive you for whatever you did. Just write it. Write it, write it, crush it, tear it, do whatever, burn it, do whatever you are. Your energy feels like. Like, I usually don't burn things, so, you know, I probably crush it and flush it or something like that. So you can decide. Then, journal, this is important. So all of this will take you no time. One minute, one minute, one minute, one minute. Now, Journal, this is very important. What am I holding on to that no longer serves me? What are those things that you are holding on to that is no longer serving you? You're going to answer this question first in your journal. The second question will be, what lesson can I learn from this experience? So supposing somebody did something very irritating. And whatever you want to go back and ask yourself, what did this whole episode teach me? Maybe you were giving too much and that's why you felt so hurt. So maybe your lesson is that next time I don't want to give so much. Because if I don't give so much, maybe I'll not expect so much. Or maybe your lesson is I should be better at setting boundaries. I should have set better boundaries with them. Maybe your lesson is that because of just getting hyper and just overreacting, I chose to step away. I could have stayed calm and made things work out. Maybe your lesson is I should communicate less. So, whatever. So you have to ask yourself, what was the lesson that you got based on what? You know, the memory that you have of something that you've been holding on to that does not serve you. How will you feel if you forgive? So let's do this right now. So I'm going to play some music, and I want you to. What? Just feel for a moment that you've let go of. You let go of everything, what people have done, what everything. And you are just getting closer to God and ask yourself, how are you feeling? Okay, so I'm going to Play some music, close your eyes and. And let's do this. Nothing. Just feel how you would feel if you have forgiven all the people in your life. You've asked for forgiveness. You're feeling light. You're moving closer to God. How is that going to make you feel? You can also see people walking out of your heart. All the people you want to let go of, Visualize. They're stepping out of your heart and they're getting into some dark world. And you don't want to see them.

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In your heart. Close your eyes, Sam. It. Sa. Yes. Open your eyes and come back. Yes. And let me know in the chat. How are you feeling? Calm. Relieved. Light. Yes. If you're getting emotional, tears, it's all very good.

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You're releasing all your soul is finally alive. Yes. Relaxed. Tears. Relieved. Happy. Calm.

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Lighter. And that's how you deserve to feel. Light. Calm. Relaxed. Peaceful. Ease. Grace. Free. See, you did it. I didn't do anything. You did it. Just in two minutes you can do this all day, all night for yourself. And imagine if you're in this energy. What beautiful. Your energy. The energy of your house will be so beautiful. Your children, your family, everything will shift. So, so proud of you. Yes. So do this once again on your own. And do I deserve to feel this? Totally. You deserve to feel the feeling that you just felt. And then you have to con. Send a letter. If you can, you send it. If not, you just write it and then you can dispose it. So send a letter to somebody you want to ask for forgiveness. Lot of mothers in the past sent it to their co sisters, to their sister in laws, to their own mothers. They've not been. If they were not kind to their mothers or they expected too much or put too much pressure, did not appreciate what the mother did. So they say, asked for forgiveness. So just like that you can write a letter? Yeah, you can write a letter to yourself also. And if you are feeling the have the courage, you please give it to them. They will feel good. If you feel that you're not ready yet, that's totally okay. I respect that. You can at least write it and then release it. Okay. And then connect with two mothers from your team. How will you connect? Just go and write in your team groups. Is anybody free to connect? I want to connect. And then just fix your time and then do a WhatsApp video call or a phone call. Video call is better because it's better if you see each other and then you can take a screenshot and post it. On the group and meet me live once a week. If you do all of this, you will get 200 points. So most of it we did it right now. So it's not going to take you more than 15, 20 minutes to do this activity. And the connection time, all of you can decide. So if you want, you can take a screenshot of this the super coaches. Until then, I will announce the winners. Yes, Barka, you can still ask. Even if they are not here, you can ask. So in total, very proud. In total, 15 mothers have finished the mission. If you think that's amazing, put a for amazing in the chat box. 15, 15 mothers. Wow. Angel number. And out of them, 798 are platinum mothers and 717 are gold mothers. So well done. And on position one, guess in the chat which team is on position one. Let's see. Team nine. Team nine is on position one. On position two, we have team seven. And on position three, we have team eight. So team nine, team seven and team eight. Well done. Very, very happy with your results. And all the other teams, you're very, very, very, very close. So do not lose hope, Keep taking action, strategize plan and make it happen. Right? So with that we come to the end of this beautiful mission call. Thank you so much for staying till the end. The attendance is live on the app. You can go and mark your attendance. And if you loved it, put love in the chat box. If you loved it, loved it, loved it. Yes. So release all this. Be in your zone. Super proud of you for doing this. This time that you've spent here is going to save you so much time and energy in your real life. So I love, love, love all of you. If emotions show up, do not worry, do not get panic. If you're crying and all, just drink a lot of water, ground yourself and, you know, keep your conversations to a minimum and even stimulation like phones and phone and screen and all. If you can avoid for some time, that's best. Yes. Awesome. Thank you so much. Take care. Love you. This is Riddhi Devra, your parenting coach for life. Always here to serve you and always here to love you. Have a great day.