Supermom Revolution Mission

I think another 20, 30 seconds. Yes, we are live on YouTube, so super coaches, you can share the link. Amazing. Now the third. Yes, of course, the same strategies you you use for any addiction. Then how many of you understand, you know, you have to— okay, let me give you a very funny example. Let's say you want to build muscle. So look, all of you do this, all of you do this to your biceps, you know, flex your bicep, tricep, do this. Now you're pointing with the other hand. And you're saying, become strong, become strong. You're telling this to your muscles. Is it going to become strong? Yes or no in the chat. Super coaches, can you please put the YouTube link in the chat, the YouTube live stream link? Okay, thank you, Heeral. So it's not going to happen. Where do you have to go? You have to go to the gym and you have to train. Just like that, focus of your child— it's not like a switch that you can just tell your child, 'Par hai mein focus karo, focus, focus, focus.' You think it will happen? How many of you have tried it and you failed? It's not going to happen. That's exactly what you're doing. Become strong, become strong. So you have to train your child. And how do you train your child? Training will not happen in one day, it will not happen in two days, but if you are consistently doing it, it will happen. So you give them simple focus activities. Tell them, let's come play, let's do puzzle, let's do this, let's do that, and then you ask them to study. Make them do some, you know, whatever puzzle, Lego, or some focused work to train their focus. And honestly speaking, my experience, there is no problem in their focus. The problem is learning is so boring. And why is it so boring? Because we have spoiled their association with learning. 50% credit goes to school for doing it, and 50% goes to us for pushing them unnecessarily. And now the brain is thinking, this is one thing I just don't want to do. So again, small, you know, all these 3 things you have to do. Then the 4th thing which I always share, and this is for everything, not just for studies, This is for everything. Connection. You have to connect before you correct, because if your child is disconnected, your child is not going to listen to you no matter how much you try. You know, if your room door is locked, if the door is locked— let me give you an example. If the door of your room is locked, you keep pushing the door Will it open? What do you need? You need the right key, the right chave. When you put the right key, right chave, the door will open. Just like that, if your child is completely blocked, they don't want to listen to you, they don't even sometimes want to see your face, and anyway they are blocked, and on top of that you're going and telling them study. Which they don't want to do. So will it happen? No. So first you have to be patient. Your main target is not to make your child study. Your main target is first to reestablish a beautiful connection with your child, because without that, all your attempts will be a total failure. And you will be wasting your energy. You will feel exhausted, you'll feel irritated, and your relationship with your child will also start decreasing. It will start deteriorating. How should we connect? It's all there in my courses. No, go watch Child Connection. Right now I'm giving you the path. Everything I have covered If you watch Child Connection, if you, uh, see teenage and preteen, how many of you been able to reduce your child's screen time? Put me in the chat box. See, for how many of you your children are doing better in school, put B for better. So actually, whatever I teach you live, I've already given it to you in my courses. I'm just doing it because some of you are learning in bits and pieces. You're not understanding how to put the pieces together, so I'm just bringing the pieces together for you. See, so it's happening. So if it's happening for them, it will happen for you as well. You just have to follow the path with trust, with patience. Don't be in a rush. And then, fifth point— don't worry, I'll share the whole screenshot, you'll be able to see all 6 points together. Even if you're not taking notes, it's okay. A points screenshot, now fifth, make studies feel like— or make studying feel like winning, not losing. I want you to write these two equations. It came to me and these are very important equations. First, screen equals fun plus freedom. Children feel fun and free when they are with the screen. When they are with their books, they feel pressure plus bore. So study equals pressure plus boredom. Now, if you want your child to study, you tell me, what do you have to do? Screen is fun plus freedom. Study is pressure plus boredom. So all of us did algebra in school. So if study has to equal screen, what do you want to do with your study on the right side? It should feel like fun and it should feel Easy and free. Make your child feel free. But what do we do? We put pressure. We don't make studying fun. You know, I was studying a lot. Why? You know, my mom used to say, seriously, I'm not kidding. And I would hide in my bathroom and I would study. Because I was— and I had— I was growing up with 6 other kids in the house who didn't want to study. They would only study before the exam. Even I would study mostly before the exam, but I would like to read a little bit even like much ahead of my exam. But you know, every time I opened my book, in my environment, 6 other kids, they would make fun of me. So I had to also save myself from them. So I would go to the bathroom and I would study. Now, why was I doing it? Because nobody was forcing me to do it. You are on this call because you choose to be on this call. But imagine if your mother-in-law told you, you don't know any parenting, go and learn parenting from Riddhi. What would you think? You would think of me as some villain. Who is she? I know how to raise my child. Same person doing the same, giving the same thing, but you would receive it very differently. Why? Because it would be forced on you. Right now you're doing it out of free will. Same for kids. Only when they do it out of free will, they'll do it. If you force it, they'll not do it. Now some, some of you might be thinking, ma'am, but agar unka money ni kare toh After a point, are you understanding? I want to tell you, they will still do well in life if you give them the right belief. You know, as mothers, we give them the wrong belief. We tell them that if you will not do well in school, you will not do it well in life. Please stop saying that to your child. Some of us say, if you don't study, kya plan hai, jadu pocha. Stop saying these things to your child. Why? Because you are giving the wrong belief. Then your child will feel, I don't score well, it means I can't do well in life. And that is what will get stored in their subconscious mind. You want to tell your child, do your best. And if your child is not internally motivated to be a topper or anything, and if they're getting 75-80, it's okay. Let them explore other areas. Because even after you pushing, what will happen? Maximum teen char percent extra. And to get 3-4% extra, that your bond with them will get spoiled. Plus they will not be able to explore other things which they could have eventually monetized. Or done something with. Like, you know, I keep sharing this example of a friend of mine. She is a very good baker in Calcutta. She was never very good in studies. She would also fail a few topics. And I remember her because I would give all my notes to her. She is doing so well in life. She's making multiple crores in a year. Through her baking business. So if your child is good in art, craft, calligraphy, you know, whatever, they can build a business out of it. And trust me, in today's— and you know, I have been— I've gone to the best university in the world, University of Cambridge. And still, you know, I personally, I'm a parenting coach now, so I just want to tell you that education, of course, it has a role to play, but not in your overall success. Your success will be determined by your attitude, your belief, your mindset, your communication, your confidence, your ability to connect with people. I know some people, they've not even finished college and they're doing so well in life. My father, for example, he did 12th, then he did college, but you know how college used to be in old days, you're just working. He left home at the age of 16 because he was a spendthrift. You would spend a lot. And then my father— my grandfather told him, I cannot afford your expenses. So if you want to spend so much, you have to earn. And earlier, you know, the parenting was not so, so much. So my grandfather told him that you have to earn. My father took his bag and he left next day, left the home. He's like, I'm going to earn. And nobody is following him. My grandfather doesn't care where he is going, what he is doing. He's gone, and there is no mobile phone. And then he went, and he went to his mama ji, and with him he started some medicine distribution business at the age of 16, 17. So understand that, and you know, my father never passed in maths. He was always failing in maths. Now I'm not saying that you know, we have to encourage our children to not study. Please encourage them to study, but I'm also telling you that don't take so much stress that you are not able to sleep and you're spoiling your relationship with your child over that. So if your child is naturally inclined to that mode of learning, your child will— even without you telling anything, your child will do well. And we have some toppers in this room. And if your child is not naturally inclined, you don't have to take so much stress. You just make learning fun for them and give them an experience that they feel like learning even after school finishes. Is this making sense to everybody? If this is making sense, put MS. And if you do this, chances are their grades will improve. And we are seeing such results in our community— 50% increase to 80%. Recently I got I got you guys to fill out your form, and so many of you filled out that from D's he's getting straight A's. Dr. Shaveta shared that from 50, my daughter is now getting 85. So all of that, you know, I don't remember all, but just a few which I saw properly. But understand that, you know, it is possible. You just have to follow this process and then regulate the nervous system. So the brain will not work if you're pushing. Your brain should feel calm, and then your brain can think creatively. You know, I want to share with you a personal example from my life. So I am very like— maths, physics, very good. I have an analytical brain also, right? So I used to always get full in maths, physics, and all of that. But under time pressure I cannot work. So whenever I used to sit for these, uh, exams, no, like MBA, you have to sit for CAT and all these, uh, ex— uh, whenever I'm doing the mock, when there's no timer on me, I'm doing really well. I'm actually finishing before time, before the— for the competitive exams. But whenever I'm in that exam type environment where the timer is on my head I'm not able to do it because I'm only thinking about time. Time. So I was not able to do it under that pressure because my mind was not feeling calm. You understand? So just like that, if your children are feeling, uh, stressed, if they are feeling, uh, you know, pressured, forced, or they are feeling no matter what I do, I can't please my mom. And I am not making this up. So many children in the Platinum membership, they send me messages personally now, teenagers, that, ma'am, I'm trying my best, but I'm not sure how I will do, and I'm not sure how my mom will feel if I don't do well. They're not worried about the marks. They are worried about how the mother will feel if they don't do well. Can you see how much pressure we have created for them? Unko dukho rekh ke agar main acha nahi kar paya toh mummy mera wajah se dukhi ho jaayi. And it's not like those kids are not smart, they're very smart. Tell me, in a class of 40, how can everybody do well? 2-3 kids can only do well. No, others will be average and others will be below average. But that doesn't mean that those who are not doing— getting good marks, they are not good students, or they are not smart, or they are not intelligent. They of course are, but maybe they don't have that patience to sit and do trigonometry. So please, you know, I— and I shared this reel on Instagram which also got like pseudo viral. Is understand if your child comes and tells you that, 'Mummy, that mother is earning so much, why are you not earning this much?' How will you feel if your child is equating your worth with your salary and what you do and with the money in your account? How will you feel? 'That mother is making such good food, why can't you make such good cakes?' How will we feel? Pressured, right? To do better for our children. We feel pressured, we feel sad. That's what we do to them. Let them be. Who is going— you know, I was a school prefect. None of you even know I was a school prefect, and nobody cares. And it is not something I'm going to go around, tell people that, hey, I was a school prefect. Who cares? What matters is, am I happy in this moment? Now you know, but nothing changes, right? You know, but what changed? Nothing changed. So understand that these things, you know, things that we give too much importance to is actually not so important, and things that are actually important, we lose those things because we are so focused on these things. So you have to calm your child's brain. So, you know, every day for some time, do like 1 minute of breathing with your child. Just tell your child, come sit with me, hold my hand, let's breathe together. Do a little bit meditation. Make it a culture in your house that 5 minutes we will all meditate together. Small rituals like, you know, I will make my son water the Sun God. But that sun energy he gets, because children don't have the patience to sit and do— some children do, but most children don't have the patience to sit and do puja for very long. So do it like, even if they are teenagers, for some time, 1 minute, 2 minutes. How to make studies interesting? By not pushing them. Break it down. Tell them, do a little. And tell them, I am here, I know you will do well. Help them set a target. So let's say if your child is getting 40 right now, your child will not suddenly start getting a 90. No, you— we have to be realistic. If my child is getting 40, 40 ka 60 ho sakta hai, but 90 nahi ho sakta hai. So you sit with your child and tell your child, you got 40, but you tell me, how much can you get? So your child would say, "Mommy, I think I can get 60." Now you ask your child, "What is your plan to get this 60?" Then you ask your child, "What can I do to help you get this? Is there anything I can do for you? Is there any support that you need for this? And what is it that I should not do so that I do not distract you from getting this 60?" So your child will say, "Mommy, aap mujhe bar bar mat bolna, me kood karunga." Respect that. Say, "Okay, fine, I'm not going to nag you, I'm not going to irritate you, I'm not going to push you. I'm going to trust you that you will get 60." And then you can also positively reinforce and say, "Just in case you're able to get it, even if you don't, I just want you to follow the path. If you get it, we are all going to go on a family holiday." or whatever your child likes, and we are going to celebrate this win. So the last point was, before you asked me that question, is, you know, make it fun, uh, sorry, uh, regulate their nervous system. So do not push it, do not make learning a burden or task. Just set— allow them to set a target and trust your child that your child will do it. You know, maximum time goes to waste in you nagging and your child resisting. Ek do ganta tu smechala jaate. So now I'm going to share my slide. You can take the screenshot. Done. How many of you loved it? If you loved it, put love in the chat box. It's a simple and the most important— speak less. For every mother, the lesser you speak, the lesser words you use, the more impact you have on your child, the more influence you command. If you're always yapping, yapping, yapping, people get used to your yapping. Then they're not listening. You are talking, nobody is listening, including your husband. But when you say less but with impact, That's what you want to create. And that all of this, we'll be covering more on this when we meet for the Divine Downloads of Parenting. So please note these dates. Tomorrow, this is a growth week. How many of you have been 100% attendance on the growth week? Put 100 in the chat box. So every day we will have a call. You don't have to do anything, just sit and listen. Your life will change. That's how simple learning is. Very good, all of you. So proud of you. Amazing. And tomorrow we have two calls, one in the morning which is a spotlight. We do this every Thursday and it will happen at 11 where Heeral from our community, she will share her story about how she was able to heal her relationship with her husband because before she came to Platinum she was on the verge of divorce, and now she's sharing a beautiful bond. In fact, her husband is now gifting her vehicles and so much care he's taking. So she'll be sharing. So these are like movies, real stories, real movies of people you know of. So you know the actor in the movie, so you definitely don't want to miss out. So be there tomorrow at 11 And in the evening we have our Platinum Shares. So Platinum Shares was originally a call only for the Platinum Mothers, but for the last few months we've been doing it for everybody, where real mothers will come and share their real breakthroughs after joining Platinum in areas of health, relationship, career, money. Now why am I doing this call for everybody and originally it was only for the Platinum Mothers? So this is like a monthly tracker for the Platinum mothers to see if they are making progress, right? Just a way to track where they are. And the reason I want the Gold mothers to join, because on Sunday, 17th May, you will be making a decision to be in Platinum, right? Because it will only happen once a month. So 17th, you will be able to make a more informed decision when you hear these stories. If you agree, put A for agree. When you know the impact and you know what is happening, you'll be able to make a more informed decision. Also, I have come to believe one thing, that it's not about, uh, you wanting to be in Platinum. It is about you being chosen. How many of you feel that? You know, like in the beginning, Spandana was sharing that I didn't have the money, I didn't know, I joined Gold. Next day only she joined Platinum. And this is also a question that a lot of you have, and I totally feel you because, you know, you've come to gold and suddenly you're feeling Riddhi is giving platinum now. I understand. If I were in your place, I would also think the same. So there is no compulsion on anybody. You can take it next month also. That's completely your call. And anyway, in platinum, you're not making the full payment. You're only making a deposit of ₹20,000 to block your spot. The next payment will anyway happen next month. So the only reason I ask you to take this decision sooner, because the value of the Platinum keeps increasing every month. And I actually do it, I don't say it to say it. So if you are here now, you are very lucky because you'll get it at a better value. So on the 17th, when you come for the showcase, you have to make a deposit of ₹20,000. To block your spot as a Platinum Mother, and then you have 15 months to make equal monthly installments. So if you want to know more about the Platinum, the different certifications that you will get— and it's not just about parenting, it's about health, relationship, career, money. It is for your full family, and I will have live sessions also for your children, and you will get certified as a parenting expert, as a life coach. And of course, there will be so many surprises when you come. So please make sure you fill out the Platinum interest form, the Platinum waitlist. So super coaches, can I request you to put that? Even if you are not sure, fill out the form, because you know, if you do not take that one step towards a better life, how will God help you? All of us have heard this, right? God helps those who help themselves. So you fill out— you don't have to pay anything to fill out the form. You fill out the form, you connect with your super coaches, you come for the calls, and then you make a decision. Because we are all adults, we can all make good quality decisions. And I just know one thing, that Platinum is going to be like— just, you just have to think of this as one extra year of educational investment in your child that is going to cover you, your child, and your whole family for a lifetime. Because you will get 3 years of live calls with me in Platinum, and you will get lifetime access to everything on the app. So what you're getting, I just feel it is too, too, too good to be true. You know, I cannot even tell you. You just have to be totally blessed. So I'm going to give you a minute to fill out the form, and as you're filling out the form, I'm also going to start the mission in the background. Also, one other thing, some of you dropped an email, Riddhi is talking about Platinum too much. You don't want to get into Platinum, that's completely your call, but I'm going to talk a lot about Platinum every time when we come. Why? Because I want to help you. And I'm going to open the chat now and I want to ask the Platinum mothers, how many of you feel that you are giving much, much more than what you invested in your Platinum? Put more, or whatever you feel. You know, I want to tell you one thing. Even if 10 years ago somebody had given you this much value, for the value you would be giving in Platinum— I will stop doing Platinum. That is, I show up for you every single day, 365 days of the year. So the amount of value— and my students are now making multiple crores and lakhs in revenue. From the comforts of their home. So it is an absolute no-brainer. Children are becoming spiritual, homes are becoming God-loving, husband ka depression kam ho rahi hai, mother ka health theek ho rahi hai, relationships are healing. So you know, for these things you cannot even put a value. So I am— adults, I'm not going to force anybody. You want it, you take it. You don't want it, you don't take it. That's completely your call. But I'm going to talk about it because if I don't talk about it, how do you get to know about it? If you agree, put A for agree. So I have to talk because if I don't tell you, who's going to tell you? And tell me something, if somebody is giving you something good, you want to feel good about it or you want to feel pressured? You want to feel good, right? Put G for good. That if somebody is giving me something that has the potential to change my life, my health, my career, my money, my relationship, my spiritual life forever and my child's confidence. I should feel good, I should feel blessed. You know, like Spandana shared, I want to thank my bhabi Suesha for guiding me into this. Why is she thanking her so much? Because her life changed. So I know one thing, if you are meant to be with me, you will be with me because God has planned it for you. And if you're not meant to be with me, you can have a billion dollars in your account, you cannot be with me because it's not about the money. Now I know this because there are mothers who have zero money in their account, they are with me. Don't worry about Elite, come for Platinum. See, don't worry about things that are not there anymore, focus on what you're getting. Put F for focus in the chat box. This is very important. If we don't focus on what we are getting, we will not get this also. And my ultimate plan is for one month certification, I'm going to make it 5 lakhs. Right now it is 3.45 lakhs for 2 certification, lifetime access to the app, live calls for your children and for you. It is like a no-brainer, and I'm definitely going to increase the value. And all of you have been seeing me do it. How many of you have been seeing me do this? Put yes in the chat box. Because I'm a God-loving person. I don't say things to say it, I actually do it. So eventually it will only be parenting certification 5 lakh, life coaching 5 lakh, relationship 5 lakh, Hope Nopur 5 lakh, NLP 5 lakh, because that's the value you will get. But right now you're in a lucky gold zone, so you're getting it at a much, much, much better value. Monica Puri, this is not too much, Monica. It is nothing. I want to tell you, Monica, if I tell you give me your eye, will you give me your eye for 10 crores? If I tell you I'm going to give you 10 crores, give me your eye, you'll not give. No, Monica. If I tell you give me your legs, I will give you 10 crores, will you give? No. I personally feel that even if I say 10 lakhs, you guys should be ready. Because it's not about— it's about you understanding that this much I am worth it. How many of you agree with it? Put A for agree. And I'm, I'm going to increase it. Why are Platinum Mothers getting more results? Because they're investing in themselves. They're taking better quality action. Why are my Platinum Mothers making crores? And lakhs. And not just about the money, why is everything shifting in their life? Because they believe they are worth it. So I want all of you to put in the chat box, I am worth it. And with all due respect, if you do the math, even for 3 years, it is less than ₹10,000 a month. You cannot spend ₹10,000 a month on yourself. You you are spending this much on food, clothes, makeup, hair, Botox, ironing. It just sounds a lot because you are not used to investing in yourself. You are used to investing in things outside of you. If this is a bulb on, put BO in the chat box. It sounds so much because on a holiday you will spend 5 lakhs, on a piece of furniture you will spend, on a TV you will spend, on an iPhone you will spend 1.5 lakh. Why? It is a social status. I am an iPhone user, I want the latest version. But you will not spend on yourself because your phone is worth more than you. A piece of furniture is worth more than you, and not just you, you and your child. So I want all of you to put 10 lakhs in the chat box. Even if you have to pay 10 lakhs, you should. You don't have to, but you should. Because you're worth it. And that's why, you know, I am going to a 3-day event in December with Tony Robbins. Only 3 days offline, no certification, no recordings, no handholding, nothing. I'll just have a chair in the audience and I'm going to watch him talk from a huge distance. There are 6,000 people in that room. You know how much am I paying? It is the same knowledge, honestly. It's just that he's been doing this for 42 years. I'm paying 6.5 lakhs for 3 days, and travel fees may included, travel up, overall if I do the math, it will be 10-15 lakhs only for 3 days. But I'm doing it. Why? Because I think I deserve it. And some of you will think that, oh, Riddhi, now it is easy for you to do because you have the money. I want to tell you, and I'm taking a promise on Krishna also in this, I did these things even when I had zero rupees in my account, and that's why I'm sitting here before you. I invested in myself when I had nothing in my bank account. You don't become rich when you have money. You don't become successful and happy when you have money. You grow when you have the right mindset. And all these people, Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk, Mark Zuckerberg, they don't come from rich backgrounds. They didn't have too much money, but they had the mindset. So some people think that, oh, paisa ho gaya toh kar sakte hai, nahi ho gaya toh nahi kar sakte hai. Nahi ho gaya toh bhi kar sakte hai, agar aapka intention hai karni ka. How many of you in my Platinum didn't have the money but you're in Platinum? Put me in the chat box. The chat will flood. Can you see? You don't need the money right now. You just need to make sure that somewhere in the universe somebody is sitting with that money and they will give it to you. And that's what I would do, and it would always come to me. I would just depend on God. See, Mayra is saying, I didn't have the money and I managed the fast track. Fast track is where you have to pay everything in a month. So I'll also give you that option. The value I will share when we meet. Amazing. So, you know, some of us are in our head and that's why we are not able to do it. Now we will start with the mission. So if you're ready, put R for ready. Yes, sorry about the outburst, but you know, it just irritates me when mothers are only, you know, thinking that I am trying to sell them. Now, and I think God and the topic I chose also, and this honestly I had not planned for this conversation because today we are on a timeline, but I thought I should, you know, address the elephant in the room before the elephant grows in size. Awesome. And the theme also for today is money. Okay, and so put M for money in the chat box. The theme is also money. So the mission is very simple. Every week we will have a particular theme and you will have to do a few simple activities. I'm laughing because I did this and Team B, yeah, yeah, awesome. So Understand this, that, uh, every week we will give— I'll give you a different theme and a few activities. These activities will not take you more than 15-20 minutes in the whole week. In the whole week we have more than 10,000 minutes, I think 10,080 minutes if I remember correctly. Out of those 10,080 minutes, how many of you can take out 15 to 20 minutes Put 20 in the chat box. And how many of you think the missions are very simple but very, very powerful? Simple but powerful. Yes. So the reason why I've created these missions is because I want you to experience a friendship, love, connection, and the way you will experience each other will expand the way you think. And how many of you are already experiencing? If you are a new mother, you will also experience it. So put E for experience if you are experiencing it. Amazing. All right. So now the commitments that I need from you, very simple, and I'm going to do it a little fast track today because we have also Q&A to do. So first is you have to think like a winner, which means when you're put in your mission team groups, you want to win. So put W for win, that I'm going to actually win and I'm not just going to watch other people win. Second, this is a team activity, so there will be a total team score. You don't have to do anything. You just have to finish your mission. You have to go and mark your mission as complete. Your leaders and your super coaches will do it, but if you don't participate, your team will lose. So how many of you want to make your team win? Put TP, that if you're a team player, that I'm not going to make my team lose. Third, this is a mission, this is not a challenge. And what is the mission? For all of us to collectively do better for our families, for our homes, to get that beautiful God energy. And let me explain the mission to you once. You know, let's say Riddhi wants energy, she cannot get it from Rajita. Rajita wants, she cannot get it from Priya. Priya wants, she cannot get it from Sonia, because all of us want our own energy. So where do we get this energy from? The unlimited divine source of energy. You get that energy from God and you transfer that energy to your child, to yourself, to your family. So I am not just looking at you as students, I'm looking at you as soldiers in this Mom Army who are on this common mission to turn this home into a God-conscious home and raise God-conscious children. How many of you are with me on this mission? If you're with me on this mission, put M for mission in the chat box. Yes, thank you so much, Savia, for putting that. And you know, so many mothers are doing this, and I just feel it is totally worth it because there's nothing What will we do with all the money and the gold and the jewelry if you're not feeling happy? Amazing. And we learn more about it today. So understand this. So the mission. And the fourth thing, DWIT, my absolute favorite. All of you put DWIT. Do whatever it takes. Do whatever it takes. No excuses. How many of you think your life is precious? Your child's energy is precious? Your family is precious? If you think it's precious, put P for precious. So if it's precious, do whatever it takes to protect it. You know, if we lose our phone, we go crazy looking for it everywhere. If you lose your diamond ring, you go crazy. You will spend one whole day looking for your diamond ring. Suddenly you will have a lot of time. Put smiley in the chat box if you are understanding. What I'm trying to do is I'm going to help you realize where our priorities have shifted. I'm a working mother. Kaise milega bhi smanit? How can I come for your 2-hour live calls, Riddhi Deorah? Live calls are so long because I am a working mother. Why working mothers? You were not thinking before having a child. You can't raise a child with a job. You have to raise child with values and learning and with energy. If this is a crazy Balbonput CBO, that, you know, just because you chose to get a job, just because you chose to work, that doesn't give you the license to sit and complain about time. And time has to be created, and you'll be able to create time if it is in your priorities. If you are finding time for after office party, and you know, whatever, the offsite and office meeting and everything else, you're finding time. Find time for this also, no? 20 minutes. And even if you're a homemaker in big joint family, find time just like you're finding time for everything else. How many working mothers in this call? Put WM. See, they're able to do it, and their life will change, and their children's life will change, guaranteed. Because if you're learning, your child has to do better, without a doubt. And if you are thinking that without learning only I can do everything, I want to tell you, you're just thinking. You know, I can tell you I can be in Olympics, I'll be an Olympic swimmer without training. I can sit and tell this every day, but it's not going to happen till I train. Amazing. So put 4C in the chat box if you are giving me these 4 commitments. Thank you, Vaishali. You're going to be a winner. You're going to help your team. You're going to think of yourself as if you're on a mission, and you're going to do whatever it takes. And I'm telling you this, this Supermom Revolution mission is going to make history. And we are actually one day going to be walking on the streets and as Super Moms in thousands. I can already see that. It is in my vision. It will happen. When will it happen? Only God will tell. And how many of you would love to be a part of that? Put me in the chat box. It's going to happen. Yeah, I love that name, Walkathon with EPH Moms. Come join us. We can all wear like nice pink shirts, t-shirts. Yes, learning is fun, life is good, but you have to do something. You just can't sit and complain. Life me kuch nahi chal raha, koi kuch nahi karta. Now the theme for today is money. And before I share the, uh, content, I just want to, uh, first welcome all the new mothers. So if you're a new mother and you're joining this call for the first time, a live call with me for the first time, please put FT in the chat box. Yeah, we're gonna do that song. I already had it on my list. You're gonna do the money song. We're gonna lead with that. Amazing. So let me welcome all the mothers who are joining for the first time. Welcome Pradeeptha, welcome Geeta, Anandita, Sumedha, Shobha, Nambir, Bhavna. Sorry, my chat. Nisha, Monica, Sangeeta, a different Nisha, Kirtan, Zarina. Sorry, my chat is moving. Mamta, Naima. Let's welcome all the new mothers into our family. So please, I just want to fold my hands and welcome you into the Easy Parenting Hub family. I want to honor you for being a committed mother, for being an action taker and choosing to do this for yourself and your family. And I promise as a mentor, I will do my absolute best to make this worth your time. I will go— I will give you more than you have expected. At least I hope. I always over-deliver. And I will try to try whatever it takes to help you feel happy on this journey of parenting. Because parenting is not hard work, it is heart work. It only becomes hard when we are trying to do it alone, when we don't have support. But now you have support, so thank you so much for being here. Your presence is really important for us. So now, and all the new mothers, please make sure you know how to access your courses. You're added to the team group. When you get added to the team group, please connect with your super coaches. Can we have the list in the chat box, super coaches? All the new mothers, I'm not going to explain the list right now. Please copy this list and keep it in your WhatsApp and go through it. And if you connect with your super coach, which is step number 3— step number 2, team group. If you're not already added, mostly you are. In case you are not and you don't know, fill out the mission form, you will get added. And then when you connect with your super coach in step number 3 they will explain 4, 5, 6, 7 to you. Is this clear to everybody? Put C for clear. So please copy this message, this is very important. And your super coaches will explain 4, 5, 6, 7 to you. And in case you're not able to connect with your super coach, that's also okay. Connect with anybody. You're added to your team groups, connect with any mother, they'll be able to explain this to you. But I would prefer you to connect with a leader or a super coach in your group. All right, amazing. So now if you've copied the message, put done, put done in the chat box. If you've copied the message on your WhatsApp, done, done. All the new mothers, very important, because then you will feel soaked into the energy of this community. I want all of you to put done. All of you would set FT, FT. Please make sure you've copied it. It's very simple, it will not take too much time, so don't worry. It just looks like a lot, but it's actually very simple, and it is actually going to simplify your life after you do these steps. It will make you feel relaxed and calm and more simple. So don't think it's not technology. So many mothers are doing it, you can do it too. Awesome. And now let's get started with the mission. So if you're super excited, put SE in the chat box for super, super excited. Yes, welcome Jyoti. I just saw your FT. Jyoti Prasanna Nayak. Amazing. All right, so I'm going to share my mind map again in the end and you can take a screenshot. Okay, but for now, I, I don't like to share screen and PPT, and because then you are only focused on writing and all, and then you don't do any learning. So I want the learning to happen first. I will give you everything, don't worry. Pura picture up, kich le na, okay? You can keep everything. So now, what is money? I want to tell you one thing: money is energy. And what does this energy reflect? This energy reflects the value you have been adding. It is that simple. And it is more spiritual than material. A lot of people say, don't think about money, don't be so materialistic. How many of you've heard this? Put me in the chat box if you've heard people say, don't be so money-minded, don't be so materialistic. Unke saath hangout karna kam kardiye toh ra. They will also not make money and they will not let you also make money. Money is not materialistic. Money is the most pure spiritual thing because it reflects that you are helping somebody. Because people will only give you money when you're solving a problem for them. And is solving problem a good thing or a bad thing? Good, right? Is helping people a good thing or a bad thing? A good thing. So don't feel guilty if you're making money. Don't feel you're a greedy mother if you're thinking about money. Don't think you're a materialistic, money-minded person if you're thinking about money. No, you are a help-focused mother. You want to help people, you want to solve problems. And that's when money will come to you, not by thinking about money. Money will come to you when you add value, when you help people. And I love what Golden Myron says: you don't make money if you are trying to solve your money problems. You make money when you are trying to solve other people's life problems. If you love this, put love. You know, even if you are— if you go and you order a cake Why are you ordering a cake? Why are you giving money for a cake? Because they are giving you a good cake. It is saving you time and it is creating happy memories for your child. You're getting a theme cake for— based on what they love, and it is creating happy memories, moments. You have those pictures, and that's why you are paying for that cake. So is she solving a problem for you by baking a cake? Yes. That's why you pay. So how many of you want to help others and you want to serve? Put me in the chat box if you want to help and serve. And all of us have qualities, whether you're a homemaker or a working mother, there is nobody who cannot serve unless you choose not to, because that is the true nature of our soul, to serve. And if you are serving, then there is an exchange and you will get money, no doubt. And you should receive it with an open heart and not feel bad that, no, I only want to do for free. When you do things for free, people do not take you seriously. If you agree with that, put A for agree. You are thinking you're helping them. Konsonega, wahi same gyaan. You take ₹10,000, they will do it, their life will change, and they will come and worship you. They will say, because of you my life changed. So understand, this is how we are as human beings. We do not take action unless there is an exchange. And to balance the karmic, whatever, energy, the exchange is important because you cannot receive from somebody and not give anything in return. If this is making sense, put MS in the chat box. So don't say I don't want to take, please take. So I want all of you to write this: I love to receive. I love to receive. I love to give and I love to receive. You know, like breathing, you're exhaling, you're inhaling, you're exhaling, you're inhaling. You cannot just keep inhaling, you will suffocate. You cannot just keep exhaling. Just like that, you cannot just keep giving without an exchange, and you just cannot keep receiving without an exchange. And how many of you genuinely want to help? If you genuinely want to help, put me in the chat box. Then learn to receive. And I'm sharing this from my experience because, you know, all these spiritual people, they— you know how our upbringing is? I was in this mindset, and that is why after making my Digital School. My Digital School was ready in 2020. I launched it in 2022, 2 years later, only because I didn't have the courage to ask, only because I felt I should not ask. But now I have the courage. Why? Because now I've understood when I ask, only then can I help. And it takes courage to ask. How many of you agree with that, that it takes courage to ask? And I want to show that courage because I care. And that's how you should show that courage if you genuinely care. Because you know, there will come a point in your life where, you know, money will not motivate you. What will motivate you is service. So right now, honestly, if I want, I can do this for free and I'm financially free. But I choose not to. In fact, I'm choosing to increase the value. Why? Not because I need the money, but because I need you to take action. Now tell me one thing, if for this call, okay, this call you're getting as a part of the Gold Membership, but if this call I told you the entry value for this call is ₹15,000, and let's assume you gave the ₹15,000 How many of you think that your cameras would be on, you would not be multitasking, you would be sitting and listening properly because you paid ₹15,000 for it? And how many of you agree this call is already worth more? If you agree, put A for agree. Already what I've given you is worth more than that. Trust me, you will only realize it when you go back and you use it. 'And I'm going to give you more.' So that is why, you know, we have to understand what is money. Now the next thing, why is having money important? Because money is not going to be able to get you happiness. If you agree, put A for agree, because some of you in this room, you have a lot of money, or if you don't have it, at least you come from rich homes. Everything is there. Husband is good, everything is good, families are good, car is there, everything is there. But sometimes you're not feeling fulfilled. Still you're feeling stuck, you're feeling lost, you're crying alone, you're feeling hopeless sometimes, and you're feeling anxiety, palpitation. Tightness in the chest, throat may lump. How many of you can feel what I'm sharing? If you can feel, put fee. Yes. So money can only buy you comfort, it cannot buy you happiness. So understand, making money is important so that you have that freedom of choice that I want to do this with my life. You know, I'm going to give you an example. Like, some of us, we know that our partners are in extramarital affairs, but the only reason why we are not able to step out is because we are not financially independent. If we were, we would have the choice. Whether you want to be or you don't want to be, it's your choice. So that is why, no matter what you do, even if your husband is rich, your, uh, your families are well-to-do You should have your own money, not because you are choosing to leave them, but because you want to have that freedom where you're not feeling pressurized. I don't want any of you to even think of leaving, but at least you should have that freedom ki main dab dab ke nahi rahi. Am I able to explain myself? If I'm able to, put yes in the chat box. You know, because I have experienced this. You know, I come from a very good family. There's so much money in the house, and my husband is not like Kanjus or anything. He would take me on holidays, buy branded things for me. Every Dhanteras, every Akshaya Tritiya, we would invest in gold. We still do. But you know, when I told him that I want to get a parenting course for myself, he said no. And for the first time in my life— till then I would never even think about money— for the first time in my life, I felt it is so important for me to have my own money. I got the money from him only, but I felt it. And after I had my child also, I felt it a few times because there were things I wanted to do for my child. Like, you know, there's this whole ETL book series that you get. I think it's some for ₹1 lakh 20,000 or ₹30,000, that whole book series. I wanted to get that and my husband is like, no need, library se le lo. So again, you know, then also I felt I need it. So, you know, for these small, small choices, not because he didn't have the money, but because he was not on the same page as me and I was dependent on him. So understand one thing, that money is not about— we can't sit and eat money. Money is a means to an end, right? So I would not recommend the ETL series in this age now, in this time now, because We have much better books, with all due respect. I do have that series, but I'm not recommending it to anybody. All right, it's not bad, but I just feel it's, it's over— overvalued, like overpriced. Amazing. So now, generational stability. How many of you understand that if you are financially independent, you're also modeling that for your child or for your daughters. Well, you know, my thing when I became a mother, the first thing I did, I left everything because I had seen my mother and my sisters. And I just want to tell you one thing, that, you know, we need homemakers. Homemakers are very important because otherwise the world will be a chaos. Not every mother can step out. So we need homemakers. But understand one thing, even homemakers need to be financially independent. If not by earning, through your savings. Jo aapko idhar udar se milta hai, you should have at least ₹5 to ₹10 lakh of your own which nobody in this world knows of. Only you know, or maybe one, your father can know, maybe, or not even your— depends on the relationship you have. And not because you want to hide or you're a secretive person. It is a way of protecting yourself and also protecting your child. Is this making sense? Because whatever be said and done, you cannot raise your child with just love also. So we come from good families, but you know, this is life. Anything can happen anytime. So you should learn, invest in yourself, and be financially independent. And then of course it will reduce your mental stress, it will reduce the fights, the arguments, and all of that, because so many fights are happening because of those things. Now, one exercise that I want to share with you, also one other thing You— it's not like money will make more money. A lot of people say that, you know, I have a ₹2 lakh FD, now this money I will not touch, this 10 years after only I will touch, and this will make me more money. How much will your ₹2 lakh FD make you? ₹4 lakhs. So money cannot make more money. Adding value can make more money. If this is a crazy bull bond, put CBO. You know, I have spent around 3 crores or something in my education after my parents stopped investing in my education, and you know how much that has become? No investment, no mutual fund, not even cryptocurrency, no trading, No FD can beat that return. 3 crores has become 55 crores in 3 and a half years. If you think this is crazy, put C for crazy. Now I'm not sharing this number to share what, but I'm sharing this to tell you What is possible for you if you invest in yourself rather than you just being like chipko with your money? It will not grow. Now my students are making multiple lakhs. I'll share their stories with you. In fact, it is already there. You go and watch in your courses, Supermom Spotlight. Homemakers who didn't even want to make money are making 1 crore. Making money has become the simplest thing in today's day and time. You have to just invest in yourself to learn how to do it. So now the first activity for all of you: be grateful for the money that you have right now. What does this mean? You know, if you want more, first you want to say thank you for whatever you have. So this is your activity 1, right? Write it 3 times. I'm very grateful for what I have. Can you please give me more? Because by doing gratitude, you're vibrating at a higher frequency. When you're vibrating at a higher frequency, then you are in a space where you can receive more. If you love this, put love. The mistake people make is they're only asking for more. They are not showing gratitude for what they already have. But if you're not in a great space of gratitude and you're only wanting more and you're saying, 'Mere pas nahi hai, mere pas kam hai, main kuch nahi kar paari ho.' If you are in that frequency of complaining and lack, you cannot attract more. First you have to fix your frequency from lack to abundance. So you want to first feel grateful for what you have and then more will automatically flow. Towards you. Activity 1 clear, then Activity 2, very, very effective. Write a letter to money. Very effective activity. Dear money, thank you so much for making my life so comfortable. I would like to invite you to my house. Please come and stay with us. I will make you experience great things. We will go on beautiful holidays together. 'You will love my family.' Just write a letter to your— to money as if you're writing to a friend. It works. Some of you have tried it and it worked for you. You wrote to me. Rajita is nodding. There's Swati in our community. She was doing this. Her mother-in-law came and she put money in her hand, some 2 lakhs or something. I don't remember the exact amount. And she said that, which Swati had also forgotten. After 4 or 5 years, her mother-in-law gave, after she started writing. So many of you said that my PF was stuck, it got— my this thing matured when I started writing letters, something, some land deal was stuck and that got— that happened So please make sure that you do this. Why? Because you're shifting your energy, and everything is energy. So second activity is to write a letter. The third activity, affirmation. So all of you, please write this affirmation. Put a very outrageous number in the chat. Put an outrageous number in the chat which you feel like, this number is impossible for me to make. Or have? 7 lakhs, 100 crores, 1 crore, 1 crore, 100 crore, 5 lakhs, 50 lakhs, 20 crores, 3 crores, 2 crores. All of us have put our numbers. Now let me ask you one thing, like, for the Creator— and I've shared this— for the Creator who has created the world, the spiritual world, the material world, the ocean, the lakes, the planets, the space, the cosmos, the mountains, everything. Do you think for him to give you 100 crores is a big deal? Do you really think it's a big deal for God? It is like a dot for the universe. It is like a small dot. So it is not about whether the universe has it, it's about your vessel, the size of your vessel. So this is a story that my spiritual guru told me. When you take a container and you go to an ocean, let's say you take a small glass, only this much water you can fill in this glass because the size of the glass is this. Now if I increase this to a bucket that we use for taking a shower, I can fill it up with more water. If I take a tanker, the ocean will fill the tanker. If I take 10 tankers, the ocean will fill 10 tankers. So it's not about whether it's possible or not, it is about what you believe is possible for you, what you feel you are able to receive? Are you able to receive it? Do you think you're worth it? So this is the affirmation I want you to do: I'm easily and effortlessly attracting money. Easily and effortlessly. You don't have to work very hard, you just have to be in alignment. And there is more than enough for everybody. Then the fourth activity: give money a name and make it a real character. Now there's a reason. You can give it a name like Grace, Clara, Ruby, Destiny, Riddhi Deorah, whatever you want. So let's do it together. Give money a name. Lakshmi. How convenient. So cute. Grace, Nidhi, Shri, Radha. Why am I sharing? Why am I asking you to give money a name? Because some of us have very negative beliefs about money, that, you know, money is not good. Money is only, you know, rich people are not good. How many of you think I'm a nice person? If you think I'm a nice person, put nice in the chat box. And I'm very rich. So does that change your belief? And there are so many nice people. How many? And the Ambanis are also doing so much charity, so much seva. They are so rich. Oprah Winfrey, somebody that I really look up to, she does so much for girl education, uh, for, uh, so many people, you know, for, uh, food. Tony Robbins, he's, he's on a mission to feed a billion souls before he checks out. So understand that, you know, all these mindsets— so now I want you to think that grace is coming to me, Radha is coming to me. So your money, and you're just changing her name. So you just— you're talking to money like a friend, basically. Because some of us, you know, we feel, we feel this negative energy in our body that I want to meet my— I want to make money. Instead, you say, I want to meet Grace, if Grace is the name you've put. So for me, when I did this exercise, when my mentor taught me this, I would call money Grace. So Grace is coming to me. I love more Grace in my life. The more Grace I have, the better it is. Having Grace is so important. Can you see why I chose Grace? Having grace is so important. I love grace. Grace always stays with me. Grace never leaves me. Now, in that— now I can do the same for money also. But that point when I was thinking that, you know, uh, money is not a great, whatever, important thing in life, I would you know, not be able to say it with money, but saying it with grace made it so much easier. So cute, Jarina. My money name is Riddhi. Love you. Riddhi is coming to you and Riddhi will stay with you. Amazing. But how many of you are loving the activities? Then understand this. How many of you want to help God? This is not an activity. I'll first tell you this. How many of you want to help God and you want to serve people? Put me in the chat box. Now I'm going to give you an example which will help you understand why is it so important for every single mother to be so rich. Okay, so supposing Supposing Pooja, she has two children. One child is really rich, one child is not so rich, like just barely making ends meet. Now if Pooja wants help, let's say she wants to get a full body checkup, and Pooja is very old now. Let's just— we are imagining everything, okay? Everything is in imagination. Now she wants to get a full body checkup. Which child will she go to? Will she go to the rich child or the child who's barely struggling to make his ends meet? The rich child. Why? Because she doesn't want to put pressure on the child who is not doing well. So just like that, if God wants help, who will God be able to come to easily? Somebody who has the money or somebody who has— doesn't have the money? Somebody who has, because God doesn't want to put pressure on children who don't have. So God will come to you and will start using you as a channel. If you want to give 100 blankets, God can come and give it through you. If God wants to protect 100 children from feeling cold and dying in the Delhi winters, so apke andar mein, consciousness mein, God bolenge blanket ka daando. But jiske paas hain, uske mind mein ye cheez aayi nahi sakta, ki mujhe daan dena hai, 100 blankets. Because God will not be able to plant that message in your heart. Because nothing belongs to us. This money doesn't belong to us, it belongs to God. And God is only— and when we do something for somebody, we are not doing, God is only doing through us. That is why we should not have this 'ehin kaar' that I am doing. So how many of you are now understanding that if you truly want to help God, it is your responsibility to be rich? Put RR, responsibility to be rich. So, and which— and you know, all those things that people transfer to us in the name of spirituality, in the name of God, that money is not right, money is not good, don't think about money, think about this, think about that. Which spiritual, you know, whatever you see, they are not living in Eshwarya. God himself was living in Eshwarya. Why will God encourage anybody to not be rich? And if you want, you can read this book, The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles. I love— it's a thin book. It's a, you know, you will have to do read slowly to understand the meaning. The, The Book Secret— how many of you know the about The Book Secret by Rhonda Byrne? She got most of her ideas after reading that book. So understand one thing, it's called The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles. Now the next thing, what do you do? What do you use your money for? If you are using it for good things Put good in the chat box. Yes, we are either investing in our growth or we are doing seva and we are helping our children, we are helping our families. And even if you're making money for your family, that's not a bad thing. You know, one of— one question that was asked to, uh, this Guruji, and, uh, somebody said that, you know, I am in grihas and in Grihas we have to earn money, so we cannot stop thinking about money. But at the same time, you say we have to think about God. So how do I think about both money and God? Because I know all the time I'm always occupied with money thoughts because I have to do this and do that for my child. And of course it is okay to use— that's what I'm getting to, Keertana. And so nicely, I think it was Premanand Ji or Priyasha Ranji, because I'm watching both, I can't remember who was it. So very nicely he shared this, that Premanand Ji, okay, yeah, so nice his answer was. He was like, there is God in your husband, there is God in your child, there is God in your mother-in-law, there is God in the guest who comes to your house. So if you are using your money to create a better experience for that guest, think of it like I'm creating a better experience for the God in him. I'm creating a better experience for the God in my child, for the God in my mother, for the God in my father. So everything you do, you want to link it back to God. If you love this, put love, because you know we have to understand this: nothing belongs to us and we don't do anything. God does everything through us and everything belongs to him. The weather is so good, it's raining. Then create a money mantra. You can create your own mantra, you know, like, uh, your mantra can be, uh, you know, like one I already shared: I'm easily and effortlessly attracting a lot of money. But you can have simple mantras like this: money loves me, money loves me, money stays with me. Just keep it very short, don't make it very long. So it's not like an affirmation, but yeah, like, just, yeah, I'm a money magnet. I attract spiritual and— and you don't even have to use the word money, you can just write prosperity also. But you know, just keep it short, like, you know, I love money, money loves me, money stays with me, and money is good, money is good, money is great, the more I have the better it is, more money is good. That can be your mantra. Are you understanding what I'm sharing? If you're understanding, put yes. So keep it very short. This you keep repeating in your head, it will change the way your subconscious has been trained. Oh, Pooja, you're spotlighted! Good, you deserve the spotlight. One sec. For being regular. Awesome. So you deserve a longer spotlight. Money is happiness. Yes, money brings joy. Money is luck. Money is fun. Whatever, whatever works for you. Don't write luck, I think, because money is not luck only. Of course there is luck, but it's not luck, it's your own past karmas actually. But that's a different topic for a different day. I can't get into that right now. But also don't write money is everything because it is not every— okay guys, realistic. You see, you want to say something that you will be able to feel in your body, right? Yeah, money is my best friend is good. Money loves me. Money gives me comfort. Money gives me joy. I'm a money magnet. Money comes with ease. You get it, right? Money is freedom, which it is. Like, for me, I would love to pick this: money is freedom. Money is service. How about that? It's going to inspire you to serve, and when you start serving, it will keep flowing to you. Money is service. Then, very important, money likes to be in the flow state. What does this mean? It means that, uh, you know, if you are very sticky with Lakshmi, she is very chanchad, she's going to leave you. And I have seen this in my life with so many people, very rich, very kanjus, something will happen, some fire will happen. Some big accident will happen because money doesn't want to stay with people who don't know how to use it. She also wants to have fun, no? Lakshmi, she wants to travel, she wants to do some good things, she wants to, uh, you know, grow. So your homework is to have a rich mindset and invest in something. Without asking anybody, without any approval, without any validation. What do I mean by a rich mindset? You thinking you are rich, go to a 7-star hotel. Okay, all of you do this. Go to a 5-star or a 7-star hotel, sit alone, and get yourself a coffee and send me a selfie. How many of you are going to do this? Look pretty, Step out. You have one full week. In one week you can definitely do this. Don't think about ₹1,000, ₹1,200. Trust me, go and spend it. You will create an experience, and more than that, you will create a shift in your mindset. Don't feel guilty when you sit and have that coffee. Take a nice book with you, sit, read a few pages. And I was watching this video on Instagram where it's one cup of coffee they are selling for some thousand plus dollars or something. It's like, how does this make sense? And in that place, people come only for that thousand dollar coffee. And he says that, you know, it makes sense because you're sitting with that kind of people. So it's not the coffee, the people you interact with. And even if you don't interact, how many of you feel that you doing this will make you feel good, and it will make you feel that you deserve. You're going to create that reality for yourself. Some of you have already done it, some of you have not done it, and some of you have done it but you've not done it with this mindset. So I want all of you to go and do this. And for some of you, going alone will also be first time because you've not— you don't want to go anywhere without your husband. Put smiley in the chat box. Isn't it temporary? No, it's not temporary. You know, the shift is going to happen step by step, but you have to start somewhere. Because if you don't start, your permanent mindset is permanent. That I, I don't know whether this is temporary or not, but what you're sitting will become permanent if you are not starting somewhere. You know, there's this story about this girl, no? She goes, can we go below 5-star? No, Bharti, you don't want to. You can, you can go to a dhaba also, we can go wherever we want, but I don't want you to. I want you to give yourself this experience without guilt. Just think, will anything change in your life? You'll get up with the same husband, eat the same food, wear the same clothes, right? So just think like that. Somebody came and stole ₹2,000. I, you know, once I was doing this event, it's called MTS. You have— it's ₹13.5 lakhs for 3.5 days, and I was on the crew, like I was helping. And a lot of these people were coming to me and asking me whether I should go for it, whether I should take it. I told them one thing. Tell me one thing, today if something happens and you lose 15 lakhs, what will happen to you? Kisi naake pandra lakh aap ka leliya, aap ki aoga, aap ki life mein? Said nothing, we'll feel very bad, we'll feel under pressure, this, that. I was like, for how long? 1 month? Chalo, if you are very sticky with money, 2 months? Or if this was your lifetime earnings, 6 months max. Now that also I'm exaggerating, but will anything else change? No. You will get up, you will eat the same dal, chawal, roti. You will sleep next to the same husband, same child you will send to same school. Everything else will remain same only in your life. Agree, put A for agree. So we give way too much importance to 'Kya hoga?' Pehli dekhi kya ho raha hai. What is happening, you have to see that. And you know, I feel, live your life second by second, second by second, moment by moment. Why worry so much? God is there. We are God's children. I want all of you to write this: I am God's child. If you are God's child, the sun, the star, the moon, the ocean, the lakes belong to you. If you truly think God to be your Father. You know, sometimes mothers ask me, "Ma'am, how are you able to build such a big community? Don't you think your child is missing out? You're not spending time?" I'm not just thinking of my child and my husband as my family. I'm thinking of every single one of you as my family. Why? Because God is my Father. We share a common Father. And if God is my Father, then we are all one big family. So the world is my family. So when I'm with you, I'm not feeling guilty. I'm feeling I'm serving my family. As much as this family is important, you are important. And everybody I meet, I feel they are a part of my family. So, you know, increase the way you think, you will increase your results. God will use you for bigger things. But if you are thinking, yeah, you know, how many of you know Jack Ma? The founder of Alibaba, he shared a very nice thing. No Q&A today, just letting you know. I can already feel my voice. We'll do Q&A, we'll figure out one beach, maybe we'll put some Q&A session or something like that. But how many of you are understanding Oh, sorry, Jack Ma. He shared very nice things. So he's made more than a billion dollars, and he was being interviewed, and he was, you know, the journalist was asking him that you must be feeling very good that you have $1 billion. And you know what he shared was mind-blowing, his answer. And this is how people at the top think. He told him that when I didn't have money, I needed money. God gave me money. I had a million dollars. I felt I can buy a house, I can buy a car, I can give comfort to my family. I did that. And now God gave me a billion dollars. This billion dollar does not belong to me. It belongs to the people who gave it to me. How many of you love this? Just look at how he's thinking. This money is not mine, it belongs to them. I have to give it back to the people, I have to do more for them. So I'm not thinking of this billion dollar as my money, and that is why, you know, I keep reinvesting so much. You know, when you come to me in the Gold membership I don't make any money, I lose money, because to get you I have to pay more to Facebook. How many of you knew that? If you knew that, put yes in the chat box. So understand that, you know, you can only— and you only understand these things when you are able to understand the bigger picture. But if you have a, you know, mindset of just survival, then it is going to be that much only. So I— the activity for you is that money likes to be in flow, so I want you to invest in something and create flow in that money energy. And I want you to have a coffee, a coffee or tea, whatever you prefer, or a juice if you are into healthy thing. It's not coffee, it's just that you giving yourself that experience in a 5-star hotel. And please don't go like in normal clothes. Get ready, dress up well, and then do it. Is it should be alone? I would prefer it to be alone because then, you know, you will be paying with your own hands. So the experience will be different. So many times you've already done it with your partners and with your friends, right? You know, you will be able to think about what is happening if you're doing it alone. With my daughter Ankita, do 2 times, once with your daughter and once without your daughter. Not challenging. If you are feeling going out alone is challenging, then It is even more compulsory for you to do it. You have to learn to enjoy your own company. I love it. You know, I do this sometimes. I go out for a dinner alone. You are going to have the most beautiful experience of having a dinner. Not joking. You've never done it, then please try it. These are small things that you should try. Go out for breakfast, lunch, dinner— any meal is okay. Go alone with a coffee, sit, smile, meet some people around you. Even if you don't want to meet them, just go sit and give yourself that whole experience. Take a few selfies, take a few food pictures. It's a different feeling, you know. You, you will feel reconnected with— we don't need people to keep us entertained unless you think you're boring. And if you are not enjoying your own company, how will other people enjoy your company? You know, the problem is we just follow what other people do. Women can go to the salon alone, you can go to the parlor, pedicure karaniya kele, kyu kisaba kele jaate. So you know, we have to stop following people, follow the follower we are playing. No, you do something new. You can then come and tell your friends that, you know, I did it, it was such a beautiful experience. I highly encourage you should do it once, just try it out, and later you can thank me. If it is risky, please don't do it. Some people are putting my area as dangerous and all. Please be careful of your safety. I don't want emails from your husband that you encouraged my wife to go out alone. And please do it in a respect— in a safe time. So if your area is dangerous and all, then you know, you do it accordingly. Yes. And then the next thing is connect with two mothers. One second. Yes, connect with two mothers, uh, from your team groups. Just one sec, I have to add this. I'm just going to change this to create a solo experience in a 5-star or a 5-star-like place. It can also be like a fancy restaurant. It doesn't have to be like a hotel in case you don't have any good ones close to you. And interact with 2 mothers from your team. And these conversations, you can keep it as much, you know, 5 minutes, 10 minutes, 20 minutes. Some of you are saying 1 hour, whatever you want. It's completely up to you. And then meet me live once a week. If you do all of this, you will get 200 points. If you think it is fun and simple, put FS in the chat box that it is fun and simple. 2 EPH moms going is better than going with your husband, right? Because he will be able to feel the activity more. So here you can take a screenshot. Be grateful, have a rich mindset. Please do not negotiate with sabziwala, kibaya, Stop doing all that. Come on, treat yourself like a queen. Write a letter to money. I'm easily and effortlessly attracting a lot of money. You want to say this every day when you wake up for this mission. Give money a name and make it like a real character or a friend. I've given you some examples. What do you use your money for? Create a small 3-word, 4-word money mantra. Money likes to be in the flow state, so use your money without guilt, without greed. Connect with 2 mothers and Meet Me Live. Excited? How many of you are excited to get a rich mindset first? Because the mindset always precedes the money. So you'll become rich only if you have a rich mindset. Yes. So go ahead and do this. And I just want to say, I'm so, so, so proud of you for staying till the end. Well done! And I'm going to see you tomorrow for the Platinum Shares call. So be there, do not miss the call tomorrow. It is going to be such an inspirational call, like a lot of crying, healing, sharing, love. It's going to be a mix of all emotions tomorrow at 5, and we will be spotlighting 3 very beautiful stories during the shares. So now we do it in a very nice entertaining way, so make sure you're there. I went for a Bhutan trip for a week. Love that, Iran. Before my marriage, I went on a solo trip to UK for 15 days, and I told my father that, you know, once I get married, this is going to be very difficult, and this is one thing on my bucket list. And, uh, you know, it was, uh, of course it took me some time, but then my father was like, you know how Amresh Puri says to Kaju, jao jilo apni sindagi types. So that's how my father was like, okay, fine, just be safe and whatever. So, you know, I went, and I cannot tell you such beautiful memories I have from that holiday. It teaches you a lot of things, you know, protection communication, confidence, engagement, interaction, asking for help. You're alone, you've lost your way, you need to ask. Don't have an option how to use— like, I was so bad at using Google Maps and all of that. I became so much better by the end of the trip. And, you know, currency exchange, because everything I had to do alone. So, you know, that whole experience of— I've gone on so many international trips before that with my parents But that trip taught me so much. So, you know, it's very important that— and before that also, as a student also, I had gone alone. But, you know, as a student, you have your friends. Like, you're eventually— you make your friends and you are with your friends even if you're studying outside. But just being by yourself, being alone, it's like a different thing. And I went to like very, uh, like, you know, places that people don't usually know of. Like, Torquay, it's a very small town where like mostly retired couples will stay, and they had such like so many good stories to tell from their lives. And, you know, so inspiring to see like a 90-year-old lady like doing everything on her own, walking and everything, you know. So it was a very beautiful experience. So all of you should try more of these things. Awesome. So thank you so much, everybody. Love you. And I hope this was time well spent. If this was time well spent, put TWS. Also, also, one more thing, the money song. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. I always keep forgetting. And we have something new that we have started. Which also I want to share. Just give me a minute, it will not take too much time, so hang on, hang around here. So there, you know, we have a group called Platinum Wins where mothers keep sharing their stories, and randomly we have selected some stories and I just want to share. So if you're ready, just to make it fun and interesting, if you're ready, put R for ready. And even they don't know that they've been picked, so I don't know if you're on this call also. Maybe you are, maybe you're not. So the first story that was randomly picked, which I felt is a very good story also— husband gifted her flowers for the first time. If you think this is sweet, put S for sweet. For the first time after she started learning, her husband brought her flowers. Then this is Deepika's child who started watching Krishna stories and become very spiritually aligned and calm. Earlier he was watching a lot of junk stuff on— a 10-year-old started helping in home chores even without asking for help. How many of you think this is cute? Got a job from a nutritionist to now a preschool teacher. Akaansha, okay, the A I think is missing. Sarita, podcast interview with a renowned doctor. Kanika, took a parenting masterclass and got featured in a newspaper. Dhanlakshmi, the child, her child is now a published author. So let's put C for congratulations for all the stories that got spotlighted. If you had fun, you know. So this is something we are going to do. We are going to randomly pick some stories, you know, how it is in Times Square, New York. Suddenly your face will start showing on that big TV. It happened with me and I got so excited, I can't tell you. So, you know, just like that, suddenly your story from the group will start showing up on the call and you can feel good. Amazing. Just to make learning fun. And now let's do the Money song. And this is a song which I created using AI. I spoke about the areas that I want the song to be about and feel the words. We'll do the song, then I'll activate the attendance and we'll close. So let's begin. Okay, all of you can dance. I like the kids dancing in the background. Money, money, money. Yes, liked it. I'll also ask your super coaches to put the link in all the team groups. You guys, it's on Spotify, it's called Money, Money, Money. I Love Money, Money, Money by Riddhi Deorah. So it's also on Spotify, you can get it from there. Otherwise, I'll just ask your super coaches to put it in the team groups and you can listen to this song. And you know, it's— I've chosen the words, you know, you know, I elevate because of the value that I create. So when you listen to the song, you will feel the essence, you know, and you'll just— you'll understand how important it is. So dance, have fun, enjoy. And if you are in that energy, if you are in that vibration, Lakshmi has to come. Awesome. So thank you so much, everybody. Love you. Take care. Oh, attendance, attendance. Oh winners, mera toh— God wants me to not leave you guys. We are going to stick forever. One second, let me announce the winners. All right, so on position 1, things have moved. We have Team 1 now. So well done, Team 1, you are on position 1. You are on the leaderboard now. On position 2, we have Team 7, and on position 3, we have Team 10. So the points are very close. So nobody should think that things cannot change. Things can change whenever, right? And out of this, 17 1124 of you are Platinum Mothers who are winners, and 629 Gold Mothers. I like how the numbers are increasing. Well done, everybody! Super, super proud of you for being an action taker. Yes, thank you, Padma Shri, for staying. Thank you, everybody, for staying till the end. Let me activate your attendance. Please mark your attendance. Yes, attendance is live. Great. So you can mark your attendance on the app. And some of you super coaches, if you can just put the interest form once again. Mothers are asking. And I will close the chat. Love you, love you. Good night. Grateful for all of you. I'm going to close the chat now so that this link stays on top and they don't you don't have to keep putting it again and again. In case you are a gold mother— if you're platinum, you don't have to fill it out. Only if you're a gold, diamond, silver mother and if you've not filled out, or a new mother and if you've not filled out the form, please do so. You will get a one-on-one connection with your super coaches and they can help you. Awesome. Thank you so much. Love you and take care. After 1 minute, this call will automatically get dropped. Bye, Rajita! She's going on waving like small kids. No, yes, we are kids only. Bye everybody, love you, love you so much!