Supermom Revolution Mission

yeah सो aur values just all right this timing is life so are values could be very different i give you an example from my life so, i have three sisters they are home makers and i m the only working women in my whole khandan like you know my grand mome was a home make, my mom was a home maker and now also she s a home make all my sisters are home maker most of my carson sister s a home makers now there is nothing wrong in being a home maker it is absolutely right why, because that is their value, they enjoy that and the like it its not like their being homemakers out of force or out of compulsion no for me also you know because i was born in a family by viman were not working husbands word the gatacasand doing everything i so in the begning tried the same। because you always follow what your family is doing it। and i was the last one to get marit between the for sisters so i also quit everything s ka now i have to take care of my child, have to take care of my family, i dont have to do anything। but it was not working out for me। i was miserable in to week i became like some je चुटकी में किसी इंसान को बदल दिया आपने from being a very com person, i started fighting i started shouting, i was emotionally frustated, it was just not me and that time also i didnt realize why i was experiencing what i was experiencing i that may be। because i become a mother for the first time, it is my post pregnancy, what ever hard monal changes that you go through it was only later, wen isi learning i realized that i was not respecting my values and my value was to work to grow to contribute to sir not just the karka people, but to do something more with my time and energy so understand one thing weather your a home maker or your a working mother as a working mother, whatever you chose to do wether your in a job, or in a business, or your a coach all of that will depend on your values, some people values i want more stability so they are in no job, some people s value is i want to create impact they become coaches some people values i just want to make a lot of money and group दे बिल्ड बuजiनesss now for me that money is never the prime motivate, because i did to to businesses before this that was a lot of money, but zero happiness, because no impact of the work that i was doing so i would not feel full field from within bank acount would be full, but i did not have the energy to go and use that money because i was so lo so understand what is also with your husband, it can be for what can be right for me? might be long for my husband, that does not mean that we dont love each adr like i am a very good student, i can see this with a lot of confidence। whatever my teacher will tell me i will do it? even if it is very difficult for me। even if it is something i have never tried before। and this is how i become a couch i din know how to make videos mental set make a video posted on instagram i was scad, i was like kitna gta video, but still i went and i posted only because my mental told me to otherwise i would have not posted for short, now my husband is ulta when it comes to this he feels he nos everything you know how most men are not just my husband, but most men not all, but most so understand that so your values can be like you know for me i would like my husband he would हिस वैल्यू would बी to invest in एडवेंचर invest in travel invest in all of that for me my value would be invest in my space। because this is what i spend most of my time for him it would be invest in cars for mea if e we dont even go out what s the point a gadi in so understand we defer in many things r values are different like my values to go to temples any city, any country in the world algo i want to go to the temple in that please like even if i go to fukt go to a tibetan। you know monastry i just want to see i like that culture and i want to see it, but my husband it would be the last thing on his list so understand that you now never thing that do it। because he s not doing what you want to do it means he doesnt love you or because he s not supporting your decision। he doesnt love you or he does n care for you? because there are many things that they do which we dont support like if my husband will right now comment sk me that should be by a new car i think we so i will tell him no need, but he might still go and get it, but that doesnt mean i dont love him is making sense to every body, this is making sens put yes so understand you have to make your own decisions। because you know what you re values aryoknlotofas we go and we ask people मैं ये कर लूँ वो कौन होते हैं बोलने वाले आप कर लो की नहीं कर लो उनको तोड़ना पड़ता है आपका क्या वैल्यू है बिकज वो गलत नहीं है वो अपने वैल्यू से आपको आंसर देंगे so its not like they dont want you to grow, they want you to grow, but they are not understanding what you want so when they dont understand what you want how can the help you this is super clear put s c for super clear, but what if this top you from going to temple go in their not around just feel and i feel that you know dont want to create ho walk in your home for these things। whats the point of going to a temple when your fighting with your husband and you are not in a good mood so, sometimes when they dont allow you just feel you worship got from velablyour city and slolyslolydilshipt rliermyhusbend would also be like this allidicanwestmy time going to this i would let go also i would what some pictures videos ऑनलाइन आई वुड से भगवान यहीं से दर्शन हो गया। बीज 1 जन को तो समझना पड़ेगा अगर दोनों जन लड़ेंगे तो फिर क्या फायदा एंड देन धीरे धीरे वन यू आर आलसो लिस्टिंग जस्टि दे आलसो कम राउंड and they also start supporting your decisions eventually, what you mean my value value is basically what is true to you सो मेबी your value can be family, first your value can be i want to grow in life, your value can be i want to keep learning for life like my sister their home makes, but the आल लर्निंग आल द टाइम they re always learning different different things। whatever topic the are interested it so the learning should never stop lot of people in ama who मेकर मुझे क्यों सीखना है, मुझे तो कुछ प्रोफेशनल नहीं करना what is more important your profesion मनी इन द बैंक अकाउंट और य day to day energy, but e or energy, if you understand that your day to day energy is the most important in the super coater share the youtube link can you just take it from somebody and share it i m not sure if this work, but you can try this i m never share it myself so you know in respective or what you re doing whether you re a home maker and when i started this joni i was a home maker, because i am i was not doing anything i had quit everything for my child so i started as a home maker and now i m a coach and it only happen, because as a home maker i decided to learn i was not think i ma home make a o ma ko seo can we create your values, will keep evolving with time, the keep shifting with time, there are so many mothers to come for this sankirtan, who were not got loving, but now the are god loving so now loving god is also one of their values so when you hang out with the right people you re in the right association, you also start to create similar values, like when a lot of you came to me you did know anything? about the concept of life long learner some of you did, but some of you it, because you use to फील की इतना ही पलिया होत है पर फिर जब आप करते रहे, करते रहे आपके अन्दर वो वैल्यू या th i want to be a lifelong lerner, i want more and then you levldupanyou move to प्लाtiनo so your values, will also keep evolving with time, but there are certain base values and how you know that you re not living according to your values, if you are always actions, if you are always sad, if you are always iidated, if you are frustated, if you are angry, then you re not is, if you re life is not in harmiनiं, then your life, you are not living your life based on your values, you are base fulfilling everybody elses values, so first quality of or decision is clear the first quality of or decision is to make a decision that is a line with your values second, whenever you make a decision that is a line with your value, you have to show cric, because people will not support you if you are lucky there might, but there is also a chance, they might not, but if you quit because they dont support your decision you will remain where you are so we have to show cadet and we have many examples of that in this room, how many a few in this room, your husbands did not support you। when you were getting platinum put me in the chat box that dahod its a scam and by the way, we have an other full form for scam simple choice for all mothers so if you re husbend things in a scam, you can tell them that this is true she s a simple choice for all mothers she s a big scam i need to defend myself in a nice way, so i came up with this fulform just joking simple choice super toys स से कितना सारा words है se so any mothers, but how many of you were still able to do it, if you were able to do it by big s even my husband did not understand this in the begning hiden support me i for literally for simat you have to do it i don⁇t know so understand these things for making a good quality decision you have to show currage because for making casual decisions which everybody is any way doing you know your going on watching a movie, you dont need corrig for that your watching something on netflix you dont need corrig for that your buying a teashrtyou dont need carragefor that buying a new handbag, you dont need crage for that। because ninety nine percent of the world is already doing it and i just want to say one thing what is for miliar might not be it just because everybody is doing it is so form we feel it is the right thing to do सब लोग बच्चे को स्कूल भेज रहे है तो हम भी भेज रहे, कोई जरूरी नहीं है कि वही राइट है और कोई ऑप्शन नहीं हम कर रहे हैं क्योंकि और कुछ है नहीं option ndrpरेशre we do it, because everybody we just follow the followers, but if you want to be different and if you want to live a perpose ful life, you have to take better quality decisions a line with your values, which take scared, then this is very important long term fulfilment over short term relief most people आर नॉट able तो मेक गुड क्वालिटी decision वाई बिकज उनको लगता है कौन इतना हेडेक लेगा हजबैंड के किचकिच का कौन मदर लॉ को समझाएगा वाई टू अरे सो मच मनी फॉर माईसेल्फ so you want to escape all the short tom tension, but to escape the short term tension, you are okay with remaining lifetime stuck, if this is a bulbonpudbeo, because you can never grow without creating this comfort for people around you कभी नहीं हो सकता। you cannot right this line, you cannot grow विदाउट क्रिएटिंग discomfort for people around you some people will be walked about the discomfort so lets if your husbend। इस एकपीरियंसिंग डिसकंफोर्ट सम थ्री टाइप्स ऑफ़ हजबैंड सम हजबैंड विल shut and they will make you feel bad about what you are doing some husbands, they will not shoutremainneuteral, but they will go through the discomfort third tip, they will very kindly com and tell you i come with me i need ten minutes fifteen mints whatever बट दिस कंफर्ट सबको होगा and its not just them, even when we see people around a growing। we also go through litle discomfort, because we are not used to that version of them सो sort tma you can create a litle disappointment in people, why we are not हम किसी को दुखी नहीं देख सकते, 1 दिन के लिए भी। and we start to be a self for the reaction कि मेरे हसबैंड, मेरे पढ़ाई से दुखी है, तो मैं नहीं करूँ r my mother in law or my house old is getting distrub so let me le r i m not spending time with my child so let me le लेट मी टेल यू नथिंग if you are then iritated mother, it is better you stay away from your child rather, than you spending to much time with your child children are happier, when you are busy learning, how men of you agree with that would a or age children grow the best when you spend less time with them i m not making the sup, because when you spend time with them, you are idea lेcचरिngthem you re correcting them, trying to fix them trying to dicipline them, आप उनको फ्री नहीं छोड़ते and then what happens the child is also becoming like you only you imagine when you put a seed in the mark a you standing on head n that see all the टाइम, you plan the seed and you move away from that seed and then you do your one thing and then you come back sometimes to check on that seat some mothers feel i am a good mother i am spending all the time with my new born baby, now your new want babe doesn⁇t want that i m a good mother defends spending all the time with my five year old they dont want now they wanted its only, because you train them like that and tengas definitely the very happy when your luning happy st, so you now we just make children an excuse to not take action to cover r on fears i can do it? because my चाइल्ड to small very good वे खुद डिसिजन लेने की हिम्मत नहीं है बच्चे पर डाल 2 आई कॉन डू इट बाज my kids are already so big so why should i do now yeah it only are children need you dont need anything you are some mis perfect parenting is not only about the chile its also about you in fact it is eight percent about you so when you see my parents colt sertification the first video only a talk about this its not parenting its parent child relationship eighty percent watagis on the mother so even if your child is thirty one, you still need to learn parenting am thirty sixes till go back to my mom for so many things and she s able to guide me, because she know is it as very important for us to learn no matter what your age in respective of the age of your child also then fourth when you make good quality decisions new doors and opportunities will open of for you how many of you are feeling that your life okay let me know in the chat box, how many month ago did you join easy parenting hup aprocimitel even if you dont remember the exact number six mans, one point, five to three july twenty, five eleven to month, four month, three months and how many of you are feeling that you have grown like massively in the last few months, its like a softwere ubgrेdकम्पलीटलy put men with a lot of e in the chat box and how many of you a feeling that this is a new life, new world which you had never seen before this is what i also filed i started my jony of learning why did this door open for you? because when you came for the master class, you had the corrig to make a decision, you did even know me most of you didn no me than you are meeting me for the first time or other seeing me speak and share for the first time, but you have the cottage which lot of women din have in that room some of you are in platinum and how many of you are having a fantastic experience in platinum put fantastic in the chat box your there, because you have the coreg to make a good quality decision which not everybody has so what you experience will depend on the quality of decision which requires collage and it will keep opening new dors some of you came to platinum thinking you just want to do for your child, and then you end up। making money like kinjal share in the morning almost five lacks in a your anahat, now whited that door open for her। because she took that gurage a new dore open and she continues on that pat more dors will open you just like this। i started this community so many dors open tedixcolled me so many news papers featured me so many top schools like dps and part was and rp going can kalkata all of them invited me all the big business organizations like ficciflo wipo i was not going to them, but all of these doors open for me। because i was building this community and the notice so, whenever you make small small decisions in the right direction new dors will keep your opening for you so thats also a qualit to your university for me to wow love that s ali imagine you know imagin later will be like celebrating twenty five years in epch how men of you think it will be amazing i⁇msalingmyhusbend te other day i want to record everything til my hair is black and i look young husband was like। वो कभी होने वाला sixty learn something and चलो इसको मैं कोर्ड्स बना देती हूं that will never happed, but just imagine know you get to see my young videos and then you get to see my old videos आलसो with rinks an al होपफुली जल्दी नहीं आएगा, but you get to see that so it s gone। just like a crazy journey। you know some of my menderes, you know have been with them for like ten years, now when i look at them। i feel like so crazy like you know already like knowing them from almost nine plus years now such a good feeling it, and then a good decision will break a patted it will ब्रेक अ पैटन इन योर लाइफ हoओमिनीऑफयू आर फीलिंग that यू नो यू are stuck, और यू वर क्राइंग और यू वर फाइटिंग और यू वर एंग्री, यू वर इरिटेटेड यू वर शाउटिंग यू वर स्नैपिंग यू हिटिंग वो सब कम हो रहा है। धीरे धीरे कुछ लोगों का पूरा बंद हो गया है, कुछ लोगों का काम हो रहा है आपका स्क्रीन टाइम इम्प्रूव हो रहा है। ना या नोट माइंडलेस प्लीज क्रोलिंग you have something good to watch and then of course a good decision according to me is a decision that serves a big oporpusafteropoint may be right now in the begning you might feel that we want to become a coach, because i want to make money, but i want to tell all of you this one thing, when all of you start making one cora month which i m sure will happen for everybody, if you follow the system, when you start making one crore month, many will not give you any happenesit will give you comfort, but the happiness will come from this। when you have a family, when you have a community when you meet each other, your hugging kissing sharing talking this will give happiness, and thats why you know i really keep sharing this that there are many ways of making money, but this work that we do its like। how to put it s like so fulfilling its like। you have your own family, a family that you can trust more than anything, and you can be totaly wonerable with this this is not now money in the world can buy this how many of you a green only gud karmas only god s kripa can give you this space in a spot in a space like this and i feel the same for myself you know when i got i din obviously have access to such a big network the man i was learning just like to three people, but atleast atleast are got to meet them in your of you feel that you know now no matter what city you go to you will have a friend to connect with if you wish to if you wish to you go to deli you like i m coming to dalli, who is free i m going to bombay, who is free i m in noida was free man hydrabad was free i m in banglore was free this you know no even if you re a billion are you can create this network for yourself only gods blessing can give you this right। so the qualities of decisions, i will just repeat all of this for you and then i share my slide, you can take a screenshot this my mind map going again, oh yes so it mas be aligned with your values, it focus on the long term fulfilment go through the short tom pain in the long run all this span you will not remember। and even if you remember you feel good about it that thing god i went fruit। अब मेरी लाइफ देखो कितनी अच्छी हो गई है, पर अगर मैं उसको उससे भागती, तो शायद आज मेरी लाइफ ऐसी नहीं होती। so, now ready for some activities, if your ready okyfrsetmeshar my screen, you can take a स्क्रीन shot of this let me, yes you can dig a screnshot of this qualities of a गुड decision।