Supermom Revolution Mission

In this live YouTube/Zoom session, Riddhi Deorah guides the Easy Parenting Hub (EPH) community of mothers through several coordinated initiatives. She announces a special graduation ceremony for mothers who have completed the previous mission round, explains the logistics for the new mission round (including the mandatory mission form, team assignments, and leadership reshuffle), and introduces the India Book of Records pot‑painting event – a one‑time spiritual pot‑painting record attempt for 1,000 mothers, detailing the date, time, dress code, required materials, payment, and post‑event photo submission process. Riddhi then unveils the upcoming Divine Prosperity Week (July 11‑19) with daily themed Zoom sessions (Love & Relationship, Parenting, Confidence, etc.) and a new affiliate/partner program that rewards Platinum mothers with ₹50,000 per referral upgrade. The core philosophical framework of the “Supermom Revolution Mission” is presented: anger is a signal, courage reduces anger, and confidence follows repeated courageous action (C‑A‑R‑C). She outlines five concrete mission activities (Courage List, 100 % responsibility exercise, future‑self visualization, affirmation writing, and community connection) and sets four commitments (winner’s mindset, team player, mission mindset, do‑whatever‑it‑takes). Throughout, she uses interactive prompts (chat responses) to gauge understanding and engagement, provides troubleshooting for form access, shares contact numbers for support, and closes with reminders for the next graduation call and a final motivational message.
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Yes, we are live on YouTube. So super coaches, you can just share the YouTube link. Yeah, don't worry if you joined like, uh, last month, then you start the new round and then you finish the full round and you get the certificate. If this is clear, put C for clear. So all the mothers who joined in between, you start this round from the beginning. Hello, hello, can we upgrade Zoom? Yeah, so, uh, just one second. Now the next thing, a special announcement. If you want me to share this, put B-I-O, bring it on, and I'm going to share this with you. And this is something we are having for the first time ever. So for the first time ever, we will have a special graduation ceremony for all the mothers who actually finished the mission. Everybody is allowed to join. Everybody is allowed to join, but I'm going to spotlight you and I want to hear from you how was your experience. So we've never done this, so I'm going to spotlight you and I want to hear from you what was your experience for the mission, which was— which one was your best mission, and why do you think everybody should be a part of this mission so you can also inspire the new mothers to actively participate and finish the mission. So we are going to have a blast. So we are just going to have fun sharing, celebrating, crying, laughing, all of that. So it will happen tomorrow at 6 PM. So please note the date and the time. Tomorrow is 2nd July, 6 PM. Amazing. And now I want you to fill out— since we are starting a new round of mission, today we'll be doing Mission 1. For the new round. So I want you to fill out the mission form. So go to your central— super coaches, can we have the link in the chat? So go to central.easyparentinghub.com, then go to your mission zone and fill out the form. Even if you have done it earlier, do it again because we are starting a fresh round. Now this time we are not shuffling the mothers, but we are shuffling the leadership. So you will be in the same team, but you will be with a new leadership, just because I don't want mothers to get confused and be moving around different WhatsApp groups. So we'll keep you in the same group, but there'll be a new leadership and new mothers will get added to your teams. So if you are a new mother, you will get a new team. And if you are already in a mission, let's say if you were previously in Team 1, you'll continue to be in Team 1, but your leadership will change. Like your super coaches, your captains, your super leaders, all of that will change. It's not opening, maybe because of high traffic. A lot of, a lot of mothers are trying to open, so just try after some time. So once you fill out the form On the top right, you will see your team number and you will get added to that team. If you've done it, put done in the chat box if it's done. Not opening. Okay, for those of you it's not opening, just wait. Maybe your internet is slow and maybe because so many mothers are joining. So I'm just going to close the chat once so that the link stays on top. Yeah. So this is the link that Hiral has shared. This will take you directly to the form, and then you have to fill out the form. I want every single one of you to fill out, because only when you fill out the form will you show in the points dashboard. So it is compulsory for every mother to fill out the form. Just copy the link if it's not loading for you right now. Just copy this link, this link, and do it after 5-10 minutes, you know, because right now more than 1,000 mothers have gone, so maybe it's loading slow. Now those of you are done, put done in the chat box if you're done. Not able to do now. Done, done. For some of you it's not happening. Actually, for more people it's not happening. For some— okay, now I see a lot of duns as well. Not opening. Okay, don't worry, let me just double check. Just give me a minute. I think because of too many people. Okay, forget about the form. I've just asked my team to work on the speed. We'll do it in another 10-15 minutes. They'll call me. All right, the next thing— don't worry, we will all fill out the form in this call only. Okay, so just give me 10 minutes. I've asked them to— I think they've locked it. They said that we were opening it at 7:30. So that's why it's not opening. So I've told them to bring the time down to 6:40. I don't know how some of you did it because they are saying that the form will open at 7:30. So let's just wait. All right, so we'll open the registration for the new round. Maybe if you filled it out previously, it's for the old round only. So the new round registration form will open right now. I'll tell you when it will open. The next thing, the India Book of Record How many of you have registered for it? Put R for registered. Registered. Amazing. So now I'm going to do a small demo, small orientation for the India Book of Record. Just one second. Hello? Yeah, some 1,200 people. Okay, yeah, okay, we'll do the mission form after 7. Okay, so now for the India Book of Record, I'm just going to do a quick orientation for those of you who have registered. In case you have not registered, you don't know about it, we have sent multiple, multiple messages. So I'm just closing the chat and I'm going to share the payment link for you to register. In case you feel like you want to, please do it, okay? Because this is once in a lifetime opportunity. We already have 1,000 mothers, but let me just share with you what is this going to be about and how you have to prepare yourself. So I'm going to share my screen now. So welcome to History in the Making India Book of Records attempt. This is largest online spiritual pot painting by mothers. So this is going to be a moment in history, something which even I cannot recreate. So it will only happen once, and if we want to recreate it, we have to beat our own number, and it's very difficult for them to, uh, allow in the same category again unless it is little different. So we will be the first mothers, first 1000 mothers in the world to have done this, where we will have mothers from I think 10+ countries, some 30+ cities, from 6-7 different faiths who will be coming together on Zoom and will be doing this together. Now what is the spiritual pot painting activity? And if you do this, you will get the India Book of Record. And trust me, it's not so easy to get one, right? Like, for you guys, it will be very easy because I'm organizing everything. You just have to show up and you have to do something very, very simple, which I'm going to tell you now. Okay, forget about the mission form for now. That's my responsibility. I will ensure that all of you are able to fill out. So right now, let's focus on this. So why should you be a part of this record? Why does this really matter? Because you're going to become a part of history. Your name will be there in the India Book of Records. You will inspire thousands of mothers. You will create a beautiful spiritual keepsake for your home. Because how many of you understand that when you get together on Zoom and you are painting that pot with 1,000 mothers chanting their own mantras. So this is how we will be doing it, because yesterday I got a message from a Muslim mother. So this has nothing to do with religion, this has nothing to do with faith, this is all of us uniting together. So everybody will be on mute, you will pay— you will play your own chant, which means if you are a Muslim mother, you play your own chant. If you are Gurbani, you do your own chant. If you are doing Hare Krishna, you do your own chant. Everybody is free to decide. If you are not so much into God, you can also play spiritual affirmations in the background. You want to do it yourself, you can do it yourself. You want to play music in the background and do it, you can also do that. But how many of you agree that yes, you can say Bible verses, you can say Bhagavad Gita, you can do whatever That's complete freedom. There's no restriction and nothing will be imposed upon you. You are free to do whatever because it's— we are very secular and it's a very, very liberal space. But how many of you agree, like, 1000+ women getting together and chanting and you're painting, that energy is going to be very different? You know, they say that when you're meditating alone, you get some impact for sure. When 3 people meditate together, the impact is 3 square, which means 9 times. When 30 people meditate together, 30 square, 900 times. So now you do the math— 1,000 women doing it together, so that impact is going to be 1 lakh times. So I want definitely every single one of you to be part of this beautiful— it's going to be a very— I can't wait for this experience to unfold. You will spend 1 hour in peace, creativity, and prayer, and together we will show the power of mothers being united with love in one single space. So now, how many of you are super excited to be a part of this? If you're super excited, put SE, or it will be 10 lakh times. Oh yeah, 6 zeros, 10 lakh. Yeah, also very good question. Yes, your children can paint with you, but the record is only for the mothers because the record we are, uh, you know, we are attempting for is 1,000 mothers painting a pot together in a moment of spirituality, you know, where it's like spiritual mantras or chant and all of that is happening. And we are all doing it together. So if your children want to paint with you, they are allowed to do that. They're allowed to be with you on Zoom. If you want, you can also get separate pots for them, so you can turn this into a family experience. You are also allowed to invite your mom, your mother-in-law, your sister-in-law, co-sisters, your friends who are mothers. So I have invited everybody because it's not easy to get this record. So both my mothers, my mom-in-law and my mom, will be joining. All my sisters are joining, my friends are joining, my co-sister is joining. So we are all going to do it. I've created a separate family group also for my own pot painting with my whole family. It'll be fun, you know, like even if you have friends who are mothers, but the only condition is they should be mothers and they have to block their seat by paying the ₹550 amount, which I feel is nothing for a record like this. Amazing. So my daughter— yes, daughters can join. If they are mothers, they can also get the certificate. If they are not mothers, they can join and have fun. The certificate you will get. Now what are the things you need to prepare? You need a mud or a clay pot, a small pot. Don't get that big matka like for planting a tree, not that small, you know, this, this big. Is this clear to everybody? Don't get a very big one. I don't want you to feel overwhelmed, so something small works. Yes, I'm going to share all the details. Yes, so some paints and brush. So whatever paint you want to use, you can bring that and paintbrush. Then water bowl, cloth and tissue— cloth or tissue for wiping. Comfortable table or chair, or if you're planning to do this on the floor, just make sure you are comfortable. Laptop and mobile which is charged, okay? So I thought this through because some of you, your phone gets discharged. So this is the only preparation you guys have to do. Make sure your phones and your devices are charged. So don't come with 2% battery left. Sometimes you have such an important question I'm answering Aapka phone bandh ho gaya. And then you're like, Nam, I'm so sorry, my phone went off. So, you know, I have also been very careful in mentioning this. So please make sure your devices are charged, stable internet connection, you're in a good network, and you can play whatever soft mantra, prayer, affirmation can be playing in the background. Now, 1 hour if you are doing it yourself You can do any paint, you know. I've just written some— I'm not an artist, so I just wrote some paint name. Now you can do poster paints or whatever paint works for you, any paint. You can also use sketch pen. You just have to decorate your pot. Now you be whatever artistry you want to, whatever you want to express, and you can just express yourself in whatever way you wish to. One mother in the sankirtan, she gave me this idea that you should, uh, make your pot wet and then dry it and then paint one coat on it so that on the actual day it will be easier for us to paint. So if you can do that, you can also do that. So how many of you have already got your pots? If you already bought it, put yes. Yeah, my friend messaged me, send me your pot, I will whitewash it. I was like, okay, thank you. Yes, Tanya has a good pot. My pot looks very much like your pot. Asha NM, yes. So these pots work perfectly fine. Let me spotlight them. So all of you can see. One second. Tanya Lalwani. Yes, can all of you see the pot? This kind of pot works perfect. If it's a different shape also, it works. It doesn't have to be exactly like this. Different shape peechalega. Amazing. Thank you so much, Asha and Tanya, for demoing. Can you just share an image in the chat? Any pot works, any small size pot. I'll show you a picture. Wait, I think it's on my PPT. So if you want, you can take a screenshot of this slide. These are the things you have to ensure. Now, how will it happen? I will tell you just in 2 minutes. So take a screenshot of this. Done. If you are done, put done in the chat box. 1 hour, 1 hour. I'll tell you everything. Yes, so the attempt will start at 7 PM. The painting activity starts at 7, but please join by 6:30. You can join and you can do whatever you want to do, but join the call. Because if you are late, you will not get the record. So you want to be very punctual because we have to send them a Zoom report of when they joined until what time were you there. So from the backend, I hope you guys know you are able to download. So as a proof to India, and you have to join with your name, the name on the record. Clear? If this is clear, put C. So on Zoom, when you're joining, join with the correct name and join on time. Don't be— even I have put 6:30 because some of you, if I say 6:30, you will come by 6:45, 6:50. So if I tell you 7, you will join by 7:15. If you join at 7:15, you will not get the record. That's why I have emphasized we will start the painting activity at 7 only. But you have to join by— join earlier than that. So don't be like lastminute.com. Maybe phone is not working. Sometimes Zoom starts upgrading suddenly. Sometimes internet is not being— you're not able to connect. So please make sure you join a little bit early. If that's clear, put C for clear. And that 30 minutes when you are with me, we can do something fun, right? But please be on time. Okay, I have to share my screen. So 7 PM. So now the time is clear because a lot of you were saying we are very confused, is it 6:30 or 7? Actual time is 7, but I have written 6:30 so that you are not late by even a micro millisecond. You cannot be late. 7 to 8 PM is the pot painting duration. Now here's what we have to remember: join by 6:30, painting starts sharp at 7, camera must remain on throughout. So all my beautiful gorgeous mothers who keep your cameras off even though you have such beautiful faces, for the record, you have to keep your camera on. Do you guys want a dress code? I thought we can all wear white, it will look nice. But in case you are not able to wear white, still come, okay? Don't think, oh, I'm not in the dress code, so I'll not go. Please come because the dress code is only for us, not for the record. So if you can wear white and come, then wear white and come because it will look really nice when we put pictures with, uh, white and a colorful pot because you'll have to take pictures. So let me share. So camera must be on. Stay on mute everybody. I'll only mute from my end, so everybody will be on mute and you'll be listening to your own mantra. Do not leave the Zoom meeting. In case you want to go to washroom, you can go. In case something urgent is happening, you can do. But aisa nikya Zoom se exiti ho gaye. Aapka naam dikhte hain acha ye Zoom pe. Agar aap panch das min ke liye darudar jaa rahi ho, woh chalega. Because they will record the Zoom report, so they will check whether Divya stayed from minimum 7 till 8 PM. Now if Divya came at 7 and she left at 7:15 and then she came at 7:50, she will be disqualified. In case your internet drops and you are taking 1 minute to join again, that they will allow. So I have checked all of this for you guys. In case internet drop, okay. Clear. If this is clear, put C for clear. But it's not like you join at 7, you gave your attendance like proxy, and then you left, and then you just pop up at 8 PM to show your pot. That's not allowed. And also, this is 1 hour of you doing your own spiritual practices, no? So you can do gratitude. So you can do something, you know, you can do gratitude, you can sit and read a book. You can listen to some, uh, audio. You can listen to my course videos. You can do all those things in the background, but you have to be on Zoom in case you finish painting your pot sooner. So do not leave the Zoom meeting. Paint during the activity. Also, this is important, don't come with a ready painted pot. You have to paint. While you are on Zoom. So some of you are very early, not lastminute.com but the ulta of lastminute.com. So don't come with a fully painted pot on Zoom. You have to paint together, we have to paint together. It's for fun, we're just going to have fun, right? So I'm just trying to rule out all possible questions. And if you finish early, simply stay connected until everybody else finishes. Right, you stay connected. You can do your own things in the background. You don't just have to stare at everybody else on the screen, but you can, uh, you know, just stay connected. And those of you have not registered but you want to, please do it. Today is the last day. After today I cannot allow. We have already exceeded 1,000. So if you want, today is the last, last means like ultim— because 4th is the record. Today is already 1st. I also have to send them an Excel sheet with your names for the certificates. So I'm just going to— if you are traveling, then you join from your travel. 1 hour you have to find, 7 to 8, like 6:50 to 8 PM. So you keep yourself blocked from at least 6:50 PM till 8:05, all of you. So if you're traveling also, I think you can make arrangements. I do my calls when I'm traveling. I went to Bangkok, I did all my calls. So if you want, you can like plan it in a way that you are in the hotel when you are during that time period. So your family will have to cooperate and you'll have to convince them to help you. Now after we finish, after you finish painting the pot, here's what we have to do. We have to take a selfie with the painted pot and we have to post it in the WhatsApp group for India Book of Records. So for those of you who have registered, you are added to the WhatsApp group. So on that final day, we will open that group and we will spam that group like anything, okay? So we are going to open it and we are going to just put lots of pictures, not like one person one picture, okay? So please select your best picture. I don't want one person to put 100 angles, okay? Because we are already 1,000 women in that group. So you take your best picture and in which the pot is clearly visible, and you put that one best picture in the WhatsApp group. If you have an Instagram profile, then you also share it on your Instagram story, and you can tag me and you can tag India Book of Records. We will be sharing the link for both the Instagram channels in your, uh, this thing in the India Book of Records WhatsApp group. So you can tag the India Book of Records people and you can tag my profile so I can also reshare. I didn't know, I don't know their exact channel name, so I'm going to share it in the group. And then we will again, just to be doubly sure that your spelling is correct, I will ask you to fill out a Google form just for the name, correct name on the certificate, and we will cross it with the names of mothers who have actually registered and made the payment, ₹550. Is this clear? So once you finish, you just fill out, and that Google form will be very basic. It is just like a double check for your spelling. We've already trying to check it, but just in case, you know, we miss out. So just imagine this— 1,000 mothers painting together, 1,000 homes filled with prayers, 1,000 symbols of peace. Those pots will be peace. And please don't— and one unforgettable evening. And please do not throw your pots. Maybe, you know, sometime when we meet for our offline event, all of us can carry our pots and we can do one real physical picture with the pot. Because, uh, in the October Goa event, the India Book of Records people will be coming and they'll be doing the whole thing from the stage that, you know, women like mothers from Easy Parenting Hub got this India Book of Records. So they will be coming. So what I want, what I'm envisioning, in case you are coming for the Goa event, and you have also painted the pot. I would love all the mothers who are painting the pot to carry their pots with them, and we can take a combined group picture with the pots. I'll also carry my pot, so it will be such a beautiful, uh, picture to have. I would love it, right? And, uh, we'll also have that whole India Book of Records box and everything that they'll be giving. So with that, we'll have a group picture. So that's why please do not throw away your pots, because I know some of you have minimal or whatever decluttering OCD. So do not declutter the pots so soon. Hold on to them for some time. So it's going to be an unforgettable evening, and it's going to be some— it's like going to be a story to tell. Your grandchildren. You know, I always— I don't know, my gram— just visualizing my grandchildren all the time. It's going to be such a nice experience to share, you know, because my daddy used to tell me so many stories. Like, Mera picture, you know, her picture and my grandfather's picture came on the newspaper because my grandfather was the first person during their time to not accept dowry. So he only took, I think, some 1 paisa or something when he got married to my grandma. So their picture was, you know, published on a newspaper and stuff. And so she, she would show me that newspaper cutout and everything. So she had actually framed it. So, you know, this is something, you know, we are also— we'll also have something to show to our families later when we grow older. So just the final checklist: mud pot, paints and brushes, water, charge device, stable internet, camera on, and smile. So you can take a screenshot of the final checklist also. And please be on time. See, I've written again, join by 6:30. You join and you do whatever time pass you want to do in the background, and 7 PM sharp we will start painting. And this is a live— I've given some pictures. So this is how the pot can be, a small pot, 5 to 7 inches. If it's little bigger, it's okay, don't worry. It doesn't have to be exactly this, something like this. Acrylic or poster colors, brush, cloth, cloth or napkin, whatever you want. Water bowl. I've also given you an example of the kind of selfie you have to take. Literally, I've done everything to the T so that you are not confused. So you have to take a selfie like this. In case you have registered but you are still not added to the WhatsApp group, please connect with Pragya and Urvi— Pragya or Urvi. So please take a screenshot of this. You still have 2 days. So once you register, automatically the WhatsApp page should load and you should get added to the WhatsApp group. But in case you're not added, then please connect with Pragya and Urvvi. Also, Pragya and Urvvi have a list of the names, so in case your name is not there on the list but you have registered, so please let them know so that they can add your name on the list, because only the names on the list will get the record. And check the spelling of your name also. Clear? If everybody is super excited now, put SE for super excited. I'm really, really excited, can't wait for this to begin. And I will just close the chat, and those of you who are still not blocked but you want to block You have the next 2-3 minutes to block. Please go ahead and block your spot. And when you block, just, you know, keep the page— oh, I've opened the chat instead of closing. Sorry, I can't work without an open chat, I think. Okay, now I've closed it. So this is the link. So those of you who are very extremely last minute and you've missed out on all my messages and still not blocked, this is your time. So you are very lucky that even last minute you will be getting the record. So please go ahead and block it. And don't just block, okay? It's not about you registering. You also have to show up. Show up on the final day because the more mothers we have, the bigger the record will be. So please make sure you also show up. Don't just register and then forget because I understand ₹550 is nothing for most of you, but if you're registering, then also have the intention to be there. Okay, it's not just about registering and then just forgetting about it. All right, now the next thing. Do you want me to show you something which is going to completely blow your mind away? If you want me to do that, put yes in the chat box. Okay, this is an idea that I got on the flight to Bangkok, on my way to Bangkok, and then on my way back, you know, when I was coming back, I was able to crystallize it a little more. And this is something that we are— Sonia Garg. Yeah, Sonia, join and just hope that God gives you good internet. That's Indian Railways, you can never trust the internet, but just pray that God gives you good internet. Amazing. When is the pot painting event? 4th July, it's a Saturday. 4th July, 6:30 PM, you join. 7 PM we start sharp. 7 o'clock sharp we will start painting. Dress code: be dressed in white if possible, but otherwise there's no dress code. If you can, then I would love for you to come in white. It will look really nice. Your pictures will look nicer with the pot if you are dressed in white. To which group? The India Book of Record group. You have to share your selfie. We will open the group on that day. I'm not opening it now because if I open it now, then you guys will not be able to breathe. There are so many mothers in that room, in that group, so that's why I've kept it closed. But I might open it, uh, on the 3rd for some time for you to just engage and activate, and on the 4th we will open it. Yes, you can cover your face, Halima, no problem. You don't have to— you follow your faith. You don't have to do anything that is not allowed in your faith. Want to register your mother? Then just copy this link and then register with her name in incognito mode. So go to incognito mode and put her details when you are registering. Okay, why it is not compulsory? But I would love it if you come in white. So if you have something nice in white, wear white. Otherwise, any color is fine. All right, so now the idea that I got, and this is something we'll be doing for the first time ever in the history of EPH, okay, because it was a very, very new idea. So I'm going to share a video If everybody is ready for it, put R for ready. It's a 1-minute long video. Okay, let's begin. Yes, so what do you think? The Divine Prosperity Week. Yes, it's happening for the first time ever, and also on your central. So I'm very like, I don't know, it was such a sudden idea that came, and I also want to share this with you. On the central area, we have already activated this thing called the Divine Week. So when you come here, you will see this love— we will start with Love and Relationship Day, then we have Parenting Day, then Confidence Day, Life-Changing Day, Story Day, Clear Your Doubts Day, Mom Energy, Mom Energy Day 2, and Decision Day. So how many of you are going to be with me from the beginning till the end for the Divine Prosperity Week. If you're going to be there, 1000%, put me with a lot of E. And all of these days will be around 2 to maximum 3 hours. Some days, you know, because I want to do a little bit Q&A also, but it's going to be very simple because I think the power is in simplifying things, and that's my superpower. So I'm going to really simplify these concepts and I'm going to give you very powerful framework. So I'm already thinking about what I have to share. So every single day you're going to feel that, that we are going to work on different areas— your relationship, your parenting, your— it starts from the 11th of July and it goes on till the 19th of July. Yes, it's called the Divine Prosperity Week. Also, there's another good news is— just give me a minute. Yes, also there's another good news. So right now, let me just demo this to you. So when you come here, so let's say you click on love and relationship, so you will see what will you learn. Like, of course, this is like sketchy. What you're going to learn is going to be much deeper, but these are the reasons, you know, how you're going to strengthen your marriage, understanding your partner better, all of that. When will it happen? You will get the date and the time here. The Zoom link has already been created. And under the Zoom link, we will be activating another button called— which will be called Invite Your Friend. So just under the Zoom link, there is going to be a button saying Invite Your Friend. Now, how will this work? Every single one of you, whether you're a Gold Mother or a Platinum Mother, you can invite your friends. So we are working on that page. So once you click on that, you will get a message with a link. So I've already written the message for you also. So the message with the link, you just copy that thing and you can share it with your friends or your family members who you think would be interested in joining the Divine Prosperity Week for 9 days. Now when you do that, they have to fill their details and they also have to fill out your name. So it will be their name, their email ID, their phone number, and your name. Now why will they fill out your name? Because if you are inviting somebody, then they get tagged to you. Now when they come and let's say they like the experience and they upgrade to either gold or platinum, so if they upgrade to the platinum membership, whatever they will give, you will get a flat 50,000. For every upgrade that comes through you. If you love this, put love in the chat box. Now, if you are a Gold Mother, you will only get it if you yourself are a Platinum Mother. Now, why have I made this compulsory? Because you cannot offer something to somebody else unless you are trusting it yourself. If you agree, put A for agree. It's not the right thing to do. So let's say if you are right now an existing Gold Mother but you upgrade to Platinum and a friend or a family that you have invited, they also upgrade to Platinum, so you will get 50,000 for their upgrade. Is the pot painting compulsory? No, Mega, it's not compulsory. Only if you want the India Book of Record. So if you love this, put love. So each one of you can easily make 1 lakh from home. Even if 2 people from your entire network come for this whole week, they like the experience, and they move to Platinum. Now, you're not doing anything wrong here because you're not taking anything extra from them. You're not forcing them, and you're just inviting them, and they are getting this experience, and then they have the free will to decide. The only thing you have to do is you have to be there to support your friend and family because you don't just want to invite them and then forget about them. So you want to be a good host, which means if you've invited them, you also want them to understand how to navigate through the systems. What if they join? Yes, forever, lifetime, they will be tagged to you. So if they come for the week and they don't move to Platinum this month but they move next month then also you will get it. How to invite? We will tell you. We are working on that link. It should be live by tomorrow. So under this, when you go to Central, under the Zoom link, there will be a button saying invite your friend. So when you press on it, you will get a message with the link. You copy that whole message and you share it with as many people as you want on your WhatsApp groups. Then they have to fill out that form. It's very simple. We'll only ask 4 things: name, email ID, phone number, 'Your name.' So they have to fill out the name of the person who invited them. When they fill out that form, they will get added to a WhatsApp group. Clear? Even if they upgrade, if they upgrade to gold, then you will get some 20% something. If you are a gold mother, we don't have any affiliate for you. If you are a platinum— not 20, sorry, 30%. So if you are a platinum mother, you will get 30% of whatever they put in gold. If you are a Gold mother, there is no affiliate there, there's no partner program. But if you move to Platinum, only then the partner program gets activated. If this is super clear, put SC for super clear. Now why am I doing this? Why don't I have a partner program at Gold? Because this space is not to sell, this place is to help. So once you come into Platinum then you're not in that salesy energy. You have first invested in yourself, and then you are inviting somebody to experience that whole thing with you. Is this making sense? So this is your way of making blessed money, and all the mothers who come through you will all also thank you. And you know, we have so many, like Ekta, she's been invited by Kinjal, and all the time she's thanking Kinjal. So this has to be done with the right— I am Gold, should I upgrade to Platinum? You cannot upgrade to Platinum right now because Platinum is closed. So we only open Platinum once a month. So all the Gold mothers, even if you want to upgrade to Platinum, you have to wait. Is this clear to everybody? This is clear. So when you— when we open Platinum, we'll have something called the Platinum Showcase, right, which is actually the decision day. So in this plan that you see here, the 19th of July, which is decision day, that's when you can decide whether you want to be in Platinum. And my experience, you don't decide, Platinum will decide whether you are going to be in Platinum. If this is clear, put C for clear in the chat box. Yes, if you are Platinum Mother and you're helping others to join, everybody is getting a flat ₹50,000 per upgrade, right? Why? Because now we are doing a lot of merchandise like we do like a goodie box, silver coin, book set, so many things. So everybody is going to get flat ₹50,000, and also calculation-wise it becomes very easy. Is this okay with everybody? If this is okay, put okay, because otherwise in the past we've had many confusion— this GST, that GST, and all of that. So now we are going to give you ₹50,000 per upgrade that comes through you. When will you receive the amount? After the mother who has come through you has completed her full payment. Clear? If this is clear, not when she just registered. She has to finish her full payment. As soon as she finishes her full payment, whatever the next payment cycle is, you will get it. Yeah, Geeta M, it will come to you. If they join gold and if you are a platinum mother, then you'll get 30% of gold. Whatever they deposit for gold. If you are a gold mother, you don't get anything. Is this clear? For you to get anything and the affiliate partner program, you have to be platinum yourself first. And this is a very conscious decision that I have made because I don't want people to join Easy Parenting Hub just for the affiliate income. Because in some other communities I have seen this, that they have it at the lower levels, and people more than learning, they are more focused on selling. So that's not the vibe I want to create in Easy Parenting Hub. That's why my affiliate will only be for the top level members. Is this clear? If this is clear, put C for clear. When will you open the elite membership? Just wait for it, you might be in for a surprise. So all of you come tomorrow, don't miss the call tomorrow, 6 o'clock. All right, yeah, for both Platinum, Platinum Elite, it's the same, 50K. Okay, and now, but I'm very grateful for this idea because it came to me, and I'm very happy that we were able to implement it. And I promise, these 9 days, this Divine Prosperity Week you are going to remember for the rest of your life. So how many of you are feeling blessed? Put B for blessed. I am feeling very blessed that I got this idea, and now I'm going— I just want all of you to make the best use of this time. Even if you're a working mother, be there. You can keep your camera off only for the painting. You have to keep it on for the India Book of Record, which is not a part of the Divine Prosperity Week anyway. But just come for all these calls and you will definitely, uh, you know, feel the difference in your life, in your family, in your energy and all of that. Ruhhi, what's— what does that mean? Can I transfer the money from somebody else's money? For what? Yes, all the calls are in the evening. Only Sunday calls will be in the morning. If that's okay, put okay. Every call will be at 6 PM, so it's very easy for you to remember. All the calls will be from 6 to 8, sometimes we'll go on till 8:30, and only the Sunday calls will be at 11 AM because I don't want to keep you in the night on a Sunday evening. So Sunday calls will be 11, every day otherwise will be 6 to 8, so it's very easy for you to remember. And the Divine Prosperity Week starts on— ma'am, on— yeah, I'm also already did it. No, Swati, Sunday 11 o'clock, Saturday evening, because some mothers are also working on Saturdays. So that's why everything else and all the details you will see on the central app. So I've made it very, very clean. So you just have to go here. I'll just show it to you once again and then we'll start with the mission. And the missions also have made it very crisp and to the point and very focused. So you'll see that as well. So it's all here when you go Divine Prosperity Week. So let me show you. You'll come here, this is the main home page. You go to Divine Week, this will open up. So let's say you come for Love and Relationship Day, you will see this, you will see the date and the time, and then you will also be able to join directly from your join on Zoom. Right now you can do this if you are a member. If you're not a member, then they'll be added to a separate— like the friends and families that you'll be inviting, they'll be added on a separate WhatsApp group and we'll be directly sending the links there. And we'll also be sending it to you on your WhatsApp groups. Also, one other thing which is another very interesting feature is when you come— so let's say when you come for Love and Relationship Day, after Love and Relationship Day is over So around 7:30-8 PM, your learning section will open. So you can record your top learnings here, and then you have to record your top learnings and you have to submit. If you are able to come for all days, you will get a special certificate for Divine Prosperity Week. If you love that, put love in the chat box. If you're able to come for all 9 days, and write your lessons and submit it. So for that also you will get— Santoshi, no problem, Santoshi, you will be able to like now do your best with what you can. You know, I have been doing this work for 10 years now. I have tried almost every single time possible, like morning 10 AM, morning 9 AM, 11 AM, 3:30 PM, 3 PM, 5 PM, 6 PM, 7 PM, and I have realized that 6 to 8, 8:30 works the best for everybody. Homemakers are also able to join, working mothers are also able to join. If you agree, put A for agree. So this is the best I can do because we have to pick some time, because if we start at 7, it gets a little late for some of you. So that's why 6 to 8:30, 9 is the maximum we'll try to wrap up all our calls by. All right, now the last piece, the mission. If everybody is ready for the mission, put R for ready. Okay, and let me also check if you guys are now allowed to fill out the form. Oh, now it's working. The mission— is the mission form working now? Okay, yeah, so the mission form is working now. Can we have the link in the chat box? GPay, you do GPay on the link only, Mega. Don't do a direct GPay because we'll not be able to track. So just pay on the link for the pot painting. You have a GPA option on the pot as well. Uh, sorry, on, on that link as well. Now my full mind is about pot. I can't think anything but a pot. One second. Yes, so this is the link now. Okay, let's pray before we get into this link because 1000 women are going to click on this link again. So please open this link and fill out the mission form for the next round. And let's hope it works for all of you. If it's happening, put done once so that I know it's happening for some of you. Once you have filled out the form, done. Okay, great. Now it's working. God is listening to my prayers. Done, done, done. Yes, and so, and this is, this is very nice because we are able to start on the 1st of July. So very nice to track, and I want every single one of you to set this intention to be a winner. Yes, Kunjal Doshi, everybody fill out the mission form. The leaders, it— the system will automatically detect, I think, if you are a leader. I'm not sure. Just fill out, fill out, just to be on the safe side. Okay, I'm just going to close the chat once more, given that everybody— yeah, this is the form link. Please fill out the form. I'll give you 2 minutes. Okay, 30 more seconds. And on the right side you will see WhatsApp button, so make sure you join the group in case you are doing this for the first time. If you already did it, then you're already added to a group. And for pot painting, some of you are asking, I've put the link again. Today is the last day to enroll. After this, we'll delete the payment link, like we'll just hide it. Done. Okay, everybody's filled out the form. Done, done, done. Can I start with the mission? Not done. What happened? Dr. K, selja. Not submitted for me. It's buffering when clicking on submit. Not done. Most of you have done it. For some of you, maybe the internet is a little slow. I don't know. Okay, don't worry. You keep the link and please do it. Okay, do it today for sure. So just keep the link handy. I think some of you with better internet, maybe you've been able to do it. For some of you, if it's buff Share the link again. Okay, I'll just put both the links. Please copy both the links because then I want to proceed with the mission. So I have shared the link for the mission, that's the link— that's link number 1, and this is the link for the India Book of Records. So these are the two links. Okay, and now let's start with the mission while you're doing this in the background. Okay, so welcome to Supermom Revolution Mission 1. Yes, so welcome, and this is going to be a whole new way of doing it. So what is my intention with the Supermom Revolution Mission? First, I don't want you to parent alone or ever feel lonely on this journey. So my intention for creating this mission, I want every single one of you to have a friend that you can trust and share anything with without holding back. And friends without benefits, like, you know, these are friends who will not even expect you to send them a birthday cake, or even if you don't wish them on their birthday, they will not mind. How many of you agree? Our real friends in like real life, they're very touchy about these things— birthday wish, give this, that— all those small, small expectations are there. But this is a space where nobody is expecting anything from you, and they're all here to support you, to guide you. I'll have to open the chat, I can't work. Yes, so if you agree with that, put A for agree. So that's my first intention. The second, live with gratitude. So when you are connecting with other mothers, you will understand how blessed you are when you hear their stories. You will start to feel, oh, my problem is nothing, and you will learn to live with gratitude. You will expand the way you think because some of us are so used to living our lives in a very, you know, shell. We feel that, yeah, but when you interact with mothers, you— your mind will open up to a whole new level of possibilities. Because you will hear stories and you'll be like, I can't even believe this is possible. How many of you experienced this? Put E for experience. And this is something that happened with me a long time ago when I started interacting, and I was like, what is this? Like, I can't even believe that these things are still happening in the world. So your whole way of thinking is going to expand, and then of course you will grow with intention. Because how many of you understand that we have started to live like robots? Every day same thing. So life has become like very robotic, and we have lost— you know, we are always like doing. We have forgotten to live. We have forgotten to be. So the intention of these missions is to help you slow down, help you get aware of who you are, and help you to understand that there is so much to life. Life is beautiful, especially when we live together, when we do things together. It's not just beautiful, it's also so much fun. So if all of you are super aligned with this mission, put yes in the chat box. Hardeep Sandhu not able to submit. Okay, can we have a few numbers in the chat? Like, super coaches, if you guys can share 1 or 2 numbers and you can help out the mothers who are not able to submit, because I want every single one of them to submit. So first step for all of you is to try again a little later. Maybe right now too many people are trying. So link again, I will share the link again towards— okay, Riddhi Deorah, thank you so much, Riddhi. Anybody else volunteering for help? Any other? Santhya, thank you. Can we have like 2, 3 numbers together? Riddhi, can you organize that for me? Prabhat Yagi, Santhya, and all of that, just give me 3, 4 numbers in the chat. Kinjal, Mangrolya, Pooja, Jaiswal. I don't want so many also, just give me 4-5 numbers. Yeah, as one message. Don't worry, it is my responsibility. I want you to be in the mission. So if you are not able to fill out the form, I will personally fill it out for you, but I will ensure that you are in the mission. So one rule I have, nobody will take tension. Once you're in EPH, relax, everything will happen. Okay, so let's just wait for Richard to put those numbers after this call, or even during the call. Don't do it during the call. After the mission, I explained the mission, just connect with one mother, not all the mothers on the list. Just connect with one of them and they'll help you submit. If that's okay, put okay. Abhi ap relax ho jaun, mission pe focus karo. Don't worry about filling it out. You'll be able to fill out. So many people have done it, so will you. So I'm just waiting for 4-5 numbers and then I'll put it in the chat and you guys can connect with them and then fill it out. All right, so this is my intention. Now all of you have your own intention, so let me know in the chat. Okay, I am requesting you with folded hands Please do not put in the chat box not able to submit. I totally feel you. I understand you're not able to submit and we are working towards it. I'm going to give you 4 numbers right now, phone numbers. After the mission ends, you can connect with one of those numbers and make sure that you're able to submit. Is that okay? If that's okay with everybody, okay. Right now we are learning. So you're just going to focus on the learning. Okay, wait, close, close the chat. Yeah, these are the 3 numbers: Riddhi Deorah, Shaguftha, Kinjal. Those of you who are not able to fill out the form, please copy this or take a screenshot, whatever is convenient for you. Isme se koi bhi ek mother ko— reach out to one of them, not all three of them. Reach out to one of them, allow them some time. So it's not like the minute you message them, that same very minute they'll be able to respond. Why? Because they are going to help so many mothers, right? So in case there is a slight delay, don't worry. You have one full week to finish this mission. So even if you are not able to do it today, even if it happens by tomorrow, it's completely okay. Tomorrow before 6 PM, tomorrow before you come for the call, it will definitely happen for all of you. Okay, so please copy these numbers. Relaxed. If everybody is feeling relaxed now, put R for relaxed. Richa, Shaguftha, Kinjal are your go-to people for this. Yes. Now commitments. There are 4 commitments I need. The commitment 1 is a winner's mindset, which means when you get added to the WhatsApp group, don't just be in the WhatsApp group to do time pass and watch everybody else win. I want you to win. So if you are going to win, put win in the chat box. You know, it's very simple. And don't think, 'Koi baat nahi hai, challenge hai toh hai, haargai toh kya hoga.' No, this is your life. This is not a mission. This is your life. The more you delay, the more you lose out. And it doesn't take effort, so why to delay? It's actually going to save you a lot of time, I promise. Those of you who'd spend 10-15 minutes doing the mission activities, on an average you will save 10 to 15 hours every week. Now, if you are a smart mother, you are definitely going to do it. But if you are a mother who's stuck in the victim mindset where you are thinking, oh, I am so busy and I'm like such a busy life, I'm a full-time working mother, and you're not able to find 10-15 minutes, that's pretty sad. Because how many of you agree that no job should take so much from you that you are not given like 15-20 minutes for yourself? And some of you are saying lazy. Understand that it's, you know, if you are being lazy about this, you are going to have to pay for it in different ways. So let's not be lazy, let's not procrastinate, let's not make excuses, let's not delay. Let's only focus on taking action and being a winner. I know some of you are in multiple, you know, mentorship programs and this and that. I want to tell you, you have tried so many things. Now you give me 2 months from your life. Can all of you do that? If you can do that, put yes. And I can promise you, if you follow the system I have created for you properly without feeling that it's too much, just with a very easy, relaxed mind, I promise you, you will never feel like leaving the system. And this is my experience, not just with one mother but with so many mothers. Mothers come back even after 4 years, like Deval who shared in the beginning. She's been with me for more than 4 years now. Because every single time I will keep bringing something new to you. It's not like you're doing the same thing every day. And how many of you feel that? If you feel that, put feel in the chat box. Renu, I will leave when I die. So cute. Yes, so that's the first commitment. The second commitment that I need from you is you want to be a fantastic team player because this is a team activity. So when you win, your team wins. When you lose, your team loses. So put FTP in the chat box if you are going to be a fantastic team player. And when you finish all the mission activities, which are only going to be very few now, you will get 200 points. And on purpose, I have reduced the activities. Why? Because I want you to experience the activities. I don't want you to do 10 activities and feel nothing. I rather have you do 3 powerful activities, but I want you to feel them properly. The third, mission mindset. So this is not a challenge. If you see, I don't call it a health challenge or a fitness— it's called a mission. Supermom Revolution Mission. Why? Because even though we are in different teams, we're all moving towards the same goal. The same end result. And what is our mission? Our mission is to turn homes into God-conscious homes, to become God-conscious mothers and raise God-conscious children. So put GCM, God-conscious mother, if you want to be a God-conscious mother, because all of us are already in the original state, God-loving. But some of us have forgotten about it. So the mission is to revive that God consciousness in you and through you in your child and to bring that whole energy into your house because you cannot do anything without God's energy. You can be very talented, skillful, intelligent, have a lot of potential But without that energy, those skills, that talent, that potential is of no use. It's like a Ferrari without petrol. So if you have Ferrari but there is no petrol in it, then it's of no use. Okay, we've updated the list, we've added some new names, so you can also take this. Don't worry, I'll put the name list of numbers again towards the end. So please have a mission mindset, and when you are on a mission, you don't make excuses. You wake up with excitement. How many of you would love to be a part of something that's bigger than you? If you would love that, put love in the chat box. That, you know, our life should not be meh, mera bachcha, mere do bachche, mera chota sa parivaar, ye chota sa sansaar. That's not the kind of life you want to live. The world is your family. And you know, if you are on this call right now, trust me, you know, there are billions of people in this world. Some 1,100, some 1,200 people are in this group. So you have been divinely chosen for this mission. You don't choose a mission, the mission chooses you. Because how many of you agree that you had never ever in your life imagined that you would be connecting on a Zoom call like this and learning about parenting and experiencing all of this? So ye kaise ho rahi hai? Aap ke liye decided hai, PLSI decided hai, aur aap ko chuna gaya hai iske liye. You have been selected. So I'm not just looking at you as an ordinary mother. I'm looking at you as a soldier in a mom army. So put S for soldier in the chat box. We are all soldiers in a mom army. And trust me, I can tell you this because all my dreams have come true, and this will come true for sure. This Supermom Revolution mission is going to create history. The world is going to talk about it. Now, that's not my aim, is not to get famous, but my aim is to make every mother, every family realize the importance of this work. Because without this, you know, we are, we are not able to do what we are supposed to do. So how many of you are with me on this mission? If you are with me, put WM in the chat box, because I cannot do it alone. No mission can be done alone. You know, Gandhi needed all of India. I need all mothers. And last but not the least, the most important commitment: DWT. Do whatever it takes. DWT. No excuses. You know, if I am sitting here before you today, it is only because of this attitude. I do whatever it takes. I don't make excuses. I don't say that mutze nahi hoga, mutze nahi ata hai, main kaise karungi, agar main fail ho gaye toh kya hoga. Theek hai, ho gaye fail toh ho gaye, but karna zaruri hai. How many of you understand that we are always failing? Even if without trying, you are failing. If that's a ball bond, put BO. That even without trying, we fail every day. So a better way to fail is to try and fail. Why? Because if you're not doing this, you'll fail in your relationships, or you fail in your communication, you'll fail in your confidence, you'll, you'll stay stuck, you'll want to do something but you'll not be able to do. So we are always failing. So when we are okay with that kind of failure, then why not okay with trying something new and failing? So I always tell myself, I love to fail. That's one of my affirmations. Why? Because when I love to fail, I love to try. There's no fear in me. All of you can write this: I love to fail. And that's why, you know, I'm so quick at implementing new ideas. I'm not thinking too much. Idea comes, I execute. This idea came to me 2 days before Divine Prosperity Week, on the flight. Do din pele, abhi aapke saamne pura I opened it. So the speed between the idea and the gap between the idea and the execution of the idea, when you can reduce that, your life will move forward very quickly. And you can only reduce that gap when you're not thinking too much and you're just doing whatever it takes. So all my beautiful, gorgeous, amazing, committed mothers, are you ready to do whatever it takes to move closer to your dream life, to become the person you wish to be, the mother you want to be, the leader you want to be, whatever you want to be? This mission is going to actually help you get closer to that person you want to be, or that mother you were meant to be, or God wanted you to be. Different ways of saying the same thing. But you have to have these 4 commitments. And you know, these commitments are not just for this mission. How many of you agree that if you can use these commitments in all areas of your life, whether you are in a job or you're in a business, or even if you are a homemaker Ghar banana is my mission. I'm ready to do whatever it takes to maintain the peace in my house. I'm going to have a winner's mindset and I'm going to play like a team. I'm going to make my whole family win. And this is something I learned from the founder of Thyro Care. His name is Dr. Vallumini and he shared it very beautifully. He shares that There are 3 types of players. Player number 1, they play to lose. Start karni ke pele unko pata hai ki me toh harungi. I'm going to lose. So they are playing with that mindset only, playing to lose. There are second type of player, players who play to win. They are very competitive. I want to win, I want to win. And there's a third category, and this is what we all want to aim for. We play to make others win. So if you are playing football, you know, you're playing to make the whole team win. So when you are playing to make others win, you can never lose. If you love this, put love in the chat box. If you're only thinking about yourself, By default, you are guaranteed good results. So always, you know, this is my philosophy. I'm always playing for my students. That my students should make more money, my students should have better relationship, my students should have better health. So when I'm focused on you, God will automatically create those results for me, and it is called the Law of Reciprocity. It— the universe will reciprocate. Everything you put out will come back to you multiplied. Many times. So put 4C in the chat box if you're giving me all of these 4 commitments. And now the theme for today's mission. If you want me to share the theme with you, put yes in the chat box. Now this is a very unique theme. Not done this before. The theme is courage over anger. Now what does this mean? Your courage and your— it's a little deep, but listen to me carefully. I learned this from my spiritual guru. The activities I've created, but the concept I learned from him. Your courage and your anger are interrelated. Sometimes we get angry not because we are angry mothers, but we get angry because we don't have the courage to stand for our values. If this is a bulb on, put bio. You are just being pushed to do things that are not true to you, and you're actually not being pushed, you are choosing it for yourself because you don't have the courage to speak up. So that's the theme. And I want to share a small story from my life. You know, I am here today and I'm very calm now. Like, I don't get angry very easily now, thanks to Sankirtan, spiritual learnings, and all whatever work I do. Get angry— it's not like I never get angry, but it's very rare and it's very short-lived. Like, it stays for very less time. But once, you know, like after I got married, I was always angry. And now when I look back, I know the reason why I was always angry. Because I didn't have the courage to say no. I didn't have the courage to say, 'I can't do this.' This is not coming to me now. I didn't have the courage. When I had a child, I left all everything, my career, everything for my child because I didn't have the courage to step out. I thought I am going to be a bad mother, or I'm going to be labeled a bad mother if I leave my child at home. And that decision was the worst decision I made. I was the worst mother at home because I was not respecting my values. So I became irritated, frustrated. I was fighting with my husband, fighting with everybody, constantly blaming my mother-in-law. Such a nice lady. Now I look at her, I like, she's an angel. Literally, you know, she's so easy. But that time, the same mother-in-law was so challenging for me. Not because she— there was a problem in her, problem was in me, because I didn't have the courage to say no to her. So I would zabardasti, do everything for her, and then I would blame her only that why is she sending me shopping? She was— she just asked me. I could have told her no, but I didn't have the courage to say no. So this is what we have to understand. So the first thing that you need to understand is that anger is a— I'll show you the screen, don't worry, okay? We will get the PPT. For the mission activities. So first, understand that anger is a signal, right? It is not, you know, like, it will tell you that something inside you is wrong. So it's not— anger is not the problem. Anger is a signal that's telling you that something inside of you requires attention. Maybe you are very tired, maybe you are extremely stressed, maybe you are hurting inside, maybe you are ignoring your own needs for a very long time. So the right question— please, all of you write this— or instead of asking yourself, why am I getting angry? Instead of asking yourself, why am I so angry? Don't ask yourself, why am I so angry? Ask yourself, what is causing my anger? That's a better question to ask. What is causing my anger? Now, most of the time you're just very casually saying, oh, I get angry, I'm an angry mother, I'm an angry person. No, after I am Universe does immediate tathasthu. I'm not making this, quantum physics has proven this. After 'I am,' I am giving you a hack. Please remember this for the rest of your life, even when you're 95. Please remember this. After 'I am,' put the word 'learning' very quickly. So you will never say I am fat— You'll see? 'I'm learning to be fit.' You would never say I AM inconsistent! Say "I'm leaning" TO BE consistent... Never saying that I Am indisciplined! So learn how to discipline yourself.... Will NEVER SAY I'M angry—you'd always LEARN HOW TO BEE CALM..... You will never say, 'I am anxious.' You will say, 'I'm learning to feel happy.' You will never say, 'I am bad at technology.' You will say, 'I am learning to get better with technology.' If you love this, put love, please. It is my humble request. It's like you are giving your own self a curse if you say anything negative after 'I am.' So we are not that foolish, we are intelligent, so we don't want to give shrub to ourselves. So after I am, nobody is going to say anything negative. You're saying something positive like I am confident, I'm amazing, I'm a giver, I'm service-minded, I'm growth-minded, then you're allowed. But nothing negative. Okay, so yeah, I just digressed a little, but the idea is that anger is a signal. So you want to ask, what is causing my anger? So that, you know, the analogy that I gave you in the past, the pressure cooker, right? So in the pressure cooker, jab CT bachta hai, the CT is not the problem, the whistle is not the problem. The pressure inside it is the problem, the pressure. And this whistle is actually a way for telling us that there is too much pressure that has been built. So just like that, your anger is like that signal, that whistle, which tells you that there is too much going on inside you. Which means, you know, you either— there is too much hurt, hurt ka pressure hai, ya frustration, or exhaustion, or too much stress, and eventually it will all come out as anger. The second thing that you want to understand: courage is a way for you to reduce your anger. You know, a lot of people will tell you breathe in, breathe out, count. Of course, all of that works. All of that has also been scientifically proven. But why to put yourself in a situation where you're always having to breathe in, breathe out? Put smiley in the chat box. You want to come out of that situation, right? You don't want to have temporary jugad. You want to have a permanent solution to your problem. So that breathing in, breathing out is a temporary jugad because every time you're putting yourself in a situation where you're needed to breathe in, breathe out and stay calm. But what is the permanent solution? Show courage. Start with one area. That will give you the confidence to do it again and then again and then again. So, you know, when I took a course on parenting, very difficult for me because now, you know, people think of all of these things as learning. When I told my husband that, you know, I want to take a course on parenting, he thought I'm crazy. He— and you know, sometimes, you know, he was thinking that, you know, I am taking therapy and all of that, which now people accept very easily. Now people actually don't mind. In fact, they will recommend you that, you know, you should go and do this and do that. But I'm talking about 10 years ago. It was not so commonly spoken about, or not something too many— like, I think I was one of the first, uh, coaches to bring parent education only for mothers in India. There was nobody before me. Now there are many people who are doing it, but because most of them are my students only who are doing it, but only for mothers to create a safe space, I was the first one. Because when I wanted a space for myself I didn't have one. So it took a lot of courage, but because I showed courage, I was able to get rid of my anger. I turned into a better version of myself, and I'm not saying I'm perfect or anything. We are all work in progress. I'm still learning, I'm still growing, but definitely so much better than what I used to be. Only because I showed courage when nobody was supporting me and when even I did not believe in myself fully. Because anytime you try to do something new, people will stop you. You know, when Edison was making the light bulb, nobody was supporting him, right? But he just kept on, kept at it. 10,000 failed attempts. When Henry Ford spoke about an automated car engine, nobody was supporting him, but he did it. So this is very, very important for us to understand that you have to show courage. You cannot constantly keep blaming other people for staying stuck. If this is a bulb on, put beo. You know, we'll keep putting it on other people. That's a very sad way of living your life. It's a very sad way of designing your life. And I'm not able to do because of my children, I'm not able to do because of my husband, I'm not able to do because of my mother-in-law. No, you can do whatever you want. You're not able to do because you don't have the courage to ask, and you don't have the courage to stand after one rejection. And some of us, you know, because of that we have lost 10, 15, 20 years from our lives. And you know, you guys are in this room, you write emails to me that, ma'am, I wish I met you 15 years ago. I always wanted to work but I could not. But at least do something now, because you don't want to sit like after 15 years and say, wish I had met you 30 years, wish I had taken action 15 years ago. So whenever it is, whenever it comes, you take action then. Don't keep waiting for permission, don't keep waiting for approval. Show courage, and your courage will reduce anger. And the longer you avoid a difficult conversation, the longer you avoid an important decision, a healthy habit, the more stress you're creating for yourself. How many of you agree? Agar aap long, agar aap bohot deetak avoid karooge, uh, your fitness, you're going to become fat and you're going to create more stress. If there's an important decision you have been avoiding for very long, you're going to create pressure. If there's some important conversation, you're going to create pressure. So you see, you know, very simple example, like, you know, like Children, if they do their homework on time, there's no pressure as such. But if they don't do one for one week, they are going on piling on their homework, then that simple homework will also feel like pressure because simple plus simple plus simple plus simple plus simple was avoided for too long and now it becomes like so much. Yes, Pavitra, I read. Maybe not real time, my team reads everything real time, but as I read all your emails. So it's very important that you take that first step without delaying it too much, because delay will increase your anger. So take the first step today. And this is also very important: courage comes before confidence. This is very important. Confidence is the last thing to come, but most people stay stuck because they want to be confident before they take action. I can't be on the stage, I'm not confident. You will never be on the stage if you are waiting for confidence. Before you put yourself on the stage. I am not confident to post on Instagram right now. Put smiley. How many of you have told me this? Ma'am, right now I don't have the confidence. So this is the sequence. Please write this: C-A-C. Write this: C-A-C. C for courage. A for action, C for confidence. Sabse pehle courage. First you have to show courage to do anything in life. With that courage, you take action without worrying about the result. We will see what happens. And then you keep repeating that action. Okay, actually you can add one more: C-A-R-R-I-G-E. Courage, action, repetition, confidence. That action, one time you do, you'll not get confident. You repeat that action multiple times. And you will become confident. Now I can shoot videos in my sleep. You put me on a chair, I can directly speak. When I started, of course not. Now I can edit videos in less than 1 minute. When I started, of course not. I used to take 1 hour to edit 1 video. Now I can do it like very quick. This call that I'm doing, free flow, of course earlier it was not so easy. I would prepare a lot. Even now I prepare, it's not like I come without preparation. I prepare a little, I sequence my thoughts, I sequence all the things that I have to share. All of that I do. But it's more— it's easier now compared to what it used to be. There's no stress, there's no pressure. In the beginning there was, but I showed courage and I kept showing up. And sometimes it requires courage to do the same thing again and again, like the, uh, opening meditation segment. Like, you guys are doing it, so you're experiencing, but I'm also talking about it every day, the same thing. But that repetition is what is going to make me confident. So I'm not going to run away from it. For pot painting payment, just get in touch with Pragya and Urvi. Can you put your number in the chat, Urvi? Anybody who wants to pay and all, I'm not putting any links for some time. I will put all the links together now. Just before we close, because right now I'm in the teaching mode and you guys should be in the learning mode, not in the buying mode. You get later. Right now you be a student. It's like class, like man noodles, like, yeah, no, be— listen to what I'm sharing. Yes, so these are 3 things that I want you to remember. Anger is a signal. Courage will reduce your anger. So you have to build your courage if you want to reduce your anger. And third, courage will always come first. Courage, action, repetition, confidence. Now anybody who thinks that I'm going to only do things when I feel confident, let me tell you— or I'm going to rather disappoint you— you will never become confident in your life. Not reputation, repetition. Repetition, doing the same thing again and again. So how many of you are willing to show courage to let go of your anger, have the energy to take action, have the energy to repeat and ultimately feel the confidence. And this is true for all areas of your life. The first time when you made a roti, or when you entered the kitchen, did you know everything? No, you just showed courage that I am going to make a meal today. Then you practiced it, you took action because you didn't have a choice. They told you go make khana, so you didn't have a choice, so you had to take action. And then you had to repeat that action several times, and now you can make roti in your sleep. Some of you, not all of you, some of you still can't. Actually, I can. I don't have to, but I can. And you know, my mom was in a shock. So this is a small story digressing from the mission, just to add a light humor. So, uh, we had gone to, um, Italy and like a family holiday. And one day we took like this really big apartment with the kitchen and everything. And my mom was— she said that she's going to cook a meal for everybody. Like, we were like some— like, we are 5 siblings, so you can imagine 5 siblings and all children. The husbands were not there. So we were like some 10-15 of us, like with the kids and the 5 of us and my mom. So of course we were helping her in the kitchen, and she was not giving me any work because she thought I'm useless, okay, in the kitchen. But I wanted to help, so I told her, no, you give me some work, I'll help you. And when she gave me work, and I was also surprised, I was the fastest to cut all the vegetables. And we had to make roti which I was very scared that I'll be able to do it, but my rotis were perfectly round, okay? And my mom was in a shock. And after that whole dinner thing and everything happened, she told me that I'm very happy that you guys love the dinner, but my subsis ada kush isliye ho ki mujhe aaj pata chal gaya ki mere sare bachche khana bana sakte hain. Because till that point she was thinking only 3 sisters can cook, like 3 daughters can cook, I cannot. She's like, okay, now I know that all my daughters can cook and my son can also cook. Like, my brother also was helping, so she was very happy. Translate in English. Basically, my mom's happiest day was when she realized that I can cook. Yes, amazing. So now activities. Now the activities, I have kept it very simple. And very small, okay? So because I want you to feel it. But give me a pinky promise, all of you, that you're not just going to do it just to finish it. You're actually going to feel it. Put PP in the chat box. This is not some Sultan-e-Wala thing, kibas karki khatam karte types. This is your life. You want to experience the mission. The points are there, but you know, the points are not like going to change anything if you're just doing it for the heck of it. You want to really do it because you want to feel the shift in your life. Amazing. So the first activity is called Your Courage List, My Courage List. So here's what you have to do. You have to make a list of things that you have been postponing because you are scared. Like, maybe I am scared of having a tough conversation, I'm scared of posting, I'm scared of saying sorry, I'm I'm scared of starting to exercise. I'm scared of waking up early. I'm scared of learning a new skill. I'm scared of asking for help. I'm scared of taking care of somebody else. I'm scared of spending quality time with my child. Or I'm scared of investing in myself. I'm scared of following my dreams because I think I might disappoint others. I'm scared of, uh, you know, something, you know, scared of past trauma or anything that, you know, anything that's keeping you stuck. I'm not able to let go of my childhood traumas, whatever, right? So make a list of things that you have been postponing because of fear or because of any other reason. So that's the first thing. So when you make this list Let's say you may put at least 10 things, okay? Minimum 10 things you have to put on the list. Then out of those 10 things, I want you to circle one, one thing. And in this mission, you have to do that one thing. You have to show courage and do that one thing. So first you want to list— it's not— it's definitely more than one. Even I can list 10 things right now. That I have been avoiding. And out of those 10 things, I have to circle one thing and then I have to do it. Like, one thing on my list is getting my own house. Like, I have been avoiding. My husband has been telling, kahi chalte hai, tu shaal lete hai. I was like, nahi, aap hi hai, rehte hai. So that's one thing. But of course, I'm not sure if I'm going to take care of that this week. But all of you get it, right, what you have to do? So make a list of things that you have been postponing or procrastinating or delaying or pushing it away, either due to fear or because you're feeling So make a list, then circle one item from that list, and then your challenge for this week is to actually do it. Simple. If this is simple, put S for simple. The second activity is taking 100% responsibility, which means that instead of getting angry, you are going to take responsibility for that situation. I'll give you an example from my life. So I had a corporate session, an online corporate session. This is like a 2-3 year old— I don't remember the exact date, I think more than 2 years for sure. And I had a corporate session and my team gave me the wrong date and the wrong time. No, I didn't miss, I got saved. But listen to this, and I usually don't answer my phone because it's like everywhere, very far away from where I am usually. So, but that day, luckily I answered my call and this lady on the other side told me, where are you? We have been waiting for you for 5 minutes. And I was like, who's waiting for me? Because I'm always before time. I still could not understand. And you know, I panicked on the phone and I was like, can you please tell me who am I speaking with? And she's like, she started blasting me, okay, like of course because she was under pressure because The whole team, like the whole company and all the employees and the whole management was waiting. And she's like, are you kidding me? And you know, she started shouting at me like, what is wrong with you? We have a corporate session, you were supposed to show up. Where are you? How unprofessional, and this and that. And she like blasted the hell out of me. And I was like, I didn't know what to do, okay? And I was like, I'm very sorry, I'm just going to come. And luckily I was in this avatar, which is my— so I didn't have to get ready. So that was also a thing that saved me, because imagine if I was not ready and I was in my pajamas, that would add another 10 minutes to get ready. So then I showed up and then I did the call, and then, you know, I apologized to them. And like, I did— and I didn't even have a PPT or anything prepared because usually I'll prepare like one day before. So I just did impromptu, and luckily they all enjoyed. Now in this situation, I could have blamed my team, I could have shouted at them, I could have gotten crazy with them because I was blasted for no fault of mine. But what did I do? Of course I didn't feel good about the way it happened, but I also understood that why is she behaving like that? She would not have done it had I been on time. But then with my team also, I was very calm. I did not shout at them because it's done now. I can't go back and fix it. What can I do? I can improve the process a little. So I took responsibility and I said, I want to double-check. This was a lesson I learned that next time I'm going to double-check. I'm not just going to rely and especially if it is something external, I should triple-check. It's very easy for me to say that, oh, you gave me the wrong date, wrong time, but I should have also checked. So when you take responsibility for a damage, you will be able to control your anger. Or if you take responsibility for any situation, you'll be able to control your anger. Otherwise, it's very easy to lose your calm, it's very easy to blast. You know, you're stuck in traffic, you're shouting. Somebody is overtaking your car, you're shouting. Somebody has parked the car wrong, you are shouting, you're getting irritated. Imagine how easy it has become for everybody to play with our emotions. If this is a bulb on, put BO. Like, we have become like— somebody is cutting the line, airport, people are shouting. You know, I just feel what they are doing is not right, but I'm not— you know, I can ask them gently, but I'm deaf. I don't even ask. But I'm definitely not losing my calm over that, that why did you put your luggage before me? I was standing here before you. There are better things to think about. You, if you want, if you— if this is something that bothers you, you can tell her nicely or tell that person kindly with a smile. Every time airport, I will see 2-3 people are shouting for this only. 'Can't you see this is a line?' I'm not saying that the person who's cutting the line is doing the right thing, but because they are doing the wrong thing, why should I lose my calm? If this is a bulban, put beo. So take responsibility. Somebody else is saying some kachra, you're losing your calm. So I want to tell you one thing. Whatever you are experiencing in this moment, you are 100% responsible for it. If you are feeling good, you are responsible for it. If you are not feeling good, you are only responsible for it. Not what your husband told you, not what your mother-in-law expects from you, not what happens in your workplace, not a difficult colleague. They are not responsible for your feelings. They are doing what they have to do. You are choosing to allow them to have power over you, and you're choosing to allow them to play with your emotions so easily. So this is what I tell myself: you want to make me angry, you have to slap me 10 times, punch me 8 times, kick me and only then can you make me angry. Otherwise you can't. So it's not easy. You just come and tell me, Riddhi, you are not looking good, it doesn't bother me. Riddhi, you are not doing this properly, I don't care. So all of you have to practice this. Give yourself— make some very, like, a big thing, reason, which will allow you to not get angry so easily. So what is your activity? So I want you to think about one situation where you chose courage over anger and took 100% responsibility for your response. And then I want you to see that how did it change your outcome. So just think of one situation in this whole week where it was easy for you to get angry, or the old version of you would have easily gotten angry. But now, because you are aware, you're going to take responsibility, show the courage, and you're going to stay calm, and you're going to record it. So maybe you can say, okay, my teenager came, I told him khanakalo, and he said ab join us. Easy for us to get angry in such a situation, but you chose to stay calm. You're not allowing the foul mood of your teenager to disturb your peace and sanity. You told your teenager, leave the phone right now, and they said, a phone leke dekha ho, maybe dekhta ho apke se le lo gaye. Easy for you to get angry. So you just come up with, you know, whatever, you know, your life, you'll understand better. So think of a situation and then choose calm over rage, calm over anger. That's the third activity— second activity. The third activity, this is very important. If I continue— this is a question, okay? If I— you have to write in a journal. If I continue investing in my growth, how could my life and my family be different one year from today? Which means you, you guys are already learning and you're already investing in your growth. But if you continue learning and you continue growing like this— and by investing, I just don't mean investing money, but investing time, energy, effort, all those things we have to invest if we want to grow in life, right? So if you are investing in your growth and your learning, how is your life going to be different from what it is today one year from now? Is this clear? You'll get the PPT, like you'll get the whole thing in written. Basically, Hindi mein, Life or upki family ki life kaise badal sakthi hai, diya aapko imagine kar ke likhna hai, diary mein. Simple. If this is simple, put S for simple, because this is going to give you a lot of clarity about how you want your life to be one year from now. In simple words, how you wish your life to be one year from now under the assumption that you continue learning. Because if you don't learn, then I can only tell you how your life is going to be— not so good, right? So please, okay, so learn. And there is an affirmation that I want you to write 21 times: I'm worthy of investing in myself because when I grow, my family grows. This one line you have to write 21 times. I just paste this in the chat.. You'll also get it in the PPT, but, uh, this is one line that I want you to write 21 times. Now you can write it in one sitting, or you can write it 3 times every day, so that's up to you. But minimum 20 times, 21 times, I want you to write for this wish. Clear? Otherwise, but this one sentence I want you to write. Then the next activity is connect with two mothers from your team. That's the fourth activity, which is not like you just have to talk and have fun. And fifth activity is watch the Code of Honor video. Now this is slightly longish, and this will only be for the first mission. Why do I want you to do this for the first mission? This is a 1-hour long video. Some of you have done it. If you can, please do it again. And those of you are new mothers, you have to do it. Why? It's going to take 1 hour, so you can do it in 2 parts, half an hour, half an hour, like that. And you have 1 full week, right? Because the next mission will happen on next Wednesday. But I definitely want you to do this because then you'll get soaked into the community energy. So I want you to do this only for Mission 1. After that, you'll not have to do this. So otherwise, the all the activities that I plan for the mission, they will not take you more than 20 minutes. Like the courage list will not take you more than 2 to 3 minutes to make that list. The second thing, you don't have to do anything, you just have to observe a situation where you stay calm and you just have to record it. And the third activity where you are writing how you want your life to be, that's going to take you another 5 to 10 minutes. So all these activities in total will take you 10 to 15 minutes. Now talking to mothers, you can decide for how long you want to connect. And only Code of Honor, this one activity, only for the first mission you're going to take some time. And after that, all the future missions that we'll do, maximum you will take 20 minutes to finish all the activities. And in a week we have 10,000 some minutes. So how many of you can find 20 to 30 minutes out of 10,000 minutes in a week? If you can do that, put yes in the chat box. Please do it, because if you can't, then even God cannot help you. And how many of you can already feel that if you do these activities, you're actually going to save time and energy both? If you're getting that feeling, put 'feel' in the chat box. That if I actually do this, I'm going to save time and energy both, and you're going to create like some good vibes in your house. So today I just want you to remember 3 things: anger is a signal, choose courage over fear, and confidence will come last, courage is the starting point. So these are your 3 lessons for today, and the 3 activities you will get in the Central app. You will— when you go for Mission 1, you can download the whole PDF. We'll also put the PDF in your team groups. If this is If you are, definitely I want all of you to actually prioritize and do all the other activities by tomorrow. Only Code of Honor, Code of Honor also you can do by tomorrow. So how many of you, who's going to be the first one to finish? Put me in the chat box now. Soch ke bolna hai, because God is watching. For, for you to be the first, you have to do it today only, I feel. Amazing. So with that, we come to the end of this call. I'm very happy that I've been able to wrap up everything And 8:33, not bad. We've covered too many things today, but we've been able to do all. And how many of you love the new format of the mission? If you love it, put love in the chat box, because, you know, I just wanted, wanted to refresh it a little. So I thought that I'll do it in a new way and I'll reduce the number of activities, but I'll make the activities more impactful. And I'll also give you some lessons. There is no mind map, there is no mind map now, there's only a PPT. So you will get a PPT with all the activities and like a PDF with all the 3, 5 activities that you have to do. So you can just follow and I'll also give you the examples, so you'll also have some reference to work with in the PDF. So it's going to be very easy. Now let me just share all the details before I close the chat. Step number 1, please don't write anything in the chat. Those of you who are not able to fill the mission form, please cut— okay, I have to close the chat. So these are the mothers you can connect with if you are not able to fill out the mission form. Yes, I'm just activating the attendance. Just give me 1 minute. For India Book of Record, this is the link. And for your mission, let me just give you the mission form. This is the link. So I put everything now and I've closed the chat so that if you want to copy, you can copy. So the first message is all the names of mothers that you can connect with in case you were not able to fill out the mission form or it didn't— you were not able to submit it. Second is the India Book of Records. Please block it. Today is the last, last, last day, I promise. We have to deactivate it after that. And the third one is the mission form. So just try filling it out once again before you connect with the mothers, because maybe earlier, because of high traffic, it was not loading, and it might load now. So with that, we come to the end of this. And remember, tomorrow we are meeting at 6 PM for the celebration call graduation day. I want every single one of you to be there. And tomorrow I'm also going to do a big reveal, so make sure you are there 100%, all of you. Okay, I've activated the attendance, so you can mark your attendance. To mark your attendance, you will have to go to the feed section on your app. So click on Community on top, you'll see two people, that Community icon, and then you'll see a green button will pop up. If not, then just refresh and you'll be able to see it. Done. The Code of Honor video link also I will put. Wait, I did see it. Richa, can you personally send me the Code of Honor link on chat? Personally? Oh, I got it, I got it, I got it. Yeah, and the Code of Honor, I want every single one of you to watch it again because this is something we have to watch at least once a month, this Code of Honor video. So please watch this video. So these are your steps. Amazing! Thank you so much, everybody. Love you, stay blessed, take care. I'm going to keep the chat open for some time so that you can get the details from the chat. Otherwise you have these 5 mothers you can reach out to and they can help you out. Okay, Urvvi and Pragya, can I also have your numbers together? And just write India Book of Records on top. One second, let me just— I think she's on a call. So, Urvi India Book of Records. In case you paid and you are not added to the group, you have to connect with Urvi or Pragya. Is my hands-off feature not working suddenly? Riddhi Deorah, can you share Urvi's number and Pragya's number with me on personal chat? Any one of you can share on personal chat. Oh, you're not allowed to. One second, let me just open the chat. Yeah, just share Urvvi's and Pragya's number for India Book of Records. So those of you who have paid but you're not added to the group, please connect with Urvvi and Pragya and they'll add you to the India Book of Records group. Screenshot of Mission— no, we'll give you the PDF for the mission. Okay, now let me close the chat. Attendance is showing. This is for pot painting. I already announced the winners. Team 10, Team 11, and Team 4. 10 is first, 11 is second, and Team 4 is last for pot painting. Contact Urvi Pragya. Great. So now I've shared all the details, so take action and have a good, good sleep and relax. And I will see you tomorrow sharp at 6 PM. And all my Sankirtan mothers, I will see you in the morning. Amazing. Thank you and love you. Stay blessed and very lucky to have you. And I promise to do my absolute best to make this journey beautiful. Amazing. Take care. I'm just leaving the chat open for a minute and then the call will drop.
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